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1. Body Language by Abid Iqbal Khari
2. Please Be Attentive! You are going to learn about a very
important aspect of your personality
3. How do you like to look like?
4. a dull, angry and boring personality
5. or like a dazzling and awe-inspiring personality
6. This session would help you evaluate, and if need be,
improve yourself as well
7.
Body Language
8. It includes movements
9. Appearance (First impression it happens only once)
10. Dress People dont see what is in your stomach, they see
what youre wearing
11. The dress differentiates .
12. Facial Expressions A happy face is loved by all
13. Facial Expressions
14. Gestures Gestures should be in consistent with your
words
15. Posture
16. Use of silence
Silence is half consent (saying)
A good way of showing your being angry
17. Use of touch Your grip shows either affection, indifference
(carelessness) or threat
18. Timing Punctuality indicates how you value time (Pakistani
politicians are exceptional case)
19. Physical Proxemity (Distance between speaker and listener)
An appropriate distance is
20. Physical Surrounding/Orientation Your living room also
speaks .
21. Tone & rhythm of speech Good rate to utter words is 80
to 120 words per minute
22. and colours HATRED LOVE BROADENING SACRED
23. Body Language means
Not to speak orally but even then to communicate
24. Actions speak louder than words. Yes, they do. Arent
they?
25.
26. People may doubt what you say but they always believe what
you do In communication Words play 7% role Body Language plays 93%
role
27. Load your personality with this great art and your success
is guaranteed in every meeting/ interview
28. Your words tell me a story but your body tells me the whole
story
29. Confidence
Leaning forward in chair
Chin up
Putting tips of fingers of one hand against the tips of fingers
of other hand in praying or steepling position
Hands joined behind back when standing
30. Openness and Warmth
Open-lipped smiling
Open hands with palms visible
Unbuttoning coat upon being seated
31. Nervousness
Smoking
Whistling
Pinching skin
Fidgeting
Jiggling pocket contents
Running tongue along front of teeth
Clearing throat
Hands touching the face or covering part of the face
Pulling at skin or ear
Running fingers through hair
Wringing hands
Biting on pens or other objects
Twiddling thumbs
Biting fingernails (action itself or evidence of)
Tongue clicking
32. Untrustworthy/Defensive
Frowning
Squinting eyes
Tight-lipped grin
Arms crossed in front of chest
Pulling away
Chin down
Touching nose or face
Darting eyes
Looking down when speaking
Clenched hands
Gestures with fist
Pointing with fingers
Chopping one hand into the open palm of the other
Rubbing back of neck
Clasping hands behind head while leaning back in the
chair.
33. Do your best to stay connected with your interviewer ---
both verbally and non-verbally
34. Beauty --- the adjustment of all parts proportionately so
that one cannot add or subtract or change without impairing the
harmony of the whole Leon Battesta Alberti Beauty
35. Smile is a universal Body Language phrase (Other phrases
vary in meaning across cultural lines)
36. You cant be a good personality even when you are wearing a
costly suit if you dont have a smile
37. Thy smiling in thy brothers face is charity
(Al-Hadith)
38. Smile increases your face value Lets increase our worth
free of cost
39. Keep Smiling
40. Thanks Good bye Developed & presented by:
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