The Attraction Building BlueprintVideo 2
Tools, Strategies, and Mindsets for
Attracting Beautiful Women
By Bobby Rio
What to Expect in this Video:
•“How-to” Guide for Attraction
•What to SAY and DO
• ATTITUDE and the way you
come across as you say or do it
Important Concepts to Understand:
•Women Love Sex
•Women Depend on Men to Make it •Women Depend on Men to Make it
Happen
• Attraction is NOT black or white
Game Killing Mistakes:
• Putting Women on a Pedestal
• Approval Seeking• Approval Seeking
• Supplication
• Letting an interaction ‘Plateau’
• Not recognizing signals
The ‘Glue’ That Holds Attraction
Together
Escalation
As my Friend ‘Sixty Years of Challenge’ says:
Escalation is AttractiveEscalation is Attractive
Escalation
• It’s Attractive
• Displays Confidence• Displays Confidence
• You’re Capable
• Sexual Tension
Escalation
• It Feels Good Mentally
• It Feels Good Physically
• ‘Make up My Mind’
What is Escalation?
• Always Take the Lead
• Control• Control
• Initiating Physical Contact
• Expressing Your Intent
Always Take the Lead
• Control the ‘Flow’
•Move Conversations Forward•Move Conversations Forward
• Begin Touching Her
Remember
• She is Depending on You
• You’re Both Playing Same Game. • You’re Both Playing Same Game.
But You’re Playing Different Roles.
• Allow her to relax
• Getting her in ‘follow’ mode
A ‘Magical’ Word
• Let’s Go Dance
• Let’s Go and Get Some Fresh Air
• Let’s Take a Walk• Let’s Take a Walk
• Let’s Play a Game
• Let’s Do a Shot
• Let’s Exchange numbers
• Let’s Go back to my place
Physical Escalation
• It works on a ‘primal’ level
• The ultimate distinction between
‘friendly’ and ‘sexual’‘friendly’ and ‘sexual’
• Prepares her to be kissed
Initiating Physical ‘Touch’
• Hand shaking
• Arm Brushing
• Light Touching while Talking• Light Touching while Talking
• Anchoring Elbow
• High Fives
• Palm Reading
• Examining Bracelet
The Progression of “Touch”
• Hand fondling
• Grabbing her hand to walk• Grabbing her hand to walk
•Walking arm in arm
• Standing closer with bodies
touching
The Objective
• Holding her while sitting down
• Lightly stroking her face/hair/neck
• Hand on her lower back pulling her
into you
• Kissing
2 Steps Forward 1 Step Back…
• Touching should smoothly
escalate up ‘the ladder’
• Continually Establish Comfort • Continually Establish Comfort
Level
• Use it a way to build sexual
tension
Common ‘Escalation’ Mistakes:
• Not Beginning Soon Enough
• Not Reading Her Signals• Not Reading Her Signals
• Not Escalating Enough
•Missing opportunities to kiss her
Try this:
1. Initiate ‘touch’ a lot sooner
2. Find out where her comfort 2. Find out where her comfort
threshold is
3. Focus on her hands
Verbal Escalation
• Clearly Identifies you as a ‘sexual’
man
• Builds up the tension
Expression of Interest
•Making a statement or compliment
that immediately takes you out of the that immediately takes you out of the
friend zone
Examples
• “You've got an incredibly sexy
smile”
• “You're making it really hard for
me not to kiss you”
Sexualized Fun
• Sexual Framing
• Sexual Teasing• Sexual Teasing
Getting Sexual…
• Bait Her
• Challenge Her• Challenge Her
• Role Playing
Bait Her
•Mis-interpretations
• Exaggerations• Exaggerations
• Jokes
•Subtle Sexual References
Examples of Baiting
� "That guy is actually a pickup
artist. Seriously, he has like a artist. Seriously, he has like a
different girl in his bed every night.
Girls actually take numbers to sleep
with him… Are you sure you
haven't? I won't be mad… he does
have skills."
Challenge Her
• Express doubt she has a wild
sideside
• Act like she is trying to seduce
you, but can’t
Examples of Challenging:
� If she tells you a story about something naively child
like… you could say "Don't think you can fool me with
that puppy dogs and ice cream talk… I totally see you
as the kind of girl with a stash of whips and chains
under her bed.“under her bed.“
�Or if she is giving a slightly sexual vibe… you could
go the opposite way. And say "You're not naughty
enough for me… I bet you’re the kind of girl who only
likes missionary and has to rush to confession every
time she even kisses a guy."
Role Playing
Role-playing involves finding a humorous
situation and then projecting the two
of you into that “role”.
1. It’s Fun
2. It projects the 2 of you doing things
together in the future (even though the
situations are clearly fictional).
Role Play Example
Let's say you're talking to a girl and you tell her that you're going
to Italy next week… and she says jokingly "can I come…“
Instead of laughing it off… you would say something like:
"Yea, I'll hide you in my suitcase… When you get there you need to "Yea, I'll hide you in my suitcase… When you get there you need to
be my paparazzi. I'm going to give you a camera and you just need
to follow me around the entire time snapping pictures of me….
And point at me like I'm someone famous. Then you can sell the
pictures to a local tabloid- and we can use the money to take a
yacht down to gamble in Monaco. Of course I'll wind up losing you
in a poker game to some Iranian sheik…"
Things to Remember
• You Must Calibrate
• She Must Already Feel Some • She Must Already Feel Some
Attraction Towards You
Important Points About Escalation:
1. Always be Escalating
2. Always be Escalating
3. Learn to Read Her Signals3. Learn to Read Her Signals
4. Begin Physically Touching Early
5. Don’t blow opportunities
6. You Must make a Expression of
interest