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Page 1: Kevin Abdulrahman Dealing with rejection

06 MUSCAT DAILY MONDAY, OCTOBER 12, 2009

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A-Z LISTING

let me start off by giving you a personal exam-

ple of being rejected. i must have approached

over 100 publishers for my first book Winning

the Game Of life. i had enjoyed an array of re-

jections. there were folks who never replied,

some who kindly rejected it and then there

were those who weren’t so kind about it. But

being a person with a Winning Mind, i would

rather fail moving forward than fail by simply

standing still. so i kept on pushing past all the

rejections until my book got to the hands of a

much known publicist in the states who said,

“Hang on a second, you’ve got something

here”, and within days we had a publishing deal

on the table.

As i travel the world training individuals and

organisations, i come across

some immensely talented peo-

ple in different fields. their tal-

ent is however buried under the

pile of rejections they have re-

ceived and sadly they have taken it personally.

in every challenging situation where rejec-

tions are offered left, right and centre, the first

exit door that appears is the one that reads,

“Give up now. save yourself further headaches

and heart burn”. the difference between those

succeeding and the ones who give up is one:

their ability to deal with rejection. the majority

of people take rejection personally whilst win-

ners know that rejection is part of the process.

Just because a few people don’t share your

views about something, doesn’t mean that your

idea has no value. All it takes is for one person

to see it, and that person is you. there are

countless examples of people who started off

being the only ones who visualised the power

of the skills, abilities, products or services they

had. it took them several rejections before they

had a breakthrough. Here is the key though,

they persevered past all the rejection and kept

pushing forward without taking it to heart.

if we were all to take rejection to heart then

we wouldn’t have the pleasure of having a com-

puter on every desk, we would still be riding

horses instead of cars, we wouldn’t have the

pleasure of emails, the Harry Potter franchise

wouldn’t be around, Will smith wouldn’t be one

of the highest paying actors of his time, and

certainly we wouldn’t have many of the things

we take for granted that were initially laughed

at and blatantly rejected in their infancy.

Always remember that what is being re-

jected is your idea or your offering, not you. Re-

jection stems from other people’s limitations,

beliefs, fears and different

perspective on things. think

of a time when you are in a

plane and the steward or

stewardess do their rounds

offering tea or coffee. We have all at some

stage declined their offer and it would be fair

to say that they face numerous rejections.

However i don’t believe that they take it

personally. they understand that their offer

of tea and coffee is what is being rejected,

nothing more.

those with A Winning Mind always weigh

up the pain and ask themselves, “What would

feel worst, knowing they never gave it their

best because they got affected by rejection? Or

doing whatever, however long it takes to reach

their goal?’

For A Winning Mind, there is only one an-

swer.

Don’t take rejection to heart and follow your

dreams.

Have a Winning Week.

A MuscAt DAily cOluMNist

MIND NUTRITION

Kevin Abdulrahman

Kevin Abdulrahman is an in-demand leadership development and performance acceleration

speaker and trainer

DEALING WITHREJECTION

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Our CorrespondentMuscat

Omani adventurer Nabil 'Nabs' al

Busaidi will be releasing a

documentary of his walk to the

magnetic North Pole. This

was announced at a photo

exhibition of his adventure at

the Muscat City Centre, which

began yesterday.

“A film documentary funded

by Sabco will be coming out in

December,” said Nabs. It will be

launched at the Dubai Interna-

tional Film Festival, which will be

held from December 9-16. The

film will then be screened in

Oman. “A VIP screening event

for ministers will be held and I

hope to later have screenings

for school students,” he added.

It is hoped that the photo ex-

hibition, followed by the docu-

mentary, is hoped to inspire

people. It will also help people

understand the difficulty of com-

pleting such a trek. “The weather

conditions were -80 Celsius, and

it was not easy for us to accept

him doing it, as his family, but we

still supported him. At that time

of year, a lot of polar bears were

coming out of hibernation. There

was also a risk of getting wet and

stepping on thin ice, as they were

crossing terrain close to the

sea. It is extremely difficult to

warm up in those weather con-

ditions,” said Riyadh al Busaidi,

Nabs' father.

Nabs explained that most of

the coverage to date had been in

English, and they hoped to reach

a bigger audience by putting the

commentary on the photographs

in Arabic as well as in English. He

plans to make trips to schools

within Oman with the pictures to

inspire students to aim higher.

“He's the first Arab to reach

the North Pole and in fact the

first Omani, so this is very impor-

tant,” said Ross Cormack, CEO of

Nawras.

Omani adventurer to release documentary

A visitor views a photograph at the exhibition

Our CorrespondentMuscat

The competition in the skies is

heating up with Air India intro-

ducing Airbus A319 aircraft on

the Muscat-Mumbai–Ahmed-

abad sector after Oman Air's

much hyped fleet expansion.

The Airbus A319 is equipped

with various amenities, which will

enhance comfort and passenger

convenience, said Mohit Sarin,

country manager – Oman, Air

India.

The plane has a capacity of

122 seats in a two class configu-

ration of eight executive and 114

economy class seats.

Air India gets Airbus A319

‘Nabs’ will launch a film on his trek to the North Pole at the Dubai International Film Festival