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Your Anti-Vision Paint a picture of what your life might look like in five years time if you were extremely unhappy. Areas of your life to consider: Career Relationships Finances Self Image Spirituality Focus on things that you can influence - for example: In five years time, I’m still in the same job, doing the same work. I haven’t applied for a promotion or searched elsewhere for alternative career opportunities. In five years time, my drawing style is still the same. I haven’t worked on my skills at all, because I’ve been too scared to grow. Don’t focus on things that you cannot influence. Health Family Recreation Creativity Personal Development

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Your Anti-VisionPaint a picture of what your life might look like in five years time if you were extremely unhappy.

Areas of your life to consider:

• Career• Relationships• Finances• Self Image• Spirituality

Focus on things that you can influence - for example:

• In five years time, I’m still in the same job, doing the same work. I haven’t applied for a promotion or searched elsewhere for alternative career opportunities.

• In five years time, my drawing style is still the same. I haven’t worked on my skills at all, because I’ve been too scared to grow.

Don’t focus on things that you cannot influence.

• Health• Family• Recreation• Creativity• Personal Development

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Your Anti-Vision

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Your LearningsFrom the anti-vision that you’ve just created, what have you learned about how to create a life filled with growth, intention and meaning?

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80/20 Your LifeRevisit the events and activities that you took part in in the last 6 - 12 months and distribute them in the columns below. If it makes sense to do so, you can look back further than 12 months.

Write down the events, activities and people that took away from your happiness and wellbeing in this column.

BAD GOOD

Write down the events, activities and people thatcontributed to your happiness and wellbeing in this column.

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80/20 Your LifeUse this page to identify any patterns that came up in your 80/20.

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80/20 Your DaysRevisit your everyday habits, behaviours, activities and commitments. Distribute them in the columns below.

Write down the everyday habits, behaviours, activities and commitments that have taken away from your happiness andwellbeing in this column.

BAD GOOD

Write down the everyday habits, behaviours, activities and commitments that have contributed to your happiness and well-being in this column.

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80/20 Your LifeUse this page to identify any patterns that came up in your 80/20.

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Your ValuesWrite out all of the highlights that you can think of that made you feel elated, happy and fulfilled. For example:

• Learning a new program• Going Paddle Boarding for the first time• Helping a friend with their art project• Brainstorming a new idea for a work project

Highlights

Can you see any patterns in the moments above?

Patterns

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Can you see any patterns in the moments above?

Your ValuesWrite out all of the lowlights. Consider the times when you’ve felt the most downtrodden, the most frustrated or angry with the world, a person or your situation. Consider times that made you feel sad or upset. For example:

• Seeing someone post something ignorant on social media• Watching a colleague treat someone else poorly• Not having the freedom that you want while doing client work

Lowlights

Patterns

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Value Ideas

Connection + BelongingBelonging

Relationships

Harmony

Sharing

Teamwork

Loyalty

Family

Friendship

Love

Inclusion

Rapport

Affinity

Kinship

Communication

Kindness

Understanding

Acceptance

Influence

Achievement + ProductivityAccomplishment

Growth

Performance

Effort

Creation

Success

Capability

Effort

Execution

Drive

Challenge

Determination

Wealth

Improvement

Greatness

Productivity

Competence

Mastery

Intelligence + KnowledgeCuriosity

Wisdom

Learning

Insightful

Informed

Training

Smartness

Resourceful

Knowledge

Brilliance

Clever

Reason

Logic

Thoughtful

Understanding

Logical

Adventure

Spirit

Enjoyment

Lightness

Amusement

Enthusiasm

Liveliness

Merriment

Experiences

Happiness

Gratification

Gladness

Joy

Recreation

Zest

Indulgence

Delight

Fun

Fun + Happiness

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Creativity + Originality

Innovativeness

Originality

Expressiveness

Inventiveness

Individuality

Contemporary

Imaginative

Extravagance

Ingenious

Eccentricity

Uniqueness

Authenticity

Creation

Curiosity

Beauty

Openness

FreedomFlexibility

Autonomy

Independence

Courage

Bravery

Daringness

Boldness

Fearlessness

Patience

Peace

Present

Serenity

Tranquility

Confidence Calm

Variety

Surprise

Inspiration

Curiosity

Travel

Adventure

Risk-taking

Journeying

Wander

Excitement

Cosyness

Contentment

Consistency

Convenience

Ease

Spontaneity Experiences Comfort

AchievementHard Work

Grit

Determination

Will

Self-control

Order

Planning

Cleanliness

Tidiness

Vitality

Endurance

Strength

Intensity

Wellbeing

Fitness

Organised Wellness

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Joy

Contentment

Delight

Gratitude

Peace of mind

Optimism

Compassion

Consideration

Welcoming

Understanding

Acceptance

Warmth

Civility

Decency

Honesty

Integrity

Sincerity

Fairness

Happiness Freedom Integrity

Charity

Giving

Goodness

Unselfishness

Hospitality

Altruism

Divineness

Sacredness

Devotion

Faith

Concentration

Absorption

Discipline

Clearheadedness

Solitude

Generosity Spirituality Focus

Power

Fame

Attention

Importance

Greatness

Recognition

Stability

Certainty

Safety

Reliability

Security

Structure

Motivation

Persistence

Potential

Discipline

Hard Work

Significance Consistency Ambition

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Your ValuesUse this space to outline your values and the behaviours and activities that support them.

V A L U E # 1

How can you embrace this value in your every day life?

V A L U E # 2

How can you embrace this value in your every day life?

V A L U E # 3

How can you embrace this value in your every day life?

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V A L U E # 1

How can you embrace this value in your every day life?

V A L U E # 2

How can you embrace this value in your every day life?

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Perfect Day ExercisePut yourself two - three years in the future. What does your ideal day look like?

Consider:

• Your home• Your morning / evening routines• Your relationships• Your self image• Your health

Focus on how you feel in these areas of your life first, and what they look like second.

• Your career• Your habits• Your achievements• Your income

• Your learnings• Your mental health• Your fitness levels• Your community

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