“Whoever loves becomes humble.Those who love have, so to speak, pawned a part of

their narcissism.” –Sigmund Freud

Love is patient, love is kind.

It does not envy, it does not boast,

it is not proud.

It is not rude, it is not self-seeking,

it is not easily angered,

it keeps no record of wrongs.

Love does not delight in evil

but rejoices with the truth.

It always protects, always trusts,

always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails. (I Corinthians 13:4)

Psychology describes the love as a phenomena social-cognitive.The psychologist Robert

Sternberg has created a love triangle and stated that love has three different parts : intimity,

engagement and passion.Intimity is the way that two persons can share their secrets and a lot of

details about their private lifes.Intimity ussualy appears in love and friendship.On the other side,

engagement is the expectance of unfinished relationship.The last but not least is

passion.Passionate love is expressed in romantic moments.

Sternberg claims that two components built relationships are stronger than those who are one

component based.In this way, Sternberg introduced the “perfect love” term, describing it as a

combination of intimity, engagement and passion.that does not destroy as the time passes.

On the other point of view, prof. Gavreliuc believes that love includes a fusion of emotions,

cognitions and behaviours, but being mysterious it remains impossible to be defined properly.A

lot of studies shows that love has a major importance and a big social impact on finding out

about the way the participants are.

Robert Baron and Donn Byrne think that love is “ the friendship between a man and a

woman, rebuilt as a progressive interpersonal closeness relationship, in which the two parteners

become to think of each other as a possible sexual parteners.”

There are a lot of “symptoms” that suggest the presence of love, and the psychologists claim

that in such situation we should express strongly our emotions in front of the person we love.

When standing beside the one we feel attraction for, we feel our heart beating fast and appear

butterflies in your stomach.

When you really love someone you start thinking and caring more about the other than

yourself.All the things you do, its only for the one you care about.Love is when you give your

heart without asking too much instead.Love is when you put the other’s happiness in front of

your interests.

Love is when you don’t feel the need to dominate and to limit the one’s will, when you

accept him even if you don’t totally understand, when you don’t want to change the person ad

you like him just the way he is.

When you love someone you'll do anything,you'll do all the crazy things that you can't

explain..When you love someone you'll feel it deep inside and nothin else can ever change your

mind. When you love someone you'll sacrifice you'd give it everything you got and you won't

think twice, you'd risk ït all no matter what my come.

Love is when you fight for the one you love, when you don’t need hundred words to say that

you really love him.You simply renounce to a part of your narcissism and you offer your

soul.When you love become humble, give everything, don’t betrade, and forgive with all your

heart.

To love is to live the other’s life.Love means to forget about yourself and to give all you have

without asking for something instead.This is the real love who rises you up.When you ask for

something when giving your heart it means that you haven’t cross over your ego.

Love is the most incredible pur and natural feeling in human being life.Love means that you

will give all you have to the other and feel mutual happiness.Love expresses our deep personality

side.Love is like a smile but has no value if you don’t give it.

When you really love and you are not together, you feel that the time has suddenly

stopped.You feel that a minute is like a hour and you want the moment to see eachother to come

as fast as it is possible.

To love means to stop live for you, and make all the feelings like pain, hope, pleasure, fear an

happiness depends by the other. Love is when you find yourself smiling without reason.Love is

when you decide to spend rest of the life with him.

Love is when he becomes your first priority and he is the only reason of your happiness or

grief, when you respect his feeling,and when you feel complete with him.

Love is when you shed a tear and still want him, it's when he ignores you and you still love

him, it's when he loves another girl but you still smile and say I'm happy for you, when all you

really do is cry.

In my opinion, whoever loves becomes humble and those who love have pawned a part of

their narcissism.I agree with this quote because I have met love recently and it has the

characteristics I mentioned.

Bibliography :

Gavreliuc A., “De la relatiile interpersonal la comuncarea sociala“, Polirom, 2007, p.126-130