What Really Hurts Me (a booklet with a little help when you really feel depressed)

Zsuzsanna Hegyi

Lifelong Learning Programme Comenius Partnership

European START: Solutions through Tales and ART 2010-2012

Sometimes you don’t even realize that you need help. In this brochure you can find

all the telephone numbers or addresses where you can find specialists and experts.

Do not hesitate to contact them!

Kék Vonal Gyermekkrizis Alapítvány (Blue Line Children’s Crisis Foundation) 06 1 116-

111

Napraforgó Gyermekjóléti Központ és Családsegítő Szolgálat (Sunflower Children

Welfare Centre and Family Help Service) 1163 Budapest, Cziráki utca 22 06 1 403-

2122

Nevelési Tanácsadó (Child Behaviour Advice Centre) 1163 Budapest, Szent Korona

utca 75-77 06 1 405-4211

Angyal Mónika Iskolapszichológus (Mónika Angyal School Psychologist)

Consulting hours: every Wednesday between 12-16 pm

Néri Szent Fülöp Katolikus Általános Iskola 1161 Budapest, Béla utca 23

Dudás Attila igazgató (Attila Dudás Headteacher)

Consulting hours: At any school break

Kata Debreceni

Diána Kiss

Why is it always Susan being the star?

Why not me?

Does she have a little longer hair than me or wears tighter jeans?

Anna Lukács

Don’t you try it!

Daddy says and he’s looking at me very strictly. My whole body is shaking

and I would feel coward not trying it

(Ingrid Sjöstrand: Don’t try it!)

Zsófia Balajti

Adults are quite weird:

they think it

is enough to get two kids together

and they will be friends immediately.

(Ingrid Sjöstrand: Adults are quite weird)

Gabriella Bíró

Mummy doesn’t have time for the kids in the evenings,

and neither does Daddy.

As for my sister- well,

she never has time for pups.

Balázs Pelikán

Do you dare to say NO when you are offered?

If you say no, you are going to be “someone".

Réka Martzy

Sometimes I dream about skeletons,

just moving towards me, coming closer and closer.

I can’t stand it anymore,

I start screaming.

(Ingrid Sjöstrand: Sometimes I dream about skeletons)

Emese Jóvári

Being a kid is very hard,

because you don’t really belong to anywhere.

(Ingrid Sjöstrand: Being a kid is very hard)

Rebeka Bognár

What do you think?

Is it your business what I’m doing

and what I’m thinking?

Is it my business what you are doing?

(Ingrid Sjöstrand: Is it your business?)

Melinda Maier

When it is getting really dark,

it would be nice to get into a house.

I wish someone told me: Hi where have you been?

I would answer: I was just wandering around.

Zoltán Kertész

I saw a giant.

He was taller than a dwarf, that’s how I knew he was a giant.

(Ágnes Ágai: I saw a giant)

Zsófia Kabai

There's a little mouse that sits on my desk

That holds my attention, I must confess

Taking me to a big world out there

Through this magical screen, at which I now stare

Each day I explore a new cyber path

With new friends I cry, or share a good laugh

No need to venture from home anymore

Friends who share each hope and dream

Always wait for me here, upon my screen

All that I could want, before me, now laid

And soon the real world, begins a slow fade

Trapped in this world, though the thought is insane

It seems all that's required, now is a brain

Icons and numbers remain in my head

When I close my eyes, there in my bed

I seem to recall a time in my past

Before the shadow of my PC was cast

When all of this wisdom was left unfurled

Before I met The Mouse that Rules The World

(Betty Johnson: Computer Addiction)

Damján Tárkányi

A Teenager’s Hard Life

(Short extracts from student’s diaries.)

It is very difficult getting along with parents. Mum keeps saying I have to eat

a lot, because I’m growing now, and she stuffs me with food.

I don’t like when Mum wants to hold my hand. I always get nervous because

of little “nothings”.

Boys ARE quite childish. Sometimes I cry a lot because of other people. I hate

my skin.

Going to parties is very boring. I don’t like changing my hair style.

I’m fed up with adults making me wear awkward clothes.

If my Mum or Granny gives me a kiss I say that I’m not a child any longer. I

feel lots of things “sticky”, for example when I have to hold my Mum’s hand

or have to give her a kiss.

I hate when people think my Mum is my friend. For heaven‘s she’s already

37!

I hate my changing of moods. Once I cry, the very next minute I laugh. I hate

that I can’t organize my life. When I’m an adult, I’m gonna do everything on

my own. That’s it.

I have to do everything at home because my brother is too young.

Being a teenager is not a pleasure, because we have to learn a lot. Love is

always disappointment. There are lots of temptations that are hard to resist.

I hate when my parents say bad things about youngsters and when they keep

telling me: Try to think about it son. Son, you will soon be an adult, try to

think as if you were already one. When will you clean your room? Soon I will

take you to the beauty salon, because your skin looks terrible.

Girls always scream. If we do things, for example not letting them into the

gym they are in tantrum. They really get on our nerves.

Girls are offended all the time and they come to school in crazy dresses every

day.

Some girls put on makeup at week-ends, but they don’t dare do it at school.

Some go to school with a ribbon in hair and they put on cute skirts.

I feel ashamed when my parents follow me everywhere, and they don’t let

me go anywhere.

Rebeka Tülkös

Laura Bánki

I’m embarrassed because of my pimples; moreover Mum wants to pop them

all the time. Though I’m going to be tall and my voice will be deep, and that’s

good.

Dominik Tóth

Kata Kertész

I hate it when Mum wants me to wear ticklish, prickly clothes.

Benjamin Dolfin

Flóra László

It’s impossible to find any clothes that suit me or not ugly.

Boys are so childish.

Nóra Büki

Only the silence that we can close in our hands,

the world is behind us.

If you break the dark, the dawn comes soon.

© 2011 San Filippo Neri Catholic School Publishing

23. Bela u. 1161 Budapest Hungary www.neriiskola.hu

Editor in Chief: Ildikó Csernyánszky

Editors: Mária Zentai, Ibolya Perényi, Gabriella Nemesi, Erika Szalontai

Layout: Roland Szombati, Edit Dohány