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What is it like to have never felt an emotion?By David Robson19 August 2015
Caleb is telling me about the birth of his son, now eight months old. “You know you hear parents say
that the first time they looked at their kid, they were overcome with that feeling of joy and
affection?” he asks me, before pausing. “I didn’t experience any of that.”
His wedding day was equally flat. To illustrate his point, he compares it to a Broadway show. In
front of the stage, he says, the audience are transported by the drama. Look behind the scenes,
however, and you will find the technical engineers, focusing on analysing the technicalities of the
event.
People with the condition call themselves “alexes”
Despite taking centre stage at the ceremony, he felt similarly detached from the tides of emotion
swelling up in the people around him. “For me, it was a mechanical production,” says Caleb (who
asked us not to use his full name). Even as his wife walked down the aisle, the only sensation he felt
was his face flushing and a heaviness in his feet; his mind was completely clear of joy, happiness, or
love in its conventional sense.
In fact, Caleb claims not to feel almost any emotions – good, or bad. I meet him through an internet
forum for people with “alexithymia” – a kind of emotional “colour-blindness” that prevents them
from perceiving or expressing the many shades of feeling that normally embellish our lives. The
condition is found in around 50% of people with autism, but many “alexes” (as they call
themselves) such as Caleb do not show any other autistic traits such as compulsive or repetitive
behaviour.
What does it mean to fall in love, when you lack the capacity to feel affection?
Getting to the bottom of this emotional blindness could shed light on many serious illnesses, from
anorexia and schizophrenia to chronic pain and irritable bowel syndrome. More personally, stories
from the “alex community” lead you to re-examine experiences that you might think you know so
well. How can you fall in love, for example, when you lack all the basic tender feelings of affection
that normally spark a romance
Shells of feeling
To understand that emotional numbness, it helps to imagine emotions as a kind of Russian doll,
formed of different shells, each one becoming more intricate. At the heart is a bodily sensation – the
skip in your heart when you see the person you love, or the churning stomach that comes with
anger. The brain may then attach a value to those feelings – you know if it is good or bad, and if that
feeling is strong, or weak; the amorphous sensations begin to take a shape and form a conscious
representation of an emotion. The feelings can be nuanced, perhaps blending different types of
emotions, such as bitter-sweet sorrow, and eventually we attach words to them – you can describe
your despair, or your joy, and you can explain how you came to feel that way.
When alexithymia was first described in 1972, the problem was thought to centre on this last,
linguistic stage: deep down people with alexithymia felt the same as everyone else, but they just
couldn’t put the emotions into words. The scientists hypothesised that this may result from
a breakdown in communication between the two hemispheres, preventing signals from the
emotional regions, predominantly in the right, from reaching the language areas, predominantly in
the left. “You need that emotional transfer in order to verbalise what you’re feeling,” says Katharina
Goerlich-Dobre at RWTH Aachen University. This could be seen, most dramatically, when surgeons
tried to cure epilepsy by cutting the fibres that connect the two hemispheres; although it reduced
the seizures, the patients also appeared emotionally mute as a result. Less sensationally, Goerlich-
Dobre’s brain scans have found that other people with alexithymia seem to have abnormally dense
connections in that neural bridge. This might create a noisy signal (a bit like a badly tuned radio)
that prevents emotional cross-talk, she thinks.
When surgeons cut the dense connections between the two hemispheres, patients become emotionally mute and unable to express their feelings (Credit: Science Photo Library)
Today, it seems clear that there may be many types of alexithymia. While some might have trouble
expressing emotions, others (like Caleb) might not even be conscious of the feelings in the first
place. Richard Lane, at the University of Arizona compares it to people who have gone blind after
damage to the visual cortex; despite having healthy eyes, they can’t see the images. In the same way,
a damaged neural circuit involved in emotional processing might preventsadness, happiness or
anger from bursting into consciousness. (Using the analogy of the Russian doll, their emotions are
breaking down at the second shell of feeling – their bodies are reacting normally, but the sensations
don’t merge to form an emotional thought or feeling.) “Maybe the emotion gets activated, you even
have the bodily responses, but it happens without you being consciously aware of the emotion,” he
says.
Along these lines, a few recent fMRI scanning studies have found signs of a more basic perceptual
problem in some types of alexithymia. Goerlich-Dobre, for instance, found reducedgrey matter in
areas of the cingulate cortex serving self-awareness, potentially blocking a conscious
representation of the emotions. And André Aleman at the University Medical Centre in Groningen,
the Netherlands, detected some deficits in areas associated with attention when alexithymics look
at emotionally charged-pictures; it was as if their brains just weren’t registering the feelings. “I
think this fits quite well with [Lane’s] theory,” says Aleman – who had initially suspected other
causes. “We have to admit they are right.”
The more extreme the emotion I should be feeling, the more it should be colouring how I’m thinking. In
reality I have a clearer head, I become more analytical – Caleb
Caleb himself describes a “conscious disconnect” that prevents emotions from breaking through
into his mind. For instance, one day at school he was working with the student theatre. All week he
had been struggling to produce the right sound effects, but it just wasn’t coming together.
Eventually, his boss lost his cool and started ripping into him. “My response was that something
weird was happening with my body,” he says. “I could feel a tension, like my heart was racing, but
my mind was distracted… It was an academic curiosity, and then I completely forgot about the
whole situation,” he says. It seems that almost no event can penetrate that indifference. “The more
extreme the emotion I should be feeling, the more it should be colouring how I’m thinking. In reality
I end up having a clearer head – I become more analytical.”
I can put up with unpleasant experiences because I know I won’t have memory associated with it – Caleb
There is one, slim advantage: he finds it easier to cope with medical procedures, since he doesn’t
attach the fear, sadness or anxiety to it. “I can put up with an awful lot of pain or unpleasant
experiences because I know very shortly I won’t have an emotional memory associated with it,” he
says. “But it means that positive memories get washed away too.”
Neural short circuit
It is a small pay-off, however: alexithymia seems to be linked to various other illnesses, including
schizophrenia and eating disorders, perhaps because emotions normally guide us to take better
care of our physical and mental health. Better defining alexithymia could therefore offer insights
into these disorders. It could also give us a more nuanced understanding of autism. Despite the
stereotypes, Geoffrey Bird at Kings College London points out that around half of autistic people are
perfectly capable of perceiving and responding to others, and those with social problems tend to
also be suffering from alexithymia. For this reason, he thinks that distinguishing the two, distinct,
disorders could therefore lead to better guidance. At the moment, misunderstandings can often
stand in the way of some autistic people getting the help they need. “One autistic adult I worked
with wanted to be a carer, but she was told ‘you don’t have empathy so can’t have the job’,” he says.
“Our research shows that lots of people with autism are fully okay with emotions.”
They are hypersensitive to bodily perceptions, and not able to focus on anything else, which might be
one reason why they develop chronic pain
Further work could also pin down the puzzling link to so-called “somatic disorders”, such as chronic
pain and irritable bowel syndrome, that seem to be unusually common in people with alexithymia.
Lane suggests it’s down to a kind of “short-circuit” in the brain, created by the emotional blindness.
Normally, he says, the conscious perception of emotions can help damp down the physical
sensations associated with the feeling. “If you can consciously process and allow the feeling to
evolve – if you engage the frontal areas of the brain, you recruit mechanisms that have a top down,
modulatory effect on bodily processes,” says Lane. Without the emotional outlet, however, the mind
could get stuck on the physical feelings, potentially amplifying the responses. As Goerlich-Dobre
puts it: “They are hypersensitive to bodily perceptions, and not able to focus on anything else,
which might be one reason why they develop chronic pain.” (Some studies, have in fact found
that alexes are often abnormally sensitive to bodily sensations, although other experiments have
found conflicting evidence.)
People with alexithymia often travel a lonely road as they try to connect to their emotions (Credit: Getty Images)
Physical sensations certainly seem to dominate Caleb’s descriptions of difficult events, such as
periods of separation from his family. “I don’t miss people, as far as I can tell. If I’m gone, and don’t
see someone for a long period, it’s a case of out of sight, out of mind,” he says. “But I do feel
physically a kind of pressure or stress when I’m not around my wife or my child for a couple of
days.”
Reconnecting to lost feelings
The hope is that eventually, doctors may be able to track down the origins of alexithymia and stop
the effects from snow-balling. Caleb thinks his alexithymia emerged at birth and could be genetic.
Upbringing – and the emotional fluency of your parents – may also play a role, while for others, it
may be caused by trauma that shuts down people’s ability to process some or all of their emotions.
Lane, for instance, introduced me to one of his patients, Patrick Dust, who was the subject of violent
abuse from his alcoholic father – experiences that put his life in danger. “One night, when he came
home, my mother and he had another intense verbal argument. He said 'I’m going to get my
shotgun and kill all of you'… We ran to a neighbour’s house where we called the police.” For
decades afterwards, he found it difficult to interpret and understand his emotions, particularly the
fear and the anger he still felt towards his parents. He suspects this resulted in his fibromyalgia –
chronic diffuse pain and tenderness across the whole body – and an eating disorder.
I discovered the tremendous anger I had felt, without much awareness of it. It’s the most important thing
I’ve done in my life – Patrick Dust
With initial guidance from Lane and later by himself, Dust was able to revisit the past and reconnect
to the emotions he was locking away, which he thinks also brought some relief to the fibromyalgia.
“I discovered the tremendous anger I had felt, without much awareness of it,” he explains. “It’s the
most important thing I’ve done in my life.” He has just finished writing a book about the process.
Caleb, too, has visited a cognitive behavioural therapist to help with his social understanding, and
through conscious effort he is now better able to analyse the physical feelings and to equate it with
emotions that other people may feel. Although it remains a somewhat academic exercise, the
process helps him to try to grasp his wife’s feelings and to see why she acts the way she does.
Not everyone with alexithymia may have his determination and patience, however. Nor may they
find a life partner who is willing to make the allowances his condition requires. “It takes a lot of
understanding on my wife’s part… She understands that my conceptions of things like love are a bit
different,” he says. In return, she may benefit from his stability – he is not swayed by the fickle tides
of feelings. “The trade-off is that my relationship with my wife is a conscious choice,” he says – he is
not acting on a whim but a very deliberate decision to care for her. That has been particularly
helpful in the last eight months. “It means that if we’re going through a difficult situation – if the
kid’s up all night crying – for me that doesn’t affect our relationship at all, because the connection
isn’t built on emotion,” says Caleb.
Caleb may not have been transported to ecstasy by his wedding or the birth of his child, but he has
spent most of his life looking within, striving to feel and understand the sensations of himself and
the people around him. The result is that he is certainly one of the most thoughtful, and self-aware,
people I have ever had the pleasure of interviewing – someone who seems to know himself, and his
limitations, inside out.
Ultimately, he wants to emphasise that emotional blindness does not make one unkind, or selfish.
“It may be hard to believe, but it is possible for someone to be cut off completely from the emotions
and imagination that are such a big part of what makes us humans,” he says. “And that a person can
be cut off from emotions without being heartless, or a psychopath.”