Welcome! We are Bobcat Allies!

Peer Conflict • Arguing, fighting• Normal

Bullying• Feeling afraid? Angry? Scared?• Feels like you don’t have any control

Recess

Peer Conflict or Bullying?• PEER CONFLICT

Arguing DisagreementBack and forth, responses, not one-sided

School Bus

Peer Conflict or Bullying?• BULLYING

____ is trying to hurt Ally’s feelings on purposeGanging up – 3 against 1___ is controlling Ally, bossing aroundAlly doesn't feel like she has any control

Lunch Room

Peer Conflict or Bullying?• BULLYING

____ is trying to hurt Ally’s feelingsGanging up____ is controlling AllyExcluding Ally

Times to Report• Out of control• Bullying• Feelings of Fear• Needing Advice

Who?• Trusted Adults! • Your Parents• Teacher• Guidance Counselor• These people care for you and want you to be

happy

Tattling• When you want to get someone in trouble• Example - Siblings

Small Groups• List of Problems • Label Peer Conflict or Bullying• List of Solutions• How to deal with anger, stress, frustration

So what did we learn? • Difference between Peer Conflict and Bullying• How to resolve conflicts in positive way• When to report• Difference between reporting and tattling

Thank you!