Grand Knight’s Comments

Brother Knights,

First, let me say that I am truly honored and

humbled by your confidence in me as I begin

my time in serving as your next Grand Knight.

Our outgoing Grand Knight, Philip Nassef, has

done a tremendous job in leading and

strengthening the Monsignor James R. Jones

Council over the last 2 years. He has lead by

example and has made every event that he has

been a part of very special. Thank you, Brother

Phil and your lovely wife Frances for all of your

incredible dedication to Council 3303. I have

big shoes to fill and hope to keep the

momentum going. See more on Phil later in

this edition of the Knightlighter.

A few years ago, I was contacted by our dear

late brother Jim Whetzel, who asked me if I would like to serve as Deputy Grand

Knight. I was initially a bit hesitant, but realizing Jim’s desire to see younger

brothers step into roles within the council, I couldn’t resist. As one of our recent

past Grand Knights, Jim was an inspiration to us all. I hope to honor his memory

in my deeds and actions as Grand Knight.

Since joining the Knights, I have been awed by the amazing charitable works

our Council has contributed to the many worthy causes in our local area. The

dedication, hard work, and hundreds of volunteer hours put in by you, the

Brother Knights of Council 3303 and your wives, have been nothing short of

incredible. I pray that we can all continue our good works with Saint Paul

Catholic Church, support Catholic education, and contribute even more to the

many worthy charities in Craven and nearby counties.

Special thanks to all my fellow Council Officers for the 2018 - 2019 Fraternal

Year. I look forward to serving with you as we march forward into a new year

with a strong relationship with Saint Paul Catholic Church. I ask each brother to join us at the Monsignor James R. Jones

Council 3303 Installation of Officers Ceremony and Dinner on Sunday, Aug 5th. I am always open to your ideas and

guidance as we seek to get more brothers involved. Enjoy the summer with your families.

Vivat Jesus!

Michael Lynch

Grand Knight

The Knightlighter The Official Publication of the Knights of Columbus, Msgr. James R. Jones Council

3303 and Kenneth I. Parker Assembly 1820, New Bern, NC

July 2nd Bingo

3rd Council Meeting - 7:00 PM in Chambers

4th Assembly Officers Mtg – 7:00 PM in Chambers

9th Bingo

11th Assembly Meeting – 7:00 PM in Chambers

11th Bingo

15th Installation of Assembly Officers

16th Bingo

23rd Bingo

30th Bingo

31st Council Officers Meeting – 7:00 PM in Chambers

Volume: 2018 – 07

Editor: Craig Baader craigbaader@verizon.net

The Shadow of Goodbye is the Risk of Loving

Over the past several months we have mourned the passing of too many loved ones, especially from within the ranks of

our Knights of Columbus Council 3303 and Assembly 1820 community here at St. Paul Catholic Church. Even within the

body of Christ, even when we hold each other in faith and love, the death of a loved one can be excruciatingly painful.

Someone once said, “The shadow of goodbye is the risk of loving.” We’ve all experienced it. The Mass of Christian Burial

is intended to celebrate the life of a departed dear one, and it should be. Whenever we celebrate the consecration of the

bread and wine into the body and blood of Christ at Mass, we commemorate in an uplifting way that Jesus becomes part

of us in our reception of the Blessed Sacrament; that He shed His blood for our sins by dying on the Cross, and He

overcame death by rising from the tomb three days later. In Matthew 28:19 we read that after rising from the dead and

before returning to Heaven, Jesus promised His apostles he would never abandon them; that through His Holy Spirit He

would walk with them – and each of us - in the garden of our heart.

God has known and loved you and me for all eternity. As part of His sovereign plan of salvation for each of us, Our Divine

Creator has always known the day and hour we would be born, and the day and the hour each of us will be summoned

from this world. Facing one’s own mortality is about attitude. My own sense of invincibility vaporized at the age of 44 when

I found myself facing unscheduled major surgery and answering questions in pre-op for the first time about a Living Will

and Health Care Power of Attorney. The Jesuit magazine America asked readers on social media, what does a ‘good

death’ mean to you? Seventy percent of the respondents said they had prepared an advanced directive or living will, which

described their desires regarding medical treatment in case they could not express informed consent. Eighty seven percent

indicated they had expressed their wishes regarding end-of-life care with family or friends. Fifty-nine percent said they had

written or spoken about their wishes for their funeral liturgy. In describing a ‘good death’ many referred to family / friends

in their answers: “allowing one to tie up loose ends with relationships and allowing one to face the end of one’s life confident

that your loved ones will go on with life with little pain without you.” Many included the Last Rites and “to be at peace with

God and know that my loved ones know how much I loved them.”

Every morning I open my eyes is a blessing; another chance to do God’s Will, to get it right. Like many of my 75-year-old

peers, I feel like a walking pill bottle, or take twice the time to do stuff, if I can still do it at all. Looking in the mirror, it’s

pretty obvious, what ain’t broke has already fallen off. But that’s OK, God isn’t done with me – or you yet. A good day is

still one without a doctor’s appointment, topped off with a bowl of ice cream. Which reminds me, last week the Holy Spirit

informed this pilgrim that if I still want to get to Heaven, I’m going to need my cane to help me finish my journey.

Mikie Casem, Past Grand Knight

Family of the Month - June

Family of the Month of June 2018 is Louise and George Halyak.

George has been a faithful member of our council for many years. He was responsible for publicity for several years and

is also a Sir Knight who served for five years as the Faithful Purser for the Assembly. George successfully handled our

Shrimp Boil for a number of years and worked on the setup crew and in the kitchen at almost every function held by the

Council.

Likewise, Louise is always at the Council functions decorating, setting up the hall, serving food, and helping in every task

where needed. Louise and George also volunteer their time at St Paul’s Catholic Church.

When it comes time for the yard sale, George (former yard sale chairperson) and Louise are always there spending many

volunteer hours checking out the electrical items donated and sorting the materials received for display. Their efforts help

significantly to ensure the success of the event

We thank both George and Louise for being a member of our Council, Church, and Community.

Nick Dalessandro

Family Director

Sir Knight of the Month – June

The Kenneth I. Parker Assembly 1820 would like to recognize Craig Baader as Sir Knight of the Month for June.

Congratulations Craig!

Craig has been a longstanding and very active member of the Knights of Columbus.

Craig is currently President of the Columbus Club. He was responsible for the much - needed renovation of the Knights of

Columbus Hall and was there from start to finish insuring that it was done properly. He also makes sure the maintenance

is kept up on the buildings and has had new awnings installed to protect people from the elements. He also oversees the

rental of the Knights Hall for parties, weddings, and such.

Craig is also involved with the much needed repair of the ceiling drywall of St Paul's Church.

Craig is also the Editor of the Knightlighter, the official publication of the Msgr. James R. Jones Council 3303 and Kenneth

I. Parker Assembly 1820 which keeps the Knights up to date on monthly happenings.

Craig is also involved in Bingo and is there just about every Monday night along with the kitchen crew keeping the bingo

players happy.

Craig is also a major asset to the Fourth Degree Yard Sale, from being an advisor, a truck monkey, and a go between the

Knights and the Marines at Cherry Point. Craig made sure we would always have their help if they were available. Craig

and his wife Pat would go pick up any of the Marine volunteers that were able to come, supply them with a good breakfast,

and ferry them back to base at the end of the day.

Pat Baader is also involved in many different aspects of the Yard Sale especially running the Christmas/Holiday tent.

Craig is also currently serving as Faithful Comptroller for the Fourth Degree where he has done a top-notch job keeping

the rest of us in order.

Craig and his lovely wife Pat moved to New Bern from Maryland several years ago. It was Maryland's loss and our gain.

A great big thank you to both you and Pat. Congratulations to Craig for a job well done!

God Bless,

Ralph Avilas

Faithful Captain

Family Picnic – June 10th

As a good idea and a farewell gesture by our outgoing

Grand Knight - Phil Nassef, the Council held a Family

Picnic on the beautiful late Sunday afternoon, of June 10th.

The cookout was attended by many Knights and their

families as well as our three visiting summer Seminarians.

The event was held from 4 to 7pm with Phil grillin up some

delicious burgers and hotdogs with all the fixin’s. Special

thanks goes out to Nick and Liz Dalessandro, Craig and

Pat Baader, Doug Uhland, Don and Jean Hanson for all

their support of the picnic.

A good time was had by all including the “grand-youngins”

(oh no – I’m starting to sound like Phil!). We hope to hold

a family picnic again next year with games for the kids.

Mike Lynch

Grand Knight

Second Degree Exemplification

On Tuesday, June 10th, the Monsignor James R. Jones Council conducted a 2nd Degree Exemplification Ceremony. A

total of 10 First Degree Brothers were instructed on our principle of Unity and received the Second Degree or Formation

Degree as it now called.

Once again, the Council 3303 Degree team, including the new degree team Financial Secretary Chris Skaggs, put on a

very memorable ceremony. In attendance were our Worthy District Deputy - Joe Banks, Field Agent - Norm Wilson, and

Worthy Council Chaplain - Father Thomas Tully, who was presented a certificate as the honoree for this noteworthy 2nd

Degree Exemplification.

Our newest 2nd Degree Brothers pictured above include: Back Row - DD Joe Banks, DGK Mike Lynch, Norm Wilson, GK

Phil Nassef, Seminarian Adam Galletti, Russ Hunter, Seminarians John Lewis and Ross Williams, and Fr. Tom Tully. Front

Row – Gordy Barnes, Gary Timco, Bruce Morris, Armand Dion, Guy Norton and DCN Jim Hackett

All are pictured above with Worthy Chaplain - Father Thomas Tully, Grand Knight - Phil Nassef, Deputy Grand Knight -

Mike Lynch, District Deputy - Joe Banks, and Field Agent - Norm Wilson.

Please join me in congratulating these 10 brothers. We pray that they may continue on their journey to Full Knighthood.

Michael Lynch

Grand Knight

The Columbus Club

Not much to report after the detailed summary report in last month’s Knightlighter. Just wanted to welcome our new club members: Clark French, Paul Masotta, Chris Skaggs and Bill Stanton. Thanks for stepping up to the task!

Craig Baader President – Columbus Club

Faithful Navigators Report

I make this my last Faithful Navigators report and it comes with mixed feelings.

I’m glad to see us heading to another year with an increased budget full of giving to

our parish community and local charities. I know you will be in good hands with

Brother Ralph Aviles at the helm.

Which brings me to my next order of business. As I have mentioned many times

before, if it wasn’t for our volunteers we wouldn’t be the Assembly we are today.

Ralph along with the truck monkeys, and most of all our gentlemen and lady

volunteers make our yard sale what it is. So, “Thank You Everyone” and great job

Ralph! As Ralph takes the Faithful Navigators helm, we will have a new Yard sale

chairman…Phil Nassef. Please give Phil the support that he needs going forward to

ensure the success of our primary fundraising activity.

I wouldn’t be involved with our Assembly as an officer if it wasn’t for Jim Whetzel, as

he caught me in Walmart one day and asked if I would take the role of scribe. Being

young and ill-informed, I said Yes. Well that spot soon was filled so I was moved to

the Faithful Pilots Chair for the next year....Wow, wait a second.

In retrospect, I’m glad Jim cornered me in Walmart that day and provided me with

the opportunity it gave me to serve our Church, Clergy, and Community. Most important of all, I got to know Jim a little

better, and I’m a better man for it. May God continue to shine his face on Rose Marie and may he continue to bless our

Country and Assembly.

David Rose

Faithful Navigator

Council 3303 Installation of Officers will be held on August 5th

The Monsignor James R. Jones Council 3303 will hold an Installation of Officers ceremony and a catered dinner on Sunday

afternoon, August 5th. The official ceremony will be held at the Columbus Club Hall starting at 4:00 pm followed by a Happy

Hour Social and a catered dinner served at 6:00 pm. All Brother Knights from the Council and Assembly and their wives

are cordially invited to attend.

Blue Blazers and gray slacks or business casual attire is appropriate.

Please RSVP to our Grand Knight, Michael Lynch, at m2lynch@suddenlink.net or (540) 222-1596

Thank you from Danny Gennantonio, St. Joseph’s Cemetery Coordinator: Thank you to the following 4th and 3rd

degree Knights and wives, who placed 235 flags on all Veterans’ graves in St. Joseph’s Cemetery the Thursday before

the Memorial Day weekend, as well as the 27 large flags on the walkways of the church and cemetery:

Craig Blackwell, Kevin Blust, Bill Camp, Tony Difede, Bill Elliott, Clark French, Tom & Paula Hartman, Melvin Henry, Phil

Nassef, Richard Plezia, Louis Simon, Bob Sisco, John Jaskolka, Doug Uhland, & Joe Urbaniak.

SK Joe Urbaniak and I are the only two volunteers left from our list of helpers in 2006, so I am very grateful for all

who have stepped up these last 12 years. Our Assembly has been honoring our veterans in St. Joseph’s Cemetery

since 1988.

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Fraternally

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Knight of the Month – June

This month, we honor our most recent Past Grand Knight and newest Trustee, Brother Philip Nassef, as Knight of the

Month for July.

Now, where do I start? Over the last four years, Phil has served as our Deputy Grand Knight and Grand Knight and

elevated the Monsignor Jams R. Jones Council 3303 to great heights for which our Council was recognized for numerous

charitable acts and noteworthy awards to include the Columbian award. I’m sure we can all attest to Phil’s sincere love for

the Knights of Columbus. His passion is demonstrated continuously by his hard work and dedication at almost every

Council event. Can anyone even remember any recent event where Brother Phil wasn’t a part of? He entertained us at

every Council and Officer meeting. He ensured 1st and 2nd degree exemplifications were conducted, represented the

interests of our council at the State mid-year and annual meetings, and always kept us informed of Council events. Most

of all, Brother Phil was there: there at Bingo Mondays, there at exemplifications, there at golf outings, there at funerals,

there at rosaries, there at after mass ticket sales, there at Pot Luck dinners, there at LAMB Collections, there at Yard Sales,

there at the Windows Dinner, there at Special Olympics, there at Youth Basketball and Soccer events, and always there

to lend a hand for a Brother Knight in need. You lead by example.

Thank you, Brother Phil. We look forward to your continued service to the Council. God Bless you!

Michael Lynch Grand Knight

Summer Yard Sale

Our June Yard Sale turned out to be a great success. We did have a few glitches, but they were overcome by everyone pulling together and getting the job done.

We were not able to get any of our great Marines until the last day. As a result, eight student volunteers from West Craven High School came in on Tuesday to help move and set up the furniture. We also hired three gentlemen from the community to help and the rest came from our outstanding pool of volunteers.

We had an abundance of just about everything, furniture, glassware, sporting goods, domestics, arts and crafts, home decor, pictures, antiques,

and hardware. Over 1,900 people came through the doors Thursday, Friday, and Saturday. A really great turnout!

As always, a special thanks to the pickup crew who worked many hours to bring in all the donations. A big thank you to all the ladies and gentlemen who unpack, price, and stock our shelves. A big thank you to the counters who are always being shortchanged at lunch. Some things need to change. Let's not forget all the cooks and bakers who provided the delicious desserts for all to enjoy. Without all these dedicated volunteers there would be no yard sale.

Thank you to West Craven High School for allowing their students to come and help.

Last, but not least, the great group of Marines that came on Saturday to help us restore the yard sale area back to its normal condition.

Semper Fi - Oorah!

Always faithful. Ralph Aviles – Yard Sale Chairman

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Officers of Father Kenneth I. Parker Assembly 1820

Officers and Program Chairmen of Msgr. James R. Jones, Council 3303

Chaplain Reverend Thomas Tully Community Open Grand Knight Phillip Nassef Family Nick Dalessandro Deputy Grand Knight Michael Lynch Youth Michael Lynch Chancellor James Kelly Membership Director Tony DiFede Recorder Stan Namowicz Hispanic Membership Richard Mora Financial Secretary Steve Harman Bingo Doug Uhland Treasurer Doug Uhland Pro-Life Open Advocate Clark French Operation LAMB Bob Donnelly Lector Nick D’Alessandro Knightlighter Craig Baader Warden James Knickerbocker House Open Inside Guard Chris Skaggs Golf Kevin Blust Outside Guard Kevin Blust 300 Club Kevin Blust Trustee (1 Yr.) Pat Rocco Columbus Club Craig Baader Trustee (2 Yr.) Richard Dodson K of C Insurance Norman Wilson Trustee (3 Yr.) Jim Whetzel Special Olympics Stan Namowicz Program Director Michael Lynch Public Relations Bo Wernersbach Church C. J. Brooker Web Master James Knickerbocker Vocations Open Lounge Manager Ralph Avilas