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The Listening Process
“The only way to entertain some folks is to listen to
them.”- Kin Hubbard
Is listening the same as hearing?
There is actually a difference! Hearing is the act of receiving
sound. When you hear something, you are
aware of the sounds. Listening involves hearing, but is
much more complicated then just picking up sounds.
Listening is a 4 step process…
1. Receiving 2. Interpreting3. Evaluating4. Responding
Receiving The first step to the listening process. It involves hearing and seeing. You use your ears and eyes to gather
information. Your ears take in vocal tones and words. Your eyes read the nonverbal signals.
(Facial expressions, gestures, and eye movements.)
Interpreting
Once you have “received” a message, you have to use your own experience to interpret what you just heard.
An effective listener tries to interpret the speaker’s message to truly understand what they are trying to say.
People’s interpretations can differ.
Evaluating
After interpreting the message, you must evaluate what you hear.
You have to connect that message to your ideas or feelings about the subject of the message.
You decide if you agree or disagree, or need more information.
Responding
Almost all messages require some type of response.
Responses can be verbal or nonverbal.
The listener’s response is important for effective communication.
4 Types of Listening
1. Informational2. Empathic3. Critical4. Creative
Informational Listening Involves listening to information such
as directions, explanations, or news. You are listening for information
when… You take notes in class You take a phone message Listen to the news or weather
Informational listening is the basis for all other types of listening.
Critical Listening
Critical listening means examining an informative or a persuasive message and making decisions about your findings.
Involves separating fact from opinion
Example: Political Advertisements
Creative Listening
Using your active imagination as you interpret a message
Also called, recreational listening Examples…
Listening to music Listening to a comedian
Empathic Listening
Listening to another person’s feelings
Listening without trying to solve the problem
Requires patience Examples: counselors, good
friends
Barriers to Listening
“People who know little are usually great talkers, while men who know much say little.”
- Jean Jacques Rousseau
Speaker Barriers
Characteristics of the speaker that interfere with listening. Distracting appearance and manner Prejudice (narrow-minded speakers) Lack of Believability
Listener Barriers
Personal attitudes or behaviors that interfere with listening.
Internal Distractions Lack of Knowledge Personal Prejudices Desire to talk
Guidelines for Good Listening
1. Watch for nonverbal clues2. Try to see things from the
speaker’s point of view3. Avoid distractions4. Listen for the new and unusual
idea5. Listen for repetition
Guidelines for Good Listening
6. Get Prepared7. Respond to the speaker8. Apply the ideas to yourself9. Listen for structure10. Review and Preview the points
Listening Activity
1. Take out a piece of paper2. When I tell you to begin, everyone
will be silent for 3 minutes.3. You are to write down
EVERYTHING you hear in those three minutes.
*** Remember to be quiet!
Homework (due tomorrow)
Write 2-3 paragraphs about a time when a friend or relative did not listen to what you had to say. What were your reactions? How did you feel? Think about each step in the listening process and explain. (Receiving, Interpreting, Evaluating and Responding)