The Dance Floor Game

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Dance Floor GamePart 1 Basic PrinciplesOne of the areas that the pick up community tends to avoid likethe plague is dance floor opening and attraction techniques.Most people avoid this aspect of the game because they feellike you need to be some super talented dancer to pull anythingfrom the dance floor. In actuality this is far from the truth, andwith a little bit of practice you can conquer what has beencalled by some, the El Dorado of pickup.

Dance Floor Rules of ThumbThere are three basic principles you need to internalize whenyoure on the dance floor

Never stand by yourself on a dance floor

Make eye contact then open

Never linger without acting

Lets go over each of these points to foster an understanding ofeach.

Never stand by yourself on a dance floor Socialproof is critical in dance floor game.The ultimate destoyerof social proof is standing alone on the dance floor lookingon or scanning the scene. This doesnt make you look cool,it mkes you look creepy. It doesnt matter if you have adrink in your hand you still look creepy. If you came withfriends, stand by them and feign a conversation if youre on thedance floor. If youre by yourself go to the bar area and runregular attraction material to win over and move a set fromthe bar to the dance floor. Both of these actions will give you alaunch pad and home base to come back to as you launch yourdance openers throughout the night.

Making eye contact This rule is less absolute foryounger ages (18 20) but is an absolute must for olderages (21+). Its kind of difficult to explain the right way to do thiswithout pictures or diagrams but you want to try to incite aglance without staring. People naturally glance at objects or

things that they perceive are looking at them. Try lookingslightly to the left of someones temple (bait) when youre

walking by them at the mall or supermarket. Theyll look atyou first to see if youre looking at them (bit) but realize thatyoure not, but in that moment you turn your head right atthem and catch them looking at you (caught) and meetthem with a genuine smile. Not only will they feel a tad bitguilty for staring, but your smile will disarm them enoughto start a conversation. On the dance floor this technique is

essential to making the approach feel both natural andspontaneous.You want to position yourself and your group~ 45- 75 degrees from the straight field of vision of yourprospect (ill probably draw a diagram for this). Itll take awhile to master but making and locking eye contact withprospects immediately before approaching broadcasts thatyoure an alpha who isnt afraid of taking what he wantsafter hes seen it.

Never linger- Many of you are familiar with the three secondrule in bar and daytime game. On the dance floor you have 1to 2 seconds to act after establishing eye contact or elseyou need to reset (both in positioning, timing, and target) .By giving you and your target such a limited time windowyou decrease the chances of both you and target makingexcuses on why you shouldnt dance. Net net, the more youfight those internal demons the greater chance of rejection

Dance Floor GamePart 2 The Silent OpenerThe Silent OpenerSo now that you have preserved as much social value as youcan by not breaking any of the cardinal rules of dance floorgame whats next? The opener. The Silent Opener wouldprobably be more accurately described as the thenonverbal opener because it relies exclusively onnonverbal cues to communicate dominance andassertiveness.

There are two forms of silent openers that my colleagues andI perform on the dance floor; the bait and reel and the

pound.


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Bait and reel

The bait and reel is the simplest form of dance floor opener, infact, it is the method you are most likely to see so-callnatural performing in a club. Youve seen it before, a totallyrandom guy walking right up to a girl and initiating a dancewithout saying a single word. What seems like magic is no

more than several intentional actions that projectdominance and assertiveness to a players target.

The Bait

Described before the bait involves inciting eye contactwith a target in a way which seems serendipitous.Glance slight to the left or the right of your target totry to catch a glance, once shes bitten the bait, turnyour head to her and acknowledge her glance.

The Approach

Smile warmly, lock eye contact and approach withpurpose. Try to walk in the straightest line possibletowards her. Do not smile like a creep or a kid beingtickled, but instead give the impression that youremildly amused by her being entranced by you. Theamazing thing about this is that as long as eye contactis locked before you start moving, youll be able toapproach from any distance. Optimum is about 10 to15 feet, but Ive walked longer distances without eyecontact being loss.

The Initiation

On your approach take mental note of where her handsare. Once youre one to one and a half feet away fromher, take her hand lift it up and spin her around. Theentire process is so alpha shell be thinking moreabout how not to mess it up than about who you areand why she shouldnt dance with you.

Pound and Spin

Although this move is a bit gimmicky it can be used in situationswhere you do not have enough social proof to do a standard

approach or with very good looking girls or sets that otherwisewould blow out a direct approach. In situations where my social

proof has been reset or not as high as I would like for whateverreason, I use the Pound and Spin to reestablish myself. Thismethod is especially good at breaking open dance circles ofgirls.

The Approach

Walk up to the set with high energy and confidenceand move directly to your target. Lean over and

confide in a person who is not your target to watchthis

The Initiation

Stick your fist out like you are about to give some propsand make eye contact with your target. Wait expectantlyfor her to put two and two together. Shell usually slowlyperform the prop action without any additional goading orprompting on your part. After the prop action is taken,maintain eye contact as you hold her hand and elevate itto the ceiling. After both of your hands are above herhead, spin her around and commence dancing. Like thedirect approach above, the entire motion should besmooth, and when performed properly comes off assuper alpha.

These two initiation openers are guaranteed to open any set 90-97 percent of the time if performed correctly. One thing Id add isthat when you are doing either you need to divorce yourselffrom the result and simply be in the moment. Even if you gotshot down moments ago clear all that from you mind and thinkabout presenting positive energy. Personally, the only timesthese openers work is when I have self doubt or apprehensionsabout opening. When I separate myself from the end resultand focus on putting a positive confident approach outthere positive results follow.

The Structure of Dance Floor GameHey guys, last time I spoke about ditching your best dance

moves, tricks and tactics in favour of enjoying the music and

generating a positivevibe, something that most guys seem to
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forget the second they enter a nightclub. Just by enjoying

yourself regardless of your dancing ability you may have

noticed that you were getting much more positive female

attention than you may have otherwise; this is due to the

relief that girls experience when they are in the presence of a

man that is not entirely focused on finding out the colour of

their underwear, and this comfort that is immediately

established will cause the women to be drawn away from the

wandering hands of other guys and congregate around you.

This ability to lose inhibitions on the dance floor is vital, and a

prerequisite of what I am going to take you through in this

post, without it, although still useful, the structure I teach will

not be as effective without the ability to generate this initial

comfort, as the IOIs you receive form the first and most

important stage of dance floor game.Phase 1: Social Proof Steps

Many PUAs appear to view dance floor game and the rest of

club game as separate entities, each with their own rules to

follow. I agree with this to a certain extent, largely you should

be escalating much more quickly on the dance floor than you

might otherwise and talking should be kept at an absolute

minimum. However, receiving more positive attention on the

dance floor has exactly the same effect as it would in any

other social environment, without getting too psychological, it

is common knowledge that women take cues regarding male

attractiveness from other women, therefore, when women

are seen dancing near you, and giving you IOIs your

attractiveness will skyrocket making the rest of the steps

that much easier. Additionally, many guys fear beginning the

interaction with a girl on the dance floor, and are not quite

sure of the best way to get her attention, to start dancing or to

escalate from there. All of this is avoided by social proofing

the dance floor first, when the girl you want is already looking

at you, then those awkward first moments are avoided and

you can move to the next step. This step is achieved simply

by fully immersing yourself in the music as I stated in my

last post, and not focusing on getting one particular girl,

it should suit your personality (as an introvert, I prefer to

keep it low key) and make sure that you are doing it for

enjoyment and in no way seeking approval from anyone

else.

Phase 2: Forcing the IOI

When you see the girl you want, and have built up social

proof by drawing people in to your positive vibe, getting girls

looking at you, with no investment on your part, (its not like

youre doing backflips to get attention), all you have to do is

select your girl and IMMEDIATELY force an IOI from her,

this could be by pointing at her, sticking your tongue out,

anything that clearly acknowledges her from all of the

other girls dancing close to you. This is important as all of

the attention that you have gained is extended to her. Next,

with the big smile you have from enjoying your dance

floor experience, you hold out your hand for her to take,and all of that attention is now working in your favour to

put pressure on the girl to dance with you (rather than

pressure to avoid being seen dancing with a low value

guy), then spin her in to you, ready for the next step.

Phase 3: Push-Pull

Another PUA term that is used most to describe emotionallydistancing yourself from a woman, creating more space to
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pull her back in; in dance floor game, you can do this

physically, by literally pushing her away from you then

pulling her closer. This is the key to escalating quickly,

when done right, after every time you push her away, when

you pull her in you can physically escalate, for example, you

are holding one hand at this stage of dance floor game

push away pull towards and take both hands- push

away pull towards and move one hand to the small of

her back push pull and move your hands to her waist,

and so on, as fast or as slow as you wish to escalate

Disclaimer Some Calibration Required the reason this

works is best explained looking through the eyes of a

woman; almost all of the guys she has danced with have

no concept of pushing the girl away, so they keep pulling

and pulling, making the girl feel more and moreuncomfortable until they take root and remain planted on

her waist until she forcefully removes them, after this,

she learns that dancing with a guy will inevitably result in

uncomfortably pushing them away, however, when you

are the one selecting her, and pushing her away, she

does not experience that discomfort, and you show that

you are not getting off on her getting close to you, that

you do not need physical contact from her to validate

your existence as a man. With this comes the ability to

escalate much faster, without it being a big deal.

The physical push pull is where salsa steps may be useful,

however they do not need to be more complicated than a

simple spin towards and away from you, and gently pushing

and pulling her by her hands, as long as that physical

distance is created, the effect will be largely the same.

Phase 4: The close

Now, after you have danced with a girl and been doing your

push-pull for a little while, you can choose to use the pre-

selection you got from her to force the IOI of another girl

(phase 2) and move on/bring her in, you could also go back

to building your social proof in phase 1, gaining even more

momentum, or you may choose to go for a close.

The best part of using push pull on the dance floor to escalate

is that it smoothly works towards any of these options,

particularly to a close. If you do decide to go for a close,

you want to increase eye contact as you do your push

pull moves, and you want to gradually increase the

length of time she is pulled into you and decrease the

distance she is pushed away, making the dance more

and more sexual as it progresses. Ideally you will befamiliar with the music you are dancing to and you will know

exactly when to go for the pull into a close, (a k-close for

example) it will be a time where the music cuts out, or has

a pronounced beat that emphasises your movement (I will

get to this in a later post) but when you go for a close, you

want to pull her in closer than you have been, maintain

eye contact and gently place your hand on the side of her

neck and guide her as you go in for the kiss. It is that

simple, again, with calibration; you will know when the

best time to do this is. Then, before or after the kiss, you

can continue or take her by the hand and take her off the

dance floor.

There you have it, a complete structure to dance floor

domination. If you want to know how it works thenjust think

about it from a girls point of view: she notices a guy

getting loads of attention from other girls out of the

corner of her eye this popular guy then selects her from


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all of the girls he could have (typical chick flick formula)

and instead of having an uncomfortable grinding

marathon, this guy is different, he leads her and

constantly is mixing sexual pull towards him with fun

spins and other moves (just like the movies) and shows

he knows what he is doing by escalating with purpose,

then slowly the room fades away as your eyes lock onuntil it is just the two of you sharing this moment, then

the kiss is the icing on the cake.

Go out and give girls the experience they want and let me

know how you get on and remember to always show

respect for the girls first and foremost.

Stephen :)

P.S. I have tried to be as thorough as possible, but if you

have any questions just leave me a comment. For the guys

that cant quite lose themselves in the music, I will try to get

some pictures or video of me demonstrating some moves I

use for low key social proofing next time.

What's New on Fast Seduction 101 -

mASF Post - Moreno's Dance Floor

Game tatics (Bumpin and Grindin

Edition)

Alot of PUAs out there are against dance floor due to the fact that

they're not a good dancer. That's half true but it's not all true. You

CAN do dance floor game even if you're not a good dancer. But to

me there's a specific type of club in which you can just go in, pull a girl

from the back and start to dance with her even if you didn't even

asked her to dance.

Now I bet that you're very confused about what I'm talking about,

you're probably thinking: "But dosen't this type of club game that

you're talking about works in every type of club?" Well let me put it to

you this way: Have you been to one of those trendy clubs, and you

were on the dance floor and you were asking a girl to dance with you

and she rejected you? Or did you try to dance with her and she just

went away like you're some kind of creep?

Well, that's what I'm talking about. Dance floor game doesnt work

in every type of club you go in to . Trendy clubs are not a good

place to run dance floor game because the women are not really

used to dancing with strangers. They get scared. They prefer to

stay together. I remember I used to go to trendy clubs and I got

rejected by alot of girls because they're not used to the way they

get approached by strangers. I did get lucky by looking for other

girls to dance and they danced with me. But that was too low. So in a

way dance floor game CAN work but the chances are low that you're

going to take it further.Now back to the explaining. There's a specific type of club in which

you can pull a girl without asking her to dance with you. And these

are:

-An urban club in which it has a "GHETTO" crowd.

-A club in which the music is so fucking loud you can't even hear

yourself.

-A club in which they only give Hip-hop or Reggeaton.

-A club in which the whole club is the dance floor.

Now, these type of clubs are ONE OF THE BEST WAYS to run dance

floor game. And why is that?Well, the answer is that these type of

clubs are built only on dancing. Think about that. If you go to a

trendy club, yes, they do have a dance floor in which you can

dance, but that's not a club in which you can openly dance with

strangers. It's more of a club to socialize and have a good time.

But in an urban/Hip Hop club, it's only a club in which you can

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These type of clubs are one of the best ways to run dance floor game.

The answer is ANYONE CAN DO THIS and I mean ANYONE. Even

an AFC can do this type of game. I remember I used to do this type of

game when I was an AFC. One time I closed 5 girls!

Anyways I'm only going to explain the Hip Hop perspective of

dance floor game because all you have to do is just bump and

grind the girl. This works in any different club in which you can only

dance. But I'm specifically talking about an urban/Hip-Hop club. I'm

going to explain this step by step on how to do it:

#1 Come in with a smile:

Like Mystery saidwhen you first enter the club, the game is on.

ALWAYS AND ALWAYS come in with a smile and high energy. If

you don't have that high energy buy yourself an energy drink to

get yourself hyped.

#2 Look at your targets Carefully:

Be sure to look at the sets carefully. You'll find girls who're not

dancing and you'll find girls who're dancing. When you see girls

who're dancing. If you see girls who're dancing make sure it's

only the group of girls who're dancing. If there's guy in the set

don't approach. I repeat DON'T APPROACH. Where I'm from, if

you dance with a girl where there're guys in the group the guys

will get pissed and will try to kill you. So don't do that!

#3 Going for the approach:

This is where you start to dance. Now there're 2 ways in which you

can approach the girl. These are from the back or from the front.

Let's start with the back. All you have to do approach her from

behind. It's that easy! Or you can grab her arm and pull her

towards you. Now approaching from the front. Approach her

from the front and mimic her dancing. You don't have to be a

skilled dancer to do this. NOTE: If they reject you, simply move

on. There're plenty of women to dance with.

#4 Always go kino:

Remember when you're bumbin and grindin, always go kino.

You're already goingkino by touching your crouch to her ass lolBut make sure you take a lil further than that. Like hold her hand

and direct it to where you want it. Or stroke her hair. That's from

behind. But if you dancing with her from the front, try to touch

her face for a moment and see if she likes it.

#5 Try to leave a great impression:

Remember, you want to leave a great impression with her. The

reason why I say this because 3 minutes later, she'll dance with

another guy like it's just normal. Remember you don't want to be that

typical guy she's dancing with. So make sure you leave a great

impression. For an example, try to do some negging if she

touches a certain part of your body. Or if you're dancing from

behind, tell her "Is that the best you can do? Come on! Dance

harder!" Or you can try this: And this is one of my favorites to

leave and impression. Try to switch. Instead of her grinding you

why don't you try to grind her. Trust me lots of girls laugh when I

do this. And it's nothing because you're having fun.

#6 Going for the close:

Now after you danced with her for a good minute. Thank her for

dancing with you. Like give her a hug (anotherkino

). Or joke

around with her. Remember, you don't have time for small talk

because the music is too loud that she won't be able to hear you.

Just ask her for her #. After she gives you her # thank her again.

Give her a kiss on the cheek and do the San Francisco Hand

Shake. If she rejects your offer, move on. Remember, this is a


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numbers game. you'll probraly get like 3-5 #s by following these

steps. It's not that complicated.

And there you have it! My very first tactic post. Like I said, Urban/Hip

Hop clubs are one of my favorite places and one of the most effective

ways to run dance floor game. I mean these type of techniques in

some way can work for other type of clubs. But ghetto clubs with

ghetto are one of the best. So go ahead, go into one of these clubs.

Unless you're too scared because you may get shot by one these

girls because they're ghetto I hope these techniques were helpful to

some PUAs out there. Feedback is greatly appreciated.

HappySarging!

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