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dit£ &natt\)t# TATTOOS TELL A STORY OF ABUSE TAnOOS TELL A STORY OF ABUSE BY TIM COLEMAN PORTRAITS BY BERNARD CLARK Gordon's beloved daughter and inspiration, Christina. here can't be many stranger or sadder tattoos than those adorn- ing the body of Gordon Pratt. The words and pictures depict the ter- rible saga of a Milwaukee father's grief, the loss of custody of his three daugh- ters and a trail of systematic abuse. Today, only one of the daughters is alive. "Getting tattooed," he says, "was a way to make sure I'd never for- get what my chiidren went through— the living and tormenting hell with their mother." Leafing through the copious, illus- trated binders that Pratt sent to SKIN&INK, it's clear that this poor man was driven to the limits of san- ity. It is also clear that the child-pro- tection system completely failed. CHANNELING THE ANGER Despite being repeatedly told by his daughte- Christina that her mother and boyfriend were tor- menting her, Pratt was unable to intervene, and his wife retained custody. How does a man deal with such agonizing torment and ensuing anger? Pratt's solution was to channel his rage onto his own body. tattooing both his back and chest with images tha - . screamed to the world, "The system has failed me, and you need to know the truth." In 1968, Pratt married his wife, Carol. It was the worst decision he ever made. During their 13 years of marriage, they had three daughters, Carlota. Christina and Ciprina. It was only after their divorce in 1981, when the courts awarded Carol custody of the children, that the abuse began. In his many pages of recollections and illustrations, Pratt cata- logues the horrors that Carol and her new partner. David, meted out to Christina. 16 SKlNiINK OCTOBER 2007

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dit£ &natt\)t# TATTOOS TELL A STORY OF ABUSE

TAnOOS TELL A STORY OF ABUSE BY TIM COLEMAN PORTRAITS BY BERNARD CLARK

Gordon's beloved daughter and inspiration, Christina.

here can't be many stranger or sadder tattoos than those adorn­ing the body of Gordon Pratt. The words and pictures depict the ter­

rible saga of a Milwaukee father's grief, the loss of custody of his three daugh­ters and a trail of systematic abuse. Today, only one of the daughters is alive. "Getting tattooed," he says, "was a way to make sure I'd never for­get what my chiidren went through— the living and tormenting hell with their mother."

Leafing through the copious, illus­trated binders that Pratt sent to SKIN&INK, it's clear that this poor man was driven to the limits of san­

ity. It is also clear that the child-pro­tection system completely failed.

CHANNELING THE ANGER Despite being repeatedly told by his daughte-

Christina that her mother and boyfriend were tor­menting her, Pratt was unable to intervene, and his wife retained custody. How does a man deal with such agonizing torment and ensuing anger? Pratt's solution was to channel his rage onto his own body. tattooing both his back and chest with images tha-. screamed to the world, "The system has failed me, and you need to know the truth."

In 1968, Pratt married his wife, Carol. It was the worst decision he ever made. During their 13 years of marriage, they had three daughters, Carlota. Christina and Ciprina. It was only after their divorce in 1981, when the courts awarded Carol custody of the children, that the abuse began. In his many pages of recollections and illustrations, Pratt cata­logues the horrors that Carol and her new partner. David, meted out to Christina.

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DECLARATION OF ABUSE The terrifying words CHRISTINA WAS ABUSED are Tattooed in two-

inch letters across the middle ot Pratt's back. They are a stark reminder of her years of ordeal. In the middle of the text Is a tat­tooed Image of Christina as a child.

-rising her security r " ^ W !

banket. Pratt explains na t the image of the blanket refers to another incident of souse, when Carol :c*ed Chnstina in a

casement. In January 1986. the 12-year-old Cnnsiina wrote to him. saying. "Dad. because I : : - ' : c ear up my room

good enough for mom, sne has made me sleep n the basement, again. And this time she took >-^ all the bulbs, so I

- .. ; - ' Mrn the lights ML She made me sleep r. tne dark on the cold floor • tnout my blanket."

Pratt explains that, because of the psychological damage endured by his daughter. *%en when Chnstina was 18, she never went anywhere without -*< wanket. When this was tost, Pratt put an advertisement in the local paper, offering a $5,000 reward for its return.

Collage pages from Gordon Prjit's anyuish-fllied memorial to hl» daughter Christina.

Below this harrowing text is yet another: SHE WAS AN INNOCENT CHILD BORN, WHO WENT THROUGH HELL TO GET TO HEAVEN. And belOW this are the tattooed words that pose a haunting question, one Christina asked f\et father on Mother's Day May 10th. 1992,

"DAD, CAN MOM HURT ME ANYMORE?"

Six days eadier. Christina had called her father in hyster­ics. Sobbing over the phone, she implored. "Mom beat me up and then lied about me and then threw me m jai l . Call Doctor Dryfuss. he knows how much mom beats me up and abuses me all the time. Dad, please come and get me. And hurry up. I love you."

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hxt$ Snatched

TATTOOS TELL A STORY OF ABUSE

ABUSE AND DECEPTION As well as abusing her children, Pratfs former wife, now remar­

ried as Carol Spizzirri, has lied about her background. According to Pratt, she lied about having a college education, being trained as a nurse and having a Bachelor of Science in nursing. He also states that she perpetrated a scam on the state of Illinois by set­ting up a not-for-profit organization called the Save a Life Foundation (SALF), whose stated aim was to teach first aid to the nation's children. According to Pratt and a local TV news station, which investigated SALF. President and CEO Spizzirri's credentials are completely bogus.

Scamming the state of Illinois seems mild in comparison to the damage this woman has inflicted on her children and the pain and suffering Pratt has had to endure. In a statement to a court-appoint­ed psychologist in 1985, Spizzirri admitted, "I sometimes sit at my kitchen table and plan out how I can hurt my children, because that is the only way I can hurt their dad. He loves them, but he doesn't love me anymore." The psychologist concluded that Spizzirri was not only a chronic child abuser, but also a pathological liar and a paranoid schizophrenic.

One of the tattoos at the top of Pratt*s back is a painting by Michelangelo, a copy of God creating Adam, from the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel. The figure of God points to an image of Christina, who is rendered as an angel.

THE FINAL CHAPTER Perhaps the saddest chapter of this truly terrible story ended

when, in 1992, Christina's troubled life finally came to an end. Intoxicated and not wearing a seatbelt, she accidentally lost control of her car, rolled it over and was flung onto the road. She died, about an hour later, in the hospital.

Not content with the suffenng she had caused when Christina was alive, Pratt says, "Carol manipulated the circumstances of her daughter's death for financial gain. She falsely claimed," he asserts, "that Christina died on the highway and could have sur­vived, if she had received emergency aid. She then used this bogus claim as a way of boosting funding for the Save a Life Foundation.

Perhaps Christina's haunting question tattooed on Pratt's back—the one which asks, "DAD, CAN MOM HURT ME ANYMORE?"—has now finally and fatally been answered.

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Tattoos Tell a Story of Abuse

SKIN & INK Magazine, October 2007 Text by Tim Coleman Photos by Bernard Clark

Contact: [email protected]

Website: http://www.skinandink.com

There can't be many stranger or sadder tattoos than those adorning the body of Gordon Pratt. The words and pictures depict the terrible saga of a Milwaukee father's grief, the loss of custody of his three daughters and a trail of systematic abuse. Today, only one of the daughters is alive. "Getting tattooed," he says, "was a way to make sure l'd never forget what my children went through - the living and tormenting hell with their mother."

Leafing through the copious, illustrated binders that Pratt sent to SKIN & INK, it's clear that this poor man was driven to the limits of sanity. It is also clear that the child-protection system completely failed.

Channeling the Anger

Despite being repeatedly told by his daughter Christina that her mother and boyfriend were tormenting her, Pratt was unable to intervene, and his wife retained custody. How does a man deal with such agonizing torment and ensuing anger? Pratt's solution was to channel his rage onto his own body, tattooing both his back and chest with images that screamed to the world, "The system has failed me, and you need to know the truth."

In 1968, Pratt married his wife, Carol. It was the worst decision he ever made. During their 13 years of marriage, they had three daughters, Carlotta, Christina and Ciprina. It was only after their divorce in 1981, when the courts awarded Carol custody of the children, that the abuse began. In his many pages of recollections and illustrations, Pratt catalogues the horrors that Carol and her new partner, David, meted out to Christina.

Declaration of Abuse

The terrifying words CHRISTINA WAS ABUSED are tattooed in two-inch letters across the middle of Pratt's back. They are a stark reminder of her years of ordeal. In the middle of the text is a tattooed image of Christina as a child, holding her security blanket. Pratt explains that the image of the blanket refers to another incident of abuse, when Carol locked Christina in a basement. In January 1986, the 12-year-old Christina wrote to him saying, "Dad, because I didn't clean up my room good enough for mom, she has made me sleep in the basement, again. And this time she took out all the bulbs, so I couldn't turn the lights on. She made me sleep in the dark on the cold floor without my blanket."

Pratt explains that, because of the psychological damage endured by his daughter, even when Christina was 18, she never went anywhere without her blanket. When this was lost, Pratt put an advertisement in the paper, offering a $5,000 reward for its return.

Below this harrowing text is yet another: SHE WAS AN INNOCENT CHILD BORN, WHO WENT THROUGH HELL TO GET TO HEAVEN. And below this are the tattooed words that pose a haunting question, one Christina asked her father on Mother's Day May 10th, 1992, "DAD, CAN MOM HURT ME ANYMORE?"

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Six days earlier, Christina had called her father in hysterics. Sobbing over the phone, she implored, "Mom beat me up and then lied about me and then threw me in jail. Call Doctor Dryfuss, he knows how mom beats me up and abuses me all the time. Dad, please come and get me. And hurry up. I love you."

Abuse and Deception

As well as abusing her children, Pratt's former wife, now remarried as Carol Spizzirri, has lied about her background. According to Pratt, she lied about having a college education, being trained as a nurse and having a Bachelor of Science in nursing. He also states that she perpetrated a scam on the state of Illinois by setting up a not-for-profit organization called the Save a Life Foundation (SALF), whose stated aim was to teach first aid to the nation's children. According to Pratt and a local TV news station, which investigated SALF, President and CEO Spizzirri's credentials are completely bogus.

Scamming the state of Illinois seems mild in comparison to the damage this woman has inflicted on her children and the pain and suffering Pratt has had to endure. In a statement to a court-appointed psychologist in 1985, Spizzirri admitted, "I sometimes sit at my kitchen table and plan out how I can hurt my children, because that is the only way I can hurt their dad. He loves them, but he doesn't love me anymore." The psychologist concluded that Spizzirri was not only a chronic child abuser, but also a pathological liar and a paranoid schizophrenic.

One of the tattoos at the top of Pratt's back is a painting by Michelangelo, a copy of God creating Adam, from the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel. The figure of God points to an image of Christina, who is rendered as an angel.

THE FINAL CHAPTER

Perhaps the saddest chapter of this truly terrible story ended when, in 1992, Christina's troubled life finally came to an end. Intoxicated and not wearing a seatbelt, she accidentally lost control of her car, rolled it over and was flung onto the road. She died, about an hour later, in the hospital.

Not content with the suffering she had caused when Christina was alive, Pratt says, "Carol manipulated the circumstances of her daughter's death for financial gain. She falsely claimed," he asserts, "that Christina died on the highway and could have survived, if she had received emergency aid. She then used this bogus claim as a way of boosting funding for the Save a Life Foundation. Perhaps Christina's haunting question tattooed on Pratt's back - the one which asks, "DAD, CAN MOM HURT ME ANYMORE?" - has now finally and fatally been answered.

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