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Featured bride story SA co founder Didi Sullivan
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It is the Bride’s moment…..
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from editor
We’re back on October issue…. Its been a terrific year for all of us! A big Congrats to those who are finally getting hitched, those who are expecting the arrival of their lil’ bubs and to those who are taking a big step towards a brighter future! We’re so excited at this time of the year as we have so many *New things* coming up in store for SA. First things first, getting back our rhythm was our biggest challenge as there were so many obstacles during the making of this issue. Finally its done! Woohoo. And for this month’s issue we’re featuring our very own beautiful Co-Founder Didi & her dashing partner Leigh. Thank you for letting us share your wedding story! It was so inspiring. to share how your love blossomed into a real fairytale Romance! True love does exist it’s just a matter of believing.. Congrats on your 2nd Anniversary ! Having to decide to keep this issue more simple and utmost classy, we would like to introduce our monthly Editor’s Picks, 2013 Wedding Trends and a permanent base for Little Birdie Corner. We’re ecstatic for all the awesome responses from you guys! And now presenting October 2012 issue for you Loyal fans out there. Thank you for all your support ! We love you long time!
Lovely October
S.Salleh Yours Truly
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8 Love Story
18 The Wedding Affair
32 The Wedding
Theme
39 The Wedding Attire
46 The Interview
Features
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6 Editor’s October
Pick
48 Birdie: 9 Ways to
Keep Your Wedding
Organized
50 Instant
Inspirations: 2013
Bridal Gown Trend
Other Stories
Over the last couple of years we’ve seen budgets
tighten, couples become more savvy about their
spending, starting to embrace DIY elements for
their day and move in a more eco-friendly
direction. Therefore it is no surprise that herbs
have started to have a bit of a moment in wedding
planning – a brilliant cheap and easy decorative
idea. –
Herbs like rosemary, thyme, mint and sage makes
a lovely table decor, sweet smelling and can even
double as favours. These herbs are definitely one
coming trends of 2013!.
It has been an ongoing trend these
days to have a rustic or vintage
look when comes to weddings .
Whether its a ceremony or plain pre
wedding shots, barn reception seems
like a perfect idea. Not only does it
showcase a unique visual appeal but
it also gives the feeling of comfort and
intimacy amongst their family/close
ones. These “Going green” concept
also lends a perfect backdrop to
incorporate recycled materials,
organic and rustic elements while
staying very modern and chic.
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What’s Hot & ExcitingFavorite of the month..
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What’s Hot & Exciting
Another hot pick would be the ever fabulous
Ombre cake designs. Ombre’ refers to a gradual
change in one color into another. This is a unique
way to blend your colors together without being
overpowering. On the other hand, ruffles are not
strangers in the wedding cakes industry. The texture
of ruffles creates softness and a romantic feel to
your wedding day. Imagine this, the newest combo
of both; perfectly incorporating both romance and
pop, making a unique fabulous visual appeal for
sweet confectioneries.
This new trend of Invites are those which
comes in a variety of layouts, like magazines,
flyers, books, giving the details of the
celebration in a cute and quirky way,
interspersed with the couple’s love story.
Quite popular recently, these type of
stationery are perfect for those who are into
artsy & fun; less formal kind of weddings.
The Untold Version
Their
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“Everyday
with you is like a gift
from god ”
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“The first time we
hung out as friends, we were already telling each other
our deepest
secrets”
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the Bride Irda Nurhidayah, 29 a pastry lover who
currently runs an online boutique,
co founder of SA and
a mother of a ten month old baby.
Leigh Sullivan, 27, creative mind
with a passion for Muay Thai.
Currently running a fitness
business.
the Groom
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Nazatul Najla Abdul Rahman, 29;
currently working at CMC
Engineering as Account
Director.
“ Falling in love came naturally, and even though with all
the differences that we had, still didn’t stop us
from being together ”
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How I met him is pretty straight forward, we met through our work
place, but how we fell in love, till today its a mystery for me. “I
guess its true what they say, you may not understand it, you
may not believe it, but its fate. Its meant to be.”
The first time we hang out as friends, we could sit down and talked
for hours and tell about each others deepest secrets. The warmth
of his company lightens me up. There was no fear of being judged
or any expectations. And we just clicked right from the start.
Falling in love on the other hand came naturally, and even though
with all the differences that we had, (different religion, background,
culture) still didn’t prevent us from being together.
The Bride’ sStory How did they meet?
how u tricked me to fall for you? :P
Quite an elaborate story but the most romantic angle would have to be
when I first caught my eye of her at work just walking in and sitting down
with a mutual friend at the same table as Didi being able to talk to her as
if we were old school friends. She was never short of a witty comment,
which proved challenging. It wasn't long before I was captivated by her.
After being invited out for a karaoke session with our mutual friends and
being blown away by her beautiful voice, my mind was set. Thinking
how I could get her to go out without looking too sleazy I arranged an
invite for her to help me look for a present for a friend of mine.. (Esther I
have only you to thank for that:D ).
A fashionably late entrance and a not too impressed Didi we set off looking for a gift. After a couple hours
searching through Myers and David Jones we ended up settling with a Jb Hi-fi voucher haha.. Quick to
thinking this was all a ploy to get her out I whisked her off to Jaws sushi bar to dull her senses with an
endless supply of food! After we were full to the brim we chose to relax under the shades of the city park
where we were free to talk about anything and everything...
A few dates later it wasn't long before I started to fall for her and this is just the beginning.....
The Groom’s Story
After a year being with each other, we decided to take our relationship to the next level. He came down to
Malaysia for a visit and asked my parents blessings for my hand in marriage before proposing.
After the short trip, we went back to Perth, then on a beautiful Sunday, he surprised me with an elaborate
plan, where he left clues all over our favourite spots (like a treasure hunt) and at the end of the hunt,
there he was waiting for me at a lake with a ring and a marriage proposal. The rest is history <3 (Checkout the proposal video)
“ After being blown away by her beautiful
voice, my mind was set.. ”
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The Events I had 4 events for my wedding,,
The solemnization & The home reception was
held at my Parents house in Damansara
Heights., whereas the tea ceremony and a dinner
reception was held at Sime Darby Convention
Centre. When: 2nd Oct 2010
Where: D’sara Heights (Bride’s Home)
Theme: Roses
Dulang count: 9 his & 7 hers
Flowers: The oversized coral/ tangerine roses
with greenery around it.
Dais: by Flora Etc
Traditional Act: Majlis Merenjis ,Menepung Air
Tawar (Act of Blessings to the
Newlyweds), Majlis Memotong Pulut
Kuning & Adat Menyuap (Cutting
Traditional Yellow Glutinous rice) Makan
Beradab, Ambo Ambo (The Act of throwing
sweets & coins
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I t sure did feel
like I was on
top of the
world..”
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The Moments The morning of my Nikah,
honestly; I wasn't that
nervous or emotional at all, in
fact I was more eager to see
Leigh because we haven't
seen each other for over 2
weeks.
When the moment arrives, as
I walked towards the lovely
dais, I couldn't stop smiling
when I saw a glimpse of
Leigh. I said to myself,
“Wow..Leigh looked so
handsome in white baju
melayu” and there i was as
giddy as ever .
Everything on that day was
perfect; peaceful and happy
just as I imagined as it should
be. Most importantly, I am
happiest that all my close
family and friends were
present on my special day.
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And my
favorite
Candid
moment would be when They
declared “Sah“ after
the solemnization. I
was beaming with
excitement and
couldn't hold my
giggles any longer...
My sister was saying
I was showing to
much (a bride has to
be prim & proper),
that my mom had to
give me “the Relax
Look"
But at the time, my
feelings were
indescribable.. Hehe
how can i relax? It
sure did feel like I
was on top of the
world!
It’s all about her desire…
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The Untold Story
The Makings of Oversized Flowers It was a busy year as my sister just got married in March, so we had plenty of time till my wedding which was
in October. So in the meantime we decided to keep on researching on ideas for themes and designs.
Zuriee, our project manager, often corresponded some ideas through email, and when he was ready with his
design proposals, we set up a meeting to have a peek on this ideas. June came and honestly it wasn't what I
expected. I wanted something fresh and something that intrigues me all the way. Then, my mom came up
with a brilliant idea, she said she wanted to see huge flowers on dais/decor!
In the beginning Zuriee looked puzzled, silently he was figuring out
how to do execute such an idea. He asked us to give him a week to
discuss it with Razak on how to make the idea into reality. As promised,
one week later, he came back with a new proposed design. Only this time
with the oversized roses as the main concept.
The moment Zuriee showed me the new design, I was over the moon....
Instantly I knew that was it. And amazingly this is how oversized flowers
on dais designs was born.. and till this day, oversized flowers on dais are still famously used on thousands of
weddings.
Even though I
had a wedding
planner, I was
still involved in
every aspect
of the events.
During our
planning
stage, some
choices (Eg
venue etc)
was decided
by my parents,
however
overall we still
made sure
that we had a
touch of our
personalities
embedded into
the wedding.
Their
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Their
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Home Reception
Their Home Reception was
held after the Solemnization
Ceremony at the bride’s
home. My father wanted to
host the event to last a
whole day to allow our
guests & relatives from
Johor to come and
celebrate our marriage.
We had a typical Johorian
tradional ceremony. Where
when the groom arrives at
the bride’s house entrance,
he had to go through
several tollbooths (was set
up by the bride’s family
members) , where he either
had to answer questions or
he needs to present money
packets to get through the
them. It was memorable &
fun. In the end, he gets to
meet and sit next to the
bride at the dais.
We also had Merenjis
ceremony, where the elders
in the family give their
blessings to the young
couple ;Cutting Traditional
Yellow Glutinous rice cake
and Ambo ambo; where all
young guests & children
gathered to the middle and
then the bride and groom
throws sweets and coins.
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Their
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The Untold Version
Their
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When: 3rd October 2010
Where: Sime Darby
Convention Centre
Theme: Roses
Reception Attire: by
Phillip
Hair & makeup:
Deq’ Sha
Flowers: Purple
hydrangeas, oversized
deep purple roses,
purple blooms
Dais:: Flora Etc
Entertainment: Cultural
dances,
performance sang
by my friend, and
wedding singer
Doorgifts: Maxwell
Williams Floral
mugs with Pindang
Eggs inside..
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“ Most
Importantly
it was
one Affair
to Remember ”
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The Untold Version
Their
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Since our wedding was based on roses,.For the reception we wanted to create an elegant twist by
incorporating the oversize roses. The dais & the hall entrance were decorated with oversize deep purple
roses, with coloured blooms surrounding it..
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The Photographer: Ministry of Moment was
my photographer for our entire wedding event. At that
time they were fairly new and they were
recommended by my sister.
The Videographer Mafizam from The
StoryTeller was our video person. They did our
wedding video beautifully capturing every essence of
our special moments.
The Entertainment we had cultural
dances. Also there was performance sang by my
friend Adni, and Anne as the wedding singer.
Their
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The Concept Overall my theme would be
Roses. From my dais, door gifts,
dresses to my jewellery – all has
a touch of roses.
For the Nikah, I wanted to have
green surroundings with a splash
of colours. So my dais had coral/
tangerine roses with greenery
around it.
The Nikah Event – The Rise of Big Flowers
Dulang Girls Attire: The
material was custom-made by batik
Dimas, where the common colours
was green and purple, but the pattern
was one of a kind.
Door gift: “We wanted to give
something that our guest can use and
not as a decor purpose”, One day by
chance i saw a Maxwell Williams
printed roses mugs at Bangsar Village
and that was it, we found our perfect
door gift
The hantaran: The bride gave 9
trays including, an ipad, wedding ring,
Prayer mat, Cupcake with red roses
fondant icing (to match the wedding
theme) ,a watch and cufflinks, shoes,
etc
The groom reciprocated with 7 trays
with roses, gifts includes shoes,
wedding ring, jewellery, dowry money,
Prayer attire etc.
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A moment for inspiration www.InspirasiSongketAffairs.com
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The Untold Version
Their
Our family designer did 3 of my wedding attire, which I am
very happy of the end result. They were all absolutely
stunning- all three were beautifully adorned with such delicate
details, each symbolizes its own brilliance for my wedding
concept!.
For the Solemnization, I had a specific design in mind, but for
the home reception and the SDCC reception, Phillip came up
with some ideas and we worked through those ideas with
adding some of my own ideas.
The Concept
The Nikah attire was the hardest amongst
all because I wanted to look elegant,
simple yet conservative. I went through so
many magazines looking for ideas. Finally, I
went with a Modern Kurung with extended
length of the top and layers on the bottom.
Phillip the designer added speckles of
crystals and pearls on my kurung top and a
touch of rosettes on the bottom of my
kurung skirt. For my veil, Phillip made a
long veil that is non see through at the top
and netted at the bottom.
My Nikah Outfit
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wedding ring, Prayer mat, Cupcake with red roses fondant icing
did my makeup for all my wedding events. For
My Henna: My innai was designed especially
for me since the lady who drew it for me is a
good friend of my auntie Venni.
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Shoes: I wanted to wear a colour other than white,
so I wore a peach/coral hued open toe sandal with
platform, T-strap with flower detail to match my
roses theme.
Jewelry: I wore my mothers pearls as I
envisioned pearls to be elegant. The pearl earrings
and ring had a flowery design to match my theme.
Groom’s Songket: The design of Leigh’s
songket was specially customed- made by Batik
Dimas and the colour chosen was to match the
coral/ tangerine feel.
Makeup: Deq Sha did my makeup for all my
wedding events. For Nikah, we went for a side
sweep hair arrangement with a soft makeup look.
For the Home Reception, I wore a modern
Kebaya with rose petals as the motif of the
material. The intricate beadwork & crystals on
the kebaya were hand sewn by Philip, which
took him 7 months to finish the whole attire.
Jewelry: I wore am emerald set
Hair accessories: I wanted a simple do, so
Deq Sha made up a side bun and decorated it
with a simple crystal sanggul together with
some fresh roses on my hair.
Shoes: I wore a beautiful vintage open toe
black with gold trimmings shoes from Perth.
HerSanding Outfit
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Every bead, and the Swarovski
crystals ,were all hand made &
sewn by Phillip, our designer.
For my reception, I wore an off
white, long sleeve fine Chantilly
lace mermaid gown with organza
pleated bodice and a sweetheart
neckline adorned with delicate
crystals & beadwork and oversize
rosettes at the bottom of my
layered clouds of tulle skirt.
Jewellery: My dress was full with
extensive beadwork & rosettes,
so I opt for simple diamond
necklace tiara and bracelet. I
paired them with diamond pearl
drop earrings, added with an
oversize diamond rose ring to
match my wedding theme.
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My Reception Outfit
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Leigh had his suit custom- made in Perth and his
silverish vest was made by our designer, Philip.
His Reception Outfit
Shoes : I am ecstatic i get to wear the shoes
that were given to me by Leigh from the
hantaran. It was a silverish metallic pumps by
Jimmy Choo
Wedding Party Attire: My sisters & my
mom attire were also made by Philip.
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1) If you could go back in time, what
would you do over at your wedding?
Wouldn't change a thing.
2)When planning your wedding, what was
your biggest obstacle?
We didnt have any big obstacles,. It must be, because we have plenty of time to plan and we slowly did many things ourselves .(eg. Door gift, ambo ambo items)
3) Who would you say that gave you the
biggest support & help throughout your
toughest time as a bride to be?
My husband and my family
4) Any words of wisdoms to Brides to be
out there?
Brides, plan ahead to avoid panicking at the last minute. Other than that, do a lot of research, follow @Songketaffairs for more inspirations
5). Any word of wisdoms to the Vendors
in the wedding industry
Treat all customers equally. & do not discriminate. Whether they are rich, royalty or plain jane, I believe they are still a paying customer. We all deserve equal treatment and respect.
with Didi & Leigh
You’re so excited on your engagement news you barely feel your feet on the ground. Suddenly, there is an overwhelming emotions flooding your mind. With so many things to do, you barely have time to focus. Relax.. Wedding planning doesn't have to be as hectic as one thought. To plan well, the bride has to be centered and sane. Here are these Simple easy tips for you to stay on track as you plan your big day so that you don't end up being the Godzilla of Bridezillas.
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Lil Birdie Corner: Planning Your Wedding,..
Internet research is the perfect way to save tons of money from
wedding magazine obsession There is so many websites
currently provide inspiration source for your wedding planning.
Follow our Songket Affairs Blog to get more inspiration on wedding gowns, themes , DIY tips etc.
4. Utilize Sources of inspiration
If there is any time in your life to pick up a habit, the time is now. Checklists, to-do lists, electronic lists, and
written lists… any of them should become a part of your wedding planning ritual. Not only it will keep you
on track, but you will want to reference, rank what’s important, & use them as late night reminders.
For a start , you may download Wedding Check List here
Budget budget budget. Brides on a MAJOR budget need to keep track of your expenses and payments as
major part of the planning process. If you are lucky enough to have a family member helping you
financially, pretty sure they will definitely appreciate your attention to detail when it comes to their
dime. Money can be one of the biggest worries of your otherwise stress-free experience,. Download
these samples from WeddingWire and The Knot for similar budgeting options.
There are many books about staying organized that have pockets, but the best would be separate folders
to keep you most organized. Have one folder that you can add initial ideas, pictures and inspiration. Also
additional pockets for vendor contracts signed or receipts of payments. On that note, keep copies of everything you sign and all payments you make.
3. FOLDERS ARE YOUR FRIENDS
2. Embrace an Excel Sheet
Your Wedding
Take note that Planning a wedding is not a solo project. Although
ultimately the day is all about you, but there is no reason you should
keep your planning a secret . It is healthy to bounce ideas off rather
than internalizing your worries and having haunting nightmares about
them. Ask a friend who had recently tied the knot as your sound
board. Knowing she had been there, done that and it made sense to
have her expertise and advice on an otherwise unfamiliar experience.
For those weddings on budget, hiring a wedding coordinator is definitely
out of the question .However, as your big day comes, there will be little
things that you will be anxious about.
Hiring a day-of-coordinator can help you solve problems .Eg: A
coordinator will take care the day event’s mishap . Just be sure you
delegate tasks and prep them well prior your wedding to keep it running
smoothly.
It is so important to set a time limit on your wedding agenda where you
take a step back and focus on other aspects of your life. Your busy
wedding schedule can afford a night off where you keep in touch
with those you love. Letting your life be overshadowed by wedding
planning is a disastrous aisle to walk down (no pun intended).
Just because you’re too busy with cake flavors and table décor, doesn't
mean you can neglect your gym schedule. Make sure you schedule in
your work outs just like you do your wedding appointments. This is
important for your overall health. Do try the 6 month fitness makeover by
The Knot.
7. Turn the Wedding Switch Off
8. Your Health and Wedding Plans should go Hand-in-Hand So brides, organizing your
Big day is a key to a beautiful, well thought out day but it is also the most important way to be a glowing stress-free bride from beginning to end.
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For every time you stay insanely organized throughout your wedding
planning, give yourself a Pat on the back. Do sign up for a well-
deserved pampering. Spa with the gfs or “me” time to squeeze into
that busy schedule of yours.
Note that, a relax session will leave you feeling great and looking
radiant on your big day. If you are finding it difficult to save room for other
activities besides wedding planning it may be necessary to re-evaluate
your schedule.
9. Remember yourself
Outside of your Wedding Planning
6. Hire a Day off coordinator
Little Birdie
Trend
2. Gatsby Inspired Veils Reem Arca Fall 2013 show was a flurry of Old
World elegance, glamorous beadwork, and rich,
heavyweight lace, which features the look
inspiration from the Great Gatsby 40s era...
2013
Bringing you the latest & newest collection from Oct 2012
runway from #Bridal Fashion Week Oct 2012 in NYC.
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Highlights of this season , metallic & gold succeed
in bringing on the demure glamour look on the
runway. Alfred Angelo collection delivered the
princess glamour, with plenty of beading, lace, and
organza.
A new emerging trend came into town, Vera
Wang never cease to amaze us with her
ethereal elegance. This time, Vera's newest
collection boasting bridal's original color palette
and yet still pushing the boundaries of tradition
featuring modern corset bodices, waterfalls of
ruffles, and statement-making tulle adornments.
Floral embellishments and appliqués has
always been designers favourites. Many
designers inclduidng JLM Couture, Badgley
Mischka this season eponymous bridal
collection are more inspired by a mixture of
1940s and '50s couture, antique gowns,
and nature. Floral details—like oversize
satin petals and beadwork—pepper many
of the looks, including a glossy, full-skirted
trumpet d delicate gown ideal for ballroom
weddings
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6. Old Hollywood Glam Another top highlights of the runways were Jenny
Packham and her modern-vintage aesthetic
collection, inspired by the leading ladies of Old
Hollywood Glamour during 1930s such as of
Vivienne Leigh & Bette Davis. The shoulder details,
which featured sleeves embellished with lace,
rhinestones, or both brilliantly made by ethereal
chiffon, French lace, and antique metallic crystals.
A true inspiration from the heavens for their Fall
2013 bridal collection, Badgley Mischka named
their16-piece ensemble gowns after zodiac
symbols, planets and the Greek alphabet.
Amongst the talk of the night would be
"Mercury.”, crystal beading on a silk chiffon
mermaid gown.
4. GRECIAN INSPIRED