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Temple Beth O’r/Beth Torah
ADAR I / ADAR II 5774 MARCH 2014
SOL SERN MEMORIAL PROGRAM
METROPOLITAN KLEZMER in concert
SUNDAY, MARCH 30, 2014 AT 4:00 PM
METROPOLITAN KLEZMER , established in 1994, brings eclectic exuberance to Yiddish musical
genres from all over the map. Performing vibrant versions of lesser-known gems from wedding dance,
trance, folk, swing and tango styles, they re-invent tradition with both irreverence and respect… an
exhilarating journey!
The program is co-sponsored by a HEART Grant from the Union County Freeholders and
by the TBO/BT Sol Sern Memorial Fund.
Free & open to the public.
Refreshments will be offered.
“EXCELLENT KLEZMER…IMPECCABLE YET ELECTRIFYING
arrangements … Delightfully rambunctious…”
Richard Gehr, Village Voice
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From the Cantor
It was a wonderful experience
spending time in Israel in
February as part of a clergy
mission sponsored by the
Jewish Federation of Greater
MetroWest, the World Zionist
Organization and the Israeli
Foreign Ministry. We had an
opportunity to meet with
representatives of various
branches of the Israeli government, including members
of the Knesset, the Supreme Court, and advisors to the
Prime Minister. The subjects discussed in the meetings
covered Israel-Diaspora relations, reclaiming Zionism in
our day, and matters relating to religious pluralism. In
the security area, we were briefed on the BDS
movement, Iran, and the current talks with the
Palestinians.
We also had an opportunity to see first-hand the work of
our Federation. We traveled to Kibbutz Erez near the
border with Gaza to see the bomb shelters our
community’s funds helped to refurbish, and the library
we helped build. We met with religious leaders of the
Ethiopian community we help support and to hear their
concerns and the challenges of integrating into Israeli
society. We visited a program that prepares Modern
Orthodox girls in the year prior to their joining Tzahal,
the Israeli Defense Forces. All of these are most
worthwhile projects, and it was gratifying to see the
results of the MertoWest community’s efforts on behalf
of Israeli society.
The Conservative clergy on the mission had the
opportunity to meet with the leaders of the Schechter
Institute and with representatives of the Masorti
movement. Of special note was our meeting with
Masorti Rabbi Reuven Stamov and his wife Lena who
were just about to return to Kiev. We pray for their
safety and for the well-being of the entire Jewish
community in the Ukraine.
But aside from all of the meetings and travel, this trip
was for me in large measure about reconnecting with the
land and its people. It has been a good number of years
since my last trip. Much has changed -- Israel is today a
much more modern and developed nation. The skyline
of Tel Aviv reflects the growth and strength of its
economy. There is an impressive new light rail that
connects the different neighborhoods of Jerusalem.
There is a diversity of the population reflecting
immigration from the four corners of the earth,
somehow all melded into one society, which yes, has
its dificulties and unsolved problems, but that is in a
very clear way a most vibrant society.
Most important, these are our brothers and sisters, and
it so behooves us to support them in every way we can
--just as they support us. A common theme of our
meetings and one emphasized by Natan Sharansky in
the time we shared with him was this sense of
partnership that needs to evolve. Israelis no longer see
themselves as merely the beneficiaries of our largesse.
They are rather our partners in dealing with all of the
issues we face as Jews. For example, as was pointed
out to us by government officials, it is Israel that has
taken the lead in confronting those in Europe who
seek to ban circumcision and shechita on the
continent.
There were many memorable moments during my trip.
What stands out as most special? Was it the trip up to
Mount Herzl and the new, creative exhibit on the
history of Zionism? Was it the meeting with young
people trying to bring renewal and diversity to the
neighborhoods of Jerusalem? Or was it the Friday
evening I spent at the Kotel with Israeli soldiers, and
the invitation from an incredible individual to have
Shabbat dinner at his magnificent home in the old
Jewish Quarter. There were many magical moments,
and over time I hope to share them with you. For
now, I am happy to be back in Clark with my TBOBT
community. But a part of me will surely remain in
the Holy Land of our ancestors….
B’Shalom,
Cantor Steven Stern
Save the Date!
LUNCH & LEARN
Saturday, March 1
after services
How to Build Strength
and Balance in 2014
with a guest fitness
expert.
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From The President
Shalom,
I hope you are well and can’t
wait for spring to get here.
Please, no more of that white
stuff or cold temperatures.
My message this month is
simple. What we miss at our
wonderful Temple Beth Or-Beth
Torah is you. We realize the
weather has not been very cooperative, but, services
still go on. My hope is that you can come and enjoy
our relaxed Friday Night Shabbat Service or our very
enjoyable Saturday Morning Shabbat Service. Of
course, please come to Sunday morning Minyan and
our weekday Minyans when you can.
More great programs are coming up this month, please
attend them also. Remember, we are here for you.
Sincerely,
Howard M. Silverman, President
Combined Morning Minyan In the month of March minyan will be held in
Clark.
Monday & Thursday – 6:50 am; Tuesday, Wed.,
& Friday – 7:00 am;
Sundays & Holidays - 9:00 am in Clark.
Evening services are held every day at 7:30
pm in Cranford.
Richard & Ann Curtis Sheldon & Jane Halper
Herbert & Janice Hymanson Arthur & Felella Millman Jonathan & Janie Phillips
Happy Anniversary!
March
Gene Berry
Karen Bess
Sammy Burkhard
Alexander Cherenkov
Sheri Freedman
Mark Genser
Adeline Gesten
Arthur Gesten
Paula Hymanson
Edward Leibowitz
Scott Leibowitz
Edward Miretskiy
Barry Orange
Toby Prince
Harold Rochman
Michelle Rochman
Marvin Rubinstein
Lowell Scher
Eric Seidman
Liya Tager
Eugene Tendler
Myrna Young
H a p p y B i r t h d a y !
What’s Up for Shabbat in March? Lunch & Learn - Saturday, March 1 after services
Dress Down Shabbat— Come casual for our Shabbat
services on Friday and Saturday, March 7 & 8.
Simcha Shabbat—We will celebrate all birthdays and
anniversaries in the month of March on Saturday,
March 29. Come for a blessing and share your simcha
with your TBO/BT family!
SCHOLARSHIP APPLICATIONS
Applications for 2014 Scholarships are
available in the temple office or can be
emailed upon request.
Deadline is April 15.
BOOK DISCUSSION Sunday, March 9, 10 am
The View From Penthouse B By Eleanor Lipman
COMING SOON
TBO/BT’S NEW
WEBSITE.
STAY TUNED!
CONGREGATION MEETING MONDAY, MARCH 24 AT 7:30 PM
BUDGET FOR 2014-2015 FISCALL YEAR
WILL BE PRESENTED.
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Judaica Shop News
You may have noticed the display case
has been empty. That is because one of
the glass panels broke in late January
and the case cannot be secured without all four panels.
It should be fixed sometime in mid-February.
We have just received two copies of “Welcome to the
World: A Jewish Baby’s Record Book.” They are $25
each. Watch for them in the display case.
If you want something you don’t see, chances are we
have it! Call or email Nancy Kelner – 908-272-9072
SISTERHOOD PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE
Although we've had a very snowy
winter, Sisterhood has not slowed
down. March is always a busy
month with Purim. On Wednesday,
March 12th at 7:30pm we will be
putting together shalach manos
baskets at the temple. We can
always use some extra people. It
only takes an hour or so of your time. Meanwhile, get your
orders mailed to Helene Davis by March 7th.
Then on Wednesday, March 19th at 7pm, we are continuing
with crochet lessons at Audrey Silverman's home. Whether
you are a true beginner or a veteran, come for a good cause
and for fun. It is best to bring a G Hook and soft acrylic
yarn. We hope to make enough baby caps to send to local
hospitals.
Finally, on Sunday, March 30th is Women's League Spring
Conference at Congregation Ahavat Olam in Howell from
8:30am to 3pm. Again, Sisterhood will subsidize those
who attend at half the cost. So the whole day will set you
back just $15. If you are interested in going please call me
by March 15th. We will carpool to Howell. You will be
back to Clark in time for the Sol Sern Program with the
Metropolitan Klezmer at 4pm.
Well, Spring arrives later this month, so I expect to see
many of you at these programs!
Chag Purim!!
Joleen Fridson
Vouchers: ShopRite and A&P vouchers are available at Sisterhood functions, and in the temple office.
Golden Books
MAZEL TOV:
To: Debbie & Arthur Freedman on their 50th wedding
anniversary
From: Gitta Harel
CONDOLENCES:
To: Linda Axelrad on the passing of her mother Hilde
Moses
From: Gloria Sern
Special Fund Donations to Special Fund can be made for any occasion for a minimum donation of $5.00. You will receive 100% donor credit. To send a beautiful Special Fund card call: Gene Berry (732-388-3453).
Golden Books To send a Golden Book for any occasion, call: Joan Oberman (732-381-4322) Evie Shulman (908-276-6894) Betty Needleman (908-389-0911). Cards are sent for $3.00 and you will receive $1.50 donor credit, or pick up a pack of 10 cards for $20.00 with $15.00 donor credit and send them yourself. They can be picked up from the office. Please send checks to Esther Schlesinger (9 Pine Ridge Dr., Edison, NJ 08820) or call (732) 548-7132 for the amount owed.
INCOME TAX INFORMATION
Sisterhood makes a 5% profit on all ShopRite and A&P
vouchers sold. Therefore you are entitled to claim that 5%
as a charitable deduction on your income tax. If you are
not sure how much donor credit (also 5%) you have
received for vouchers, please contact Esther Schlesinger
(732-548-7132).
Sisterhood is continuing its Crochet
Lessons on Wednesday, March 19 at
7pm at Audrey Silverman's home.
Beginners or experienced are welcome. Bring a G Hook and soft acrylic. Remember, we are making caps for
newborns!
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Stay in the Loop!
Keep up with all our
events by email. Contact
the office if you are not currently on
our email list.
Cost: $5 per ticket Tickets available at the temple office, from Judy
Hurok, 908-654-4448, at Sisterhood Build a
Basket meeting and at Purim Megillah reading.
You will receive:
Two 25% off coupons on one regular or sale-
priced item.
15% off savings pass on regular and sale items
storewide including cosmetics and
fragrances. Save an extra 10% on top of other savings
when you use your Lord & Taylor card.
The Temple Beth O'r/Beth Torah Graduation Shabbat
will be held on Saturday, June 7th.
All those that are graduating from middle school, high school, college, trade
school, graduate school and medical
school are invited to participate.
Both Hebrew & English parts will be
available.
Festive Kiddush to follow services.
If you have a family member that is graduating this year, please contact Claudia Dorsch at 908.756.0779 or
[email protected] by April 1st.
Your participation will be greatly
appreciated.
School Days The joint Yaldeinu and Hebrew Class meeting had a wonderful celebration for Tu B'Shevat. The morning began with a
very interactive Seder with the text exploring the celebration of the holiday, some thought provoking questions for
discussion, as well as the meaning of the special foods at the Seder and why we eat them. All this was led by teacher
Michelle Pincus.
Following the Seder, Dr. Mike Miller, our Temple Resident Scientist, along with aide Harvin Freedman, came well
prepared to engage the children in creating two compost projects, one with potential biodegradable products and one with
potentially non-biodegradable products. Each group consisted of a pair of siblings. Towards the later part of the class
the parents joined the group and enjoyed watching the enthusiasm of everyone present. They helped their children exit
with their projects to take home to observe their compost experiment and they will report back with their findings.
On Sunday, February 2nd, our students again joined the Men's Club for the World Wide Wrap. Dr. Mike planned for the
students to have their own tefillin and participate in the experience with the men of our congregation, with Michael
Goldstein leading the explanation.
We both would like to thank the Men's Club and particularly Dr. Mike for their interest and time and effort to include our
students and parents in their activities, from the participation of the parents in raising the Sukkah as well as dismantling
it, and having a class in the Sukkah early in the year, to our late January and early February activities. It is so good to see
different arms of the Temple with the students in intergenerational times together.
We also thank the Cantor for his continual time and effort.
Elaine & Thelma
Sisterhood invites you to purchase a ticket for
the Do Good Fundraising Event at the
Westfield Lord & Taylor
on Tuesday, April 29, 9 am –11 pm
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FROM CANTOR’S TRIP TO ISRAEL
“The Shuk” in Jerusalem
With cousin Meir in Tel Aviv A yarmulka anyone?
With Ethiopian religious leaders in Rishon LeZion
Helping Scott Newman skype between
Jerusalem youth and his students in
Newark
“Will you marry me?”
A marriage proposal overlooking
the Western Wall
An open air concert on the
streets of Tel Aviv
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Saturday evening, March 15
Join us for A delightful light dairy Pasta Dinner at 6:30 pm
Megillah Reading and Costume Parade at 7:30 pm
Ice Cream Social
RSVP for the Dinner to the temple office by Monday, March 10.
6th Annual Supermarket Sweep FOODRAISER
Sunday March 9, 2014 to benefit the Kosher Food Pantries of Greater MetroWest
JFS Kosher Pantry in Elizabeth & Bobrow Kosher Pantry of Oheb
Shalom in South Orange
LOGISTICS:
You come to shop at ShopRite in Clark, between 2 and 4 pm, first proceeding to the SMS registration desk at the
front of the store
You register [$5 team- made of individuals or group of people] and pick up a registration packet
You shop for the items listed in the packet with the acceptable heckshers [kosher symbols]
You spend as much or as little as fits your pocket
You go through the designated checkout lanes. You are handed two receipts 1) is for your tax records 2) is for the
organizers who will record your savings [if you are participating in the contest]
You take your bags of donated groceries to either the kosher food pantry in Elizabeth or South Orange [directions
will be in your registration packet]
At 4:30pm each food pantry will throw a celebration party for all participants and at the same time you can stock
the pantry shelves
WHAT MAKES THIS FUN?
The contest for who has the highest percentage in savings [best to use coupons and the store circular]- Prizes are
awarded
In order to participate you must purchase at least 10 different items from the list
All the food tasting in the store that afternoon is of kosher products
Everyone participating in SMS who is in the store is wearing a bright yellow nametag that lets you know you are
among other SMS shoppers
The energy and knowing you are doing a big mitzvah!
Visit JFedgmw.org for more information.
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From the Men’s Club President
through the use of the FJMC ‘build a box program’,
making a set of tefilin boxes with straps. The WWW
program was followed by the traditional breakfast in the
youth lounge.
As a reminder for your calendar, Men’s Club Shabbat is
Saturday, May 3, 2014. Call Dr. Michael W. Miller for
an English or Hebrew reading.
And remember, our Special Adults Program is being run
one Shabbat each month. If you are able to, please
volunteer to drive at least once during the year. Thank
you.
Respectfully submitted by,
Michael F. Goldstein
President, Men’s Club
Our membership drive continues. Watch the mail for your copy
if your dues have not been paid for 2013-2014. Paid-up
membership event will be Wednesday, April 30, 2014.
March 2014 is upon us and that means Purim and Pesach are not
far off. Also, spring will blossom soon and hopefully, all the
snow we have had this winter will melt and fill our fresh water
reservoirs. Can summer be far behind? Let’s not be in such a
rush. I still remember a snow storm on March 20, 1967, the day I
took my driving test with seven inches of snow on the test
course. Yes, I passed. And how about the April 1 snow storm
that dumped a foot of snow? We will see what spring will have
for us.
On Sunday, February 2, 2014, our annual WORLD WIDE
WRAP program had 15 participants. We were a small but
enthusiastic group. Watch the Men’ Club bulletin board for
pictures. Our children participated by learning about tefillin
TBO-BT Men’s Club SHOMREI HA’ARETZ/ STEWARDS OF THE LAND
G-d told Adam in the Garden of Eden to guard the world he was being given. “If you destroy this world ,” he was told,
“there is no one to come and set it right after you.” (Kohelet Rabbah 7:28) This mitzvah should be the call that TBO-BT
cannot ignore.
The environment is the world we live in, the city and the countryside; the air we breathe indoors and outdoors; and human
beings, alongside other animals. In Hebrew, the word for ”human” (adam) comes from the word for ”earth” (adamah). As
human population increases and technology becomes more pervasive, our impact on the natural world has
increased. Conservation and efficiency are two of the least expensive and simplest sources of energy. Conservation means
using less energy--driving less, turning off lights and equipment not in use, lowering the heat two and raising the air
conditioning two degrees. Efficiency is using less energy to do what you are currently doing, a car that uses less gas going
the same distance, or a light bulb that uses less electricity and lasts longer.
Recycle paper, cardboard, glass and plastic bottles and aluminum. Purchase products made from at least 40% post-consumer
recyclables. Purim is coming. For Mishloach Manot use wrapping paper and containers made form recyclables. Sending
organic food reduces the contamination of the land and water.
Michael W. Miller
Coming soon! March Chapter Events: March 15th—Be part of the TBOBT Purim festivities! Dinner, Megillah Reading, Ice Cream Sundaes and more. Costumes recommended. March 23rd—Game Day rescheduled from 2/23. 1:00-4:00 PM. Home of Steven L. Contact Ilana D. for more details and to RSVP. Bring a canned or dried food to be donated to the NJ Jewish Food Pantry. March Regional Events:
Hagalil Jr./Sr. Prom - March 1st in Scotch Plains. It’s going to be a fabulous evening!
Hagalil Membership Dance—March 8th in Paramus from 8:30-11:30 PM. Followed by an optional Lock-in in Metuchen. Busing available
from Metuchen.
Inter-Chapter Event: Morris Plains USY Bar/Bat Mitzvah Dance Party on March 22nd. 8:30-11:00 PM.
Action required: Clear your calendars now for Spring Convention—May 16th—18th. Note it will be held in May this year.
Looking Ahead! April 26th—USY Spring Dance in Aberdeen. April 27th—USY Battle of the Classes.
Kadima Happenings: Spring Convention—March 21st to 23rd. Roll-A-Rama—April 27th CHECK IT OUT: If you have a Jewish friend who isn’t a USY member, but wants to check us out—let ‘em come to any chapter program! We can’t wait to meet them.
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Thank you
Lorraine & Milt Loshin thank all their friends at
TBO/BT. Your good wishes for his speedy recovery
are greatly appreciated.
Alan Rubin and Mindy & Edward Leibowitz would
like to express their appreciation for the good wishes
on the birth of their grandson/great grandson Jasper
Simon.
Thank you to our TBO/BT family for all your cards,
calls and best wishes for Leon’s speedy recovery.
Leon & Joan Oberman
Cantor’s Discretionary Fund
Carla & Michael Rockliff in appreciation
General Fund
Gitta Harel in honor of Jack Weinshanker’s 80th birthday
Arlene & Mel Duchin in honor of Jack Weinshanker’s 80th birthday
Freida & Leonard Posnock in memory of Noriel Hovevey-Zion, father of Koresh Sion
Alan Rubin and Mindy & Edward Leibowitz in appreciation for the good wishes on the birth of their grandson/great grandson Jasper Simon.
Doris Dresdale, in honor of Leon Oberman, wishing him speedy recovery
Judy Cohen in memory of her mother Sylvia Lipson
Minyan Breakfast Fund
Ruth Dengrove in memory of Esther Dengrove
Sol Sern Memorial Fund
Marcy & David Sussman in memory of Sol Sern
School Fund
Thelma Purdy in memory of Esther Kahn
Yahrzeit Fund
ONEGS & KIDDUSHES SPONSORED BY:
Congregation, Sisterhood,
We gratefully acknowledge the following donations made to
TBO/BT during the month of February
( To make a donation in memory of a loved one or in honor of a special occasion, call or email the temple office.)
The TBO/BT Family extends Mazel Tov to:
Ruth & Bernie Burkhoff on the engagement of their granddaughter Sarah Rothenberg to Evan Schonfeld
Soleiman Kashanian on the birth of his granddaughter Madison Leila
The TBO/BT Family expresses condoleces to:
Linda Axelrad on the passing of her mother Hilde Moses
Donated By In Memory of
Sylvia Cohen Ella Harris
Adeline Gesten Louis Geldzahler
Dr. Michael & Suzanne
Miller
Emma Miller
Herbert Hymanson Selma Hymanson
Dr. Dennis Turner Edythe Turner
Esther Rubinstein Sara Gutwilig
Michael Saks Charlotte Saks
Margaret Bank Chaim Kirzhnerman
Linda Sprung Morris Weinstein
Paula Hymanson Louis Diamond
Evelyn Shulman Helen Shulman
Dr. Eugene Tendler Max Tendler
Naomi Silbert Manus Coen
Alan Coen Manus Coen
Laurie Saks Mildred Sansolo
Marilyn Weinstein Ida Plotkin
Edward Miretskiy Nassel Miretski
Leonard Posnock Lillian & Benjamin Posnock
Freida Posnock Ralph & Etta Pressner
Bess Berg Minnie Melnick
Dr. Eugene Tendler Rose Tendler
Judith Hurok Esther Burden
Steven Hurok Clara Hurok
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GAME SHOW GALA Sunday, May 4 at 5PM
Come see and participate in one of your favorite game shows.
Cheer for your favorite contestant!
Prizes to all winners!
Light dinner and dessert
Cost: members $28, non-members $33; children under 12 $10
TBO
BT
RSVP by April 27 to Evie 908-276-6894, Audrey 732-499-0439,
temple office 732-381-8403 x11.
SIMPLY BARBARA Sunday, June 29 at 5PM
Come hear your favorite Streisand songs presented by
THE MULTIPLE AWARD WINNING TRIBUTE ARTIST
CARLA DEL VILLAGGIO
Carla has entertained audiences across the country from Miami
to Las Vegas to NY. An evening not to be missed.
Includes hot buffet dinner and dessert • Evening also includes a fabulous silent auction
Cost: members $30, non-members $35
SPONORSHIP AVAILABE FOR $180.00'
INCLUDES TWO TICKETS, BOTTLE OF WINE AND BARBARA STREISAND CD
PLUS SPONOR'S NAME IN THE PROGRAM
RSVP by June 22 to Evie 908-276-6894, Audrey 732-499-0439, or
temple office 732-381-8403 x11.
PESACH COMMUNITY
SEDER Join the TBO/BT family for the
First Seder
Monday, April 14, 2014.
More details to follow.
THE TEMPLE FAMILY SAYS THANK YOU
to Aryeh White and his friends for removing
snow from parts of the roof.
to Michael Roth for working very hard
removing snow and ice from the roof above the
library.
Your help is greatly appreciated!
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Non-Profit
Organization
U.S. Postage Paid
Rahway, NJ
PERMIT No. 166
Steven Stern, Spiritual Leader
Howard Silverman, President Jonathan Phillips, Executive Vice-President
Temple Beth O’R/Beth Torah
111 Valley Road, Clark NJ 07066
732-381-8403
www.bethorbethtorah.org
Change Service Requested
Purely Jewish Fiddle
Russel Dov Kelner Strolling fiddler
DELIGHTFUL ISRAELI &
EUROPEAN JEWISH
INSTRUMENTAL MELODIES
For your luncheon, dinner,
Small party. Or for
grandmom/granddad.
(With or without amplifiers) (908) 875-1716 [email protected]
Mailed February 27
ISRAELI DANCE Tuesday Nights
beginners from 7 pm to 8 pm
intermediate from 8 pm to 11 pm
$10.00 per class/ $45 prepaid for 5
Part of the proceeds go to TBO/BT.
Led by Elyse Litt 732-396-8299
SUPPORT OUR ADVERTISERS
Got a Simcha?
Birthday? Anniversary? Graduation? New grandchild?
Host a Kiddush at TBO/BT You can sponsor the entire Kiddush or be a co-
sponsor with a donation of $18 or more.
Contact Julia at 732-381-8403 x11 or
