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Self- Management “The first and best victory is to conquer self.” - Plato

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Page 1: Self- Management · Self-Management “The first and best victory is to conquer self.” - Plato

Self-Management

“The first and best victory is to conquer self.”- Plato

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Attitude: It’s Your Choice

Victims Creators Focus on their weaknesses

related to situation

Complain and make excuses

Blame someone else

See problems as permanent, catastrophic events

Repeat behaviors that have not been successful in the past

Predict defeat in the face of obstacles

Use negative self-talk

Look to use their strengths to overcome obstacles

Acknowledge the problem and seek solutions

Take personal responsibility See problems as temporary

events that they can overcome

Actively seek new information and take new actions

Look for better ways to approach a problem

Use more positive self-talk

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Motivation: Just DO it! Does your behavior show that you are motivated to go to

college?

Why did you come to college?

What motivates you to study?

What techniques are you willing to try when you are not feeling motivated to study?

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Life: Balls in the air

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Goal Setting: Plans for Progress Directing Attention

What do I need to do?

Directing Effort How hard do I

need to work? Specifying a

duration How long is it

going to take?

Providing a strategic plan What steps do I

need to take? Providing a

reference point How far have I

come?

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Types of GoalsShort term goals• Today• This week• This month

Long term goals• 6 months• 1 year• 5 years• 10 years• 25 years

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SMART GoalsS = SpecificM = MeasureableA = Action-OrientedR = RealisticT = Timely

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Goal setting: 5 steps Identify and define your goal (S.M.A.R.T. goals)

Generate and evaluate alternative plans

Develop an implementation plan

Implement the plan

Evaluate the process

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Time ManagementTHE KEY IS NOT TO PRIORITIZE YOUR SCHEDULE, BUT TO SCHEDULE YOUR PRIORITIES.-STEPHEN R. COVEY

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Common Time Management Mistakes

Procrastination Time Wasting Lack of Planning Lack of Organization Missed Deadlines Distractions Inability to say “No” Too much freedom

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Common Failures in Time Management

Monitor/evaluate

Self-awareness

Long-term goals

Task awareness

Time awareness

Unwanted disruptions

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Tools for Time Management

Semester calendar

Weekly Calendar

To-Do Lists

Project Planners and Five-Day Study plans

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Quick Tips for Time Management Use your tools Use “wasted time” Set time to study and determine realistic

accomplishments Take short breaks Alternate topics to study Don’t sacrifice sleep Set up study routines

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Remember

Always reward yourself after achieving a goal. Your goals will change with time and practice.

Adjust them regularly to reflect your growth

If a goal doesn’t hold attraction any longer, let it go.

Setting your goals should be a sense of satisfaction and achievement.

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Everyday…

Visualize achieving your goals and success you want.

Visualize yourself practice and utilizing your tasks.

Believe you are improving

“I will give my best efforts each day to be the best I can be, and to achieve my goals.”

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In Class Work

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Hal Urban’s 4 Keys to Mastering Your Time

1. Plan your week and your days2. Make Appointments with yourself3. Use the “little-bit-at-a-time” approach4. Know your most productive time of day

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Time Management is Different in College

In High School: Very little out of class time

Schedule is managed by someone else

Somewhat out of your control

Study time might not be essential to your success

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Time Management is Different in College

In College: Very little in class time

Manage your own schedule

You’re in control of what you do and when you do it

More study time is needed to be successful

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The Difference Between Important & Urgent

According to Stephen Covey: All activities can be classified by importance and urgency:

IMPORTANCE: An activity is important if you personally find it valuable, and if it contributes to your mission, values and high priority goals.

URGENCY: An activity is urgent if you or others feel that it requires immediate action.

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Covey’s Time Management Matrix

Which quadrant do you spend most of your time?

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Covey’s Time Management Matrix

To spend more time in quadrant #2, you need to know what your priorities are so you can spend more time doing what really matters!

What are your most important priorities?

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What Did You Learn?