Relationship Compatibility - Final

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    We all know that opposites attract, but for how long?

    1. Are we compatible?2. Where will we have conflict?3. Are we on the same page?

    4. Will we stimulate each other intellectually?5. How will the past affect our relationship?6. Do we share the same values?

    7. How will we relate to each others friends and family?8. Will we be honest with each other?

    9. Will we be sexually compatible?10.Are you a forgiver or a "sulker"?

    Do you bear long grudges or do you make up quickly and forgive and forget?

    With handwriting analysis we can find these areas of agreement and disagreement. It shows uppotential areas of conflict and it helps us to anticipate where friction is likely to occur.

    "Compatibility", or the comparison of one handwriting with another to determine how well

    two (or more) individuals will live or work together, is one of the most popular features ofgraphology.

    A graphological compatibility report can be used to identify the basic traits and the personality ofpartners and quickly pin-point areas of difference or potential conflict, which can be worked on, ifnecessary through Graphotherapy.

    Marital compatibility

    The basic theory is that after knowing and understanding how each other is different, anycommitment that is made will be more enduring. In cultures where arranged marriages arecommon, graphology can be used as an additional checkpoint on the compatibility of the coupleprior to the elders giving their consent for the marriage to take place.

    Emotional WavelengthsA big difference in emotional temperatures would mean that you are on completely different

    emotional wavelengths. This clearly seen in handwriting.

    Physical energyAre you physically compatible? Are your energy levels the same? Big differences here can be

    very significant and contribute to stress later.

    Intensity of feelingA relationship can take strain if one partner is moody and intense while the other is emotionallyeasy-going. While identical degrees of emotional intensity is not essential it's much healthier to

    have a reasonable balance between the two.

    Self-esteemSimilar levels of self-esteem and self-confidence are necessary as if there is a significant contrast

    we could end up with one partner being too dominant.

    Social attitudeAn extrovert who likes a lot of partying and going out would find it hard to adjust to a socially

    inactive lifestyle of a stay at home partner. And vice versa.

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    Manner of handling conflict

    It is not healthy to bear long grudges. One should make up quickly and forgive and forget, or youwill develop life long grudges, leading to an assortment of problems.

    The way you behave in an argument is a major test for compatibility. If you regularly remain

    silent and introverted while your partner rants and raves - it could spell trouble for the long-termhealth of your relationship.

    All this can be answered just by your writing!

    Graphologists believe that nearly any two people can be compatible. People can have manydifferences and still be compatible partners. The key is that the individuals must be aware of theirdifferences, understand them, and be willing to accommodate them.

    A thorough graphological analysis can indicate if a person is emotionally stable or volatile, honestor insincere, enthusiastic or depressed, in good health or unwell, intellectually sharp or slow-witted, artistic or analytical, sedentary or physically active, closed or open-minded, extroverted orintroverted, tense or relaxed, immature or mature, and much more.

    Graphology assesses conscious and subconscious character, so the graphologist is able tooutline the real, prevailing personality; the one that shows up while under stress, not only the onedisplayed when on ones best behavior.

    Graphologists also examines : emotional maturity, integrity, honesty, sincerity, need for variety,level of interest in sex, communication skills (including listening skills), level of self-esteem, criticalanalysis/sense of discernment (effectiveness in identifying and understanding personalityrelationship issues), acquisitiveness (desire for money and material things), and financialextravagance / irresponsibility.