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The 36 questions which can make you 'fall in love with anyone':

Set One

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a

dinner guest?

2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?

3. efore making a tele!hone call, do you ever rehearse what you are

going to say? Why?

". What would constitute a #!erfect$ day for you?

%. When did you last sing to yourself? &o someone else?

'. If you were able to live to the age of () and retain either the mind or

body of a 3)*year*old for the last ') years of your life, which would you

want?

+. o you have a secret hunch about how you will die?

-. ame three things you and your !artner a!!ear to have in common.

(. /or what in your life do you feel most grateful?

1). If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what

would it be?

11. &ake four minutes and tell your !artner your life story in as much detail

as !ossible.

12. If you could wake u! tomorrow having gained any one 0uality or ability,what would it be?

Set Two

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13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the

future or anything else, what would you want to know?

1". Is there something that youve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why

havent you done it?

1%. What is the greatest accom!lishment of your life?

1'. What do you value most in a friendshi!?

1+. What is your most treasured memory?

1-. What is your most terrible memory?

1(. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you changeanything about the way you are now living? Why?

2). What does friendshi! mean to you?

21. What roles do love and affection !lay in your life?

22. lternate sharing something you consider a !ositive characteristic of

your !artner. hare a total of five items.

23. 4ow close and warm is your family? o you feel your childhood was

ha!!ier than most other !eo!les?

2". 4ow do you feel about your relationshi! with your mother?

Set Three

2%. 5ake three true #we$ statements each. /or instance, #We are both in

this room feeling ... #

2'. 6om!lete this sentence7 #I wish I had someone with whom I could

share ... #

2+. If you were going to become a close friend with your !artner, !lease

share what would be im!ortant for him or her to know.

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2-. &ell your !artner what you like about them8 be very honest this time,

saying things that you might not say to someone youve 9ust met.

2(. hare with your !artner an embarrassing moment in your life.

3). When did you last cry in front of another !erson? y yourself?

31. &ell your !artner something that you like about them already.

32. What, if anything, is too serious to be 9oked about?

33. If you were to die this evening with no o!!ortunity to communicate with

anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why

havent you told them yet?

3". :our house, containing everything you own, catches fire. fter saving

your loved ones and !ets, you have time to safely make a final dash to

save any one item. What would it be? Why?

3%. ;f all the !eo!le in your family, whose death would you find most

disturbing? Why?

3'. hare a !ersonal !roblem and ask your !artners advice on how he or

she might handle it. lso, ask your !artner to reflect back to you how youseem to be feeling about the !roblem you have chosen.