Patricia Gozlan Get Rid of Fears

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How to Get Rid of

Your Worst Fears

in Less Than 20 Seconds

Using One Simple NLP Tool

Have you ever told something to yourself but you do not actually believe it?

Do you tell yourself I have moved on when in factyou are sll hoping that your boyfriend or

girlfriend or loved one will come back?

Or tell yourself I am happy but the truth is you are not?

Some businesswomen think that they can control the economy during crisis while some of

them think that they can lose weight by dieng. Are you like them?

Despite all your eort in changing the things in your life, you sll get similar results. What you

need to do is to change how you look at things and do certain new acons in order to get what

you want.

This truth will hurt you but it is very important that you are honest to yourselfin order to

solve your problems.

Fear is something that is felt by almost all people and you could be one of them. One of the

biggest fears is the feeling of being abandoned, le alone and not seen, love or appreciated.

Fear is the predicon of some events that have not yet occurred but may happen in the near

future and this is called false expectaons that appear real.
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On the other hand, guilt is a bad feeling caused by somethingthat has happened in the past.

Both of them are illusions because the only real moment is the now and here as well as on how

you perceive the now.

If you are like this, then you are living in the illusion while thinkingthat you live a happy life,

that you are okay and that there is no room for improvement. This is called your comfort zone.

So, what is the one thing you should do?

The answer to that is simple,face the reality.

All of us have personal issues or problems and we all have our own way of dealing them.

Some people can easily deal with these problems while others struggle a lot. Somemes, you

think that your whole life is in chaos because your problems seem to be like a circle or in other

words, endless.

When you are at work or in front of other people, you always laugh or joke around just to give

them an impression that you are actually happy and that everything is okay.

But, are you at ease about this situaon?

If your answer is yes, then you are truly a professional drama arst but living with this feeling

of empness inside.

Oen, the lack of fullment has the following symptoms:

insucient sleep; chronic feeling of stress and restlessness

thinking that life is not treang you well despite the eort you invest in your health, rela-

onships and business

poor results and sense of empness inside; not feeling appreciated and loved regardlessof what you give and do

mediocre results in business compared to the invested money, energy and me

If you choose to live in a lie, it means that you are taking the risksof drowning with it. It is like

you agree to always feel uncomfortable with yourselves.

This is the result of giving power to everything outsideyou instead of having a full control of

your qualies and resources. You should recognize that you are a unique and perfect human

being who deserves to live in total joy and prosperity.


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Why do you Lie?

By analyzing the circumstances, you are triggered to lie to yourself because there is something

that you want to prove, or what you decide to lie about will apparently make you feel good

during the moment.

Here are some examples:

When it comes to buying things, you think these things or gadgets will make your life

easier, you oen raonalize and say I know this will make my life easier. But actually, it

will make you more dependent. This is what happens to all smart phones and brand new

technological gadget users and shopping of latest branded stu in general.

Another example of summon lies is when you sayIll try it out and cancel it if I dont

want it anymore. It could be a gym membership or a class on how to cook beer or tak-

ing French classes. Chances are, not only will you not cancel the service, but you may not

even end up receiving any benet from it.

Weoen deceive ourselves by thinking we are smarter, thinner, sexier, and beer than

others so that we can seduce others and have what we want the way we want it with no

pain or eort.

Many of us fall into the trap of lying to ourselves and self- deceit is a way to anestheze the

feelings of loneliness or the fear of not being valued or loved.

Now, let us go back to your present situation.

You want other people to think that you are a nice personthat is why you lie to yourself. For

instance, you give an eort to be kind without knowing that you are already overdoing it and

exceeding your limit.

Normally, we have this tendency to be pleasantwith other people because we worry that we

might be alone or get hurt. This is what we call inner prison.

In order to get rid of the whole drama, you end up lying to yourselfand those near to you.

You have this illusion that you are valued, understood, center of aenon and loved just like

the children.

Almost all children believe that Santa Claus truly exists.

By agreeing and supporng this belief, are you doing them a favor?

Perhaps yes in some cases and some degree. However, it is very essenal to be straighor-

ward because that is what prosperity and love is all about. Aside from that, telling the truth will

allow you to experience freedom and success.


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Why Do you Need to Stop Lying to Yourself?

A friend will only tell you the things that you would like to hear.

However, a real friend who really cares and loves you would tell you the truth no maer whator put you in certain situaons for you to realize the truth.

A friend will say that your dress is nice but a real friend will saythat it is nice but does not

look good on you. If you grasp the truth, then you dare to face reality and value honesty. This is

the reason why those people who pursue the truth are considered brave.

If you are really devoted to know what you want in lifeand your worth as a person, then all

your worries about bad relaonships, lack of enthusiasm or procrasnaon will melt away. If

you want to feel special, you must rst demonstrate it to yourself before other people.

Now, I ask you these quesons. Do you sll want to coverup the thingsand live in illusion that your whole life is okay

or you are ready to face the mirror in front of you and see

the truth?

You lie to yourself because you fear that when you see the

reality, you will need to take acon and you may fail im-

proving your life.

As a result, you live a life only at 50 % or even less and feel

like crap.

When you look back into your lifeaer several years, you

will realize that if you only saw the truth, you could have

taken the risk of living the life that you ever desire without

any fears.

So, here is a way on how to start living your life with no

lies, no excuses and no regrets.

Let us see how to Get Rid of your Worst Fears in

Less than 20 seconds with one simple tool!

Aside from lying to ourselves, another thing that aects our daily life is our fears. We know

how amazing the linkages of the human body are.

What we say, think and what we picture in our mind will determine what we believe, feel and

aract. In simple words, the things that we do within us will determine our level of prosperity

at that moment and even in the future.


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For example, when you always cricize yourself that you are horrible or that you are a failure,

your mind will accept that it is true. You make yourself believe that it is what makes you as a

person and it will surely aect your everyday life.

These false pronouncements about yourselftrigger the automac and unconscious mecha-

nism that makes you feel worthless.

When you choose to be in this state and have excusesto live in fear, you will feel unwanted,

inferior and unloved. In addion, you will always struggle when dealing with other people be-

cause you have this anxiety that they will laugh at or mock you. You have the tendency to be-

come a loner, thinking that you do not belong in the society because of your appearance. If you

are trapped in this situaon, there is no doubt that your fear will eat you alive.

During one of the inaugural speeches of Franklin D. Roosevelt, he said that the only thing

people should be afraid of is fear itself.

Its nameless,unjused terror and unreasoning that paralyze the eorts needed to transform

retreat into advance. This great quote is something that should challenge you to eliminate your

fears.

What can you Do about your Fear?

Fortunately, there is a way to eliminate your worst fears in just 20 seconds by ulizing one sim -

ple tool of Neurolinguisc Programming or NLP. As the rst step, there are some quesons that

you need to ponder.

Are you struggling at the moment? How can you tell that you are struggling?

When you are struggling, what happens to your body and mind?

When you contemplate about something, like business, economy or family, what do you

imagine? What do you hear and what are the things that you tell yourself?

Now, provide answers to these quesons that come from within you by saying it loud or by

wring them down on a piece of paper.


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Determine the parcular image(s) that you see every me you are struggling.

Is it like a lm or just sll image? If it is a lm describe it hereunder.

Is it small or big, colored or black and white? Take note of this.

What do you see

when you are in a

lousy state?

Visual cue

What do others

tell you?

Audive cue

How do you feel?

Your internal

reprensentaon

determine how you

feel and what you

create in your life!

Kinesthec Cue

Freezing Your Inner State

Start here

Step 1:


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While providing answers to the quesons, give importance to what the voice within you

is saying.

What are the things that you struggle the most with at this me? Pay aenon to the

words that you tell to yourself over and over again.

Say these words and again, take note as you did a while ago.

Unconsciously, the story that you keep on telling to yourselfis the same story that you tell to

other people and this story keeps you trapped.

The images connected to your struggle are similar images which are triggered every me you

believe that you are trapped in a certain situaon.

There is a reason you need to answer the quesons. Thisis because you live in the story that

you tell to yourself while the lm that you project is the reality and both of them are just illu-

sions.

How to get away from the trap in just 15 seconds? Here are the steps on how to do it.


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The exercises in this workbook are meant to help you visualize all the things that you wish

to clear, without allowing fear to disrupt or block you.Many of you will think that your brain

knows that you are faking.

Yes this is true but only in the beginning. You will noce that your inner cric is resisng and

telling you that it is impossible or that what you are doing is just a complete waste of me.

However, in the end, your mind power will never realizethat you are just actually rehearsing.

It will never determine what is reality and what is not.

So your brain will act like you deserve whatever you imagineand begin to hasten the process

of aracon by bringing to you the desired results. When you know already the things that you

want, your sense of freedom is immediate. This is how success is created.

Using this NLP tool like a game on a regular basis, you will learn how to transform the crical

voices into empowering ones and get signicant results on the spot.

As a result, your old wicked voice is changed and you goals will turn into reality. Your goals

will all come true by having small but denite steps that will eventually lead to huge ones.

In line with this, it will be helpful to ulize the tools of energy psychology such asEmoonal

Freedom Technique or EFT. The best way to be prosperous both inside and out is to feel good

and become a beer person and therefore obtain results easily!

Final Thoughts Fear is the root of lying. Every lie is a reacon to fear.

And lying is not just in your mind it is how you manifest fear out in the world, also

through your words and acons.

The answer to that queson is just simple and denite. It is your responsibility because you

aracted those things and by expressing that, you aract them even more.

In other words, it is all about Law of Aracon that is working by defaultwithout you know-

ing it.

The Law of Aracon merely states that whatever you do and think about, your life will surely

aract them.

Your dominant thoughts look for its way in order to manifest. Whatever your fears are, you

will aract them, same as your life will also aract your expectaons either good or bad.

Fortunately, aside from energy psychology tools that work immediately in helping your mind

let go of the things that you no longer need as well as the lie that is of no use to you, there is a

powerful way in which you can reorganize your beliefs and fear by using one NLP tool.


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In my arcles, reportsand videos, I demonstrate how you can immediately release your fear

and anguish regarding what might happen in your business, future and in your life as a whole.

If you are currently having problems or fears, this is what you should do:

Get a free bonus power tip customized just

for you!

Aer watching the video and doing the wrien exercises in this work-

book, send me your completed workbook by e-mail and I will review

it and send you a customized power p to help you get the results

you want.

Finally Id like to leave you with some wise words of Esther Hicks in her book Manifest your

desires

Anything that you give your aenon to will become your truth, The Law of Aracon says

that it must. Your life and everyone elses, too, is but a reecon of the predominace of your

thoughts. There is no excepon to this.

To your success and joy!
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About the Author

Patricia Gozlan is an NLP Life and Business CeredCoach and Energy Psychology Advanced Facilitator, wholoves teaming up with dynamic successful women, whoare also wanng to nd the best way to combine suc-cess and joy.

Her clientsare internaonal business owners who areforever on the go, trying to meet their busy schedulesand ensure they have balanced lives.

They are strugglingto increase their prots and at thesame me aract more of what they love in life, and

they dont know where to start

Patricia specializesin using NLP and energy psychologyadvanced techniques to help her clients nd a clear pathfor personal and business success.

Patricia coacheswomen in personal and business is-sues. Through the proven Prosperity Zone paradigm shehelps each person envisage themselves as a fullledbusiness owner, partner, mother/father and friend andas a spiritual being leading a fullled human experience.

What makes her approachuniquely eecve is her gifor touching the Divine through intuion and connecngheart-to-heart with her clients so that they can changetheir mindset and get what they want with less eort.Patricia specializes in using NLP, EFT and Psych-Ktechniques to help her clients making major transions,new beginnings and let go of liming beliefs.

Through her signature coaching approach, outlined in

her book Its Not About Money: 3 Steps to MasteringAbundance, she helps her clients live in a prosperousway no maer the economy or the environment theylive in, in all elds of life.

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