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NORMAL MARITAL PROCESSES: VARIATION IN PROCESS AND STRUCTURE Judith Penrod Eggers, Ph.D.

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NORMAL MARITAL PROCESSES:

VARIATION IN PROCESS AND STRUCTURE

Judith Penrod Eggers, Ph.D.

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I. Problem for Sooial Work

Sooial work olinioians are expeoted to understand and helpfamily systems who, at times, experience diffioulty and ask forprofessional help. These are families who generally functionwell and may need assistanoe for short periods of time in orderto resolve their present problems. These families do not fitinto the extremes of dysfunotion which have oomprised theresearoh and clinical populations during the past thirty years.Little is known about (1) the process and struotural character­istics of these viable systems, (2) how to observe and assesstheir interaction, and (3) how to design and implement systemlevel interventions who comprise the unit (Barnhill, 1979;Bateson, 1972; Olson, 1979; Maslow, 1977; Hoffman, 1981).Knowledge about the interactional processes in family systems hasprimarily developed from the study of symptomatio family systems,such as the direct observations of family interaotions relativeto an understanding sohizophrenia. (Bateson, et al., 1945, 19&3;Haley, 1962; Caputo, 1963; Beavers, 1965; Singer and Wynne, 1963;Mishler and Waxler, 1965, 1968, 1975). Beoause of the tradi­tional focus on pathology in muoh of the literature on familyinteraotion and oommunioation, normal families typioally havebeen characterized merely as showing an absence of pathologicalcommunioation (Walsh, 1982). There is a oonsensus in theprofessional literature that more knowledge is needed about theinteraotion prooesses in viable family systems who are able toresolve problems without generating ohronio emotional symptom­ology in one of the family members (Olson, 1979; Haley, 1972;Barnhill, 1979; Maslow, 1977; Hoffman, 1981; Satir, 1972;Jackson, 1965; Raush, Grief and Nugent, 1978). F. Walsh conoludesfrom a oomprehensive study of the research for the past fifteenyears dealing with normal family prooesses that "more rigoroustheory oonstruotion and empirical testing are needed to distillfrom various theories, the oritical conoepts and variablesrelated to normal family funotioning and dysfunotion" (Walsh,1982, pg. 36).

The decision to focus exclusively on asymptomatic couples inthis research was based on this gap in our verified theoreticalknowledge. The objective was to learn more about a wide range ofmarital systems whioh funotion without generating and maintainingdisabling emotional symptomology in their nuolear family system;i.e., how they share, take in and process information as a unit,how they deal with individual needs and wants in relation to theother and if and how they resolve individual and joint problems.

An additional problem for social work clinioians is the lackof a widely aocepted empirioallY verified systems model forclinical assessment and intervention which in nonlinear, holistic

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and y-afue free in relation to a health/illness "eQntinuum.

, The proposed model in this research attempt to~nonlinear.

This epistemology is based on the ideas of organis ic systemstheory, Gestalt psychology, phenomenology and a s'ntheses of"family system theory" (which includes communication, ybernetic,~teractional theory and theory dealing with the concepts ofdi~entiation and fusion in interactional behavior). Theobject1~ ~f the model is to offer the cl~ian a guide forpattern ident~n in intimate ~~ systems. The model isdesigned to generate assessmenL without accompanying labels offunctionality ascribed to the phenomena observed. The interac­tional data are organized around major areas of the system'sprocesses (i.e., how information is shared and processed, howcontact operates and how tasks and interactions are resolved andfinished) .

Clinicians who desire to intervene in a systemic way need away of seeing and understanding what they observe in intimatesdealing with each other. A major objective of the clinician isto accomplish focused observation. They need to know what tolook at and how to translate what they see into language whichdescribes experience and provides a theoretical map for formalunderstanding.

The shift in therapeutic focus from isolated individuals torelationship systems has resulted in the need for an appropriateparadigm. Although there are increasing networks of clinicalliterature related to family systems therapy, there is no widelyaccepted conceptual framework for assessment and interventionwhich is systemic and nonlinear (Bodin, 1968; Keeney, ,,1979 and1983).

This research explored the usefulness of a specific the­oretical integration translated into a conceptual framework forassessment and intervention with married couples, without chronicdisabling symptomology. This model attempts to reflect anonlinear, systemic transactional epistemology. It emphasizedpattern recognition, interrelationships of behaviors, circularityand discovery of system functionality without ascribing labels orjudgments regarding the dimensions of health/illness.

Traditionally, clinical assessment has involved ascribing alabel to an individual in order to signify the particularpathology represented by the specific set of symptoms exhibited.The argument of systems-oriented therapy is directed toward theassumption that the individual is the site of pathology as aconsequence of linear causal effects.

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History of Couples Research

The review of literature concerning couples reveals very fewwhich focus on process, interaotive patterns (Sprinkle and Olson,1978; Gottman, Markman and Notarius, 1977; and Vincent, Weiss andBircher, 1975). Most studies of couples have focused exclusivelyon what partners feel or think about each other or activitiesthey share together rather than the process and interactionalstyles that led up to and help maintain these outcomes (Sprinkleand Olson, 1978; Hicks and Platt, 1970; Kolb and Straus, 1974;Cromwell and Olson, 1975). The latter generally offer aggregatemeasure of couples' process and judge the outcomes in relation tospecific variables of interest to the investigator. This isdifferentiated from a measure which describes the existentialphenomenological process of marital interaction, utilized in thisstudy.

The literature revealed a significant gap in knowledge aboutthe dominant majority relationships who function without gettingstuck in dysfunctional processes and structure long enough tocreate debilitating symptomology in system members. Theseasymptomatic systems experience problems and stress and deal withthese issues in ways which result in satisfying individualimpairment is prevented. Social scientists and practitioners donot have sufficient information regarding the kinds of processesand structures utilized impairment is prevented. Socialscientists and practitioners do not have sufficient informationregarding the kinds of processes and structures utilized by thesesuccessful family systems to create their viable, nourishingrelationships systems. Part of the new perspective in thisinteractional field of research and practice includes the premisethat these viable systems at times experience more stress thanthey can effectively deal with alone and, consequently, reach outfor professional assistance for a period of time to help them get"unstuck".

The research direction for the past ten years has beenfocused on understanding, describing and defining the interac­tional process which supports a balance and constitutes extremesin individuation and system cohesiveness. The balance betweenthese dimensions has repeatable been theorized as the "normal"viable type of family structure and the extremes, "pathological".

The evolution of several process models in family systemswork illustrated the model building process researches utilizedto study these dimensions (Reiss, 1971; a, b, and c; Wynne &Singer, 1963, a and b; Wertheim, 1973; Beanus, 1977; Olson, etal., 1979; Kantor and Lehr, 1975; Fleck, 1980; and AI-Khayyal,1980).

Analysis of these studies revealed the clear dominance ofoutcome oriented process research which utilizes various vari-

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abIes considered critical in determining system functioning.Differentiating family systems have resulted in the developmentof typologies oriented conceptually by a functional/dysfunctionalparadigm. The health/illness, "normality"/"deviancy" episte­mology has dominated research and practice int his field. It isnow being questioned as the most useful direction for researchnow and in the future (Palazzoli, 1980; Haley, 1972; Kantor andLehr, 1975; Bateson, 1972; Hoffman, 1981; Keeney, 1979, 1983 and1985; Reiss, 1981 and 1982; Dell, 1980; Olson, 1975 and 1979).

The literature of 1980 and 1981 reflects a direction awayfrom etiological linear system models, however, the currentmodels in practice do not reflect this new direction (Hoffman,1981; Keeney, 1979, 1983 and 1985; Dell, 1981; Elkaim, 1981).Included in the new direction of systems thinking is the identi­fied need for a conceptualization which describes and explainssystem stability and evolution for each idiosyncratic system(Steinglass, 1976, 1977, 1978, 1979, 1980; Hoffman, 1971 1972,1981; Speer, 1977; Wertheim, 1973; Elkaim, 1981; Dell, 1980;Beavers, 1976). This need is experienced by clinicians in theirwork with systems struggling to find their balance betweenconstancy and change which will fit their system's unique needs,values and history. The clinician who has a conceptual modelwhich deals with the concepts of homeostasis and evolutionwithout health/illness judgment is equipped to assist systemswith this struggle. The model should help the clinician discovereach system's unique ways of functioning and provide informationabout how "that system's" processes and structure make up itsevolutionary style.

II. Research Questions

The major research objectives in this study Were to (1)obtain information which would address the gap in our knowledgeabout the phenomenological structure and process of viablemarital interaction and (2) to develop and test a nonlinearsystems model for clinical application with marital systems. Thesubdimensions of these major research goals are expressed in thefollowing questions:

1. What are the verbal and nonverbal behaviors in asympto­matic marital interaction during a problem solvingencounter?

2. Is there an identifiable temporal structure whichoffers some ordering of behaviors within the process?

3. Are patterns observable in the data regarding behaviorsclustering during specified periods within the process?

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4. Can the measuring instrument (category system) demon­strate acceptable reliability percentages?

The first objective was to add to our knowledge base aboutthe kinds of process and structure which characterize viablemarital systems who may become temporarily symptomatic, but donot become stuck in clinical extremes of dysfunction (i.e.,debilitating anxiety, depression, repetitive destructive behaviortoward self and/or others, detachment or enmeshment which impairsfunctioning ability, chronic marital stress and/or crisis). Thegoal was to learn more about the variety of interactional styleswhich viable family systems use to effectively handle theirfamily tasks and achieve individual growth and fulfillingrelatedness in the process of task accomplishments.

process as opera­reflect, describe

phenomenological

behavioral indicators used in the categoryto define conceptualized interaction process

understandable, reflective of empirical

Are thesystemuseful,reality?

Does the conceptualized interactivetionalized in the category systemwith any accuracy the empiricalprocess being observed?

5.

6.

The second objective was the development of a usefulrelevant systems model which is nonlinear, and capable ofidentifying patters, and interrelationships via process observa­tion and analysis; as well as provide intervention strategy whichwill be system focused, versus individual oriented. The modelshould (1) organize the phenomenological interactional data,(2) describe this process in understandable translatable languagefor clients and profes~ionals (i.e., putting experience intolanguage), and (3) establish intervention goals and objectivesfor change when system processes are observed as interfering withsystem goals.

III. Methodology

The study utilized systematic observational methodology.The rationale for observational methodology which employs abehavioral instrument (i.e., category system for coding observa­tions) versus utilizing self-report methodology is based on theneed verified in the research literature for methodology whichcan obtain accurate interactional data concerning intimaterelationships (Kent and Foster, 1977; Olson, 1969, 1977; Straus,1964, 1973; Haley, 1972; Levinger, 1963; Olson and Rabunsky,1972; Turk and Bell, 1972).

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This study was limited to the marital system, a criticalsubsystem within the family unit. In the 80 studies reviewed byDoane (1978), the marital relationship emerged as the oriticalvariable to oonsider in future family research. Doane concludesthat more attention should be paid to the impact the couple hason the family system.

The population universe for this study consisted of 212couples, comprising 23 couples' groups in an interdenominationalchurch circle group program. The sampling procedure utilizedpurposive (nonrandom) methodology.

The criteria for the population sample included: (1) nohistory of identified diagnoses of emotional disturbance (confer­red by a professional and/or by friends, family or self), (2)were not experiencing a marital crisis at this time, (3) had beenmarried a minimum of two years, (4) were in a broad age range(twenties through fifties) and (5) were choosing to spend timeand energy in a "growth" oriented activity (i.e., a churchcouples group experience designed to improve and/or enrich theirmarital relationship).

The demographic data on the research population reveal someinteresting information: Couple stability, wives employedoutside of the home, number of children similar to the nationalaverage, community involvement and commitment to education forself and others.

The median age for both spouses was skewed by the largerange (31-74). The dominant age group were in their mid 30'sThe children were primarily preschool- or young adults. Thecouples demonstrated enthusiasm, commitment and very positivefeelings about the research and their participation.

Tasks Utilized to Stimulate Interactional Data

The tasks selected for this study were "Plan SomethingTogether" (Task A, Appendix, p. 184) and "Decide How You WouldSpend a $3,000 Gift to the Two of You" (Task B, Appendix, p.184). Each couple was given both tasks in A, B sequence with a10 minute time period for each task.

The "Plan Something Together" task asked the couple to talkwith each other about an activity which they would like to do asa couple. The instructions included the investigator's requestthat the activity be something that they might actually dotogether at some time as a couple and/or family rather than afantasy or dream trip. They were informed that they had tenminutes to discuss this issue and that they did not have to agreeor finish their discussion within this time period.

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Observers

Eight observers were selected from a group of fifteengraduate students who responded to a written announcement postedin the College of Social Work office. The criteria for selectionincluded: (1) minimum of two years of Social Work experience inthe direct practice role, (2) a major interest in clinical socialwork practice, and (3) some previous experience professionally orpersonally in interpersonal communication work.

The mean and median age of the observers was 34. Three weremarried, three divorced and two had not been married. None hadprevious course work kin family theory, therapy, systems theoryor communication theory to supplement the course offerings withinthe core curriculum of the MSE I program.

The personal backgrounds of the observers were varied, aswere their work experiences and social work experiences. Theywere similar in their lack of academic and professional experi­ence in family systems theory and practice.

The training program in this study focused on achievingfamiliarity with the category system and coding procedures.There were three sessions, four hours long, spaced a week apart.Training included a description of the research project, theresearch questions, conceptual base, population sample andgeneral methodological issues (See Appendix). Included in thisdidactic presentation was the explanation of the role of theobserver in the data collection and data analysis components ofthis investigation. After the diadic material Was presented,role playing was used to provide experience with a wide varietyof interactional behavior. Written definitions were used in theinitial training phase to help trainees learn the behavioraldefinitions of concepts and categories.

The final training activity involved the use of trainingtapes followed by consensus sessions with the investigator, tocode the interactional behavior cf couples who were not part ofthe research population. This method is supported by mostresearchers using this methodology (Weick, 1968; Kent and Foster,1977; Jones et al., 1974; Bunsey and Hamburg, 1963). Tapes ofsix couples were presented which demonstrated a wide variety ofinteractional patterns and styles. These training tapes weremade with volunteer, asymptomatic couples in Cleveland, Ohio.The setting was the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, 1588 Hazel,Drive. The training procedure involved showing the tapesinitially for observation only. This was followed with consensussessions with the investigator to discuss questions and issuesevoked by the tapes.

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Coding System

In this coding system, the coder evaluated the behavior inrelation to its connection with the previous behavior and itsrelationship to the development and resolution of a common figure(~ cognitive theme or issue). Behavior was viewed through thelens of interpersonal communication due to the study's systemicparadigmatic base. Thus, individual behavior was evaluated ascommunication to the other. Judgment included the interpersonalcontent and the dominant figure context.

Observers were asked to observe the time frame within a 10minute context. They were instructed to code the behaviors whichdominated or characterized the two minute sequence, in relationto the 10 minute context. Behaviors were evaluated as interde­pendent parts of a sequence, not as independent isolated acts.They were instructed to judge how individual behaviors wereconnected to other behaviors in that time frame (i.e., supportiveof the dominant behavior in that time frame or reflective ofbehavior belonging to a different category or "other" behaviorwhich could not be classified in the specified categories). Each10 minute tape was viewed twice. The initial viewing wasuninterrupted. The second viewing was segmented into five, twominute units. These two minute frames represented the unit ofanalysis and were coded by the observers during a 15 second breakafter each two minute unit.

Observers were instructed to indicate the presence ofbehaviors by placing one hash mark in the space allocated to thebehavior. Absence of behaviors was indicated by an absence ofhash marks. One mark was used regardless of the amount of thatbehavior which occurred during that two minute unit. Observerscoded two complete tapes, involving 80 minutes of observing plus5 minutes for coding.

A 15 minute break was followed by one additional 20 minutetape (which involved a total of 40 minutes, for two viewing plus2 1(2 minutes for coding). This schedule made use of heightenedreliability from the observers.

The observers were divided into four groups of pairs afterthe training sessions. Each pair coded 11 tapes, two of whichwere rated twice by all eight observers. The two tapes werechosen on a random basis to allow an additional measure of inter­observer reliability. The initial coding of the random tapesoccurred during the first coding session for each observer pairand the second rating was done during the last coding session foreach pair.

Category System

Systematic observational methodology relies on the use of

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category systems for recording and regroup observation. Thecategory system utilized in this study focuses on complexinteractional sequences contained in a two minute time frame.

The category system illustrated in Exhibit A contains thebehavioral indicators for each conceptual stage of the interac­tive process. It graphically illustrates their sequentialstructure. This structure allows a functional analysis. Thebehavioral indicators listed within each stage define thatconceptual state and explain the function or purpose of thatstage. The hypothesized structure is cyclical and hierarchial innature, utilizing an epigenetic principle (i.e., each state isexperienced fully to enable satisfactory use of the succeedingstage) .

Exhibit A illustrates the system used in this study. Theconceptual categories are identified by five constructs: Aware­ness, Energy/Action, Contact, Resolution and Withdrawal. Eachcategory is defined by the behavioral indicators listed beloweach concept. The sixth category "Other" was included to learnabout the presence of behaviors not represented by the fivedefined categories.

IV. FINDINGS

The major findings evolved from investigating! the researchquestions motivating the study. Reliability with the two initialresearch questions: (1) Can the conceptualized model for descri­bing viable marital interaction be operationalized in an observa­tional category system and demonstrate acceptable inter-observerreliability? (2) What are the components of viable maritalinteraction and how are these components structurally inter­related.

The four measures on inter-observer reliability producedhigh inter-observer agreement which is substantial empiricalsupport for the instrument's reliability. Analysis of behavioralindicator usage dealt with the category system's demonstratedcapacity for operationalization. The findings revealed a .inimumof observer confusion. With a few exceptions, the indicatorsdemonstrated clarity, relevancy and specificity.

A "macro profile" was generated for the group of 28 couplesby combining the 28 individual interactional matrixes via acomputer program (See Exhibit B). This combined profile was alsoreflected in 10 of the 30 couple's profiles. Two couples in thesample nearly approximated the interactional pattern, concep­tualized form the theoretical premises underlying this study (SeeExhibit C). This combined group of 12 couples demonstrated

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interactional patterns which broadly approximated the concep­tualized pattern. In the remaining 18 couples, a group of sixreflected a restricted ~se of two or three categories throughoutboth 10 minute tasks. Twelve couples could not be categorizedinto groupings beyond pairs or triads.

The findings revealed that the majority of the couples didnot function in the pattern suggested by this theoreticalperspective; however, the conceptualized model was useful as aguide in pattern recognition. It did identify and describe theinteractional patterns of each couple. Thus, the model appearsto demonstrate ability in pattern recognition, regardless of thenature of the pattern. It offers a guide for gathering andorganizing interactional data which can formulate the specificunique process profile or paradigm for that couple system.

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h " II " II " • -" • ..WAREIJESS

I. Information shared without beinq asked2. Information qlven in resoonse to ouestions3. Ouestions askedEllERGY/ACTIOnL The use of enerqy to reach across t.o join with

another, qetting the other person to be in thesame· place as you. Behavioral indication thatsomeone i.e interested in something, i.e., throU9'hgestures, voice quality, int~rest words, posturlnqevidence of a!"ousal before 101ninQ occurs.

2. Behavioral attempts to mobilize another's energyand interest. i.e. , "Let's •• ," "How about we ... ,'

"Why don't we ... ?"3. Behavioral indications ot willingness to join

wi th another ..CONTACl' The demonstration of tllUtual interest in Do

common, bounded flqure.1- Behavioral indications that joining, unanimity,

U ke-mlndednes. occurs, i .. a. , "Okay, Wol!l .... a .. ,"'11'e are ••• "

2. Indications of understanding (agreement is notnecessarv)

3. Beinq in sync with anotherRESOLUTIOll Behaviors which:L Teets for CinishinQ2. Behavioral attempts to "round-off" any sharp

edgea remaininq to the experienclti3. Reflections, summarizations. or other attempts

to "own" the content or exoerlence4. Celebration or mourninq the eXPerience

AtteMPts to use UD. dissipate leftover enertriIITiIDRANllLL ~eduction in enerav so that the experience can fade. Pausing, fallinq into silence

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EXHIBIT A. OBSERVATIONAL CODING INSTRUMENT

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EXHIBIT B.

Maoro Interaotional Profile for 28 Couples(In peroent)

Time FrameCategories 1 .e. ~ ! Q.

Awareness 35 30 12 12 5

Energy/Aotion 39 30 40 32 27

Contaot 25 23 30 20 33

Resolution 1 15 15 29 28

Withdrawal 0 2 3 7 7

Note: "Other" oategory not inoluded in the 32 InteraotionalProfiles as peroentage of observations were all below 1 percentof total observations for that time frame.

EXHIBIT C.

Conoeptualized Interactional Profile(In peroent)

Time FrameCategories 1 ~ ~

Awareness 70 40

Energy/Aotion 30 60 40

Contaot 60

Resolution

Withdrawal

40

60 50

50

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V. IMPLICATIONS FOR PRACTICE WITH FAMILY SYSTEMS

The findings suggest that specific processes do characterizeviable interaction but that no one pattern for these processesexists. Each couple had their own viable pattern which they hadcreated and were now sustaining.

What is clear from these findings is that couples developtheir own idiosyncratic interactional patterns and that aninfinite number of couple patters may exist within the broad spanof marital couples who live most of their lives without chronic,crippling emotional symptoms. This finding has implications forthe clinician. There may be no ~ optimum, healthy pattern ofinteraction. Thus, clinicians have no empirical support fordirecting a couple toward a specific interactive style or methodwhich characterizes asymptomatic interaction. This means givingup a therapeutic position of pushing or pulling the couple to aplace he/she thinks it "should be". The corollary principle isgiving up the idea of the clinician as a "force acting upon theclient system" to bring about change. Instead, the therapeuticposition becomes more neutral and directed toward helping thesystem discover how it fits together as a system (i.e., how itsindividual pieces are connected for form its unique coherence asa system). These couples will, at times, experience crisis,resolve their problems and continue their lives together ordissolve their systems and form new ones. The clinical issuebecomes developing an epistemology and technology for workingwith these couples when they become temporarily stuck. Profes­sional assistance can offer them information about their interac­tional processes (what and how they are doing to keep themselvesstuck). With this process awareness, problem patterns for thesystem can be altered to allow new interactional behavior whichcan more appropriately meet the changing needs within the system.In this view, dysfunction is in relation to each couple'sidiosyncratic patterns rather than in relation to some external,preconceived definition of health/illness used as a model forevaluating, and judging all marital couples.

Thus, the crucial need of clinicians becomes a methodologyfor identifying each couple's own idiosyncratic patterns toenable feedback to the system about its processes (i.e., how theyfunction together). The instrument used in this researchdemonstrated potential as a tool for describing idiosyncraticpatterns which constitute the couple's interactional profile.

We need to know more about the widestyles which the majority of families haveour intervention strategy and establish newfor research.

range of interactiveevolved to "re-tool"parameters and issues

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The direction in clinical practice with family systemssuggested by these findings is toward the development of ageneric, value free, pathology free paradigm which can constructeach couple's unique idiosyncratic interactional profile. Thismodel could be used in clinical and research work to generate adata bank comprised of individual couple profiles which couldeventually lead to the construction of interactional typologiesorganized around "family singularity" in establishing andaccomplishing system viability.

The model examined in this research demonstrated capacityfor describing "what did in reality exist" in couples' interac­tion. The data did not verify the suggested conceptualization ofstructure proposed before the research was implemented. Thisconceptualization was offered as the potential major interac­tional pattern which would characterize viable marital interac­tion~

The important discovery was the model's ability to describe"what did in reality exist" via pattern terminology and todescribe patterns of variation in the ways couples interact in aproblem-solving context. This finding has significant implica­tions for its use as a clinical, research and educational modelfor organizing phenomenological data in a wide variety of couplesystems. These data organizations become system paradigms whichrepresent each couple's singularity. Dysfunction would be viewedin relation to each couple's idiosyncratic profile rather than toa preconceived idea of health and illness. .

Epstein, Bishop and Baldwin in their analyses of the majorprocess models in current family systems research argue againstpremature typologizing, given the current state of knowledge inthis field. They suggest "a more fruitful strategy at this timeis to try to identify important dimension of variation and to seehow families distribute themselves along these dimensions. Ifwith empirical study, .they fall into clusters, then the setclusters may become a useful typology" (Walsh, 1983, pg. 135).

David Reiss (1982) also warns against "models which makedefinitive distinctions between normal and maladoptive extremeswith accompanying implications for preferred directions of familychange". He and his researchers recommend more research toincrease our "knowledge of exactly what family characteristics orpatters signal pathological extremes and what patterns fallwithin a 'normal' range of reasonable adoptive functioning"(Walsh, 1982, pg. 111). He suggests developing models which canidentify "patterns of variation" in the ways families interact.

Clinical social work practice would benefit from studiesoriented toward a new epistemology offering concepts whichdescribe the circularity of behavior, focusing on connectionsbetween behaviors rather than linear thinking which emphasizes

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the study of behaviors or elements as distinct entities to beunderstood separate from their context. This new direction insystems thinking is being expressed in the current social scienceliterature (Keeney, 1979, 1983, 1985; Prigogine, 1969; Dell,1980; Elkaim, 1981; VonFoerster, 1981). The implications of thisnew thinking for practitioners is the giving up of a major sourceof theoretical models explaining and changing behavior. The gapcreated must be filled with useful, relevant, reliable and validtheoretical models oriented in this new epistemology.

The major clinical and research direction should be thedevelopment of paradigms which emphasize circularity, recursive­ness, coherence and evolution of human behavior.

These models would offer clinicians a new way of understand­ing and working with individuals within their intimate systems.The objective becomes seeing connections between behaviors withinthe various systems individuals relate to and are influenced by(i.e .. marital, family, work, social, etc.). The study of humansystems is dependent upon the development of such models.

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