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A bride and groom's guide to making that special day just perfect. With tips and advice on all your wedding plans together with some interesting facts of how some traditions came to be.
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WeddingWeddingPLANNER
Your guide to local wedding services and facilitieseverything you need to make your special day perfect!
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Briars Hall Hotel Briars lane, Nr ormskirk lancs l40 5tH tel: 01704 892368 www.briarshallhotel.co.uk
1091773
Weddingand Function Venue
West lancashire’s Premier
Hold your fabulous wedding event for under £3000
Price based on 40 guests attending your wedding breakfast and 80 guests attending evening buffet for
Friday or Saturday weddings
Also midweek wedding pAckAges available from £25per person
The ideal venue centrally located in the historic village of Lathom with perfect country setting, only 15 minutes drive from Switch
Island and Southport town centre
your CoMPlete PaCKage inCludes:a drink on arrival for all your guests3 course meal to include coffee2 glasses of wine with your meala glass of sparkling wine for the toastan evening buffet for your guestsa master of ceremonies for your entire dayHire of the function room for the dayChair covers with colour co-ordinated organza for your wedding breakfastthe honeymoon suite for the bride & groom
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So you’ve taken the plunge and decided to get married …
congratulations!
Planning your wedding to the one you love and want to
spend the rest of your life with is an extremely exciting time, if
not slightly daunting.
After the engagement celebrations the bride-and-groom-
to-be face months of research, decisions and spending to
ensure the big day does not disappoint.
My Wedding Planner will guide you through the most
important elements of your wedding to consider – the cake, the
venue, the dress, the reception, through to the hair and make-
up, photography and reception – and everything in between.
Wedding plans can sometime cause stress and tension
in the family, with everyone having their own ideas of how
it should be done. Remember to include your family and
friends in your plans – they may even have some good ideas
– but do not let them take over.
It is your day so everything should be just as you want
it. Take a deep breath and make the most of all the expert
services available to you. This guide will ease you through
the decision-making process, provide you with a wealth of
tips, advice and information and hopefully make your wedding
planning as smooth and enjoyable as possible.
If in doubt, ask one of the experts featured in this guide.
They all have a wealth of experience and will be able to
answer all your burning questions.
You will remember your wedding day for the rest of your
lives, so make sure it is for the right reasons.
It is worth all the fuss and effort – and all the cash.
Editor Louisa Austin Advertising Paul Palmer Design Mike Rose
PUBLISHED BY
Champion Media GroupClare House, 166 Lord Street,
Southport, PR9 0QATelephone : 01704 392 392
www.champnews.com© 2010 CMG. All rights reserved.
Information contained herein believed correctat time of going to press but subject to change
without notice. E&OE.
Introduction
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TITHE BARN I MEOLS HALL I CHURCHTOWN I SOUTHPORTTelephone: 01704 228326 I www.meolshall.com
Meols Hall is Southport's historical manor house dating back to the early 12th Century. Set in one hundred acres of private park land close to the picturesque village of Churchtown, this is one of the oldest settlements on the Lancashire coast.
Situated within the grounds of Meols Hall you will find the Tithe Barn which provides one of the most beautiful settings for a wedding anywhere in England.
The Tithe Barn is one of the finest examples of it's kind in the country, this beautiful 400 year old barn has been meticulously restored by local craftsmen and retains all its original and authentic features combined with every facility for your comfort.
The candlelit Tithe Barn is available for wedding ceremonies and receptions for up to 120 with additional evening guests.
Planning a wedding? Look no further…
1090848Annual Wedding Evening - 6th July 2011
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It is hard work planning a wedding - the fl owers, the photography, the venue, the outfi ts, the invitations...the list of tasks goes on and on.
It has been reported that the time it takes
to organise the average wedding equates to
a full-time job for six months.
Each bride and groom-to-be wants every
detail of their day to be perfect - from the colour
of the ribbon in the bridesmaid’s hair to the
colour of the fl owers in the bride’s bouquet.
It is the most important day of a couple’s
life, so everything has to be just so.
No matter if you’re planning a big white
wedding or a ‘no-nonsense’ ceremony, there
is still plenty to organise and at times it can
seem overwhelming.
Many couples choose to employ a
wedding planner to take away some of the
stress. They will be able to advise you on
the choices available, and point out ideas
you may not have considered.
Wedding planners may also have exclusive
access to some venues or services.
They will also take on the donkey work of
making your dream wedding a reality.
The fi rst, most important, step is to
set your budget. It is hard to make any
decisions without knowing how much you
have to spend.
Also decide early on if your wedding will
have a theme. It is normal to have a colour
theme for fl owers and bridesmaids, but
sometimes guests are requested to dress
in keeping with the theme. You could also
choose a historical theme, such as medieval
or 1920s, or a country theme.
Wedding planner Anna Jackson of A
Touch of Klass says: “My job is wonderful,
I have made some great friends as I really
bond with the bride, although grooms are
fast becoming more and more involved in
arrangements in recent times.
“The biggest hurdle is often the dress. In
the bridal wear world the dresses are always
bigger sizes - so if you’re a size 12 the dress
that fi ts you will probably be a size 16. It’s
sometimes diffi cult to explain to bride-to-be’s
that they are still the same size, the dresses
are just very, very small sizes. I’ve had to cut
out so many labels on dresses for the bride
once it’s been ordered. They don’t want
anyone to see the size.”
Even something as seemingly
straightforward as the invitations involves
a lot of decisions. Will you send out save
the date cards fi rst? Will you send a menu
or information sheet with the invitations?
Will you send a reply card or stamped
addressed envelope?
Also decide who will be invited to the
ceremony, the wedding breakfast, and the
evening event if you have one.
Ensure you include a deadline date for
people to reply – and the method of how
they should reply. It is not unreasonable to
ask for replies within a week.
Planning
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A truly unique venue...
Whether you are looking for a romantic, intimate wedding or a large grand affair; we offer a choice of three elegant and stylish function suites each
with their own individual style,perfect for your special day!
A dedicated wedding co-ordinator will assist with all the planning, from the early stages right through to the big day, ensuring you can relax and enjoy every single moment.
All of our function suites are licensed for Civil Weddings and Civil Partnerships.
We welcome all Multi-Cultural weddings. 1090
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Lakeside SuiteElegantly decorated suite
perfect for smaller, intimate weddings with stunning views overlooking the Marine Lake.
Waterfront SuiteThe cool contemporary
colours and stylish design of thissuite provide the perfect setting.
Floral Hall BallroomThe magnificent surroundings
of this beautiful suite will add a touch of glamour to your day!
The Promenade, Southport, PR9 ODZTel: 01704 514770www.southporttheatre.org.uk Email: [email protected]
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The venue is the single most important detail of the wedding day a couple will decide upon together.
These days choosing a wedding venue is no longer limited
to a church or registry offi ce.
It’s not unusual to hear of a ceremony taking place whilst the
bride and groom bungee jump - in fact it brings a much more
literal meaning to tying the knot.
Bizarre ideas aside, classic formal weddings are still the
most popular.
The perfect wedding location is the part of the day that will
go down in history. For years to come, guests will tell people
about the wedding venue - and they will hold nothing back.
What the food was like, how the tables were set, what the
service was like and most of all - was it was a disaster or a
dream venue.
Other than the traditional church, castles, stately homes and
country clubs are all romantic alternatives.
Hotels are also a very popular choice, because it is simple to
hold the reception in the same location.
Nowadays, British weather allowing, many couples are
choosing to tie the knot outdoors. The increasing number
of locations becoming registered to hold weddings has
broadened choice enormously.
Picturesque parks or botanical gardens make for an opulent
backdrop to the ceremony.
Your local town hall or registry offi ce is a popular choice for
people who have been married before, or those wanting a fuss-
free service.
Venue
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With a selection of luxurious banqueting rooms, we cater for 20 to 250 guests. The hotel is fully licensed to hold Civil Ceremonies and with the beautiful Kings Gardens directly in front, you have a fantastic backdrop for photographs. We really are the ideal location for any wedding or celebration. Call now for a Brochure: Telephone 01704 533771Email [email protected] www.royalclifton.co.uk
Plan your 1091792
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Call for Details
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Scarisbrick HotelLord Street · Southport · 01704 543000
• A Superb 3 course meal with coffee• A welcome drinks reception for all your guests
• A fabulous finger buffet for evening guests• Red carpet and champagne greeting for the bride and groom
• Glass of sparkling wine for all your guests for the toast and wine with your meal
• Chair covers for wedding breakfast• Resident DJ for evening entertainment
• One of our four poster honeymoon suite’s includesbreakfast for both the bride and groom
All this for under
£2,800**Based on 50 daytime
guests and 100evening guests
All Inclusive
Wedding Packages
The Scarisbrick Hotel in Southport is your ideal wedding venue and you will receive our renowned personal and friendly service. Everyone wants their wedding day to be perfect and our wedding receptions are the icing on the cake. We can offer you complete Wedding reception packages from small intimate weddings to lavish receptions, offering you excellent value for money. Alternatively, you can choose from our A La Carte Selection and put your own package together. We will happily cater for small & large numbers, from 10 to 160 guests. We will arrange the evening celebration for you and your guests, offering a superb choice of buffets and arranging one of our resident DJ’S to provide music suitable for all ages attending your wedding reception in Southport. All guests staying overnight can enjoy a 20% discount from our usualBed and Breakfast tariff.The Scarisbrick Hotel is registered to hold Civil Wedding Ceremonies on the premises
For further information or request a wedding brochure Tel: 01704 543000 orEmail [email protected]
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1091
793
47 - 51 Merseyview, Waterloo, L22 6QA0151-924-0445 www.labarbacoa.co.uk Bar
Restaurant ~ Function Suite ~ Live Music Venue
Up to 150 persons daytime200 persons evening
Evening buffets selection
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Fully installed sound & lighting systems• Licensed for live bands • Fully air conditioned
Your Wedding DayFull wedding brochure WITH PRICES on our website
The Royal Hotel, Marine Terrace, Waterloo, Liverpool, L22 5PR0151 928 2332. www.liverpool-royalhotel.co.uk
Our Historic Grade 2 Listed Building HasWelcomed Happy Couples Since 1815.
A great setting with the Marine Gardens to the front of the hotel, views to the welsh hills.
The Royal Hotel Offers:A Friendly & Quality Approach To All Couples
Catering For The More Intimate Weddings Up To80 Persons,
We Offer A Wide Range Of Food & Drink Options
So Call Us Today Or Have A Look AtOur Brochure Online
Everyone Deserves A ROYAL WEDDING
THEROYAL HOTEL
25 Ensuite Bedrooms
Lounge Bar& Restaurant
Conference,Meeting & FunctionFacilities Available
We Offer A Range Of Wedding PackagesFor Both Daytime & Evening Receptions
With Full Catering Provided In HouseBy Our Experienced Team Of Chefs
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Your wedding reception can be anything from a short ceremony to a party lasting many hours, but the important thing is that you enjoy it.
Make sure your venue has room for all of your guests, and
make sure there’s plenty of music to hand to ensure that fi rst
dance goes smoothly!
If your beloved has grown up in another country, why not
try to include some of their customs into the ceremony to give
your reception a truly international fl avour? Groom’s cakes,
often chocolate or liquor-fl avoured, are a popular reception
dish from the southern USA, while the custom of paying the
bride or groom a small amount of money to dance with them is
a tradition popular in countries such as Italy and Poland.
And don’t forget to toast your guests, particularly if one of
them introduced you and your partner to each other. Chances
are, they may even return a few good-natured jokes in the
speeches they make!
Also think about your outfi t for the reception. Will you stay in
your wedding clothes (it is nice for guests who did not attend
the ceremony to be able to see you in your fi nery) or change
into something more comfortable?
Your wedding day is one of the best of your life, and a great
reception should play a part of it.
Reception
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PRINCE OF WALES HOTELLord Street, Southport • tel: 01704 536688 • fax: 01704 543932PRINCE OF WALES HOTELLord Street, Southport • tel: 01704 536688 • fax: 01704 543932
1090
651
The Prince of Wales has long been established as a premier venue for weddings in Southport.
Licensed to hold civil ceremonies for up to 200 guests we can cater for your whole wedding from start to finish.
The Prince is a beautifully restored hotel with a private lawned garden and arbour to the
front, ideal for photographs and drinks on arrival. Each function room has been lovingly restored to reflect their Victorian heritage. The intimate International & Cocktail Bar is ideal for weddings from 40 up to 70, the Windsor is comfortable from 40 to 110 guests, whilst our magnificent Bamber Ballroom is ideal from 80 to 200 daytime guests.
1090
651
SATURDAY PACKAGEAvailable April – September
Red carpet welcomeLawn available for photographs Welcome glass of Bucks Fizz for 50 guestsSet 3 course menu for 50 guestsLinen cloths on each tableEvening buffet for 100 guestsFunction suite room hirePrivate cash bar until 12.30amIncluding VAT
£1499 - 2011/12
£1499 WEDDING PACKAGE
SATURDAY PACKAGEAvailable October – March
SUNDAY – FRIDAY PACKAGEAvailable all year
Red carpet welcomeLawn available for photographsWelcome glass of Bucks Fizz for 50 guestsGlass of wine with Wedding breakfast for 50 guestsSparkling wine toast for 50 guestsSet 3 course menu for 50 guestsLinen cloths on each tableWhite linen napkins for each guestPrinting of menus, seating plan & placecardsCandelabra with choice of candles on each tableEvening buffet for 100 guestsFunction suite room hirePrivate cash bar until 12.30amIncluding VAT
£1499 - 2011/12Additional food or liquor items, along with room upgrades& any other aspects for your special day are available.Please ask your Wedding Co-ordinator.
PRINCE OF WALES HOTEL,Lord Street, Southport, PR8 1JS. Tel: 01704 536 688
DAYTIME WEDDING BREAKFAST MENU
Tomato SoupOr
Vegetable Soup✿✿✿
Traditional Roast Beef, Yorkshire Pudding,seasonal vegetables & potatoesOr
Traditional Roast Chicken, traditional trimmings,seasonal vegetables & potatoes✿✿✿
Apple Pie served with creamOr
Gateau served with cream
Additional guests charged£15.95 (2011 Rate only) Per Adult£17.95 (2012 Rate only) Per Adult.........................................................................................
EVENING BUFFET MENU
Please choose 2 from the following
Hot Pot, pickled red cabbage, crusty bread Chicken curry & riceChilli & riceVegetable Lasagne
Additional guests charged£5.95 (2011 Rate only) Per Adult£6.95 (2012 Rate only) Per Adult.........................................................................................
CIVIL CEREMONY CHARGES FROM £500
Room upgrade chargesThe Windsor Room @ £500
The Ballroom @ £750
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The Cake Studio of
Celebration cakes baked to perfection, then
hand decorated by our cake artists...
1091888
For further details contact Emma at our studio
145 Roe Lane, Southport
Tel: 01704 227040Visit our website at
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A wedding cake is as much a part of the wedding as confetti, so choosing and making sure you have the right one is essential.
The cake is important and guests remember what it was like.
There are all types of wedding cakes, from large traditional
ones to just a single layered cake, there are lots of different
decisions to be made. Couples should decide how big their
cake is by how many guests they have coming.
The fl avour of the cake is also important. If you have chosen
to have a large layered cake then each tier could be different.
Flavours may include anything from vanilla, to chocolate fudge
to the traditional fruit mix with soft icing on top.
Sometimes couples decide to keep one of the tiers from the
wedding cake for a christening.
Icing is normally white or light cream colour. But in modern
weddings couples are deciding to have the same colour for the
wedding cake icing as the wedding theme. Sugar and fl our, or
rich cream cheese can be used as the icing recipe.
When decorating a cake you are free to use your
imagination. You can choose to have a cake linked with the
décor or theme of the wedding, or you might want to give it a
different look with unusual decorations to suit your individual
preference. Bakers design cakes with drapes, lace and
embroidery appliqué.
The wedding cake should refl ect the characteristics of the
couple.
Start planning your wedding cake months before the big day.
And make sure the cake is right for the season you are getting
married in, as an ice cream cake will melt in hot weather.
Cake
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There are a number of choices to be made when planning food for a wedding reception and you must try and meet your guests’ varying tastes.
If you are having a wedding breakfast as
well as an evening reception, you will need
to plan separate menus.
The wedding breakfast is attended by an
invited number of guests who have been to
the church service.
The origin of the term ‘wedding breakfast’
is debated – some say it comes from the
tradition of the bride and groom fasting
before the ceremony, others believe it
comes from being the fi rst meal of married
life, as breakfast is the fi rst meal of the day.
If you are planning an evening do as well
– normally for a larger number of guests
who have not all attended the breakfast –
don’t forget that while you may still be full
from the earlier dinner, your new guests will
be hungry and will expect a good spread.
As always, fi nance comes into play
and fi rst of all people must decide when
they are to hold their reception, and must
choose whether it will be in the morning,
afternoon, or evening.
After you have decided on the time of the
reception you can start thinking about the
type of menu you want.
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For those couples who want to tie the
knot at 12pm there is the lunchtime option.
This allows you to have drinks, then a sit
down meal with a set menu, with starters of
either soup, melon, or pate for example.
The main meal could be hot and include
chicken, or beef or lamb with vegetables.
You may also want a vegetarian option and
to provide salad.
For dessert, people can decide between
meringues, fruit salads and cheese and
biscuits.
There is also the option of a buffet where
a hot or cold table of food can be offered,
with meats, fi sh and salad or sandwiches.
A lunch menu allows for a certain degree
of fl exibility.
For those couples who want to have a
morning reception there is the choice of a
breakfast or brunch option.
Here you can give guests a selection of
morning foods such as pastries, pancakes,
bagels, fresh fruit and cheeses.
Morning receptions allow you an early
start to your celebrations and mean you
can leave for your honeymoon the same
day, but some guests who have had
to travel a long way may have diffi culty
getting there on time.
There is also the dinner reception
choice. As with the lunch reception there is
the choice of a sit down meal or buffet.
At an evening affair guests are more
likely to dance.
Finally if you don’t want a full meal as
part of your do, you could have a tea
reception.
This is an economical idea and guests
are still able to enjoy sandwiches and
cake.
Once you have decided on the time of
the reception and the menu, you must get
a quote for the cost of the food per head.
Venues may charge extra for cutlery and
table linen, so make sure you know what is
included in your price.
Food
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1090526
•Small Weddings•Hen Parties
FREE Room HiRE for any functionSit doWn mEal oR buFFEt
Cinnamon can provide you with the perfect venue and our team will help you create the perfect party
13 - 17 Scarisbrick AvenueSouthport PR8 1NN
Telephone 01704 536926
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Flowers can set the theme for your wedding and, if you get them right, they can provide the perfect backdrop to the day.
Flowers
You should fi rst examine how much you
are willing to spend on fl owers as they vary
from a few hundred pounds right up to
thousands of pounds.
The bride and bridesmaids can have
bouquets and the groom and ushers normally
wear buttonholes. Traditionally the couple’s
mothers wear corsages.
You then need to make the decision to
have fl owers in the church or the venue
where you are to be married. In the church
people often have pedestals of fl owers and
they also fi nish the pews off with fl owers.
Flowers are often also put in the wedding
car as a decoration.
At the reception you can also fi nd fl owers
as table decorations or on pedestals.
When fi nding a fl orist, people should
enquire at the venue where the reception is
held, or ask for a recommendation from a
friend.
You should then make a decision on the type
of fl owers you want. Popular wedding blooms
include lilies, roses, freesias and carnations.
The fl owers should not clash with your
dress, and they should fi t in with the venue
for the wedding and reception.
You may want to choose your favourite
fl ower and this idea would add your
personality to the day.
Brides may want to base their choice of
fl owers on the season the wedding is held
in, with tulips in the spring and roses in the
summer.
The quantity of fl owers is also important.
Some decide for a few which can provide
understated elegance, while others go for
busy arrangements with many fl owers.
Flowers have their own signifi cance and
traditions that vary across the globe and
through the ages.
The Victorians were fascinated by
the meanings of different blooms and
popularised the wedding rose, which
represents true love.
In Tudor England, brides carried marigolds
dipped in rosewater and ate them afterward,
since they were thought to be aphrodisiacs.
Ancient Greek brides often carried ivy as
a symbol of never-ending love and in Indian
tradition both the bride and groom wear a
fl oral headpiece.
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Fantasyw e d d i n g s
Telephone: 01704 541 525Mobile: 07547819979eMail: [email protected]
ShowrooM addreSS: 4a bold Street, Southport pr9 0dd
opening TiMeS:Mon to Fri 10:30am - 5pm Sat 11.00 - 4pm
Please make an appointment to avoid disappointment. Out of hours bookings available on request.
Fantasy weddings is a unique business, ideally situated within the bridal Quarter of bold Street, next door to Cake Creations and opposite lucy briars bridal wear...
at Fantasy weddings we have many years experience of dressing venues for weddings and Special occasions. we provide hire Cover hire in Southport and surrounding areas. our Chair Covers and Table Cloths are all made in the UK from hotel quality linen and we have sizes to fit most types of chairs and tables. our organza and satin sashes, swags and table runners are available in a vast array of colours.
also available is Candelabra hire, Mirror hire and vase hire, all in a wide range of sizes and styles. These can be hired and decorated by yourself or our qualified florists can design something special of you.
we also have a wide range of beautiful hand made wedding stationary, and new for 2010 we also now stock a range of wedding guest books, albums and bridesmaid & best man gifts
browse through our website for more ideas, or call in to the showroom for more information.
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This may seem like the easy part, but there are many factors to consider when arranging your reception seating plan.
You will need to wait fi rst until you have
all the replies as to which guests will be
attending.
Chase up people who have not replied by
your deadline with a phone call.
While it is not strictly necessary to assign
seats to guests, it is normally expected and
helps the day run more smoothly. It also
avoids families being split up or people being
seated along with others they may not know.
A seating chart is generally posted on
a board or table near the entrance to the
reception, or escort cards can be printed
and given to each guest with their name and
table and seat number. The advantage of
these is they can be changed up to the last
minute, whereas a seating chart will need to
be printed in advance.
It is a nice idea to give ‘names’ to your
tables instead of numbers. These can have
a theme, for example gemstones or cartoon
characters.
Generally it is best to sit families or work
colleagues together, but avoid having a table
of ‘leftovers’ who don’t know anyone else – it
is best to distribute these guests evenly.
Some couples like to have a male-female-
male-female seating arrangement for variety,
but this is not always practical.
The wedding party sit at the top table,
which generally takes the form of a long table
with seats along one side. Sometimes it is on
a raised platform.
Traditionally the groom sits to the right of
the bride, and places alternate male-female.
Partners of the best man and chief
bridesmaid sit at other tables.
A typical line-up could be chief bridesmaid,
groom’s father, bride’s mother, groom, bride,
bride’s father, groom’s mother, best man.
If it is a second marriage, children from
previous relationships may also sit at the top
table.
If the parents of the bride or groom have
divorced and remarried, it probably isn’t a
good idea to put them and their new partners
together on the top table.
One solution is to invite some family of
the step-parent and put them together on a
separate table near the top table.
It is also becoming more fashionable for
the bride and groom to sit at their own table,
known as the sweetheart table. This avoids
anyone feeling ‘left out’ from the top table.
Seating Plan
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Traditionally the husband-to-be’s only jobs include the marriage proposal, selecting his best man and paying for the honeymoon - but things have changed and men are becoming more hands-on in planning their big day.
It used to the bride’s mother who would
go along with her to view fl owers, look at
venues, pick out stationery and organise
the reception seating plan.
But tradition has faded somewhat over
the decades, and the husband-to-be is
becoming much more involved with the
organisation of the big day.
With many couples now paying for
weddings themselves rather than turning
to their parents, and many setting up home
together before the wedding, it’s easy
to see why the men are so much more
involved.
Wedding planner Anna Jackson says:
“It’s amazing how many grooms come to all
the meetings with the bride now - we even
fi nd the men are grooming themselves
more.
“I have them booked in to get their hair
and nails done, teeth whitening, diet club -
you name it.”
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Part owner of Emersons Menswear in
Southport, Steve Emerson says: “Lots of
men are happy to wear what they are told
to wear and go with the fl ow - but more
grooms than ever are insisting on what they
like and what they don’t.
“Highland wear has been very popular
this year - but the amount of times men
have walked into the shop saying ‘I’m not
wearing a skirt’ - I’ve explained the theory
behind a kilt so often, then most people try
it on and look and feel a million dollars.”
Steve agrees that men are becoming
much more involved and do tend to
pamper themselves more.
“We get so many suits back with make-
up or fake tan on the collar - but why
shouldn’t the groom make sure he looks
and feels his best? Why should all the
emphasis be on how the bride looks? It’s
really great to see that men are making
such an effort with their appearance.”
The most popular suits in the shop are
the three-quarter length jackets. “They are
a kind of compromise between tails and a
regular dinner suit.
“Tails are really smart, but lots of men
just don’t feel comfortable wearing them,
so the three-quarter length suit is great. It
will carry on any size, shape or age - from
children to granddads.”
As with the bride, grooms should pick
an outfi t to fl atter their fi gure and make
sure they feel comfortable on the day. For
example, men with larger waistlines should
avoid drawing attention to them with a
cummerbund and opt for a more slimming
vest.
Shorter men should avoid double-
breasted suits and long jackets, as these
will not be fl attering.
So there you have it gents - groom
yourselves for your wedding day - take
some spotlight off the dress.
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The tradition of having a best man has somewhat unpleasant roots – a throw-back to ancient European times when a groom would kidnap his potential bride and would need to choose the ‘best man’ to help him with the task.
Today, choosing a best man is a tactful process. It is a great
honour to bestow on someone, normally a close friend of the
groom, but also comes with great responsibility.
The person chosen must be trustworthy and also get on well
with the bride.
He will stand to the right of the groom during the ceremony
and carry the rings until they are needed. But probably the
greatest pressure is the best man’s speech at the reception,
which is traditionally witty and jocular, and the chosen person
must be confi dent enough to carry this off.
A wealth of books and websites are available to give tips
on best man speeches, but the best are always original and
heartfelt.
The best man also acts as chief usher and will be
responsible for helping the groom keep appointments and
organising the wedding outfi ts (although the bride has the fi nal
say on matters such as the colour of waistcoats).
He will organise the stag party and distribute buttonholes
and orders of service.
The best man must be willing to give a lot of his own time, be
well organised and good at remembering names and faces.
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For many brides-to-be the most important and stressful element of the big day is the wedding dress.
From an elegant fi gure-hugging gown
to a full-on meringue - the possibilities are
endless, and, of course, are all a matter of
taste.
A bride needs the perfect gown that
will ensure she looks her best, refl ect her
personality and will still look stunning when
looking back on wedding photos in years
to come.
Many women spend years searching for
their wedding dress, but as soon as they
see it they will know it is ‘the one’. Bridal
shops, wedding fayres and magazines are
a great starting point.
Dawn Keijzer, director of The Bridal
Gallery Group Limited, Tarleton, says
brides-to-be should keep an open mind
when searching for the ideal dress.
“It’s great to have some direction, but
trying on a wedding dress is an experience
unlike any other and it often turns out that
the initial thoughts do not replicate the gown
that the bride falls in love with,” she says.
“Bring maybe one or two trusted family
members or friends with you, but not
too many as often opinions can confl ict
and cause confusion! Also don’t try on
too many gowns in one go as it can be
overwhelming.”
Bridal shop assistants are used to the
fi tting process and can give un-biased
advice on what silhouettes and colours will
suit you.
As with any dress, certain styles will
enhance particular body shapes. For
example, an A-line dress can hide broad
hips and a ‘mermaid’ shape creates height
for petite brides.
And if you’re struggling to fi nd your ideal
dress, there is always the option to have
your own bespoke style created – if you
can afford it.
Celebrity weddings can often infl uence
popular choices (perhaps with the
exception of Jordan’s pink loo-roll-cover
creation), but classic looks never go out of
fashion.
“Strapless gowns have defi nitely been
the style of choice over recent years,
however there has now been a slight shift
towards gowns with straps as brides want
to be different to other family members or
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friends who have all recently been married
in strapless gowns,” Dawn says.
“Romance is defi nitely back as veils are
also extremely popular at the moment,
with the train length being most popular
and many girls are also liking the addition
of pearls along with crystals either on their
gown, veil or tiara.”
Coloured gowns have increased in
popularity recently as attitudes towards
the traditional marriage ceremony become
more relaxed.
Red, gold and black gowns do not
even raise an eyebrow these days, but
the classic white or ivory dress still reigns
supreme.
Dawn recently produced dresses for
a set of seven bridesmaids who had the
same style dress in each of the colours of
the rainbow.
“The end result was striking,” she says.
The cost of a gown should not be off-
putting, because a beautiful dress can be
found to suit most budgets.
There is also more of a trend these
days to wear vintage dresses or family
heirlooms. It is not uncommon for brides to
fi nd their dream dress in a charity shop.
A mother’s or grandmother’s wedding
dress can be altered or embellished to
suit a modern day bride. With a good eye
and some fl are a bride can create her own
stunning creation that is truly unique.
Also keep in mind bridal lingerie and
ensure that this will suit the dress. For
example, a lacy bra may appear lumpy
under a sheer silk dress.
A beautiful, well suited dress will ensure
you exude confi dence on your wedding
day and all the stress of fi nding it will be
worth it to see your husband-to-be’s jaw
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Originally bridesmaids were used in the wedding ceremony as a ‘decoy’, to confuse evil spirits intent on destroying the bride’s happiness. Often they were servants of the couple.
Modern bridesmaids are seen as an integral part of the
ceremony and help her in a similar way to the best man helping
the groom.
Bridesmaids can be of any age. Many couples like to
choose young family members to make them feel involved in
the day. An older bridesmaid who is married is known as a
matron of honour.
It is acceptable to have any number of bridesmaids, although
the more chosen, the more cost is involved. Bridesmaids’
dresses are traditionally paid for by the groom, but today these
customs are often ignored for practical reasons.
The bride has the fi nal say on what the bridesmaids wear.
One of their duties is to carry the bride’s train if it is long, but
they also help with practical issues and traditionally plan the
hen party.
Superstition says that if a bridesmaid trips down the aisle,
she will never be a bride herself.
Page boys and fl ower girls can also be incorporated into the
ceremony. Flower girls walk in front of the bride, scattering
fl ower petals, while page boys may help carry the train or carry
the rings to the altar on a cushion.
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The bride’s parents traditionally were responsible for paying for the majority of wedding expenses, but this is no longer closely observed.
Other customs that they are expected to perform include
hosting the engagement party, assisting the bride in her duties,
witnessing the signing of the register and acting as host and
hostess at the reception as well as greeting them at their arrival.
The bride’s father travels to the wedding with his daughter
and escorts her down the aisle before ‘giving her away’.
He makes the fi rst speech at the reception, toasts the bride
and groom and is traditionally the last person to leave the
reception.
The bride’s mother should help her daughter and respect her
wishes at every stage, even if they do not match her own.
The groom’s parents have no traditional roles to fulfi l, but
nowadays they often make a fi nancial contribution to the
wedding and it is good practice for them to be consulted
throughout the wedding plans.
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Hair and make-up is a very important aspect of the wedding day. Every bride wants to look stunning on her big day, but should remember it’s not just about fi nding the perfect dress.
There are so many options to choose from when deciding
on the right wedding hairstyle; be it pinned up or left down,
curly or straight, so it’s a good idea to look for inspiration in
magazines and on the internet beforehand.
The style must complement your outfi t, refl ect your
personality and fi t in with how you will wear your chosen veil
or tiara.
Jewels, beads or fl owers can also be added to French
pleats or curls for a unique look or a touch of sparkle.
Once you’ve decided on your ideal style, don’t wait until the
wedding and hope for the best. Always have a trial run well in
advance to make sure it will work out as planned.
Make-up must also complement the rest of your look.
To help achieve a fl awless complexion, take care of your
skin ahead of the big day.
Try to take time out and relax during the build-up.
Pre-wedding nerves and stress over the preparations can lead
to the appearance of pimples.
As with hair, it is advisable to have a make-up trial in
advance. Trials work best in daylight to fi nd the perfect tones
and colours to suit your complexion and wedding theme.
On the day, leave the make-up until your hairstyle is
complete, so that your face looks as fresh as possible when
you walk down the aisle.
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Rings & JewelleryThe band symbolises everlasting love and is traditionally
worn on the third fi nger of the left hand.
Ancient Egyptians believed that this fi nger contained the
“vena amoris”, the vein of love, that runs directly to the heart.
Many couples choose a wedding set of matching
engagement ring, wedding band and eternity ring, but it
is more common, with people choosing to have longer
engagements, to buy separate rings.
Start the search by deciding what will go well with the
engagement ring.
The gold colours should match and the carat weights
should be the same, otherwise a purer gold ring would wear
down a less pure one worn next to it.
Simple gold bands are the classic choice, but many
variations on this style are now available.
White gold has soared in popularity over recent years
and is now the colour of choice for many younger couples
because of its versatility when wearing other colours.
Diamond studded bands are becoming popular, but ensure
they do not clash or detract from the engagement ring.
Patterned and Celtic style bands are also widely available.
Dual-coloured bands are also a fashionable choice, with a
smaller band of white gold on a yellow base being a popular
current style.
Couples often decide to have a personal message, or
initials, engraved on the inside of their wedding band. This
gives a personal and romantic individual twist, but if you
choose this option it is better to go for a wider wedding band.
For the big day itself, decide whether to buy or hire bridal
jewellery.
To make a real statement without breaking the bank, hire
some stunning diamond earrings and a necklace.
But many brides like to keep their wedding jewellery, and
often a simple, elegant solitaire diamond necklace is all that is
needed to set off the beautiful dress.
If the bride’s hair is worn up, some beautiful earrings will
complement the style well.
Choose the hairstyle well in advance so you can decide
what hair jewellery, such as tiaras or elegant slides, will be
needed.
Choosing the right wedding ring is very important as you will be wearing it every day for the rest of your married life.
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Photography
Capturing the day on camera is vital to any wedding. The pictures will keep the memories alive and will stay with you forever.
Professional photographers bring exceptional organisation
skills to your big day, together with that all-important “eye” for
detail - but just how much goes into taking wedding pictures?
Traditionally, wedding photography was frowned on by
professional photographers, but in recent years it’s become
more of a respected profession. Wedding photography is now
up there with high fashion photography.
There’s so much more room for creativity that a professional
will bring with him in his bag of tricks. They’ll picture the bride
and groom naturally enjoying themselves, making really special
images to grace your album.
Using their imagination and utilising different locations, your
photographs are going to uniquely record your day, to provide
you with a timeless source of great pleasure.
For inexperienced photographers it can be a diffi cult job
keeping people relaxed in front of a camera but professionals
consider it the best job in the world.
The current fashion is for artistic shots, but you need to
ensure that your chosen photographer is both comfortable and
competent taking traditional shots too – such as close-ups of
the bride and groom holding hands, or a motion shot of confetti
raining down on the newlyweds.
You also need to consider whether to have your wedding
memorialised on video. A DVD is a fantastic way of reliving your
wedding day in years to come and it is an ideal gift for friends
and family to treasure or even pass on to your children. What
better way to describe your big day to future generations than
letting them watch it for themselves?
It’s best to get a professional in for the job, because an
amateurish wedding video can look really dated, very quickly.
With expert editing and maybe a soundtrack added, you can
relive your wedding whenever you like without worrying about
any ‘You’ve Been Framed’ style blunders.
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When you’re travelling to your wedding, you want to not only get to the church on time, but in style too.
Transport
There’s a wealth of ways of getting to your
special day and ensuring both you and your
guests arrive unruffl ed and ready for the big
event. It’s easy to overlook your choice of
carriage in the whirlwind rush to the wedding
itself, but it’s well worth taking a look at just
what’s on offer.
Wedding car fi rms across Sefton and West
Lancashire are ready to help you get that
special journey arranged, and have an array
of some of the most beautiful and luxurious
machines on hand to make the trip to the
church an enjoyable and comfortable one.
Anything from the latest Rolls-Royces,
Daimlers, Mercedes and Bentleys are
available to make your day extra special, but
if you’re feeling adventurous, why not go for
a classic car to give your ceremony some
added style?
The Rolls-Royce Silver Shadow and Silver
Cloud models are still wedding favourites
today but you could also go for a Stateside
feel with a Cadillac, a period feel with a
vintage or veteran car or feel like a head of
state with a Daimler limousine. There’s no
shortage of stylish wheels to whisk you to
your wedding!
Happy couples could even drop four
wheels altogether in favour of four legs.
Horse and carriages were the staple transport
of wedding ceremonies for centuries before
the car was invented, and it still makes a
charming way to get to the venue.
A number of companies based in the
region are more than willing to help you
arrange a horse-drawn carriage trip, which
will help give the wedding ceremony a
traditional feel.
For real high fl yers there’s always the
option of arranging a high-adrenaline way of
getting to the ceremony; if it’s suitable for the
venue, why not drop in by helicopter, or drift
up gently by boat? These are undoubtedly
expensive options, but if you’re looking to
make a memorable entrance on the big day
they are defi nitely worth considering.
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It’s now tradition for guests to shower the bride and groom with gifts on their wedding day, but it can be tricky choosing presents for the happy couple.
Gifts
Don’t be embarrassed about setting up a
gift list and asking for things you need. You
don’t want to end up with 10 kettles and fi ve
toasters, and guests will probably appreciate a
point in the right direction.
Using a gift list is only considered to be
bad taste if it is forced onto guests, and is not
thought to be cheeky or presumptuous.
You can either compile a list yourself,
including the colour, model and
manufacturer’s name for the items you want,
or use the wedding list services on offer at
various shops and websites.
It is tradition that the host, usually the bride’s
mother, takes charge of circulating the list.
On the big day, the bride and groom are
also expected to give presents to their guests.
Known as ‘favours’, the gifts can double-up
as a token of thanks and an attractive table
decoration.
They may be as simple as small boxes
fi lled with sweets or sugared almonds and
goody bags for children, to more unusual
or personalised gifts like alcohol miniatures,
small accessories or lottery tickets.
Special gifts are also given to the
bridesmaids, ushers and best man by way of
thanks for their hard work.
A keepsake to remind them of the day will
often make a nice gift.
Traditionally, the gifts for the best man and
the maid of honour will be similar but slightly
more expensive than those given to the
bridesmaids and ushers.
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Honeymoon
When it comes to working out your honeymoon the world is your oyster as the choice of locations for your romantic break is practically endless.
Whether you and your beloved are hoping to head for the
sun, experience the glamour of the globe’s most beautiful
cities, or escape to a country retreat to enjoy your break in a
peaceful and secluded place, you’ll be spoilt for choice.
There’s a romantic break on offer from every corner of the
globe, offering almost every fl avour of exciting getaway for
you and your partner. You could sip cocktails and see the
sunset from any number of perfect island beaches, including
ones in the Caribbean, the Seychelles, or in the warm and
secluded seas in the Far East, made famous by Leonardo
DiCaprio in The Beach.
Closer to home are the charms of Europe’s beautiful cities,
which have long provided happy couples with the honeymoon
of their dreams. Paris and Venice remain popular choices,
but why not try Rome, Prague, or Barcelona? Moscow is
also becoming a honeymoon favourite for more adventurous
couples.
You don’t even need to stray beyond the British Isles to
enjoy a truly romantic time away, with country breaks and
city stops alike on offer. The sights and sounds of London,
Edinburgh and Dublin are an exciting stop for any couple,
while a secluded break in the Lake District, Scottish Highlands
or North Wales offer a chance to get away from it all.
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A relatively new concept, wedding fayres are a fantastic way to have a look around possible venues but also to look at other providers while you are there.
Anyone who produces
anything for weddings can
book a table and show their
wares to prospective brides
and grooms.
On some occasions
there is even a fashion
show showcasing the latest
wedding dresses, morning
wear and mother of the
bride fashions.
Cake makers, stationers,
fl orists, photographers,
beauticians and
hairdressers will all be there
to talk to you and help you
make decisions on the main
aspects of your wedding.
You can go to as many as
you like and going to fayres
held in several different
venues will give you the
chance to look at different
locations and speak to a
number of different people.
Wedding Fayres
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Hens & Stags
Thirty years ago stag and hen do’s consisted of a few drinks down the local pub the night before the wedding.
Now, they can range from a night out to a week away in
some far fl ung exotic location. It is not unusual for the stag,
along with his close friends and perhaps family to jump on a
plane and enjoy a weekend away in the sun. The hen may do
exactly the same with her friends in a similar location.
Traditionally the Best Man will take responsibility for the
stag do, he will decide what is going to happen and arrange it
from start to fi nish.
The Maid of Honour or Chief Bridesmaid does the same for
the bride. This rule has been slightly relaxed in recent years
with the bride and groom, possibly wisely so, wanting a say in
the plans.
Some couples do still opt to have a less extravagant hen
and stag do and will keep it to a night out in their local area.
Although tradition it is considered less than sensible to have it
the night before the wedding these days.
Getting through a twelve-hour day with a hangover is not
nice, and defi nitely not enjoyable.
And besides, it takes longer than a few hours for eyebrows
to grow back and permanent marker to wear off …
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Something old refers to an item that represents a link with the
bride’s ‘old’ life. Often this will be a piece of family jewellery or a
dress worn by a mother or grandmother.
Something new is said to bring good luck, happiness and
success. This could be the wedding dress, if bought new.
Something borrowed, normally something that has been
worn by another bride at a happy wedding, ensures good luck,
this could be a trinket, hankie, or item of clothing.
The something blue dates from ancient Israel, where the
bride wore a blue ribbon to symbolise fi delity. Nowadays a bride
will often wear a blue-trimmed garter.
There are a wealth of old wives’ tales and superstitions
associated with weddings. It used to be considered unlucky for
a woman to marry a man whose surname began with the same
letter as hers, as set out in the rhyme: “To change the name and
not the letter, is to change for the worst and not the better.”
It is thought unlucky for the groom to see the bride in her
wedding dress before the ceremony and it is also unlucky for
the bride to make her own wedding dress.
The bride should not wear her entire outfi t before the wedding
day. Some brides leave a fi nal stitch on the dress undone until it
is time to leave for the ceremony so as not to jinx the wedding.
When the bride is ready to leave for the wedding, a fi nal look
in the mirror is said to bring good luck. However returning to the
mirror once the journey has begun, will result in bad luck.
Seeing a chimney sweep on the way to a wedding is thought
to bring good luck and many couples still hire one to attend
marriage ceremonies. Other good luck omens when seen on
the way to a wedding include lambs, toads, spiders, black cats
and rainbows.
Several wedding traditions involve shoes. The best known,
which is still carried out today, is to tie shoes to the back of the
married couple’s car. This has evolved from a Tudor custom
where guests would throw shoes at the newlywed couple. It was
considered lucky if they or their carriage were hit.
Another lesser-known tradition is for the father of the bride
to give the groom a pair of the bride’s shoes to symbolise the
passing of responsibility for the daughter to her new husband.
A variation of the custom is for the groom to tap the bride on the
forehead with one of the shoes to assert his dominance.
TraditionThe tradition of the bride wearing “something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue” dates from Victorian times.
The custom of the bride throwing her bouquet over her shoulder originally involved her throwing one ofher shoes.
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Appoint Bridesmaids and Best Man
Commence a wedding planning diary
Book church or wedding venue
Book and organise reception
Arrange caterers if necessary
Make out guest list
Order printed wedding invitations and other stationery
Buy rings
Compile gift list
Plan and select bride’s gown
Plan and choose bridesmaids’ clothes
Choose a going-away outfi t
Choose/hire suit for groom
Choose bride’s mother’s outfi t
Choose groom’s mother’s outfi t
Order fl owers for reception and ceremony
Order fl owers for bride and bridesmaids
Order corsages for the two mothers
Order buttonholes for groom,
Best Man, ushers and guests
Book photographer and/or video
Organise the cake
Arrange transport for bride to the ceremony
(to the reception is the groom’s responsibility)
Arrange transport for main wedding party
and other guests
Record replies to wedding invitations
Update gift list as gifts are received
The honeymoon booking (groom again)
Checklist
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We at Tree Tops would like to make it a very special day for you. Did you know that we are the only country house hotel in the area and that we have five acres of beautiful grounds? A photographers
paradise. And, of course, while those lovely photographs are being taken, your guests can mingle on the lawns with their pre-drinks.
There are various options available at Tree Tops for you to choose from.
We are licensed for civil weddings and civil partnership ceremonies. These take place in our beautifully appointed conservatory. We can also arrange blessings and wedding parties for those couples who
have had a wedding abroad. A further option then, according to numbers, is whether you wish to hold your wedding breakfast in our delightful restaurant or our renowned marquee suite. The decor in the restaurant is such that you can introduce your own colour scheme in the cloths, flowers etc. and the
restaurant will accommodate up to 75. Our heated (for all those winter weddings) marquee will hold up to 250 and, as well as choosing your own colour, cloths, flowers etc., we can arrange to even change
the colour of the wall and ceiling! And also if necessary extend it to hold even more guests.
Whichever is your choice, you can be confident that our professional and caring staff will be working together to make your day a day to remember.
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