MEDITATIONS,QUOTES Vol 11

8/3/2019 MEDITATIONS,QUOTES Vol 11

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Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONSVOL. 19

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008


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Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONSVOL. 19

NARCOSIA Publishing

ARAD COUNTY, MACEA

2008


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CIP description of the Romanian National

Library

Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3

ISBN 978-973-88999-8-8


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Urge to read, analyze and apply

these meditations

By reading and analyzing the

meditations of AGC, by applying one

or more thoughts we will find solutions

that will help us:

I. Discover:

1. qualities;

2. defects;

3. capabilities;

4. skills;5. some opportunities

to succeed in life;

6. finding a partner for life;

7. keeping our marriage;8. discovering our feelings;

9. discovering our

mistakes;

10. etc..


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II. To prevent some:

1. mistakes;2. accidents;

3. divorces;

4. trouble;

5. bankruptcies;

6. failures;

7. conflicts;

8. etc..

III. Become:1. more efficient;

2. happier;

3. more loved;

4. more honorable;5. appreciated;

6. more respected;

7. more loved;

8. more organized;


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9. more optimistic;

10. more plan;

11. most active;12. best;

13. fairer;

14. more humane;

15. more unselfish;

16. popular;

17. more famous;

18. etc..

IV. Come out of:1. the state of lost hope;

2. the state of pessimism;

3. the state of despair;

4. the state of passivity;5. the state of inactivity

6. etc..

V. Participate at:


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maintain a happy marriage.

X. To let us raise andeducate our children better,

to take more care of them.

I am writing these meditations

and adding these books, other

publications and on the Internet, etc..

because we need them every day and it

is necessary to apply them so that we

each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and

happy one. These meditations reflect a

tiny part of reality, of what would be

good to be present in real life and inhuman relations.

I expect good news from you,

good deeds that you have done

influenced by the fact that you have


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read and applied one or more ideas to

make your life more beautiful, more

prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others.

Each of us can become a positive

new model for those around us thus

participating in the creation of a better

human society, of a more prosperous

one, and a happier one.

I would be very happy and

excited if one or more ideas that you

have read, help you in one way oranother or make you happier, more

prosperous, etc..

I wish you all health, happiness

and the achieving of all things that youwant.

I expect your news, ideas,

opinions, troubles and joys, etc..


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Sincerely, love and with much joy,

I invite you to visit my site

www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write tome at: [email protected]

Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel

(AGC)


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1) Patience helps us maintain ourefficient co operations.

2) Patience with the self and patiencewith the other complete each other.

3) Patience with the other is part of ourwisdom.

4) Respecting principles helps usbecome more efficient.

5)

If we respect principles we will bemore respected.

6) Sometimes superstitions stop theachievement of true friendships.

7) Sometimes superstitions can destroyhappy marriages.8) A lying man is extremelydangerous.

9) A man you cannot trust also harmshimself.


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10) Superficiality in everything we do isextremely harmful.

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Women are mostly abused in familyviolence.

12) The violent scenes on TV aremimicked in everyday real life.

13) Arguments between lovers stop theachievement of mature love.14) Harmony between spouses preventsarguments.

15) Harmony between family membersbrings much joy.

16) An aggressive behavior of thehusband towards the wife is very harmful

for children.

17) True friendship makes our life morebeautiful.18) Each family member mustcontribute with all that he can to achieving

harmony within the family.

19) The excessive consummation of


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alcohol is the cause of many stupid

accidents with disastrous effects.

20)

Diminishing the excessiveconsummation of alcohol must be a primer

objective of every state.

21) Reducing the excessiveconsummation of alcohol has multiple

good effects on family members.22) The more we know about theconditions and factors that contribute to

achieving a mature love, the more chances

we have to obtain that love.

23) Mature love creates manysatisfactions.

24) Each of us needs to find all thequalities we have and develop them as

much as possible in order to increase ourchances of maintaining mature love.

25) Quarreling employees are first onthe list of dismissals.

26) Without commitment we cannot


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achieve an efficient cooperation.

27) Without commitment we cannotmaintain a true friendship.28) Preventive actions help us achieveour personal goals.

29) Without patience many objectiveswould not have been achieved.

30) Self control helps us achieve manysuccesses.

31) Positive ideas help us maintain ourmarriage happy.

32) Vanity removes the one who isvainglorious from the others.

33) We must not feel ashamed ofconstructive influences.

34) Day by day it is necessary to haveas an objective the removal ofdiscriminatory behaviors.

35) Discriminatory behavior is illegaland has very large negative effects.

36) Discriminatory behaviors must be


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replaced with non-discriminative ones.

37) Respecting principles helps usmaintain true friendships.38) Respecting principles helps usmaintain efficient co operations.

39) Improper education reduces a lotour chances of having success.

40) Improper education reduces ourefficiency.

41) Only effective actions help usachieve true friendships.

42) Only efficient actions help usachieve our personal objectives.

43) Those with negative mentalities donot achieve effective co-developments.

44) Those with negative mentalities donot achieve true friendships.45) Humanist thinking pushes ustowards humanist actions.

46) Humanist thinking helps us achievea mature love.


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47) The Internet helps us have muchmore chances of success.

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The Internet helps us have muchmore chances of happiness.

49) Some judges from all states commitfelonies.

50) Mature love makes us desire lifewithout death.51) Altruism helps us have morechances to achieve effective co operations.

52) Altruism helps us achieve a maturelove.

53) A more effective use of our timeincreases a lot the chances to maintain our

marriage happy.

54) By more effectively using our timewe increase even more our chances ofmeeting as many favorable situations as

we can.

55) Efficient actions increase ourchances of obtaining performances.


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56) Efficient co-developments help usachieve performances.

57)

Enthusiasm helps us achieveperformances.

58) States must take all the necessarymeasures for the prevention and stoppage

of all forms of discrimination.

59) Discrimination is the cause of manysufferings all over the globe.

60) An efficient communicationincreases our chances of meeting

favorable situations.

61) The worlds states have sufficientresources to stop felonies and end the

noncompliance with the fundamental

rights and freedoms of man, but

unfortunately they do not take anymeasures in this purpose.

62) Each of us is forced to fight againstvices because these are very harmful for

our marriage and lead to divorce.


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63) We are each responsible for ourown mistakes and we must assume them

and not ascribe them to others.64) Fairness helps us a lot and increasesour chances of achieving a mature love.

65) Optimism prevents us fromreaching the state of despair.

66) Fairness increases our chances ofkeeping efficient co operations.

67) Successes stop the state of despair.68) Efficient co operations help us a lotto get out of the state of despair.

69) Participating in social actions helpsus develop our ability and necessary

qualities for cooperation.

70) A happy marriage helps us preventthe situation of reaching despair.71) The more qualities we have to usein achieving personal objectives the more

trust we have in a better future.

72) An optimal morale increases our


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chances of not reaching panic situations.

73) Psychical balance increases ourchances of not reaching situations ofdespair.

74) Psychical balance helps us a lot tomaintain happy marriages.

75) Psychical balance can be obtainedthrough education, will, perseverance.76) Positive thinking can be maintainedthrough a proper diet, education,

intellectual exercise, perseverance,

experience, will, physical exercises, etc.

77) Enthusiasm helps us become moreefficient.

78) Rewards make us happier.79) Wisdom makes us even stronger.80) Wisdom helps us and contributes tomaintaining a happy marriage.81) Wisdom helps us and contributes tomaintaining efficient co operations.

82) Wisdom helps us and contributes to


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developing effective co operations.

83) Wisdom helps us as contributes toobtaining more favorable chances.84) Wisdom helps us and contributes toachieving even more successes.

85) Wisdom can be obtained also byilliterate people.

86) The activity of parenting is veryimportant for society.

87) We each have the right to happinessas we can achieve it if we truly want to, if

we persevere enough and if we respect the

necessary rules to be happy.

88) Prominent people are those peoplewho have succeeded in achieving more

than others.

89) Prominent people have been and aregreat engines of the progress of mankindin all areas of activity.

90) Prominent people must besupported in achieving either small or


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large projects.

91) Prominent people must be respectedfor the good they do for mankind.92) Prominent people are positivemodels worthy to imitate.

93) Vices also lead to losing our placeof work.

94) Vices lead many people tobankruptcy.

95) Vices stop the achievement ofpersonal goals.

96) Vices do not create anythingpositive.

97) Vices have produced enormoussufferings.

98) Unfortunately, vices are verywidespread even though they are soharmful and create so much suffering.

99) Life would be much more beautifulwithout vices.

100) There are people without vices from


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whom we should take an example.

101) Vices remove friends away from us.102)

Vices have led many people behindbars.

103) Vices have destroyed many happyfamilies.

104) Vices can be prevented.105) You can get rid of vices. Good luckto those who try it.

106) Those without vices obtain moresuccesses.

107) Kindness makes us appreciated.108) Kindness humanizes people.109) Charities make us more respected

by people.

110) Charities make us be loved bypeople.111) Kindness helps us open doors moreeasily.

112) Mercy determines us to help thosewho were struck by lifes hardships.


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113) Respected promises gain credibility.114) Respected promises increase ourchances of achieving efficient co-developments.

115) Promises that are respected increaseour chances of maintaining effective co-

developments.

116) A good fame helps us achievemature love.

117) Meditations make us give moreattention and time in all that concerns us.

118) Meditations help us make a morebeautiful life.

119) Meditations help us achieve happymarriages.

120) Laziness makes many people poor.121) Laziness stops those who are lazyfrom getting a job.122) Laziness brings only suffering.123) Fear stops us from making certainmistakes.


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124) Fear determines us to be morethoughtful.

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Fear makes us be more careful.126) Those who are wise know when toact and when not to.

127) Unconsidered words harm us a lot.128) Unconsidered words even lead us to

jail.129) Unconsidered words have destroyedmany happy marriages.

130) Unconsidered words have led to thedestruction of many friendships.

131) Unconsidered words lead toarguments.

132) Unconsidered words upset us.133) Those who have wise friends

become wise.134) Those who cooperate efficientlywith wise men have chances to learn from

them.

135) Cooperating with wise man is


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efficient.

136) Hatred many times createsarguments.137) Hatred is a primitive behavior.138) Hatred creates psychical discomfort.139) Those who hate are rejected.140) Hatred makes relationships between

people worse.141) Hatred is born even between

brothers.

142) It is necessary that we alwaysprevent hatred.

143) Social relations strengthen ourhealth.

144) Most of the times social relationsmake life more beautiful.

145) Arguments many times are notjustified.146) Arguments create stress.147) Recognizing the successes ofsomeone motivates that person.


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148) Recognizing the achievements of people impels them to increase their

efficiency.149) Recognizing the achievements ofpeople makes them loyal.

150) We must not have exaggerated fearswhen we start something.

151) The desire to succeed helps us verymuch in achieving our personal objectives.

152) The desire to succeed of those whocooperate helps them very much to

achieve effective co operations.

153) The desire to succeed helps us havemore chances of meeting favorable

situations.

154) The correct establishing ofobjectives helps achieve them.155) The correct setting of goals helps usachieve efficient co operations.

156) Those who recognize other peoplesactions are people who are appreciated by


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their collaborators.

157) Those who recognize other peoplesactions are persons who have a great catchto people.

158) Those who recognize other peoplesactions are persons who are successful.

159) Those who recognize other peoplesactions are effective persons.160) Searching for wisdom must be adaily objective.

161) Looking for the necessaryknowledge to achieve goals is an activity

on which success relies.

162) Looking for the necessaryknowledge to achieve the objectives

continuously increases our chances of

meeting favorable situations.163) The more efficient we are in ouractivity to look for knowledge the greater

chances we have to achieve successes.

164) Ambitions can be formed and


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developed.

165) It is necessary that one of ourobjectives is the development of thenecessary qualities for achieving our

goals.

166) Skills help us a lot to have morechances to meet more favorable situations.

167) The more qualities we have themore efficient our co operations are.

168) Friendships help us become happy.169) Friendships help us make a more

beautiful life.

170) Abilities help us become stronger.171) The efficient management of ourtime helps us achieve our personal

objectives.

172) Organization helps us to manageour time the best.173) Organization helps us achieve muchmore than greater successes.

174) An efficient organization of our


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actions helps us have more chances to

meet favorable situations.

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An efficient organization helps us alot to more efficiently manage our time.

176) The desire to lead a beautiful lifemust be owned by each of us.

177) We must all desire and act to liveour lives fully and not at random.178) Those who know how to truly livetheir life will have much happiness.

179) Those who know how to truly livetheir life will have a happy marriage.

180) Those who know how to truly livetheir life will achieve their personal goals.

181) Many states institutions put a stopto progress in many areas.

182) We must each contribute to solvingglobal problems. Not caring affects thingsin a negative way.

183) Not caring about the problems thatregard us is an unfit behavior for a citizen.


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184) Constructive ideas change the worldto better.

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We must each make constructiveideas more accessible to the audience.

186) Constructive ideas help us meetfavorable situations.

187) Creative ideas help us achievepersonal goals.188) Creative ideas help us have morechances to meet favorable situations.

189) Creative ideas help us achieve apleasant and happy life.

190) By continuously developing ourcreative ideas we will become more

efficient.

191) The larger our creative capacity isthe more chances we have of achievingour objectives.

192) Creative attitudes, qualities andcapacities must be rewarded.

193) Creative qualities help us develop


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co operations.

194) Global developments acceleratelocal developments as well.195) Each of us must support positiveactions.

196) Politicians have no right to not bequestioned for their actions.

197) Politicians are responsible for theiractions.

198) An illegal court order must beannulled immediately.

199) Unfortunately in most of the worldstates there are still illegal court orders

that do not respect human rights.

200) In most of the word states justice isinefficient.

201) Illegal actions of justice createmany damages, misfortunes, sufferingsand injustices.

202) In many states justice does notcorrespond to the modern age we live in.


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203) Financial sanctions must take theplace of many jail sanctions.

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The judicial and criminalinvestigations must take place as peaceful

as possible.

205) Some parliaments have a lowefficiency and approach problems

superficially.206) Mankind has many chances to

progress in many areas of activity if they

exploit to a maximum their resources.

207) For people in the worlds statesthere are much more chances and

possibilities to obtain a more beautiful life

with the help of technology.

208) Humanist thinking helps us a lot toform and develop humanist qualities.209) Hopes are the engines of progress.210) Hopes make us feel alive.211) Hopes give us energy.212) Hopes make us feel better.


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213) A life without hope is a sad one.214) A man without hopes is a

pessimistic man.215) Failures create pessimism.216) Pessimism kills will.217) Life is much more beautiful whenwe have hopes.

218) Hopes contribute to creating goodhumor.

219) There are all sorts of crisisworldwide because we have many times

acted abnormally.

220) The ideal life can be many timesachieved if we persevere in achieving an

idea life.

221) Inter human relations help usachieve many successes.222) Our way of thinking influences thehappiness of our marriage a lot.

223) Positive thinking creates positivebehaviors.


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224) Our own values help us progressmore or less.

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The choices we make are takenaccording to the values we have.

226) Realistic dreams must beestablished through personal goals.

227) A positive habit helps us achievemore or less successes.228) Life is a lot easier if we have only

positive habits.

229) We can form positive habits.230) Positive habits can be developedcontinuously.

231) Positive behaviors must berewarded.

232) Effective behaviors help us a lot togain more successes.233) Cooperating with people who haveefficient behaviors helps us a lot to

achieve more successes.

234) People with the same ideas


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understand each other very well most of

the times.

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Positive ideas prevent manypotential conflicts.

236) It is beneficial when we onlycooperate with people with positive ideas.

237) Positive ideas can only createpositive deeds.238) Only positive ideas can maintain amarriage happy.

239) Only positive ideas can createsuccesses.

240) Positive ideas make our life a lotmore beautiful.

241) Positive ideas come before great orsmall successes.

242) Our choices influence enormouslyour success or failure.243) We can continuously make ourchoices more effective.

244) Effective choices can be formed.


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245) No one can control our thinking.246) Our thinking can be made moreefficient continuously for as long as welive.

247) Our life conception can becontinuously developed.

248) Only positive convictions can helpus progress.249) We need to control our impulsesonly when it is necessary.

250) We must have the power to bestrong enough and select achievable

desires from those are unreachable and

transform them into personal objectives.

251) We must have the power to controlour harmful instincts.

252) We must have the power to controlthe impulses that harm us.253) We must have the power to controlour negative desires.

254) Successes are achieved by many


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positive factors.

255) Positive attitudes help us becomehappy.256) Negative attitudes can sometimesharm us incredibly much.

257) You must always avoid theformation of negative attitudes.

258) Today, on the third of January, 2009most people on this planet have more

chances to become happy.

259) People must be helped to lead ahealthier life from all points of view.

260) I can feel a strong psychicaldiscomfort when I see injustices done to

people.

261) I feel a strong discontent when I seeabnormality in public institutionsactivities.

262) We must spend more time on whatis good for us.

263) Effective habits help us obtain our


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own successes.

264) Efficient habits help us achieve ahappy life.265) We must permanently formeffective habits.

266) We can permanently become moreefficient.

267) We must always be optimistic.268) We must permanently enjoy whatwe are.

269) We need to permanently enjoy thequalities we have.

270) We must permanently enjoy havingchildren.

271) We must permanently enjoy havingtrue friends.

272) We must permanently enjoy whatwe have achieved.273) We need to always enjoy what wecould have done for others.

274) We must permanently rejoice when


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we progress.

275) We must permanently be glad whenwe can help one or more persons.276) We must permanently be glad of

being healthy.

277) Joy is good for our health.278) We must permanently enjoyeverything that is good for us.279) We must always rejoice with

positive personal goals.

280) We must permanently enjoy otherpeoples successes.

281) We must permanently be glad aboutother peoples happiness.

282) We must permanently appreciate inothers what is good for them.

283) Appreciating others is doing themgood.284) Appreciating positive behaviorsincreases the chances of repeating them.

285) Appreciating positive behaviors


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contributes a lot in achieving a better

world.

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Appreciating positive behaviors ofothers is a necessity.

287) Appreciating positive behaviors weprevent negative behaviors.

288) Encouraging positive behaviors weprevent many negative behaviors.289) Encouraging positive thought is avital necessity.

290) The encouragement of positivebehaviors is a vital necessity.

291) The encouragement of positivethinking is a vital necessity.

292) Life is more beautiful when youhave friends.

293) Life is more pleasant when youhave friends.294) Life is more pleasant when youhave achievements.

295) You are truly alive when you know


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how to live your life.

296) Positive ambition is necessary.297)

Negative ambitions are veryharmful sometimes.

298) Positive ambition must always beencouraged.

299) Positive ambition must always beappreciated.300) Positive ambition must always berewarded.

301) Positive ambition has helpedenormously in the progress of mankind.

302) Positive ambition can be formed.303) Positive ambition can becontinuously developed.

304) Positive ambition has achievedmany performances.305) Positive ambition has achievedmany performances.

306) Positive ambition prevents manynegative facts.


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307) Maintaining positive ambition mustbe a personal objective of ours for as long

as we live.308) By forming positive behaviors we prevent the formation of negative

behaviors.

309) By having ambitious friends wesometimes become more ambitious.310) Only by having positive behaviorswe can control our life.

311) Optimistic attitude helps us a lot tosucceed in life.

312) Optimistic attitude must beappreciated.

313) Optimistic attitude must berewarded.

314) Oprimistic attitude must beencouraged.315) Optimistic attitude must beencouraged in children when theyre very

young.


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316) Optimistic attitude prevents manyfailures.

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The ability to change ideas is afactor of many successes.

318) The ability to change our lessefficient behaviors with other behaviors

that are more effective must be maintained

all our life.319) The ability to change our lessefficient ideas with others that are more

efficient must be appreciated.

320) As long as we live we must developour ability of changing our ideas from less

efficient to more efficient.

321) The ability to change our lesseffective behaviors with others that are

more efficient increases our chances ofachieving our personal goals.

322) The more inter human effectiverelationships we have the more chances

we have to progress in life a lot faster.


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323) Inter human relations that areeffective help us become happier.

324)

Efficient inter human relationsmake some of us more optimistic.

325) Efficient inter human relations mustbe appreciated.


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About the author and his ideas

Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know

someone. Often, the person on whom

you stopped is difficult to decipher.

That is not the case of Gheorghe

Cornel Ardelean. From the first

moment I knew and he got my

attention.

I recognized him immediately

from the descriptions made by hiscolleagues: "One small, with white

haired man with many books and

newspapers in his hand, they said. My

curiosity pushed me to address him,cheerful, open; he began to talk to me

as if we knew each other for years. A

person opened both to dialogue as well

as current jokes. I got to know him


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even better when we met at Club

Central. A nice company as long as

you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future

plans are. Plans that are repeated

endlessly become a burden for the

people around him. Not because it

would be something wrong in what he

says but through their very

repeatability.

On several occasions I have read

some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine

"Freedom in Thought".

By their simplicity and the fact

that they expresses absolute truths, forthose who do not take seriously the

writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean

they may seem indeed to read seriously

what to write, I bet they will find


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among the apparently simple lines, a

message equal to a person who has

suffered enormously because ofhuman and system injustices.

The cry of a man eager for more,

eager for simplicity, for the truth and

for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect

world.

If even 10% of what he writes

would be put into practice by us, then

certainly we would set ourselves and

with others at the same time.Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel

Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into

practice what he writes, which means

that he really believes it.With an analytical style

impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel

Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a

few lines and penetrates into the


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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is

venturing into an area still unexplored

in specialized literature.Specialized topics are part of the

absolute truths that each of us have

deep within our being, so

acknowledged, so obvious, so natural

that no one has ventured to put them

on paper.

But surely there will be many

who, after reading and rereading these

absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The

novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe

Ardelean stand out besides putting on

paper a well-known truth, is that it alsoleads to problem solving. It is a

promising start in an area of astute

competition and often an unscrupulous

one.


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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean

and may these meditations help as

many people as possible. Do not giveup, continue on the path that you have

chosen and maybe in the nearer or

further future the world will be at least

5% as you want it to be.

Do not give up ... We ... only a

few, I must admit, we are beside you.

SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD

Graduate of the Academy of Theater

and Film

Former journalist of the national

newspapers and Romania Libera,Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's

Paul of Romanias adviser

a businessman resident in Italy


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Gheorghe Cornel

Ardelean Writer (66

books written in English,

66 in Romanian,7 edited)born 03rd.11.1954, in

Macea, Arad County,

Email:

[email protected]

www.ardeleancornel.euI have known the economist Cornel Ardelean

for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the

thought of some who did not believe in his ideas,

innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient

duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is

indeed a good economist by founding the first smallenterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the

post-communist age.

I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans

side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise

above his time if he wishes to and if he has the

potential to do it.

SABIN BODEA

President of the Writers League of Romania

Arad Branch

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3

ISBN 978 973 88999 8 8

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