[Phn 2] 7 Nguyn Tc Life Coaching

Cho cc bn,y l bi vit th 2 trong lot bi v Life Coaching. Bi vit ny ch yu s ni v cc nguyn tc hot ng ca 1 Life Coach. i vi nhng bn mong mun tm hiu v Life Coach, bn hy c bi vit ny hiu r hn nguyn tc hot ng ca Life Coach ni chung v ca chnh bn thn ti ni ring. i vi nhng ngi ng nghip Life Coach khc, ti mong rng cc bn s lun gi vng o c ngh nghip ca mnh v lun tun th theo nhng nguyn tc ny. Cn sau y l cc nguyn tc Life Coaching c lit k khng theo mt th t c nh no c:1. Cam kt h tr Coachee ht mnhMt trong nhng yu t m ti nh gi cao nht 1 coach chnh l ciTM. Nu mt ngi Coach c kh nng tt nhng khng ciTM, m ch s dng nhng k thut thc hin nh ca mnh th l mt ngi Coach ti t. V ciTMca mt ngi Coach th hin vic anh/c ta c tht s n lc ht sc mnh v Coachee ca h hay khng.S cam kt h tr Coachee cn th hin thng qua vic ngi Coach lun gi mt thi tch cc i vi Coachee ca mnh. iu c ngha l h phi coach vi mt con mt khng phn xt ngi khc. Nu nh Coach cho php s phn xt che m i kh nng nhn nhn r vn ca mnh th l lc h bt u c nhng suy ngh khng tt v Coachee ca mnh. Mt ngi Coach gii l mt ngi Coach lun nhn Coachee bng mtnh mt khch quan nht c th, v tin rng bn cht Coachee ca mnh l ngi tt v c tim nng thnh cng hn nhng g h ang c. Vn mu cht y l Coach cn phi gip h bc l nhng g tt p nht ca mnh ra bn ngoi.Nu h khng th lm c iu ny, th tt nht l hy cn nhc n vic hy b mi quan h coaching (coaching relationship) vi Coachee ca mnh. Bi v nu c tip tc th hu qu c th s rt ln v c th gy hi cho Coachee ca h.2. Mi quan h Coach Coachee c xy dng da trn s tht, tinh thn ci m v s tin tng khng da trn s phn xtMt mi quan h coaching ch tht s hiu qu khi c 2 bn Coach v Coachee u cam kt s xy dng n trn tinh thn ci m v tin tng ln nhau. Bi v trong qu trnh coaching, nu nh Coachee khng tin tng chia s cho Coach nhng suy ngh, cm nhn ca mnh th Coach s khng th no gip h 1 cch tt nht c th. Hoc nu nh Coach khng tin tng vo Coachee, d bn ngoi vn coaching bnh thng nhng bn trong c mt s thiu tin tng Coachee ca mnh th cng l iu khin cho mi quan h coaching c th s b tan v.Mi quan h coaching da trn s tht, tinh thn ci m v s tin tng cn c ngha l c 2 bn cng a cho nhau nhng liphn hi chn thtvi ngi kia. V d: nu Coach t 1 cu hi qu c nhn hay Coachee cm thy Coach khng tht s lng nghe mnh th Coachee hon ton c th phn hi cho Coach bit. Ngc li, Coach cng c th chia s cho Coachee bit thm v gc nhn ca mnh vi vn hay hon cnh hin ti ca Coachee.i vi nhng Coachee ca mnh, ti lun nhn mnh vic thng thn v tin tng ln nhau. Ch khi c 2 bn cng hp tc, th vic coaching mi em li hiu qu ln nht cho ngi Coachee.3. Coachee phi chu trch nhim 100% cho nhng g h to raNu bn tm n Life Coaching vi mong mun rng Coach sgip bn to c mt s thay i/khc bit hay mt gii php cho vn ca bnth c th bn khng phi l ngi ph hp vi Life Coaching.Trong Life Coaching, bn s lngi phi thc hin nhng hnh ng, nhng cam kt hay th thchm bn v Coach cng ng thc hin. V thnh cng hay tht bi hon ton u do bn quyt nh ch khng phi Coach. Coach s gip bn to nn 1 k hoch hnh ng, Coach s gip bn c mt gc nhn khc v vn ca mnh, Coach s gip bn t a ra gii php cho vn ca mnh, nhng Coach s khng hnh ng gip bn c. i vi ti, ngi Life Coach no hnh ng gim Coachee ca mnh l 1 ngi Life Coach v trch nhim vi ngh nghip ca mnh.V i vi nguyn tc ny, Coachee dn dn s bt u hc c cchchu trch nhim 100% cho cuc i ca mnh. V ch khi bn chu trch nhim 100% cho mi hnh ng ca bn, th lc bn mi c kh nng tc ng n hon cnh ang xy ra vi mnh.4. Coachee hon ton c kh nng to ra nhng kt qu tt hn rt nhiu so vi nhng g h ang t cMt Coach phi tin rng Coachee ca mnh c kh nng t c nhiu hn na so vi nhng g h ang c. Nu mt Coach ngm khng tin tng rng Coachee ca mnh c kh nng t c mc tiu ca h th nim tin s ngn cn qu trnh coaching ca h.i vi mi Coachee ca ti, ti lun tin tng rng h c kh nng v tim nng lm c nhiu hn nhng g h ang c hin ti. Chnh v th, ti lun a ra nhng yu cu hoc th thch gip h vt ra khi vng thoi mi ca h lm nhng iu gip mang li kt qu tt hn cho bn thn h. Bi v ti tin rng, mt khi bn bc chn ra khi vng thoi mi ca mnh v bt u dn thn thc hin nhng iu m bn trc y cm thy s hi, thiu k dius xut hin trong cuc i bn.5. S tp trung hng vo Coachee: nhng iu h ang ngh v tri nghimTrong qu trnh coaching, mi s tp trung u hng v Coachee: nhng g Coachee ang suy ngh, cm xc ca h, nhng tri nghim h ang c, nhng nhn thc mi c ny sinh tt c mi th xoay quanh Coachee u l nhng th cc k quan trng.i vi nhng ngi Coach ch chm chm ngh n nhng cm xc ca mnh, nhng suy ngh ca mnh trong qu trnh coaching th chc chn h khng th no coach tt c. Vi ti, mt khi bc vo 1 bui coaching th ti xc nh mi th ang din ra trong cuc sng ca mnh s c tm gc sang 1 bn. V khi ti i din vi Coachee ca mnh, mi quan tm hng u ca ti lc y s t tt c vo ngi . V chnh nh tm th , ti lun tm cch v thay i phng php lm sao gip Coachee mnh 1 cch tt nht.6. Coachee mi l ngi c th to ra nhng gii php hon hoBn l ngi hiu r bn thn mnh nht. Ch c bn mi bit la chn no l tt nht cho chnh bn thn mnh. Nhng gii php bn ra s l nhng gii phphon ho nht i vi bn(hy lu l ch i vi bn m thi, cn i vi ngi khc th c th s l 1 gii php khc).Mt ngi Coach ch chuyn a cho Coachee ca mnh nhng gii php, li khuyn l ang lm sai nguyn tc o c ngh nghip ca Life Coaching. Bi v nu nhng li khuyn ca bn khng tht s hu ch, cuc sng ca Coachee c th chuyn bin theo chiu hng xu i. V n 1 lc no , Coachee s quay li v ni vi bn rng: Anh/ch l 1 ngi Coach ti t. Nhng li khuyn ca anh/ch khng gip c g cho ti c.Vy th lm sao Coachee c th t to ra gii php cho mnh? chnh l nh vo nhng cu hi ca Coach hoc nhng phn hi ca Coach dnh cho Coachee. Ti s ni r hn k nng ny vo phn 3: cc k nng Life Coaching.7. Cuc trao i gia Coach Coachee phi din ra da trn S BNH NG.Coachee phi nhn thy h ang c s chia s, h tr hoc li khuyn ca bn mt cch bnh ng v thoi mi chKHNG phi gio iu, ch dy gc b trn hay ngi c kinh nghim.Mi quan h ca bn cn phi l mi quan h bnh ng v ci m c Coach v Coachee u cng ng gp vo gi tr ca cuc hi thoi.V vy l 1 Coach, bn cn: Bnh ng vi Coachee bng cch khuyn khch mt khng kh ci m h chia s s tht, h dm mc li, dm sai lm, t gip chng ta c th thu hiu Coachee mc su Ngc li, nu to ra cm gic b trn (d c hay v tnh) th 2 hu qu dn n l: Coachee dn khng a bn, uy tn v s tn nhim h dnh cho bn s suy gim Cho d h chp nhn vi vic (tc l h chp nhn bn l b trn ca h) th mt cch no s t tin trong h, trch nhim ca h v kh nng lm ch cuc sng ca chnh h cng s suy gim.Hi vng rng qua bi vit ny, cc bn s c 1 ci nhn r hn v cng vic Life Coach. Cn i vi nhng ai ang lm cng vic ny, ti tht s mong rng cc bn lun ghi nh nhng nguyn tc ny v gi vng o c ngh nghip ca mnh.Thn mn,Hi ng