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This is my summary of Kezia Noble's 10 Hook Lead System. It's supposed to be about picking up women but frankly it's just a good way of conversing with people too. Hopefully this summary is a little more wieldable :)
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Kezia Noble ‐ 10 Hook Lead System Intro => Comfort (foundation) => Escalation
What’s the point in looking good or initiating of you cannot continue? Every word anyone says is a hook, you keep your ears open for high calibre hooks and segues.
Low Average High
Name Cuisine Celebrities
Fine Animals Countries
Yes Colours Cities
No Hobbies
Thanks Jobs
Hello Books
Movies
10 Hooks
1. Open Question Can produce even better hooks from strong ones
Vary topics, you are connecting/travelling together
2. Fact Stating a fact in response to a highcalibre hook Works very well on introverted, reserved people. Find facts on every country. “I was reading…”
3. Challenge Throw down little intellectual challenges
4. Diffusion technique Any argument: “Stop, you and I are never going to agree and that’s okay. You’re like me and set in your ways with what works for you and that’s cool.”
5. Opinion People get fedup with “nice” people without opinions, wishywashiness. Probe for reasons why people think certain things. Have opinions to explore. Direct towards stronger hooks.
6. Humour Give your humour a name and keep it sacred.
“dry, referential, quick”
7. Anecdotes/Storytelling Put small stories in epic proportions Add details, women love details Develop characters Sad stories are good Use hooks in story for later
8. Validation Demonstrate high standards, you are always a father figure. You are helping build them up. You must be able to afford to be fussy.
9. Cold reading and assumption Coldreading is “chick crack” Girls love specific psychoanalysis