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"Wena Ohamba nezilumko uya kuba sisilumko"

uSolomon

"Iimfihlo kaSolomon 'yincwadi lula ukufunda, ezele iingcaphulo yamandulo ngexesha

kwikomfa: uConfucius, Seneca, Shakespeare, nakuOgi Mandino, uJim Rohn, John

Maxwell, phakathi kwabanye. Le ncwadi iphefumlelwe Imizekeliso kaSolomon,

okujongwe abaninzi ukumkani ityebileyo kwaye ngobulumko lonke ixesha. Emva

kokufunda ubomi umsebenzi uKumkani uSolomon, kwaye isizathu ubutyebi bayo

kakhulu nobulumko, umbhali unika ukwazi 12 iimfihlelo uSolomon kwimpumelelo.

Ezi mfihlelo kuya kuguqula ubomi bakho njengoko wenzayo nabantu abaninzi kuyo

yonke imbali, ukuba makawasebenzise. Funda kwizilumko nawe uya abe mnye.

Kwaye kukho yoko, uya kufumana okulungileyo kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bakho.

Isihloko: Iimfihlo kaSolomon, ubulumko & Impumelelo

Umbhali: Daniel de Oliveira

Ifomathi: PDF

Uhlelo 1: 12/01/2014

ISBN: 978-989-20-5310-3

Onke amalungelo agciniwe 2014 Daniel de Oliveira

www.danieldeoliveira.net

[email protected]

Onke amalungelo agciniwe. Ukukopa lo msebenzi nangayiphi na indlela, ngaphandle

kwemvume ecacileyo umbhali, na prohi webo. Olwaphula le mithetho iza

kutshutshiswa, ngokutsho Code Copyright and Rights Related.


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WISDOM

Ubulumko isitshixo

ubutyebi nozuko.

Yena ke impumelelo

Nobuninzi ihleli!

Uyabathanda abo bamthandayo yakhe ,

nalowo ufunayo, uyafumana.

Ubulumko kuzisa ithemba,

ikamva ubomi obude ...

Injongo yakhe ukuba nempumelelo,ulwazi unika amandla.

Lowo ke ugiba

kuphela indlala nehlazo.

Sifuna ukuphucula ubomi bakho,

utyalo ngomso?

Ufuna ubulumko,

nempumelelo ziya kulandela.

Daniel de Oliveira

(Kwi "Poetics IV")


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IZIQULATHO

ubulumko

intshayelelo

nobutyebi uSolomon

Imfihlelo 1 - thintelo ubutyebi

Imfihlelo 2 - The isiseko sempumelelo

Imfihlelo 3 - Unobangela ukungaphumeleli

Imfihlelo 4 - Undoqo uzuko

Imfihlelo 5 - mvelaphi zokweyelisela

Imfihlelo 6 - Way nendyebo

Imfihlelo 7 - Umgibe yelishwa

Imfihlelo 8 - Imbewu ngenxa yokukhula

Imfihlelo 9 - Iintshaba Prosperity

Imfihlelo 10 - Isikhokelo bobukhulu

Imfihlelo 11 - Isizathu ukuwa

Imfihlelo 12 - Umthombo izinto zonke

Le ndoda isisityebi kwi ehlabathiniKuba nguSolomon

kwiprofayili obephumelele

isiphelo

amazwi angamawaka

isihlomelo

bibliography

Iinkcukacha zoqhagamshelwano

Sonke iSibhalo ezicatshulwe inguqulelo "iBhayibhile wonke"

Copyright 1993, 2009 Bible Society of Portugal


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INTSHAYELELO

"Ukuba nithe niphila ngokweso simo, niya akasayi kuba amahlwempu;

ukuba wena uhlala ngokoluvo eqhelekileyo, akusayi kuba sisityebi. "

uEpicurus

Yintoni imfihlelo enye amadoda zinamandla wakha waphila?

USolomon, unyana kaKumkani uDavide, waba ngukumkani yesithathu kwaSirayeli

nezazimi ngexesha BC kwinkulungwane yeshumi. Yaba ngundaba-mlonyeni ngenxa

ubutyebi bakhe nobulumko mkhulu kunaye nawuphi na omnye ukumkani emhlabeni

ababephila ngaphambi nasemva kwakhe. wobukumkani bakhe elide (kwiminyakaengama-40), ezele uxolo nempumelelo. Nakuba kungekho mfazwe, wamkela unikelo

ngokuzithandela zonke izizwe ezingabamelwane (ngokutsho ukuba ezinye

chronologies, 971-931 BC).

Namhlanje, siye safunda indlela kunye nembali bonke abo baphumelele,

kungakhathaliseki kwinkalo abaziincutshe. Yaye sinokufunda ngeendlela zabo kunye

nezicwangciso ezabangela ukuba kwimpumelelo. Noko ke, ndiya kuqwalasela

ibalulekileyo: ukuba ukufunda ngobomi nomsebenzi omnye amadoda eziphumeleleyo

ngonaphakade.Harv Ekere kwincwadi yakhe ethi "Ingqondo iimfihlelo Millionaire", ibonisa ukuba

xa ngexesha ingakumbi kunzima, wafumana icebiso ilandelayo batshintsha ngayo

ubomi bakhe: "Ukuba ucinga ngathi zizityebi, kwaye enze kubo, naye uya kuba

sisityebi. Okufanele kukwenza ukuxelisa indlela becinga zizityebi. "

Kulungile, mna ndiyakholwa ukuba ukuba bacinge ze basebenze uSolomon, siya uya

kufumana iziphumo kakhulu. Kuba ube esisityebi nje kuphela, kodwa izityebi bonke!

Ngoko ke, oko yasekwa njenge umzekelo omkhulu kuthi. Nangona kunjalo, mna

ndiyanilumkisa ngoku ukuba ubutyebi elibonelela uSolomon uya ngaphaya

eziphathekayo. Oku kunento yokwenza impumelelo ngandlela zonke zobomi.

Nonke niya kufumana kule ncwadi nto yokuqala. Enyanisweni, ukuba unayo nayiphi

na ithemba lokufumana abanye "ubutsha" Ndiyazisola ukuba ukwazisa wena kodwa

uya kudaniswa. Njengoko UJim Rohn wathi: ". Nonke nina imfuneko ikamva

elibhetele baze ke bakwazi ukuphumelela sele kwathiwa"

Ngokwam, andinamntu ixabiso nayiphi na ingxelo kule ncwadi. Yonke ndafunda

Kwakungenxa kwabanye. Kwaye nkqu iingxelo kaSolomon, akuwedwa. Baye

nafundiswa Abaphengululi abaninzi kuyo yonke imbali.

Oku kungqina kanye ngokubanzi nenyaniso yale migaqo. izinto ezininzi ukutshintsha


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kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana kodwa eneneni, omntu kuhlala efanayo. Ngoko oko

kwenza ngengqiqo, sifunde abo bahlala phambi kwethu. "Enyanisweni, akukho

mfihlakalo, kodwa inyaniso ukuba wonke kufuneka bafunde kuqala kwaye ulandele."

(George S. Clason).

Ngaphezu incwadi ukuze ufunde, "Iimfihlo kaSolomon" na incwadi ukubonakalisa

nezicola ngokucothayo. subchapter nganye isebenza njengentsebezo mfutshane

ngemihla. Apho uya kufunda iinyaniso ezinokutshintsha ubomi bakho, ukuba

makawasebenzise. Wamkelekile olu hambo.

Daniel de Oliveira


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Ubutyebi BukaSolomon

INDODA uqina silumke

"UKumkani uSolomon ubutyebi ngaphezulu nangobulumko kunabo nawuphi na

omnye ukumkani emhlabeni."

"USolomon Ugqwesile ngobulumko zonke izilumko eMpuma eYiputa.

Yaba esesona bonke abantu. "

Mna yooKumkani 10:23, 5: 10-11

"Akukho mntu eyona sokuthandabuza onokuthi akayiboni into zilumko, ookumkani

nookumkanikazi ehlabathini lonke baye bayiphawula: uSolomon ndoda isisilumko

yakha yaphila." (Steven K. Scott). Kwimbali yoluntu, igama elithi "ubulumko"

lisoloko linxulunyaniswa igama "nguSolomon." Akunakwenzeka ukuba

ukuzibandakanya zombini. Mhlawumbi uSolomon nguyise wabo bonke iincwadi

nophuhliso buqu. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba, emva kumthombo.

Isibakala sokuba uSolomon enkulu kubutyebi nobulumko kuthi kunokukhokelela

ukuzibuza enoba kukho nayiphi na ubudlelwane phakathi kwabo? Ngaba ubulumko

nobutyebi zinxulunyaniswa? Ngaba ubulumko umendo yemvelo ukuba ubutyebi?

Kwaye ulumke thina, utyeba thina sibe?

USolomon wacinga njalo. Ngokutsho ke kuye, kukho ubudlelane obusondeleyo

phakathi ubulumko lokwenyaniso butyebi bububo. Kodwa, ulumkisa ukuba

kunokwenzeka ukuba babe "zizityebi" ngaphandle sisilumko. Kodwa nabani na uba

nobulumko, ubutyebi iza kuba yendalo.

Yoxolo uSolomon uthembisa ukuba abo balandela indlela yobulumko, kubandakanya

zonke iinkalo zobomi: ngokomoya, ngokweemvakalelo, ngokwasengqondweni,

emzimbeni, usapho, zobungcali, ezentlalo kunye eziphathekayo. Ngokutsho kwi

-magama, "impumelelo" lithetha "luphawu okanye imeko abazizityebi, ulonwabo,

inkqubela, ubutyebi." Oku bayahlelwa abo balandela ubulumko, okanye amazwi

uSteven K. Scott: "yimpumelelo. Bokwenene ngenxa yendalo ubulumko

bukaSolomon"

Kwaye ngenxa yethu, uSolomon wabhala umnqophiso wokwenene ubulumko bonke

abo bafuna ukuphila ubomi esifumileyo zonke iindawo: kwiNcwadi seMizekeliso.

Incwadi yinxalenye yeBhayibhile, eyona - ngokuthengisa encwadini lonke ixesha!

"Sifumene kakhulu ubulumko kwizahluko wamashumi amathathu ananye kwiNcwadiseMizekeliso. Iqulethe esemagqabini ukukhokela ubomi bethu "(Yoh C. Maxwell).


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Ngubani na ngaphezu mntu unobulumko kwi ehlabathini ukuba umcebisi wethu?

UKUFUNDA kuSolomon

"Ohamba nezilumko uya kuba sisilumko naye."

IMizekeliso 13:20

Ukuba ukufunxa iinyaniso kule ncwadi, bawafake ukusebenzisa kwabo imihla

ngemihla, uya sisinge impumelelo. Phulaphula oko ikutshoyo John C. Maxwell,

ingcali ephambili kubunkokheli namhlanje, "Ukwamkelwa ingqeqesho uphawu

wacebisa nguSolomon kwaye endleleni yokuguqula ubunkokheli yakho."

ingqalelo yakho yokwenyani kufuneka ungabi ukuze ufikelele "Injongo", kodwa

ndikholisiweyo ukuhamba. Xa unikel 'ingqalelo practice ubulumko, impumelelo iya

kuba njengesiphumo kuphela. Kodwa ukuba "inamathele" yi impumelelo, bafune

"ezimfutshane" ukufumana 'ngokukhawuleza' kwaye uzenzakalise. Enyanisweni,

akukho "ezimfutshane 'ukuba impumelelo, luzele luhleli. Ekuphela kwendlela

inokwenzeka kwaye ekhuselekileyo, koko uSolomon uthi "indlela yobulumko".

Ingqalelo ehamba le ndlela, uvune iziqhamo ezihle ngayo loo nto. Ukutenxa kule

ndlela, kwaye isiqhamo iya kuba krakra.

Inyaniso yeyokuba zonke iingxaki iingxaki ubulumko. Ukuba nifuna ubulumko

ezintweni zonke, uya kufumana isisombululo zonke iingxaki. Hayi nje namhlanje,abantu bafuna isisombululo kwiingxaki zabo. Ngelo xesha uSolomon, bonke abantu

beza ukuba abe naye ukuba bafunde ngempumelelo. Yaye baye baba nempumelelo.

Yenza okufanayo, sifunde kuSolomon, kwaye uya kuphumelela.

GOLD NOBOBULUMKO?

"Ngoko wonke umntu wazama ukuba amtyelele ukuba beve ubulumko uThixo

ubemnike. Nyaka ngamnye bezisa kuye ngezipho:. isilivere negolide, asisibeke,

izixhobo, izinto enuka kamnandi, amahashe neemeyile "

I Kings 10: 24-25

Kwesi sicatshulwa, usenokuzibona umgaqo othi: Ulwazi kukhona unayo, le ubulumko

vetshe ukwabelana. Yaye usabelana ubulumko ngakumbi, le ubulumko kokukhona

onokuba unayo. Enyanisweni ukuba umjikelo: Ukuba ukuhlwayela ubulumko - kuwe

okanye kwabanye - uya kufumana ubulumko ngaphezulu.

Kwakhona sibona ubudlelwane phakathi kobulumko kunye nobutyebi kaSolomon.Abantu bakuvuyela nje kuva ubulumko bukaSolomon, kodwa bona nombulelo.


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Evakalisa umbulelo omkhulu ngokusebenzisa abazithenjiswa ezixabisekileyo, kuquka

igolide. Sikwazi ukubona ukubaluleka ubulumko kubomi babantu: ukutshintsha

igolide ubulumko!

George S. Clason, encwadini "Indoda Richest eBhabhiloni", abuze lo mbuzo:

"Zeziphi kwezi zinto, uye wakhetha: ibhegi igolide ngokupheleleyo okanye icwecwe

lodongwe ekwakubhalwe amazwi ezilumko" Niyazi ukuba impendulo abantu

abaninzi? Ngoyaba ubulumko, kwaye khetha igolide. "Ngosuku olulandelayo, baya

kukhala ngenxa yokuba igolide." (George S. Clason).

Okulungileyo kuba ukuba sithe sakuqonda ukubaluleka ubulumko, njengoko

ngexesha kaSolomon. Ubulumko enokuguqula ubomi bethu. Enyanisweni, ubulumko

uxabiseke ngaphezu kwegolide.

Nobutyebi obufihlwe

"Ukuba ukhangela ubukrelekrele njengabo ukhangela isilivere,

kufuna wakhe njengobuncwane obufihliweyo "

IMizekeliso 2: 3-4

Abaninzi kuthi baye eli phupha yabantwana: Fumana nobutyebi obufihlwe! Fumana

into exabisekileyo okuguqula ubomi bethu! Into ukugcwalisa sinemvo ubukho! Into

ukugcwalisa yethu engenanto ... Ubulumko obu buncwane uthetha uSolomon.Kufuneka sithathe uhambo ngokwenene bekhangela obu butyebi!

USolomon ifumene obu butyebi, kwaye ufuna ukuba asinike imikhondo ukufumana

khona. Sinako ingqalelo ethi "Imizekeliso kaSolomon 'njenge Njengemaphu!

othandekayo, sivumele ukukhokelwa nguSolomon ngexesha ufunda le ncwadi.

Makhe akuncede ufumane ubutyebi yokwenene yobomi bakho! Kodwa musa

ukulibala: "Andizange Kwakukho imephu into ukuthutha umnini wayo sentimitha

ubani, nangona iinkcukacha kunye nobungakanani ezichanileyo." (Ogi Mandino).

USolomon ubonisa kuphela indlela, kodwa kufuneka sihambe ngubani! "Nantoni nauncedo sinikela kuwe; kuya kuba olunjengokhozo njengentlabathi kuthelekiswa

ezintabeni kufuneka uye ngokwakho." (Ogi Mandino).

Ngenxa yo butyebi

"Minyaka le ukumkani uSolomon wayefumana phantse iitoni imashumi mabini

anamithathu zegolide,

liquki irhafu efunyenwe kumashishini ezinkulu nezincinane,yookumkani belama-Arabhu zonke neyamabamba elizwe. "


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I Kings 10: 14-15

Ubutyebi uSolomon enkulu ngokwenene. Njani ukumkani utyebile kangaka

nohlumayo ngaphandle imfazwe okanye ugonyamelo? Nangona abantu abaninzi

namhlanje "zizityebi" ngenxa yorhwaphilizo, uSolomon wakha yonke impumelelo

yakhe kakhulu esekelwe kubulungisa! Ngokutsho ke kuye, oku isiseko esiqinileyo

kuphela.

Ngokuhlalutya impumelelo yabo Manual (Incwadi yeZafobe), sifumanisa ukuba

iimfihlakalo kwabo akunanto yakwenza "iindlela okanye" ukuze bafumane ubutyebi,

kodwa ikakhulu ngokusekelwe umlinganiswa. "Le ncwadi othetha ngayo ukuphucula

indlela esicinga nesenza." (Yoh C. Maxwell). Oku kwahluke ngokupheleleyo iinkolelo

yangoku.

Akumangalisi namhlanje, ubudala iinkcukacha (21 AD kwinkulungwane), amavaoluntu nobunzima kakhulu kuwo onke amanqanaba, kuquka ngokwemigqaliselo

yemali (nangona zonke ulwazi ekhoyo). Namhlanje thina afundile, kwaye

Ayinabutyebi ngaphezu abantu ngexesha kaSolomon. Noko ke, aba bantu nesihluma

ngakumbi. Ngokuqinisekileyo benento asifundise. Namhlanje thina sifuna ukuba

ukuphucula "iindlela", USolomon wafuna ukuba ukuphucula abantu! avavanyiwe

iindlela zikaSolomon bungqinelwa namava.

UBUTYEBI TRUE

"Ebudeni bolawulo lwakhe, kukho nesilivere eninzi negolide yaninzi njengamatye

eYerusalem,

nemisedare zazininzi yanjengemithombe kummandla Chefela. "

II Kronike 1:15

Zingaphi amatye ukuba agcinwe ekhayeni lakho? Awunayo siyixabise matye?

Kaloku, ngexesha kaSolomon, isilivere negolide yaninzi njengamatye! Ngaba udeucinge le meko? Oyithandileyo abahlala kwezi heydays? USolomon uthi

kunokwenzeka ukuba siphile ngaloo maxesha, nangaliphi na ixesha okanye indawo!

Ngokutsho ke kuye, ingxaki kungekhona abantu okanye kwiimeko okanye sihlala phi,

ingxaki ngaphakathi kwethu. Nantsi ingxaki ingxaki ubulumko. "Kufuneka

ukuyitshintsha umphefumlo, kungekhona kwemozulu ... wena uhamba ukusuka

kwelinye icala ukuya kwelinye kuya akuyi kukunceda kuba asoloko ehamba kunye

ngokwakho" (Seneca). Ndikhumbula ukuba xa ndandibuka ukutshintsha ihlabathi,

ngoku mna ndizama ukuba ukutshintsha ngokwam. Yonke itshintsha xa ukutshintsha!

Ufuna ukutshintsha ehlabathini? Qala ngokwakho. Yinto ngaphakathi apho Konke


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kuqala. Uyazi xa ubomi bethu iza kuphucula? Xa ukuphucula! "Ekuphela kwendlela

izinto zitshintshe kum xa Andiguquguquki." (Jim Rohn). Enyanisweni, lonke ihlabathi

lethu engaphandle nje ibonisa ngaphakathi kwethu. "Ukuhamba Thina jikelele

ngaphakathi phambi kokuba bahambe evela ngaphandle, ngokuba uhambo sokukhula

impumelelo iqala ngaphakathi." (Yoh C. Maxwell). Qaphela ukuba bonke

ebukumkanini esifumileyo uSolomon nje esipilini ngokwakhe.

Nempumelelo kubo bonke

"Abantu bakwaJuda nabakwaSirayeli zazininzi njengentlabathi eselunxwemeni

lolwandle;

ke ukutya neziselo emininzi wahlala ngokonwaba. "

I Kings 4:20

Ndiyavuya yokuba uSolomon kuphela sisityebi, kodwa zizityebi bonke abantu

ababekunye naye. Abantu babehlala ngolonwabo wobukumkani bakhe, yaye zonke

izinto ezininzi! Ngoko ke zazininzi "njengentlabathi eselunxwemeni lolwandle."

akuyomfuneko ukuba kwamanye amazwe ukuze baphucule ubomi babo.

Ndiyakholwa ukuba basemzini abaninzi bafuduka kumazwe abo ukuhlala kweli lizwe

kaSolomon. Ngenxa kwaSirayeli, ayenentabalala kwaye wonwabe!

Zingaphi ochaphazelekayo namhlanje, ukutyebisa abanye? Xa indalo, thina badlalokuzingca. Sithanda ukucinga kuphela kulonwabo nakwimpilo-ntle yethu. Noko ke,

impumelelo yethu kwandisa njengoko kukunceda abanye ukuba nempumelelo.

ulonwabo lwethu kwandisa njengoko sincede abanye ukuze sonwabe.

Ngoko sifanele sibe kuphela injongo ukuze ziphile kwaye wonwabe. Makhe silandele

umzekelo kaSolomon, bafunde kwaye benze wonwabile nabanye abantu! Oku kuya

kuba uvuyo kakhulu ebomini bethu.

Indlela yobulumko

"Kaloku uSolomon wayelawula zonke izikumkani,

ukusuka kumlambo iEfrati ukuya ezweni lamaFilisti, wesa nasemdeni weYiputa;

bonke imbeko kuSolomon kwaye zichatshazelwe ekupheleni yobomi bakhe. "

Mna Kings 5: 1

Asinto engaqhelekanga, nto alawule ezinye izikumkani kodwa ngamandla?

Ukutyhubela imbali, xa ukumkani wafuna ukwandisa ubukumkani bakhe kwakuzakufuneka enze oko ngokusebenzisa iimfazwe. Noko ke, uSolomon wenza oko


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ngokusebenzisa ubulumko! Wathi ukuba indoda elumkileyo unako koyisa isixeko

amaqhawe!

Usenokucinga: "Ndim kwakungekho kumkani unjengaye uSolomon, ke ngoko, mna

andikwazi kuba yimpumelelo ufana naye." Noko ke, kulungile ukuba ukukhumbula

ukuba ukutyhubela imbali, abaninzi ithuba ngukumkani, wabatshabalalisa lwabo. Into

ebalulekileyo apho wena, kodwa apho uhamba.

USolomon waqala njengokumkani, kodwa kuya kubakho ukuphuculwa kakhulu

ngesikumkani nempumelelo abemi balo. Akukho noba uphi na: Ukuba ulandela

indlela yobulumko, uya kukhula, kwaye uya kuyikhumbula impembelelo. Yaye uya

kuphucula kuphela ubomi bakho kodwa bonke abo kuwe!


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ICEBO 1

nezithintelo UBUTYEBI

Utshaba MAIN

"Le nomzi kuya kwandisa umgama kuphela."

Seneca

Ngubani Ayithandi kuba yimpumelelo? Ukuba zonke iimfuno zabo adibana, aphile

ngokugqithiseleyo? Ngubani na ungathanda ukwenza igalelo kwihlabathi elingcono,size sincede abo basweleyo? Bekuya kuba phantse oluyintshembenxa, ungaphenduli

nguewe kule mibuzo.

Enyanisweni, kukho umnqweno wemvelo ebantwini ukuba mininzi. Abantu asizelwe

ukuhlala nobuhlwempu (nokuba eziphathekayo, yengqondo, yovakalelo, okanye

ngokomoya). Ngoko ke, sifuna ukuba wokulwa nendlala zonke iindlela

kunokwenzeka, mhlawumbi iingcinga okanye amanyathelo. Lidabi rhoqo, kwaye abe

ngumshumayeli phithi. Nakuba kunjalo, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba ngokufuthi

Bobu "phithi" ethintela ukuba ziphile. Yaye inkulu phithi, ke omkhulu njengomqobo."Ukuba ngokukhawuleza kakhulu, uza wenzakele." (Tosi 1581).

Khawulezani lithetha "mbandezelo, ixhala, ngokungxamisekileyo, isantya, ubunzima"

(Dictionary). Oko kukuthi, umntu kakhulu "ngokukhawuleza" uziva "mbandezelo"

ngenxa ingxaki, kwaye 'ixhala "kwaye" ngokungxamisekileyo "ukufuna isisombululo,

kwaye isebenza with" isantya ", kodwa ekugqibeleni, oko uya kufumana "ubunzima"

ezinkulu!

NEJOLISE ENGAFANELEKANGA

"Musa ukubaleka emva ubutyebi, bakuphephe ukubeka neyelenqe wakho

ngobutyebi.

Beka amehlo akho nobutyebi kwaye shwaka;

nokuba kubonakala ukuba ubutyebi zinamaphiko uzibaleke luphaphazela

esibhakabhakeni njengeenkozi. "

IMizekeliso 23: 4-5

Ubutyebi kufuneka njengesiphumo hayi phithi. Kufuneka uqaphele: Xa luyixhalabele


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into, kubonakala nzima ukufikelela kuyo. Yaye ke kwelinye icala, kukho izinto musa

tikarhatela thina, yaye nize kuthi. "Zingaphi izinto kwenzeka ukuba kuthi kwaye

musa ukuba thina! Kwaye zingaphi izinto silindele kwaye soze yenzeke!" (Seneca).

Kutheni? kubonakala kukho umthetho uthi: Xa unganqweneli into, oko uya kude

kuwe. Kwaye xa wowudela into, oko kuya kufikelela kuwe. Sinokuba le ukuqiniseka:

Xa silindele into, siya kudana; kodwa xa musa singayilindele, siya kumangaliswa!

Oku kubonakala emangalisayo: Kukangaphi sisiva amabinzana afana "Uyafuna na

amandla" okanye "Ngubani andilinde usoloko ufikelela". Kodwa ke kaninzi

kangakanani kuyenzeka ukuba 'abo alinde, kuba lithemba! "

Le mfundiso kaSolomon akukho lula kakhulu ukucacisa, kodwa inyaniso kukuba

sisoloko sisebenza. Oku ezingabambekiyo kwaye ngokwenene ngexesha elinye!

Ufuna ukuba uphumelele? Ngoko ke nceda uye emva kwayo. "Ambition isenza

nokusukelana impahla asebenze kwaye singalahlekani nezinto esinazo." (MaricaMarquis).

Ibhongo ubeka ulonwabo lwethu elizayo, aze athi, "Ngomso, uya konwaba." Ke

kaloku ngengomso, uthi kwakhona: "Ngomso, uya kuba noyolo" ... Asimele

ukuwumisa ulonwabo lwethu! Khumbula: I imfihlelo ulonwabo na ngaphakathi

kwethu. Ulonwabo kukwazi ukonwabela mzuzu nganye, kwaye ke ixesha kuphela

sinokuba noyolo ngoku! Namhlanje le mini ibalulekileyo ebomini bethu: makhe sibe

nombulelo namhla. Umbulelo ungumnyango ulonwabo.

Ukuba namabhongo yokuba sisityebi kwenza abantu babe zizityebi, wonke umntu uzakuba sisityebi. Ukhe waqaphela ukuba zingaphi izigidi kwaye izigidi zabantu

kumsukela ubutyebi veki nganye ukudlala imidlalo-ndenzile? Inyaniso kukuba

ubutyebi kusaba! Omnye uya kuthi: "Ukuba abanye ukwenza imali, kutheni mna?",

Kodwa ngaba le ndlela? "Wonke umntu ufuna ukuphumelela kwilottery. Wonke

umntu ufuna ukuba zizityebi nomzamo ubuncinane kunokwenzeka. Kodwa ...

ngamnye ophumeleleyo, kukho izigidi boyisiweyo." (Steven K. Scott).

Kuya kubakho umendo kunye nokulindeleka aphezulu empumelelo kunokuba abe

mnye phakathi izigidi? Asimele kubeka amehlo kwi imali. Imali uthanda ngubani

iyakugculela zidelekile abo bamthandayo. Khumbula amagama adumileyo

kaPawulos: "Ukuthanda imali yingcambu yazo zonke iintlobo zobubi" (1 Timoti

6:10). Ukuba nithanda imali uya kuphela umonakalo ebomini bakhe. Okumangalisayo

kukuba, "Umendo imfutshane ukuze ubutyebi udela ubutyebi" (Seneca). Ukuba

nilicekisile ubutyebi, ubutyebi iza kufikelela kuwe!

INDLELA zentlupheko

"Umntu obawayo ungxamile ukuba zizityebi,


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kodwa akazi ukuba ukuswela kuya kuyifikela. "

IMizekeliso 28:22

Bangaphi abantu abaninzi ukunyoluka ukuqhamisa? Noko ke, nokubawa ukufikelela

kuphela ubuhlwempu! "Ukuba iingcinga neemvakalelo zakho kwaye swi lavaka

ubutyebi, uya nokosuleleka nokubawa." (Steven K. Scott).

Umntu obawayo ezixhalabisa ngokuba sisityebi, kwaye nkqu ndaqonda ukuba

ubutyebi runs. Enyanisweni, ukucinga malunga ubutyebi, uhamba bengamahlwempu!

"USolomon usifundisa ngokucacileyo ukuba angacingi ekutyebeni. Ukwenza yindlela

ngokukhawuleza ukuya kwaphuka." (Steven K. Scott).

Ibhongo nokunyoluka iindlela ngokukhawuleza zentlupheko. Ngubani ofuna lukhulu

ngokwenene, kufuneka ufunde ukuphalaza yonke ngamabhongo nokunyoluka. Ke

izibatha oyinyaniso iintsizi! "Ababulali ezimbini waphumelela namondenokunyoluka." (Jim Rohn).

Yiba smart, uSolomon wayesazi kakuhle ukuba wayethetha ngabo. Kuqikelelwa

ukuba eneneni ndoda isisityebi yakha zabakho Emhlabeni. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uye

iimfihlakalo kakhulu ukwabelana nathi.

Osembonweni BOBUTYEBI

"Ukufa somntu ongendawo etshabalalisa bonke eziyinkohliso;ingakumbi, i nofifi sisityebi. "

IMizekeliso 11: 7

Kuba baninzi, ubutyebi aziyonto engekhoyo. Akuyomfuneko efuna ubutyebi

yangaphandle, ukuba ngaphakathi kwethu bulusizi. Unalungelo lini umntu ongendawo

ukuba sisityebi? Ngaba butyebi bakhe uya kuphelisa ububi?

Akunjalo Kunoko, ukuze nasengxakini. Ubutyebi ezandleni ngumntu ombi, bakhonza

kuphela ukwandisa ububi babo. "Le mali iza kuphela kubangela ukuba ube ngaphezukwayo sele na. Ukuba embi, imali iya kukunika ithuba lokuba kubi ... Ukuba nesisa,

imali kuya ngokulula kuvumela ukuba nesisa kakhulu." (T. Harv noEkere).

Ngoko, ubutyebi zezi "izixhobo ezinamandla" ezinokusetyenziswa ukuze kuxhamle

okanye enganobungozi umntu. Ngoko ke ubutyebi akufuneki ube lixhoba, kodwa

njengendlela ukuya esiphelweni. "Ilifa lakho okwenyaniso nje intliziyo weentliziyo."

(Seneca).

Sifuna ubutyebi yangaphakathi ubutyebi engaphandle baba nje njengesiphumo. Musa

ukubeka "enqwelweni phambi ihashe," uya kusebenza. Ukuba wenjenjalo, ubutyebi

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kuyenzeka, ubutyebi iza ayikwanelisi, kwaye nasengxakini.

UKUNYANISEKA OKANYE ungxame?

"Umntu othembekileyo ineentsikelelo ezininzi;

kodwa umntu ozama ngokukhawuleza zizityebi, akabi msulwa. "

IMizekeliso 28:20

Kuba uSolomon, u mendo iintsikelelo waba negama: Uthembekile. Ngaba wakha

weva amazwi athi, "Ukuba wenza okuthembekileyo encinane, kuya kunikwa kuwe."

Liyinyaniso elokuba, uSolomon Kukuqonda: Ukuba lithembekileyo indlela

iintsikelelo.

Kodwa kwakhona, kufuneka enye indlela: Khawulezani. Kuba abo bafuna

ukuthembeka, le ndlela yeyona ezizezinye. Enyanisweni akunjalo indlela, yinto

emfutshane. Kwaye uyazi, "Ngubani ufumana yi lwezibophelelo ezingundoqo,

lingena ... emsebenzini!" "Lo mgama mde phakathi kweendawo ezimbini indlela

emfutshane." (Yoh C. Maxwell). "Njengoko kakhulu, umhambi enambuzelayo

ngaphantsi." (Mzekeliso Latin).

USolomon uthi kukho izohlwayo kwabo ehamba "indlela emfutshane" ekuthiwa

ungxamile. Oko kukuthi, kukho aveza, kukho zinemingxuma, kukho amawa

ezoyikekayo kwaye kuyingozi. Yinto imovie amanwele ... "kwaye ekupheleni kufabonke!"

Emtshatweni yinkqubo, Ningxamele into ngephanyazo. Ufuna usekele impumelelo

yakho luck okanye umsebenzi? Ukuba uSolomon wayefuna ukwenza isihobe kunye le

mfundiso, bendiya mhlawumbi ndithi:

"Akukho emfutshane,

wonke umsebenzi.

Ukuba ukhangela lithamsanqa,unako ukufumana ukufa. "

Ngokuhamba kwexesha

"Ubuncwane kamsinya liyancipha;

Ubutyebi waqokelela ngokuthe ube mkhulu. "

IMizekeliso 13:11

Ubona apha inkqubo zichazwa nguSolomon ukuze ubutyebi luhleli: ngcembe.


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Umzekeliso ethandwayo uthi, "kutya ingqolowa, isikhukukazi uzalisa esiswini sakhe."

ubutyebi zagcina kufuneka kuphunyezwa ngcembe yaye zonke ngaxeshanye.

Umzekelo ocacileyo we aba bantu abafumana izigidi kwi ilotho. "Uphando lubonisa

ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubukhulu oko bamkela,

abawine uninzi ilotho ekugqibeleni kubuyela kwimo yabo yangaphambili mali, baya

kubuyela ubungakanani neemfundiso ingaphatha kakuhle." (T. Harv noEkere).

Yonke into efunyenwe ngokukhawuleza, uphulukene ngokukhawuleza. "Kunzima

ukugcina oko kungaphumeleli ngophuhliso komntu." (Jim Rohn). Ngomhla we

Kwelinye icala, konke oko kunzima ukuphumelela, kunzima ke ku lahleka. USolomon

uthi ubutyebi olufunyenwe ngokungxama kuya kuncipha. Kamsinya,

ngokukhawuleza nje. "Ubutyebi olufumaneka ngokukhawuleza kakhulu shwaka

kanye njengokuba ngokukhawuleza. Ubutyebi ukuba uhlala ukubonelela ulonwabo

nolwaneliseko umniniyo ekhula kancinci njengoko "umntwana" ozelwe ulwazinokuzingisa. "(George S. Clason).

Ndiyakholwa ukuba akanguye "impumelelo-ninja" sithanda ukuba ingelo- ekho,

kwaye lusishiya bawonakalisile ngokupheleleyo ... Ngoko ke kufuneka sifunde

ukwakha ubutyebi bethu ngcembe yaye ngokupheleleyo umlibale 'ithamsanqa'.

Ngenye imini, utata wathi kumhlobo: "Sekunjalo, ukuba imali ngamandla." Apho

umhlobo waphendula wathi, "Kukho amandla mkhulu ukuba imali ... ithe amandla

awugcine!" George S. Clason ulumkisa: "Gold ubaleka ngokungalindelekanga kwabo

bangamaziyo njani ukuze ugcine igolide okrelekrele."UJim Rohn uthi, "Ndikhumbula esithi wam mcebisi: Ukuba nemali engakumbi,

kwakuza kufuneka isicwangciso engcono. Ngokukhawuleza waphendula, bendiya

kuthi ukuba xa waba isicwangciso ngcono, ubuya kuba nemali engakumbi. Uyabona

ke, isixa elibalayo; Esi sisicwangciso elibalayo. "Yintoni isicwangciso sakho?

Awunayo na? Khumbula ukuba "umkhwa ekulawuleni imali yakho kubaluleke

ngaphezu mali iyakwazi. Ude ube uyakwazi ukumelana ntoni na, ukuba banelungelo

nantoni "(T. Harv noEkere).

Funda George S. Clason, isicwangciso inkosi ukuqhamisa ngendlela efanayo: "Enye

isishumi konke okuzuza zezakho. Uhlawula wena kuqala ... Ubutyebi njengomthi

iyakhula ukusuka imbewu encinane. imali yakho iya kuba imbewu umthi wakho

ubutyebi sikhula kuyo. "

Qala ngokubhatala ngokwakho-10% yonke ufumana (nokuba yonke inkcitho yakho

nezibophelelo zobuqu, usapho, unqulo okanye ezentlalo, njl njl). butyebi bububo iqala

imbewu elula. Ukuba ubahlule% 10 kuphela konke okuzuza, ukuba Imbewu iya

kukhula ukuba umthi omkhulu apho ukuzimela phantsi komthunzi wakhe, esidla

iziqhamo zabo ... "Uqoqosho kunye umsebenzi kumgodi wegolide ezixabisekileyo.

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ISILUMKISO ngehlombe

"Ukutyhuthuzela ngaphandle nakwazi akulungile; le ungxamile kusenza bawe. "

IMizekeliso 19: 2

Ingaba ufuna kukhubeka? Nto nje wena khawuleza. Nangona kunjalo, isikhubekiso

inokuba alilunganga. Sinokuba buhlungu, utshabalalise, ukumbulala ... Musa kuwa

nes sa mgibe. Yintoni elungileyo ihlombe, kodwa akukho lwazi? Nizilumkele ke

kunene. Namhlanje, kukho abantu abaninzi athembisayo ubutyebi lula, kodwa ke loo

nto yenza ukuba abantu kukhubeka ... "Gold ubaleka umntu uyinqwenela nengeniso

ayinakwenzeka, okanye umntu owuthobelayo icebiso Abakhohlisi amagcisa con,

okanye ziitrasti engenamava yakhe neminqweno uthando ngexesha yotyalo-mali.

"(George S. Clason).

Musa ukuvumela ukumenyezela zegolide simfamekisa amehlo akho. "Abo

bamfanyekiswe ngamabhongo nangoku bona ngaphezu iimfama ngokuzalwa."

(Marica Marquis). Masisabe lonke uhlobo "kwisigulo" imali! "Musa ukuqhathwa

yiminqweno uthando ukuba zizityebi ngokukhawuleza ... Musa kid wena kunye

nezicwangciso oncomekayo abantu abanamava, osoloko ucinga ukuba nomfumana

na umntu indlela ukuphumeza ngengeniso ngokungaqhelekanga." (George S. Clason).

Asinako masingazikhohlisi. Awukwazi kulakhela indlu ngaphandle kolwazi ...kungenzeka ukuba le ndlu iya kuwa kwaye ayinakulimaza abo bahlala kuwo! Yonke

kobu bomi yakhiwe kunye nolwazi. Ihlombe ilungile, kodwa ngaphandle kolwazi

kunokuba yintlekele. "Isilumkiso ngaphezu enguqukweni." (George S. Clason).

Ngoko uSolomon wathi: "Ohamba nezilumko uya kuba sisilumko naye." Kwi

ngamanye amazwi, kufuneka bafunde ulwazi, kufuneka sakhe ubomi bethu kulwazi,

nolwazi iya kuba esiluqilima kwaye olungagungqiyo.

Zikhawuleza kakhulu

"Ubuncwane kuphunyezwa ngokukhawuleza akuthethi kusiphumelelisa ukuphela."

IMizekeliso 20:21

Asimele sifune izinto ngokukhawuleza, okanye kwenze ngesiquphe. Oku kuya kuba

yingozi kwaye akavuma kusiphumelelisa ekupheleni, yaye imbi: Oku kuya

kukhokelela neentsizi. Ndiyakholwa umsebenzi rhoqo, kungekhona ukutshitsha.

Bonke ubutyebi yakhiwe ngcembe uya kuhlala. Kodwa ubutyebi ukuba kuzangesiquphe, ngephanyazo kuphela. "Ndimele ukuqhelisela ubugcisa umonde,


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ngokuba indalo ungaze ungxamile." (Ogi Mandino).

Yenza hayi impazamo, silindele imini enye luck uya sibetha emnyango ... kuba loo

mini iya akayi kuza. Kwaye ukuba loo mini ivela akuyi kuba isipho kodwa mboleko

kunye nenzala eliphezulu! "Akukho iindawo mboleko, ngaphandle ngokwakho!"

(Cato, Iileta Lucilius 119: 2).

Makhe sihambe indlela yokuthembeka hayi yokuthabatheka, umsebenzi hayi

emfutshane. Mhlawumbi sinako ukucinga, "Ke, ukuba akunjalo kuba

namathamsanqa, andizange ndifumane apho." Kodwa le impazamo. Ukuba abanye

abantu baphumelele, kuba asinako kwakhona afumane? Ingaba unayo into ngaphezu

kwethu?

Ewe, kodwa ke oko ke, siya nazo. "Impumelelo sisakhono no kufundwa. Unako

ukufunda ukuze uphumelele konke konke. "(T. Harv noEkere). Kwaye yiloo nto

kanye uSolomon afuna ukufundisa thina. "Yintoni umntu uyazi, zisengafundiswakwabanye." (George S. Clason). Ukuba siqhelisela iimfundiso kaSolomon, siya

kufumana kuphumelela!

OKO OBULUMKO

Musa ukuya emva ubutyebi.

Musa ungakhanuki ubutyebi, okanye walala amehlo kwi imali.

Gatya ngamabhongo nokubawa.Musa ukukubekel ulonwabo, kodwa sibe nombulelo yaye bonwabile kule mini.

Ukufuna ubutyebi engaphakathi, sithembeke kwizinto ezincinane.

Yakha ubutyebi yam ngcembe, nokuthe ngcembe.

Hlawula ngokwam 10% yonke imali ufumana.

Baleka kude zonke "kwisigulo" kwi imali ukufumana ubutyebi ngokukhawuleza.

Ukwakha ubomi bam, olusekelwe kulwazi.


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ICEBO 2

Kwesona sempumelelo

Ngokubaluleka BASE

"Ubutyebi honours ngaphandle yobulungisa kum ngathi amafu kudlula."

Confucius

Ziziphi iziseko yobomi bakho? Yintoni isiseko yakho inkxaso? Yintoni ikuvumela

ukuba uphile ngokuzithemba? Ngubani na omthembileyo? Wonke umntu ukwakhainto ethile, kwaye konke kwenziwa kwisiseko. Le isiseko kukunika inkxaso bonke

abanye. Ukuba isiseko uyawa, yonke into yakhiwe iwela. Ngenxa yoko ukubaluleka

iziseko ebomini bethu. Zonke yimpumelelo ngaphandle iziseko ngokuqinileyo, aya

kuwa. Ukuba sifuna ukuba abantu abaphumeleleyo, kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo

esisekweni. Yeyona nto ibalulekileyo.

Impumelelo ukuba sesikwenzile, kufuneka kuthelekiswa kwincam yomkhenkce. Xa

umntu ebona incam yomkhenkce, uyakwazi ukucinga nobukhulu yomkhenkce

phantsi kwamanzi. Kukwanje kunye nemithi, kuba iingcambu enkulu. Ubuvuvuephakamileyo, lokhuseleko le phezulu. Ukuba ufuna ukufumana ukuba i "top",

qiniseka ukuba isiseko esomeleleyo ijiye. "Ukukwazi kungakhokelela encotsheni,

kodwa ukuba apho, oko kufuna umlinganiswa. Asinako ukunyuka ngaphaya kwemida

isimilo sethu. "(Yoh C. Maxwell).

Eliphezulu siya kutsiba, kokukhona isenokuba ukuwa. Kufuneka ukuxabisa izinto

unika inkxaso ebomini bethu. Abantu abaninzi abafuni ukuchitha ixesha ngesisekelo.

Bafuna ukuba abonakale ngundaba kwaye bathathe nempumelelo ngephanyazo.

Kodwa xa umntu ephumelela ngale ndlela, iziphumo inokuba yintlekele. 'Ngakumbi

ilungelo yangaphandle, kokukhona kufuneka umlinganiswa yangaphakathi. "(Yoh C.

Maxwell).

Xa sibona ukwakhiwa indlu, nto leyo ethatha ixesha elide ukuba yakhiwe? Iziseko.

Kodwa emva kokuba wayigqiba indlu, sinokubona isiseko? Hayi, iziseko

ezingabonwayo, kodwa kukho ukuqinisekisa uzinzo wendlu. Ngokufanayo, isiseko

yobomi bethu akuqinisekisi uzinzo kwimpumelelo yethu.

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"Oku obungathethekiyo ukuba ookumkani baqhelisela ukubachazela;

uziqhelise yobulungisa unika ngqongqo ukuze kwetrone. "

IMizekeliso 16:12

USolomon ukumkani, kwaye ekwakheni ubukumkani bakwaSirayeli. Lonke ixesha

lokulawula kwakhe, bobabini uSolomon, kubo bonke abantu bakwaSirayeli

abanamava ukuba boxolo. La maxesha ingqalelo ubudala yegolide kaSirayeli. Kodwa

kutheni kwenzeke oku? Yintoni isiseko, uSolomon wakha ubukumkani bakhe? Justice

yaba sisiseko bonke ebukumkanini kaSolomon. Wathi: "Kuphela inkqubo yobulungisa

unika ngqongqo ukuze kwetrone."

Ubulungisa buthetha "ukuthotyelwa komthetho, isenzo zokunikela nganye yintoni

onelungelo loluka, ukulingana, ubulungisa, ukungakhethi" (Dictionary) .

Ngobulungisa na ukuba bahloniphe amalungelo abanye ukulingana namkhethe."Iqinisekisa uthando abazali bakho, nokuzifica intsapho, ukunyaniseka kubahlobo;

ubulungisa kubo bonke "(DM 30).

lokulawula bonke bukaSolomon ngokuqinileyo kubulungisa. Ngokuba kuye, ukuba

kubekho ukumkani wenze okubi kuba kwakuthetha liyawa ubukumkani. ngobubi na

isiseko esiqinileyo ukuze nabani. Xa umntu efuna ukufumana impumelelo ngokuthi

izenzo ezibi, iza kwasekuqaleni. Kuya kusoloko engekhoyo, umntu ofuna

ukuphumeza ekupheleni elungileyo ngeendlela engalunganga.

Yintoni unika uzinzo zadilika nayiphi na iprojekthi le ndlela yobulungisa. "Isisekobunkokeli yinyaniso, ukuthembeka kunye nobulungisa." (Yoh C. Maxwell kwi

"Leadership Bible"). KweXhoba noMoni isiseko yeyona esiqinileyo ukuba ukho,

kwaye akukho nto belubhukuqa kwesi siseko.

ISISEKO WETHEMBA

"Ukumkani lowo ubenzayo ubulungisa iqinisekisa impumelelo yelizwe;

kodwa xa ukumkani ucinga kuphela irhafu, bawonakalisayo lizwe. "IMizekeliso 29: 4

Ubenzayo ubulungisa eqinisekisa impumelelo, kodwa lowo wenza sikweni iqinisekisa

ububi. Kunzima ukucinga oluhlala luhleli ngaphandle ubulungisa. Oku ayisekho.

"Uphawu esihle kuphela siqinisekisa impumelelo elide ebantwini." (Yoh C. Maxwell).

Ukungabikho ubulungisa kuthetha ukulahlekelwa nempumelelo. Yinto bububhanxa

xa umntu "egameni wethemba" wenza sikweni. Oku kuzisa uxolo, kodwa ke

umonakalo kuphela.

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ubutyebi sikweni, kungekhona ilingana impumelelo nabangalungisiyo. Ifomula

echanekileyo iya kuba: Prosperity sikweni ngokulinganayo bonakaliswe. Le nto itsho

Ingcali 1 zemathematika-nempumelelo.

JUSTICE okanye ubuhlwempu

"Justice obuyiyo ubukhulu kweentlanga; isono bubuhlwempu abantu. "

IMizekeliso 14:34

Justice kukhokelela ubukhulu. Sikweni yintswelo yodwa. Yintoni eya kusenza sibe

mkhulu? Justice. Kodwa isono isenza amahlwempu. "Oku kuthetha ukuba isityebi

Ulilungisa ngakumbi amahlwempu?" Nakanye, asinako kugweba nabani na. Mna ke

ndinabo ukuqiniseka mnye: Justice okuphuchula "zizityebi" kwaye "amahlwempu"

kodwa sikweni ifibre kubo.

Sifuna kwihlabathi nesihluma ngakumbi? Ngoko ke kufuneka ukuba ukwakha

ihlabathi nelinobulungisa. Andiyithandabuzi into yokuba sikweni ebangela indlala. Lo

mboniso kakhulu ebomini bethu, zomelele iya kuba nempumelelo yethu.

Kodwa ingcamango exhaphakileyo kanye esahlukileyo. Yintoni akumangalisi, kuba

ihlabathi ngathi kukuthi, ngasizathu sithile. "Ukuba ufuna ukuba ulungise iimpazamo

zakho, kufuneka uqale ulungisa intanda yakho." (Jim Rohn). Kufuneka sitshintshe

ingqondo! Ukuba sifuna kwindawo eyahlukileyo, kufuneka utshintshe indlela.Aninako ukwenza into enye kwaye ulindele iziphumo ezahlukeneyo! "Ngaphezu

kwako konke, u zigcine ingcinga yakho; kuba ubomi bakho buxhomekeke iingcinga

zakho. "(uSolomon). esicinga wakho uya kumisela akho afezeke. Lowo

undilandelayo uninzi, kuya kuba japan eqhelekileyo. Gatya yokucinga eqhelekileyo

ukuba bazuze iziphumo ingaqhelekanga. Ukuba ngoku yethu yahlukile ezidlulileyo

lwethu, ikamva lethu ziya kwahluka langoku yethu.

Kodwa ke, njengokuba naye wafundisa yamaRoma sobulumko uSeneca: "Ngaphezu

kwako konke, ngamnye wethu kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba kufuneka ukuba kubekhoubulungisa ngaphandle efuna umvuzo ... Asimele Ucinga ukuba iza kuba yintoni na

ibhaso le nje izinto; bhaso liphezulu na isenzo amalungisa ukwenziwa. "

Musani ukukholosa ngobutyebi

"Okholosa ngobutyebi bakhe uya kuwa yena;

Ke amalungisa aya kuhluma njengezithole umthi. "

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Ubutyebi kwakusomeleza gqitha abo. Kodwa eneneni, ubutyebi akufuneki ube trust.

Ingqwebo qho ethembekileyo ukuqinisekisa impumelelo ukuya ekupheleni.

Kwenzeka ntoni ukuba umntu Okholosa ngobutyebi bakhe? Bawe. Ubutyebi

akunguye isiseko, kodwa isiphumo. Xa umntu Okholosa ngobutyebi, kuba ufana

nomntu okholosa endlwini, kungekho siseko. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku impumelelo

aziyi kuhlala ixesha elide.

Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni xa umntu yakha impumelelo esekelwe kubulungisa? Lo mntu

isoloko ikhula. USolomon wenza uthelekiso umthi: Iingcambu ukumela ubulungisa,

kunye nokukhula mthi ke ukukhula nendyebo.

Ukuba umthi omkhulu kakhulu: Xa usike iingcambu, umthi uza kuwa, ephelile

iziqhamo. Ngokunjalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba umntu yimpumelelo kakhulu: Xa

usike okusesikweni, umntu uya kuwa ziphele ubutyebi.

JUSTICE OKANYE AYENZA

"Akukho nto uya emzileni umntu olilungisa, kodwa abangendawo baya kuhlala kweli

lizwe."

IMizekeliso 10:30

Umntu olilungisa uya kuba nempumelelo. Ngoko, uAlbert Einstein wathi: "Zama

ukuba ngumntu obalulekileyo, endaweni yokuzama ukuba umntu yimpumelelo.Impumelelo na isiphumo. "Kodwa ukuba umntu yexabiso, elungileyo nje? "Inxalenye

enkulu ububele iqulathe ngokufuna ukuba kulungile." (Seneca). bonke iqala

umnqweno, "imbewu" encinane ekhula njengoko aphilise lo mnqweno ngemihla.

Yintoni umphumo? Nto ayiyi kuphumelela umntu olilungisa kuba apho kukho

kuphela ubulungisa kukho kuphela impumelelo, akukho gumbi ngokusilela. Kodwa

kuza kwenzeka ntoni into embi kwanolwabangemalungisa? akayi kuhlala. Bubutyebi

(ukuba likhona) uza kuphela. "Amandla na indawo yokungabikho uphawu." (Yoh C.

Maxwell).NgesiPhuthukezi, igama elithi "ukusilela" lisuka kwigama elithi "ubuthathaka" kwaye

ukwenza buthathaka. Kutheni kukho obuthathaka? Kuba akukho gunya. Yintoni

umphumo? Ukuwa. Kwelinye icala ukuba igama elithi "impumelelo", apho ivela elithi

"ngokulandelelana". Imelwe yokwenza into eqhubekayo, abasisigxina kunye

alandelelanayo. Yintoni imfihlelo ukuba impumelelo yethu kuwa kodwa ukuhlala

ngokuqhubekekayo kwaye ukukhula? Imfihlelo ukusebenzelana yobulungisa.

Impumelelo nje njengesiphumo.

Lungisa okanye ukungonwabi


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"Indlu yendoda ilungisa ubutyebi kakhulu;

ingeniso evela embi imveliso ukungonwabi. "

IMizekeliso 15: 6

Into eyafumanekayo endlwini ulilungisa? ubutyebi Enkulu. Kodwa ingcamango

eqhelekileyo kunqabile esinxulumanisa umntu olilungisa umntu osisityebi. Kutheni?

Kwenzeka ntoni oku: Umntu iqwalasela ngokwakhe ngokwendalo "nobulungisa."

Enyanisweni, wakha ingcamango lobuxoki ngokwethu. Nokuba mthetho

usenokucinga ukuba umntu 'ngobulungisa.' Ngoku cinga oko ucinga ukuba ngummi

avareji?

Umbuzo: Thina nje ngokwenene? Okanye siya kuba nembono buso kuthi? Zingaphi

izihlandlo, senza sikweni oyinyaniso yaye sasicinga: ". Oku elingenasiphako"Ngamafutshane, senza into engalunganga kwaye uhlambe izandla zethu ngathi nto.

Kodwa masingalibali: "Uphawu kubalulekile; ukusulungeka yangaphakathi unefuthe

uvumo lwethu. "(Yoh C. Maxwell).

Yintoni eya kwenza ukuba abantu ilungisa ukukholelwa ukuba thina! Siyazikhohlisa,

kodwa kuya kuba kanye oko. Makhe senze lo mbuzo ulandelayo: "mna ndahlala

ngokunyanisekileyo, ngaphandle intlekisa kum kunam, nokuba akukho namnye

ilalela?" (Yoh C. Maxwell).

USolomon uthi oko urhwebe ukunganyaniseki kuya kubangela newu. Into entle xakuphunyezwa exoka iba yinto embi. "Zifuna ukukhawulezisa ubutyebi, abantu

abakulungeleyo ukwenza ububi, ukwenza okubi okanye mthethweni ukuba bafumane

ngaphezulu." (Steven K. Scott). Kukho iindlela ezininzi kuphosakele ukuqhamisa:

ubuxoki, urhwaphilizo, mthetho, ubusela, njl Kukho abantu bade ukutyhafisa

sokuphucula njengendlela yokuphepha ezi 'izilingo ". Yintoni liphantse onengqondo.

Noko ke, kanye njengoko kukho iindlela engalunganga, zikhona iindlela

ezichanekileyo (iindlela wafundisa nguSolomon). Iindlela engalunganga zibangel

iindlela lula kwaye zikhawuleze. Kodwa iindlela ezifanelekileyo ilungileyo, kwaye

abo ukuba ixesha elide. Kulungile ukuba babe umvuzo ukunyaniseka nokuba

incinane, kunokuba ingeniso olukhulu sikweni. Kuba imali abiweyo uqalekisiwe,

kwaye iyakrakra banabo. Uyazi ukuba izinto ezingasenza ukuba sonwabe? Asinto

ubutyebi, sesikweni.

UVUYO LOBULUNGISA

"Umntu olilungisa utya de bahluthe; sona isisu sabangendawo siyalamba. "

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Isenzo okusesikweni uya kuzisa ulwaneliseko ebomini bethu. Ke bonke ububi kuya

kubangela kuphela benomsindo. Ububi ende. Ngubani na embi, aphile

ingazalisekiswanga ngonaphakade. Kangangoko sizame ukusebenzisa izinto, kuya

kuba mnandi. Nantso kwisiqalekiso ububi: ukungonwabi.

Zama ukuthatha izigqibo yaye uya kuba babanelisekile kwaye bonwabile. "Thina

ulawulo phezu kweento ezininzi ebomini. Thina awumkhethi abazali bethu, iimeko

wokuzalwa okanye uqeqesho zethu. Kodwa uyakwazi ukukhetha amaxabiso zethu.

Siye kuphuhliswa amaxabiso zethu zonke izigqibo esizenzayo. "(Yoh C. Maxwell).

Loyiko okanye umnqweno

"Yintoni ukoyika abantu abakhohlakeleyo, yenzeka;

Ndithanda amadoda angamalungisa, bafumana. "

IMizekeliso 10:24

Ubungendawo uqhutywa luloyiko, kodwa okusesikweni siqhutywa ngumnqweno.

boyika abantu abanobubi; Ke amadoda angamalungisa siyicele. Yintoni abantu

abakhohlakeleyo ukoyika uya ekugqibeleni yenzeke kubo. abantu abakhohlakeleyo

ukutsala ububi. Ke amadoda angamalungisa, ukutsala izinto ezilungileyo. Bonke

ukuba umntu olilungisa onqwenela, ekugqibeleni uza kufumana.Ukuba umntu olilungisa, bathi ngokulula okanye Bacinga, "Owu, ndinqwenela ukuba

mna loo nto." umnqweno wakho uya kunikwa (ngamanye amaxesha ngokukhawuleza

kunokuba ucinga).

Kodwa umntu ndawonye nolunya kufuneka balumke kakhulu. Kuba xa umntu ombi

esoyika into ethile, mhlawumbi kuya kwenzeka. Nje umntu athethe okanye ukucinga

okubi, kwaye kuvela ububi. Kodwa nje yenzeke njalo.

Sifana iimagnethi: Siya umtsalane izinto ezifanayo kuthi. Ukuba kulungile, siya

ukutsala izinto ezilungileyo. Ke ukuba kubi, simele ukutsala izinto ezimbi. Khumbula:"Xa ufaka isikhalazo, oko iba" nomazibuthe "izinto ezimbi; ububi singqale, sisanda."

(T. Harv noEkere). Ngoko ke, simele sinikele ingqalelo koko thina. Ugqaliselo lwethu

kufuneka kuphela oko kulungileyo. "Umntu ebezingasukeli impumelelo; yimpumelelo

kufuneka nditsaleleka kumntu wena ... Ukuba aniguquki ntoni wena, nisoloko nto

unayo. "(Jim Rohn).

Iintsikelelo okanye udushe

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kodwa iinginginya abangendawo ubundlobongela. "

IMizekeliso 10: 6

Andiqondi ukuba sinako zeekhathalogu kubo: 100% ekunene okanye i-100%

engalunganga. Ndiyakholwa ukuba kusoloko umxube zombini. Undoqo kukwenza

isikali sokulinganisa kwicala elichanekileyo. Oko kukuthi, kufuneka wenze

okusesikweni ukuphepha zonke iintlobo zobubi.

USolomon wathi: "le ndoda nje kufumana yimvula yentsikelelo." Ngaba nicinga

ukuba? Apho uya khona, yimvula yentsikelelo ukuze bawe kuwe? Indlela

emangalisayo, ndinqwenela ukuba ubomi wam nowenu. Kuya kuba mnandi kunye

nolonwabo eqhubekayo.

Yaye yintoni oyilindeleyo ebubini? Owu, ubundlobongela rhoqo! Ubundlobongela

ihleli phakathi indoda engendawo. Kunye nobundlobongela uza kuhlala nemiphumoyaso. Xa ubundlobongela uya kuyishiya ubomi umntu? Kuphela xa umntu eshiya

ububi. Ubundlobongela nokubi kuhlala ndawonye, ngaba "otshatileyo"

ngonaphakade. "Kutheni unilukuhlayo thina? ububi lwethu aluphumi ngaphandle,

engaphakathi kuthi nasekelwe Guts zethu. "(Seneca).

UMVUZO EMELWA

"Umntu ongendawo uya kuba iziphumo ziyalahlekisa;bonke propagates okusesikweni unomvuzo oyinyaniso. "

IMizekeliso 11:18

Ubutyebi somntu ongendawo, yinto ziyalahlekisa, yinto nje engekhoyo. Kodwa abo

propagates okusesikweni, kuya kuba kusoloko unomvuzo oyinyaniso. ukuba ububi

uya kohlwaywa, kodwa ilungisa liya kuvuzwa. Ngubani oza kwenza esi sigwebo?

Bubomi ngokwawo, imithetho yayo azinakuphazama kunye azinakuguqulwa.

Kulo mhlaba ohlwayela ubulungisa wovuna ubutyebi. Ke yena ohlwayela sikweniwovuna ubuhlwempu. "Maxa wambi bamsulwa kohlwaywa (Ondikhanyeleyo na?),

Kodwa kuqhelekile kakhulu ukuba unetyala zihlawuliswe." (Seneca) .Le ongendawo

unokuba ezinye uhlobo ulonwabo okwethutyana, kodwa ekugqibeleni kuya kufuneka

esi sivakalisi. Umntu olilungisa unokuba uhlobo ukubandezeleka okwethutyana,

kodwa ekugqibeleni kuba umvuzo. Yinto yenkoloseko, ukuba akulubeki esichengeni.

"Le bububi namhlanje iqulethe imbewu uyolo ngomso." (Ogi Mandino).

WETHEMBA CONTINUOUS


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"Umntu olungileyo ushiya lilifa sikwaziindlalifa;

ubutyebi umoni uzakuya amalungisa. "

IMizekeliso 13:22

Nobunqobo lwelungisa rhoqo, kwaye uya kuhlala. Kodwa ke impumelelo

kwabangendawo bufutshane yaye ekugqibeleni uya kuphuma izandla zabo.

Intywenka indoda elungileyo abaya kuhamba kubani? Ndlalifa bakhe. Kodwa

ubutyebi umoni uya aye kubani? Akuyi kuba ziindlalifa yabo; Ke wona amalungisa.

Yinto nje ixesha.

Nempumelelo bobabo amalungisa. Zezi bangabanini abafanelekileyo. Amalungisa

isiseko yonke impumelelo. Impumelelo ifana umthi kunye neziqhamo zalo

ezilungileyo, neengcambu zawo zisesikweni. "Ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha iziqhamo,

kuqala kufuneka utshintsh iingcambu." (T. Harv noEkere). Yenza isigqibo ukwakhaubomi bakho esekelwe kubulungisa, kwaye ke uya kukhula baze bangavelisi siqhamo.

Hlala ezidityanisiweyo kwi "iingcambu" yobulungisa, nempumelelo yakho soze

kupheza.

OKO OBULUMKO

KweXhoba noMoni isiseko esiluqilima kwaye esiqinileyo ebomini bam.

Bahloniphe amalungelo abanye ukulingana namkhethe.Negalelo kwihlabathi nje.

Unqwenela ukuba umntu olilungisa, nimdlise lo mnqweno imihla ngemihla.

Phila ngokunyanisekileyo, ngaphandle waneentloni ngam, nangona kungekho mntu.

Asimphuculi ngokungachanekanga: ubuxoki, urhwaphilizo, ngokungekho mthethweni

okanye ubusela.

Yenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo.

Oku siqhutywa ngumnqweno kungekhona kukoyika, phule okulungileyo.

Mabaziqhelanise kwaye basasaze okusesikweni ukuphepha zonke iintlobo zobubi.


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ICEBO 3

ENDLELENI KUSILELA

Ngileyo nokubi

"Zisixhenxe izono kwezentlalo:

Kwezopolitiko kungekho siseko; ubutyebi ngaphandle umsebenzi; ukuzonwabisa

ngaphandle yesazela; ulwazi ngaphandle uphawu; ishishini ngaphandle yokuziphatha;

inzululwazi ngaphandle abantu; kwaye banqule ngaphandle idini. "

Mahatma Gandhi

Yintoni isiseko sempumelelo? Ngokutsho kuSolomon, isiseko kuphela esiqinileyo

yonke impumelelo sesikweni. Nantoni na enye kunokubangela umonakalo. Asimele

masingazikhohlisi. Eziphelweni musa kumgwebela indlela. "Kufuneka balungise

iindlela zakho, kodwa akufuneki zingangqinelani iinkolelo okanye imigaqo zakho

bakho." (Yoh C. Maxwell). Nangona injongo ethile kubonakala kakuhle; indlela

ekhethiweyo ukuphumeza oko kufuneka zingabi namkhethe. Imvelaphi yezinto igqiba

lokugqibela. "Nkqu iiprojekthi odume abupheli xa iinkokheli ulihenyu." (Yoh C.Maxwell).

Kukho ingcamango eqhelekileyo ukuba uthi: ". Maxa wambi ububi kuyanceda"

Nangona kunjalo, olu kuphela emini. Wonke sikweni inganika ezinye iziyolo, kodwa

ekugqibeleni kuya kubangela umonakalo. "Le ndoda embi isenokuyilibazisa

isohlwayo; kodwa akukho ukuphepha isohlwayo. "(Publlio mgca).

Ngaphezu koko, ukusebenzelana okusesikweni kunika intlungu ezinye kodwa

ekugqibeleni kuya kukhokelela iingenelo. "Okokuqala, kufuneka kuxoxwe ngento

unyanisekile; ke kuphela, kufuneka ucinge into luncedo "(uCicero, De Officiis 1.10).

Andiqondi ukuba sifuna ubomi esekelwe uyolo lwexeshana, kunye neentlungu

bekayo; kodwa ubomi esekelwe Intlungu, yaye ukholiswa eqhubekayo.

UMONAKALO yendyebo

"Umhlaba womntu ihlwempu unika ukutya okuninzi,

kodwa zizakulahleka ukuba akukho okusesikweni. "

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Kakade ke, abantu abaninzi banovelwano amahlwempu kwaye ufuna uvuyo olukhulu

kubo. Sekunjalo, uSolomon uthi: Ukuba amahlwempu awunalo ubulungisa kuya

kubakho ithemba kubo.

Nangona intabalala yokutya, yaye nangona umhlaba ukuvelisa izityalo zabo;

ngaphandle ubulungisa yonke ilahlekileyo. Ukhe waqaphela ukuba edla ubomi kufana

"ingxowa tyaba": Thina kuvuna, siyigcina, sisebenzisa; kodwa ukwazi ukuba kutheni,

ngesiquphe yonke ilahlekile. "Le elincinane okunqwenelwayo buya kukwenza

wolahlekelwa ngokunyaniseka kuthatha." (Chrysostom / Manutius, Adagia 1397).

Yintoni na isizathu? U "engxoweni enezikroba." Sikweni idala emingxunyeni musa

ukuvumela nokugcina nantoni na. Kufuneka sibe inkathalo enkulu zonke iintlobo

sikweni, kuba vula izikhewu kubomi babantu kunye nemibutho. USolomon ifundisa

ukuba bubudenge wenza okubi kwaye uziva ukhuselekile; kodwa umntu osisilumko

ubona neziphumo ububi imka ebubini. "Umntu osisilumko usoloko omoyikayo azeoshiy 'ububi." (Publlio mgca).

INDLELA ZOBUHLWEMPU

"Lowo Ocudisa isisweli, ukuba aggrandize ngokwakhe, Nonika isityebi,

Kananjalo iqhutywa zentlupheko. "

IMizekeliso 22:16

Lowo ekucudiseni izisweli Ayilunganga, njengoko lowo Nonika isityebi. Amaninzi

sikweni oshukunyiswa self-aggrandizement. Nangona kunjalo, nokuzeyisa-

aggrandizement yintswelo yodwa. Kwakhona, uSolomon ucacisa umthetho kunzima

ukuqonda okanye ukucacisa. Kodwa ke kuyinyani. Loo nto ifana ngokuhlwayela

nokuvuna: Thina kuhlwayela sikweni kwaye babaxinzelela, yaye baphulukana yonke.

"Inkqubo yethu kwelungileyo nembi, umhlobo wethu osenyongweni okanye

lutshaba." (Marica Marquis).

Kuthetha ukuthini ukwenza ngokungekho sikweni? Lithetha "ukucaphukisaamalungelo, kwaye senze engafanelekanga, ngokungekho mthethweni,

ngokungenasizathu, engenasizathu, ngaphandle ngokuthobela imigaqo" (Dictionary) .

Sisebenza kakubi abanye; nabanye ukwenza ngokungekho sikweni nxamnye nathi.

Yinto umjikelo ngokwenene.

Ukuba sifuna ukuba nempumelelo ngokwenene, siya kufuneka baphume "kumjikelo

sikweni" ngokukhawuleza! "Wena undibuze indlela ndiphume kule meko?! Kunjalo

"(Seneca). Umntu benze sikweni nxamnye nawe? Musa balandele indlela enye. Ububi

nabo baqhelisela oko. Khetha usoloko ukwenza okulungileyo kwaye uya kufumana

ukulunga intabalala ebomini bakho.


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UMGAQO LE boomerang

"Inkokeli yobudenge ozuza nengcinezelo; inkokheli ngaphandle nokunyoluka ziya

kuba nobomi obude. "

IMizekeliso 28:16

Yokucinezela abanye kukumatha: Ngubani uthuthumbisa nabanye uya

kuthuthunjiswa. Yeha ke lowo uba mkhulu lo mthetho ... Eli impazamo. Ukunyoluka

kukhokelela abantu ubomi lwengcinezelo. Kodwa oku yokuphila lifutshane.

Kwamsinya, ububi uya kuza emva kwabo bazenzayo oko njenge "boomerang".

Uyazi ukuba lo mgaqo boomerang? "Xa unceda abanye abantu, thina kusincede na."

(Yoh C. Maxwell). Bangafuni nokuva oyinyaniso. Xa kakubi abanye, siya

kusenzakalisa. "Lowo uhlwayela sikweni uvunayo ngamashwa ngenxa yokuba

ubundlobongela yakhe kuya kulwa naye." (USolomon).

Yenza hayi impazamo: Ukuba bemba umngxuma, siya kuwa phezu kwayo. Kodwa

kwelinye icala, thina ngabancedi sisenza kakuhle ngokwethu. Konke okulungileyo

senza ntoni na, emva kuthi.

Inyanga elide

"Ubutyebi basebubhedengwini abusebenzi; ubulungisa buhlangula ekufeni. "

IMizekeliso 10: 2

Kukho ubutyebi ukuba lufunyanwa ngokunyanisekileyo, kwaye kukho ubutyebi

ukuba lufunyanwa ngamaqhinga. Yinto zonke efanayo? Into ebalulekileyo ukuba abe

'zizityebi'? Hayi, njengoko mzekeliso uthi, "Hayi yonke into glitters igolide."

Asifanele sicinge ukuba zonke izityebi banyanisekile okanye embi. Ixesha liya kuba

uvavanyo. Bonke ubutyebi esekelwe yobulungisa ngokobunene. "Umsebenzi

Thembeka uvelisa ubutyebi ezibalulekileyo." (Marica Marquis). Kodwa ubutyebi

embi siphila ixesha elifutshane, yaye ekugqibeleni, baya kuba engenamsebenzi

okanye eyingozi. "Uvuyo zokuxhatshazwa ngokukhawuleza uguquka intlekele."

(Publlio mgca).

USolomon uthelekisa ubutyebi embi ngobulungisa, yaye uthi kozuko akwazi ukulahla

wokufa komntu. kunyaniseka kuphela uya obude kwimpumelelo. Asifanele sicinge

ukuba impumelelo siqongqothe, kodwa ugqatso. Ukunyaniseka ukuba uya kusinika

amandla ukuze ufikelele usukelo. Ukuba umntu uphengulula "indlela emfutshane"sikweni kuya 'ongafanelekanga "kwaye akakwazi' ekhuphisene 'kuba yimpumelelo


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kwakhona. Asimele Lahla "ukhuphiswano" wethu.

Ngamanye amaxesha ubuxoki kubonakala kuyingenelo ngakumbi, ke, loo nto yinto

nje emgibeni. "Sicinga siya kuzuza xa embi, kodwa nantoni na ingeniso

esiyifumanayo kusoloko-wahlala mfutshane. Imiphumo ubuxoki ukwandisa ngexesha

kwaye babe ezinkulu kuno inzuzo kwethu ... Ukunganyaniseki kutshatyalaliswa

ubomi, imitshato, iinkampani ezinkulu kunye noorhulumente. "(Steven K. Scott).

Awunakumalusa UBUXOKI

"Ubuncwane owo ubuxoki

Zezi wento ngumzuzwana ukuba urhuqa ekufeni. "

IMizekeliso 21: 6

Asinako masingazikhohlisi with "ezimfutshane", kungekhona ngobuxoki. Oku

bazakucinga ukuba urhuqa ekufeni, okanye ngamanye amazwi, ngaba umntu

osembonweni ngokutsala ngokusilela. Omnye ukucinga, "Ke ukuba ndithe

ukukhuphisana ngokunyanisekileyo, andizange uyakuba kuqala." Mna akuqinisekisi

ukuba umntu onyanisekileyo baya kuba ngabokuqala, kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba uya

kufikelela njongo! Kwaye baya kuba ziintshatsheli, kuba ophumeleleyo oyinyaniso

nto ogqiba nabanye abantu, kodwa yena woyisayo naye! "Kutheni na ukukhathalela

abanye abantu, ukuba woyisa ngokwakho?!" (Seneca).Kufuneka boyise "nesilingo" sikweni, ubuxoki, kwaye wenze okubi. Liyinyaniso

elokuba, ezi inkulu iintshaba zethu. Akunjalo, bengengabo ngaphandle kwethu, ezi

ntshaba likuso. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kusemphefumlweni yethu oluqhatha us!

"Iintshaba zethu inkulu kuhlala ngaphakathi kwethu: iimpazamo zethu, imikhuba

kunye neenkanuko." (Marica Marquis). Ke ukuba aphumelele iintshaba

yangaphakathi, asimele sizixhalabise neentshaba ngaphandle. sele boyiswa!

Bakholelwa ukuba yonke into ufuna ukuphumelela. Ngokufuthi eyona nto eyenza

ukuba uloyiso, thina ngokwethu. Ukuba kuphumelela thina utyekelo yethu ebubini:Siya kuba abaphumeleleyo ezinkulu. Nempumelelo yethu siya kuqina ihleli!

"Okuninzi isinika uhlobo kwabakuthiyileyo, ubuqhetseba ukunyaniseka." (Gualterius

Anglicus, Fabulae Aesopicae 60).

OKO OBULUMKO

Yenza okulungileyo, nangona inazo engxakini lokuqala.

Bamoyikayo emibi kwaye uyatyeka ebubini.Musa anamcudisa amahlwempu, okanye uphe esisityebi.


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Musa enze okungekho sikweni, ekhubekisayo, engafanelekanga okanye

niyimigqakhwe.

Ukuba umntu wenza ayihambi ngam: andiyenzi okufanayo.

Yenza okulungileyo iintshaba.

Musani ukuba zizidenge, babawe, iintshukumo okanye icinezele.

Ukunceda abanye, kungabi kakubi.

Mawubekeke nangokunyaniseka.

Andifuni ubutyebi mthethweni.

Supero mna, nabo bonke "ekuhendweni" sikweni, ubuxoki kwaye wenze okubi.


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ICEBO 4

UNOKUSINCEDA UZUKO

I isitshixo

"Ulwazi liye laba igqi- ukuvelisa isizukulwana ubutyebi."

Bill Gates

Sinengxaki? Ngokuba yonke imbandezelo kukho kusoloko isicombululo. Masithi

ingxaki ifana ucango luvaliwe, kwaye asinazo isitshixo. Isisombululo kuphelaukufumana isitshixo, okanye ukuzama ukwaphula ucango ngamandla! Kudla ngoko

uzame ukusombulula iingxaki: umxwile (apho kunzima). Kodwa phi ke isitshixo?

Ubulumko isitshixo ekusombululeni iingxaki: ke inkosi isitshixo kungavula zonke

iingcango! Bulunge ubulumko ngaphezu kobugorha.

Ayothusi into yokuba uSolomon ithathwa enye yawona madoda lonke ixesha, kwaye

omnye bubulumko. Ngokuba kuye, ubulumko ke into ephambili. Enyanisweni, ukuba

wonke umbandela ubulumko. "Yintoni enye Ndingenza ntoni ngaphandle uvuselela

kuloyiso ubulumko?" (Seneca).Ukuba ufumana ingxaki awukwazi ukusombulula, kungenxa yokuba kukho into musa

sele uyazi. Ukuba ulwazi into ekufuneka uyazi, linyathelo lokuqala ukusombulula

nayiphi na ingxaki. "Ukuba unengxaki enkulu ebomini bakho, oko kuthetha ukuba

amancinci" (T. Harv noEkere). Indlela angamkhulu ngaphezu neengxaki zethu?

Ngokusebenzisa ubulumko.

Ngoko ke, iNkosi ucebisa ukuba sifune ubulumko ngaphezu kwayo yonke enye into.

Ubulumko impendulo zonke ezinye izinto. Kwaye okukhona ukhulisa ubulumko,

kokukhona uya kukhula kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi. "Umvuzo xa sifumana

bokwenyaniso ubulumko ngaphaya ukuyila." (Steven K. Scott).

Zeeprojekhthi OBULUMKO

"Ubulumko ikunika, kwelinye icala, ubomi obude, okwesibini, ubutyebi nozuko.

Landela amanyathelo yakhe intle; kukho ukhuseleko ngeendlela zakhe. "

IMizekeliso 3: 16-17

Ubulumko isinika into, hayi kangako! USolomon uthi ubulumko usinika ubomi obude.


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Abantu bathi bomi kusinika ubulumko, kodwa umntu osisilumko ithi ubulumko

usisindisele ubomi! "Lowo yakha ubomi bakhe kwisiseko solwazi uya kuphila ixesha

elide." (Steven K. Scott).

Hayi kuphela kuthetha iminyaka yobomi ... Kodwa ubomi nempumelelo nomninzi!

USolomon uthi ubulumko akuthethi ukongeza ubungakanani nje ubomi, kodwa

esemgangathweni. Kubalulekile ngoko ke ukuba umgangatho nobungakanani

kufuneka. Ke ingumnqweno ubulumko inika kuthi: phawu ubungakanani! Ubulumko

nanto. Yonke nathi sifuna kobu bomi azilingani nabo ubulumko!

Bonke kufuneka ubulumko. musa sifuna imali eninzi, impilo ngaphezulu, umsebenzi,

impahla, nabahlobo ... Yintoni ekufuneka ubulumko kakhulu, kwaye abanye liza

kunyuka. "Abaninzi akhalaze imali encinane; abanye bayakhalaza wethamsanqa

encinane, abanye akhalaze benkumbulo amahlwempu, kodwa akukho namnye ukhala

benesigwebo kancinane. "(marica Marquis).Ubulumko unokusinika ubutyebi nozuko, kwaye konke singenako ucinge! Ubulumko

iyamangalisa, kwaye wenza ebalulekileyo asiyoyenene. Nanini na xa uphendla,

ukufumana nokusebenzisa ubulumko: Ubomi bakho iya kutshintsha.

Umendo ubulumko kumnandi kwaye ikhuselekile. Kwelinye icala, unako ukuba

uhambo: Yintoni kanye uyadika ezingathandekiyo, ube mnandi. Yaye kwelinye icala,

luhambo ekhuselekileyo: Musa kunokubangela unxunguphalo okanye ukuphoxeka,

ubulumko uyakwazi emangalisayo leyo iniqubule yonke imihla.

UKUFUMANA WISDOM?

"Ndiyamthanda abo bamthandayo kum; abo kundifuna, ningandifumani.

Ndibe nam ubutyebi nozuko, impumelelo, nendyebo engenasiphelo. "

Ubulumko (IMizekeliso 8: 17-18)

Xa uSolomon uthetha ubulumko, kubonakala ukuba uthetha umntu! Ubulumko khe

ngokwenene kuye. USolomon wathanda ubulumko. Ubulumko wayemthandauSolomon. Ubulumko lithetha "umgangatho ukwazi, ulwazi olunzulu ngezinto, ulwazi

olufunyenwe okanye zemvelo, kakhulu ulwazi, ezenzululwazi, imfundo enkulu yaye

azifani, ubulungisa, ubulungisa." (Dictionary).

Ngaba ungathanda kuthandwa Ubulumko? Ngoko kuqala, kufuneka ukuba umthande

ubulumko. Ubulumko kuze ayigatye uthando lwakho. Ukuba nifuna, niya kufumana

ubulumko ngezandla ezivulekileyo ukwamkela aze akunike uthando nengqalelo.

Ngokwahlukileyo abaninzi bacinga ukuba, ubulumko akusithele kodwa

ezibonakalayo, abuyi kuba kude kodwa ezifikelelekayo kakhulu! "Ubulumko ukuba

ifihlakele kodwa memeza uluntu! Kufuneka siye ukufumana ubulumko baze babe


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ngabahlobo bakhe "(Yoh C. Maxwell).

Yaye xa ufumana ubulumko, kukho ubutyebi kakhulu kuwe. Ubulumko

amahlwempu, akukho. Enyanisweni, Ubulumko zezakhe zonke ubutyebi! Kwaye

ngaphandle, Ubulumko nesisa kakhulu: unalo uzuko, impumelelo, nendyebo

engenasiphelo, ingakumbi wena.

Umntu uza kucinga, "Ke mna ndifanele nayiphi le ...". Noko ke, ubulumko

akamkhethi wabuso bamntu. Akukho mba yobudala bakho, iwonga ekuhlaleni,

okanye elidlulileyo ... Ubulumko ufuna, unako, yaye uya kuguqula ubomi bakho

ngenxa ngcono! Kwaye into emangalisayo kukuba Ubulumko uvuyo ekuguquleni

ubomi. "Uvuyo lwam ukuba phakathi kwabantu." (Ubulumko "Imizekeliso

kaSolomon").

BOBUTYEBI nobuncwane

"Mna ndingoka umendo wobulungisa, emkhondweni wokuthe tye,

ukuqinisekisa ukuba ubutyebi ukuze abo bandithandayo nokunyusa ubutyebi babo. "

Ubulumko (IMizekeliso 8: 20-21)

Abo bamthandayo Ubulumko, uya uvuzwe. Umendo ubulumko indlela okusesikweni

nobulungisa. Ukuba ulandela indlela yobulumko, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuphumelela.

Ubulumko ayixoki, kwaye kwenza nangaphezulu nezithembiso. Ubulumko uyabavuzaabo balandela indlela yakhe. "Ubomi unoyolo imveliso yobulumko" (Seneca).

Umendo ubulumko izele ubutyebi nobuncwane. Kuyinto luhambo emangalisayo.

USolomon wenze le hambo, abashiya incwadi ebhaliweyo ukukhuthaza wonke umntu

ukuba aye kule ndlela.

Abaninzi bacinga, "USolomon wayeyindoda anelungelo, azalelwe wokulalisa

yegolide". Kodwa inyaniso kukuba ilungelo kuphela uSolomon ukuba uhambe

ngendlela ubulumko. Yonke enye yaba sisiphumo ngobulumko ebomini bakhe.

Ke ukuba uthe wahamba indlela efanayo nabo beze kule ndawo inye. Yiyo loo ntouSolomon wathi: ". Ohamba nezilumko uya kuba sisilumko" Ngamanye amazwi: yena

ohamba ngobulumko uya kuba ubutyebi, nozuko, impumelelo kunye nempumelelo!

"Inzululwazi ngamandla, amandla kunye nobutyebi; uhlanga okrelekrele ngakumbi

ubulumko buya kuba luhlanga zinamandla, abazizityebi kwaye womelele. "(marica

Marquis, kwincwadi yakhe" La ngamazwi, iingcinga nokuvakalisa ").

ADVISE AND bulungise

"Ucebise uze empumelelweni umsebenzi wam;


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Ndim ubukrelekrele onika amandla. "

Ubulumko (IMizekeliso 8:14)

Ubulumko umsebenzi, imishini ukuba elungeleleneyo uthobela (yonke imihla, imizuzu

neesekondi). Ukuba awufuni ukuba uphumelele, ngoko ufanele masingasuki

Ubulumko. Ubulumko yenza abantu bephumelela, kwaye yenza "aboyiswayo" inkulu

abaphumeleleyo inkulu ngonaphakade.

Ubulumko umcebisi ilungileyo. Ubulumko uyazi njani ukufikelela zonke izinto.

"Indlela ukufikelela kuyo, ubulumko kuphela walatha ngayo." (Seneca). Ubulumko

uyazazi zonke imfihlo uloyiso, kwaye usoloko efumaneka ukwabelana ezi mfihlelo

nabahlobo bakho abasenyongweni. USolomon wayengumhlobo kakhulu ubulumko,

ngomnye wabahlobo bakhe abasondeleyo. Kodwa ubulumko kukhethe uSolomon. Ke

uSolomon lo watyumba ubulumko. Wayebathanda amquqele, bamfumana bamlandela... Ngoko, ubulumko ke wayemthanda waza wamenza ngengqiqo konke!

Umsebenzi ubulumko: ukuba baphumelele. Yeyona "umthombo" oyinyaniso yonke

impumelelo. Akukho nto Ubulumko abakwazi ukufikelela. Ubulumko usisihlobo

kangangoko sinako. Yeyona ubukrelekrele ekwaziyo ekosuleleni yamabutho. Nako

ukuhlangabezana zonke iintswelo zethu, uncedo nokomeleza suku ngalunye.

"Ubulumko bokwenyaniso kuqinisekisa isiseko esiluqilima ukuze senze izigqibo

ezilungileyo ebomini ... Le ubulumko bange-, kodwa esebenzayo kakhulu.

Kunokukhokelela kubomi yimpumelelo ngokungaqhelekanga kunye nolonwabo."(Steven K. Scott).

Ukomelela, amandla noloyiso

"Ubulumko bomntu ngamandla abo, yaye abe namava kwandisa amandla awo;

kufuneka kwenza imfazwe kunye nezicwangciso ezilungileyo, kuba uloyiso

ixhomekeke abacebisi abaninzi. "

IMizekeliso 24: 5-6

Yintoni ubungakanani amandla akho? Ingaba ucinga umntu ngamandla? Nangona

andithanga ndiyazi wena, mna ukuphendula: amandla akho lilingana ubungakanani

ubulumko bakho. "Amandla babantu ekhula njengoko kwandisa ulwazi lwabo."

(Marica Marquis). Sifuna mandla? Ngoko ke sifuna ubulumko!

Ubulumko namandla. Zibuthathaka, ubonisa nje ukunqongophala ubulumko.

Ubulumko ifana kukukhanya; kwaye apho ukukhanya, akukho bumnyama. Ayikho

buthathaka, ubuhlwempu okanye ukungaphumeleli ... Uphi na ubulumko: Kukho

intabalala, ubutyebi nozuko!


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Ubulumko uloyiso. Kwaye akukho nto, akukho nto ukuba unako ukuloyisa

ubulumko. "Abo bafuna icebiso phambi kokuqala intshukumo, kungenzeka ukuba

ndoyise amadabi." (Steven K. Scott). Indlela ukuphumeza uloyiso? U

"ndingungantweni" ukhawulezela ukunika iimpendulo, i "ophumeleleyo" uqala

ngokubuza imibuzo. Ukuba ndoyise amadabi, kufuneka izicwangciso ezilungileyo.

Kukokona yokulungiselela, kokukhona ukusebenza.

Ukuba kwicala ubulumko, koyisa. Kodwa ukuba thina kwelinye icala yaye sifuna

ukuphumelela, sinako kuphela enye into: Tshintshela elinye iqela! Iqela

lwabaphumeleleyo iqela ubulumko. abacebisi ezilungileyo, iingcali phezulu, umkhosi

inkulu kwaye uninzi enamandla kwicala ubulumko. Kwaye nabani esilwa ubulumko,

ke ukuzibulala eyoQobo ebewalwela elahla umphefumlo wakhe! "Yintoni

kundiphatha, ibeka ubomi bakhe; abandithiyayo bathanda ukufa. "(Ubulumko

IMizekeliso 8:36).

baphumelele

"Lowo ukholwayo kuphela izimvo zakhe bubudenge;

lowo wenza ngobulumko uya kuphumelela. "

IMizekeliso 28:26

Kuyo nayiphi na emfazweni, sazi ukuba ngubani oza kuba ophumeleleyo phambiiqala edabini: The winner usoloko ... ngubani ubulumko ngaphezulu! Wena ophuma

ubulumko, uya kusoloko yimpumelelo. Emva nayiphi ukoyiswa simele sizibuze,

'Apho ndiya bengenzanga ngobulumko? "Impendulo yalo mbuzo uza kuqinisekisa

isisombululo sengxaki.

Yeyiphi enye iintshaba inkulu ubulumko? Bubudenge, nto leyo ekhokelela ukuba

sithembele iimbono zethu, yaye kungabi ngabulumko. Umgqaliselo Ukungazi uthi:

"Ndiyazi ukuba ndazi yonke into kuphela." Yaye njengoko umzekeliso uthi: "Lowo

wakhukhumala ukwazi yonk 'into, abazi lutho." ubudenge yethu elisizalisa yekratshiingamampunge singakuboni amehlo ethu. Ukonakala izicacele. Khumbula: "Kulula

ukuba asebenze yokungazi kunokuba ifume ubulumko." (Steven K. Scott).

Okholosa ukumatha unjengalowo ithembele ithamsanqa, kukuba 'ukunika ishothi

ebumnyameni. " Yindlela yokuphumelela lisezantsi (phantse zero). Endaweni yokuba

"ukunyaniseka", bubulumko bethingaza izimvo zethu. "Kukho ubulumko kangaka

kwi amathandabuzo osisilumko, eninzi ngokungazi phezu emfamekile yezidenge."

(Marica Marquis). Thina kufuneka ungamkholelwa yonke into esicinga, khumbula:

engqondweni yethu esikhohlisela! "Ngaphambili, ndandikholelwa ntoni engqondweni

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mqobo yam inkulu ukuphumeza impumelelo. "(T. Harv noEkere).

Kufuneka ukuthandabuza ukunyaniseka zethu kunye nokungaqiniseki! Njengoko

Publlio mgca, umbhali Latin waseRoma yamandulo, wathi: "umbuzo isiqingatha

ubulumko." Nobulumko ukukhanya esikhanyisela amehlo ethu. Sibonise apho

ingxaki, kwaye usinika isisombululo. Ibonisa apho kufuneka khona, yaye indlela eya

khona. Akukho nto ubulumko akakwazi ukwenza kuthi.

UKUBALULEKA AMAVA

"Kufuneka ubulumko ukwakha indlu kunye nobukrelekrele ukuyenza ekhuselekileyo.

Ngenxa yamava, emagumbini zizele izinto ezixabisekileyo entle. "

IMizekeliso 24: 3-4

Nto zexabiso ngokwenene yakhiwe kobu bomi ngaphandle ubulumko. Ubulumko

eyenze zonke iiprojekthi elungileyo. Konke kwenziwa ngokusekelwe ubulumko,

kukhuselekile kwaye ngokobunene. Kwaye ngokuchasene abaninzi bacinga ukuba,

asiyiyo iphakade kusinika ubulumko: "Kungenxa kubonakalisa ukuba sizuze

ubulumko ... Oku kubonakalisa ukuba esa ubulumko, hayi ubudala." (Publlio mgca).

Noko ke, abadala into yokuba abantu abatsha awunalo: Amava. "Xa abantu abaselula

bafuna icebiso abadala, abantu abatsha bafumana ubulumko iminyaka." (George S.

Clason). Amava ubaluleke kakhulu xa sicinga kwaye sifunde kokuqhubekileyoubulumko. "Ekubeni isigwebo namava, amadoda beprofeta rhoqo ... Ingcingane

usifundisa iinyaniso ezininzi; kodwa ukuyila ufundisa iimpazamo ezininzi mibono nje.

"(marica Marquis). Xa sifunda ukusuka elidlulileyo, siya kuhlala sikulungele

ukumelana kwikamva. Yaye ngokubanzi, izigqibo ezisekelwe kumava idlulileyo abo

kunene. "Amava ke unina yokufunda." (Mzekeliso Latin).

ubomi bethu ezinokufaniswa indlu. Koko iziseko esilwakhayo? Ukuba ngaba

ukwakha ikhaya lethu esekelwe ubulumko, kokukhona ngayo kuwa. Sinako babek

'isiphango ", i" evuthuzayo "ubomi, ilishwa ... Kodwa inyaniso kukuba ubulumkousilungiselela ukuba nazo zonke ezi zinto, yaye isahleli bemi.

Yintoni imfihlelo? Imfihlelo ulwakhiwo yobomi bethu. Ukuba wakha ngobulumko

okanye hayi. Oku kuthetha ukuba ezidlulileyo ibalulekile? Ibhonasi. Ubulumko

unokwenza ngakumbi kuthi langoku ngaphezu koko siye oko kude. Uyazi ukuba

ibinzana elithi: "ndibe ndiyimfama nje, ngoku ndiyabona '? Oku kanye sizive njani xa

ubulumko ivula amehlo ethu. Ngesiquphe ... A kwihlabathi elitsha livela

abasingqongileyo!

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"Endlwini yesilumko kukho ubuncwane abazizityebi anqabileyo;

Ukumatha bachitha yonke onayo. "

IMizekeliso 21:20

Ubulumko ufuna ukuzalisa ikhaya lethu, ubomi bethu ubuncwane abazizityebi

anqabileyo. "Owu, ndinqwenela!". Oku kuya kwenzeka ukuba ubulumko isiseko

ubomi bakho. Ubulumko isoloko ilandelwe ubutyebi nozuko. Akunakwenzeka ukuba

into hayi ezinye, ngumtya nethunga. Asinabo ubutyebi nozuko ebomini bethu? Ngoko

ke ndithi, "Yiza ubulumko ukutshintsha ubomi bam!"

Ebomini bakhe, ubulumko uvumelekile? Okanye ngaba nje sisingxengxezo ezinye

izinto? Kunjalo, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ukuthanda ubulumko ngaphezu

kwayo yonke enye into. Kutheni? Yintoni umahluko? Sisoloko niphuthuma izintoesizithandayo kakhulu. Ukuba siyamthanda ubutyebi, siza mandibaleke emva

ubutyebi kwaye wonibaleka kuthi. Kodwa ukuba si baleka emva ubulumko, ubutyebi

kuya kumpompoza ngasemva kwethu. "Ibhongo ukuba ijolise ubulumko sidima na

namabhongo unguwo nabafo." (Marica Marquis).

Enyanisweni, ubutyebi afune ubulumko. Yaye ngoxa uhamba emva ubulumko,

ubutyebi ziya kuhamba ecaleni kwakho. Nangona kunjalo, oku kufuneka

kugxininiswe ubulumko. Ubulumko imvelaphi yazo zonke izinto. Kutheni uSolomon

uthi: "Umntu osisilumko; isidenge uchitha yonke "? Kuba umntu osisilumko i"umthombo wobulumko" ihlume ubutyebi ngawo onke amaxesha. Ke umntu

osisinyabi akanaye "umthombo" rhoqo suke esikhova. "Ngubani na ukuqikelela

iingqekembe zegolide ixabiso ubulumko? Ngaphandle ubulumko, abo igolide,

ngokukhawuleza kuphulukana negolide; kodwa ubulumko, igolide aokusetyenziswa

ngabo akunaso "(George S. Clason).

UBUTYEBI OKANYE nobuyatha?

"Busisithsaba sezilumko ubutyebi bazo; itrone lwezimathane kukumatha kwazo. "

IMizekeliso 14:24

Umvuzo ubulumko ubutyebi, kodwa umvuzo kukunyaba bubudenge. Rhoqo,

siyayixabisa ingabalulekanga yaye ukwala yintoni ixabiso. Ubulumko okanye

nobuyatha? Ubutyebi okanye nobuyatha? uya kuba yintoni ngcono?

Kusenokubonakala umbuzo siyatha, kodwa kukho abantu abathanda yobuyatha babo

kangaka ... ngaphezu kwayo nantoni na eyenye!

"Kodwa ukuba thina kunye omabini ngexesha elinye?" Ungaze. Ubulumko umthiyile


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bubudenge, kwaye uthi: "? Nokuba ubudenge okanye mna". Kwaye nyaniso

ibuhlungu yile yokuba uninzi lwethu abavumi ungamshiyi ubuyatha balandele

ubulumko! Kwaye ke akhalaze nkxwaleko yethu ... emva koko wahleka stupidly kwi

usizi! Kodwa xa ubudenge ukho, oko yaye ziya kusoloko umqobo ubulumko.

Yaye siyintoni na isizathu? Isidenge uzigqala kwizilumko Odela ubulumko ... "ndidla

ngokucinga ukuba abaninzi sele befikelele ubulumko, ukuba abathanga zacinga,

abafikelele ubulumko." (Seneca, De Tranquillitate Animi 1:16). Ndiya

unokuthelekelela ubulumko, zokuzila ngenxa yethu, isithi, "Ndifuna kusiphumelelisa;

kodwa abafuni ... ukhetha kukunyaba endaweni kobutyebi bam ... "

WOBUHLWEMPU ihlazo

"Indlala kukudana kuza umntu odela ulungiso;

osamkelayo ukulungiswa kuya kuba nembeko enkulu. "

IMizekeliso 13:18

Ubuhlwempu kunye nehlazo ... zi ziphumo inkwantyisayo kwabo kwabandigibayo

ubulumko. "Kodwa ke, ubulumko abohlwaye?!" Hayi, ubulumko akuthethi

ukohlwaya, omntu kukuba kubohlwaya ngokwakhe! Kufuna ukuthobeka ukulungela

ukufunda, onwabele "sisombululo" ... kodwa ke le indlela yokukhula. "Lowo ufuna

ukufunda, uyakuvuyela ukuba alungiswe; lowo umthiyileyo isohlwayo akazi ... Lowoakazamkeli ukulungiswa, benzakalisa ngokwakhe; osamkelayo isohlwayo uzuza

ukuqonda. "(uSolomon).

Odela ubulumko Odela bonke ubulumko eyenze ukuba anike. Ukuba singayamkeli

ubulumko Siphepha yonke enye into ... Ubulumko uyabathanda abantu, ubulumko

ufuna nempumelelo kubo bonke; Noko ke, kufuneka anike imvume. Ubulumko

unkqonkqoza emnyango yobomi bethu, kodwa ke kuphela ngubani ukuvula ucango.

Ubulumko usive ekhala ngaphakathi, uze ukungxolisa evela ngaphandle: ". Vula

ucango, ndiya kukunceda ' Kodwa musani ukukholwa ... Side bacinge ukubaubulumko ofuna uphulukane us!

Ubusela? Into esinayo ezintle kangaka, kukuba ubulumko ufuna ukuthatha kuthi?

Nto, ngaphandle iintsizi zethu ... Ukuba ewe, ubulumko ufuna ukususa

ngokupheleleyo kubomi bethu. Ngokufuthi, le ngxaki thina baqhele kakhulu na,

kwaye asifuni ukutshintsha ... Kodwa ke, ngaphandle ukutshintsha akukho themba!

"Nina ukufunda, ukuba atshintsha rhoqo." (Yoh C. Maxwell).

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"Lowo ufunda ukucinga, esebenza okulungileyo yakho;

Ngubani usebenza ukuqonda ifumana ulonwabo. "

IMizekeliso 19: 8

Ubulumko ukufundileyo. Akukho mntu ozalwa sisilumko. Njani sisilumko? Ngenxa

yokufunda. Ubulumko ukhule ekufundeni. Kwaye ukuba kungenzeka ukuba

ukunciphisa? Ewe, ubulumko liyancipha xa sisilela ukufunda. "Ukuba wakukufeza

namhlanje ukufunda liyayeka ukuba abe yinkokeli ingomso ... Ukuze abe yinkokheli

enyamezele, kusoloko kufuneka ukufunda." (Yoh C. Maxwell). Ubomi ukufunda

rhoqo. akukho Ukufunda yayinqabile, oko zingezi! "Ukuba akukho rhoqo ukufunda,

uya kusala ngasemva." (T. Harv noEkere).

Umntu osisilumko umfundi ofunda ubomi. "Izilumko koko kuthathwa ngokwakhe

eyona ningayazi zonke; umntu osisilumko uyazi ukuqonda indlela ukwandiswaengenasiphelo okungazi. "(marica Marquis). Ngaba uyazi ukuba nabani na ucinga

ukuba wazi yonk 'into? Uyazi nto ... Oku luphawu abo bangenazo ubulumko: Bacinga

ukuba bayayazi yonke. "Isiqalo yokuphilisa ke ukuzoyikisela esiphoso." (UEpicurus,

Iileta Lucilius 28: 9). Samkele ubunyani linyathelo lokuqala utshintsho!

Uyazi ukuba yintoni na amazwi ezimbini eziyingozi naluphi na ulwimi? "Ndiyazi" (T.

Harv noEkere). Ngaba ukukhumbula amagama adumileyo sobulumko omkhulu

uSocrates? Wathi: "Ndiyazi ukuba ndazi nto kuphela." Engazi linyathelo lokuqala

ukufunda. "Kufuneka siqhubeke bafunde ubomi. Ingena kwimeko nganye ngokubuzaimibuzo kunokuba ngokunika iimpendulo. "(Steven K. Scott). Kukho ithemba

ngakumbi abo bafuna ukuba bafunde, kunokuba abo ukwazi yonke into.

Ubulumko i "edikeni" amanzi umi. Ubulumko "umthombo" yamanzi aphilileyo,

soloko kusiya. Ke lowo "qubha" kula manzi, ungaze umi, usoloko ukufunda izinto

ezintsha. Ubulumko "umthombo" yokwenene yoneleyo, nolwazi lwakhe ayiphele

ndawo! Umntu osisilumko akayoliswa ukwazi yonk '... wavuya ukuba kusoloko

ukufunda. Isilumko ekunanzile ulwazi. Kwizilumko, nolwazi caml ngaphezu lokutya

yeyona emnandi; nesixabisekileyo ngaphezu kwegolide esulungekileyo, yinto ivuyisa

ngokwenene!

Bambi babuza: "Yintoni na le nto yakwenza ulonwabo yam?" Yonk 'into! USolomon

uthi "ukufunda ocinga ukuba ukusebenza okulungileyo zethu." Ingcingane na indlela

yobulumko, kunye nesiphelo ulonwabo. Xa isigidimi uzuza ubulumko into

emangalisayo ukuba nkqu qaphela ukuba isebenza! Kwaye asebenza ngokwakhe,

ukuze kulunge yakhe.

Ndikhumbula uphando senza esikolweni xa ndandikwishumi elivisayo. Enye yale

mibuzo: "? Yintoni iphupha yakho inkulu" Xa kuhlalutywa iimpendulo, ndabona

ukuba impendulo abafundi kakhulu: ". Ndifuna ukonwaba ' Kubonakala ukuba le


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umnqweno okukhulu bonke abantu. Nendlela yokuqonda eli phupha? USolomon

impendulo: ". Ngubani usebenza ukuqonda ifumana bonwabe" yhu! Nantsi ke

impendulo ukuba bonke abantu bafuna: Ubulumko indlela ulonwabo! "Iqela loqobo

impumelelo kukuba umgwebo." (Erasmus, Adagia 5,1,87).

Ngokwenene? Ewe, mna Ndiqinisekile kuba ndibona ebomini bam: Okukhona

sifunda ubulumko, ndibe wonwabe! Kodwa mna nangoku kuhlutha, ndiyazi ukuba

ubulumko kuninzi ngakumbi ukuba basondeze kum. Ngoko ke umnqweno: Ukuze

sithande ubulumko ngaphezu kweento zonke, ifume ubulumko yonke imihla yobomi

bam! Ndiqinisekile ukuba uya kuba uhambo kwamnandi.

UTHANDO ubulumko

"Nyana wam, musa ukuwulibala umyalelo wam;

Gcina imithetho yam entliziyweni yakho;

iziyalezo My ukwandisa imihla yakho yobomi

kwaye akunike eminye iminyaka impumelelo. "

IMizekeliso 3: 1-2

Ndifuna ubomi obude,

Ndinqwenela impumelelo ...

Ndiya kuquqela kuwe, ubulumko!Ndikuthanda ngentliziyo yam,

Akwaba yinkanuko,

njengothando wobomi bam.

Ndifuna ukuba iqabane lakho, umhlobo,

kwaye kukhule ndawonye nawe,

kwi ngalinye nyathelo endleleni ...

Kukhokelwa kuni, ndiqinisekile.Ndiyavuya, ndiya kuba nekamva

sahlaziywa ithemba!

Wena ziinkuthazo yam,

izizathu kakhulu

ukuba uphumelele.

Ngaphezu ngokuzithandela nje,

Bayinxalenye ndingokhoyo.

Ndifuna ukutshata kuni:


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"Ndiyathembisa ukuba sithembeke,

uthando nguwe,

Ubulumko zintanda.

Ulonwabo nempumelelo,

impilo elide,

yonke imihla yobomi bam! "

UBOMI NETHEMBA

"Fumana ubulumko kwaye uya kuba nobomi;

Ukuba uzufumana uya kuba nekamva ubulumko akayi yokube ithemba lakho. "

IMizekeliso 24:14

Ubulumko umthombo yonke. Ubulumko, asimele simoyike elizayo. Ngokwahlukileyo

koko, kukho ithemba kakhulu xa sihamba ngobulumko. Kwaye eli themba soze

yokube. Ubulumko akakwazi balahlekise okanye zidanise, ubulumko wokwenene.

Kwaye impendulo kwizinto zonke. Oko ku ngundoqo ukuze baphumelele ebomini

nomninzi.

kangaphi, soyika elizayo? Kwaye esikhathalela ngayo ebomini bethu? Kutheni

ndifanele ndiphile kungekho themba? Ubulumko yonke into esiyifunayo. Ukubabanobulumko, kufuneka yonke into. Kufuneka sifune ubulumko bobuqili kuba ubomi

bethu. "Ukuze wonwabe akwanelanga ukuba le ngcamango, usibeka

azinakusetyenziswa ... Ubulumko bhinqani ukuya kumanyathelo, hayi amagama."

(Seneca).

Inkqubo yokufunda kubanda- amanyathelo amathathu: 1. Ulwazi; 2- Ukuqonda; 3-

Isicelo. kuvela iziphumo xa isicelo practice esikwaziyo, siyiqonde ithiyori. "Umele

ufunde zijike zibe umsebenzi: ubulumko iimvakalelo ezinamandla" (Jim Rohn).

Ubulumko sokuzifaka okanye ezisondeleyo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba bafune ngabom.Ukuba siyamthanda ubulumko ngaphezu kweento zonke, ubulumko uya kusinika

konke esiyifunayo. USolomon wathi: "Ngaphezu kwako konke, izuza ubulumko

nokwazi, nokuba loo nto ikutya yonke into ilifa." Yaye kutheni kuphulukana konke

ilifa sisananelo ubulumko nokwazi? Ubulumko nokwazi uya kusinika okuninzi

ngaphezu kokuba ilifa. Ubulumko isitshixo kungavula zonke iingcango, kwanabo

iingcango ukuba kwanqaba!

OKO OBULUMKO


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Ngaphezu kwako konke, uze umthande ubulumko.

Funa ubulumko ngabom.

Ngaphambi kokuba kwi "imfazwe", ukulungiselela isicwangciso.

Musani ukuba zizidenge, Kukuthembela izimvo zabo, Musa ukuda ukwazi yonke into.

Yiba nobulumko, ndabuza ngokwakho.

Ukufunda amava nzulu.

Yenza izigqibo ezisekelwe kumava elidluleyo.

Ngokujolisa ngobulumko: afune ubulumko, ungacelanga butyebi.

Krwada ubuyatha baphulaphule ubulumko.

Sikulungele ukuba bafunde kwaye baphile ululekwa.

Ukufunda ukubonisa imihla kwaye uzame ukuqonda.

Musa ukucinga ukuba "ubulumko", kodwa ngumfundi.

Usoloko esithi: "Ndiyazi ukuba ndazi nto kuphela."Kunokuba iimpendulo, babuze imibuzo.

Bafuna ukwazi, ukuqonda isicelo oko ukufundileyo.


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ICEBO 5

IMVELAPHI niwonakalise

kumlawula YONA

"Le ndoda inamandla indoda unegunya elipheleleyo phezu kwakhe."

Seneca

Yintoni uthambeko lwabantu kwindlela esa kwimpumelelo? Ngokufuthi, sidla

ukuzama ukongamela abanye. Kodwa kugxininiswa ayikwazanga ayililo ngaphezulu.umqobo yethu inkulu kwimpumelelo akunguye nabanye. Eneneni, abantu luncedo

gqitha kuthi. mqobo yethu inkulu ke thina. "Umntu! Funda ukoyisa wena, yaye uza

koyisa zonke. "(Marica Marquis).

Kulula kakhulu ukuba akhombe iminwe kwaye ityala abanye ngokusilela zethu,

kodwa makhe sikhumbule umgaqo esipilini: ". Umntu wokuqala kufuneka sihlole ke

thina" (Yoh C. Maxwell). Akuyomfuneko elosulela kwabanye ukusebenza kwethu

ngenxa impumelelo yethu okanye ukungaphumeleli kuxhomekeke kuphela kuthi.

Simele singaze silibale Bob Umgaqo: "Xa Bob uneengxaki ehlabathini lonke,ngokuqhelekileyo, Bob ingxaki" (Yoh C. Maxwell). Imbambano yokwenene ukuze

soyise thina, namhlanje ngaphezu izolo, ngomso bhetele kunanamhlanje . USolomon

wathi: "Mfundisi le i ngakumbi ngaphezu kothimba isixeko."

Eyona nto inzima akuthethi ukuba ukongamela abanye kodwa kakuhle ngokwakhe!

"Yintoni ndinga kuni zabanyathela ngokwakho" (Seneca). Ukuba ufuna eyethisa, nina

engenaxhala ngaloo nto. makabe nje izinto ukuya ngokwendalo. Kodwa ukuba ufuna

ukuba uphumelele, kufuneka lube nenjongo kakhulu malunga nokuba ngaba ucinga

ukuba yintoni, bathi okanye. Akuna kubakho nkqubela ukuba akukho intentionality.

Ngaphandle uphuculo oluqhubekayo, akukho inkqubela.

CARE okanye ukungakhathali?

"Lowo uyabanyamekela amazwi akhe, ukhusela yena;

Lowo uyayikhulula ulwimi ubethwa konakala. "

IMizekeliso 13: 3

Lowo olondoloza iingcinga, amazwi nezenzo ... wabasiki, aze ayikhusele kulungile


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ngaye? Yena wenza kakuhle ngokwakhe. Kufuneka ukuba siyikhathalele thina. Kuba

ukuba akunjalo, ngubani oza? "Umntu lokuqala ukukhokela na ngokwakho, yaye

ilungu kuqala ukuba kufuneka kakuhle kusemphefumlweni wenu" (Yohane C.

Maxwell).

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