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IN THIS ISSUE

Gainesville’s Extraordinary

Women

Fashion Show Scrapbook

Places — SCAD

GNC Faces

Community Service

Interest Groups

Calendar

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April 2018

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Newsletter

Editor Charlene DeWitt

Feature Editors Annette Hinton Patricia Louko

Copy Editors

Cheryl Jenkins — Community Kristin Kern —Programs & Luncheons

Audrey Marianes — Interest Groups

Layout Editor Judy True

Proofreaders Gay Lull

Janet Ordway Patsy Amidei

Webmaster Cheryl Usher

Photographers Beverly Gilbert,

Melinda Sepmeyer Judy True

COMMENTS, IDEAS,

SUGGESTIONS

Just click on the email link below, list one or more of above in the subject line, add your message and click ‘Send’. It’s as

simple as that! All will be received by the President for response. Only signed submissions will

be addressed. [email protected]

Thank you in advance for your input!

This Issue

Page Content ____________________________________

Pg. 3 Editorial: What Makes a Person Extraordinary Pg. 4 President’s Post: The Other Minnie 2017—2018 Board Pg. 5 April Program: Ordinary Women Doing Extraordinary Things April Buffet Menu Pg. 6 Faces Feature: Janet Ordway Pg, 7 Places Feature: SCAD Celebrates Film and Fashion Pg. 9 Places Features: Saturday in the Garden Pg. 10 Extraordinary Women in Hall County Pg. 14 Extraordinary Women: Defining Moments Pg. 15 In Memory Pg. 16 Splash into Spring: Fashions for Extraordinary Women Pg. 18 April Luncheon Scrapbook Pg. 19 Spring Blast Pg. 20 Community Service Pg. 21 News & Notes New Members Pg. 22 Interest Groups

Pg. 25 May Calendar

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Cover Photo: Junior League,

Champaign Urbana

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W hat a funny word… “extraordinary”. If taken apart it is extra ordinary. That may give a hint to the true meaning. The extraordinary women I know share some traits; passionate about their work; focused on accomplishing goals; not satisfied by doing a good job, they

strive for excellence; driven to pursue their work, regardless of

recognition from others; determination and persistence; desiring to share their abilities with others. It’s easy to think of famous people who fit that definition: Amelia Earhart, Mother Theresa, Rosa Parks. Whom do you know, in your personal sphere of friends, who is extraordinary? Sometimes it is more difficult to see great-ness in our midst. Extraordinary people have flaws and may be annoying, just due to the mere fact that they may be more focused on their passion than on social courtesy. Some live quiet lives, serving causes greater than themselves. Some glow in a spotlight. Each of us can be extraordinary in specific ways: extraordinarily kind, attentive, supportive, giving. There are two women who come to mind when I think of extraordinary people. Each may seem quite ordinary, until you know their stories. Mimi is passionate about animals. She’ll stop to save a chicken that falls off one of the poultry trucks that drives through town. This lady gave up her executive job to become a pet-sitter. She is following her dream, doing something that is important to

her, and excels in her work. She dared to risk and give up security to pursue work that is personally meaningful. Her love shines through, and that’s what makes her extra-ordinary. Phay Meas is a dear friend. This remarkable woman came to live with me after spending seven years in a refugee camp in Thailand. She carried one daughter on her back, while another daughter walked beside her, through the mountains that border Cambodia and Thailand, to escape the slave labor camp of the Khmer Rouge. Along the way both her husband and newborn son died. Years later Phay, Phen and Phea arrived in Maryland with a single box of belongings and built a new life for themselves. Despite little education and struggling with English, within a year of arriving, Phay had a good job and her daughters excelled in school. A strong, kind and hard-working woman, she showered those around her with gratitude and taught us courage. Through the years, she travelled back to Cambodia several times and recently was able to sponsor one more daughter and her family to live in the United States. Phay lives in Vero Beach, Florida, and is retired now. She enjoys vegetable gardening and spending time with her seven grandchildren. Her bravery and determination make her truly extraordinary. The April program gives us an opportunity to meet women in our community who excel in a myriad of ways. Enjoy the program and be prepared to be entertained and inspired.

By Editor Charlene DeWitt

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Board of the

Gainesville

Newcomers

Club

Board Officers

Gay Lull, President

Janet Ordway, Vice President

Debbie Ellis,

Treasurer

Barbara Alexander, Recording Secretary

Barbara Batog, Parliamentarian

Board Directors

Director of General Meetings

Amy Schick

Director of Member Activities

Patsy Amidei

Director of Member Information

Vicky Giesegh

Director of Member Services

Sue Joninas

OUR MISSION STATEMENT The purpose of this club is to welcome newcomers and to be of service to the Community.

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A nna Lauren asked, “Grammy, was your grandmother named after the mouse?” “Not really. She was named after her mother,” I replied. “Was she…” “No, she wasn’t named after the mouse either.” And so, it began. Anna Lauren, 5, was spending the weekend at the lake, catching pollywogs, hunting snails, and pretending to read. Kindergarten was starting soon, and life was about to change for the little girl with the big imagination. I glanced at the over-large diploma hanging on the wall. On Thursday afternoon, May 31, 1900, Minnie Strother Jones took her place among the graduates of Huntsville Public Schools. At that time, less than half of all school-age children in the US were enrolled in school and only 6.4% of those graduated from high school; Minnie Jones was one of those. Probably, Minnie’s family needed her at home to help with the four younger siblings; and yet, her she was. Did all nine of the Jones’ children graduate from high school? I have no idea. Alabama didn’t enact a compulsory attendance law until 1915. Minnie didn’t have to go to school. In those days, an academic education was for wealthy children and regarded as unnecessary for everyone else. While that idea is no longer pertinent, the relevancy and competency of public schools is often in question. That is an argument for another day. What is not up for debate is the undeniable, transformative power of education. Minnie, my grandmother and not the mouse, never worked outside her home. But she used her education to read her Bible, balance her household accounts, and compose beautiful letters to her sons as they served their country during wartime. She didn’t see herself as an extraordinary woman, but her 1900 certificate from Huntsville Public Schools is testament to something very different. Her life was transformed through education, and her daughter and generations of granddaughters took that meager beginning and used it to transform an entire family.

By Gay Lull

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April Buffet Luncheon Menu

Watercress Salad Bowl Watercress tossed in Feta Cheese Vinaigrette with dried Cranberries, Pecans and Apples

Beef Medallions with Mushroom Sauce Amaretto Chicken

Sautéed Chicken Breast in Butter with Minced Shallots, Garlic, Amaretto Liqueur and Cream Broccoli and Cauliflower Medley

Steamed Red Bliss Potatoes with Paprika and Chile Ancho Cherry Bread Pudding with Cream Anglaise

Banana Pudding

D o you consider your life to be common-place? Nothing really super special about you? Or is there? No matter what the circumstance, each of us is presented with opportunities to contribute and accomplish amazing things every day. Go ahead…give yourself a pat on the back as you take time to reflect on your own feats as you look forward to this unique luncheon program we’ve planned for all! Don’t miss it! Thursday, April 25, we will welcome three very special women each of whom has graciously agreed to share her personal stories and extraordinary life experiences. Lieutenant Colonel Terry (Tee) Barron, Retired Tee has an impressive background as an accredited educator, researcher, and aviator for the National Guard where she was, at one time, in charge of maintenance of 75 Blackhawk Helicopters. She will take us on her journey as she touches on a wide range of topics, including her experience as a woman in the service, what’s

involved in tracking the bad guys, and her adventures of sleeping in bunkers. Lest we not forget, Tee is a woman we can all be proud of for carrying out her missions and sacrificing so much for our peace and prosperity. Jen Dean An incredible photographer and well-known dog trainer, Jen—and her movie star dog, Gru—will tell us all about what’s involved in training a pet for the film industry. Jen says Gru is quite an athlete and very willing to learn new skills he needs for his roles. Featured on television shows like Netflix's Ozarks and the Black Panther film, Gru so far has had roles primarily as a stray pooch without a home. Who’s up for a little entertainment from this star-studded pooch? Who knows…the cameras might even be rolling for the next feature film. Katayoun (Katti) Mobasher, PhD., GISP Dr. Mobasher is currently an Associate Professor of Geology in the Lewis F. Rogers Institute for Environmental & Spatial Analysis at the University of North Georgia. We will hear a bit of history regarding Katti’s background and have the wonderful opportunity to learn all about an interesting project she’s leading—teaching map reading to visually impaired students. Surely you will find her academic career has been broad and quite impressive as you listen to her extraordinary story.

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F or a few years prior to elementary school Janet lived with her family in an apartment on the second floor of a football dorm on the University of Kentucky campus. If she had been old enough to think about such things she might have figured her growing up years would somehow include sports…especially football. And, so they did…life as a coach’s daughter was fun, challenging and unique in many ways. The experience lasted many years after the passing of her dad when, in the summer of 2015, she had the honor of giving the acceptance speech for his induction into the Texas High School Coaches Association Hall of Honor before an audience of over 1200 attendees in Ft. Worth, Texas. Next to growing up in a sports-minded family, nothing had a bigger impact than IBM. In fact, IBM can be credited with her meeting George, her husband of 48 years, at an IBM school in Pittsburg, PA. That led to a trip from the south to Chappaqua, NY, where they lived and worked for a short time. Job offers in Dallas, TX, however, led them southwest for the next 30 years where they raised their two daughters and enjoyed being a part of “Big D”. By the time she retired, Janet had spent an extraordinary 35 years working with computers in one way or another. She has seen the computing power in boxes that filled a large room now fit inside a cell phone. But, she never imagined a long and interesting career would turn into a fun and useful hobby. After retiring, the next move was to Gainesville. As is the case with many of us, the move was a promise to children and grandchildren to relocate near them after they had settled in Peachtree City. Janet was lucky enough to be chatting with a neighbor who knew of Newcomers and suggested they attend a luncheon to check out this organization for themselves. That was ten years ago and the start of new friendships, fun social events for both her and George, plus that fun and useful computer hobby. Janet says, “Being a part of GNC, first as the Newsletter editor, then the Webmaster and now, the

Vice President has been a pleasure and a privilege. Working and sharing with so many lovely new

friends has made Gainesville feel like home in a very short time. Being asked to serve as

President is quite an honor, and one that I eagerly anticipate.”

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"What is closer to our person than fashion and what lingers in our mind longer than film?"

"In a unique pairing, SCAD FASH celebrates fashion and film at SCAD, the University for

Creative Careers. This new museum exists at the international intersection of study, exhibition and discourse, focused precisely on fashion and film."

— Paula Wallace, president and founder of the Savannah

College of Art and Design

T wo groups from GNC enjoyed the most recent SCAD FASH exhibit "Guo Pei: Couture Beyond," the premiere U.S. solo museum exhibition of acclaimed fashion designer Guo Pei. Newcomers have also taken in “The Caroline Herrara Collection”, “The History of Women’s Fashion 1800’s to Present”, and “Shoes from the Victoria and Albert Museum, London”. All amazing, lovely to behold! Established in 1978, SCAD is the most compre-hensive art and design university in the United States, with locations in Savannah and Atlanta, Georgia; Lacoste, France; and Hong Kong, as well as an award-winning eLearning program. Fortified by the university's strong global presence and worldwide connections to renowned contemporary fashion designers, filmmakers and creative

professionals all over the world, SCAD FASH is an integral part of the SCAD educational experience. SCAD FASH Museum of Fashion + Film celebrates fashion as a universal language, garments as important conduits of identity, and film as an immersive and memorable medium. Situated within the SCAD Atlanta campus at 1600 Peachtree St. NW, SCAD FASH focuses on the future of fashion design, connecting conceptual to historical principles of dress — whether ceremonial, celebratory or casual — and welcomes visitors of all ages to engage with dynamic exhibitions, captivating films and educationally enriching events. Like the award-winning SCAD Museum of Art, SCAD FASH serves as a teaching museum and creative resource for students of all ages and a wellspring of inspiration for visitors. Through programming that engages the university’s broad array of academic disciplines — encompassing more than 40 majors and 70 minors — SCAD FASH offers diverse exhibitions, films, install-ations, performances and events to enliven and inspire the greater community year-round. Each program is designed to engage and appeal to visitors with varied backgrounds and interests, from textiles and jewelry to photography and film.

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Within nearly 10,000 square feet of elegant and adaptable exhibition space, SCAD FASH brings a dynamic and distinct schedule of fashion-focused exhibitions and compelling films to the heart of Midtown Atlanta. Beyond its extensive gallery space, SCAD FASH includes a fashion resource room for the presentation of techniques and materials, a state-of-the-art media lounge for educational film and digital presentations, collections storage, and a new grand entrance and lobby. An additional 27,000 square feet of academic and studio space also surrounds the perimeter of the museum, providing students immediate access to the museum and its resources. Throughout the year at each of its locations around the world, SCAD hosts a spectacular lineup of thought-provoking, sparkling, star-studded events that place art and design education front and center. SCAD FASH promotes valuable career-building connections and continues this rich tradition by affording students and professors across all disciplines

the opportunity to celebrate works of wearable art and remarkable filmmaking, and to interact with the renowned and emerging visionary professionals who create them. You won’t want to miss the Pierre Cardin exhibition that runs through September 30. Located just off the interstate on the north side of Atlanta, SCAD is open Tuesday through Sunday, admission is $10, seniors are $8. Convenient parking is adjacent to the building. For more information call 404-253-3132 or email [email protected]. Be on the lookout for an email from “Cultural

Events and the Arts” Interest Group about

joining an excursion to the Fashion Museum!

[Photograph credits.

Previous page—www.scad.edu/event/2016-10-20-scad-

fash-museum-fashion-film-members-only-tour.

This page — http://www.scadfash.org/visit/tour-

information.]

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W e moved to Gainesville in the spring of 2016. Soon thereafter our exploration of the community began, and I am pleased to report that the Atlanta Botanical Garden, Gainesville was one of our first stops. Just one visit was all it took for us to want to become members. Since then, it has become one of our favorite places to go for an afternoon walk through the gardens, or to simply sit quietly and watch the honey bees and butterflies glide ever so peacefully through the flowers as they gather their nectar and pollen. Have you experienced this little slice of heaven located right here in Gainesville? If not, now is your perfect opportunity! I officially invite you to the Spring Woodland Ramble and Public Plant Sale on Saturday, April 21. This very special event promises to be a fun and relaxing way to spend a Saturday afternoon where you can enjoy the delightful spring air of the Gainesville Garden woodlands, browse a unique selection of handmade arts and crafts by local artisans and peruse a special selection of plants that will be for sale the same day. A food truck will be on-hand so you can enjoy lunch or a snack. The gift shop will also be open and offers a very nice selection of garden-themed merchandise to choose from. For more information please visit http://atlantabg.org/visit/events/woodland-ramble or contact Cyndilyn Loudermilk at [email protected]. Entry to the market is included with garden admission

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T his author is an unabashed feminist. I believe all women are extraordinary. With so many talented, creative and gifted women to choose from it was difficult to select only three. I chose a woman who has made significant strides for women in Georgia government, as well as safe-guarding our environment, another whose contributions to the arts and nature have been enjoyed by millions, including many of us in this club and a third who works locally and internationally to bring peace to the world. You will recognize them all and will likely see parts of yourself in each. There are common threads in each of their lives: their passion to make the world a better place to live, and the love and joy they share with their family and friends. Read on to learn just a bit about Jane Hemmer, Lessie Smithgall, and Mary Lou Frank.

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Jane Hemmer

Former Georgia State Senator, Passionate Environmentalist, Gifted Artist

I believe we should use every day to the best of our abilities. My personal goal is to leave the world a little better through my love of and contributions to education, art and the natural environment." Jane Hemmer wears lots of different shoes. She is a noted artist, forensic art specialist, business owner, passionate environ-mentalist, former politician and on too many community boards to name. She has been the recipient of numerous awards, and is well known for her many charitable activities in our community and state. As much as she accomplishes, her favorite shoes are the flip flops she wears with her

husband, children and grand-children at the beach. I first met Jane wearing comfortable shoes as she bustled around the kitchen of the historic “Centennial Family Farm” that has been deeded to her family for over 200 years. She was preparing to host all of the members of the NEGA Writers Group, one of the many organizations she shares her formidable energy with for a “not to be missed” annual Christmas buffet. As her guests began to arrive she kicked off those shoes in favor of daytime heels. Her historic home is decorated with the tools of her father’s butcher business and with bricks and wood from other buildings on the property. It is impossible to miss the impressive cast bronze buck as you wind up the drive towards the house, but should you do so, her works can be found on display at numerous studios in Gainesville, as well as on her website. Her work is exacting and messy, so she wears a favorite old pair of tennis shoes when working in her studio. Her art career was inspired by friend and well-known local artist Rosemary Dodd after Jane retired from active politics. It seemed natural for Jane to move from love of the farm to love of all land. A passionate environmentalist, Jane is a long-time member of the Elachee Nature Science Center, Chicopee Woods Parks Commission and the Hall County Soil and Water Conservation District. She has been credited with making a real difference in the water quality and soil conservation that protect our county and state forests and wildlife (as well as the viability of Lake Lanier). She will frequently be found

tromping around in her high boots measuring water runoff and assessing soil quality. She wears those same boots working with the Belted Galloway cattle that she and husband John raise on their farm. Her passion for helping the environment led to a career in politics as the first female to serve on the Hall County Board of Commissioners from 1986 until she was elected to the Georgia State Senate in 1992. In both of these positions she was able to play a major role in protecting the environment. Although she is no longer active in politics, she still slips on her dress heels as she heads up the many boards and committees with which she is always actively involved. While it is impossible to say where you might find this caring and creative woman on any given day, it is certain that she will be spending as much time as possible with her beloved family: son Lee and wife Beth and their children Lauren, Sydney and Brandon, and daughter Mary, husband Derek and their children Hannah, Bailey and William. As might be expected all live close to the farm and enjoy outings on the property as well as at the beach. It may be that her favorite shoes are not flip flops after all. Perhaps the favorites are the cozy bedroom slippers she wears as she spends a quiet evening at home surrounded by family. Next time you see her at some community function you will just have to ask.

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Lessie Smithgall Philanthropist and Passionate Supporter of Arts and Nature

F rom her book: I Took the Fork, Lessie Smithgall wrote “I wanted my life to make a difference. At the same time I wanted to be genuine. I wanted to be Celestia “Lessie” Bailey Smith-gall, who is what she is, who kept the faith, who preserved, who did not take herself too seriously, who, for the most part, lived a good life and did a little good along the way. I pray that I have been that person.” The first week of March several members of the NEGA Writers Group had the privilege of signing a birthday

card for Lessie Smithgall to honor her 107th birthday. Lessie founded this group along with numerous others in support of creative writing and the arts. Some of its members know her personally and have stories to share about her. Lessie met her husband Charles working in radio in Atlanta in the 1930s. In 1947 they founded The Times, a Gainesville based media company that operated radio, television and newspapers. For the next 20 or so years, Lessie and Charles ran their business and raised their 4 beloved children: Bay, Charles III, John and Thurman. They also loved to travel and were frequent visitors to London. She navigated the Nile and Amazon rivers and visited Rwanda, Singapore, Israel and Japan. In Africa she became fascinated with apes and monkeys which was the beginning of a lifetime love affair with her simian friends. In 1970, Lessie founded the Gainesville Arts Council, and she and Charles provided much of the support for the purchase and renovation of the old train station which is now the Smithgall Arts Center. In addition to founding the writers group, she was a driving force in the creation of the Georgia Council for the Arts. She and Charles donated the 168 acres which is now the location of the Atlanta Botanical Gardens in Gainesville.

Lessie has received two honorary doctorates, one for her contributions to the arts and one for her focus on the preservation of our natural resources and wildlife. She and late husband Charles have received too many awards to mention in this short piece, but if you are interested in knowing what they are google her online and be prepared to read lots of articles. One of her dear friends, Marsha Hopkins, shared this memory of Lessie with me. In the 1970s Lessie wrote and directed plays for the girls in the Hall County Girls Club. She provided opportunities for them to attend symphonies, plays and concerts in the area. She hosted an annual picnic on the property of her lovely home (which is now the site of the Atlanta Botanical Gardens in Gainesville). Lessie remained close to many of the girls and attended several of their gradu-ations. Many of “her” girls credit Lessie as having a major influence in their lives and still visit and share time with her. Her friends describe her as “sassy” and caring. It is clear that she has not stopped trying to “do a little good along the way”. Happy 107th birthday Lessie from your many friends and those of us who enjoy the benefits of your energy and passion. [Picture by Tracy Page)

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The Times in 1947, which they owned until 1981. - photo by The Times.

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Mary Lou Frank Peacemaker, Conflict Negotiator and Healer “My overriding hope, like all of yours, is that we can make a better world for all of our children. There is a lot to be done and we need each other to make it happen.” Mary Lou Frank, Ph.D. If you see an ordinary, if some-what petite, woman walking briskly through the Brenau Campus with husband and best friend Ken it might be Mary Lou Frank. On the face of things Mary Lou seems to be similar to many of the career women we know. She teaches psychology at Brenau University, owns a business and is the recipient of too many awards to

list here. She would be quick to tell you, however, that her family is her true joy and her source of passion for the work she does. Her goal is to help bring peace to our community, our country and our world. Mary Lou wants to make the world a safer place for all children. She has focused her life’s work on conflict resolution, mediation, education and negotiation on community, national and international stages. She is a tireless volunteer providing conflict resolution training to local, state and regional Boys and Girls clubs. She is a leader in working to stop the horror of sex trafficking with the “Circle of Friends Celebrating Life” organization. Her work with Eating Disorders has helped many young woman come to terms with this debilitating and life-threatening diseases. In her spare time, Mary Lou is co-founder and principal of “Trans-forming Mediation”, a consulting and training group with her husband Kenneth Frank, J.D., conflict resolution specialist and professor. Their work focuses on healing and improving relationships on all levels. Together they have worked as trainers and consultants to national organizations in Poland, Greece,

Dubai, Turkey and China. Currently Mary Lou is working as a board member of the International Women’s Think Tank to establish collaboration with Zimbabwe. She is a noted psychologist, a Fellow at the Institute for Higher Education at the University of Georgia and a board member of several international women’s groups. Her work as President of the Georgia Women’s Institute and board member of the Possible Woman Foundation has helped many women to thrive and succeed in a wide range of endeavors. Her personal list of accomplishments can be viewed by visiting Who’s Who Lists. Mary Lou’s true joy in life is to spend time with Ken and their two children Kari Lou and Kendra, their spouses Chris and Andrew and granddaughter Leah. She and Frank make time to enjoy spiritual pursuits and numerous friendships with people world-wide. Mary Lou is grateful to have the opportunity to make a difference by serving her community and the world with meaningful and purpose-driven work. She also makes time to walk, hike, write and travel. Google “Transforming Mediation” for more information about this special woman. [Picture from Circle of Friends]

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C ertainly one of the defining moments of my life occurred in the spring of 2016 when my husband and I picked up our roots to move and began adjusting to our new life as Georgians. Situated in Gainesville—a progressive, diverse community—I’m pleased to say I have already been presented with a plethora of opportunities, begun to form a number of quality friendships, and been witness to the many characters of true, Southern hospitality. Most recently, I had the great pleasure of attending Brenau University’s fifth annual Women’s Leadership Colloquium. This delightful event featured four female speakers representing various professions—each sharing

“defining moments” realized in their career. “You are in for a real treat today,” exclaimed Dr. Debra Dobkins, Dean of the Women’s College, as she opened the program. “Today we welcome four successful women who are passionate about what they do. Each will share her story, offer advice and suggest fresh vision for others who lead—or aspire to lead.” Throughout each segment I listened intently. On several occasions—especially when hearing of the sometimes painful and distracting growth experiences—I caught myself reflecting, “Oh, yes! Can I relate to that!” Clearly, no one situation or circumstance is the same. However, without exception,

every story told throughout the afternoon portrayed a similar discovery of personal potential as each woman navigated her own specific ups and downs. As encouraged, I connected the dots and reflected upon memorable defining moments throughout my own professional journey. In my usual (only I can decipher) fashion, I took notes in which I made a point to jot down some similarities between my personal achievements and struggles and those being discussed. More importantly, with doodles and potential blog hashtags throughout, I reminded myself there are many more of these moments yet to come!

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In Memory of our friend and GNC member

Judy Condra

Died March 12, 2018, following an illness.

Heartfelt condolences to her family and husband Duane.

Notable words of wisdom and advice that stood out most for me led to the creation of a new reminder checklist. It may be something that resonates for you as well… Women raise your voices with

passion and purpose. Reach higher. Assess your defining

moments. Fears of today can be feats of

tomorrow. If there are changes, give

them a chance. Life is full of change.

Haters become motivators. Bright, bold, brilliant and

brave. Life is about progress, not

perfection. Every moment has the

potential of being a defining moment.

Nothing that matters ever comes easy.

Just remember you are strong. This too shall pass.

Your life is a journey. Enjoy it or change it.

My special thanks go out to Dean Dobkins, the volunteers, and sponsors for making it possible for me to be part of such an inspiring afternoon. I listened, I learned, and, best of all, I laughed—always a positive combination and marvelous medicine for a growing soul. Founded in 1878, Gaines-ville is home to Brenau University—a comprehen-sive, liberal arts-based institution and residential Women’s College. Brenau offers students and members of the community (i.e. myself) the opportunity to enjoy year-round art exhibitions, lectures and literary readings, and performances of theatrical and musical works.

To learn more about how you can support the initiatives within Brenau’s ForeverGold campaign, please contact the Office of External Relations at (770) 534-6174 or [email protected]. The next Women’s Leadership Colloquium will be held in March 2019.

Dr. Debra Dobkins, Amy Whitley

and Kristin Kern

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Melinda Sepmeyer Judy True

Modeled by:

Beth Andert

Sandy Bassen

Donna Davis

Ginette Dockter

Hannah Erickson

Rae Ann Gerhardt

Rose Micuch

Bev Peters

Susan Radle

Phyllis Solgere

Cheryl Thompson

Cheryl Usher

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A beautiful spring day, delicious food, friends and lovely ladies modeling gorgeous clothes from Dillard's Mall of Georgia. What a great way to Splash into Spring.

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Join us for a SPRING BLAST Let’s get together for a fun evening of dinner and dancing When: Saturday, April 28, 2018, 5:30 pm to 10:30 pm. Where: The Loft at Scott’s

131 Bradford St. NW Gainesville, GA 30501

Cost: $37.50 per person * Reservations are limited to the first 125 people, so make your plans early * Spouses, friends, and neighbors are welcome. * Member and guest reservations can be made on the GNC website starting March 9 * Payment is online only with PayPal or credit card.

Enjoy the evening with a DELICIOUS BUFFET: Mix of Seasonal Greens Salad with your choice of two dressings. (Choice of Two Entrees) Bacon wrapped roasted Pork Loin AND Herb Grilled Chicken with garlic cream sauce Parmesan Cheese Risotto topped with Parmigiano Reggiano Seasonal Roasted Vegetables

A mix of zucchini squash and sweet white onions roasted in olive oil and a savory herb and spice blend

Yeast Rolls with Butter Chocolate Peanut Butter Cake Key Lime Cake Chocolate Mousse Cake Sweet & Unsweetened Tea

What a great way to welcome SPRING with dining and dancing at beautiful Scott's Downtown just off the square!

See you all there!!

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C ommunity Services (with your help, as always) will be busy in April and May as we reach out to Hall County neighbors. In April we will be collecting school supplies early to benefit New Holland Knowledge Academy and Foster Care next fall. GNC is discussing a plan to support the Tower Heights community—this community consists of 37 elderly, disabled residents. On Thursday, May 10, we will “Fling into Spring” to serve them lunch and play bingo with prizes. Please save the date and sign up at the April meeting if you would like to help with this event. This will be a service project since we have not been able to do our usual lunches and entertain-ment at the senior center on Pryor Street—they have been under renovation all year. They also receive funding based on the number of lunches served there, so they prefer that we no longer come to serve lunch when they are back in their new space. Considering these changes, Community Services has been looking for other venues. We usually donate our food collections to the

Salvation Army, but they receive many, many

pallets of canned goods from Publix and other

stores, so our donations are just a drop in the

bucket. We will probably go to only one food

donation per quarter and may donate to other

charities. Could our donations possibly make a

real difference given somewhere else? We may

even have the opportunity to help start and stock a

food pantry at Tower Heights since transportation

to other food pantries in the area is a problem for

many of their residents.

Our community services speaker for April will be Rev. Jerry Deyton from The Way. He is the director of this day center for disadvantaged and homeless, located on South Bradford Street in Gainesville. They serve breakfast and lunch daily to all who come. The following is a note from Pastor Jerry Deyton: Just want to give a big thanks to Gainesville Newcomers for the abundance of paper products which help out and will help out for a while. That just goes to show if we all pitch in and give a little, we can make a difference. Thanks for the support!

We also received a thank you letter from Danielle Latlippe, Daycare Coordinator, from the Little Steps Community Daycare in Gainesville saying the following: I just wanted to thank you so much for all of your kind and generous donations to Little Steps Community Daycare. Your gifts have helped not only the children that we serve, but also the parents. Your donations have helped provide snacks, diapers, wipes, and clothing to families who could not otherwise afford to send these necessities with their child each day! We feel blessed to know that all of you have thought of us here! Your kind donations do not go unnoticed, and we are so grateful for each of them, big and small! Thank you from the bottom of our hearts! We are open to any suggestions you may have for

future projects and would love to get your input.

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March 2018 Charlotte Cave Bonnie Kodesch Beatriz Maliszewski Lisa Phifer Cindy Scott Lu Ann Washington

W hat did the GNC Board learn in April? The Membership Committee recommended that directories no longer be printed, because they are out of date as soon as they are printed. Correct information is available on the club’s website and may be printed on a home computer. Each year, boxes of directories are never picked up by members and must be shredded at an additional cost to the club. Wild Apricot, our website management system, has an app available for I-Phones and is developing one for Android phones. Janet Ordway and Vicky Giesegh are offering training sessions for Interest Group leaders and Committee Chairs to learn how to effectively use Wild Apricot.

Mixing It Up! was a big hit with members at the January luncheon and will return in April. Some members and spouses are uncom-

fortable having their personal information

shared with the club. Out of respect for

everyone’s right to privacy, beginning in

September the club will no longer send

cards. In the event of the death of a member,

the president will verify that the family has

made this public before an acknowledge-

ment is made in the newsletter. One of the

strengths of GNC is the spirit of caring that is

evident in the friendships found in the many

small groups. It is among these friendships

that the best support is offered.

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BACK IN THE WATER—The Jet Ski Group will begin their 2018 season on Thursday, May 17, at 10:00 a.m., and will continue to ride every Thursday through September. The group usually rides in the mornings, but once a month they meet at 3:30 for an afternoon/evening run. Spouses are welcome any time, but especially on the days they ride in the afternoons.* The group might meet at one of the lake’s many marinas and will frequently make arrangements for new members to be escorted from their docks to the rendezvous point. Group leader Beth Andert chooses a different area of the lake to explore each week based on where that week’s participants live. Beth says the lake is so big that they can usually tour most of it over the course of two seasons. They might travel up the Chattahoochee or Chestatee Rivers as far as they can go or explore Bald Ridge or Young Deer Creeks down river near the dam. Their outings usually last about four hours and include a stop for lunch. They like to patronize the lakeside restaurants, but occasionally will pull in at the dock of a member who has offered to host the group. Let Beth know if you want to be part of this fun-loving group. *An offshoot of this group who call themselves the Romeos (Retired Old Men Eating Out) frequently get together for lunch when their wives have taken the jet ski for the day. Beth can put you in touch with this group, too!

GENERAL INFORMATION REGARDING INTEREST GROUPS: --Unless otherwise noted, all members are welcome to join an Interest Group at any time during the year by contacting the Interest Group leader. --RSVP’s or questions regarding planned activities should be directed to the group leader. You will find their contact information in the directory. Antique Explorers: Jane Fray, Joyce Healy, Patsy Amidei, Ann Rast Put on your shopping shoes, Antique Explorers is off to Roswell for our May outing! It should be another fun day out, so we look forward to seeing all of you. Antique

Explorers shop on the second Thursday of each month, so mark your calendars. Detailed information will be sent to all those who have signed up for our group. Contact Jane Fray or Joyce Healy with any questions. Borrower's Boutique: Linda Brady You can borrow items for your grandchildren's visit (i.e. Pac N Play, highchair, stroller, toys, etc.) and also items for rehabilitation (i.e. wheelchair, cane, walker, shower chair, commode, etc.) for visiting elderly or for your own recuperation. If you have items you would be willing to loan to other Newcomer members on a short term basis, or if you have a need for any of these items, please contact Linda. Bridge, Intermediate Level, Couples: Rita Petty, Maddie Martin Couples Bridge meets monthly on Friday nights in the members' homes. There are two to three tables in each group, and the level of play is mostly intermediate. New members are welcome at any time, but if the groups are full, you might be placed on the substitute list until there is an opening. Bridge, Ladies: Peggy Squires Still meeting on the third Monday of the month from 10:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m., Ladies Bridge is now meeting at RIGGY'S at 2415 Browns Bridge Road. Play is limited to eight tables, so signing up early when you receive Peggy’s notice each month gives you the best chance to play. If more than capacity signs up, there is a wait list to fill any cancellations. Peggy also keeps a list of members who would like to sub. Sign up is open year round. Bunco: Coral Gleason Bunco meets the first Wednesday of the month at 10:00 a.m. at Panera Bread on Dawsonville Hwy, and sign up is open year round. Coral does need to have a head count, so be sure to let her know if you plan to join in the fun!

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Casual Dining In: Rae Ann Gerhardt Couples in this group take turns hosting a different group of three couples each month. Sign up for the year is in September, but other couples are welcome throughout the year as substitutes. Contact Rae Ann if you would like to be added to the sub list.

Christmas on Green Street: Amy Schick This group begins planning for the big event in October. Until then, if you would like to help with costumes, contact Amy. Creative Studio: Sara Oakley Creative Studio will celebrate Spring with a get-together on the second Wednesday, May 9, 1:30-3:30 p.m., with a beginning drawing project using the subject matter of a simple still life. Some members of this group purchased drawing kits the last time we worked on basic drawing skills and have expressed a desire to revisit the subject. Group members who RSVP will all be provided with the paper, pencils and tools they need to complete the drawing in a step-by-step style. Cost of this project is $5 for materials and instruction. You may also bring your own project to work on complete. An optional $5 donation to studio overhead is appreciated. Please let Sara know if you plan to attend. The Art Colony, 514 Main Street SW. Cultural Events & the Arts: Patricia Louko An ongoing listing of cultural and arts events in our area, giving dates and time, along with special notices, will be sent out monthly to those who sign up. Gail Stanton will continue to organize docent-led tours of the Brenau Galleries as the exhibits change. Dining Out: Jan Kendall Dining Out is taking a break. We hope to be back soon. Dominoes/Mexican Train: Carla Claymore Jump on the train the first Thursday of the month from 10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m. at Panera Bread on Dawsonville Highway. Gardening: Bev Gilbert The Garden Group will meet at Diann Pierce’s house on Monday, May 7, for a potluck lunch.

Golf: Sue Joninas The Golf Group will be teeing off on May 24 (weather permitting). The location of play for May will be decided at the April outing. All participants will be notified. All members welcome! Hand and Foot Canasta for Couples: Mary Quisenberry Couples Hand & Foot meets the second Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. This is a great opportunity for our spouses to meet and share their love of the game! Hand and Foot Canasta for Ladies: Sharon Rugg Ladies H&F Canasta will meet at 1:30 p.m. on May 17. New players are welcome throughout the year, and players are always happy to teach new members how to play! Hiking: Pat Denote, Kathy Boggs This month Hiking is changed to the fourth Tuesday, May 22, when we will meet at 9:30 in the J&J Food Store parking lot at Limestone Parkway and Clarks Bridge Road to hike the Unicoi to Helen Trail from Unicoi State Park. It is an easy and interesting, three mile trail to enter the heart of Helen. Bring a donation for your driver ($4-$5) and money for lunch at a place just outside of Helen. Hiking sticks will make it easier but are not necessary for this hike. Bring bug spray and wear sturdy shoes, comfortable clothes, a hat, and sunglasses. We will return by 3:30 p.m. Confirm your attendance with Pat by Monday morning, May 21. Jet Ski Group: Beth Andert IT’S TIME! See details above. Ladies Night Out: Teri Weber There are currently tentative plans for a Ghost Tour in May. Details will be sent when plans are confirmed. Lunch Bunch: Linda Brady, Bev Feldkamp, Emmie Schillhahn Lunch Bunch will be dining on Tuesday, May 8, at 11:30 a.m. at Houndstooth Grill and Bar, 6323 Grand Hickory Drive in Braselton (770-967-2225). Check out their yummy menu at www.houndstoothgrill.com. Come and enjoy the outstanding food, fun and fellowship! Houndstooth is located near the new hospital in South Hall and is just off Winder Hwy. 211 immediately south of Friendship Road, Hwy. 347.

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Mah Jong: Carla Claymore This group meets every Monday at 1:00 p.m. at the Longstreet Society’s Historic Piedmont Hotel, 827 South Maple Street. All skill levels welcome! Morning Coffee: Cheryl Tefft Morning Coffee meets in a member’s home on the second Wednesday of each month at 10:00 a.m. New members, especially, are encouraged to attend as these are smaller gatherings, providing the opportunity to get to know each other. RSVP to Cheryl anytime you would like to attend. Pinochle: Penni Fryxell The Pinochle Group meets the first and third Fridays at a local restaurant where play begins at 11:00 a.m. There is a break for lunch, and play usually wraps up by 3:00 p.m. The location for each game is sent via email. Beginners welcome! Reading Group: Kathie Wilson The Reading Group will meet Thursday, May 3, at 1:30 PM to discuss Devil in the White City by Eric Larson. E-mail Kathie for more information. Singles Munch & Mingle: Dede Rissler On Thursday, May 3, at 6:00 p.m., we will have dinner at Senor Fiesta Mexican Restaurant which is located at 1943 Jesse Jewell Parkway SE, in the Kroger Shopping Center at the corner of Jesse Jewell and Limestone Parkway. Senor Fiesta 2 was voted in "Best of Hall, 2018" for having the best Mexican food in Hall County! You can view the menu at www.senorfiesta.com. Please reply to Dede no later than Tuesday afternoon, May 1, if you plan to attend. This will be our last gathering this GNC year.

Sun, Sail & Ale Social Group: Renee Bernstein Our May SS&A will be on May 20 at the beautiful home of Annette Hinton. She has a great outdoor space with covered deck and a swimming pool so, weather permitting, you may bring your suit if you like. Please bring a dish to share & your own special beverage. This group provides a good opportunity for our spouses to meet. Hope to see you there. Theater and Movies: Jan Lanman On Sunday, May 20, we are planning to go to the Holly Theatre in Dahlonega to see the 2:00 p.m. production of Company. The original production (1970) was nominated for fourteen Tony Awards and won six. It is a musical comedy with music and lyrics by Stephen Sondheim. Tickets are selling fast. Let Jan know if you’re going so she can have a head count for dinner after the show. Restaurant TBD. The Writers Group: Charlene DeWitt The Writers Group is a supportive writers critique group that encourages writers of all experience levels and genres. We meet on the third Wednesday of each month at various members’ homes from 10 a.m. - noon. Warm Up America: Amy Schick This group is taking the month off. See you in une! Wine Explorers: Pam Arthur-Parker On Friday, May 11, at 11:30, we will meet at Local Station Restaurant, 108 Brassie Lane, Braselton. (706-921-4192) This restaurant is in downtown Braselton in a converted gas station. We will have a wine tasting during our lunch. RSVP deadline is Tuesday, May 8.

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1:30PM Reading

Group

6PM Singles Munch

& Mingle

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11 Pinochile

Couples bridge

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Cinco de Mayo

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Gardening

1PM Mah Jong

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11:30 Lunch Bunch

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1:30 Creative Studio

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Antique Explorers

10 Morning Coffee

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11:30 Wine Explorers

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Mothers Day

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7PM Hand & Foot

Canasta Couples

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10 The Writers

Group

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10 Jet Ski Group

1:30 Ladies Hand &

Foot Canasta

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Couples bridge

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Sun, Sail & Ale

2PM Theater &

Movies

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1PM Mah Jong

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9:30 Hiking

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GNC Luncheon

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Golf

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