Memorial Book

In Loving Memory of

JOHN Ndi MOFOR (January 1, 1934 - December 1, 2011)

Death is not extinguishing the light; it is putting out the lamp because dawn has come.

Rabindranath Tagore

This memorial website was created to remember our dearest Pa Mofor John Ndi who was born on 1st January 1934 in Zhoa, Fungom Subdivision of Menchum Division in the North West Region of Cameroon. He passed to the hands of the Lord on 1st December 2011. Pa Mofor, a retired Divisional Officer, leaves behind, two wives, three sons, seven daughters and fifteen grandchildren. He also leaves behind several brothers, sisters, extended family and friends to remember his love and selflessness. The void left by his passing would never be filled. Rest in peace our dear brother, son, leader, husband and father TAMUFOR MOFOR JOHN NDI. He will forever be in our memories and hearts. We know he is with the Lord and watching over all of us till we meet to part no more.

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Memorial Candlesour words, your light...

12/10/2011 yvonne Fru

Papa, you were a great blessing and inspiration to us all while you were with here, we loved you,but God

loves you more. RIP

12/10/2011 PAMBE NEMB-STN MTN

GA

Our hearts and prayers are with you, ma patience and ni

julius. take it as a gift from god and celebrate because

you knew him!

12/09/2011 Adeline NJIKE

May the peace and Love of our almighty God surround his soul, and let it rest very

close in the paradise.

12/09/2011 Patience Fule-Buang

Elango

May the peace of God that surpasseth all

understanding be the portion of your family at this

time and always.Love you all

12/06/2011 Bethany Hutchinson

Deepest condolences to your family on your loss. You are

all in my thoughts. Peace and love to you.

12/06/2011 MISS J

May Pa's soul find rest in the Lord's bossom. My

sympathy to the family.

Condolencesfrom the deepest of our hearts...

Christopher Thoms Son in Law December 17, 2011

Moka, Patience, Ufei, Lum, Kuko and the rest of the Mofor family, I am sorry for your loss. May Pa's soul rest in peace. I will never forget the day he walked my beleved Maribah down the aisle to me. I am both grateful and saddened that I only had a limited time to spend with him. However, his spirit, kindness and wisdom lives on in all of you and in the many other people whose lives he touched. Chris

Edith Takere Friend December 17, 2011

Pae, I know how difficult it is for you and the entire family at this time. Your dad was blessed to have known the Lord. He has fulfilled his mission here on earth and is in a better place. He will be remembered for all his services to mankind. Accept my condolence. Edith

Franco Ekeme Sorry for the Loss December 17, 2011

Kuko and Terence, i know its very painful loosing someone so dear. i pray the Lord will grant you the strength to go through this trying period. we have to accept that he has gone to a better resting place though we will all miss him!

sama judith friend and sister December 14, 2011

dear Mums, sisters and brothers yes it's painfull to accept, but such is life we thank GOD for a life well spent by papa on earth, for his life had been a blessing to many papa we all miss you but GOD loves you more My prayer is that GOD ALMIGHTY 's presence continue to be in the family and be the father of the fatherless stay bless and keep your faiths rolling in GOD SAMA JUDITH on behalf on Pa Sama's family

carine et rodrigue Condolence December 13, 2011

PATIENCE AND MARIBAH May GOD gives you and your family comfort during this time of sorrow. Many blessings

Irene Ashu Friend December 12, 2011

Patience, Accept my condolence. Losing a parent is not an easy thing to swallow, but remember that he is loved more by our Heavenly Father. He has fulfilled his duties here with us and now he is where he is resting and taking better care of us all. You will remain in our prayers during this difficult time, take care. Irene.

Terence Ndifuanja A body of knowledge and wisdom December 10, 2011

Every new day seems like a dream. It's been hard to understand that the D.O who's always had plenty of knowledge and wisdom transitioned to the next world. We wish you everlasting peace and will always remain grateful for your legacy. Your life was well lived. Your children and grand children always remind me of your endless efforts to bring everyone close to God; the songs, memory verses, prayers and many church projects... You spent valuable time with the family teaching them the virtues that make our world a better place. Your achievements will live on and we shall keep on praying for you. Adieu

Paul Kazeem A Life well lived December 9, 2011

I am Paul K, Terence M Ndi's Insurance Agent. I took time to follow the gallery and was impressed with the life Papa lived. Its so awesome! Having met his son Terence, iam convinced Pa Mofor is smiling for a fulfilled life indeed. Rest Pa Mofor in the bosom of your Lord and Savior.

Colitta May his Soul rest in Peace December 9, 2011

Pa is resting now. Our prayers are with your family in this time of great loss!

Enow B. Mbi Prayers December 9, 2011

Terence, God's grace will give you the hope and strength to overcome your sorrows for Our God is an ever present help in times of need.May the Holy Spirit of God comfort those pa left behind to mourn him. May his soul rest in peace.

Enow B. Mbi

Patience Fule-Buang Elango

Psalm 121 December 9, 2011

Big Mami, Mami, Kuko, Moka,Ufei Achuo,Swiri, Ngoh, Lum, Neh etc , You all let me enjoy the love of Pa and I am so sorry for your great loss . May his soul rest in perfect peace. As psalm 121 says, "... look up to the hills...." Love Fule-Buang

Matilda Courage December 8, 2011

Ufei, May the Lord give you strength at this time. Pa has been called by the Lord and taken to a better place. We will pray for the Peace and Love of Christ to reign in your family always. May Pa's soul rest in Peace. Amen

Anna I'm sorry December 8, 2011

Kuko, I'm so sorry and so sad that your dad has passed away. We will pray for you and Helen and Maria and Terence. Love, Anna

Amy Allen prayers for you and your family December 8, 2011

Kuko my dear friend, Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family during this very difficult time. We're so sorry to hear of the sudden passing of your father. Please know that our prayers are for peace, courage and comfort for you and your wonderful family. Many blessing to you Kuko. Amy

Paul Ngongang Pastor December 7, 2011

Pa Mofor's legacy will live on. He was a blessing to humanity: his family, country and Church. May his spirit and soul rest in perfect peace. May abundant comfort and peace from God keep and strengthen the family at this time and always. Stay blessed.

Memoriesall the gray you turned into colors...

Ani Abiedu

Grandpa, I remember the second time I came to visit you in Cameroon (The first time we met I was only a baby). I had no idea who to look for in that busy Douala airport, but when Grandma Dorothy pointed to you in the distance, I became so nervous and excited. "Wow, that's my grandpa!", I thought. When I got close enough to see you, I was delighted to see that smile on your face. The first thing you said to me was " My daughter, welcome. Are you fine?" All I could do was to nod my head "yes" and hug you! Papa, I spent the best two and a half months of my childhood with you and the rest of my family in Bamenda. I will always remember watching you kill a chicken in the back yard, and saying "My dear, that is how we do it in Africa. We don't go to stores oh". (I still laugh everytime I think about that.) I will always remember the Mambo chocolate you often bought me and the biscuits you made me share with little cousin Mbena. I am grateful that you took me to the palace in order for me to meet all of my family in Meforbe. Although that was the longest time I spent with you, it was not the last. The four other times I saw you were just as important, because they allowed me to spend time with an amazing man, and learn things about you that I never knew. I will always remember your voice, your smile, and most of all, your laugh! Papa, I miss you dearly. We all do. However, I know that your spirit lives on in every single life that you touched. Thank you for everything. It was a blessing to have you as a part of my life. I love you. ♥

God looked around his garden, and found an empty place. He then looked down upon the Earth and saw you. He put His arms around you, and lifted you to rest beside Him. God's Garden must be very beautiful, He always takes the best. He knew you were better with him. Eventhough the road was getting rough and the hills getting hard to climb, He whispered, "Peace be thine." It broke our hearts to lose you, but you didn't go alone, for part of us went with you the day God called you home. May You Rest in Perfect Peace with the Almight The Chicks

PATIENCE FULE-BUANG ELANGO

PA, Thank you so very much for all the unconditional love you showered on me and my sibblings as far as over twenty years ago. Thank you especially for lodging me , feeding me, consoling me and advicing me when Late Pa Sunday Makia Elango died in the year 2000. I am sorry I never got the chance to come thank you personally for encouraging me to concentrate on my academics in a bid to honour the memory of your late friend/BROTHER whom you fondly called Emperor. I took that advice and Iam today Deputy Chief of Communications at the Directorate General of Elections, Human Rights Focal Point Elections Cameroon and UN Human Rights and Gender Facilitator,UN Information Centre Volunteer Facilitator and the list goes on Pa...Forgive me for not taking time out to tell you personally. I erroneously thought you would be there always as part of the wind beneath my wings.A BELATED THANK YOU IS ALL I HAVE NOW. ACCEPT MY FIRST SALARY MIMBO(drink) on behalf of sunday Makia Elango too.

J=JUST O=OBJECTIVE H=HONOURABLE N=NOBLE N=NICE D=DILIGENT I=IRREPROACHABLE M=METICULOUS O=OPEN F=FATHERLY O=ORGANISED R=RESPONSIBLE Rest in peace Pa Yours adopted daughter Patience Fule-Buang Elango

Life Storyevery hour, every thought, every smile...

December 1, 2011

BIOGRAPHY

Tamufor Mofor John Ndi was born on January 1, 1934 in Zhoa, Fungom subdivision of Menchum Division in the North West Region of Cameroon.When he was born, Chief Bahmbi of Zhoa named him " Bahmbi" (Chief) during a court session. Tamufor Mofor John Ndi’s father, Fon Moses Mofor Moka Garforbe III , from the royal family of Baforchu was born in 1866 and disappeared as the Fon of Meforbe Village in Santa subdivision in 1966.

Fon Garforbe III had several wives and was blessed with 120 children, several grand and great grand Children and the mother of the man who grew up to become a retired but not tired Divisional Officer, was Mami Elizabeth Ufei - second wife of Fon Garforbe III of Meforbe Village. His mother, Abu Elizabeth Ufei was born in 1898 to Chief Njibei of Weh village Menchum Division and Naii Ezei Bimbum. Historical revelation holds that she sat on the royal throne of Weh village for one month until a successor was chosen to take over. She died in 1984, leaving behind several children and grand children to mourn her.

Tamufor Mofor John Ndi’s Educational profile:

1939-1942 Basel Mission School Baforchu

1942-1948 N.A. School Santa

1948-1950 B.M. School Mbengwi

1950-1953 C.M.S. School Ikom (Nigeria)

1953-1958 B.M.C. Bali now C.P.C. Bali

1958-1960 Isekulu Memorial College Nigeria

His Qualification:

1953 - First School Leaving Certificate from Nigeria.

1958 - G.C.E. O/L in B.M.C. Bali

1960 - Cambridge School Certificate in Iseleku Memorial College Nigeria equivalent to G.C.E. A/L.

1960-1962 - Diploma in public Administration from Lagos Nigeria.

MEDALS

1. National Order of Merit.

2. Officer of the National Order of Valour.

CAREER PROFILE

Taught in Iseleku Memorial Grammer School in 1958-1959.•Joined the Administration in the Establishment Division of the Public Service in Buea as a third class clerk in 1958 in charge of records.

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Transferred to District Office Wum in 1959 where he served as District Clerk from 1959 to 1962. He managed his job with his studies in Nigeria

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In 1962, he was transferred to the Prime Minister’s Office Buea as Chief of Bureau.•1963 - 1964 He was Chief Clerk Lands and Survey Buea•1964 – 1966 He was District Clerk Muyuka.•1966 – 1968 He worked in Taxation Office Bamenda.•1968 – 1972 He was Chief of Cabinet Prime Minister’s Office Buea.•1972 – 1977 He was private secretary to the president of the National Assembly H.E. Solomon Tandeng Muna.

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1977 - 1980 He was appointed Assistant Divisional Officer Isangele, Ndian Division in the Bakassi Peninsular.

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1980 – 1982 He was appointed District head Idabato - Ndian Division•1982 - 1985 He was appointed Assistant Divisional Officer Nkambe - Donga Mantung Division.•1985 - 1988 He was appointed Divisional Officer Ako in Donga Mantung Division•1988 – 1990 He was appointed Divisional Officer of Wum in Menchum Division•1990 – 1991 He was appointed Divisional Officer of Kombo Itindi Bakassi peninsular. •1991 retired from Bakassi but the Minister of Territorial Administration at that time, Late Mr. Andre Tsongui extended/added him five years by Decree. He served one year and left in 1992. Taking into cognizant the fact that he worked twice in the Bakassi Peninsular, some people nicknamed him " D.O. Bakassi."

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TITLES:

TAMUFOR: Next to the Fon and a Decision Maker in the Village.•Tanyi or Tangue: Father of Twin.•

RELIGIOUS ACTIVITIES/CHRISTIAN ACHIEVEMENTS

In 1953, Rev. Aust in Basel Mission College baptized him with D.H. O’Neil as his Godfather.•In 1959 joined the first batch of the Christian Youth Fellowship (C.Y.F.) at Buea under Rev. Miaz.•1964 - 1966 President C.Y.F. Muyuka.•1987 Attended NATCOM meeting in Kumba.•1981 – 1988 He was President Christian Men Fellowship (C.M.F.) Nkambe•1988 – 1990 He was President and founder C.M.F. in Naikom, Wum•1990 – 2004 He was executive member C.M.F. Azire.•2004 – 2009 He was President C.M.F. Mbomassa.•In 1999, C.M.F. Naikom Wum gave him a certificate of recognition during the celebration of their 10th anniversary, for being the founder and first President of the Naikom group.

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He was given a certificate of recognition by Rev. Dr. Nyasanku-ni-nku as one of the founding members of the C.M.F. in Cameroon during the 25th Anniversary celebration of the movement.

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While visiting his children in America in 2003, he preached and solicited funds which amounted to One Million Five Hundred Thousand Franc CFA which enabled him to purchase Aluminum

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protectors for the windows of Presbyterian Church Meforbe. He gave 25,000 FCFA to C.M.F. Azire his former group and 100,000 FCFA to Presbyterian Church Mbomassa, his present church.He also aided Presbyterian Church Mbomassa with 800,000 FCFA, funds raised in U.S.A. and pens bearing the name of Presbyterian Church Mbomassa sold in Cameroon in 2008-2009 with a vision as project chairman to build the Pastor’s House of P.C. Mbomassa.

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OTHER RELIGIOUS ACHIEVEMENTS

During his retirement, Tamufor Mofor John Ndi was not tired. He developed a serious passion for prayers hence the start of a prayer group in 1992. The Prayer Cell started with five Christians and rose to about 80 people. This was then transferred to Mr. Lucas Tabong’s premises in former CENAJES-Mbomassa.Taking into cognizant the fact that the Church constitution says that five members can form a church, Pa Mofor John Ndi and other brothers and sisters in the Lord did not hesitate to apply for one. Their aspirations were further buttressed by the fact that Presbyterian Church Azire was growing by leaps and bounds and thus needed decongestion. The application was granted in 2005 by the Synod after a lot of ups and downs. As Chairman of the project committee, he prayed to God to increase his lifespan so that he can nurse his golden baby. He also appealed to Mr. Muluh Gregory of GP DERUDEP, who gave 200,000 FCFA for corrugated iron sheets for the Pastor’s house in Presbyterian Church Mbomassa.

In his Administrative/political life he conducted several elections. He passed judgments on farmers/graziers problem, fishing problem with the fear of the Lord. That is, without fear or favour. He is remembered in Wum in the early 1990’s for bringing an end to the rampant Land Dispute, Chieftaincy and farmers/graziers problem. Due to his interactions with leaders of all political parties to inform Government, he was petitioned on several occasions. He acknowledged that if not of the petitions,he could have risen and served the Nation in different capacities. He has made a lot of tours within and out of the country. He survived a lot of accidents. He had written about three exposes advising the Government and Administrators how to behave and resolve matters arising in their arrears of jurisdiction. Notably among them is a Document on the Bakassi Pennisular, 10/12/2002. He drew his inspiration on a tour carried out from January 4th through January 8th 1982.

GROUPS/ASSOCIATIONS

Bali Old Boys Association.•Association of Retired Civil Administrators (One of the founding Members).•

Adviser Meforbe Meeting.•

ACTIVITIES IN THE VILLAGE

As Tamufor, next to the Fon of Meforbe Village Garforbe IV, he participated in several activities. He was instrumental in the celebration of the annual dance of the village and the famous “Nikwirifon” of his father Fon Moses Mofor Moka Garforbe III.He was adviser to the Meforbe inhabitants as well as sons and daughters of Santa SubDivision.

HIS FAVORITE VERSES/BIBLICAL LIFE

His favorite verse in the Bible was ‘seek ye first the Kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you’ Mathew 6:33.

The verse to him is second to the golden verse which says ‘For god so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life John3 : 16.

He stressed that, if every Christian obeyed and applied these two verses above, then the world would remain forever a better place to live. He had a mastery of French and English Language. In Brain trust it was difficult to beat him despite his age. In exercises like to open your Bible and quickly read any passage it was also difficult for young Christians to beat him.

TAMUFOR. MOFOR JOHN NDI leaves behind a grieving family. His wives, several children, Grand Children, Great Grand Children, brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, Men and Women of God to mourn him. In fact he was Father of all Children. He would be remembered as the pillar of the family, adviser to sons and daughters of Meforbe village, Santa Sub Division and any body on the planet earth who was fortunate to come in contact with him. In addition, as a Christian he was not afraid to tell you what was on his mind if you did something he did not admire. Despite his age it was difficult to defeat him in a dancing competition irrespective of the music. He attended to people of all classes of life and even if he did not have a solution immediately, he would solve the problem in the future. He was full of energy. He was baptized and took Holy Communion. Being a Christian in the Presbyterian Church in Cameroon he read his Bible, sang from his church Hymnary and read his Church Diary daily between 4:00am and 7:00am.This helped him to conceive ideas which made him one of the founding members of the Christian Youth Fellowship in 1959, Christian Men Fellowship in 1981 and Bethel Choir. He wrote the main points

of each Lesson as well as text on his daily Church Diary through out his stay on earth. Amongst them was the book of Revelation, which he wrote about a vision from Christ in the early hours of the 1st December 2011. Today, the world has loose a leader full of wisdom. The void left by his passing would never be filled. Rest in peace our dear brother, son, leader, husband and father TAMUFOR MOFOR JOHN NDI.

MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE.

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