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~ UNITY LIVEWIRE ~ ‘A SOBER PUBLICATION’ JULY - 2020 Lorain Inter-Group Office 710 Broadway Avenue Lorain, Ohio 44052 Phone: 440-246-1800 M, W, F, S 10-2 Email address: [email protected] for others; (b) performed to benefit oneself, especially in disregard of the welfare of others." It went on to clarify: "at the expense of others"! (The italics are mine.) And this is how the general public sees the word. Is AA seeking pleasure at the expense of and without regard to others? Of course not. Obviously, I am staying sober primarily for myself, and this is a form of selfishness. But now I also want to do right for myself, my wife, my children, other AAs, and even the world, if I'm able. I know that I'm being motivated by an unseen force for good that certainly isn't rooted in my will or in selfishness. I believe that any “goodness” I may have sprung from my attempts at Step Three. If that's selfish, then so are God, life, and the world. I believe that any AA member can perform a good deed for another person without analyzing the ultimate benefit or lack of benefit to himself. If his own happiness or serenity is destroyed by unselfish acts, I suggest he return to Step Three. Can God's will get him into trouble? Having faith that God's will is pure, unselfish love shouldn't hurt a bit. The Second Tradition applies here and is easily understood in its reference to "a loving God." So, surely, "selfish" is the worst possible single word to describe AA, especially for "goodness" I attracting outsiders or for any public-relations purpose. "Love" is a far more appropriate word. AA is a loving, selfless program, inspired by a loving God. None of that love can be put under a microscope or intellectualized by man-made words. THE GRAPEVINE OCTOBER 1972 BY: R. B. FREEPORT I'D BEEN SOBER only ninety days when I read the Grapevine's March 1970 "cover story," "It's a Selfish Program." The word "selfish," applied to the whole AA program as a one-word description, raised my supersensitive hack writer's hackles and rattled my semantic alarm system. How could that word, which is generally accepted as bad, apply to a program that is rooted in God and love? I didn't understand the writer's "logical" explanation, but I buried my confusion and resentment with the rationale that I was, after all, a very shaky, brand-new AA baby. Who was I to pick apart my thin lifeline into the sober world? The more love I found in the program, the more appalled I became as I heard more speakers use "selfish" as a one-word description of AA. One climax occurred as I overheard my (social drinker) wife answering a question. We live in a small town, and the questioner had heard I was in AA. The first words of explanation from my wife were "Well, it's a selfish program." This so baffled the "civilian" that further explanations were impossible. "Of all the words!" I screamed. "Why that?" I shouldn't have blamed her; she'd heard the word often enough at meetings. Then bang!--there it was again, "selfish" right on the August 1971 Grapevine cover, and the story said, "AA is generally agreed to be a selfish program." Who agreed? Was I going crazy? My big new Webster's explained "selfish" as: (a) "concerned excessively or exclusively with oneself; seeking or concentrating on one's own advantage, pleasure, or well-being without regard AN UNSELFISH PROGRAM FOR SELF New Inter-Group Days, Hours & Restrictions on Page 3 A list of meetings that have reopened are on a separate extended Page 4 If your meeting has reopened, please contact the office so we can get it listed on the website.

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~ UNITY LIVEWIRE ~ ‘A SOBER PUBLICATION’

JULY - 2020

Lorain Inter-Group Office 710 Broadway Avenue

Lorain, Ohio 44052

Phone: 440-246-1800

M, W, F, S 10-2

Email address:

[email protected]

for others; (b) performed to benefit oneself,

especially in disregard of the welfare of others." It

went on to clarify: "at the expense of others"! (The

italics are mine.)

And this is how the general public sees the word. Is

AA seeking pleasure at the expense of and without

regard to others? Of course not.

Obviously, I am staying sober primarily for myself,

and this is a form of selfishness. But now I also

want to do right for myself, my wife, my children,

other AAs, and even the world, if I'm able. I know

that I'm being motivated by an unseen force for

good that certainly isn't rooted in my will or in

selfishness. I believe that any “goodness” I may

have sprung from my attempts at Step Three. If

that's selfish, then so are God, life, and the world.

I believe that any AA member can perform a good

deed for another person without analyzing the

ultimate benefit or lack of benefit to himself. If his

own happiness or serenity is destroyed by

unselfish acts, I suggest he return to Step Three.

Can God's will get him into trouble? Having faith

that God's will is pure, unselfish love shouldn't hurt

a bit. The Second Tradition applies here and is

easily understood in its reference to "a loving God."

So, surely, "selfish" is the worst possible single

word to describe AA, especially for "goodness" I

attracting outsiders or for any public-relations

purpose.

"Love" is a far more appropriate word. AA is a

loving, selfless program, inspired by a loving God.

None of that love can be put under a microscope

or intellectualized by man-made words.

THE GRAPEVINE OCTOBER 1972 BY: R. B. FREEPORT

I'D BEEN SOBER only ninety days when I read the

Grapevine's March 1970 "cover story," "It's a

Selfish Program."

The word "selfish," applied to the whole AA

program as a one-word description, raised my

supersensitive hack writer's hackles and rattled

my semantic alarm system. How could that word,

which is generally accepted as bad, apply to a

program that is rooted in God and love?

I didn't understand the writer's "logical"

explanation, but I buried my confusion and

resentment with the rationale that I was, after all,

a very shaky, brand-new AA baby. Who was I to

pick apart my thin lifeline into the sober world?

The more love I found in the program, the more

appalled I became as I heard more speakers use

"selfish" as a one-word description of AA. One

climax occurred as I overheard my (social drinker)

wife answering a question. We live in a small town,

and the questioner had heard I was in AA. The first

words of explanation from my wife were "Well, it's

a selfish program." This so baffled the "civilian"

that further explanations were impossible.

"Of all the words!" I screamed. "Why that?" I

shouldn't have blamed her; she'd heard the word

often enough at meetings.

Then bang!--there it was again, "selfish" right on

the August 1971 Grapevine cover, and the story

said, "AA is generally agreed to be a selfish

program."

Who agreed? Was I going crazy?

My big new Webster's explained "selfish" as: (a)

"concerned excessively or exclusively with

oneself; seeking or concentrating on one's own

advantage, pleasure, or well-being without regard

AN UNSELFISH PROGRAM FOR SELF

New Inter-Group Days, Hours & Restrictions on Page 3

A list of meetings that have reopened are on a separate extended Page 4

If your meeting has reopened, please contact the office so we can get it listed on the website.

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~ ~ STILL ON HOLD ~ ~

MONTHLY BUSINESS MEETINGS

First Sunday of Each Month Lorain County Multi-District @10:30am

G.S.R./D.C.M. Meeting Be the voice of your Home Group

+ + + + + + + + + + + +

Lorain Inter-Group @ 12:30 p.m.

ALL members are invited to participate

See YOUR Inter-Group at work!

710 Broadway Avenue, Lorain (Central Office)

HELP CARRY THE MESSAGE!!

EMH and Mercy Hospital

(Behavioral Health Unit)

Sundays at 4:00pm/Wednesdays at 7:00pm

ClearVista (3364 Kolbe Road, Lorain)

Sunday at 8:00pm

Must have 2 years of sobriety per hospital guidelines

Call Melissa S. (440)242-9769

JULY Anniversaries

07/01 Aaron H. 14 yrs.

07/01 Nancee H. 4 yrs.

07/02 Renee E. 16 yrs.

07/05 Pamela H. 34 yrs.

07/05 Jeff W. 12 yrs.

07/05 Chuck S. 2 yrs.

07/06 Renee M. 30 yrs.

07/07 Marty F. 38 yrs.

07/07 Michael W. 1 yr.

07/08 DeWann M. 1 yr.

07/10 Jamie S. 4 yrs.

07/10 Kathy K. 2 yrs.

07/11 Gary K. 17 yrs.

07/13 Connie S. 36 yrs.

07/13 Christine C. 22 yrs.

07/13 Jefferson W. 9 yrs.

07/15 Ron R. 45 yrs.

07/15 Jen B. 33 yrs.

07/16 Michelle W. 10 yrs.

07/16 April S. 3 yrs.

07/23 Rick A. 11 yrs.

07/24 Andrew S. 3 yrs.

07/27 Bret R. 13 yrs.

07/29 Linda S. 36 yrs.

To have your anniversary

printed in the LiveWire

please email to:

[email protected]

or by calling (440)574-0143

and leaving a voicemail

OR Call Bobbi M. at

(440)537-4280

by the 20th of each month.

Anniversaries will not be

carried over to the next year

When making any donation: PLEASE identify yourself by placing the group’s General Service #, District # and Area 54 on all donations. Your General Service # can be found in the meeting schedule or on the internet at aaloraincounty.org under A.A. Meetings. Your District # is on the back page of the LiveWire. If you don’t have a General Service number attached to your group, please contact your DCM listed on the back page of the LiveWire and they will register your Group OR ATTEND a monthly Multi-District meeting.

Suggested

AA Group Contributions:

50% Lorain Inter-Group Office 710 Broadway Avenue

Lorain, OH 44052 Make checks payable to:

Lorain Inter-Group

25% The General Service Office

P.O. Box 459, Central Station

New York, NY 10163-0459 Make checks payable to:

General Service Office

15% NE Ohio General Service ATTN: Area 54 Treasurer

P.O. Box 91384, Cleveland, OH 44101-3384 Make checks payable to: NE Ohio General Service

10% Lorain Co. Multi-District 710 Broadway Avenue,

Lorain, OH 44052 ATTN: Dan F.- Treas. (440)723-7690

Make checks payable to: Lorain County Multi-District

NEED A MEETING ?

SET ONE UP!!

Call some friends & setup a time for a conference call and you can have yourself

a phone meeting!!

MIDNIGHT ELYRIA GROUP St. Mary’s – 4th & Middle

Saturday 12:00

07/04 Open Podium

07/11 Marty F. – 38th Ann.

07/18 Ron R. – 45th Ann.

07/25 Connie S. – 36th Ann Snack Nite

BRING YOUR MASK

Online Meetings Recovery Chat Rooms

12-STEP MEETINGS OPEN FELLOWSHIP CHAT

STEPCHAT.COM

You can participate or just listen

It’s worth checking out!

TURNING POINT St. Mary’s – 4th & Middle

Thursday 7:00pm

07/02 Tamara S. 07/09 Mitchell T. 07/16 Donald T. 07/23 Larry H. 07/30 Tracy T.

BRING YOUR MASK

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Lorain County A.A. meetings, times & locations can also be found on aaloraincounty.org

The 12th Annual Cabin Fever Steak Fry Was a Success!

Thank you to all who supported us

All proceeds are going to

Friends of Bill W. Picnic

Which will be rescheduled to

later in the summer

FRIENDS OF

PORKY P. ANNUAL

PIG ROAST

IS ON HOLD

~ SOBER EVENTS ~

LORAIN COUNTY INTER-GROUP OF ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS

IS OPEN FOR BUSINESS AND LITERATURE SALES

NO MEETINGS AT THIS TIME

NEW HOURS Mon. 10:00 AM – 2:00 PM

Tue. Closed Wed. 10:00 AM – 2:00 PM

Thur. Closed Fri. 10:00 AM – 2:00 PM Sat. 10:00 AM – 2:00 PM

Sun. Closed

Visitors should conduct themselves as they would in any public place. We ask that masks be worn and access inside the building

will be limited for the time being. We are following all State mandates regarding group dynamics.

The possibility of reopening meetings themselves will be looked at again in July.

Some Physical Meetings are beginning to open.

If your meeting is open, please contact the office during the hours above

so we can get meetings listed on the website.

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MEETINGS THAT HAVE REOPENED

Meeting Location Time Misc. Info.

MONDAY

Oberlin Women's Group Tappan Square Oberlin OH 7:30 PMBring a Chair

Closed - Women's

Back to Basics

Big Book StudySt. Francis Xavier Cabrini Parish

2143 Homewood Dr., Lorain OH 440557:30 PM

Open

Starts 7/6

LaGrange Monday NightUnited Methodist Church

105 W. Main St. - Rt. 303, LaGrange OH8:00 PM Open

TUESDAY

Amherst 'Who Me'United Methodist Church of Amherst

396 Park Ave., Amherst OH7:30 PM

Outside - Bring Chair

Open

Misery is OptionalSt. John Ukranian Church

3010 Charleston Ave., Lorain OH7:30 PM Open - Women's

Avon Tuesday (The Barn)Avon United Methodist Church

37711 Detriot Rd., Avon OH8:30 PM

Outside In Pavilion

Open

WEDNESDAYKeep it Simple

Men's Big BookSt. Francis Xavier Cabrini Parish

2143 Homewood Dr., Lorain OH 440557:30 PM Open - Men's

Industrial GroupSt. John Ukranian Church

3010 Charleston Ave., Lorain OH8:00 PM Open

Grafton Wednesday NightGrafton Fire Station, N. Park Comm. Room

1050 Novak Road, Grafton OH8:00 PM Open

THURSDAY

Turning PointSt. Mary's Church

320 Middle Ave., Elyria OH 44035

6:00 - 7:30

PM

Open

Bring your mask

Summer Serenity St. Francis Xavier Cabrini Parish

2143 Homewood Dr., Lorain OH 440558:00 PM

Outside/Bring Chair

Open

St. Jude New LifeSt. Clarence Parish Hall

30106 Lorain Rd. North Olmsted OH, 440708:30PM Open

FRIDAY

Women Helping WomenStarting Point Worship Center

34881 Center Ridge Rd., N. Ridgeville OH6:00 PM Open - Women's

Spanish AmericanSt. John Ukranian Church

3010 Charleston Ave., Lorain OH7:30 PM Open

North Ridgeville

Friday Night Discussion

Starting Point Worship Center

34881 Center Ridge Rd., N. Ridgeville OH8:30 PM Closed

SATURDAY

Midnight Elyria GroupSt. Mary's Church

320 Middle Ave., Elyria OH 44035

12:00

Midnight

Open

Bring your mask

SUNDAYHarbortown Breakfast

Break. @ 8:30/Lead @ 10

Leota Bettcher Hall

15018 South St., Birmingham OH8:30 AM Open

Sunday Night Sobrietry St. Mary's Church

320 Middle Ave., Elyria OH 440357:00 PM Open

Sheffield Lake

Civic Center Group

Sheffield Lake Civic Center

4575 Lake Rd., Sheffield Lake OH7:30 PM Open

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COMMITTEE CHAIRS: Unity LiveWire

Joyce L…..Google Voice…. (440)574-0143 *EMAIL: [email protected]

Internet Committee……(aaloraincounty.org)

Mike…………… .… … …(440)670-9910

*EMAIL: [email protected]

Correctional Committee Andy K..…….…………. …(440)343-3644

*EMAIL: [email protected]

Public Information Committee Melissa S……….……... …(440)242-9769

Picnic Committee Art C……………….. ……(440)773-9474

Pig Roast Troy S……….….…..……. (440)365-9018

Memorial Day Breakfast Steve S……….…... ..…... (440)308-1352

ATTENTION: Lorain County A.A. Community Help is needed for KEY DISTRICT POSITIONS!

STEP UP & GET INVOLVED IN SERVICE WORK

Contact LCMD Chairperson

DISTRICT COMMITTEES: Lorain County Multi-District

Chairperson: Andrew S………..(440)529-4582 Alt Chair: Mark P….….……..(216)406-1169

District 19A (Avon, Avon Lake, Columbia, Eaton, Grafton, N. Ridgeville, Sheffield, Sheffield Lake)

DCM Mark P … (216)406-1169 Alt DCM ***POSITION OPEN***

District 19B (All of the City of Lorain & Part of Vermilion)

DCM Tom M…. (440)308-5885 Alt DCM Jeremy S..(440)444-2044

District 20A (All of the City of Elyria and Carlisle)

DCM Kasey P.....(440)494-1676 Alt DCM ***POSITION OPEN***

District 20C (Amherst, Brighton Twp, Brownhelm Twp,

Camden Twp, Henrietta Twp, Kipton, LaGrange, Oberlin, Penfield, Pittsfield Twp, S.Amherst, Wellington)

DCM Randy W...(330)591-7328

Alt DCM Penny F...(440)773-3098

INTER-GROUP FINANCIAL REPORT – MAY, 2020

INCOME

Donations/Rent Literature Sales Fundraising Income Interest Income

Total INCOME

EXPENSES

Rent Columbia Gas Answering Service Ohio Edison Time Warner Vivial: Yellow Pages House Managers Payroll Fees Literature Purchases Fundraising Expenses Total EXPENSES

GAIN/(LOSS)

$2,432.00

0.00 0.00 .06

$2,432.06

$ 800.00 286.00 196.86 232.81 131.21 28.80 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00

$1,675.68

$756.38

Rents Received

Blue Monday

Inter-Group

Advisory Board of Directors

Steve S. 440-308-1352 Chair

Jody B. 440-225-2412 V.Chair

Art C. 440-773-9474 Secr.

Mark P. 440-452-5946 Treas.

Inter-Group Advisory Board

Troy S. 440-365-9018

Donna L. 440-574-3464

Tom O. 440-315-8600

Mike B. 440-309-5788

Dave G . 440-723-1923

Russ K. 440-370-6575

Kare H. 440-949-8347

Office Managers

Sam H. 440-522-3639

Tom N. 440-258-7286

Ed F. 440-309-0551

Office 440-246-1800

Donations

Birmingham Dinner Group

Columbia Station Group

Elyria Monday Closed Disc.

Grafton Wednesday Night

North Ridgeville Men’s

Oberlin Group

S.I.O.G.A.

Sheff. Lake Civic Cent Group

Sunday Open Men’s Disc.

Various Individual Donors

Wellington Sat.After Bootleg

Wellington Wed. Morn. Disc.