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http://www.zunal.com/process.php?w=1339701. Irrational Ways of
Thinking Which Keeps You Angry Projection: common defense mechanism
where a person gets upset with a trait in
someone else that he wishes to deny in himself. They suppress
the knowledge that theyhave the same trait and externalize blame on
the other person. Another form of
projection is to transfer the arrows and slings of life onto
'bad luck' or 'fate.' People whoproject often have other defenses
such as Overgeneralized Thinking, which is the habitof making
statements that emphasize that things are always that way.
Blaming: defense mechanism to avoid taking personal
responsibility for the situation
Grudge Holding: People who harbor grudges have deeper issues of
mistrust.Grudge holding is a learned behavior that is prevalent in
some families. Grudges fan thefire of anger as a way of trying to
feel safe by feeling powerful in fantasy. Grudge holdingappears to
be a way to attempt to control negative situations by retaining the
angryfeelings. Grudges are a habit of feeling self righteous and
distance one's self instead of
dealing with the real problem.
Doomsday Thinking: where they person worrying about the worst
thing that couldpossibly happen. Doomsday thinking causes you to
live with the threat of impendingdisaster
Revenge Thoughts: basically selfish in nature with the belief of
'I have the right tohurt him because he injured me.' which is based
on beliefs of 'It's not fair.' Revenge is 'Ican enjoy thoughts of
hurting another person in my mind to get back at him.'
Revengecreates a pseudo self esteem of feeling good about one's
self by relishing ideas ofharming another person
Black and White Thinking: There is no understanding of where the
other personis coming from, only staunch judgment. 'I'm right and
you are wrong' always leads to a'lose-lose' situation.
2. HISTORY OF REVENGE
Vendettas or "blood feuds" are cycles of provocation and
retaliation, fuelled bya burning desire for revenge and carried out
over long period of time byfamilial or tribal groups; they were an
important part of many pre-industrialsocieties, especially in the
Mediterranean region
In Japan's feudal past, the Samurai class upheld the honour of
their family,clan, or lord through the practice of revenge killings
( katakiuchi). These
killings could also involve the relatives of an offender. Today,
katakiuchi ismost often pursued by peaceful means, but revenge
remains an important partof Japanese culture.
In the fashion of the contrapasso punishments awaiting those
consigned toDante's Inferno, some have attempted to turn the crime
against the criminal, inclever and often gruesome ways.
Modern Western legal systems usually state as their goal the
reform or re-education of a convicted criminal. Even in these
systems, however, society is
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conceived of as the victim of a criminal's actions, and the
notion of vengeancefor such acts is an important part of the
concept of justice a criminal "payshis debt to society".
The motto ofScotland is Nemo Me Impune Lacessit, Latin for 'None
shallprovoke/injure me with impunity'. The origin of the motto
reflects the feudalclan system of ancient Scotland, particularly
the Highlands.
During the Middle Ages, most would not regard an insult or
injury as settleduntil it was avenged, or, at the least, paid for
hence, the extensive Anglo-Saxon system ofwergild (literally,
"man-price") payments, which placed acertain monetary value upon
certain acts of violence in an attempt to limit thespiral of
revenge by codifying the responsibility of a malefactor.
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