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How To make Your Ex
Boyfriend Want You Back
And
Keep Him Devoted To You
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THE STEPS YOU PERFORM AFTER A BRAKUP WILL EITHR RUIN OR FOSTER
YOUR CHANCES TO GET YOUR EX BOYFRIEND BACK.
The first few days following the breakup are the painful ones you can go
through. During these days, you feel confused, irritated, and hopeless. These
feelings are normal, and you are not the only person who suffers from them.
Many women like you have got their shares of the heartbreak, and they
have come back from it stronger than
before. These women are now happily
married to their loved men, despite of
all the relationship problems they
have gone through on their way to
their present happiness.
You are not alone; many women have
been in your very situation. They have
fought with their loved ones, broken
up with them and spent time apart of
each other. Yet today these same
women are enjoying their time with their partners, because they have
learned the right ways to deal with the relationship problems.
You also can learn these techniques of keeping your man devoted to you. So
don’t be hopeless, it is possible to turn the situation in your favour, and
make your relationship with your man better than ever before. Don’t give in
to despair and loneliness; they won’t help you to get out of the painful
situation you are in.
At this stage of your relationship, the important thing you should be aware
of is that your way of dealing with the breakup will have a great effect on
your future; at this moment ,what to do and what to say to your ex should
be your main concern.
It is of great importance, at the present moment, to control your emotions
instead of letting them controlling you. Sure thing, right now your heart
cries for a reunion with your ex, but unfortunately this is not the solution to
your current problem.
The truth is that after the break up your heart and emotions will mislead
you in the wrong direction. They are the worst guide to show you the right
path to reconnect with your ex-boyfriend.
Your instinct reaction would be to stop the pain right now, and therefore
your heart pushes you to contact your ex and do whatever your emotions
dictated to you to get
him to take you back.
Unfortunately things
don’t work that way. If
your ex has just walked
away from you then your
task is to persuade him
that he has done a
mistake by leaving you,
which requires time and
patience.
You should be aware that you cannot regain your ex attention by smooth
talking to him or showering him with gifts. While these techniques can
work with women they can’t on men. Simply because men hardly respond
to words the way women do.
When you make yourself too available to your man, he won’t see the need to
miss you or even show any interest in you. Furthermore, acting in such a
way will make your ex sees himself justified in his decision to break up with
you, as you are unable to rely on yourself to create your own happiness.
To avoid falling into this trap, you better act in a subtle way which will lead
him to doubt his decision and question himself if he took the right move by
keeping you out of his life. By relying on a few, simple, easy to use human
psychology you will succeed to turn the situation in your favor, and push
your ex-boyfriend to admit that breaking up with you was his biggest
mistake.
WRITE DOWN WHAT LED YOU AND YOUR EX TO BREAK APART. THE
SOLUTION TO YOUR PROBLEM LIES IN THE DETAILS OF THE BREAK UP.
Has your ex told you why he broke up with you? Are you convinced by the
reason of the break up? If that’s the case, then you now know which parts of
your life you need to work on; however, truth to be told in most cases the
reason given to back up the break up is often unconvincing and vague. Men
usually give hints and not the real causes of the breakup.
If that was the case with you, then do not worry you still can find the reason
on your own. You simply need to go over your relationship and honestly
point out what might lead to the break up in the first place. Don’t neglect
any details no matter how small they might appear.
Try to remember what your ex-boyfriend said and did during the last weeks
you spent together. If you find what went wrong, you will have a great
chance to put things in order.
To help you find out what caused the relationship to derail, here are the
most common breakups causes. Read them and see if your situation relates
to one of them.
Lack of compatibility
Are you compatible with your partner? Are your differences the cause
behind the breakup? We all agree that the difference of wants and desires
within the couple is essential to avoid the boredom in the relationship, but
if the difference in personality exceeds a certain level it becomes a serious
obstacle to sustain the relationship. If the incompatibility is too great
between you and your ex to the point of which it is impossible to tolerate
each other’s differences, then this may be the cause of the breakup.
In this case you should take your time in selecting your future partner, and
don’t get involved into a serious relationship until you see that you both
have sufficient common interests.
Incompatibility within the couple is the result of impatience; you had to
give yourself enough time before you take the final decision of reuniting
with a man. Let the time do his job, and show you how far you and your
partner are compatible, if after enough time you find yourself comfortable
with the man you date, and that you didn’t notice any misunderstanding
that may spoil the relationship in the future, then you can be sure that you
have found the right man who will make you happy for the rest of your life.
Negative Comments
Words are so powerful; they can either raise or destroy a relationship. So it
is important to choose the proper words during a conversation with the
partner. It leads to nowhere to belittle one’s partner, nor does make good to
complain every now and then about the partner’s mistake. You need to
accept each other differences in order to build a strong relationship.
Suspicion
Suspicion is a dangerous threat to the relationship. When your partner sees
that you trust him, he will see you as a person of great value. In contrast if
you
consistently
doubt his
behavior, and
accuse him of
misbehaving
without a clear
justification
you are only
pushing him to
look outside
the
relationship
for the peace of
mind.
Dishonesty
Lies are the great enemies to the successful relationships. In fact, telling
half-truths is the fastest way to break down trust. If your partner notices
this habit with you, he could no longer believe a word you say. He
undoubtedly will become more suspicious of every movement of you; which
in turn will lead to lose the “trust factor” in the relationship.
Although, it might be difficult to see where you went wrong in the
relationship after the breakup, especially now that you are feeling
threatened and vulnerable; you should try to be honest with yourself. If you
turn your back on your mistakes you cannot solve them, you will only keep
repeating them and falling times and times again in the same trap.
The No. 1 Mistake Women Make When Trying To Get Their Man Back
Saving a relationship that is falling apart is very hard on the emotional level,
and you need to act accordingly to your brain and not your emotions. Most
of the techniques you are invited to put into action may appear
counterintuitive; however, these techniques are time tested, and they have
proven to be so effective in mending any broken relationship, because they
are based on fundamental human psychology.
Always be aware that your instinct and intuition cannot help you at this
stage, they are in fact the worst guide to follow during the first few days of
the breakup.
In order to get your
ex back you should
avoid this mistake at
all cost. Never act
under the dictation
of your emotions. You need to act in complete contradiction to what your
heart wants. I know that this is difficult to handle with the painful emotions
that you carry in your heart, but this method is so powerful that will help
you get your ex back in no time.
How To Get Your Man Back By Tapping Into The Very Thing That
Caused Him To Date You In The First Place.
The best way you can follow to get your boyfriend back is by recreating
attraction. Remind him of why he dated you in the first place, nicely, and
bring up memories that you've had together. So what are the things that
caused you to fall for your ex in the first place? Think back on what your ex
found attractive in you.
Find out what he loves about you the most, and focus on highlighting those
qualities. Once this is done, your ex won’t be able to help himself but feel
attracted to you once again.
It is more likely that your daily life has pushed the romance right out of
your relationship. Those things that caused you to fall in love in the first
place have been buried underneath other experiences and the changes
you’ve gone through as you’ve naturally grown.
It’s time to pull yourself out of the rubble, dust yourself off, and get back to
what made you part of this couple in the first place. What is it that attracted
you to your partner? What kinds of things
were you thinking about when you first met
your ex? Whatever it was that helped to build
the foundation of your relationship, you’ll
have to get back to it in order to reunite.
So it’s of great importance that you spend a
little time looking for the positives in your
relationship. Do not ever think about the negative side of your ex. You just
cannot escape from a boring relationship when you have dated your ex for a
long time and that is why you need to always think about the good things
about him to grow the romance that you used to have. Take a few moments
to think about the qualities that really made your relationship work.
Get Into Contact With Your Ex Boyfriend When the Time Is Ready
Probably, the question that pops up in your head right now is “when is the
right time to approach my ex again?” Well, the best time to get into contact
with your ex is when you feel emotionally balanced. Which means you
should not call, text or email him until you feel an assured emotional state
that does not leave any regrets.
Give yourself a little more time, until one day while you are enjoying your
hobby or exchanging laughs with your friends, a small quiet voice spoke to
your heart saying , “ it’s the time to call him; I feel stronger than ever before,
I am sure it is going to work this time.”
At that time, you were free, and without any fear of rejection. Because you
gave yourself the time to rebuild your self-confidence, you gave your
feelings the chance to calm down and not fall victim to the intense feelings.
A good advice when you know you will be meeting with your ex again is to
anticipate any questions or remarks he may make. Think of a smart way on
how to get by any unpleasant comments and questions – you’re not here to
fight, you’re here to mend a lost relationship.
When you talk to your ex use a warm tone of voice and be open and
inviting. Don't fall into the trap of breaking down and ranting on about how
much you miss him.
Another mistake you
should be aware of is to
talk about your wrong
doings in the past, and
vice versa. As a matter of
fact, don’t even bring up
the past. If your ex-
boyfriend wants to
discuss the past, fine. Just
keep in mind to remain
open, nice and inoffensive.
If you feel uncomfortable with what he says, change the subject of the
conversation rather than argue. You may want to say something along the
lines of, “the past is the past, but I want to concentrate the most important
part of my life on the present and look forward. “Then change the topic to
one that you both feel conformable talking about.
I hope this report has cleared up some questions and helped you know what
decision to make and which path to take. Hope you feel better, stay strong
and remember you are not alone. We are here to help you if you want to learn
more helpful advice on how to get your ex back, and be able to read your
man's mind and anticipate what he needs from you. Bob Grant (The
relationship doctor) has written a great book on the subject and you can read
more about it here.
It will help you to understand your man in a way that you've never been able
to before. This way you'll be able to influence his desires and make him want
to come back to you. This is based on techniques that have been used for
centuries as well as the latest discoveries in the field of man's psychology. In
the how to get him back Book, the relationship doctor will even reveal to you
the word-for-word script -- you can say to your 9 incredibly powerful words
man that will make him realize he simply couldn't bear to lose you!
Wishing you the relationship of your dreams,
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