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How to Flirt With Someone You Love

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Tired of your boring relationship? Need more romance in your life? Playfulness and flirtation are the solution. Learn about text flirting, g-string flirting, giggling and many other unique romantic and loving ideas that will put some spice back into your life today! Remember those days at the beginning of your relationship when intellectual tension and sexual tension radiated between you and your partner. You didn’t need to read the Kama Sutra, you were writing it. Oops…what happened? Where did the insane passion and energy go? This book will ignite the spark again. Warning: Couples who read this book often ditch work the next day and fall in love all over again!

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I think the eyes flirt most. There are so many ways to use them.Anna Held

The amount of women in London who flirt with their own husbandsis perfectly scandalous. It looks so bad. It is simply washing one's clean linen in public.

Oscar Wilde

One kind of flirtation is to boast we never flirt.François de la Rochefoucauld

There are few young women in existence who havenot the power of fascinating, if they choose to exert it.

Benjamin Disraeli, 1st Earl of Beaconsfield

And I highly recommend for all the women in the world, even if they're 71, you can never take forgranted that he loves you. It's always good to flirt with him. It's a great sport.

Salma Hayek

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Your Relationship

If your relationship is in a rut I can guarantee that one of the key ingredients missing is “playfulness.”When you first met, you were always flirting, consciously or unconsciously, in order to create intellectualtension as well as sexual tension. The combination of these two tensions ignited the flames of interest,passion and dialogue. The flow of body language, eye contact and voice intonation sent powerfulsignals to your partner that she was absolutely the most important and interesting person on the face ofthe earth for you. You stayed up all night waiting for the sunrise, intensely listening and conversing on amultitude of subjects.

Oops. What went wrong? Over time, the initial infatuation wears off and the stresses of work, parentingand life pound us back into submission. We take each other for granted and complacency becomes thenorm. This book is about how to trigger and reignite the spark with that special someone in your life.

Distance (Proxemics)

One of the easiest ways to flirt is to slightly change your body distance. This distance varies dramaticallywith each culture, but for Americans it is approximately four feet. For some European and Latin culturesthe distance is two feet. We unconsciously do a dance to keep this distance. If someone unwanted is tooclose, it feels uncomfortable. If someone of interest to you closes this gap, a plethora of different typesof responses are evoked. Edward Hall researched the phenomena across cultures and created the studyof proxemics.

While setting up a trade show, I observed a man and a woman working in an adjacent booth. They werewell dressed and totally professional. After looking at this couple for less than five seconds I told mycolleagues that these two were lovers. Everyone told me I was wrong. At about 11 AM the coupledisappeared leaving the booth unattended and came back at 2PM looking happy and flushed. My fellowworkers asked me how I could have possibly known. The answer was easy. The distance between eachof them was too close. The first lesson of flirting is to move in a bit closer for conversation.

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What is Flirting?

Wikipedia says that “flirting is an interaction between twopeople, which suggests that there is a sexual or romanticinterest that may or may not be reciprocated.” Whileflirting may take many forms, “playfulness” is almost alwaysthe common ingredient. In order to flirt you must let goand have some fun.

At some point in time, whether we care to admit it or not,we have all flirted with somebody in our lives once orperhaps on several occasions. Ironically, no one wants toadmit they are a flirt. It has a bad social connotation.Flirting can be done just for fun or to win the heart ofsomeone we love.

On the positive side, flirting is a powerful tool that can helpreignite your relationship. The ability to flirt is inherent.The skill is still there. It has just become overshadowed bythe inevitable deterioration of the “what was once therespark.”

The Text Flirt

There are many creative ways you can flirt using text on your phone. Pick up your phone now and getstarted. It may take a few tries to get your partner interested and the flow going. Once it starts, it willbe nothing but fun. Text flirting is a great way to break-up the monotony of boring meetings and classes.

Note: Make sure you have unlimited text service on your phone. Some carriers charge 60 cents a text ifyou do not have text service enabled. Most carriers charge about $10 a month for unlimited text.

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Short Words

Send only 1 to 4 words that will remind your partner of a good memory that you have shared. Forexample you may write “Cabo San Lucas” and he will answer “walk beach.” You reply “margaritasfor two.” He answers “only with you.” Try to keep it just words rather than sentences. Let yourpartner fill in the memories.

Photos

Most phones easily send photos. Send a photo of your arm or your feet and a short message of “Iam thinking about you.”

Visuals

Send text messages that create a romantic visual such as “Wine and brie with you at the top of theEiffel tower”, “warm fire - raining outside”, “sitting on a beach - fog horn blowing”, “holding handsat the opera”, “huddled together for warmth in the London fog”, “espresso for two at the sidewalkcafé”, “talking for hours waiting for the sunset”, “floating in the ocean waiting for the sunrise”, “along walk in the forest”, “Sunday brunch listening to the seagulls” or “rainbows dancing off theBaccarat crystal in the penthouse suite.”

Word Games

Play word games that stimulate thought. I would like to kiss your _ _ _ S (three letters) and your _ __ _ s (four letters) and your _ _ _ _ _ (5 letters) and your _ _ _ _ _ _ s (six letters). The answers yourpartner sends back will likely reveal some interesting desires.

Romance Novel

Create your own romance novel. You send a few lines of a story and she adds to it. Note: Guys, theidea of most romance novels is to be romantic and sensual. If all of your comments are graphic andlewd, this romance novel may not get very far. Instead add in a character who is a protector,handsome, who can save the day, who is masculine but can cause women to swoon with therecitation of poetry. Try describing a man who can have long intelligent conversations and evenlonger nights.

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Word Scrambles

Send word scrambles.Eetm em at xis ightton ta Paneros

(Meet me at six tonight at Paneros)

Compliments

Send short compliments such as “I noticed the perfume you were wearing this morning” or “Wow!That new Italian suit you bought gets my attention.”

Decryption Phrases

If you like shopping at Victoria’s Secret together then send one word - “Victoria” - and let yourpartner figure out the total meaning.

The possibilities for text flirting are endless. Send me your new and innovative text flirting games andclever texts to [email protected]. I will include them in my next eBook update.

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Fun Ways to Flirt With Your Lover

Below are many examples of how to flirt. Be jovial and playful. Notice that all the examples are notexplicit. You always want to leave as much as possible to the imagination.

Eye Flirting

If all else fails, eye flirting won’t let you down. It is a myththat flirting has to be only physical. Let your eyes do thetrick. Eyes are the most powerful tool that you can use tocatch the object of your attention. Look at him straightand imagine yourself winking when in reality you are not.Allow some time for him to capture that gesture forhimself. Italian men and women are famous for displayingno inhibition in artfully appreciating each other with theireyes.

Distance Flirting

Think of a circle around your partner of about 4 feet. Outside of this circle is the social space for casualconversation and interaction with colleagues. Inside the circle is the intimate space. You can either stepinto this area or lean into it. You can also temporarily enter the intimate circle, make a light touch orwhisper something provocative or sweet, and the move back out into the social area.

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The Cooking Gloves Flirt

The next time you cook dinner put on a pair of long blackgloves or lace gloves while you do the preparation. Isuspect you will get his attention. Brush the gloves acrosshis face as you are serving.

The Garbage Can Flirt

People spend years in therapy trying to resolve the age old dilemma of who takes out the garbage. Butthe problem can be solved in 60 seconds. Tell him to take out the garbage, that there is a special note ontop of the can, and that you will be waiting for him to come back.

The G String Flirt – Reach your hands around to the back of your pants. Tell him you are wearing a red Gstring but you can’t remember whether or not it has a bow on the top of it. Then leave and go shopping.

The Raincoat Flirt – A girlfriend once called me at 11 PM and said she was coming to my house wearingnothing but a raincoat. She then hung up the phone. She kept me waiting for two hours – a long twohours.

The Cologne Flirt

Call her and say that you have just purchased three different types of colognes. Each of them has beensprayed on a different part of your body.

The Note Flirt

The possibilities for flirting with notes are unlimited. Write a short note and put it on the mirror, thedash of her car or the back of her ATM card.

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The Whisper Flirt

Lean in close to her in a public space and whisper something. Whispers will focus her attention. Think ofsomething to say that will spark her imagination.

The Silly Flirt

Be silly, tickle her. Chase each other around the park like children on a playground. Go ahead and splashin the waves. Roll down a big hill holding each other. Be playful. Laugh so hard with each other thatyour stomach hurts.

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The Padlock Flirt

In the city of Kiev, Ukraine, there is a bridge for lovers which is covered in hundreds and hundreds ofpadlocks. Each padlock is inscribed with a wedding date or a promise of endless love and then attachedto the railing of the bridge. Give her a padlock covered in hearts and your names. Find someplacetogether to lock in your love forever.

The Screaming Flirt

I believe, as some psychologists do, that a special bond is deeply formed between a couple thatexperiences together the exhilaration of intense excitement and or fear, i.e., something that evokes ourprimal adrenalin response. Hold hands, look deeply into each other’s eyes and scream as loud as youcan as the roller coaster plummets, the hang glider floats or the bungee cord allows you to plummetseveral hundred feet together.

The Poetry Flirt

Read her a few short phrases of romantic poetry as she goes out the door for work. Better yet, read hersomething you wrote.

The Singing Flirt

Call her up and sing her a few phrases of a song that you both enjoy. Don’t worry about being a perfectsinger – it is the thought that counts. I like to sing “Ain’t No Sunshine When She’s Gone” or “I Can’t LiveIf Living is Without You.”

The YouTube Flirt

The possibilities here are incredible. Send her the video to a romantic song like “Slow Like Honey” or anexotic travel spot. There are thousands of trailers of romantic moments from famous movies.

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Create Your Own Incredible Flirts

While I am happy to share many possibilities for flirting, ultimately the most effective flirts come fromyour own imagination. Set aside some time to enjoy the solace of a warm tub and let your imaginationrun wild. Keep a notebook so your brilliance is not lost. Quiet moments will plant the seeds and give youample time to create your next flirt.

Giggling

Giggle a lot. While others may find this act pretty annoying if naturally orchestrated and polished, yourpartner may succumb to its infectious, light-hearted tone. Break free. Laugh at his jokes with gusto andhis confidence will sky rocket. Make your giggle distinctive, make it ticklish, make it SEXY! Being happy isa very important part of flirting.

The Flirter’s Secrets

In truth, most flirtatious acts are simply everyday acts done with gusto, exaggeration and flair. Flip yourhair back and laugh. Turn sideways and take off your jacket slowly. Smile at her five times bigger thannormal from across the room. Exaggerate all of your expressions for pouting, a sultry look, love andattentiveness. Close the distance between the two of you. Lower your voice so only she can hear you.

Femme Fatales and Flirting Goddesses

Femme Fatale means literally a fatal woman. She is mysterious, can be a little evil and is oftenunpredictable. The mysterious part is the hook that lures men to her. Probably no one was more of aflirting goddess than Sophia Loren. She was fond of saying “Sex appeal is 50% what you’ve got, and 50%what people think you’ve got”.

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Getting Started

To start flirting again in your relationship involves some risk. There is not a 100% guarantee that yourpartner will instantly respond, especially if your relationship has been shaky for a long time.However, persistence and practice will have great rewards. To be truly successful you need to begin

feeling good about yourself again. Practice laughing, playing and being silly in all of your dailyinteractions. When you can laugh and play, the pent up dam of creativity will burst open and flirting,romance, passion and love will once again radiate from you. It will create the glow of love that youonce had at the beginning of your relationship. This is just a guide to flirting. There are no rules. Youshould follow your instincts. Make good eye contact. Show genuine interest. Move in closer thannormal and let your actions be spontaneous. Most importantly, enjoy boundless happiness with theone you love.

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I do not need the theatre or movies.I need only your lips to kiss in the night.

Russian folk song

The moment eternal - just that and no more -When ecstasy's utmost we clutch at the core

While cheeks burn, arms open, eyes shut, and lips meet!Robert Browning

There's this place in me where your fingerprints still rest, your kissesstill linger, and your whispers softly echo. It's the place where a part of

you will forever be a part of me.Gretchen Kemp

The most eloquent silence; that of two mouths meeting in a kiss.Unknown

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The Passionate Kiss

Imagine yourself swept away in a passionate and sensual kiss. Your heart races, your lips tingle, yourbody shakes and the excitement builds. It is an incredible and irresistible experience that makes you feelsensual and alive. The external sounds and troubles of the world melt away, and there is only you andyour partner. Your kisses become a doorway to your connecting on a higher level and a powerful symbolof caring.

Passionate and sensual kisses explore and experiment with all of the senses. Variety is the spice of lifeand the hallmark of a couple that is free and growing with their feelings.

Our psyches crave touch, love, affection and admiration. A passionate kiss in its most beautiful form fillsall of these needs and causes our emotions to soar to new levels.

Unknown to most people, our faces, lips, mouth and tongue contain an incredible amount of sensoryreceptors. In fact, hundreds of times more sensitive than the areas we normally consider erogenouszones. We have the ability to differentiate at a very granular level hot and cold, sweet and sour, painand pleasure, wet and dry and varying pressures, from a barely perceptible caress to hard pressure.

From a very light tantalizing brush of the lips on the check to a deep French kiss there is an incredibleplethora of sensations we can experience. Each shared sensation on the continuum brings us closertogether in a euphoric bond.

According to the Urban Dictionary, kissing is the act of expressing desire and passion for another. Kissing can bestrong and passionate, very heated and/or backed by strong desire. Or it can be soft and gentle such that there isa longing for more, but in this case less is more. A kiss is an act both partners can rejoice over, as it creates afeeling of togetherness that psychologist William Cane (The Art of Kissing) describes as the ability for lovers to“lock their minds” and create privacy even in a crowded place.

Think of a kiss as a means of romantic communication. With intense eye contact, entire messages can passbetween you and your lover without a mere word being uttered. When combined with Tantric rituals kissing andtouching transcend all normally blocked channels between couples.

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Start Slowly

A passionate kiss is a symphony that begins slowly and builds in tempo and intensity. There is no need to be in arush. The Kama Sutra describes more than 30 types of kisses that explore all aspects of sensuality. Like the playingof many movements, your dance of kisses will ebb and flow in power and flavor.

Put your hands gently on your partner’s face and lightly brush your lips together. This is the introductory kiss of anew relationship or the familiar reconnection for those that have been together for a long time. Feel the softnessand warmth of each other’s lips. Let the world melt away and your senses open up like a flower blooming in themorning. Be totally present in the moment. Be one with the kiss. There is no script for what is about to happennext. The passionate kiss is the meandering of a river flowing fast and then slow and then faster again.

Use your hands to gently pull your lover’s face and lips closer to yours. Feel the change in pressure and savor themoment, so you can hold it forever in your memory. It is now a journey of exploration to discover what each ofyou likes, how you like to kiss and how you want to be kissed. It is difficult to guess thoughts so guide yourpartner gently with or without words to the places you want to go. There is no right or wrong, it is simply whatyou enjoy. It is a creation of pleasure with no boundaries

The Strawberry

Step back and look deeply into each other’s eyes. Smile to share your joy.Take a strawberry out of a glass of champagne and cut it in half. Rub it onyour partner’s lips and let her sense the sweetness, the coolness and thebubbly sensations. Run your tongue gently on her lips to inhale her taste andher scent. Our scent is the chemistry that draws us together. Hidden in thescent are the pheromones of the most primal nature that have drawn couplestogether for thousands of years.

Squeeze juice from the strawberry on your fingers and massage the inside ofher lips and tongue. Vary your touch. There are thousands of sensualreceptors here. Tune in to what she likes by watching changes in breathingand pulse. Is she coming closer to you or moving away? Is there a smile on herface? Is her face flushed? Discover the nooks and crannies of her mouth. Beplayful, creative and inventive.

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The Flirt

Step back again and be flirtatious and playful.Remember this is not some serious, boringproject at work that you have been dreading allweek. This is your special moment to be fun,sensual and romantic. Bat your eyelashes, wink,give the “come on, I want more” look, smilebroadly, spin around and let your hair flow up inthe wind, unbutton the top button of yourblouse, take off your earrings, do a few poseswith your head back and one leg outstretched,look sultry, kiss your fingers one by one as hewatches or dance playfully around him. It is yourtime to be creative and find ways to demonstrate

that you are attracted and that you want the kissing to continue. Find ways to make him long for you.

Inspiration from Movies

If you have ever wondered what a passionate kiss looks like thereare great examples in many movies from Romeo and Juliet toPride and Prejudice. Watch Kiss Me Like You Mean It for famousscenes from many movies that exemplify strong eye contact,smiling, adoring looking, sensual hand gestures and a wide rangeof kissing styles

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The Tango

The Tango is one of the most beautiful dances in the world. It is romance inmotion and very hot to watch. The beauty is in the emotional and sexualtension of the partners. There is electricity in the air. Your kisses are atango of life, a dance of Make it instead the flight of the bumble bee. Moveto one sweet spot and then move slowly on to the next area of exploration.Vary your positions. Spin her around in a whirlwind dance. Have him hanghis head over the side of the bed and kiss him upside down. Let the showerrun full force over both of your heads and kiss her through the waterfall.Watch the reflection of the water droplets on his face. Brush your eyelashestogether so they become intertwined - the tongues, souls and your mostintimate and private feelings. Tango dancers spin apart and then cometogether. They seduce and mesmerize each other. Their focus is absolutely100% on each other. There are no distractions. Watch these Argentineandancers to be inspired.

Tantalizing with Things That Smell Good

Crush a few rose petals between your fingers and let her smell the aroma as you massage her neck and the top ofthe chest with them. The velvety texture of the petals will trigger many sensory receptors and the smell will waftupwards. Hold petals over her head and let them fall one at a time into her beautiful hair. The smell of roses is awell known euphoria stimulator. They are both beautiful and seducing.

The Tantric Mirror

When two souls touch each other they reflect like mirrors. Watch his breathing and put your breathing exactly insync. Ask him to touch and kiss you exactly how you touch and kiss him. You lead and he follows. You are thedirector of an intimate scene. He becomes your exact reflection in the universe. It is as if you are touchingyourself. There are no longer two people – you are now one. As excitement builds keep matching your breathing.

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He may need to speed up his respirations a little and you may need to slow down. Bite his lips gently and thenbrush them with your check. Make him feel the range of sensations from the tiniest amount of discomfort to theelectrical charge of a gentle pass of your lips against his. Run your fingernails across his chest and down his arms.Kiss his fingers one by one while massaging the palms. Run your fingernails up the inside of the arm. Now let himlead and you follow. The first time you try this exercise it may feel a little awkward but with a little practice,believe me, you will think you have died and floated up to heaven. It is the total release of having to tell someonewhat you want.

Throw Away the Script

Throw away the script and create a new symphony. The death of a passionate and sensual kiss is predictability.Boring is not the goal. As you open the doors to your passion and playfulness, incredible and beautiful energy willradiate from you. This is the look of love. People can spot it from the other side of the room.

The French Kiss

The French kiss was probably not actually invented in France but they get the credit. It is the playful darting andexploration of the tongues that crescendos into a beautiful and soulful building of passion. It is the transfer ofpheromones in the saliva, driving the deep primal instincts to the surface. Start with just the tips of the tonguesand savor the textures and tastes. Make your initial kisses not too invasive and deep.

From folklore, in every corner of the globe the French kiss is known as the vibrant transmission mechanism thatbrings together the souls. Imagine your souls standing on either side of a large lake. The French kiss is the canoethat transports you slowly across the lake. The closer your souls get to each other the more magnificent andpowerful your energy becomes.

Suck gently on his tongue. It will send millions of pulses of sensation through his body. Explore the inside of hislips and the roof of his mouth. Let your creativity flow from your mouth to his. Transmit delightful and lovingmessages without words. Let your vibrations ripple through him and vice versa.

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Letting Go

The dancers are now whirling around the bonfire. Their bodies radiate intense heat, perspiration and passion. Thepulse of 100 conga and djembe drummers build their rhythm into a frenzy that is exhilarating. The groundvibrates with the underlying steady beat of the tumba drums while the lead drums sing on the wind. Hands flyand move in every direction in perfect synchronicity. The air is exploding with energy. It is time for you to let go.Lift her into your arms like a powerful protector. Kiss her deeply, passionately and sensually like it is the last kissyou will ever share. Create your own pulse and fire. Feel the radiance of her skin against yours. Look into eachother’s eyes and feel the fireworks. ENJOY!

Putting It All Together

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Kissing is about fun, pleasure, closeness, sharing and enjoying moments together. The more of the five sensesthat you evoke the more imbedded the memories of a great time will be forever etched in your mind.

Experiment with making your kisses literally delicious, hot or cold. Play with an ice cube in your mouth and giveyour partner a cold, sharp kiss. Challenge each other to come up with new sensual ideas and apply them in aplayful spirit.

Kissing does not always have to be taken to the next level. You can just kiss for the love of kissing, cuddling,embracing in a tender hug, long intimate conversation or romance. Between kisses you can smile, make smalljokes, convey messages just from your looks, make your time together unique and special.

While nature certainly controls some of the underlying chemistry between two people, there are many things youcan do to enhance the senses.

Hear the Romance

Play music that you as a couple find romantic. This is especially true of songs that already bring back previousmemories of passion in the moonlight. What song was playing when you met each other? Are you in the moodfor tender cuddling? Is it a Kenny G. night or wild frantic sweaty dancing with Nelly?

Vary your voice - does she like when you whisper slowly and in deep vibrating tones? Do your soft throaty soundssignal him that more kissing is what you want?

Experiment with making some of your kisses quiet and others noisy.

Smell the Scent

There is a reason that billions of dollars are spent each year on perfumes, colognes and lavender bath lotions.Smells create euphoria in our nervous systems. Many of these products are impregnated with pheromones,reputed to have aphrodisiac type properties.

Check out the scent of Fantastique made by Romantasy. Mexican snake pheromones that have no smell areblended with flower oils. This is in my opinion the most alluring smell I have ever encountered. Warning: A fewdrops rubbed on both of your wrists might spark a night you won’t forget.

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Bring home a sprig of basil and leave it out in the kitchen. It will slowly fill your house with a delicious smell. Droplavender or rose flowers into the bath waters and burn scented candles. Play with a few drops of essential oils likejasmine in heated water.

Taste Each Other

Probably nothing has a wider variety of experiences than taste. From thesweetness of a ripe fig shared with both of your tongues inside it, to chilipepper powder in hot chocolate that fires up body heat, the choices areunlimited. Foods such as chocolates and wine are known stimulants ofpassion centers and releasers of inhibitions. Give yourself permission toexplore the plethora of tastes of erotic and exotic foods and your partner.

See Beauty

See the beauty in your partner – not just the physical beauty but the beauty of his soul. Enjoy the light sparking inhis hair or the curve of his muscular shoulders. Inhale each visual delight of the aura surrounding him. Feel thetingle in your body. Let the joy of your sensations grow in a smile that lights up your face and radiates love intothe room. Smiling releases endorphins which stimulate the pleasure centers.

Touch Sensually

Body contact is an important part of the passionate and sensual kiss. Touching is essential. Run your fingersthrough your sweetheart’s hair, caress the neck, face, arms, and back. If you’re not a very bold person, just putyour hands around your partner’s neck or waist. Don’t choreograph it, let it flow. Experimenting with every typeof touch has incredible rewards. Remember the goal is pleasure - for both of you. Contact can be physical as well

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as visual, like deep long looks into the eyes or kissing with your eyes wide open – it makes everything moreintense and will bring you closer together.

Special Places and Setting the Mood

A passionate and sensual kiss can be greatly enhanced if some thought is put into setting the mood andsurrounding yourselves with beauty. Move away from places like the bedroom or living room couch where boringhabits and routines are ingrained. Go to a café - one that overlooks the sunset on the breaking waves or a quaintbed and breakfast.

Dual Massage

Many spas allow both you and your partner to layside by side while being pampered. You can enjoythe rare hour of relaxation next to someone thatyou love. Find a place that has mineral hot springswhere you can soak for hours after the massage.

Lavender Bubble Bath

Take a long hot bath in a tub filled with lavender oil and bubbles. The lavender oil emits an intoxicating scent thatcauses total relaxation. The stress will flow out of you into the water allowing you inner feeling to awaken. Letyour thoughts float in the sky while you imagine sensual and romantic fantasies.

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Conversation

Take a long walk and spend time together to have great conversations and good communication. Hold hands andrun along the trail laughing and playing like children. Listen before speaking. Let the words and ideas flowingbetween you be the foreplay before your passionate and sensual kiss.

Victoria’s Secret

Go shopping together at victoriassecret.com. Show each other what is appealing. Order a few things you like fora future play date. Push out of your comfort zone and find attire that will generate excitement and admiration.

Love Nest

Chances are that the first night you spent together was in a nice bedroom with satin sheets and candles burning.If the love nest is now piled high with laundry, school books and broken toys it is time to make some changes. Buysome candles scented with vanilla, musk or jasmine. These are known love, emotion enhancers. Pop over toamazon.com and get some new satin sheets for less than $25. Spend a few dollars on lotions, potions andmassage oil. Drop some nice flowers in a vase and find some music for the DVD players. Lay out a couple of highquality, wonderfully soft cotton bathrobes to slip into when it is cold.

The World is Now Yours

At the end of the day there is no right or wrong way to kiss. It is what feels good for both of you. Experiment withsilly ideas as kissing each other when hanging upside down from a climbing tree. Climb to the top of the highesthill and spin each other around until you fall on the ground laughing. Imagine how you could kiss each other from30 feet across the room. What kind of secret signal could you send that says kiss me passionately and sensuallynow?

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Next Steps

Free 30-Minute Romance Makeover Coaching Session: Do you want to learn more about how to

apply these ideas to create a spark and some spice in your relationship? Join me for a free private 30-minute confidential coaching session on Skype chat. Send email to [email protected]

Please join my mailing list at http://www.globalspeakerforce.com. I will send you more great ideas to spiceup your relationship and keep you out of the rut. If you have questions or comments write [email protected]. Of course I always love to receive success stories and to hear about thenew and innovative ideas you have found to make your relationship the most caring, passionate, sensual andloving in the world.

Would you like me to speak at your next event? I can present “Romance Makeover – A Passionate Tango forTwo” in 30 and 60-minute formats. This eBook is a subset of the material that I have to present.

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Editor in Chief – Catalina OlariuGraphics – Rezowanur RahmanPhotos – DreamsTime

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