How To Be Successful In Life

What is success in your mind ?

• The way a lot of people think, success should be defined as follows:

In my view, however, a much more sensible definition of success is:

Success is about getting all that you wanted to have. It's finding that you have achieved your goals or fulfilled your plans and it's waking up in the morning feeling victorious and happy !

How to be successful ?•The only thing you need to do to succeed is to do exactly what successful people did.

Goal Setting•Goals must be challenging but achievable

•Goals must be time limited

•Goals must be measurable ambassador learning 3 languages mastering French •Be flexible in setting the goal

• Most people vastly overestimate what they can do in a week and vastly underestimate what they can do in a year.

• Divide your day into a number of zones

• Free zones• Have long term plans• Set priorities

Time Management

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Revision Assignment

PERSONAL ALTITUDES

1. TAKE RESPONSIBILITIES

- When we have power to choose our experience, we need to accept responsibility for this.

- Not everything comes our ways is a direct result of own thinking but is a reflection of our thinking.

- Behavior is a natural outcome of our mental images.

- If we allows others to ride roughshod over us, then we have to blame.

2. BE A GOOD LEADER

- We must have a good leadership skills.- Leadership is an art and each of us needs

to find our own approach it.- We need to understand how to lead

ourselves, means that having a compass, a direction which guides all our actions.

- We need first and foremost to lead by examples, making it clear what our values are and that we should live by them.

- A good leader will lead quietly and subtly, from rear, without fuss, without fanfare.

- The Tao Te Ching, is ascribed to “ Laozi”,  whose historical existence has been a matter of scholastic debate. His name, which means "Old Master", has only fueled controversy on this issue.

‘A good soldier does not inspire fear;A good fighter does not display aggression;A good conqueror does not engage in battle;A good leader does not exercise authority.

This is the value of unimportance;This is how to win the cooperation of others;This to how to build the same harmony that is in nature.’

3. NEVER STOP LEARNING

- Learning is the fundamental activity in a successful and purposeful life.

- If we fail to learn means that we are die.

- Life gives us endless opportunities to learn, the more difficult the situation, the more we are likely to learn.

- We can learn from others peoples, learn from the things happening around us.

SELF- CONFIDENCE Self confidence is the difference between

feeling unstoppable and feeling scared out of your wits.

1. Be thankful for what you have.

- A lot of the times, at the root of insecurity and lack of confidence is a feeling of not having enough of something, whether it's emotional validation, good luck, money, etc.

- By acknowledging and appreciating

what you do have, you can combat the feeling of being incomplete and unsatisfied. Finding that inner peace will do wonders for your confidence.

 

2. LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND SMILE

- Studies surrounding what's called the "facial feedback theory" suggest that the expressions on your face can actually encourage your brain to register certain emotions.

- So by looking in the mirror and smiling every day, you might feel happier with yourself and more confident in the long run.

3. STICK TO YOUR PRINCIPLES

- It might be tough, but if you don't have something you can believe in, you don't have anything. If you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything.

- No matter what's happened in your life, you can always lay claim to the fact that from this day forward, you've followed your principles to the best of your ability.

CONCLUSION

1. BOUNCE BACK FROM YOUR MISTAKE

- Remember that no one is 100 percent perfect. Even the most confident people have insecurities. At some point in any of our lives, we may feel we lack something. That is reality. Learn that life is full of bumps down the road.

2. IDENTIFY YOUR SUCCESSES

- Everyone is good at something, so discover the things at which you excel, then focus on your talents. Give yourself permission to take pride in them. Give yourself credit for your successes. -Express yourself, whether it's through art, music, writing, etc.

- Everyone is born with talents and strengths. You can develop and excel in yours. Plus, adding a variety of interests to your life will not only make you more confident, but it will increase your chances of meeting compatible friends!

THANK YOU!