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The Right Approach
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Holy Old Orthodox Catholic Archdiocese
Old Orthodox Catholic Church
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How To Approach Meet And Befriend People Around You
Approaching strangers and people you barely know can be really scary especially if you are not a very
sociable person. However, it is very helpful to learn people skills because they can help you in building
your career and your personality.
Learning how to approach is very important. It will help you a lot in the future because you can have a
bigger circle and have lots of connections. It can help you a lot in your social life and career life. If you
want to know how you can approach people, particularly strangers or people you do not meet so often,
here are some tips for you.
The first thing you have to do is to let you of your pride. A lot of people fail to approach others because
they think so highly of themselves. It is okay to be proud of yourself however if it is already too much
and if it is affecting your relationship with people, it will be best to drop it and start being humble.
Maybe you are afraid of being rejected or being disliked. But do not worry. Even if they do not like you,
you still have billions of other people in the world that you can meet and befriend.
The second thing you need to do is to learn how to start a conversation. Having a conversation is
required when you approach people because nothing will happen if you just stand side by side with each
other saying nothing. Do not always wait for people to talk with you. You need to take the initiative to
start the connection.
The third important thing is to keep the conversation simple. If you are in a social gathering and you are
meeting a person for the first time, you will not want to have a conversation about politics, economics
and other difficult topics. It is better to keep the conversation simple and generic then gradually go to
complicated talks. You can talk about the event you are both at or you can talk about the weather. If you
have the same interests, talk about them to build rapport with each other.
The fourth important thing to remember is to dress accordingly. Let us not be hypocrites and let us
acknowledge that people do judge others based on physical appearance. If you do not want to be pre-
judged, you should dress accordingly depending on the situation. Be casual but not too casual. If you are
meeting people in a conference, you need to dress smartly and neatly.
The fifth thing is to let go of fear. A lot of people are very shy making it difficult for them to approach
people and talk with them. If you are also afraid of being with people you do not know that much, you
can create a habit of talking with strangers one at a time. The 30-day challenge will be very effective
because it lets you create a habit and helps you overcome your fear. Challenge yourself and talk with at
least one stranger everyday for a 30-day period.
The sixth tip is to go out alone. Of course, it is always fun to go out and attend events with friends.
However, there is a tendency that you will only communicate with your friend and will not make an
effort to meet other people. This is why you need to learn to attend events on your own from time to
time. This way, you have no choice but to approach others or others can approach you.
His Eminence The Patriarch
Sir. Archbishop Michael
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