Here are the songs we sang this Sunday. This shows

the song name, the artist who performed the song, and

the cd that contains the song.

Oceans (Where Feet May Fail) – Hillsong United –

Zion (Deluxe Edition)

At Your Name – Phil Wickham – Response

Victor’s Crown – Darlene Zschech – Revealing Jesus

None But Jesus – Hillsong United – United We Stand

I Surrender All - HYMN

FOR YOUR HUSBAND

Ephesians 5:33

UNCONDITIONAL RESPECT—

Red Bull

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• Ephesians 5:33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband

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• Ephesians 5:33 • Unconditional Love: o Initiating love oSacrificial love oServing love oNourishing love oValuing love

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•Energizing Cycle

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•Draining Cycle

Unconditional Respect: An Oxymoron?

• Ephesians 5:33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband

Unconditional Respect: An Oxymoron?

• Ephesians 5:33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband

• 1 Peter 2:17 Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the emperor.

Unconditional Respect: An Oxymoron?

• National study, 400 men: oTo be left alone and unloved in the

world oTo feel inadequate and disrespected

by everyone

Unconditional Respect: An Oxymoron?

• National study, 400 men: oTo be left alone and unloved in the

world oTo feel inadequate and disrespected

by everyone

Unconditional Respect: An Oxymoron?

• Ephesians 5:33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband

Giving Respect-The Do’s:

• Do encourage & believe in him

Giving Respect-The Do’s:

• Do encourage & believe in him oVerbally tell him what you appreciate in

him oWrite him notes oText him oUse birthdays and anniversaries to

express what you appreciate about him

Giving Respect-The Do’s:

• Do encourage & believe in him • Do appreciate him

Giving Respect-The Do’s:

• Do encourage & believe in him • Do appreciate him • Do give input sensitively & respectfully

Giving Respect-The Do’s:

• Do encourage & believe in him • Do appreciate him • Do give input sensitively & respectfully • Do build him up in public, including in

front of your children

Giving Respect-The Do’s:

• Do encourage & believe in him • Do appreciate him • Do give input sensitively & respectfully • Do build him up in public, including in

front of your children • Do ask him what communicates respect

& disrespect

Giving Respect-The Don’ts:

• Don’t try to control him

Giving Respect-The Don’ts:

• Don’t try to control him • Don’t constantly criticize and correct

him

Giving Respect-The Don’ts:

• Don’t try to control him • Don’t constantly criticize and correct

him o Ephesians 4:29

Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.

Giving Respect-The Don’ts:

• Don’t try to control him • Don’t constantly criticize and correct

him • Don’t say or do anything in public that

would put him down or embarrass him

Giving Respect-The Don’ts:

• Don’t use sarcasm to subtly put him down

Giving Respect-The Don’ts:

• Don’t use sarcasm to subtly put him down oProverbs 26:18-19

18 Like a maniac shooting flaming arrows of death 19 is one who deceives their neighbor and says, “I was only joking!”

Giving Respect-The Don’ts:

• Don’t use sarcasm to subtly put him down

• Don’t nag him • Don’t deprive him of sex to punish him

Conclusion

Energize your husband with

unconditional respect