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rub your lower lip for a moment. Its the hand-to-mouth gesture youre emulating, you

see, and not the specific thing shes done. Emulating her gestures, as opposed to directly

copying them, allows the fact that youre doing the same things to slip under her radar

of conscious thought and instead be picked up and processed by her subliminal,

subconscious thought process which is the same type of thought used to decide

whether or not she likes and is attracted to you.

Speech Speed & Rhythm

This method of mirroring actually falls under the verbal category of communication, but

its effectiveness in boosting the rapport and emotional connection between you and a

girl is just as powerful as the non-verbal mirroring techniques above.

10 minutes or so into your conversation with a girl, get a feel for the way shes using her

voice and speech pattern. Is she speaking slowly, quickly, a little of both? Also, whats

her speech rhythm like? Does she sometimes start out speaking quite slowly then

quicken up as she finishes the comment shes making?

Your goal is to subtly mirror her speech pattern and rhythm. So take note of the volume

shes using as you talk and the pace with which shes speaking and incorporate what you

notice into the way you talk back to her.

Word Choice

This type of mirroring is especially effective in silently building the idea in the girls mind

that, although she cant quite put her finger on it, you two really have something in

common and seem to get along really well. It involves listening out for special words the

girl uses quite regularly when describing people, places and situations and peppering the


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same word or words into your own comments and descriptions. For example, the girl

might tend to use the word great a lot when talking. Oh, it was great! The place we

visited was amazing, with great big statues and monuments and stuff. Also, listen out

for the way the girl describes things. Does she tend to focus more on how things looked

and sounded? Or does she more often tell you about how things felt and the emotions

she or other people experienced? Once again, take note and emulate what you find in

your own speech. If she uses the word feel or felt a lot, you do the same when you

get the chance.

Third Parties

If you dont happen to have a wingman or wingwoman to help support and improve your

pick-up game, you can instead use a third-party to unwittingly boost your appeal in the

target females mind. The benefits of roping in a third party to unwittingly heighten and

demonstrate your dominance, social value and attractiveness are multi-faceted.

Lets look at a couple of examples of how to use a third party before analyzing the

advantages doing so offers you.

The Helpful Vendor. A good person to use as a third party is someone you know

will be around and available whenever you need to cleverly rope them into your

psychological game. One profession that suits this requirement perfectly is the

vendor. For example, youve introduced yourself to a girl who was sitting alone

reading a book in a bar by using your preferred method of opening and have been

talking for 20 minutes or so. You suggest getting a drink at bar and she agrees. At

the bar, you get back to flirtatiously debating something you were talking about

earlier and you decide to ask the barman for his opinion. Calling the barman over,

you half jokingly grill him on the topic at hand, with a slight smile on your face. The


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girl watches on, smiling too, interrupting you to get her side of the story across to

the barman. Its a fun, light-hearted exchange.

The Bystander. Same situation again, youve been chatting to a girl for 20 minutes

and things are going well, the conversation is fun and relaxed. Shes displayed

strong, open body language and eye contact is strong and flirty. Again, youve been

teasingly arguing with her over something minor, youre both using it to play with

each other and generally spice up the conversation. Theres a couple sitting behind

you and you turn around, wait for them to look up to see what you want, and then

you ask them what they think: Could I ask you for your opinion on something,

guys? See, I think Pepsis the way forward, but my friend here, Betty (not her name

and you know it), thinks Cokes a million times better. Could I ask you what you

think? Maybe you can help convince heror me!

Okay, lets look at the benefits using a third party, as in the examples above, offers you:

1. Asking a complete stranger for their opinion, while in the company of the girl

youve just met, allows you to give a supreme display of effortless confidence and

courage. Your social value is immediately boosted in her mind. Also, the fact that

you can clearly introduce yourself to anyone and get talking with them

demonstrates that you didnt just make an exception for her, which stops her ego

from being unduly inflated while at the same time reinforces your status as a

social creature with high personal worth both traits being necessary

components when creating attraction in the minds of women.

2. When you bring a third party into the mix, a psychological comparison is made in

the mind of the female. She sees the stranger (third party) and she sees you

her subliminal conclusion is that she has more of a connection with you than the

person thats just been introduced to her and her immediate reality (through you


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asking them for their opinion) and thanks to the law of contrast mentioned

earlier in this book you therefore appear more likeable and attractive than the

third party. You can further increase this effect by choosing people (whoever your

third party may be) that conform to the rules mentioned in the Advanced

Wingman/Wingwoman info section earlier. So, for example, youre much better

off using another hot girl as a third party (say, an 8 out of 10) than you are a guy

(whos also about an 8 in the looks department. Also, by using a female as a third

party, youre able to incorporate deflection theory into the mix.

3. Lastly, when you use a third party as an unwitting wingman or wingwoman,

youre given the opportunity to be indirectly flirty with the girl youve just met. A

quick example of this was used in the second example, when you called her

Betty, which certainly wasnt her real name. When you make a flirty joke like this

while talking to a third party, its power and effectiveness is much higher than if

you said it one-on-one to the girl.

Playing With Internal Consistency

Everyone, male or female women, feels an important need to be consistent with the

things they say, do and feel. If were flaky and liable to change at the drop of a hat what

we believe or have promised, we know that people are likely to judge and mistrust us.

This commonly felt sense of importance regarding the need to be consistent within

ourselves can be exploited when attempting to seduce a woman. Heres how:

1. Open with a girl as usual and start a conversation. As she talks about things,

places, people, whatever, listen out for times when she describes doing

something that could be considered spontaneous and adventurous. For example,


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she might describe a time when she went to Mexico and had a go on a zip-line

that stretched from a cliff-top to a lake below.

2. When you hear something along the right lines, express how impressed you are

with what shes said: Wow, thats great! Shell probably continue to talk for a

few more seconds: Yeah, it was amazing, so fun!

3. Now you plant the seed thatll be used later on, by saying: Thats really cool.

Youre spontaneous then, obviously. It sounds like a real adventure. Nod slightly

as you commend her on her bravery and spontaneity and remember to casually

state that shes spontaneous or brave or adventurous, instead of asking out-

right: Are you spontaneous?

4. Let the conversation continue as normal now, moving from topic to topic naturally

and easily, youre free to use whatever other seduction techniques you like during

this time (use of a third party for example, or maybe some stealth tactility).

5. Later down the line, just before you come to closing with the girl and getting her

number or arranging something, try to subtly remind her once more that shes a

spontaneous risk-taker who enjoys excitement and adventure. Doing so

effectively book-ends your conversation in her mind with the feeling that she

really is as out-going and spur-of-the-moment as youve said and shes verbally

agreed to being. Shell now feel a natural, powerful and subliminal urge to stay

consistent with those feelings and attributes youve established in her mind. And

when it comes to getting a girls number or persuading her to come home with

you or allow you to do the reverse, spontaneity and free-thinking are great

assets/characteristics for her to possess.


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Next well look at another way of subconsciously planting a special feeling in a girls mind

that just like in playing with internal consistency you can use to create a strong,

undeniable feeling in her mind that shes deeply attracted to you.

Advanced Anchoring

Pavlov, a Russian Scientist, used the ringing of a bell to make a dog salivate at the

thought of being given food. The same theory, of connecting one sound, touch or

concept, to a special feeling or mood and then using one to enact the other at a latertime, can be used by guys in the seduction game.

The most effective type of anchoring, when trying to create attraction and rapport

between yourself and a hot girl, are those created by your touch. By carefully choosing

when and where to casually make contact with a girls hand, back, or even knee, you

can subconsciously anchor a feeling of excitement, romance, adventure, or passion in

her mind. Then, once repeated several times to firmly tie the touch to the mood,

emotion or feeling, you can use it later to your advantage by repeating the physical

contact.

Heres an example of how to do it:

Youve joined a girl on a park bench after approaching and opening successfully and

have been chatting for a couple of minutes. The conversations going well and youre

both having a good time. Now you get ready to begin the anchoring. When she laughs or

breaks out in a massive smile at something youve said, you do the same while

simultaneously leaning towards her and gently touching the outside of her arm, near the

elbow. Conceal the touch, as if its a part of the moment youre both experiencing and

nothing more. Repeat the same touch whenever a similar ultra-happy moment takes


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place and also when she talks in detail about times she felt really good about herself or

especially excited or happy. Doing so links the elbow touch with those feelings in her

mind both the happy feeling of you laughing together and the past memories of her

feeling good. You can now use that touch later on, whenever youd like her to suddenly

feel excited and alive a great time to use an anchored feeling of excitement is just

before or while youre closing, which makes what youre offering (whether its swapping

phone numbers, meeting again, or going back to her place) a much more attractive

option in her mind.

Okay, weve so far covered how to properly prepare yourself before playing the pick-up

game, how to scope for women once youre ready, how to approach those girls in the

best possible way and, of course, how to inject powerful psychology into your

conversations with women to create a strong feeling of attraction and desire in their

minds. The hard work is essentially over all thats left is the subject of closing.

Closing

Closing - that is, the act of sealing the deal with a girl in some way or another - always

feels a little like a leap of faith. Plenty of guys have been in the position where theyve

felt the conversation theyve just had with a girl has been a raving success, only to find

that asking for their number results in a shaking of the girls head. As such, most men

see closing as a gamble, like a roll of the dice. And it is.

However, there are ways to make the odds swing heavily in your favour and decrease

the chance of the girl responding negatively to you with massive results. First, always

bear the following golden rule in mind:


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Closing should never come as a nasty surprise to the girl; it should instead feel

like the natural outcome to what has been a great conversation, full or energy

and attraction.

To avoid the close coming as an unwanted shock, always ensure youve laid the proper

groundwork first by building a strong level of rapport and connection between you and

the girl during your conversation. Secondly, make your close just as you should do

with your openers more effective by applying subtle forms of psychology to them. Here

are 3 powerful ways to do just that.

The Add-On Principle

Salesman and advertisers often use a technique called Sweetening the Pot to make an

offer seem more attractive to their potential customers - for example, a free toy in a box

of cereal or a 2 for 1 offer in a local supermarket. You can do the same thing and make

the idea of spending more time with you seem more attractive to the girl youd like to

seduce - by carefully constructing how you phrase your closer. Do this by using the add-

on principle. Think of a reason you should meet up again (aside from the obvious!) that

you can incorporate into your closing statement. Youve already encountered one when

we looked at the subject of time breaks, which was:

Hey, listen. Ive got to go meet a few people now - theyre probably waiting for me.

Its been really fun talking to you, though. Pause- Hey, I tell you what, Ill give

you a call a little later if something fun turns up and we can carry on what weve

been talking about.

The add-on here is the something fun that might turn up, which seems to justify the

reason for swapping numbers. And thats something else to remember when closing:


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never ask for her number only, instead, either swap numbers (to keep the balance of

power right) or arrange there and then when and where youll meet up next. Okay,

heres another perfect example of an add-on you can use as part of your closer.

Well, its been really fun talking to you. Ive got to make a phone call to a friend

now, supposed to be helping her out with her car, but listen, do you want to swap

numbersitd be good to talk more about [insert a subject you talked about that you

could tell she really enjoyed]

This examples extra powerful because in it you mention having to make a phone call to

a female friend, which puts your target female at ease, she thinks: He obviously talks

harmlessly to girls on the phone all the time, it surely wouldnt hurt to swap numbers.

Remember, a good add-on makes it clear that theres a valid and justified reason for you

to get together again, that isnt selfish on your part. Make your closer feel genuine and

enthusiastic and the girl is sure to respond positively.

The Power of Yes

Heres a quick and easy way to prep your closer and really improve the chances of your

target female responding well to it. Again, it utilizes the universal feeling we all have that

consistency is a good thing. The theory goes like this:

When people repeatedly say yes or yeah in conversations, a special type of

consistency is naturally developed that can be carried over to your main request (asking

for their number, saying you should meet again, etc.) Take advantage of this principle

by encouraging your target female to give several yes responses in quick succession.

You can do this by using subtle and casual responses after she says things, like:

Really? and Do you? Match your response to what shes just said and ensure it takes


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the form of a question that youre sure will prompt a yes response from her. Getting

between 3 and 6 of these positive responses is usually enough to allow the principle to

work.

At the same time, avoid asking questions or saying things near the end of your

conversation, just before youre about to close, that could possibly evoke negative

reactions or no responses from the female - Doing so helps develop an internal sense

of positivity in the female that carries over in her mind when you perform the actual

close and tips the balance in the direction of agreement to your request or suggestion.

Option Limitation

Option limitation takes advantage of another psychological phenomenon that involves

how people react when their options are restricted, as opposed to how they respond

when they feel they have a number of options to choose from. When someones

presented with only a single choice, often their natural reaction will be to rebel against

what theyve been offered and go their own way. However, when given 2 or 3 options,

the opposite occurs: they feel their intellectual freedom has been respected and they

make their choice from the variety of options theyve been presented with.

You can use option limitation in your closer by giving a girl two options to choose from,

both of which are fully acceptable to you. For example, instead of saying: Shall we swap

numbers? as your closer, youd say: Its been nice to meet you. Shall we shall

numbers or maybe grab a bite to eat and a drink tomorrow? Its a subtle yet effective

way of giving the girl a choice between good and better, instead of as in the first

example only presenting her with one choice and therefore allowing her to create and

possibly choose the other option, which is No, lets not swap numbers.


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You can use any two options when using option limitation; just remember to always try

and use the word or to separate them. This helps to quickly guide the girls choice

making thought process down one of the paths youve given her, as opposed to one

shes thought up herself.

Of course, theres always a chance she really wont want to swap numbers, get some

food, go for a drink or whatever else it is youve suggested. If, after using option

limitation, she doesnt go for one of your acceptable options, you know that the

groundwork consisting of good rapport and sexual attraction must not have been

properly in place. Therefore, nothing you could have used to close would have done the

trick, because the key work hadnt already been done earlier on.

However, its unlikely youll ever feel bold enough to close, with or without option

limitation or the add-on principle, unless you have a strong and undeniable feeling that

the girl has bonded with you and really would love to continue getting to know you.

Consider this a perfect piece of risk management and something thatll really help you

when it comes to sealing the deal with any beautiful girl.

The Contact Close

Lastly, we have the contact close. This ultra-simple rule of thumb should be used

whenever possible alongside a non-immediate closer to maximise its effectiveness.

Whenever you close with anything other than an immediate hook-up, I.E. Going back to

her place, to your place, to a hotel, or wherever, you should use a contact close. A

contact close involves making close physical contact with the girl right after you swap

numbers or arrange when and where to meet up again. Doing this underlines in her

mind the connection she has made with you and thereby increases her desire to see it


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continue in one form or another this is important when performing a close that wont

immediately result in your end goal, because it helps guarantee that shell remember

and think about you until you meet or speak again.

Try to use stealth tactility throughout your conversation so that when you come to

perform the contact close (a kiss on her cheek, a hug and a kiss, etc.) it feels natural

and warranted in the girls subconscious mind.

And that concludes the 4 main stages of seduction: scoping, approach/opening,

conversation and closing. Weve come a long way through the world of advanced

seduction and were about ready for a full strategy recap. So lets do just that.

Your Roadmap to Seduction Success

Youve absorbed a hell of a lot of information since you began reading this advanced

seduction guide. As such, its important to have a clear strategy recap before jumping in

at the deep end and trying out what youve learnt. We call this having a roadmap to

seduction success its a way of tidying up everything youve read about into clear,

useable information in your mind that can be applied whenever you feel like it, in bars,

parks, colleges, workplaces, you name it.

The roadmap has 2 simple stages:

Stage One: Preparation

Remember, the first thing to focus on is that your appearance conforms to the basic

rules of the game, so that you dont disadvantage yourself before you even begin

scoping and approaching girls. This doesnt mean running out to getting plastic surgery if


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you think youre not good looking enough to have a chance at seducing supermodels. All

you need to do is make sure that:

The clothes you wear match your target audience. I.E. Dress appropriately for the

occasion. Usually this means wearing fairly trendy clothes that suit and compliment

you as much as possible.

Your shoes should be clean and pretty new. Even though footwear means squat

when it comes to our personalities, some women still judge men on it dont give

them the chance to do it to you.

The cologne you wear should be a subtle surprise, not overwhelming and off-putting.

Quick dabs on your neck and wrists are always better than extended sprays under

your arms!

The second thing to focus on is:

All of the Ps:

We looked at these right back at the start of this journey through psychology, behaviour

and technique.

Proper Perspective. Dont let the pick-up game overpower your other interests and

hobbies or otherwise warp your perspective. Keep in mind that a relaxed, easy-going

and confident approach to life the game of seduction included is infinitely more

attractive to the opposite sex than an obsessive, manic way of doing things.

Playing the Numbers Game. You have to get out there and sell yourself if you

want regular and consistent success with women. Playing the numbers game, which


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means scoping and approaching at least a few women a week to start with, is vital in

achieving your end goal, whether its sex, love or marriage or all of the above.

Positivity. Stay focussed and positive. Failure is part of the road to success, so let

messing up slide off you like water of a ducks back. It means nothing in the big

scheme of things and doesnt change your overall chances at picking up and

seducing the woman or women of your dreams.

Stage 2: Selection and Application

This final part of the roadmap to seduction success is perhaps the easiest of all. First,

you need to remember that using all of the seduction techniques youve learnt about on

one girl, in one evening, is next to impossible and definitely not advisable. Instead, you

need to select which ones to use depending on the circumstances at hand. For example:

Youre in a bar and want to approach a girl whos with a couple of her friends. In this

situation, you could choose to use to approach and open using the valued opinion

opener, then move onto using deflection theory on one of your targets friends. As

things progress and her interest in you increases, you focus more on her until you

feel the time is right to attempt a close, be it swapping numbers or using a time

break to meet up with her later.

Or:

You have your eye on a girl who works in your office and decide to talk to her at the

copy machine. You open with The Old One, Two, starting the conversation with

regular, work related subject matter. Then, as the second part of the opener, you

use a quick dynamic exhibition to build the rapport and demonstrate your confidence

and personal worth. You ask her 4 questions (prepared in your mind beforehand)


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that make up a personality test. After she answers and you give her the results

flirtatiously, you go your separate ways. You know that youve laid some solid

groundwork that, next time you see each other, will allow you to take things much

further, perhaps youll invite her our for a drink or, if you prefer, youll continue to

build an attraction for you in her mind by mirroring her body language and word

choice, or using any number of other advanced seduction techniques. The ball is

truly in your court.

And that about wraps it up; its now up to you to put what youve learnt into practice in

whatever way you see fit. But remember, you now possess a knowledge of the seduction

game that most men never get the chance to learn and apply to their lives.

Practice hard and use it wisely!


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