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Getting Kids To Young Life Camp: Eliminating The Five Excuses Most of us are convinced there are few better ways to introduce our friends to the Gospel than at Young Life camp. Most of us are also currently discouraged because many of our friends will not get that chance this summer. Why not? Why are kids not going to camp? Over the years I continue to hear five main reasons why my high school friends say they can't go. In a majority of cases, we can help eliminate these excuses. The Five Excuses My Friends Aren't Going I Don't Have The Money My Parents Won't Let Me I Have Schedule Conflicts I'm Afraid Of The Unknown Part 1: Friends The Problem: My Friends Aren't Going This is the big one that makes total sense. We wouldn't go to a twohour party, much less an eightday trip, if none of our friends were going. So why should we expect our middle and high school friends to do the same? The Solution: Getting Them To Go With A Group Of Their Friends. One way I've found to make this happen is by making a smaller ask. Asking kids to pay hundreds of dollars and commit a week of their short summer is a big request. Asking kids to meet for dinner is much more doable. Here's one idea: Invite a group of your high school friends over this weekend for a cookout. Coed groups can actually work better for when you get the gals to go, the guys will want to go, and vice versa. Tell them you want to show them two short movies at the cookout. Leave them in suspense as to what you'll show them. For the first movie I recommend showing a classic they've probably never seen. It’s called “Hands On A Hard Body” and can be rented on Netflix. There are a few great things about this film: Just over an hour long, so short enough to show a 2nd movie. Good chance no one has seen it and it's the original 'reality show.' You can pause it half way through and make wagers on who wins the truck. It leaves you with that Napoleon Dynamite feeling of "I can't believe I just spent an hour watching that, it was so stupid, but wow, I feel so much closer to everyone I just shared this experience with." After you've bonded by watching HOAHB, you'll be ready to pop in movie #2, which will be the camp video. But not the camp video for the property you're going to this summer. The camp video from last summer, starring people they know and recognize from their high school. Get a camper who went last year to bring his or her copy of the Camp DVD and play it for everyone. Afterwards have that camper share 5 reasons why they think everyone should go.

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Getting  Kids  To  Young  Life  Camp:  Eliminating  The  Five  Excuses    Most  of  us  are  convinced  there  are  few  better  ways  to  introduce  our  friends  to  the  Gospel  than  at  Young  Life  camp.  Most  of  us  are  also  currently  discouraged  because  many  of  our  friends  will  not  get  that  chance  this  summer.  Why  not?    Why  are  kids  not  going  to  camp?    Over  the  years  I  continue  to  hear  five  main  reasons  why  my  high  school  friends  say  they  can't  go.    In  a  majority  of  cases,  we  can  help  eliminate  these  excuses.    

The  Five  Excuses  

• My  Friends  Aren't  Going  • I  Don't  Have  The  Money  • My  Parents  Won't  Let  Me    • I  Have  Schedule  Conflicts  • I'm  Afraid  Of  The  Unknown    

Part  1:  Friends  The  Problem:  My  Friends  Aren't  Going  This  is  the  big  one  that  makes  total  sense.  We  wouldn't  go  to  a  two-­‐hour  party,  much  less  an  eight-­‐day  trip,  if  none  of  our  friends  were  going.  So  why  should  we  expect  our  middle  and  high  school  friends  to  do  the  same?    The  Solution:  Getting  Them  To  Go  With  A  Group  Of  Their  Friends.      One  way  I've  found  to  make  this  happen  is  by  making  a  smaller  ask.  Asking  kids  to  pay  hundreds  of  dollars  and  commit  a  week  of  their  short  summer  is  a  big  request.  Asking  kids  to  meet  for  dinner  is  much  more  doable.        Here's  one  idea:  Invite  a  group  of  your  high  school  friends  over  this  weekend  for  a  cookout.  Co-­‐ed  groups  can  actually  work  better  for  when  you  get  the  gals  to  go,  the  guys  will  want  to  go,  and  vice  versa.    Tell  them  you  want  to  show  them  two  short  movies  at  the  cookout.  Leave  them  in  suspense  as  to  what  you'll  show  them.    For  the  first  movie  I  recommend  showing  a  classic  they've  probably  never  seen.  It’s  called  “Hands  On  A  Hard  Body”  and  can  be  rented  on  Netflix.      There  are  a  few  great  things  about  this  film:  

• Just  over  an  hour  long,  so  short  enough  to  show  a  2nd  movie.  • Good  chance  no  one  has  seen  it  and  it's  the  original  'reality  show.'  • You  can  pause  it  half  way  through  and  make  wagers  on  who  wins  the  truck.  • It  leaves  you  with  that  Napoleon  Dynamite  feeling  of  "I  can't  believe  I  just  spent  an  hour  watching  that,  

it  was  so  stupid,  but  wow,  I  feel  so  much  closer  to  everyone  I  just  shared  this  experience  with."    

After  you've  bonded  by  watching  HOAHB,  you'll  be  ready  to  pop  in  movie  #2,  which  will  be  the  camp  video.    But  not  the  camp  video  for  the  property  you're  going  to  this  summer.  The  camp  video  from  last  summer,  starring  people  they  know  and  recognize  from  their  high  school.        Get  a  camper  who  went  last  year  to  bring  his  or  her  copy  of  the  Camp  DVD  and  play  it  for  everyone.    Afterwards  have  that  camper  share  5  reasons  why  they  think  everyone  should  go.    

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Have  camp  forms  there  along  with  detailed  info  about  a  fundraising  plan.  Give  them  a  letter  to  take  home  to  their  parents  with  your  contact  info,  anticipating  questions  they  might  ask.      Then  give  them  an  immediate  next  step  with  incentive.  Talk  with  your  AD  and  see  if  the  area  can  throw  any  any  camp  scholarship  $  at  this  (or  better  yet,  try  to  raise  it  yourself.)  Then  offer  $50  off  camp  to  the  first  two  two  folks  to  bring  you  a  filled  out  form  along  with  a  $  deposit.  Once  you  knock  down  two  dominoes,  the  rest  rest  start  to  fall.    We've  got  to  realize  that  individually  most  high  schoolers  aren't  going  to  call  their  friends  and  say,  "Let's  go  on  this  trip  together."  Few  have  the  confidence  to  do  that.    But  if  you  get  them  in  the  same  room,  all  nodding  their  heads  at  the  same  time,  that  fear  of  being  alone  quickly  fades.      As  Rindercella  would  say,  "The  storal  of  the  moray  is..."    Make  an  initial  smaller  ask.    Instead  of  asking  for  a  camp  deposit  and  a  week  of  their  life,  convince  them  to  give  you  two  hours  for  a  free  free  burger  and  two  mysterious  movies.    Once  you  can  get  their  attention  in  a  smaller  non-­‐club  environment,  environment,  you'll  have  the  platform  to  make  the  bigger  ask.    

Part  2:  Money  One  of  the  main  stressors  in  most  teenagers'  lives  is  MONEY.    When  they  see  camp  flyers  they  often  skip  right  over  the  description  promising  "The  Best  Week  of  Your  Life."  Their  eyes  focus  right  on  the  $$$.        "There's  NO  WAY  my  parents  can  pay  for  that!"      "I'm  already  saving  for  a  car."  "I  still  owe  them  $300  for  my  drinking  ticket  and  lawyer."    We  can  go  blue  in  the  face  telling  kids  "Don't  let  money  keep  you  from  going!"  BUT...  until  we  show  them  (and  their  parents)  a  plan  for  how  we're  going  to  raise  the  cash  flow,  our  words  are  empty  promises.      How  To  Communicate  The  Plan  

• Create  information  in  an  online  format  that  is  easily  accessible  for  parents.    • Consider  making  a  simple  video  of  yourself  explaining  how  the  fundraisers  work.  Embed  the  video  on  

your  area's  YL  site  or  on  your  club's  Facebook  group.    • Make  hard  copies  of  the  plan.  Keep  them  in  your  car  so  you  can  be  prepared  to  give  them  to  a  parent  

or  potential  camper  along  with  the  camp  registration  form.  • Consider  including  the  fundraising  plan  on  the  back  of  your  camp  flyers.    • Make  individual  phone  calls  to  parents.  Give  them  the  website  to  visit  so  you  can  both  view  the  plan  as  

you  walk  them  through  it.  

The  Fundraising  Plan  

• Lay  out  the  total  cost    • Ask  them  to  pay  the  deposit  • Ask  them  what  additional  they  can  pay  • Break  down  the  fundraisers  with  practical  examples  of  how  they  could  raise  the  remainder  along  with  

how  much  time  it  would  take.  

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Example:  $799  (Total  Cost)  -­‐  $150  (deposit)  -­‐  $100  (could  pay  additional)  -­‐-­‐-­‐-­‐-­‐-­‐-­‐-­‐-­‐  $  550  (left  to  raise)  -­‐  $50  (from  carwash  general  donations:  3  hrs.)  -­‐$175  (Trash-­‐A-­‐Thon  sponsors,  7  people  giving  $25  each:  3  hrs.)    -­‐$150  (Selling  coupon  books,  greeting  cards  or  Yankee  Candles:  5  hrs.)  -­‐$100  (YL  Yard  Sale:  4  hrs.)  -­‐$75  (Yard  work  for  a  friend  of  YL:  4  hrs.)    -­‐-­‐-­‐-­‐-­‐-­‐-­‐    $0  remaining  camp  balance  after  19  hours  of  work      GREAT  FUNDRAISERS    Carwash    Location  is  key.  Find  a  busy  road  and  ask  to  use  a  parking  lot  in  view  of  the  road.  We've  had  success  with  Chick-­‐fil-­‐a,  Wal-­‐Mart,  and  grocery  stores  in  the  past.      You  will  probably  make  $200-­‐$400  in  donations  if  you  have  20  kids  wash  cars  for  3  hrs.  That's  not  even  minimum  wage  per  kid.  In  order  to  boost  the  kitty,  you  can  find  donors  to  match  donations  or  have  kids  get  sponsors.      The  Best  Carwash  Secret:  About  2  hrs.  in,  when  kids  are  getting  tired  and  discouraged  by  the  $2  donations,  have  a  pre-­‐arranged  friend  show  up  to  get  their  car  washed.  They  were  going  to  donate  $100  to  campership  anyway,  why  not  throw  a  $100  bill  in  the  pot  and  encourage  the  kids  to  keep  going  strong  for  the  last  hour.      Yard  Sale  Publicize  well.  Start  early  in  the  morning.  Make  sure  you  have  lots  of  stuff  to  sell.  Go  to  churches,  neighbors,  family,  friends  and  collect  people's  junk.    Three  weeks  before  the  Yard  Sale  designate  a  place  where  you  can  store  the  goods,  maybe  an  unused  classroom  in  a  church?    Have  the  campers  label  every  item  they  brought  so  when  customers  check  out,  the  parent  cashier  knows  where  to  credit  the  $.    Greeting  Card  Boxes  Call  ‘Paper  Magic,’  a  paper  company  in  Scranton,  PA  (for  all  you  "Office"  fans  out  there,  I'm  not  even  kidding.)  Call  800-­‐328-­‐9257  ext.  249.  Talk  to  Diane.    You  can  order  100  of  these  boxes  for  under  $575.00.  Your  cost  is  less  than  $6/box,  but  you  can  sell  them  for  $25/box  because  there  are  24  All-­‐Occasion  greeting  cards  in  each  one  (along  with  a  nice  decorative  storage  box  that  they  come  in.)  Profit  margin=almost  $20/box.      Sitting  in  front  of  places  of  business  (like  Chick-­‐Fil-­‐A  or  a  grocery  store)  works  great  to  sell  them.  Make  sure  you  get  permission  ahead  of  time  from  the  management.  Lowes  Foods  &  Harris  Teeter  asked  me  to  call  headquarters  and  both  turned  me  down  because  they  have  limited  solicitation  spots  and  I  called  too  late.  Last  year  King  Soopers  and  Safeway  both  gave  me  permission,  granted  by  the  in-­‐store  managers.      Some  of  the  leaders  on  our  team  placed  them  at  their  offices  and  folks  they  worked  with  bought  them.  I'm  selling  them  at  church  next  week.  Have  your  high  school  friends  knock  on  the  doors  of  their  friends  and  ask  their  parents.  It’s  really  a  good  product  for  a  fair  price  and  sells  for  the  same  price  on  Amazon.  

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 Support  Letters  Last  week  we  got  a  letter  in  the  mail  from  a  friend  who  is  a  YL  leader  in  another  area  asking  for  $  to  help  take  his  friends  to  camp.  We  sent  him  some.  Why?  Because  I  can't  think  of  a  much  better  investment  to  make  in  someone's  life.  If  you  ask  your  friends  and  cast  vision  for  them  as  to  how  incredible  an  investment  this  will  be  in  a  high  school  student's  life,  they  will  support  you.  Ask  your  high  school  friends  to  send  out  letters  too.          Yardwork/Housework  For  Friends  Of  YL  Jim  Rayburn  started  a  movement  70  years  ago  that  has  impacted  millions  of  lives.  There  are  60  year  olds  in  your  community  who  still  remember  their  first  YL  camp  experience.  Now  they  have  good  jobs  and  have  to  give  some  tax-­‐deductible  money  away.  They  would  love  for  you  to  move  that  pile  of  wood  from  under  their  deck  or  pick  weeds  out  of  their  garden.  Just  ask.  They'll  pay  your  high  school  friends  way  more  than  they  deserve  because  they  learned  30  years  ago  at  YL  camp  about  this  thing  called  grace  that  changed  their  life  forever.        Trash-­‐A-­‐Thon  Find  sponsors  per  back  of  trash  you  pick  up  to  clean  up  the  highway.  One  of  our  gals  made  $350  in  an  hour  doing  this  last  weekend.      

Bowl-­‐A-­‐Thon  Fun  YL  outing  to  do  after  club  has  stopped  for  the  year!  Kids  and  leaders  both  can  get  pledges  per  pin  they  would  bowl  over  three  games.  Most  kids  get  pledges  of  5-­‐10  cents  per  pin.  If  a  student  gets  around  $2  per  pin  in  total  sponsorships  and  knock  down  300  pins  in  3  games,  that's  $600!  You  can  also  get  businesses  to  be  lane  sponsors  (much  like  hole  sponsors  at  a  golf  tournament)  to  cover  the  overhead  cost  for  the  lanes  and  the  food.          Missions  Trip  Products  If  you're  going  on  a  missions  trip  bring  back  something  unique  from  that  place  and  sell  it  as  a  camp  fundraiser.  Example:  coffee  from  Latin  America  (buy  for  $4/lb.)  and  sell  it  for  $15/lb.    Other  Fundraising  Ideas  That  Have  Worked    Asking  Friends  On  Facebook,  Bake  Sale,  Run  a  5K,  Selling  Coupon  Books,  Selling  Yankee  Candles,  Working  Concession  Stands  at  local  events,  Using  Donation  Sites  Like  GiveLoud.com      

Part  3:  Parents  Fifteen  years  ago  Young  Life  leaders  generally  had  much  better  relationships  with  the  parents  of  their  high  school  friends.  Why?  Because  teenagers  didn't  own  cell  phones,  so  in  order  to  contact  them  a  leader  had  to  call  the  home  phone.  This  often  resulted  in  conversations  with  parents.      One  key  in  getting  your  high  school  friends  to  camp  is  to  not  only  invest  in  a  relationship  with  them,  but  also  with  their  parents.    Not  many  parents  will  quickly  shell  out  hundreds  of  dollars  to  ship  their  kid  off  with  someone  they  don't  know.    Most  parents  would  love  to  know  you  better,  even  if  they  have  not  made  any  effort  to  do  so.  If  we  want  to  take  their  children  to  camp  we  must  step  out  of  our  comfort  zones  and  build  relationships  with  moms  and  dads.        

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   Keys  To  Interacting  With  Parents  

•  Respect.  As  a  general  rule,  refer  to  them  as  Mr.  or  Mrs.  unless  you  are  married,  a  parent  yourself,  or  over  25.    If  they  give  you  permission  to  call  them  by  their  first  name,  go  with  that.    

• Call  Instead  Of  Text.  Calling  communicates  that  you  are  a  responsible  adult  whereas  a  text  message  appears  less  confident  and  more  adolescent.    

• Present  Yourself  As  An  Adult,  even  if  you're  only  19.  Realize  they  may  call  your  phone  and  get  your  voice  mail.    Will  the  greeting  they  hear  lead  them  to  trust  you  more  or  think  of  you  as  irresponsible?    When  they  facebook  stalk  you,  what  pictures  will  they  see?    When  a  parent  snoops  in  their  teenager's  text  messages,  what  will  the  texts  you  wrote  communicate  about  you?    

• Know  Your  Stuff.  Parents  will  want  details  about  camp.  Do  you  have  a  fundraising  plan?  Do  you  know  what  they'll  need  to  bring?  Do  you  know  how  to  describe  a  typical  day  at  camp,  or  the  sleeping  and  bathroom  situations?    

• Predict  Their  Concerns  And  Prepare  Answers.  Last  week  I  called  a  dad  to  ask  if  his  son  could  come  to  camp.    He  told  me  that  he  couldn't  trust  his  son  to  be  away  from  home  and  needed  to  keep  him  on  lock  down  this  summer.  I  promised  him  that  his  son,  other  than  using  the  bathroom,  would  always  be  with  a  leader.    I  explained  our  value  of  leader-­‐centered  camping:  we're  not  just  chaperones  letting  kids  roam  around,  but  adult  friends  seizing  every  opportunity  to  share  life  with  our  friends.    

• Cast  Vision.  Describe  your  hopes  for  the  trip  and  for  their  child.  Tell  them  about  your  own  experience  and  what  influenced  you  in  becoming  a  YL  leader.  Speak  to  the  ways  you  have  seen  camp  impact  kids  in  the  past  and  the  potential  you  see  in  their  child.    

• Know  When  To  Stop  Pushing.    Getting  their  kid  to  camp  is  not  worth  it  if  it  hurts  your  relationship  with  them.  Respect  them  enough  to  let  them  to  make  the  decision.  After  all,  they  are  the  parent,  we’re  not.    

 

Part  4:  Schedule  Conflicts  "I  can't  go  to  camp,  I  have  to  work  this  summer  to  pay  for  car  insurance."      

"My  coach  will  bench  me  if  I  miss  summer  practice."    "My  family  is  going  to  the  beach  that  week."    

We've  heard  the  excuses.    These  schedule  conflicts  are  often  the  straws  that  break  our  backs.  We've  worked  hard  to  overcome  the  obstacles  of  friends,  money,  and  parents,  but  'I'm  about  ready  to  give  up.'  

 How  To  Navigate  Schedule  Conflicts  

 Publicize  Your  Summer  Camp  Dates  ASAP  Your  area  will  find  out  summer  camp  dates  in  the  fall.  Consider  sending  out  "Save  The  Date"  postcards  to  everyone  in  your  club  card  database.    But  don't  just  count  on  postcards  and  club  announcements  to  do  the  trick.  The  most  effective  way  to  "save  the  date"  is  to  go  ahead  and  get  kids  signed  up  early.    

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   Cast  A  Vision    To  a  16  year  old,  the  idea  of  having  your  own  set  of  wheels  is  the  ultimate  goal  in  life.  If  it  means  scooping  ice  cream  all  summer  for  minimum  wage  in  order  to  pay  for  the  car  insurance,  then  so  be  it.  A  week  at  camp  not  only  costs  money,  but  limits  summer  income.    We’ve  got  to  convince  our  friends  that  years  from  now  the  $140  they  would  have  made  mixing  strawberries  with  graham  crackers  won't  compare  to  the  value  of  memories  and  experience.    Show  them  pics  and  videos  from  past  summer  camps.    Show  them  pictures  of  your  bridesmaids  and  groomsmen.  Cast  a  vision  for  the  bonding  and  relationships  that  happen  on  trips  like  these.  Who  knows,  one  day  your  friends  who  stood  with  you  on  top  of  13,000  ft.  mountain  might  stand  beside  you  at  an  alter?      Be  Their  Advocate  Talk  to  their  parents  first  and  get  them  on  board.  Three  weeks  ago  a  leader  on  our  team  convinced  a  family  to  change  their  vacation  dates  so  their  son  could  come  to  camp.    Listen  to  Bieber  and  'Never  Say  Never.'      Talk  To  Coaches    Cast  a  vision  for  them  as  well.  Many  times  their  sole  focus  is  on  an  athlete's  performance,  but  we  all  know  the  value  of  having  a  team  member  with  high  character.  Tell  the  coach  that  this  trip  might  not  make  Big  John  a  better  football  player,  but  it  will  make  him  a  better  leader.    Most  coaches  really  do  care  about  kids,  otherwise  they  wouldn't  work  countless  hours  for  little  pay.    Explain  that  you  don't  want  Big  John  to  just  be  a  great  football  player,  but  to  be  a  great  man.    Convince  him  that  a  week  away  from  summer  practice  will  be  worth  it  in  the  long  run  of  Big  John's  life.  It  also  doesn't  hurt  that  many  of  our  camp  properties  have  work  out  facilities.  If  an  athlete  can  keep  running  or  lifting  while  they're  out  of  town,  it  helps  the  coach  give  the  green  light.      Talk  to  Bosses    If  you've  ever  managed  a  restaurant  employee  schedule,  I  salute  you.  I  can't  imagine  a  more  annoying  task  then  trying  to  fit  the  time  off  requests  of  fifty  workers  into  one  work  schedule.    Empathize  with  employers.  Tell  them  you  know  that  it  makes  their  job  harder  when  they  lose  an  employee  for  a  week.  Then  cast  the  same  vision  you  did  for  the  coach.  Odds  are  they'll  be  a  better  employee  when  they  come  back  from  camp  then  they  were  before  they  left.    Be  gracious  and  grateful.      Talk  To  Camp  If  you  have  a  high  schooler  taking  an  online  summer  class,  don't  let  that  be  an  excuse.    YL  camps  will  work  with  you  to  make  it  possible  for  your  high  school  friend  to  be  there.  Last  summer  the  office  staff  at  Sharptop  allowed  one  of  our  guys  to  spend  an  hour  on  their  computer  every  day  after  lunch.    He  would  not  have  been  able  to  come  if  the  office  staff  hadn't  been  willing  to  make  it  work  for  him.    Don't  abuse  them,  but  also  don't  be  afraid  to  ask.    Remember,  property  staff  loves  kids  just  as  much  as  we  do.  

Part  5:  Fear  Of  The  Unknown  Remember  the  first  time  you  got  on  a  school  bus?  I  was  excited,  but  nervous,  wondering  who  I  would  sit  beside.  It  ended  up  being  a  1st  grader  named  Shane  who  grossed  me  out.  He  sucked  on  and  ate  his  Vaseline  Lip  Therapy.  The  whole  tube.  Seriously.  I  think  that  was  the  last  time  my  folks  made  me  ride  a  yellow  bus.        We  all  get  nervous  when  we  don't  know  what  to  expect.  Heck,  even  visiting  churches  is  scary,  and  people  are  supposed  to  be  kind.  Can  you  imagine  being  at  the  peak  of  adolescence?  At  the  height  of  nervousness?    And  someone  asking  you  to  step  out  of  your  comfort  zone  to  experience  a  week  of  'the  unknown.'          

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And  on  top  of  that,  since  we're  supposed  to  keep  things  a  secret,  every  time  a  kid  asks  a  question  we  respond  with  "I  could  tell  you,  but  I'd  have  to  kill  you."    

How  To  Alleviate  The  Fear  Of  The  Unknown  

Acknowledge  &  Empathize    Whether  they  admit  it  or  not,  their  fear  of  the  unknown  is  real.    Let  them  know  it's  normal  to  be  anxious.    Tell  them  how  you  felt  the  first  time  you  got  on  a  camp  bus.        "I  remember  going  to  camp  when  I  was  a  sophomore.  I  was  so  worried  about  who  I  would  sit  beside  on  the  bus.  I  was  nervous  that  if  I  had  to  use  the  bus  bathroom  the  mean  guys  who  always  sit  in  the  back  would  lock  me  in  there.  But  it  ended  up  being  OK.  I  sat  by  this  kid  from  another  school  and  we  actually  became  pretty  good  friends."    When  a  15  year  old  hears  you  say  that,  they  gain  confidence  in  knowing  they're  not  alone.      Tell  Them  What  They're  Thinking    "I  know  you  might  be  wondering  what  the  bathroom  situation  is.  Don't  worry,  there  aren't  any  group  showers,  they  actually  have  pretty  nice  individual  shower  stalls,  and  the  TP  is  2-­‐ply!"    "I  know  you  might  be  worried  about  certain  girls  forming  a  clique  and  leaving  you  out,  but  camp  is  set  up  to  where  we  do  most  everything  all  together.  And  I'll  hang  out  with  you  the  whole  time,  even  if  other  girls  are  mean."    "I  know  you  are  concerned  about  leaving  your  mom  home  alone  all  week.  Since  your  dad  is  gone  I  know  she  depends  on  you  to  be  the  man  of  the  house,  but  your  mom  wants  you  to  go  and  experience  this.  If  you  don't,  she'll  feel  guilty  that  you  stayed  home  just  for  her  sake."    You  know  your  middle  and  high  school  friends.  Pray  for  them.  Ask  God  to  give  you  wisdom  and  discernment  to  understand  the  mental  battles  they  might  be  internally  fighting.        Tell  Them  About  Camp    Show  them  a  camp  video.  You  can  explain  a  typical  day  without  ruining  the  surprises.    They  might  think  they're  going  to  have  to  walk  around  in  bathing  suit  all  week,  and  that  makes  them  self-­‐conscious.  Explain  that  afternoon  free  time  is  exactly  that,  time  for  them  to  freely  choose  what  activity  they  want  to  do.      

Explain  that  you  are  not  going  to  ask  them  to  do  anything  you're  not  willing  to  do  yourself.  Yes,  that  means  we  as  leaders  must  conquer  fears  as  well.  I'm  still  scared  of  that  pamper  pole.      Give  Them  A  Taste    Nick  and  Ray  are  two  of  my  'non-­‐typical-­‐Younglifey'  friends.  They  don't  wear  Fratagonia.  They  don't  like  Taylor  Swift.  They  don't  sleep  in  enos.    When  the  lax  bros  and  cheer  team  signed  up  for  camp,  it  didn't  really  motivate  them  to  get  in  their  deposits.  

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An  exciting  summer  for  Nick  and  Ray  isn't  spent  at  the  pool.  It's  spent  at  the  pool  hall.    The  only  thing  they're  raising  money  for  are  Marlboro  Reds.      I  was  about  done  with  my  exhausting  efforts  to  convince  them  to  go  to  camp.  Just  before  I  gave  up,  I  made  a  phone  call.      "Hey  [YL  Property  closest  to  us].  My  name  is  Drew  and  I'm  a  YL  leader  in  a  town  about  2.5  hours  away.  Is  there  any  chance  I  can  bring  two  of  my  high  school  friends  up  to  camp  tomorrow  afternoon  for  free  time,  dinner,  and  club?  We'll  pay  for  dinner  and  leave  property  after  club.  Pretty  please?  I'm  trying  to  convince  them  to  spend  a  week  at  camp,  but  wanted  to  wet  their  appetite."    "Well,  camp  is  pretty  full,  but  if  it's  just  three  of  you  and  you're  willing  to  eat  work  crew  meal,  come  on."    Our  area  was  going  to  camp  3rd  session  at  a  different  property,  but  Nick,  Ray,  and  I  took  a  day  trip  during  1st  session  to  the  property  closest  to  us.  It  was  much  easier  to  convince  them  to  pay  $8  and  give  up  a  day  than  to  pay  $800  and  give  up  a  week.        Do  you  think  they  wanted  to  sign  up  after  they'd  spent  just  6  hours  on  a  YL  property?  You  guessed  correctly.  I  know  it's  not  possible  for  everyone  to  do,  but  if  you  can  give  them  a  taste,  they'll  be  hungry  for  more.      *Not  all  YL  properties  can  accommodate  such  requests,  so  if  you  call,  do  so  with  hope,  but  without  expectation.      Drew  Hill  YoungLifeLeaders.org  May  2012