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    Get the job withPERSONAL CLOUT!

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    LISE HANSEN

    Train Managers og TV Hosts in

    having personal clout

    Former Vice President in the Wind

    Industry with responsibility forglobal Human Ressource

    Former recruiter (over 1000

    interviews)

    Master in Interpersonel

    Communication from AAU

    Studied faces and bodylanguagefor more that 16 years (FACS)

    www.vilsgaardvision.dk

    http://www.vilsgaardvision.dk/http://www.vilsgaardvision.dk/
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    Theory first

    and then practice.

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    Personalclout is the ability to lead and

    convince other people without offending

    their integrity, and the ability to get yourmessage across.

    An absolute must at an interview

    What is Personal Clout?

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    The pros to having personal clout is:

    Others are willing to follow you

    You express SUCCESS = You have SUCCESS

    You will have respect

    Other people are drawn to you

    You express compentence and trust

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    3 steps to having more

    personal clout / charisma

    It is NOT rocket science!

    When we leave today I promise that you will look diffrently

    opon yourself and others.

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    Step Look at yourself in the mirror!

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    Think about your believes about yourself. What

    do you really say to yourself? What do you believein about yourself?

    Does your thoughts and believes about yourself:

    Makes your feel stronger(SUPPORTIVE)

    or

    Makes you feel weaker? (INHIBITING)

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    Step Your words and bodylanguage have to

    say the samme

    Critical

    Reserved

    Objective

    Focused on details

    Determined

    Demanding

    Intolerant

    Resultorientated

    Relaxed

    Calming

    Supportive

    Teamplayer

    Expressive

    Busy

    Overexcited

    Charming

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    HIGH STATUS

    Open, welcoming bodylanguage

    Upward eye direction

    Calm movements

    Appropriate eye contact

    Handshakes, pats, touch, nods

    Owning the room

    Calm and clear paralanguages

    Matching the other persons

    body language

    LOW STATUS

    Closed body language, distant Downward eye direction

    Quick nervous movements

    High social distance (safety

    zone)

    Hiding away

    High pitched paralanguage

    Voice + air

    Mis matching

    Smiling when inappropriate

    If you remember one thing from todays

    lesson, it should be this: HIGH STATUS.

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    Step Staging (fake it til you make it)

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    Staging simply means:

    Ensuring that you are presenting

    the best possible image of

    yourself in a given situation

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    The first 30 sekunds can determine

    whether you get the job or not!

    That is also the case in an exam

    situation.

    (American studies have shown that you can score 1-2

    grades higher if you show confidence and personal

    clout.)