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Family Rummage NightCome have some pizza for dinner and help with Rummage set up
Wednesday, April 255:00 - 6:30 p.m.RSVP to Kate Holland
THE WAYLAND UNITARIANAPRIL 2018
INSIDE THIS ISSUE
A Month of Sundays! 2Lay Minister of the MonthParish Cmte Listening HrMinister’s LunchMen’s Book Club
Stephanie Reflections! 3Guest Preacher
Parish Cmte Report! 4 The Youth Room! 5
Stewardship Corner! 6 Community Life Cmte! 7
SEE What’s Up ! 8Women’s Alliance DinnerEqual Exchange Dates
Rummage Sale Info! 9Annual MeetingSpring Tea for Perennials
Changes to Archives ! 10 Music Notes! 11
Art AbloomMindful Meditation
LMCF Projects! 12 The Uganda Project! 13
Turning Point Update! 14FP Work Day at UUUM
Membership Notes! 15Support ICE Detainee
Beyond Our Walls! 16Your Part in Recycling!17
Upcoming Stewardship Dates4/7 at 6 pm: Stewardship Night4/15: Pledge commitments due5/1: Finance Committee finalizes budget & staffing for next year.
75th Annual Rummage SaleSat., April 28, 9 a.m. - 1 p.m.
Dates to Remember:Sun., April 8 Muslin to
Magnificent Come paint our new Rummage aprons! Vestry, 4:30 p.m. [See story pg. 9]
Sun., April 22 Set-Up Sunday April 22-25 Donation Drop-offApril 23-27 Set-Up WeekRummage is upon us!!! It is NOT too late to volunteer if you find you have some free time. Sale day requires MANY volunteers and all jobs are important to our goal of making Rummage FUN for the volunteers but more importantly for our buyers. So come on down! Sign-up sheets will be available in the Vestry throughout the month of April or contact Rummage Volunteer Chairs Pat Sims or Melinda Morgan
New Member OrientationSunday April 22, 6 p.m.
Minister’s OfficeHave you recently begun attending First Parish Wayland Community? Please join us for an evening of community building, learning about First Parish, and food! We will talk about our journeys to this congregation, learn a little bit about our history and Unitarian Universalism in general, and learn about the joys and responsibilities of membership! Contact Membership Coordinator Jaimie Dingus for more information or to RSVP.
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A Month of SundaysHere is a list of this month’s services and who will be
leading them, along with information about our programs for children and youth.
The worship service begins at 10 a.m.
April 8Jaimie Dingus leading
M. Div. Candidate, Harvard University
Marvin Venay preachingDirector of Congregational and Volunteer
Engagement, UU Urban MinistrySaplings (Birth - 4 yrs.): 10:00 a.m.
Love Will Guide Us (Grades K-3): 10:15 a.m.Bibleodeon (Grades 4-7): 10:15 a.m.
Grade 5 & 6 OWL: 11:30 a.m.Middle & High School Youth Groups: 4:30 p.m.
April 15The Rev. Dr. Stephanie May
Saplings (Birth - 4 yrs.): 10:00 a.m.Multiage Sunday (Grades K-7) 10:15 a.m.
Youth Summit: 2:00 p.m.
April 22The Rev. Dr. Stephanie May
Saplings (Birth - 4 yrs.): 10:00 a.m.Social Justice Sunday (Grades K-7) 10:15 a.m.
April 29The Rev. Dr. Stephanie May
Saplings (Birth - 4 yrs.): 10:00 a.m.Love Will Guide Us (Grades K-3): 10:15 a.m.
Bibleodeon (Grades 4-7): 10:15 a.m.High School Youth Group: 4:30 p.m.
Minister’s LunchThursday, April 12
at 11:30 a.m. in the SunroomAll are welcome to join our minister, the Rev. Dr. Stephanie May, for a light lunch and good company the second Thursday of the month.* RSVP requested, but not required. Email Jaimie Dingus or call 508-358-6133. Future dates: May 10, June 6 (*Wed.)
Parish Committee Listening HourApril 8
in the Sunroom during Coffee HourJoin members of the Parish Committee to discuss current matters at First Parish. Please contact co-
chairs Kathy Genovese or Keith Sims for more info.
Lay Minister of the MonthThis month’s Lay Minister is Ted Barnes 508-277-9666. Feel free to contact the Lay Minister if you need a ride somewhere, meals delivered, or just a friendly, confidential visit or chat. Of course, you can also contact our minister, the Rev. Dr. Stephanie May, for pastoral care at any time.
Spiritual Theme for April:Questioning: Seeking Truth,
Befriending DoubtWe will be exploring the month’s spiritual theme through discussions, SEEK programs, and a sermon.
The deadline for the May Unitarian is Friday, April 20
For instructions on how to get the word out through our various distribution outlets (newsletter, weekly e-blasts, etc.), click here or contact Parish Administrator Paige O’Brien.
Men's Book ClubThursday, April 5
8 p.m.Stokey Library
Want a rattling good tale? Join us to discuss Battle of the Atlantic: How the Allies Won the War, by Jonathan Dimbleby. Questions? Contact Keith Sims.
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When I first came to First Parish in Wayland, I had a lot to learn about the people, the rituals, and the traditions of the congregation. One of my favorite annual traditions is the Rummage Sale. While I do love a good shopping bargain, my love for Rummage has to do with the experience of community. The size of the sale is simply massive and could not happen without an extraordinary amount of volunteer hours. The fact that so many people volunteer year after year for hours at a time speaks to a positive experience. Rummage is fun as we laugh at what we find, laugh at the magic that it will take to put it all together, and smile at the happy faces that come through the doors on Sale day.And Rummage is more than our First Parish community. As the years go by, many of us recognize the same faces coming back again and again. We begin to feel that we are part of lives beyond our walls. Affordably priced, many of our goods go to families who value the opportunity to buy what they need or want for themselves or their families. I also think of those who donate items to First Parish because they believe we will help their items get to those who will appreciate them and the proceeds will also be well-used. Indeed, the Women’s Alliance gives away a portion of the Rummage income as well as generously support the life and work for First Parish.
In so many ways, Rummage is a way we work together for a better world. In quiet corners sorting goods, I know there are many conversations in which we care for one another. And, in ways that are clear and in others that are hard to express, Rummage is a place where people find a sense of meaning in the connections to others and in the giving back. Thanks to the leaders, Kathie Cromwell, Deb Stubeda, Pat Sims, and Melinda Morgan. Thank you to all who will donate, sort, sell, shop, and clean-up this month!
In peace,StephanieThe Rev. Dr. Stephanie May
Reflections from Stephanie
“Power of Giving”On Sunday, April 8, we welcome special guest Marvin Venay, the Director of Congregational and Volunteer Engagement at the Unitarian Universalist Urban Ministry (UUUM) in Roxbury. In this capacity, he takes responsibility for the overall management and engagement with UUUM’s 50 partner congregations, along with the host of volunteers that serve the organization. Outside of that role, Marvin is an advocate, political analyst, government liaison, public speaker, and an entrepreneur. He was formerly Deputy Director of Government Affairs for the Massachusetts State Treasury,
and prior to that he was the Executive Director of the Massachusetts Black & Latino Legislative Caucus.
Mr. Venay will give a sermon on the Christian Bible verse Titus 3:14, which encourages people "to devote themselves to good works in order to meet urgent needs.” The service will be led by Jaimie Dingus, our Membership Coordinator at First Parish and a seminarian at Harvard Divinity School.
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From the Parish CommitteeI feel honored to have the chance to serve our community as a member of the Parish Committee. While I have long enjoyed teaching in the youth program, helping at rummage, and occasionally sitting on one committee or other, it was with some trepidation that I accepted the invitation to join the Parish Committee. I had been vaguely aware that the good folks who have signed on for this job have committed a great deal of their time and energy to the church, but at no time has that been more apparent to me than now, having served for just a matter of months. I have much to learn, but one thing is certain: our community is truly fortunate to have members who time and again devote themselves with passionate conviction to steward and grow this wonderful community.
On the business side of things, the Parish Committee continues to work on the FY19 budget and we’re excited to have launched this spring’s annual stewardship initiative. Please keep an eye
out for personalized packets in the mail and mark your calendars for Canvass Night on April 7 – a night of entertainment and camaraderie.
We were joined again at our March meeting by Bill Morrison to continue discussion of the proposal to install solar panels on the south-side roof of the Parish House. We are completing our due diligence and investigating financing and our facilities needs as we prepare to make a final determination.Finally, special thanks this month to Paige O’Brien for her invaluable assistance with canvass and to all of our canvass volunteers who are now beginning their outreach – and to all of you, in advance, for your generous participation which is so crucial to the health of the church!
We value your feedback. Contact us anytime and join us for our monthly Listening Hour on April 8.
Thaddeus Thompson, for the Parish Committee
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The Youth Roomby Honor Herron, Youth Coordinator
For this month’s article, while I am still filled with the glow from our amazing Youth Service that took place recently on March 18, I am moved to publish this open letter to our High School Youth.
Dear Youth,
Thank you for sharing your stories, exposing your souls, and shining your light so beautifully at our Youth Service last month. My heart could not be beaming more brightly or beating more proudly. Thank you for taking on the difficult topic of “Vulnerability” so thoughtfully; you not only embraced the theme but embodied it, truly demonstrating the strength of vulnerability. Your conviction was uplifting and infectious. I cannot imagine how anyone in the room could not have felt it. I could not have faced my own fear of Public Speaking without you. Truly inspiring.Thank you for your hard work leading up the service. We know you are all so busy and have other places you could be, things you could be doing, or snow days you could be sleeping through. I am so lucky not only to have witnessed your creativity, vibrant energy, and thoughtful minds in the Sanctuary on March 18th, but to have had the great privilege of meeting with you throughout the year. You all make me feel that much more hopeful and confident to be bringing another soul into what can at times be a very scary and confusing world. Thank you for your vulnerability and thank you for sharing it so openly and eloquently. Thank you for the bravery and for shining your light on our community so brightly this dark Winter and for all the light (and fun) to come.With an open heart,
HonorPS. The service would not have been possible without the support of many, but special appreciation goes to the junior group members who are always enthusiastic and ready to get their hands dirty to support their community and peers. Thank you for stepping up to the plate as amazing ushers and bubble de-tanglers (and corn bread makers two storms in a row!!)
After a busy Winter season, the high school and junior youth groups will have their first meeting of the Spring April 8th at 4:30 PM in the Youth Room. We will be participating in painting the flames on the new rummage aprons that will have our logo on them. We look forward to visiting the Great Dane puppies of Service Dog Project, Inc. in Ipswich with the junior youth group on Sunday April 15th (no meeting April 13th).
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We all want to feel good about our charitable giving. And, as First Parish is entirely supported by parishioners, we all want to do our part. The capacity for giving is different for each family. Some of us are just starting out, retired, or facing financial insecurity. Some of us have large expenses such as college tuition or supporting a family member in need. Most people fund several charities, so First Parish receives a slice of our giving. As Unitarian-Universalists, we find wisdom from many different religious traditions:
● Christian and Jewish faith traditions suggest tithing 10% of income. In the Bible, Jacob tithes to God. “All that thou shalt give me I will surely give a tenth unto thee.”
● Zakat in the Muslim religion commands a donation of 2.5% of total wealth each year.● Buddhism considers giving an antidote to miserliness and worldly attachment.● According to national studies, Americans contribute around 3% to 4% of income. The most
generous groups are the top (“over $10M” 5.9%) and bottom (“under $20K” 4.6%).● The UUA offers a multi-dimensional, 10x12 giving matrix (visit UUA.org). Suggested giving
ranges from 2% to 10% of income, based on depth of connection to the church and income.At bottom is a chart showing how much First Parish donors pledge. The gifts to our congregation are equally divided among gifts of all sizes. While most organizations publish donor lists, First Parish does not. We want everyone to feel comfortable at our church no matter what they give. UUs recognize the inherent worth and dignity of everyone.
In our families, we give to charity for three main purposes: to support causes we believe in; to support institutions that benefit our family; and to support our friends and our community. As the church impacts all three in so many ways, First Parish is our biggest charitable priority each year. In the end, here are our hopes:We hope you have the ability to give 5% to 10% or more of your income to causes that you care about. We hope that First Parish is one of the top 3 of those causes. As we hope First Parish is meaningful to you, we hope the size of your gift to First Parish will be meaningful to you, whatever the amount.
Whether First Parish is (or is not) a Top 3 cause, we hope you’ll reflect on what you love about First Parish, and on how First Parish can grow to be even more meaningful to you. We look forward to hearing your thoughts in the feedback survey on the future of First Parish.
Gratefully, Bill Morrison and Ross Trimby, 2018 Stewardship Co-Chairs
Stewardship Corner: Is There a “Right” Amount to Give to Our Church?
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Knit 1, Laugh 2!Mostly Wednesdays, 7:00 pm - 9:00 p.m.Beautiful things come together a stitch at a time, be it a sweater or a new friendship. The knitters meet weekly on Tuesday or Wednesday nights and will welcome you warmly. Contact Greta Stone by email or at 508-358-4729 for information and location.From Muslin to Magnificent“Light the Flame” Apron Painting EventSunday, April 8, 4:30-6:00 p.m.Vestry - See page 9 for details.
Winter Session 2018 Declared a Hit!Through wind and rain and snow (and power losses!), First Parish braved it all to take part in the second annual Winter Session, once again beating back the winter doldrums and Waking Up to Something New! Winter Session seemed to revive our spirits. Just consider these facts:•More than 265 people participated in 15 workshops, classes, outings, and events offered over the month of March.•More than 50 people came to more than one event. •Participants ranged in age from 4 years olds to nonagenarians.•Three events were open to the wider community and some parishioners brought their friends to smaller events. We saw 7 or 8 new faces.We laughed at Boston Improv, cried as we delved into serious issues (opioids and racial profiling), watched and critiqued a great movie, made music, enjoyed docent-led tours of two museums, visited Ken LeBaron’s art studio, stocked a Fair Foods Truck at the Urban Ministry, learned about First Parish history from three of our own historians, increased our skills in story telling, watercolor painting and creative brainstorming and even learned how we might save a life with an Automated External Defibrillator and basic CPR. Now if that isn’t Community LIFE, what is?Thanks to the following 2018 presenters for making Winter Session a hit: Diane Muffitt, Laurel Whitehouse, Kate Holland, Alex Gibber, Liz LeBaron, Lynne Cavanaugh, Jim Kitendaugh,
Mary Trageser, Bob Mainer, Dick Hoyt, Molly Beard, Dr. Traci Green, the Rev. Stephanie May, Susan Crowley Bechtel, Tom Plant, Assistant Fire Chief Neil McPherson, Karen Krowne, Ann Moses, Dan Lewis, and Chauncey Wilson.Looking Ahead to 2019As we wind up this year’s Winter Session, we have lots of questions, and we’d love to hear your thoughts.
• What worked this year? What didn’t? • Have we got the scheduling right? Time of
year? Density of programming?• What kind of events would YOU like to see
on the CLC calendar?Maybe you would like to join us! Whether you’d like to set up some chairs or present a whole program, we are always looking for help. We keep a list of folks who’d like to help out in one way or another, and we’d be happy to add your name to it. Let’s mine our collective talents and ideas. Talk to any member of the Community Life Committee or email [email protected]. Community Life Committee members: Susan Crowley Bechtel, Lynne Cavanaugh, Pat Collins, Alex Gibber, Nan Jahnke, Lynne Lipcon, Annie Muschett, Andy Myers, Beth Raynor, and ex officio members Kate Holland and Beth Butler. A huge thank you to all the participants too numerous to list and a special thanks to Paige O’Brien for printing assistance, room scheduling, eblasting, enthusiasm, and so much more.
On to Rummage and Stewardship!After the Apron Painting Event, CLC takes a break to make way for First Parish’s two big spring community-builders: the Rummage Sale and the Stewardship Dinners & Talent Show. Make some new friends and enjoy the company of old ones as we celebrate the return of spring.
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Last month we invited SEEK parents to dinner to get their feedback on how programming for our children and youth was going and where we wanted to take the SEEK program. I was thrilled that we had so many parents join us. We started the night asking which programs and curricula the families felt were important and working well. It was great to hear that curricula like Our Whole Lives (OWL), Bibleodeon, and Travel in Time (a curriculum on famous UUs) were successful with kids and parents. Programs like Social justice Sundays that tie into the social justice work our congregation does, Coming of Age and the youth working with mentors, and youth programs that bring the children out for fun activities and social justice work were also mentioned as things the children and youth enjoy and parents felt were important in supporting the values they want their children to learn.The parents also spent time talking about the concepts and things they would like to be continued, brought back, or added to our SEEK program as we move forward. Some of the things that people mentioned were: 1) giving the children a firm grasp of our seven principles - talking about where they come from and how do we live them in our lives, 2) teaching our children how they may express who we are as Unitarian Universalists - their “elevator speech,” 3) fostering religious literacy by taking time to study other faith traditions
and visiting places where those traditions are practiced, and 4) bringing back the “Mystery Friends” program to help bring different generations together.We then shared some great ideas on tools to try in support of busy families that want to stay connected: having a linkable Google calendar, building a YouTube library of videos that follow the topics covered in classes, and having a middle of the week multigenerational SEEK program - all things that we will look into.
Lastly, we talked about reaching out to other families in the community: making sure SEEK programming was part of the weekly information we put into the Town Crier, holding events like our STEM night that can encourage outside participation, offering workshops and programs of interest to parents, and bringing friends or simply talking about what you like about First Parish.
It was great to be able to hear from so many of you. If you didn’t have a chance to make it to the dinner I would still love to hear what you think about our SEEK program. I am so grateful to be working with a group of people who care so deeply about what our SEEK program offers to their children and youth.
This month in Spiritual and Ethical Exploration -- Kate Holland, DLSEE**Director of Lifespan Spiritual and Ethical Exploration, including SEE for Kids, or SEEK:
Equal Exchange Products for SaleSunday, April 15 & 29
The Equal Exchange team continues to sell coffee, chocolate, oil, and tea every other week during coffee hour after church. For more info email Deb Stubeda or Bobby Robinson or visit http://equalexchange.coop/products
Women’s Alliance Spring Dinner (aka “Girls Night Out”)
Tuesday, May 15, 6:30 p.m, Vestry, $20
The women of First Parish are invited to gather for a spring evening of socializing and a catered meal. For more information and to RSVP, contact Jan Miner or Carol Hicks.
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From Muslin to Magnificent“Light the Flame” Apron Painting EventSunday, April 8, 4:30 p.m., VestryPlease join artist John Thompson and Rummage Queens Kathie Cromwell and Deb Stubeda as they light the flame of our new church logo and spiff up our Rummage work clothes. We have 50 new muslin aprons silk-screened with the new logo—everything but the all-important flames. They are awaiting your finishing touch in time for their debut at the Rummage Sale on April 28.
Help us change this:
to this:
How often do you have the chance to rub elbows with a renowned artist and royalty, too? You know you want to be there so now let Community Life know, too! Contact the Community Life Committee or phone Lynne Lipcon at 508-358-2767 to reserve your spot! Appropriate for both teenagers and adults.
Wonder where the Rummage proceeds go?Historically, 60% of the proceeds are given to the operating budget of First Parish. Another 30% are reserved for benevolences to a variety of charities, some affiliated with First Parish, some not. In years past these awards have been overseen by the Alliance Board with support from the Rummage Queens. This year, by vote of the Alliance, the decision making will be transferred to the members of the Social Action Council.
Please mark your calendars for TUESDAY MAY 22 if you would like to request a donation from the Rummage Sale proceeds to benefit your work in a charitable area. Kathie Cromwell and Deb Stubeda (our stalwart and fabulous RQ’s!) will join members of the SAC starting at 7 p.m. If you have any questions about this new process, or to request a 15 minute slot for your presentation, please contact me at the address below.We look forward to a fun and successful Rummage and the opportunity to continue to do good work both at First Parish and in our charitable endeavors.Suzanne Tiberii ,Social Action Council Chair
Spring Tea for Perennials*Wednesday, April 18 at 2:00 p.m.
The senior women of First Parish are invited to join Rev. Stephanie at her home in Lincoln for an afternoon tea. Enjoy this time to connect with friends in a quiet, relaxed place. Rides available. Email Pat Sims or call her at 508 358 1611, and please RSVP by April 12 to Stephanie or by calling the church office at 508 358 6133. Directions to Stephanie’s house will be provided.*Perennials - a word suggesting “seniors” used by psychology professor Laura Carstensen as Stephanie noted in her recent sermon on aging; or a word describing a plant that comes back year after year.
Save the Date: First Parish Annual Meeting
Sunday, May 20Immediately after the service
If you are responsible for your committee or group's Annual Report submission, please send to our Parish Administrator, Paige O'Brien, no later than Friday, May 4.
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Archives: Making Our History More AccessibleAlso, an archival gift from a descendent of Edmund Hamilton Sears
A change is coming to our archive collection. For centuries, literally, First Parish has been collecting and preserving documents and artifacts that reflect our more than 350 years of history. Some of the key events through the church’s existence have been discussed over the years from the pulpit, but most of the collection that holds this history sits locked in a large closet in the Sun Room in the Vestry, unseen by most of the church membership.
The Archives Committee, made up of Mary Trageser, Liz LeBaron and Jay Woodruff, have been joined by several interested members, including Minister Emeritus Ken Sawyer, Ann Knight, Rita Anderson and Lynn Trimby, to find a way to make our treasures easily accessible online and in person.
This February, with guidance from Ann Knight, church member and recently retired librarian of the Wayland Free Public Library, we applied for and received a grant from the Mass State Historical Records Advisory Board to help identify and preserve our records, and to make them more readily accessible. A meeting with Roving Archivist Rachel Onuf on Monday, March 12 was the result. Rachel will help us on an advisory basis for the next few months or so as we develop ways to raise the organizational level of our collection’s already carefully identified and “databased” documents and artifacts.
Gift from descendent of our one-time minister, Edmund Hamilton Sears. On March 12, during our meeting with Roving Archivist Rachel Onuf, Paige brought in a just-received, lovely photograph album of a UU Service Committee work camp in Mexico, July-September, 1951. The gift came to us from a nephew of Leila Sears, a member of First Parish and descendent of Edmund Hamilton Sears. Ken Sawyer describes the album for us here:
“Pictured along with local workers are UU ministers Malcolm Sutherland and Ray Manker, their wives, and other UU volunteers, including Leila Sears of the First Parish in Wayland. Ms. Sears created the album, which includes pictures of the work and socializing, with white on black descriptions. Rev. Manker was the Wayland minister.”
From the same benefactor, we received photocopies of two 19th century documents relating to the abolitionist movement of the mid 1860s, both of which feature Rev. Sears. They make for remarkable reading, because beyond his fame as the author of the Christmas classic “It Came Upon the Midnight Clear,” Sears was, among other things, an outspoken abolitionist leading up to the Civil war. Contact anyone from the Archives Committee if you’re interested in seeing them.
Best, Archives Committee
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Music NotesThinking About Pianos
Are you downsizing and perhaps have a high-quality piano that you would either like to sell or gift to First Parish in the next year or so? Those who attended the Music Sunday performance on the last Sunday of March were treated to a fine display of virtuosic piano playing, as the piano duo of Bonnie Anderson and Donna Gross Javel provided the four-hand accompaniment written by Brahms for our Liebeslieder performance. Unfortunately most of us who heard the performance couldn’t see the performers, as they were tucked upstairs playing our Steinway grand, gifted to us so generously years ago by Hattie Best, one of our longest-reigning choir members. We’re starting to look a way to address this because we know there’s a big advantage for all of us if more of our Music Sunday performances – and some regular Sunday services – can be presented from the front of the church. While we do have a small Baldwin piano on the vestry floor that is occasionally pressed into service, it lacks the power and authority to serve as a fundamental accompaniment tool. It’s even less suited to any kind of serious musical performance. And that’s why we performed Liebeslieder from the choir loft.
And so, here is an Invitation: if you know of someone who is thinking of selling, or who might consider gifting a fine, classic piano at the level of a Steinway or equivalent excellence, let Polly, Oliver, our music director, know. We’re working out the details of what we’re looking for and how it might be paid for and maintained, and we will communicate further in the next several months to keep you informed.
Art AbloomSunday, May 13 (Mother’s Day)
An annual tradition featuring floral arrangements by people in the congregation who have been inspired by artwork created by children in our SEEK program. This year’s theme is “Peace” and we are looking for volunteers to make arrangements to go with the artwork. If you are new to floral arranging and would like some guidance, we will offer a floral arranging tutorial on Friday, May 11, 7:00pm to 8:30pm in the Vestry. For more information or to sign up, please contact Kate Holland.
Two Ways to MeditateSunday, April 15
in the Upstairs ClassroomDo you practice meditation or have some curiosity about it? If so, please feel free to join for one or both of these sessions.No experience required – we often have newcomers and welcome all.
Mindfulness Chat and Meditation11:30 a.m. - 12:15 p.m.
– Introduction / warm up (5 minutes)– Opening meditation (10 minutes)– Discussion / activities (25 minutes)– Closing meditation (3-5 minutes, as time permits
before 12:15 p.m. end time)
15-Minute Seated Meditation12:20 - 12:35 p.m.
For more information about either event
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Lydia Maria Child Fund - New Projects FundedThe Lydia Maria Child Fund has just funded two exciting new proposals: a Ugandan supply project and funds for two buses to the March for Our Lives event in Boston.
By the time this goes to press, many in our congregation and in the wider community will have taken the buses to Boston to participate in the march to raise awareness about gun violence. How wonderful to be able raise our voices together with others in our community - and not worry about parking!Barbara Pedulla will be heading up the Ugandan Supply project, along with Robert Enoch, Janice Molloy, Pat Sims, and Deb Stubeda. The project will involve gathering and shipping desperately needed items to Uganda (e.g. clothing, books, linens, backpacks, and cooking supplies). This will be done in collaboration with our congregation, other religious communities, school groups and scout troops. Look elsewhere in this issue for more details about how you can help! Thanks to all who have submitted funding proposals so far. Please keep the ideas coming and think big! We have plenty of funds to support many more projects! If you have an idea you’d like to explore, please contact one of us on the committee or send us an email at [email protected]. We’d be happy to help you develop your idea.
Funds can be used to support new social action activities that involves First Parish Members and friends. Partisan activities and “checkbook activism” (i.e. redistribution of funds to other organizations) are ineligible for funding. Find out more and/or complete a proposal form available on the website https://www.uuwayland.org/lydia-maria-child-fund-for-activism/Projects Funded to date:
● Purple Lighting for the church facade - to raise awareness about Domestic Violence ● Bus for ALS Walk participants - to raise awareness of social justice issues in ALS● Beekeeping supplies and training - to start a beehive at the Community Garden and raise
awareness about the relationship between bees and the environment● Ugandan Supply Project - to provide needed supplies, and raise awareness of the inequities and
human rights issues facing Ugandans.● Bus for March for Our Lives, Boston participants - to raise awareness of gun violence
Finally, we’d like to thank Sepi Hashemi for her service as she has decided to step down from the committee this year. Sepi, we will miss you and your thoughtful perspective and advocacy for youth involvement. At the same time, we extend a warm welcome to Lynne Cavanaugh, recently appointed by the Parish Committee to join the LMCF team: Phil Giudice, Molly Beard, Chris Stix, Jenny Silberman, Suzanne Tiberii, and Stephanie May.
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The Uganda Project: A New First Parish Initiative
A new social action project funded by the Lydia Maria Child Fund aims to support struggling communities in Uganda with shipments of desperately needed goods. The project will also address the needs of Ugandan immigrants in Waltham. There will be many opportunities to get involved in large or small ways.
Called The Uganda Project, this initiative is co-led by Barbara Pedulla and Robert Enoch, an immigrant from Uganda who now attends First Parish. Robert and some fellow Ugandans helped with Rummage clean-up last year, and shipped unsold items to Uganda, something Robert has been doing about three times each year for the three years he’s been in the U.S., at his own considerable expense. This project was born from that action. First Parish’s Uganda Project will focus on collecting goods at Rummage and elsewhere throughout our surrounding communities, shipping them to Uganda, and providing them to the Ugandan immigrant community in Waltham. The goal is three shipments per year, or perhaps just two in this first year, including the “after Rummage” shipment. Project leaders – currently including Deb Stubeda, Janice Molloy and Pat Sims in addition to Barbara and Robert – intend to reach out to community groups and other religious communities to collaborate on The Uganda Project.
Information SessionSunday, April 15, 11:15 a.m, Sunroom
The project leaders invite everyone to learn why the LMC Fund Committee supports this work as an expression of First Parish’s mission and values. Uganda is one of the world’s poorest nations, where nearly 40 percent of the population lives on less than $1.25 a day. Clothing, household items, hygiene products, and other goods are scarce and expensive. Extreme poverty, brutality and fear are part of daily life for millions of Ugandans. Come hear Robert Enoch talk about life in Uganda and his discovery of First Parish. (NOTE: This presentation may not be appropriate for children under 12. Please speak with Barbara Pedulla or another member of the committee for more information).
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Turning Point - A Month of Caring
Save the Date: First Parish Work Day at the UU Urban Ministry
Saturday, May 12 9 a.m. - 1 p.m.Please join our annual Workday to assist the UU Urban Ministry programs. This day has always been a great way to support the UU Urban Ministry, to work side-by-side with UUUM program participants, and to enjoy time together. Event is rain or shine and lunch will be provided. For more info and to sign up, please contact Annie Stubbs or Dan Lewis. Stay tuned to upcoming weekly e-blasts for more details.
March was a tough month but First Parish never forgot that it was tougher for the homeless men of Turning Point. The generous folks who made it to church on March 4, the date of our annual shared plate, contributed just over $500 for Turning Point! Thank you all! The proceeds from the plate are used to pay for “picnics” in July, August and September when church is not in regular session and the Turning Point cook needs to feed the men in a house devoid of air conditioning. The plate also pays for the disposable tins and lids for our cooks and bakers. With leftovers from other events, we go through a crate of 100 of each every year! At the Social Action Council (SAC) meeting after church on the 4th, Suzanne Tiberii reminded the group that $345 of our social action grant remained unspent, and invited us to make proposals. We are discussing a possible gift with Turning Point Director Chris Orcutt which will have to be approved by a vote of the SAC and of the Turning Point Committee. Tune in next month!A special thanks goes to the generous cooks and bakers who overcame the challenges of extended power outages to do this month’s meal: Barbara Buell, Marty McCullough, Melinda, and Jim van Sciver made hot, savory chili, Linda Collins and Kathy Heckscher offered dessert, and the Wilsons added clementines. Honor and the Middle School Youth (assisted by Melinda and Penny Wilson) came through for the second time this winter this time with homemade corn muffins for 60. And to Melinda Morgan, who has been driving all winter.
Melinda says: “With yet another winter event on the horizon Chris and Roberto from Turning Point were particularly happy to see the First Parish delivery on Monday. They have had an extraordinary year with weather related building issues, and always with extreme conditions comes greater need for emergency housing and meals for guests who otherwise may not seek shelter. Thank you all for your efforts and beneficence that make the First Parish Mondays such a welcomed occasion!”
We’ll be cooking for Turning Point on April 9, May 7 and June 11 – for 45 in April, and then for 30 until it turns cold again, since the shelter tends to have less demand for emergency meals in the warmer months. If you haven’t cooked yet this year, it is not too late to get involved. It’s a simple menu -- chili, bread and butter, fruit and/or dessert -- and pans and recipes for the chili are provided. Fruit and desserts in any quantity, homemade or otherwise, are always welcome. The members of the Turning Point Committee transport the food from the church to Turning Point so you just have to get it to church. Sunday drop-offs are always welcome! Sign-up sheets are on the Vestry table. If you have questions, please speak to any member of the Turning Point Committee: Peggy Holland, Sandy Hoyt, Marney Ives, Marty McCullough, Melinda Morgan, Suzanne Reitz, Annie Stubbs, Chauncey Wilson or Penny Wilson (chair). And thank you for all the varied, generous ways you make a difference to Turning Point!Penny Wilson, for the Turning Point Committee
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Warm Membership Welcomesby Jaimie Dingus,
Membership Coordinator
Support Needed for Wayland Resident in I.C.E. Detention
We have received a request from the UUA to provide support for a Wayland resident in ICE Detention. Immediate needs include Spanish language speakers to write letters of comfort to the detainee and/or communicate with family members in town, as well as financial support for lost wages and potential legal fees. Please contact Rachel Sideman-Kurtz if you can help or have a general interest in immigration issues.
This month as part of a class I’m taking at Harvard Divinity School on “Spiritual Care in Muslim Communities,” I visited a Qur’an study group at the Islamic Society of Boston’s Cultural Center. It was a beautiful evening of community building and prayer. Though I was impressed by the vibrant community and the thoughtful engagement of scripture, what was most striking was the culture of welcome, a great example of the concepts I’ve been trying to incorporate at First Parish. Walking in the door, another participant overheard me talking to the help desk, and offered to walk me to the meeting room. Once inside, another woman showed me where I could sit. A third beckoned me over to the snack table explaining the delicious looking, but unfamiliar treats that were on offer. When the class broke to pray the fifth daily prayer, a member of the community saw the look of confusion on my face, and told me where she likes to sit on days that she doesn’t choose to pray. When I returned to the table, realizing I did not have a Qur’an with me, a man near me was already walking back toward me with one in hand
so I could participate. At the end of the night a woman, my age, who had sat next to me walked with me to the train station. We rode together, and have made plans to get ice cream next week. That’s the kind of welcome I received as an outsider to the ISBCC community, even when it was clear that I was not a potential new convert, but a student there for a class. What would it look like if every new visitor had three or six interactions with members of our community who were genuinely happy to greet them? What would it look like if we anticipated the needs of our visitors, sliding in to our pews to make room for a latecomer or handing them a hymnal already turned to the right hymn? What if we all looked around during coffee hour, ensuring that no one stood alone? What would happen if we personally invited our visitors to coffee or another FPW event, folding them into our community as friends we have yet to get to know well? Let’s work together to emulate this kind of welcome.
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Beyond Our Walls
Wayland Cleans Up!Trash Pick-Up Event
Saturday April 710 a.m.-4 p.m.
Join Molly Faulkner and Kaat Vander Straeten for Wayland’s annual roadside trash pick-Up event. If you stop by either the Cochituate Ball Field (40 West Plain Street) or the Department of Public Works (66 River Road) between 10 AM and 2 PM you can pick up free bags, gloves, and instructions. Sort recyclables and trash into separate bags. For large or hazardous items, email
[email protected] to arrange a pick up. Drop off “collections” at the Wayland Transfer Station (484 Boston Post Road) before 3:30 PM.
All are welcome! Wear bright colors (for safety), insect repellent, sunscreen, hats. Take selfies and share on social media. Email [email protected] if you want to help at the stations or volunteer your truck. The rain date isSaturday, April 14. If in doubt, check www.transitionwayland.org to see if it’s on, or subscribe to MassEnergize at www.massenergize.org.
Interested in more Spring Greening efforts in Wayland? Visit www.MassEnergize.org and, after choosing “Wayland”, select “Spring Greening”!Submitted by Molly Faulkner & Janet Hadingham for the Green Sanctuary Committee
Documentary Viewing & Book Discussion
Friday, April 6 6:30 p.m.Unitarian Universalist Area Church
11 Washington Street, Sherborn
Join the Immigration Justice Team of UUAC in Sherborn for a viewing of “Papers” followed by a discussion of “Just like Us” by Helen Thorpe. All are invited, reading of the book is not required.
Open Minds, Open Hearts:2nd Annual Massachusetts
Open Mosque DaySunday, April 8, 3-6 p.m.Islamic Center of Boston
126 Boston Post Road, WaylandMeet your Muslim neighbors, learn about Islam, enjoy cultural food and have fun! Islam 101 - 3:10pm and 5:20pmMuslims and Islam in America Today - 3:45pmEarly History of Muslims in New England - 4:45pmShort Films, Interactive Displays, Books, Free Educational Material, RefreshmentsClick here for flyer. This event is also being held at 20 other mosques across Massachusetts. See http://icbwayland.org/include/MAOpenMosque2018.pdf
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The Wayland Unitarian is the monthly newsletter of the First Parish in Wayland, a Unitarian Universalist congregation. Weekly calendar announcements are listed in the Order of Service available at the Sunday service, and a full calendar of events is posted on our website, www.uuwayland.org, and on Facebook at facebook.com/fpw1815
Parish Office Hours Monday-Friday, 8:30 am-2:30 pmOffice Phone Number: 508-358-6133
Our Staff:Kate Holland, Director of Lifespan Spiritual and
Ethical ExplorationPolly Oliver, Music Director and Organist
Honor Herron, Youth Coordinator
Jaimie Dingus, Membership Coordinator
Paige O’Brien, Parish Administrator
Leo Monzon, Bookkeeper
Meggan Thermitus, Coffee Hour Coordinator
Michelle Poch & Christine Bracken, Childcare
Worship Service and SEEK (Spiritual & Ethical Exploration for Kids)Sundays at 10 a.m.
Location and AddressFirst Parish is located at 225 Boston Post Road in Wayland, Massachusetts, at the corner of Routes 20, 126 and 27. Our mailing address is: P.O. Box 397, Wayland MA 01778.
Our MinistersThe Rev. Dr. Stephanie May, Minister
The Rev. Ken Sawyer, Minister EmeritusThe Rev. Dr. Deborah Pope-Lance, Affiliate Minister
First Parish in Wayland,A Unitarian UniversalistCongregation
Your Part in Recycling at First ParishTrash recycling is alive and well at First Parish thanks to Suzanne and Jim Tiberii. Every Saturday, Suzanne and Jim take First Parish’s recyclables from Shed #12 and transport them to the Recycling Center at Wayland’s Transfer Station – and they have done it for years! But while we are lucky to have two dedicated people who take the recyclables to their destination, as users of the church buildings WE NEED YOUR HELP. You can express your support for our mission to practice sustainable use of our planet and its resources by making sure that you distinguish between recyclable trash and other waste. If you hold a meeting or event at the church, or if you are part of the cleanup effort for those things, we ask you to dispose of the trash generated by that event in one of two locations:
1. CLEAN RECYCLABLE MATERIALS ONLY (clean paper, cardboard, metal, glass, returnable bottles, or plastic) should be placed in the correct bins in Shed #12 (the bins are clearly marked.) Please remember: Food waste is not recyclable; dirty food containers are not recyclable (and both will attract rodents.)
2. ALL MIXED TRASH, FOOD WASTE, GARBAGE, AND OTHER ITEMS should be in a plastic trash bag that goes into the dumpster at the back of the parking lot next to the playground. If you aren’t sure, use the dumpster.
We don’t have anyone to empty the wastebaskets on a daily basis, so if everyone participates in cleaning up the trash generated by their specific event, we will be able to keep the buildings much cleaner. Thank you.
