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The Encyclopediaof Love Magic:
Over 100 Spells, Charms, and Divinations
Written by Eliza Yetter
e l i z a @ s a c r e d s p i r a l . c o m
Copyright 2005.
All Rights Reserved.
This PDF file may not be posted on any website
except for sacredspiral.com.
Not for resale.
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Contents
Dream Magic
Shoes
Stockings
Garters
Pennies
Dream Lover
Dove Feather
Onion
Apples
Salted Egg
Bay Leaves
Rosemary Sprig
St. John’s Wort
Dandelion Dream Root
Pink Yarrow
Honeysuckle Wreath
Ivy Leaves
Even Ash Leaf
Sprig of Yew
Dream Haunting
Dream Mirror
Dumb Cake
Padlock and Key
Four Kings
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Divination
Candle Flame
Spring and Candle
Mirror and Well
Who Loves Me Stone
Wedding Ring Pendulum
Hanging Apples
Apple Seeds
Apple Peel
Book Divination
Odds and Evens
He Loves
Pear Tree
Even Ash Leaf
Hawthorn Branch
Sage Leaves
Rosemary and Flour
Yarrow Leaf
Four-Leaf Clover
Ivy Leaves
Dandelion Fluff
Carlins
Pea Pod
Hempseed
Cigar
Tossing a Die
Handkerchief
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Love Letter
Choosing a New Lover
Comb
Gold Ring
Acorns
Walnut Shells
Walnut Tree
Hazel Nuts
Wax Divination (Voskolitie)
Three Bowls
Cat Whiskers
Wishbone
Trail of Ashes
Spells, Charms, and Rituals
Full Moon Ashes
Hooked Heart
Matchbox Love Spell
Two Red Hearts
Braided Anklet
Circle of Stones
Candle Lighting Love Spell
Two Sticks
Popsicle Sticks
The Faithful Wink
Lemon Balm Pillow
Stone with Two Names
Locked in Love
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Valerian
Armpit Orange
Simple Heart Spell
Five pennies in a Well
Bent Pennies
Luck Changer
Herb Bundle
To Attract a Soul Mate
The Daisy Sending
Moth Sending
Clam Shell and Candle
Attract a Lover Parchment Amulet
Knotted Hair
Bottled Love
Rose Quartz Amulet
Finding a New Partner for You and Your Children
Walnut Shell Boat
Tree-Bound Love
Names in the Sand
Red Wine
Chicory Root
Binding the Knave of Hearts
Fern Leaf
Ivy Leaf
Footprints
To Force a Confrontation
Twelve Pins
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Love Stinks
Undoing Love Spells
Water Dump
Two Separate Candles
Appendix
Gods and Goddesses of Love
Superstitions
Dream Dictionary
Bibliography
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Dream Magic
S h o e s
To dream of your future lover, put a pair of your shoes
inside your bedroom door with the toes of your shoes pointing
in towards your room. This action will provide you with a dream
showing you the next lover that will walk into your life.
Another popular bit of dream magic involving shoes
requires you to place your shoes in the form of a T on your
windowsill. Say:
“Hoping this night my true love to see,
I’ve placed my shoes in the form of a T.”
S t o c k i n g s
Before going to bed on a Friday night, put your left
stocking into your right stocking, and say:
“This is the blessed Friday night
I put my left stocking into my right;
To dream of the living and not the dead,
To dream of the man that I am to wed.”
Place the stockings under your pillow when you are
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finished saying the rhyme.
G a r t e r s
Using garters in dream divinations was once popular
throughout Europe and the United States. There are numerous
variations of this spell but nearly all require the girl to
knot her garter nine times before going to sleep.
For this first divination, the girl must knit her left
garter around her right stocking nine times. She begins by
saying the rhyme below and makes a knot at each comma:
“This knot I knit,
To know the thing,
I know not yet,
That I may see,
The man that shall my husband be,
How he goes,
And what he wears,
And what he does,
All days,
And years.”
Another dream divination involving garters requires the
girl to tie her garters around the bedposts nine times while
saying:
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“This knot I knit, this knot I tie,
To see my lover as he goes by,
In his apparel and array,
As he walks about in every day.”
The following dream divination does not require the girl
to knit her garters. Instead, she is to pin her garters to the
wall:
“I pin my garters to the wall,
And put my shoes in the shape of a T,
In hopes my true love for to see,
Not in his apparel nor in his array,
But in the clothes he wears every day.
If I am his bride to be,
If I am his clothes to wear,
If I am his children to bear,
I hope he’ll turn his face to me;
But if I am not his bride to be,
If I am not his clothes to wear,
If I am not his children to bear,
I hope he’ll turn his back to me.”
After performing any of the above garter dream
divinations, the girl is to immediately get into the bed and
not speak another word until waking in the morning.
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P e n n i e s
To dream the face of your true love, gather five pennies.
Place one penny under each corner of your mattress and one
under the center of your mattress before going to bed.
Dream Lover
A wise woman recently confided in me that she had a dream
lover that visited her nearly every night. When I asked her how
she managed to conjure up a dream lover she said that she
covered the top of her boxspring with a mixture of dried
mugwort and dried red rose petals. After putting the mattress
back upon the boxspring, she tied four gold strings, one on
each leg of the bed. She replaces the dried herbs monthly and
on nights when she doesn’t want any visitations she unties the
gold strings.
Dove Feather
Whether you are infatuated with a movie star or a
character in a book, you can create a dream image of the person
or character for dreamtime romances. All you need is a dove’s
feather (the bird of Venus and of lovers’ souls), a bottle of
ink, a slip of white paper, and three dimes. Snip off the end
point of the dove feather and use it as a quill to write the
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person or character’s name on the paper. When dry, put the
paper inside your pillowcase and place the three dimes on your
windowsill. Happy dreaming!
O n i o n
To sleep with an onion under your pillow will enable you
to dream of your future lover. The onion also drives away
negative energy and will absorb recurring nightmares.
A p p l e s
To discover whether or not you will marry the man you
love, push a pin into a juicy red apple. Put the middle finger
of your left hand on the head of the pin and say the man’s
name. Place the apple under your pillow. When you have gotten
into bed to go to sleep, clap your hands together one time and
say:
“If you be he that must have me
To be your wedded bride,
Make no delay,
Come right away,
This night to my bedside.”
Another dream divination requires that you be given an
apple on Halloween. Place the apple under your pillow and you
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will dream of your future husband or wife.
Salted Egg
For those who like salty foods, one way to dream of a
future lover is to remove the yolk from a hard boiled egg and
put salt in its place. Eat this just before going to bed.
A similar dream divination states that you should eat the
yolk, salt the white, and put the salted eggwhite under your
pillow.
Bay Leaves
Gather five bay leaves on the night of a full moon. Pin a
bay leaf to each of the four corners of your pillow and one bay
leaf to the center of your pillow. Say:
“I now lay down to go to sleep,
My dreams will show me if I keep
My sweetheart, and if married we,
Before the year is out, shall be.”
Rosemary Sprig
On the night before Halloween, put a sprig of rosemary and
a silver coin under your pillow to dream of your future husband
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or wife.
St. John’s Wort
On the night before Midsummer Day, gather nine yellow St.
John’s Wort flowers and place them under your pillow. You will
dream of the person you will marry.
Dandelion Dream Root
To dream the face of your next lover, dig up and dry a
dandelion root. When completely dried, tie a red thread around
the root. Keep this root in a pouch of its own and whenever you
desire to see who your next lover will be, place the root under
your pillow before going to sleep.
Pink Yarrow
To dream of the man you will marry, gather pink yarrow,
and say:
“Yarrow, pink yarrow, the first that I have found,
In the name of Love, I have plucked you from the ground.
Always when I hold you, all is well and dear,
And in my dreams tonight, my true love shall appear.”
Place the yarrow beneath your pillow before going to
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sleep.
Honeysuckle Wreath
To dream of your future husband, make a wreath out of
honeysuckle vine and hang it above your bed.
Ivy Leaves
Should a man desire to know who his wife will be, he must
pick ten ivy leaves while he is outside, preferably at midnight
on a full moon, and bring them to his home. When he reaches his
front door, he must toss one ivy leaf to the ground and put the
rest under his pillow. This will cause him to dream of his
wife-to-be.
Even Ash Leaf
To see your future husband in a dream, pluck an even ash
leaf, and say:
“Even ash, even ash, I pluck thee,
This night my own true love to see,
Not in his rick nor in his rare,
But in the clothes he does everyday wear.”
Sleep with the even ash leaf beneath your pillow.
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Sprig of Yew
To dream of your future husband or wife, cut a small sprig
from a yew tree that is found growing in a graveyard and place
it under your pillow before going to sleep at night.
Dream Haunting
To haunt the dreams of a former lover so that he will
return to you, you will need to gather three red roses on
Midsummer Eve. Then on Midsummer morning you must bury one rose
under a yew tree and one rose at a cemetery. The third rose
needs to be placed under your pillow. Sleep with the rose under
your pillow for three nights and, afterwards, burn the rose.
Images of you will then begin to haunt the dreams of your
former lover until he returns to you.
Dream Mirrors
If you desire to sleep with a mirror under your pillow
will provide you with a dream of your future lover. Some say
that you need to first purify the mirror by washing it in salt
water and then take it to your bed without it reflecting
anyone’s image. One lady told me that the mirror should first
catch sight of a red apple before being used.
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To dream of a specific person you must first catch his or
her image in the mirror before placing it under your pillow. If
you cannot get the person’s image directly, reflect his or her
picture in the mirror before placing it under your pillow.
Dumb Cake
In England, girls would make a dumb cake for the purpose
of discovering who would marry first and for finding out
exactly who a girl’s husband would be. The dumb cake was made
on the night of Halloween or on the night of the full moon.
This tradition has strong roots in Paganism and lunar
associations and could more accurately be named moon cake.
The dumb cake was made by combining one eggshell full of
flour, one eggshell full of sugar, and a pinch of salt. This
was made into a dough using spring water and patted out round.
Sometimes it was baked by the fireplace and other times it was
used unbaked.
To discover which girl would marry first and who the
husband would be, a group of maidens would take turns making
this cake between 11 pm and midnight. Each girl would then
write her initials on the cake using a pin. The dumb cake was
then set on a table and the girls waited in absolute silence
until a few minutes after the stroke of midnight when the image
of the future husband would enter the room and place his hand
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over the initials of the girl he would marry.
Another practice using the dumb cake was to be performed
by no more than three maidens. The dumb cake was made and
baked. When the clock struck midnight, each of the girls would
take a portion of the cake and walk backwards to bed. On their
way, the girls would either see the image of their future
husbands following after them or they would hear a tapping on
their bedroom door. If nothing was seen or heard, that girl
would not be married.
To dream of one’s future husband, a group of three girls
would make and bake the dumb cake, divide it between them, and
then each would eat a bit of her portion and place the rest of
it under her pillow.
Padlock and Key
One way to dream of the man you will marry is to place a
locked padlock beside your bed. Put the key under your pillow
and say:
“Husband who will one day be,
Come and ask me for the key.”
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Four Kings
To dream of your future husband, remove the four kings
from a deck of cards and place them under your pillow. This
same divination can be performed by men using the four queens.
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Divination
Candle Flame
The candle’s flame has long been used in acts of
divination to determine the outcome of many things, from
marriages to business deals. Here the candle flame will be read
to find out how a relationship will turn out with the person
named.
Set a red candle before you and say:
“[His/Her name] is his/her name
And I do want him/her so.
Reveal to me, O candle flame,
How the relationship will go.”
Light the candle with a match. If the candle does not want
to light on the first three tries, there will be no fruitful
relationship between you and the named person. If the candle
does need to be relit, the relationship will be off to a rocky
start. When the candle is lit, watch the flame. If the flame
sputters and spits, there will be fights between you. If the
flame burns blue, the relationship will quickly turn cold. If
the flame is short, the relationship will turn into a business
partnership. Should the flame dance about merrily, the
relationship will be a happy one. Finally, if the flame burns
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tall and strong then you have found your soul mate.
Spring and Candle
An old Halloween night tradition states that if a woman
peers into the water coming out of a natural spring while
holding a candle aloft, she will see the reflection of her
future husband.
Mirror and Well
For a woman to see the image of her future lover she must
walk backwards around a well two times, hold a mirror over the
well, and then look into the mirror to see his reflection
Who Loves Me Stone
Since ancient times stones have been used for divinatory
purposes. For this divination you will need one small stone. It
must be flat on both sides like a skipping stone.
When you find a flat-sided stone, rub some of your spittle
onto it and then put the stone under your pillow. For three
nights you must sleep with it under your pillow. Keep notes on
who shows up in your dreams as the stone may already be trying
to reveal who loves you.
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After this period of sleeping with the stone, remove it
from under your pillow. Mark one side of the stone with a
circle for “yes” and mark a line on the opposite side for “no.”
This can be done with paint, nail polish, or permanent marker.
To use, shake the stone in your cupped hands and say:
“Who loves me?
Is it [name]?”
Let the stone drop onto a table or floor. The symbol that
is facing upwards is your answer.
This stone can also be used for answering other yes or no
questions and should be kept in a pouch or wrapped in cloth for
safe keeping.
Wedding Ring Pendulum
To discover the initials of the man you will marry, you
must first borrow a friend’s or relative’s wedding ring. Tie a
white thread onto the ring and then suspend it over a wine
glass that is half-filled with spring water. Begin to slowly
recite the alphabet until the ring hits the glass two times
rapidly. The letter that it raps twice on is the initial of his
first name. Repeat to find the initial of his last name.
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Hanging Apples
This divination is a Halloween game played by a group of
young people to discover who will marry first, next, or not at
all.
Each person hangs an apple on string in front of a fire.
The apples are twirled around and the person whose apple falls
first will marry first. The rest of the apples will fall in the
order of who will be married next. Should someone’s apple not
fall, that person will die unwed.
Apple Seeds
To discover if you will soon marry, cut open an apple and
count the seeds. An even number of seeds means that you will be
married shortly.
To discover which man you should marry, stick apple seeds
on your cheek, naming each one after a man of your choice. The
apple seed that sticks to your cheek the longest is the best
man to marry.
An apple seed can also be placed on a fire, with the
words:
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“If you love me, bounce and fly.
If you hate me, lie and die.”
Should the seed pop or burst, your lover is true to you.
If the seed does nothing, it is time to seek a new lover.
Apple Peel
Peel an apple in one long strip. Throw the peel over your
left shoulder. Examine the apple peel after it has landed on
the ground. You will be able to see the initials of your future
wife or husband in the shapes of the peel.
Book Divination
This form of divination is quick and easy to perform. All
you need is a book. For matters of love, you should select a
book of love poems or sonnets.
Picture in your mind the woman or man that you are
enamored with and then open the book to a random page. Let your
pointer finger select a passage and read it. The passage will
tell you something about the person you were thinking of.
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Odds and Evens
This divination also involves the use of a book and is
performed to find your perfect match.
Stand before a bookcase with your eyes closed. Think of
the person you are interested in and then reach out and pull a
book off the bookshelf. Look at the last page number of the
book and add the numbers together. For example, if the last
numbered page of the book is 264, you would add the numbers
2+6+4. If the answer is an even number then you and the person
you were thinking of are a match.
He Loves
This very old love divination turned nursery rhyme can be
performed by gathering a handful of pennies and letting them
drop onto the ground. Count the number of pennies that are
heads up using the following old nursery and divination rhyme:
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“One, he loves. Two, he loves.
Three, he loves, they say.
Four, he loves with all his heart.
Five, he casts away.
Six, he loves. Seven, she loves.
Eight, they both love.
Nine, he comes. Ten, he tarries.
Eleven, he courts. Twelve, he marries.”
If there are more than twelve heads-up pennies, begin the
rhyme from the beginning and continue until they are all
counted.
Pear Tree
Walk backwards nine times around a pear tree on Yule night
to see the image of your future spouse.
Even Ash Leaf
If a girl wishes to meet the man she will marry, she must
pluck an even ash leaf from a tree, and say:
“Even, even, ash,
I pluck you off the tree.
The first young man I meet,
My lover he shall be.”
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She must then put the leaf inside her left shoe and she
will marry the first man she meets that day.
Hawthorn Branch
On the eve of May Day, hang a flowering hawthorn branch
from a sign post at a crossroads. Leave the branch to hang
there overnight. In the morning, check to see which way the
wind has blown the branch and from that direction your husband
or wife will come. If the branch has altogether blown away, you
will not marry.
Sage Leaves
Another way to see the image of the person you will marry
is to pick twelve sage leaves on the night of the new moon and
then toss them out in front of yourself. An image will appear
in the darkness before you.
Rosemary and Flour
To discover the initials of your husband-to-be, put a
plate of flour under a rosemary bush on the night before
Midsummer. In the morning you will discover the initials of
your future husband traced in the flour.
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Yarrow Leaf
A form of love divination performed by East Anglian girls
required them to put a yarrow leaf up one of their nostrils and
gently move it about, while saying:
“Yarroway, yarroway, bear a white blow.
If my love loves me, my nose will bleed now.
If my love don’t love me, it won’t bleed a drop.
If my love do love me, ‘twill bleed every drop.”
Four-Leaf Clover
When you find a four-leaf clover, put it in your right
shoe. The first man you meet will be your husband or he will
bear the first name of the man you will marry.
Ivy Leaves
Pick an ivy leaf and put it in your left pocket. You will
marry the first man you meet thereafter, even if he is
currently married.
On the night of Halloween, gather a pointed ivy leaf to
represent a man and a rounded ivy leaf to represent a woman.
Name the ivy leaves and throw them into a fire at the same
time. If the ivy leaves jump together, the two people named
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will marry. If the ivy leaves jump apart, the two people will
quarrel and part.
Dandelion Fluff
To find out how many years until they will be married,
young girls pick a dandelion that has gone to seed and blow on
it. The number of times it takes to blow off all the seeds will
be the number of years until marriage.
C a r l i n s
Carlins (grey peas) were used for marriage divinations
among groups of people in Northumberland. Carlins were prepared
with an added odd bean. When served, the person who received
the odd bean among his or her carlins would be the first in the
group to marry.
In another group marriage divination, the carlins were
dished out to all who were present until there was only a
spoonful of the peas remaining in the bowl. Each person would
then take a turn removing one pea at a time from the bowl. The
person who got the last pea would be the one who would marry
first.
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Pea Pod
Should a maiden place a pod containing nine peas on the
lintel outside her front door, the first man to enter through
the door would be her husband.
H e m p s e e d
One popular marriage divination required a girl to sow
hempseed over her left shoulder at midnight on Halloween. While
doing this, she would say:
“Hempseed I sow.
Hempseed, grow.
He that is to marry me,
Come after me and mow.”
The image of her future husband would then appear behind
her. If no image appeared, she would not marry that year.
However, if she saw an image of a coffin behind her it meant
that she would die young and unwed.
Since it is no longer possible to sow hempseed in one’s
garden, grass seed has been used in its place.
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C i g a r
Most of us have heard that stepping on a crack in the
sidewalk will “break your mother’s back,” but did you know that
if a woman unintentionally steps on a discarded cigar end she
will marry the next man she sees? That is, at least, how the
superstition goes in Salem, Massachusetts.
Tossing a Die
Discover what type of person you will marry by rolling a
die.
One - You will marry someone who will become famous.
Two - Your spouse will be a foreigner.
Three - You will marry a thief.
Four - You will marry a politician.
Five - You will marry a person in the military.
Six - You will marry into wealth.
H a n d k e r c h i e f
On the eve of May Day, lay your handkerchief on a bush and
retrieve it the next morning. The initials of your future
spouse will be written in dew upon it.
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Love Letter
Take a love letter that was written to you and light it at
the fireplace. If the love letter burns bright and clean then
the love is true. If the love letter doesn’t want to stay lit,
the love affair will soon be over. Should the flame burn blue
and short, it is best that you find another.
Choosing a New Lover
On the night of the new moon, go outside or open your
bedroom window so that you can see the moonsliver. Hold up a
mirror and angle it so that you can see the new moon reflected
in it. Say:
“Moon, moon, show to me
Who my next lover will be.”
Stare into the mirror and the face of your next lover
should appear. If nothing happens, place the mirror under your
pillow and your new lover will appear in your dreams.
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C o m b
I remember performing this bit of mirror magic when I was
about fourteen years of age. My mom and I lived together in a
stone farmhouse built in the early 1800’s and the place was
always harboring haunts. On Halloween night I stood in front of
my mirror and began combing my hair. No sooner had I started
than did an image begin to materialize behind me. I let out a
yelp, the comb flew through the air, and I high-tailed it
downstairs to where my mom was sitting. You’ve been warned.
To see your future spouse, sit or stand in front of a
mirror on Halloween night and comb your hair. The image of the
person you will marry will be seen standing behind you.
Gold Ring
More frightening than the one above, this divinatory
custom was commonly performed in Siberia. A girl would go into
the cellar right before midnight. At the stroke of twelve, she
would look through a gold ring and into a mirror to see the
face of her husband-to-be who would be standing behind her.
A c o r n s
Gather two acorns. Give the one acorn your name and the
other acorn the name of your lover. Drop both the acorns into a
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bowl of water. If the acorns float next to each other then
marriage is certain. If one of the acorns sink the person it is
named after will soon die.
Walnut Shells
This was performed by girls in Russia to see who would
marry first, next, and not at all.
Each girl puts a candle bit into a walnut shell, lights
the candle, and sets the walnut shell to float into a bowl of
water. The girl whose candle goes out first will marry first,
and so on. Should any walnut shell sink, that girl will not
marry.
Walnut shells are quite often used in spells and
divinations. It’s surprising that no candle makers sell walnut
shell candles for these purposes.
Walnut Tree
For a young man wishing to discover who his true love will
be he must walk around a walnut tree three times while saying:
“Let she that is my love to be
Pick the walnuts from this tree.”
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Looking up into the tree, the young man will see the image
of his true love.
Hazel Nuts
To know if you and your lover are destined to be happy in
marriage, name two hazel nuts and then set them side by side in
a fire. If the nuts burst apart, it is a bad omen. However, if
the hazel nuts burn side by side quietly, the marriage will be
a good one.
Wax Divination (Voskolitie)
This was practiced in Russia by maidens who wished to
discover something about their future, especially about the
husband they would marry. A candle would be lit and allowed to
burn for some time before it was midnight. At the stroke of
midnight the melted candle wax would be poured into a bowl of
spring water. From this they would divine their future.
Some shapes and their meanings are:
Bird - You will marry into wealth.
Cat - You will be a spinster.
Coffin - Death or widowhood.
Cross - A hard life awaits you.
Crown - Marriage.
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Flower - A friend will soon marry.
Heart - True love will strike you fast.
Ship with Sails - You will marry far away from home.
Wolf - Danger lurks nearby.
Three Bowls
This is a Halloween game played by girls to discover what
sort of man they will marry.
Three bowls are set on a table: one filled with water, one
with mud, and the other is empty. The girl whose turn it is is
blindfolded and led to the table to choose a bowl. The bowl
filled with water means a good and honest husband, the one
filled with mud means a husband who will come to no good, and
the empty bowl means there will be no husband.
This divination game can easily be elaborated upon by
adding a bowl of sugar for a sweet husband, a bowl of salt for
a soul mate, etc.
Cat Whiskers
On Halloween night, go to a spot where your cat sleeps and
search the area for discarded whiskers. If you find one
whisker, you will not be married within the next three years.
If you find two whiskers, you will marry your soul mate. You
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will marry but soon divorce should you find only three
whiskers. Find four whiskers and you will marry and bear a
child within a year’s time.
W i s h b o n e
On New Year’s Eve take a clean, unbroken wishbone and
drill a small hole through the flat part at the top. Place the
wishbone on your nose like a pair of glasses and pass a thread
through the drilled hole. The amount of times you fail to pass
the thread through the hole is the number of years until you
marry.
Trail of Ashes
A young man desiring to know his future wife should lay a
trail of wood ash to his home on the night of Halloween. The
woman who follows this trail will one day be his bride.
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Spells, Charms, and Rituals
Full Moon Ashes
Take the ashes from a fire that burned on the night of a
full moon and sprinkle them in a clockwise circle around a red
rose bush while saying:
“Circle round
The merry-wise.
Love is crowned,
Not otherwise.”
Pluck two petals from one of the rose blooms and put one
petal in each shoe to draw love to you.
Hooked Heart
To hook a lover, form a heart out of softened beeswax.
Scratch the initials of the one you love onto the heart. Very
carefully, push a fish hook through the heart. Put the hooked
heart into a small bottle and bury it in a safe and secluded
place away from your home.
This spell first came to me by word of mouth. The teller
assured me of its use in early America. Originally, the hooked
heart was suspended from a tree. Knowing full well of the
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dangers of carelessly discarded fish hooks, I altered the spell
to place the hooked heart safely inside a bottle.
Matchbox Love Spell
This is one of the more involved love spells in this
section. It also has a very high success rate if performed
without interruptions and with strong focus of will.
Gather together:
small red votive candle
one match
one small, empty matchbox
pin
white slip of paper
red ink pen or marker
penny
white string
Begin:
With the pin in your writing hand and the candle in your
other hand, say:
“I prick [his/her name] heart with these words.”
Using the pin, write on the candle:
[His/Her name] loves [your name].
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Set the pin and candle down. Pick up the match and empty
matchbox. Strike the match and say:
“[His/Her name] feels his/her desire burning for me.”
Light the candle.
While the candle is burning, write your name and his/her
name on the slip of white paper, using red ink. Draw a heart
around both of your names together. Fold the paper in half and
then in half again and place this inside the matchbox.
Place the penny inside the matchbox and say:
“Venus, witness my act and make [his/her name] want me.”
Allow the votive candle to continue burning. When there is
enough spilled wax or soft wax from the candle, take a small
amount of it and form it into a heart. Place this into the
matchbox.
Take the white string and begin tying it around the
matchbox just as you would a package. While doing this, say:
“I bind [his/her name] love to me. I am now in [his/her
name] thoughts. [His/Her name] desires me.”
Allow the candle to burn itself out, if it has not done so
already.
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Place the matchbox in a safe place.
Spell is done.
Two Red Hearts
A friend of mine was interested in a certain man and
wanted to perform a simple love spell that would bring them
together. But, she warned me, the spell would have to be easily
undone in case something went “wrong.” The following spell is
what I had her perform.
Cut two red hearts out of construction paper. Write your
name on one heart and his name on the other. Bind these two
hearts together, names facing in towards each other, with a
safety pin. Place these inside an envelope and seal. Keep in a
safe place.
Should the need arise to undo the spell, rip open the
envelope and remove the hearts. Open the safety pin, separate
the hearts, and say:
“First bound,
Now undone.
To separate paths,
We have come.”
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Burn each heart, separately, to ashes and then release the
ashes to the wind.
Braided Anklet
To bind his love to you, you will need a yard each of dark
red, off-white, and black embroidery string.
Knot the three strings together while visualizing the
person you desire and chanting:
“The love I make.
The time has come.”
Continue visualizing and chanting until the entire length
is braided. Knot the end.
Wear this braid wrapped around your left ankle.
Circle of Stones
To bring yourself and another together in love you will
first need to gather a pile of small stones. You will also need
a piece of charcoal for writing and a small, private clearing
in the woods, in a field, or in your garden where it will not
be noticed or disturbed.
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From your pile of stones, select a stone to represent
yourself and write your initials onto it with the charcoal.
Select another stone to represent the person you desire and
write his or her initials onto it with the charcoal.
Place these two stones beside each other in the center of
the small clearing. Next, create a stone circle around the two
stones and while doing so, say:
“Circle stones all around,
Where two lovers have been found.
In perfect peace of nature’s sound,
Here the lovers have been bound.”
Leave the stones as they are and return to your daily
life.
Candle Lighting Love Spell
This spell takes time to perform. Begin by gathering
together the following:
5 small votive candles, 4 red and 1 white
small photo of the person you desire
matches
compass
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envelope
small bowl of sand
The photo used in this spell will get covered in wax. To
avoid ruining the photo you can make a photocopy of it. Use the
photocopied picture in place of the original.
Begin:
Using the compass, set each red candle at the four points:
North, East, South, West.
Place the white candle in the center of the four red
candles.
You should be standing at the South candle, facing North.
Place the photo in the center, below the white candle
(South).
Keep a small bowl of sand beside you to put out the
matches.
Light the North candle and say:
“I call to [his/her name]. You are beginning to think
about me.”
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Put out the match in the bowl of sand. Wait a few moments
while the candle burns. When some of the wax has melted, lift
it up and pour some of the wax onto the photo.
Light the candle in the East and say:
“[His/Her name], you are now becoming curious about me and
you want to become acquainted with me.”
Put out the match in the bowl of sand. Wait a few moments
and then pour the wax onto the photo.
Light the candle in the South and say:
“[His/Her name], you feel the heat and desire burning
inside of you.”
Put out the match in the bowl of sand. Wait a few moments
and then pour the wax onto the photo.
Light the candle in the West and say:
“[His/Her name], you now realize that you are in love with
me.”
Put out the match in the bowl of sand. Wait a few moments
and then pour the wax onto the photo.
Light the candle in the center and say:
“[His/Her name], I am now at the center of your
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attention.”
Put out the match in the bowl of sand. Wait a few moments
and then pour the wax onto the photo.
Allow the candles to burn themselves out.
Once all the candles are out, take the photo and place it
inside the envelope.
Seal the envelope and say:
“[His/Her name] is now mine.”
Place the envelope in a safe place and do not open it
unless you want the spell to be broken.
Two Sticks
Among many people in ancient times a popular love binding
was performed using two sticks and some string. Each stick was
named for a person. For example, one stick would be given your
name and you would announce, “This is [your name].” The other
stick would be given the name of the person you want bound to
you, “This is [his/her name].” The two sticks were then bound
tightly together and placed safely inside the house or
sometimes in a hidden place in the woods.
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The sticks that were used came from trees that symbolized
love or masculine/feminine energies. For love, use sticks from
an apple tree. For feminine energy, use a willow stick. For
masculine energy, a stick from an oak tree should be used.
Holly (feminine) and oak (masculine) can also be combined.
Popsicle Sticks
This is a modern version of the Two Sticks love spell. You
will need two wood popsicle sticks, a red marker, glue, and a
red scarf or piece of fabric.
On one popsicle stick write your name and on the other
write the name of the person you love. Glue the sticks on top
of each other, names facing inward. Say:
“Together two turns to one.
I the moon and you the sun,
Eclipsed within eternity’s run.”
When the glue is completely dry, wrap the popsicle sticks
in a red scarf or piece of fabric and keep in a safe, hidden
place.
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The Faithful Wink
To ensure your lover’s faithfulness and love, wink at the
largest star in the night’s sky before you go to bed.
Lemon Balm Pillow
Lemon balm (Melissa officinalis) was used in the Middle
Ages as a love charm. The herb is also dedicated to the goddess
Diana, Queen of Witches.
To attract the love of a man, sew dried lemon balm into a
small pillow using red, pink, or white fabric. Be creative by
sewing a heart pillow to attract sexual love, a circle pillow
to attract well-rounded love, or a square pillow to attract a
love that is down to earth.
Say over it:
“Draw his heart
Into mine
To dwell
And entwine.”
Keep your lemon balm pillow with you wherever you go until
the man that you are seeking comes to you.
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Stone with Two Names
Take a red permanent marker with you to a pond. Walk one
time around the pond widdershins and find a stone with a smooth
side that is large enough to write two names or sets of
initials upon it. Once you have completed your widdershins
walk, turn around and, still holding onto the stone, walk
around the pond clockwise one time. When finished, write your
name or initials and those of the one you desire onto the stone
with the marker. Throw the stone into the center of the pond
and then leave the area.
Locked in Love
Long ago, small locks were used in many successful love
spells. They have since been deemed as dangerous and are
ignored in most modern books of witchcraft.
For this spell, gather together:
small lock, the kind with a key and NOT a combination
small red candle
Begin:
Before you are to see the person you desire, open the
lock. Place the open lock in your pocket and the key in another
pocket.
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When you see the person you desire from a short distance,
place your hand inside your pocket and while you are looking at
him/her, snap the lock shut.
Upon returning to your home, remove both the key and the
lock from your pockets.
Light the small red candle and say:
“Now I have locked [his/her name] heart. This candle burns
with his/her desire for me.”
Allow the candle to burn for a short while and then tip
the red hot wax into the keyhole and say:
“[His/Her name] love is sealed.”
Pick up the key for the lock and say:
“I hold the key to [his/her name] love. And he/she is mine
for as long as the lock is sealed.”
Place the lock in a safe place.
Keep the key worn either around your neck or on your
keychain.
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V a l e r i a n
The woman who discretely tucks a sprig of valerian into
her bra will attract the attention of men.
Armpit Orange
There are a great number of love spells and charms
throughout history that make use of an orange, but the most
amusing spell comes from Norfolk.
A young man desiring the love of a certain girl would
prick the pits on the skin of an orange and afterwards sleep
with it under his armpit. The next day he would give the orange
to the girl. If she ate the orange, she would fall madly in
love with the young man.
Simple Heart Spell
The heart is a symbol of sexual love. Like the circle, it
is also a binding symbol and it is most often used to hold the
names of two lovers. In other words, it binds two people
together in sexual love.
Many young people practice this form of magic without
realizing that they are performing a binding spell. This lack
of awareness is why their doodles don’t take on greater meaning
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and don’t work in the realm of magic.
To bring the heart symbol into action, you will need:
white slip of paper
red ink pen or marker
In red ink, write your name on the slip of paper. Below
your name, write the person’s name whom you are attracted to.
Draw a heart surrounding both of your names while saying:
“Together you and I are bound
As this pen/marker travels round.”
Hold this slip of paper in your hands and visualize
yourself and the other person together in a loving embrace.
Fold the paper in half and then in half again. Keep it in a
safe place.
Five Pennies in a Well
If you live near an old well then this love attraction
spell may be perfect for you.
Take five copper pennies to the wishing well. Drop the
first penny in and say:
“One for Venus.”
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Drop the second penny in the well and say:
“One for Spirit.”
Drop the third penny in and say:
“One for life.”
Drop the fourth penny in and say:
“One for joy.”
Drop the fifth and final penny into the well and say:
“And one for love to come to me.”
When finished, search around the well for a white pebble.
When you find it, keep the pebble on your person until love
finds you.
Bent Pennies
Wise women used to sell a popular love charm containing a
bent penny and a chunk of red wax tied into a cloth.
These days one might alter this charm using a penny with
one’s birth year on it and a bit of red wax shaped into a
heart. These two items can then be tied into a white cloth with
red string and carried in pocket or purse to attract love.
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Luck Changer
To change your luck in love, wear your socks inside out
and put a leaf from the lovage plant (Levisticum officinale)
inside each shoe.
Herb Bundle
To draw love into your life, gather one sprig of each:
rosemary, lavender, thyme, and whole bay leaf. Bundle these
four herbs together with natural twine.
Next, toss this herb bundle into the fireplace at night
and, as it burns, say:
“Smoke rises into the night,
Beckoning a mate for me;
Seek far and near, on steady path,
And draw her/him gently to me.”
Take a moment to close your eyes and visualize tendrils of
smoke travelling through the air to find a love for you.
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To Attract a Soul Mate
For this spell you will need:
sticks from an apple tree
string, red and white
glue
outdoor evergreen tree
To begin you will need to make a small ladder from the
apple tree sticks you have gathered. Two sticks should both be
about six inches in length. These will be the sides of the
ladder. For the rungs, you will need four thin sticks that are
about two inches in length. Glue the rungs onto the side sticks
and allow to dry completely before proceeding.
When dry, take a short length of red string. Knot it three
times around the bottom rung of the ladder while saying:
“To find, to secure, and to love.”
Take a short length of white string and knot it three
times around the top rung of the ladder while saying:
“To unite, to seek higher, and to gain wholeness.”
Take this miniature ladder to an evergreen tree and set it
on the ground and against the trunk of the tree with the white
knotted rung upwards.
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The Daisy Sending
To send out a calling for love you will need one white
daisy and a nearby stream.
Standing by the side of the stream, pluck a petal from the
daisy and drop it into the running water. Say:
“Love come simply.”
Pluck a second petal, drop it into the water, and say:
“Ever gently.”
Pluck a third petal, drop it into the water, and say:
“Ever closer.”
Pluck a fourth petal, drop it into the water, and say:
“Endearingly.”
Pluck a fifth petal, drop it into the water, and say:
“Entering my life.”
Set down what remains of the daisy beside the stream, and
say:
“Spell is done.
True love will come.”
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Moth Sending
Luna is the Queen of the Night and the winged night
creatures are her messengers. To find love, go outdoors upon
the full moon and gently catch a moth. While it is within your
cupped hands, say softly to it:
“On whispered wings
And dancing flight,
Seek my true love
Upon this night.”
Release the moth and return indoors.
Clam Shell and Candle
The purpose of this spell is to attract the affections of
the person you love by calling upon the aid of Eros/Cupid.
You will need a medium to large clam shell (an oyster
shell will do), sand, and a small red votive candle.
Fill the clam shell with some sand. On the red votive
candle inscribe the following using a pin:
“[Her/His name] awaken to me
As love is sent to thee.”
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Set the candle in the clam shell, making sure that it is
pressed down into the sand. Light the candle with a match, and
say:
“Eros, son of the Goddess of Love,
Hear my plea from the clouds above
And send [her/his name] a swift and accurate dart
So that love may pierce her/his longed-for heart.”
Allow the candle to burn itself out and on the following
day, bury the shell and candle remains outside your home or in
some private place where it will not be disturbed.
Attract a Lover Parchment Amulet
Parchment is stronger than paper and has been used for
centuries to create personal talismans and amulets. Many craft
and office stores carry it as well as a number of occult
stores.
For this amulet you will need a piece of parchment that is
2 inches by 2 inches, black ink for attraction (black absorbs
heat and is the combination of all colors), and red thread for
sexual energy.
If you are seeking a heterosexual affair then draw an ankh
in the center of the parchment. The ankh represents the
masculine and feminine sexual energies as joined together.
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For a woman seeking a female lover, draw an almond shape
in the center. The almond is an ancient yoni symbol and also
forms part of the body of the fish which was a symbol of the
Goddess long before it was adopted by Christianity to symbolize
Christ.
For a man seeking a male lover, draw a triangle pointed
upwards. The upright triangle has long been used as a symbol of
the masculine energies and erect phallus.
On the upper right and lower left corners, draw a heart.
On the upper left corner write the number 5. On the lower right
corner write the number 3.
Tightly roll up the parchment and wrap the red thread
around it 9 times and then knot it twice (square knot).
Keep this rolled parchment on your person whenever you
desire to attract a lover.
Knotted Hair
Hair has long been believed to hold a person’s power. This
is why there are numerous superstitions involving the cutting
and disposal of hair. No one wanted an enemy to get a hold of a
lock of their hair because of the harm that could be done to
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them.
For this spell both you and the one you desire must have
some length of hair. You will need one hair from your head and
a hair from the other’s head. Hold the two strands of hair
together and knot them nine times, saying:
“This is for the love I bear,
Knotted in two strands of hair.
Twisted, tangled, woven through,
Turning into one from two.”
Place the knotted hair strands in an envelope, seal shut,
and keep in a safe place.
Bottled Love
As mentioned previously, hair is considered to hold a
person’s power and, according to some superstitions, the
essence or spirit of the person it comes from.
This old love binding spell requires hair from the person
you desire and can be gathered from her or his hairbrush.
First you will need to cut two hearts from red felt. Sew
the hearts together with white thread. Leave an opening and
stuff the heart with the person’s hair. Sew the heart closed.
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Next, stuff the heart into a glass bottle. Close the
bottle with a cap or cork and then seal it further with wax
from a white candle.
You will need to keep this bottle safe and hidden. Should
the bottle ever break or if it ever be seen by another person
then the binding will come undone.
Rose Quartz Amulet
Rose quartz is commonly worn to attract love. For this
charm you will need a necklace with a rose quartz bead(s). Some
craft stores carry crystal beads. Those that do oftentimes have
heart-shaped rose quartz beads that can be used to make your
own necklace.
Charge your necklace on the night of the new moon by
rubbing some of your spittle onto the rose quartz and saying:
“Now the moon begins to grow
From nothingness to full round face.
My siren’s song begins to flow
And draws true love to here, my place.”
Leave the necklace on your bedroom windowsill for the
night and begin wearing it the next day.
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Finding a New Partner for You and Your Children
This simple bit of food magic can be performed by either a
spouseless mother or father whose children also desire a new
member of the family.
Begin by hard boiling any number of eggs. Light a cinnamon
candle to represent love, home, and comfort, and then prepare
to paint the eggs as though it were Easter.
Get the children involved and ask them to help paint the
eggs, showing what they would like in a new father or mother.
Some ideas are pink hearts for love, yellow suns for happiness,
blue eggs for peace and healing, and purple flowers for magic
to bloom. When finished, chill the eggs for eating.
Walnut Shell Boat
This is a simple spell for those that live near a stream
or lake and wish to find their soul mate.
First you will need half of a walnut shell. In a bowl of
water, make sure that the walnut shell floats and has no holes
or cracks in it. If it floats properly, remove it from the
water and dry it off.
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Clean out the inside of the shell as best as you are able
and paint a red heart in it. Paint three white circles around
the red heart. Allow this to dry.
On a bright and sunny day, take the walnut boat that
you’ve made and go to a stream or river. Wade into the water,
if possible, and set the walnut shell afloat. As it floats
away, say the following either out loud or quietly to yourself:
“Carry my hope to yonder,
To tell to those that hear.
A soul mate, a soul mate;
Bring him/her to me here.
Tree-Bound Love
In Germany a young man would choose a healthy tree to
represent himself, marking it with his spittle, blood, or
semen. He would then place three hairs of his love into a crack
in the tree so that they would remain in love for as long as
the tree lived.
Names in the Sand
A very ancient, but still widely practiced, love spell
requires the use of the middle finger on your left hand and an
empty beach at low tide.
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Go to the waterline and write your name and the name of
your love in the sand using the middle finger of your left
hand. As the waves come in they will carry your desire with
them and stir it into action.
Long ago, the middle finger was believed to be the finger of
love and married women would wear a ring on their middle finger
to show that their love was bound to that of their husbands’.
Red Wine
It was a British superstition that claimed that if a woman
consumed a drink that contained a drop of blood from a man’s
left hand pinky, she would fall madly in love with him. In
today’s world, we know that blood can carry diseases, some of
which are deadly. There are plenty of safe substitutes for
blood, such as salt water or red fruit juice. In the spell
below, used by at least one man I know, red wine is used to
attract the affections of another person. The following is what
he does.
Invite the person you are interested in over for dinner
and purchase a bottle of red wine for the occasion. Shortly
before s/he is due to arrive, tap the top of the wine bottle
with your left hand pinky nine times. Raise the bottle with
your right hand and repeat the tapping on the bottom of the
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bottle. Set the bottle down and turn it three times to the left
and finally six times to the right.
After my friend does this little routine he usually goes
through and gives a last tidying to the place until his guest
arrives.
Chicory Root
If you feel that you are unlucky in love, keep a dried
chicory root in your pocket the next time you ask someone out
or go on a date. Chicory root is a luck bringer and removes
obstacles. Tie a length of red thread on it to keep as a love-
drawing amulet.
Binding the Knave of Hearts
This spell uses a nursery rhyme, The Queen of Hearts, to
bind a wayward lover.
You will need three cards from a regular deck of playing
cards: Queen of Hearts, King of Hearts, and the Jack (Knave) of
Hearts.
You will also need a paper clip or, if you are married to
an unfaithful Knave, a needle and thread.
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Lay down the Queen of Hearts face up, and say:
“The Queen of Hearts
She made some tarts,
All on a summer’s day.”
Lay the Jack (Knave) of Hearts face down on the Queen, and
say:
“The Knave of Hearts
He stole those tarts,
And took them clean away.”
Lay the King of Hearts face down on top of the Jack card,
and say:
“The King of Hearts
Called for the tarts,
And beat the Knave full sore.”
Place your right hand on top of the cards. Say:
“The Knave of Hearts
Brought back the tarts,
And vowed he’d steal no more.”
If you are not married to the unfaithful Knave or if you
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are just newly wed, paper clip the three cards together and
place them under his side of the mattress.
If you have been married to the Knave for some time, sew
the three card together with needle and thread and then place
them under his side of the mattress.
Fern Leaf
If you feel that your lover is losing interest in you,
pick some fern and place it between the pages of one of her or
his books. This will fan the flame of love once more.
Ivy Leaf
Perform this very popular love spell by plucking an ivy
leaf and saying:
“Ivy, ivy, I love you.
In my bosom I place you.
The first young man that speaks to me,
My future husband he shall be.”
If you approve of the first man who speaks to you, plant
the ivy leaf in a pot and nurture it in your home.
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F o o t p r i n t s
Another popular love spell requires you to gather the dirt
from the footprints of the person you love. Place the dirt in a
pot and sow calendula seeds in it. As the seeds grow so will
his love and faithfulness for you grow.
To Force a Confrontation
When a confrontation is needed with someone who is nowhere
to be found, boil a strand of his hair in water to bring him to
you.
Twelve Pins
Another way to call back a faithless lover is to throw
twelve pins into a fire and say:
“It’s not these pins I wish to burn,
But [name]’s heart I wish to turn.
He will neither sleep nor rest
Until he has granted my one request.”
Love Stinks
Have an unwanted suitor? Write his or her name on a slip
of paper and place it in a dirty, smelly sock. He or she won’t
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be able to get away from you fast enough!
Undoing Love Spells
Most of the love spells provided in this section can be
undone simply by destroying the items that you had placed in
safety. If you feel that this is not enough, perform one of the
following spells.
Water Dump
On a night of the waning moon, take a bowl of water
outside, if possible, and begin stirring it widdershins with
your pointer finger. Say:
“The love that was made
Must now come undone.
We part on our ways
Upon the rising of the sun.”
Toss the water onto the ground and return indoors or pour
the water down a drain.
Two Separate Candles
For this undoing spell you will need two separate white
votive candles. On one candle, write your name and on the other
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candle write the name of the person you wish to part from. Set
these candles up on opposite ends of a table.
Light your candle and say:
“Here I stand alone, ready to move on.”
Light the other candle and say:
“Here you stand alone, ready to move on.”
Allow both candles to burn down and out. Dispose of the
wax in separate bags.
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Appendix
Gods and Goddesses of Love
Absusu: Sumerian goddess of promiscuity.
Angus: Gaelic god of love.
Aphrodite: Greek goddess of love and beauty.
Astarte: Phoenician goddess of sexual love and fertility.
Cupid: Roman god of love.
Eros: Greek god of love.
Frey: Teutonic god of love, peace, and prosperity.
Freya: Norse goddess of beauty and love.
Frigga: Norse goddess presiding over marriage.
Hathor: Egyptian goddess of love and bodily pleasures.
Hebe: Greek goddess capable of restoring youth and beauty.
Hymen: Greek god of marriage.
Ishtar: Babylonian goddess of sexuality and desire.
Kama: Hindu god of love and pleasure.
Kotus: Thracian goddess of sexuality.
Lilith: Goddess of sexual freedom.
Venus: Roman goddess of beauty and love.
Voluptas: Roman goddess of desire.
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Superstitions
* A man who wipes his hands on a maiden’s apron will soon marry
her.
* Sneezing two times in a row foretells a kiss.
* If your finger joint cracks when it is pulled, someone loves
you.
* To accidently put on a piece of clothing inside out means
that you will have luck in matters of love on that day.
* A flea bite on the hand foretells a kiss.
* It is unlucky to gift your lover with a pair of shoes.
* Finding a cobweb on the door to your house means that your
lover is seeing another person.
* Sharing a towel with your lover will bring the affair to an
end.
* Put three sunflower seeds down the back of your shirt and you
will marry the next person you meet.
* If a hairpin falls from your hair, you will lose your lover.
* You are jealous if your left knee itches.
* Emeralds bring the wearer success in matters of love.
* Offer a man a sprig of basil and, if he takes it from your
hand, he will be faithful to you.
* When your shoelaces come undone, it is a sure sign that
someone loves you is thinking of you.
* An overly hairy woman is not only a witch, she is also an
unfaithful wife.
* A ringing in one ear means someone is talking about you:
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“Left your lover,
Right your mother.”
* Itching lips will soon be kissed.
* To stumble while going up the stairs foretells a wedding.
* Should a woman’s left eye twitch it is a sign of good
fortune. If her right eye twitch, bad luck. For a man the
opposite holds true.
* Should three white lights appear before a maiden it means
that she will soon be married.
* When sewing yourself a dress, pricking your finger or
breaking the needle foretells a kiss when you finally wear the
dress that you are making.
* Get the last piece of cake at tea time and you will be the
first in the group to marry.
* If you feel that you have to sneeze but cannot come to it, it
is a sign that you have a secret admirer.
* Find a double fruit and share it with someone you love. This
will bind the two of you together in love and faithfulness.
* Should three drops of blood fall from the nose of your lover,
the end of the affair is nigh.
* If you wear the shoes of the man you love for eight days, he
will fall in love with you after you have returned his shoes
and he has worn them.
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Dream Dictionary
Acorns: To shake acorns from a tree in a dream affirms that you
will attain your desires in matters of love.
Anchor: If a woman dreams of an anchor she will soon marry a
sailor.
Asp: A man who dreams of an asp will marry a rich woman.
Bananas: Bananas in a dream tell of a boring lover.
Birdcage: A woman who dreams of letting a bird out of its cage
will marry the first man who asks her to wed.
Boat: A woman who dreams of falling out of a boat and being
rescued will one day marry her rescuer.
Briar: Being pricked by a briar in a dream means that you are
in love.
Candle: To dream of a brightly burning candle means that you
will soon receive a love letter.
Candy: Eating sweet candy foretells of a pleasurable love
affair.
Cat: If a woman dreams of being scratched by a cat it means she
has a rival.
Climbing: If you dream of climbing and reaching the top of a
mountain you will have success in love.
Cradle: Dream of a cradle and you’ll soon be married.
Cupid: To dream of Cupid breaking his arrow means that your
current love affair will cease.
Dew: A maiden who dreams of dew on the grass will one day marry
a wealthy man.
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Eye: Seeing a disembodied eye in your dream means that you’ve a
rival for the affections of your lover.
Faithfulness: Dreaming that your lover is unfaithful means the
opposite in the waking world.
Flying: Dreams where you are flying signify that you are both
romantic and ambitious.
Gloves: Finding a new pair of gloves in your dream foretells
either a new love affair or marriage.
Green Field: To dream of a green field tells that you will
marry a loving and faithful person.
Hat: To dream of losing your hat means that you will soon
marry.
Hedges: Evergreen hedges in a dream tell of a coming quarrel
with your lover.
Hen: A hen in the dream of a woman signifies that she will
marry a widowed man with children.
Ice: To see ice in a dream means that your lover is faithful.
Ink: Spilled ink in a dream means forthcoming slander from a
rival.
Jewelry: To dream of receiving jewelry foretells of coming
pleasures.
Key: Unlock a door with a key and you will soon have a new
lover in the waking world.
Lace: Dream of wearing lace and your lover will bow to your
every whim.
Mirror: If you see your image in a mirror while dreaming, it
foretells unfaithfulness on the part of your lover.
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Nun: You will find disappointment in love if you dream of
becoming a nun.
Nuts: Gathering nuts in a dream tells of good fortune in
matters of love.
Oysters: To dream of eating raw oysters foretells a period of
sexual pleasures.
Pit: To dream of falling into a pit tells you that your lover
has been untrue.
Ploughing: Ploughing a field signifies that you will have a
good marriage.
Quarrel: A quarrel in your dream means a break-up with your
spouse.
Rainbow: A rainbow means that you will experience much
happiness with your lover.
Salad: Dream of making a salad and it is time to seek a new
lover.
Sea: To dream of the sea tells of a coming period of sensual
and erotic pleasures.
Tent: A time of celibacy is at hand if you dream that you are
living in a tent.
Torch: Carrying a lit torch signifies that you are a good
lover.
Vase: To dream of drinking from a vase foretells that you will
soon seduce another person’s lover.
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