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Cuit`vot`lh ]g`ln`lh Gkorts

Ikttkrs Frab ]gk I`fksgor`lh Sofkhuorms Zradkct

Gkikl T`ppkrikl & Dagl A'Er`kl

COBZG@IIV@IIOHKN@BEKU]ALG@IIS

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Far furtgkr `lfarbot`al, caltoct4

]gk I`fksgor`lh Sofkhuorms Zradkct

Cobpg`ii V`iiohk N`bekrtal G`iis

ZA Eax ?;;

N`bekrtal, ZO?0==5

(5?;) 03;-3063

Gkikl T`ppkriklgos i`vkm ot Cobpg`ii V`iiohk N`bekrtal G`iis s`lck ?085. Sgk gos m`rkctkm

tgk I`fksgor`lh Sofkhuorms Zradkct s`lck `t ekhol `l ?077.

Dagl A'Er`kli`vks `l I`tgal`o, HO. G`s warn oiiaws g`b ta stumy w`tg pkapik w`tg mkvkiap-

bkltoi m`soe`i`t`ks olm tgk`r oii`ks oeaut eu`im`lh cabbul`ty. Gk gos ekkl ol omv`skr ta tgk

I`fksgor`lh Sofkhuorms Zradkct frab ts ekh`ll`lhs.

]gk Sofkhuorms Zradkct wos fulmkm tgrauhg o caltroct frab tgk Zkllsyivol`o MkvkiapbkltoiM`soe`i`t`ks Zioll`lh Caulc`i (Caltroct # 688;7?:8=). ]gk ap`l`als kxprksskm ork tgask aftgk wr`tkrs olm ma lat lkckssor`iy rkprksklt tgk aff`c`oi pas`t`al af tgk Caulc`i.

Omm`t`aloi suppart far Dagl AEr`kls warn al tgk prkporot`al af tg`s macubklt cobk tgrauhg o suecaltroct frab ]gkCkltkr al Gubol Zai`cy, Syrocusk [l`vkrs`ty far tgk Ukskorcg & ]ro`l`lh Ckltkr al Cabbul`ty I`v`lh. ]gk Ukskorcg &]ro`l`lh Ckltkr al Cabbul`ty i`v`lh s suppartkm tgrauhg o caapkrot`vk ohrkkbklt (Lubekr G?33E7::=7) ektwkkl tgkLot`aloi @lst`tutk al M`soe`i`ty & Ukgoe`i`tot`al Ukskorcg (L@MUU) olm tgk [l`vkrs`ty af B`llksato @lst`tutk alCabbul`ty @ltkhrot`al. Bkbekrs af tgk Ckltkr ork klcaurohkm ta kxprkss tgk`r ap`l`als> tgksk ma lat lkckssor`iy rkprksklttgk aff`c`oi pas`t`al af L@MUU.

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Caltklts

Farkwarm ............................................................................................................................. ;

]a tgk rkomkr ....................................................................................................................... 8

]a o yaulhkr porklt........................................................................................................... ??

]a ol aimkr porklt ............................................................................................................. ?8

]a ol kcaiah`st .................................................................................................................. 5?

Ol kcaiahy af i`fksgor lh ............................................................................................ 53

]a o yaulh i`fksgorkr ......................................................................................................... 5;

_uoi`t`ks af kxckiiklt i`fksgorkrs ................................................................................. 57

Farbs af pawkr .......................................................................................................... 50

]a o i`fksgorkr foc`lh o wrklcg`lh mkc`s`al ........................................................................ 33

]a o i`fksgorkr `l cr`s`s ....................................................................................................... 38

]a o cosk bolohkr .............................................................................................................. =?

]a o fob`iy i`v`lh ca-arm`lotar .......................................................................................... =3

]a o fr`klm......................................................................................................................... =8

Cabbul`ty ............................................................................................................... ;:

]a o fr`klm `l i`fksgor`lh.................................................................................................... ;?

O tkltot`vk calckptuoi bop af sofkhuorms far i`fksgor`lh gauskgaims .............................. ;=

]a o i`fksgorkr kxpiar`lh sofkhuorms.................................................................................... 6?

@lv`tot`al ................................................................................................................... 6;

Gkoitgy cabbul`ty ................................................................................................... 66

Sabk latks al rklkwoi v`s`ts .......................................................................................... 67

Ol apkl ikttkr ta o stotk omb`l`strotar ............................................................................... 80

]gk cgolh`lh s`tuot`al af c`t`zkls w`tg mkvkiapbkltoi m`soe`i`t`ks olm tgk occaultoe`i`ty

af ckrto`l piocks `l ektwkkl............................................................................................ 7=

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Zkapik olm arhol`zot`als ltkrkstkm `l i`fksgor`lh............................................................... 00

Eaans gkipfui `l ulmkrstolm`lh i`fksgor`lh ...................................................................... ?:3

Cgralaiahy af tgk I`fksgor`lh Sofkhuorms Zradkct ............................................................ ?:8

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]gk Zkllsyivol`o Mkvkiapbkltoi M`soe`i`t`ks Zioll`lh Caulc`i ulmkrtaan tgk Sofkhuorms

Zradkct calmuctkm ey Cobpg`ii V`iiohk, N`bekrtal G`iis `l iotk ?077. ]grauhgaut tgk

?07:s tgk Caulc`i mkbalstrotkm `ts mkkp `ltkrkst `l lurtur`lh o vor`kty af loturoi supparts

ta rk-eu`im cabbul`ty. Xk prabatkm olm fulmkm boly rkiot`alsg`p eu`im`lh pradkcts

obalh pkapik w`tg olm w`tgaut mkvkiapbkltoi m`soe`i`t`ks `l lal-`lst`tut`aloi sktt`lhs.

Obalh tgksk wkrk C`t`zkl Omvacocy Zrahrobs, C`t`zkl Zort`c`pot`al Zradkcts, Zkrbolklcy

Zioll`lh olm Fob`iy Suppart Skrv`cks, Caapkrot`vk Gaus`lh olm Sgorkm Gabks, wg`cg law

gos cabk ta ek coiikm I`fksgor`lh. Ot tgk sobk t`bk wk oisa ocnlawikmhkm tgot rkhormikss af

tgk sktt`lh pkapik w`tg mkvkiapbkltoi m`soe`i`t`ks ork vuilkroeik olm tgot oeusk `s patklt`oikvkl `l tgk ikss farboi`zkm orrolhkbklts af i`fksgor`lh gauskgaims. Xk nlkw wk gom ta i`ln

aur cabbul`ty eu`im`lh kffarts w`tg o calcab`tolt kxob`lot`al af wgot `t tonks ta nkkp

pkapik sofk.

]gus wk sauhgt ta suppart, olm pass`eiy eraomkl, tgk calckpt af klsur`lh sofkhuorms far

pkapik w`tg mkvkiapbkltoi m`soe`i`t`ks ekyalm tgk calvklt`aloi bkcgol`sbs af i`cklsurk,

`lspkct`al, rkhuiot`al ar occrkm`tot`al. Xk suspkctkm tgot tgk sofkhuorms kbpiaykm `l

sktt`lhs typ`coi ta oii gubol ek`lhs, sucg os wgot fob`i`ks ma, wkrk praeoeiy tgask tgot

oppi`km ta i`fksgor`lh gauskgaims. Xg`ik wk tgauhgt tgot tgk pkkr rkv`kw bamki uskm ey

C`t`zkl Omvacocy Zrahrobs b`hgt ek `lstruct`vk, wk oisa nlkw tgot oly kffart ta klsurksofkhuorms oraulm i`fksgorkrs klto`ikm ek`lh calsc`aus olm piolfui oeaut gaw pkapik i`vk

tahktgkr. ]gk I`fksgor`lh Sofkhuorms Zradkct wos erauhgt ta ek`lh olm tgk f`lm`lhs tgus for

ork calto`lkm gkrk.

]grauhg tgk warn af tgk Sofkhuorms Zradkct tgk Caulc`i faulm tgot i`fksgor`lh obalh

pkapik w`tg olm w`tgaut m`soe`i`t`ks boy iaan i`nk boly m`ffkrklt tg`lhs, olm `s malk far

boly m`ffkrklt rkosals, eut `t `s o pgklabklal ekcab`lh calsc`aus af `tskif. ]gus, `t `s

aeskrvoeik os o sac`oi farb. ]gk Zradkct rkvkoikm ta us tgot kffkct`vk sofkhuorms far i`fksgorkrs

rkqu`rk o r`cg b`x af calckpts4 calt`luausiy skkn`lh o mkkp ulmkrstolm`lh af kocg pkrsals

piock `l tgk warim> ek`lh o port af olm fuiiy kxpkr`klc`lh tgk r`sns olm rkworms af arm`loryi`fk> cgaas`lh alks awl potg eut w`tg tgk omv`ck, caulski olm `lfiuklck af tgask wga cork

oeaut yau> awl`lh alks skif> ek`lh oct`vk `l o suppart`vk lktwarn> ek`lh apkl ta qukst`al-

`lh> `lv`t`lh auts`mkrs ta aeskrvk olm osn yau oeaut yaur rkiot`alsg`ps port`cuioriy frab tgk

pkrspkct`vk af golm`coppkm pkapik> rkcahl`z`lh tgot m`vkrs`ty `tskif `s o sofkhuorm.

]g`s eaanikt af ikttkrs olm kssoys affkrs i`fksgorkrs tgk appartul`ty ta hraw, ta ek bark

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rkspals`eik olm occaultoeik ta kocg atgkr olm ta auts`mkrs calckrlkm w`tg tgk`r gauskgaims

olm cabbul`t`ks. Far kxobpik, `l tgk kssoys t`tikm O Calckptuoi Bop af Sofkhuorms far

I`fksgor`lh Gauskgaims olm Oeaut V`s`ts olm V`s`t`lh wk skk tgot tgk gkoitg af sgorkm

i`v`lh sktt`lhs col ek ossksskm `l woys tgot ork bkol`lhfui ta i`fksgorkrs, malk ey arm`lory

pkapik, ulaetrus`vk olm lal-omvkrsor`oi. ]gk Sofkhuorms Zradkct gos touhgt us tgot tgk bark

`lsuiotkm o sktt`lh `s, tgk bark vuilkroeik ork tgk pkapik `l `t. ]gk bark calsc`aus i`fksgorkrs

ork oeaut osn`lh far o v`s`t, tgk bark i`nkiy `s tgk`r hklu`lk gkoitg. Xg`ik `t `s pass`eik ta

put `lta piock farboi pratkct`al far vuilkroeik pkapik, tgk Sofkhuorms Zradkct faulm tgot wk

st`ii aliy govk gubol bkcgol`sbs al wg`cg ta rkiy far m`sckrl`lh tgk rkoi wkii ek`lh af

pkapik.

]gk Caulc`i `lv`tks o fuii orroy af rkomkrs ta tg`s eaanikt ekcousk wk eki`kvk tgot tgk `l-

s`hgts calto`lkm gkrk ork voiuoeik ta pkapik, wgotkvkr tgk`r c`rcubstolcks. Zorklts, tgk f`rst

i`fksgorkrs, w`ii eklkf`t os w`ii pkapik ossac`otkm w`tg `ltklt`aloi i`fksgor`lh cabbul`t`ks

oraulm tgk warim. Zkapik wga prav`mk prafkss`aloi skrv`cks ta pkrsals w`tg mkvkiapbkltoi

m`soe`i`t`ks w`ii govk faam far tgauhgt os w`ii tgk`r rkhuiotars olm i`cklsars. ]kocgkrs olm

stumklts w`ii praf`t frab cals`mkrot`al af tgksk `ssuks olm pai`cy bonkrs w`ii ho`l o caltkxt

far tgk`r warn. Xk rkcahl`zk tgot sabk rkomkrs boy ek ulcabfartoeik w`tg sabk af wgot `s

so`m gkrk. Eut al tgk wgaik, wk eki`kvk tgot Cuit`vot`lh ]g`ln`lh Gkortsos o sac`oi oloiys`s

ro`s`lh cr`t`coi `ssuks `s o macubklt tgot cgoiiklhks oii af us ta tg`ln oeaut wgot ork truk

sofkhuorms. ]gk Sofkhuorms Zradkct ikoms us ta calciumk tgot `f truk sofkhuorms ork `l piock,

tg`ln`lh gkorts praeoeiy govk ekkl cuit`votkm.

Oialh w`tg Gkikl T`ppkrikl olm Dagl AEr`kl, tgk Caulc`i, taa, `lv`tks yaur fkkmeocn olm

rkspalsk ta tg`s warn. @t `s, oftkr oii, o carrkspalmklck. Xk `lv`tk ol apkl m`oiahuk obalh

oii af us calckrlkm w`tg sofkhuorms ekcousk wk ork calf`mklt tgot `t w`ii calt`luk ta caltr`e-

utk ta tgk warn af cabbul`ty eu`im`lh.

Dak Ikalorm, Cgo`rpkrsal

]gk Zkllsyivol`o Mkvkiapbkltoi M`soe`i`t`ks Zioll`lh Caulc`i

Skptkbekr, ?003

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]a tgk rkomkr

Mkor Ukomkr,

S`lck wk ekhol aur purpaskfui kxpiarot`al af i`fksgor`lh olm `ts sofkhuorms `l tgk foii af

?077, wk govk v`s`tkm, `ltkrv`kwkm, rktrkotkm, calfkrklckm, rkom, carrkspalmkm, mkeotkm olm

calvkrskm, `l pkrsal olm ey tkikpgalk, w`tg gulmrkms af pkapik wga ork i`lnkm `l alk woy

ar olatgkr ta o warim w`mk lktwarn af pkapik calckrlkm w`tg calsc`ausiy eu`im`lhcabbul`ty. Boly af tgksk pkapik ork port`cuioriy `lvaivkm w`tg mkvkiapbkltoi m`soe`i`ty,

k`tgkr ekcousk tgot `s ol kvklt `l tgk`r i`fk ar `l tgk i`fk af sabkalk tgky cork oeaut. Atgkrs

govk lkvkr cals`mkrkm tgk raik olm caltr`eut`al af pkapik w`tg mkvkiapbkltoi m`soe`i`t`ks ta

tgk`r i`fk warn. ^Far o cgral`cik af aur warn, skk pohk ?:?.R

Xk govk faulm `t kxc t`lh, st`buiot`lh, olm accos`aloiiy crkot`vkiy frustrot`lh ta ek `l

caltoct w`tg pkapik wga govk qukst`als, calv`ct`als, ar cr`t`c`sbs oeaut aur warn. Xgkl wk

ork w`tg atgkrs alk atgkr ar o iorhk hraup wga sgork aur qukst, i`fksgor`lh cabks oi`vk olm

ulmkrstolm`lh sg`fts, hraws, olm mkkpkls ektwkkl us. Xgot gos ekkl gorm, olm bastiy

bkrkiy frustrot`lh, `s ta f`lm wr`ttkl warms ta cabbul`cotk kvkl o e`t af wgot wk govkikorlkm. Xk govk cavkrkm gulmrkms af sboii olm iorhk scrops af popkr w`tg m`ohrobs, aut-

i`lks, pgrosks, porohropgs, olm sgart kssoys. Eut lalk af tgk warms al popkr cobk oi`vk os

bucg os kvkl tgk er`kfkst babklt af sgorkm calckrl w`tg olatgkr pkrsal.

F`loiiy wk mkc`mkm al tgk i`ttik eaan yau ork gaim`lh. Kvkl tgauhg aur t`bks bonk ikttkrs

bucg ikss cabbal tgol tkikpgalk coiis, wk nlkw tgot ikttkrs frab `lvaivkm pkapik erauhgt

oi`vk tgk sklsk af i`fksgor`lh olm wk nlkw tgot wk gom ikorlkm frab wr`t`lh ta o rkoi pkrsal

`l rkspalsk ta o ikttkr ar o calvkrsot`al. Xk govk wr`ttkl ar`h`loi ikttkrs far tg`s eaan olm

govk lat rkpramuckm octuoi pradkct carrkspalmklck. Xk govk wr`ttkl ta cabpas`tk pkapik

rotgkr tgol ta port`cuior `lm`v`muois. ]gk ikttkrs rkfikct octuoi kvklts os o caltkxt far kxpiar-`lh tgk faur nky tgkbks `l aur warn ta motk4

Calsc`aus, ialh tkrb kffart ta eu`im up gkoitgy cabbul`ty `s tgk aliy sofkhuorm far oii af

us, `lcium`lh tgask obalh us wga ork bast opporkltiy vuilkroeik ekcousk af tgk`r m`soe`i-

`ty. ]g`s `s poromax`coi olm m`ff`cuit warn ekcousk sa bucg af aur gubol olm loturoi

warim `s mkkpiy waulmkm.

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]gk s`lhik bast `bpartolt tosn far tgask calckrlkm w`tg skcur`ty olm mkvkiapbklt `s ta

`lv`tk olm suppart bark olm bark pkapik `lta i`fksgor`lh rkiot`alsg`ps af oii n`lms olm ta

ikorl gaw ta oss`st pkapik ta ek bark copoeik i`fksgorkrs.

]a ma tg`s warn wk bust f`lms woys ta fkki olm skk olm oct `ltkhroiiy, os `lm`v`muois, eut

port`cuioriy os i`fk sgor`lh hraups. Xk bust purpaskiy cuit`votk tg`ln`lh gkorts w`tg alkolatgkr.

Alk ort `l tgk cuit`vot`al af tg`ln`lh gkorts `s tgk oe`i`ty ta oct ta crkotk wgaiks frab tgk

opporkltiy erankl e`ts skrvkm up ta us ey aur `lm`v`muoi olm caiikct`vk g`star`ks. ]g`s ort `s

s`b`ior ocrass scoik, wgktgkr proct`ckm al ekgoif af o s`lhik pkrsal, os wgkl o pkrsaloiiy

calckrlkm c`rcik gkips o pkrsal p`kck tahktgkr o sklsk af v`s`al far gkr futurk, ar af o

hraup, os wgkl `lv`tkm v`s`tars gkip o i`fksgor`lh hraup rkv`kw tgk`r s`tuot`als olm frobk

tgk`r currklt cgoiiklhks, ar af o pai`ty, os wgkl c`t`zkls hotgkr ta skorcg far ekttkr ulmkr-

stolm`lh af tgk caltrom`ct`als af currklt pai`cy olm proct`ck olm w`skr lkxt stkps. Ot raat,

`t `s tgk ort af `lv`t`lh m`vkrsk olm aftkl paior`zkm atgkrs `lta galkst olm pramuct`vkm`oiahuk `l tgk caltkxt af sgorkm kvkrymoy i`fk.

]gk ikttkrs col ek rkom `l oly armkr, eut tgky govk ekkl orrolhkm ta ikom yau frab tgk

kmhks af calsc`aus i`fksgor`lh, `lta tgk b`mst af `t, olm tgkl al ta rkfikct`als al tgk qukst`al

af sofkhuorms. ]gk f`rst tgrkk ikttkrs `ltramuck i`fksgor`lh ta tgrkk pkapik wga ork walmkr`lh

gaw i`fksgor`lh rkiotks ta tgk`r m`ffkr`lh `ltkrksts af tgk babklt. ]gk lkxt skvkl ikttkrs taucg

tgk calckrls af pkapik `l tgk b`mst af i`fksgor`lh. ]gk f`loi twa ikttkrs kxpi`c`tiy m`scuss tgk

`bpi`cot`als af aur warn ta pkapik wga wolt ta bonk w`sk mkc`s`als oeaut bon`lh olm

nkkp`lh pkapik sofk.

Xk govk i`lnkm sabk af tgk botkr ois wk wratk mur`lh tgk pradkct ta skvkroi af tgk ikttkrs.

Pau w`ii f`lm cabbklts al tgk botkr`ois `l tgk rkiotkm ikttkr. O fkw af tgk pkapik wga rkom

ol kori`kr mroft af tg`s eaan suhhkstkm rkom`lh tgk kssoy wg`cg ekh`ls al pohk 87 f`rst, os o

caltkxt far tgk ikttkrs. Pau b`hgt f`lm tgk`r oppraocg gkipfui.

Oialh tgk woy wk govk occubuiotkm bucg hrot`tumk ta pkapik wga govk bomk aur ikorl`lh

pass`eik tgrauhg tgk`r gasp`toi`ty olm gorm warn al bottkrs af cabbal calckrl. Xk `ltra-

muck yau ta sabk af tgksk fr`klms ekh`ll`lh al pohk 03. ]g`s `s os bucg o ikttkr af tgolns os

o m`rkctary.

Aur mkkp opprkc`ot`al tatgk pkapik olm tgk Eaorm af M`rkctars af Cobpg`ii V`iiohk N`bekrtal G`iis far rkck`v`lh

tgk Mkvkiapbkltoi M`soe`i`t`ks Zioll`lh Caulc`i (MMZC) hrolt far tgk Sofkhuorms

pradkct, olm far pot`kltiy oesare`lh tgk kxtro warn `lvaivkm.

tgk bkbekrs af tgk Zkllsyivol`o Mkvkiapbkltoi M`soe`i`t`ks Zioll`lh Caulc`i wga

suppartkm olm strklhtgklkm aur warn w`tg tgk`r cabbklts olm qukst`als, kspkc`oiiy Dak

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Ikalorm, Nkl Bubbo, Born Fr`kmbol, olm Km Cagik.

tgk stoff af MMZC, kspkc`oiiy Uaskbory Eorrktt olm Mal Gogl, wga bomk warn`lh w`tg

havkrlbklt o sgkkr mki`hgt olm ta Mov`m E. Scgwortz, sawkr af boly skkms.

boly fr`klms `l tgk Aff`ck af Bkltoi Uktormot`al af Zkllsyivol`os Mkportbklt af Zuei`c

Xkifork, kspkc`oiiy Lolcy ]goikr, Stkvk K`mkibol, Bki Nlawital, Molo Aiskl, olm Mal

Frky, far sgor`lh tgk`r pkrspkct`vks al tgk sofkhuorms m`ikbbo, klcauroh`lh aur rkskorcg,

olm prav`m`lh boly gasp`toeik accos`als far fkiiawsg`p olm m`scuss`al.

Mallo Sturh`s, o caiikohuk frab tgk autskt. Mallos w`sk `ls`hgts `l gubol s`tuot`als

caltr`eutkm ta kvkry stkp af aur warn, olm gkr armkriy bolohkbklt af aur aff`ck olm

f`lolcks hovk `t o rkspals`eik eosk.

]a aur b`lms, tgk ekst pass`eik rkspalsk yau cauim bonk ta tg`s eaan wauim ek ta wolt ta

da`l `l aur calt`lu`lh calvkrsot`al. Pau col coii ar wr`tk us ot tgk ommrkss `ls`mk tgk fralt

cavkr.

Xk iaan farworm ta gkor`lh frab yau,

Gkikl T`ppkrikl & Dagl AEr`kl

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]a o yaulhkr porklt

Mkor Bor`k,

]goln yau far yaur tgauhgtfui ikttkr. Pau olm Dak ma `lmkkm fock cruc`oi mkc`s`als oeaut

D`bs futurk olm @b goppy tgot aur calvkrsot`al ot tgk rktrkot gkipkm yau ta put tgask

mkc`s`als `l pkrspkct`vk. @ ikorlkm ot ikost os bucg os yau m`m frab aur kxcgolhk olm @b

hiom yau govk osnkm bk ta try olm copturk sabk af tgk bo`l pa`lts af aur calvkrsot`al `l

wr`t`lh.

D`bs hromuot`al frab g`hg scgaai bonks o loturoi t`bk ta tg`ln corkfuiiy oeaut g`s futurk,

olm yaur awl. @ts saekr`lh ta rkoi`zk oho`l gaw bucg D`b rki`ks al yau ta bonk w`sk mkc`-s`als oeaut g`s i`fk. Os bucg os g`s ikorl`lh gos surposskm kvkryalks prkm`ct`als, olm os

osskrt`vk os yau govk klcaurohkm g`b ta ek `l bon`lh g`s awl cga`cks, gk st`ii trusts yau ta

mkc`mk wgot bklu af apt`als gk w`ii cgaask frab. Alck D`b `s sabkpiock, gk `s rksaurckfui

ot bon`lh tgk bast af `t4 g`s h`ft far trkot`lh strolhkrs i`nk fr`klms, g`s pikosurk ot ma`lh o

haam dae, g`s sklsk af ful, olm g`s w`ii`lhlkss ta struhhik ta f`hurk tg`lhs aut ork i`fkialh

rksaurcks far g`b. Eut `ts up ta yau olm Dak ta mkc`mk wgkrk D`bs sabkpiock w`ii ek4 gk boy

frab t`bk ta t`bk ollaulck tgot gk `s ikov`lh gabk, eut eatg yau olm gk nlaw tgot gks lat

ha`lh olywgkrk w`tgaut yaur oct`vk olm calt`lu`lh suppart. @l tgk f`rst piock, yaur iavk far

g`b `s sa cikor-s`hgtkm tgot yau nlaw tgot g`s futurk `s mkkpiy `ltkrwavkl w`tg yaur awl. @l

tgk skcalm piock, kvkl `f yau s`bpiy woltkm ta piock g`b sabkwgkrk, yau wauim govk ta

omvacotk v`harausiy olm wo`t ialh far tgk avkreurmklkm gubol skrv`ck systkb ta pramuck

oly piock ot oii far g`b ta i`vk.

Oii tgrkk af yau ork w`ii lh ta warn gorm far wgot yau tg`ln ekst. Eut, `l ol `bpartolt woy,

bon`lh piols oeaut D`bs futurk cabks mawl ta o qukst`al af wgkrk yau mkc`mk ta piock yaur

trust olm `lvkst yaur ekst crkot`vk kffart.

Os yau struhhik tahktgkr w`tg tg`s qukst`al, rkbkbekr tgot `t `s fulmobkltoiiy o qukst`al

oeaut D`bs `mklt`ty olm g`s piock `l tgk warim. Pau spank w`tg mkkp fkki`lh oeaut tgk boly

woys tgot D`b gos pas`t`vkiy `lfiuklckm sabk af tgk pkapik gk gos bkt> sa wk ork calf`mkltyau walt m`scault D`bs `bpartolck ta tgk warim. Olm yau spank w`tg sucg kxc`tkbklt

oeaut tgk m`ffkrklck `t bonks wgkl D`b `s w`tg pkapik wga skk g`b os, olm kxpkct g`b ta ek,

g`s awl pkrsal tgot wk ork calf`mklt tgot yau w`ii calt`luk ta skkn aut pkapik wga rkcah-

l`zk D`bs wgaiklkss olm `ltkhr`ty.

@l oii af tg`s, tgkrk `s la woy ta ova`m D`bs vuilkroe`i`ty. ]gk calskquklcks af g`s m`ff`cui-

t`ks `l ikorl`lh ork `bpartolt4 gk w`ii praeoeiy oiwoys lkkm tgauhgtfui gkip w`tg g`s mo`iy

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pioll`lh, w`tg bon`lh sklsk af lkw s`tuot`als, olm w`tg mkvkiap`lh lkw sn`iis. X`tgaut

copoeik pkapik wga tonk muk rkhorm af g`s m`soe`i`ty, D`bs moys wauim ek vkry gorm `lmkkm.

Olm `t wauim ek vkry kosy far atgkrs ta tonk omvoltohk af g s m`ff`cuit`ks w`tg lubekrs olm

calckpts. Eut g`s h`fts kxpask g`b os wkii4 g`s mks`rk ta ek fr`klmiy bonks `t kosy far pkapik ta

ikom g`b olm g`s trust `l atgkrs ikovks g`b apkl lat dust ta tgk po`l af m`soppa`ltbklt eut

ta autr`hgt kxpia`tot`al ar oeusk.

@t `s fr`hgtkl`lh, eut lkckssory, ta tg`ln oeaut gaw molhkraus tgk warim cauim ek ta D`b.

La lkwscost haks ey w`tgaut v`v`m rkb`lmkrs af sklskikss v`aiklck> bark olm bark pkapik

ork toin`lh oeaut oeusk kbat`aloi, skxuoi, olm pgys`coi w`tg`l fob`i`ks olm obalh oc-

quo`ltolcks> olm tgk prkvoiklck af carrupt`al olm scgkbks ta mupk tgk crkmuiaus ork o

bkm`o stopik. Xk oii sw`b `l o sko af bkssohks oeaut molhkrs tgot dust`fy wor`lkss `f lat

autr`hgt m`strust, eut wk oii govk ta ek tgauhgtfui oeaut tgk calskquklcks af tgk woys wk

cgaask ta strklhtgkl aurskivks. Os bast pai`ck aff`ckrs rkb`lm us, wotcgfui, `lvaivkm lk`hg-

ears rkmuck tgk appartul`t`ks far cr`bk bark tgol orb`lh olm `saiot`lh aurskivks maks.

Xk skk ot ikost tgrkk potgs apkl ta yaur fob`iy4 strklhtgkl tgk raik af tgk havkrlbklt `l

D`bs i`fk> ikt D`b ha olm gapk tgot gk w`ii f`lm klauhg af wgot sabk pkapik coii loturoi

suppart ta bonk g`s woy> ar warn calsc`ausiy ta kxtklm tgk i`fk yau olm Dak olm D`b sgork

ta `lciumk atgkr pkapik wga w`ii tonk ol oct`vk port `l eu`im`lh up o gkoitgy cabbul`ty `l

cabpoly w`tg D`b. Ikts tg`ln oeaut kocg potg `l turl.

@t boy skkb amm ta coii tgk f`rst potg strklhtgkl`lh tgk raik af havkrlbklt `l D`bs i`fk.

Eut `t skkbs ta us tgot `s tgk bast pawkrfui ialh tkrb kffkct af succkssfui omvacocy far ol

`lcrkos`lhiy wkii fulmkm olm wkii rkhuiotkm systkb af caarm`lotkm prafkss`aloi skrv`cks.

@ls`stklck tgot cg`imrkl w`tg mkvkiapbkltoi m`soe`i`t`ks wkrk uldustiy mkpr`vkm af r`hgtfuiappartul`t`ks far scgaai`lh ikm ta o mkciorkm klt`tikbklt ta spkc`oi kmucot`al. Kxpasurk af

tgk lkhikct olm oeusk af pkapik w`tg mkvkiapbkltoi m`soe`i`t`ks `l `lst`tut`als mravk up

puei`c kxpklm`turk olm pawkrkm tgk `bpikbkltot`al af bast af aur currklt cabbul`ty

skrv`cks far omuits. Oialh w`tg tgk eklkf`ts af `lcrkoskm havkrlbklt `lvaivkbklt govk cabk

casts.

]gk systkbs crkotkm ta `lsurk r`hgts olm prapkr skrv`cks govk ekcabk `lcrkos`lhiy cabpikx

olm govk tgkbskivks ekcabk o eorr`kr ta fikx`eik, cabbal sklsk rkspalsks ta cgolh`lh

s`tuot`als. Bark olm bark, `llavotars govk ta f`lm woys ta warn oraulm tgk`r awl

systkbs. ]gkrk `s o pkrvos`vk ott`tumk af susp`c`al taworm pkapik wga wolt ta i`vk olm warn w`tg

pkapik w`tg mkvkiapbkltoi m`soe`i`t`ks4 w`tgaut `lcrkos`lh sapg`st`cotkm survk`iiolck olm

`lcrkos`lhiy pawkrfui solct`als, pkapik w`ii ma wralh. ]g`s ci`botk gos o cg`ii`lh kffkct al

tgk n`lm af pkrsaloi, `lvklt`vk rkiot`alsg`ps D`b lkkms ta bonk g`s ul`quk caltr`eut`al ta

aur warim.

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Zkrgops bast praeikbot coiiy, D`bs i`fk ekcabks o havkrlbklt pradkct. Zrafkss`aloiiy

quoi`f`km auts`mkrs mktkrb`lk tgk opprapr`otklkss af D`bs i`fk piol, g`s haois, g`s aedkc-

t`vks, olm g`s prahrkss. Gk ekcabks tgk suedkct af dumhbklts oeaut wgktgkr skrv`ck pra-

v`mkrs ork spklm`lh g`s t`bk `l tgk bast cast eklkf`c`oi usk af tox balky.

Boly calckrlkm pkapik tg`ln tgot stralhkr havkrlbklt solct`als ta klfarck pkapiks r`hgtsolm ekttkr bkols af auts`mk `lspkct`al ork tgk aliy woys ta ossurk sofkty far vuilkroeik

pkapik. Eut wgotkvkr tgk cosk boy ek oeaut pkapik w`tg mkvkiapbkltoi m`soe`i`t`ks os o cioss,

wgot oeaut D`b1 ]gkrk ork pkapik wga opprkc`otk g`s h fts olm w`sg g`b wkii> gk gos bpar-

tolt pkrsaloi olm sac`oi rksaurcks. X`ii i`fk `l o havkrlbklt bolohkm klv`ralbklt kloeik

g`b ta bonk tgk bast af tgksk rksaurcks ta ek g`s awl pkrsal1

Sabk pkapik calckrlkm oeaut tgk lkhot`vk kffkcts af strklhtgkl`lh havkrlbklt `lvaivk-

bklt ork law pa`lt`lh ta o skcalm potg, olm o fkw pkapik ork try`lh ta woin `t. ]gky eki`kvk

tgot lk`hgears, ciossbotks, ca-warnkrs, olm atgkr fkiiaw c`t`zkls govk bucg ta affkr D`b `l

tgk woy af wgot tgky subbor`zk os loturoi suppart. Sabk kvkl tg`ln tgot tg`s loturoisuppart wauim ek suff`c`klt ta prav`mk oii ar oibast oii af tgk oss`stolck D`b lkkms. Os boly

kxpiarkrs af tg`s potg ulmkrstolm `t, tg`s `s o potg af iktt`lh ha far porklts olm prafkss`alois.

@f porklts olm prafkss`alois hkt aut af tgk woy, o pkrsal w`ii f`lm tgk suppart lkkmkm ta hkt

al w`tg tgk`r i`vks, pkrgops w`tg sgart tkrb `lvaivkbklt frab o pkrsal wga warns os o

foc`i`totar af loturoi suppart. ]g`s potg gaims sabk prab`sk. Pau nlaw frab D`bs post fkw

ykors `l scgaai tgot boly lal-m`soeikm stumklts wkrk w`ii`lh ta ek `lvaivkm w`tg D`b olm ta

oss`st g`b `l bark woys tgol yau gom eki`kvkm pass`eik> olm g`s eass olm g`s ca-warnkrs ot

tgk gormwork stark govk kldaykm `lcium`lh g`b olm ek`lh af gkip ta g`b. Bucg af tg`s gos

cgoiiklhkm yau olm D`bs spkc`oi kmucot`al tkocgkr ta mkoi calstruct`vkiy w`tg yaur olx`kt`ks

olm bavk eocn ta crkotk tgk spock far rkiot`alsg`ps ta farb. Eut gapkfui os oii tg`s `s, `t `s o

ialh woy frab prav`m`lh D`b w`tg oii tgk suppart gk lkkms ta ekcabk g`s awl pkrsal.

Os wkicabk olm os walmkrfui os tgksk `lvaivkbklts govk ekkl far D`b, tgky foii for sgart

af prav`m`lh g`b w`tg tgk obault af oss`stolck gk octuoiiy lkkms. Gk st`ii rki`ks al yau

olm Dak far bast af tgk gubol olm botkr`oi faulmot`al tgot h`vks cagkrklck ta g`s moys. @t

tonks calt`lu`lh kffart ta bo`lto`l olm kxtklm D`bs lktwarn af suppart. Sa for, `t gos

ekkl pass`eik ta stkp eocn frab boly oct`v`t`ks, eut lat frab calt`luoiiy ottklm`lh ta tgk

rkiot`alsg`ps tgkbskivks.

O lubekr af pkapik i`nk ek`lh w`tg D`b olm trkot g`b wkii. Surpr`s`lhiy fkw pkapikcalmkscklm ta D`b os tgky occkpt g`b olm oss`st g`b, eut boly pkapik trkot g`b os sabk-

gaw m`b`l`sgkm ikss fartulotk. Gormiy olyalk ykt skkbs ta govk kvkl couhgt o hi`bpsk

af D`b g`bskif. Pau lat`ck hklu`lk calckrl frab atgkrs, port`cuioriy frab tgk yaulh

wabkl D`b nlaws, eut tg`s calckrl gos lat ykt trolsiotkm ta o rkcahl`t`al af D b os o

sp`r`tuoi kquoi, `lvaivkm os bucg os olyalk kisk `l o qukst ta m`scavkr g`s piock `l tgk

warim.

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Kvkrymoy i`fk skkbs bonk ialh tkrb, butuoiiy suppart`vk rkiot`alsg`ps olytg`lh eut

loturoi. Bast af us ork eusy olm t`rkm frab mkoi`lh w`tg tgk `lcrkos`lh cabpikx`t`ks af

surv`voi. Boly pkapik skkb mr`vkl `lta gaorm`lh t`bk olm botkr`ois ey o sklsk af tgrkot-

kl`lh scorc`ty. Sabk pkapik skkb taa rkomy ta prabatk tgk`r `lm`v`muoi`st`c `ltkrksts ot tgk

kxpklsk af olyalk w`ii`lh ta hkt `lvaivkm. O fr`hgtkl`lh fkw ork v`aikltiy olt`-sac`oi. @t `s

prktty ta tg`ln tgot D`b wauim loturoiiy ottroct tgk suppart gk rkqu`rks, eut kvkl `l aur

caultry for frab tgk garrars af ktgl`c cikols`lh olm klfarckm storvot`al olm kcalab`c

caiiopsk tgkrk skkb ta ek boly rkoi eorr`krs ta mkcklt c`v`c rkiot`alsg`ps.

]gkrk `s for taa bucg prab`sk oialh tgk loturoi supparts potg ta oeolmal `t, eut for taa

boly praeikbs ta trust `t klt`rkiy.

]gk tg`rm potg eu`im`lh calsc`aus cabbul`ty `s tgk potg tgot kxc`tks olm cgoiiklhks bk

tgk bast. ]g`s potg ekh`ls wgkrk D`b `s law4 ot tgk gkort af o rkoi olm `bpkrfkct fob`iy wga

sgork tgk`r i`vks olm tgk`r struhhiks ta nlaw olm iavk alk olatgkr `l o woy tgot kloeiks kocg

ta caltr`eutk ta o bark dust olm cabpiktk warim. ]gksk struhhiks govk ikm yau ta warn olmaccos`aloiiy ta f`hgt far D`b ta govk tgk appartul`t`ks olm tgk oss`stolck gk lkkms ta ek

`lciumkm `l boly af tgk kvkrymoy kxpkr`klcks tgot wauim govk ekkl g`s w`tgaut qukst`al `f

gk wkrk lat mkvkiapbkltoiiy m`soeikm. ]gksk struhhiks govk ikm yau ta klcaurohk D`b olm

accos`aloiiy ta f`hgt w`tg g`b ta `lcrkosk g`s oe`i`t`ks ta ek o rkspals`eik, tg`ln`lh, `ltkrkst-

`lh pkrsal.

]gk lkxt stkps oialh tg`s potg coii far sac`oi `lvklt`al. Sabkgaw yau olm yaur fr`klms

bust m`scavkr woys ta kxpolm tgk i`fk tgot yau sgork os o fob`iy ta `lciumk bark pkapik. D`b

w`ii calt`luk ta klday olm eklkf`t frab pkapik wga ma oct`v`t`ks w`tg g`b, eut D`b w`ii aliy

ek g`s awl pkrsal wgkl bark pkapik calsc`ausiy olm mki`ekrotkiy sgork g`s i`fk. ]g`s bkolsoii af yau bon`lh tgk bast af yaur `lm`v`muoi h`fts ta f`lm proct`coi woys ta

`lv`tk pkapik `lta D`bs i`fk olm yaurs. Zkapik ork lat dust da`l`lh D`bs i`fk, kvkl `f tgky

ork ottroctkm ey g`b olm spklm bast af tgk`r t`bk w`tg g`b, tgky ork da`l`lh yaur kxpolm-

`lh fob`iy i`fk. Bon`lh tgk rkoi olm klmur`lh eaulmor`ks oraulm yaur fob`iy o e`t bark

pkrbkoeik `s i`nk farb`lh yaur fob`iy `tskif4 kocg `lm`v`muoi gos ta nkkp m`scavkr`lh tgk`r

awl eaulmor`ks os tgky taucg tgk atgkrs. ]g`s bkols tgot `lv`tot`als bust ek h`vkl olm

occkptkm w`tg mkkp rkspkct far `lm`v`muoi frkkmab.

rkspkct kocg bkbekr os tgk`r awl pkrsal. Kxpkct galksty, butuoi cgoiiklhk, rkspals`e`i`ty

ta cabb`tbklts, olm f`mki`ty frab kvkryalk.

suppart alk olatgkr ta hraw cikorkr oeaut wgot da`ls yau4 kocg pkrsal `s sabkgaw o port

af kocg atgkr pkrsals rkoi`zot`al af tgkbskif os tgk`r awl pkrsal> t`bk, occ`mklt, olm

calfi`ct olm rkcalc`i`ot`al w`ii bonk wgot da`ls yau `lcrkos`lhiy ovo`ioeik far calsc`aus

rkfikct`al.

oct c`v`coiiy. I`fksgor`lh `s lat dust far tgk skcur`ty af tgk `lm`v`muoi eut far tgk eu`im`lh

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up af o bark dust cabbul`ty. Alk lkckssory ospkct af c`v`c oct`al `s warn`lh far o prapkr

rkiot`alsg`p ektwkkl havkrlbklt olm pkapik w`tg m`soe`i`t`ks. Havkrlbklt gos o prapkr

raik `l ossur`lh tgot D`b gos omkquotk `lcabk ta bkkt g`s lkkms far oss`stolck> `t sgauim

lat ek tgk awlkr af g`s i`fk ar tgk avkrskkr af tgask wga sgork tgk`r i`vks w`tg g`b. Kstoe-

i`sg`lh tgk r`hgt rkiot`alsg`p ektwkkl D`b olm tgk havkrlbklt w`ii ek o cabpikx olm t`bk

calsub`lh `ssuk. ]gkrk ork boly atgkr `ssuks af v`toi `bpartolck ta oii i`fksgorkrs sofkty

olm wkii ek`lh4 `lsur`lh tgot tgk cabbul`ty gos haam, ovo`ioeik gaus`lh olm tgot c`t`zkls

govk occkss ta haam warn olm mkcklt gkoitg cork> warn`lh ta gkoi tgk klv`ralbklt>

warn`lh ta avkrcabk tgk sac`oi ikhocy af roc`sb, cioss`sb, olm lot`aloi`sb.

m`scavkr olm coii al tgk h`fts, toiklts, olm lkkms af kocg pkrsal wga cgaasks ta sgork tgk`r

i`fk. @f `t skkbs i`nkiy tgot D`b olm yau olm Dak wauim eklkf`t `f gk bkt atgkrs wga

wauim i`nk ta i`vk w`tg g`b far o t`bk4 i`stkl far pkapik wga b`hgt f`lm eklkf`t `l ma`lh

tgot olm osn far gkip frab tgk w`mkr hraup (olm tgk`r sac`oi lktwarns) ta bonk `t goppkl.

rkocg aut olm bonk oct`vk i`lns w`tg atgkrs wga sgork yaur cabb`tbklt ta i`fksgor`lh.

]g`s potg `s o m`ff`cuit olm po`lfui alk.

@t maks lat oiiaw tgk `iius`al af ckrto`lty. @ssuks af wga ta trust olm gaw bucg rkbo`l

ciask ta tgk surfock. ]gkrk w`ii ek praeikbs, tgkrk cauim wkii ek occ`mklts olm boyek kvkl

m`sostkrs.

@t rkqu`rks suestolt`oi kffart olm boyek tgk socr f`ck af atgkr wartgwg`ik pursu`ts.

@t makslt affkr o saiut`al far kvkryalk. Pau olm Dak w`ii vkry i`nkiy ek rkb`lmkm pkrgops

ey rkskltfui pkapik tgot boly pkapik w`tg mkvkiapbkltoi m`soe`i`t`ks iocn tgk sac`oi

rksaurcks tgot D`b gos. Pau boy f`lm yaurskivks wrksti`lh w`tg tgk qukst`al af wgktgkr

wgot yau ork ma`lh `s fo r.

]gksk m`ff`cuit`ks, wg`cg wk eki`kvk ork s`bpiy g`mmkl olm lat rksaivkm ey tgk atgkr potgs

wk nlaw oeaut, ork eatg tgk st`buius olm tgk rkosal far calsc`auslkss `l eu`im`lh cabbu-

l`ty.

]g`s gos ekkl o ialh ikttkr, eut aurs wos o ialh calvkrsot`al. @b calf`mklt tgot wk w`ii

bkkt yau oho`l olm oho`l os wk warn tahktgkr eut `l m`ffkrklt piocks `l cabpoly w`tg

pkapik w`tg m`soe`i`t`ks.

By vkry ekst w`sgks,

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]a ol aimkr porklt

Mkor Br. Sb`tg,

]goln yau far yaur ikttkr. @ ob rkoiiy sarry ta gkor af Brs. Sb`tgs `iilkss.

Loturoiiy yau govk twa warr`ks, far yaur w`fk, olm far yaur mouhgtkr, Soro, wga gos, far

gkr farty ykors, mkpklmkm oibast klt`rkiy al gkr batgkrs mo`iy cork. [lfartulotkiy, tgkrk ork

o hrkot boly fob`i`ks wga, i`nk yaurskivks, govk corkm far o sal ar mouhgtkr w`tg m`soe`i`t`ks

ot gabk, aftkl w`tgaut bon`lh oly prav`s`als far tgk`r awl ohk`lh ar `iilkss. Pau, i`nk boly

fotgkrs, praeoeiy kxpkctkm ta ek tgk f`rst ta lkkm cork, wg`cg yaur w`fk wauim ek oeik ta h`vk

yau. ]g`s ulkxpkctkm kvklt f`lms yau ulprkporkm, olm yau turl ta bk w`tg qukst`als oeautSoros `bbkm`otk olm furtgkr futurk.

@ bust tkii yau tgot yaur ikttkr taucgkm o cgarm `l bk, olm @ govk ekkl owonk s`lck ialh

ekfark mowl tg`ln`lh oeaut yaur qu`ktiy gkra`c i`vks, walmkr`lh gaw ta ocnlawikmhk tgk

hrkot mket sac`kty awks ta pkapik i`nk yau. Farty ykors oha! La mauet wgkl Soro wos earl,

yau wkrk calfraltkm w`tg ol kbeorrosskm mactar, omv`s`lh yau tgot gkr m`soe`i`ty wauim

prkvklt gkr frab gov`lh o larboi i`fk, tgot gkr prksklck wauim mkstray yaur fob`iy, tgot yau

sgauim put gkr `l tgk `lst`tut`al olm farhkt tgk wgaik kp`samk. Sgk wauim ek o worm af tgk

Stotk olm opprapr`otkiy corkm far, wg`ik yau sgauim mkvatk yaurskivks ta atgkr cg`imrkl olm

ro`s`lh o larboi fob`iy. Zkrgops yau wklt ta v`s`t alk af tgask `lst`tut`als af tgk ;:s4cattohks far k`hgty cg`imrkl kocg> worms far farty `l alk hrkot spock, w`tg gormiy raab ta

woin ektwkkl tgk ekms> oct`vk n`ms wga hovk traueik t`km ta tgk`r ekmfrobk> atgkrs, uloeik ta

woin, ioy klmikssiy `l tgk`r cats... Zkrgops yau kxpiarkm o pr votk scgaai, w`tg fkwkr n`ms,

ekout`fui hraulms olm kikholtiy furl`sgkm fralt poriar. Pau wkrk oibast calv`lckm ult`i yau

sow tgk cg`imrkls quortkrs, olm gkorm oeaut tgk baltgiy fkk olm `l`t`oi caltr`eut`al ta tgk

klmawbklt, klsur`lh cromik ta hrovk cork. Pau taan Soro gabk!

@ rkbkbekr tgask ykors, olm col `boh`lk Soro's cg`imgaam4 tgk prkscgaai `l tgk cgurcg

eoskbklt, arhol`zkm ey mkspkrotk porklts> tgk iaeey`lh far r`hgts, tgk hromuoi crkot`al af o

skrv`ck systkb far pkapik w`tg spkc`oi lkkms> tgk cab`lh af hraup gabks, ro`s`lh gapks af omkcklt, `lmkpklmklt i`fk far Soro. Olm tgkl tgk wo`t`lh i`sts, olm fulm`lh cuts...

Zkrgops `l rkcklt ykors yau govk iaankm ot iacoi hraup gabks olm faulm tgkb ikss tgol

wgot yau wauim wolt far Soro. Olm kvkry ykor af omuitgaam gos bomk gkr bark mkpklmklt,

ikss olx`aus ta ikovk gkr Batgkr. Gkr eratgkr olm s`stkr govk eatg ikft gabk, olm, praeoeiy,

yau govk lkvkr ykt toinkm ta tgkb skr`ausiy oeaut Soros futurk, lat wolt`lh ta eurmkl tgk`r

yaulh i`vks w`tg o praeikb yau cauim st`ii corry - ult`i ykstkrmoy.

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Dust ekfark sulr`sk @ ekhol ta `boh`lk kocg pkrsals fkki`lhs. Ekl olm Dklly, wga iavk tgk`r

s`stkr, ork iaan`lh w`tg lkw kyks, olm sabk olx`kty, ot tgk`r awl s`tuot`als. Ekls fob`iy

skkb ta f`ii tgk`r i`ttik gausk - eut col tgky bonk spock far Soro1 Col tgky cork far gkr os wkii

os tgk`r cg`imrkl olm tgk`r daes1 Dklly `boh`lks gaw sgk b`hgt sgork ol oportbklt w`tg Soro,

olm gaw tgot wauim cgolhk gkr caiikhk i`fk. Sgauim sgk h`vk up scgaai olm cabk gabk ta

gkip yau w`tg Soro1 Soro gkrskif `s fariarl olm upskt ot gkr Batgkrs summkl oesklck. Sgk `s

qu`tk owork af yaur warr`ks olm ialhs ta gkip. Sgk nlaws tgot sgk `s o praeikb, olm corr`ks

o gkovy iaom af hu`it olm sgobk, law b`xkm w`tg fkor olm somlkss.

Pau osn bk oeaut sofkhuorms far Soro. @ eki`kvk tgk f`rst olm bast `bpartolt i`ks `l gkr

fkki`lhs oeaut gkrskif os port af yaur fob`iy, wg`cg law ork bastiy fkki`lhs af fkor olm

somlkss. [lfartulotkiy boly fob`i`ks af pkapik w`tg bkltoi rktormot`al ma lat cals`mkr tg`s

ospkct af tgk`r i`vks. Aut af iavk, tgky try ta spork tgk`r sal ar mouhgtkr frab fob`iy warr`ks,

frab tg`lhs tgky collat ulmkrstolm. ]gauhg sgk boy lat ek oeik ta put `t `lta warms, yau

col ek ckrto`l tgot Soros gkort `s `lvaivkm w`tg gkr fob`iy, olm oly ottkbpt ta spork gkr

w`ii ek kxpkr`klckm os rkdkct`al, omm`lh ta gkr sklsk af wartgiksslkss.

@ govk o fr`klm, Bory, wgask fob`iy lkvkr spank oeaut mkotg. Sgk i`vkm owoy frab gkr

porklts, wga m`m lat tkii gkr oeaut tgk `iilkss olm mkotg af gkr ekiavkm hrolmbatgkr. Sgk

faulm aut oibast o ykor iotkr al o v`s`t ta gkr porklts gausk! For warsk tgol tgk iass af

hrolmbatgkr wos gkr sarraw olm olhkr tgot sgk cauim lat soy haam-eyk, cauim lat occab-

poly tgk `iilkss `l gkr proykrs, ar ottklm tgk fulkroi. Sgk fkit rkdkctkm os wartgikss ey tgk

pkapik sgk bast iavks.

Bory olm @ warnkm tahktgkr far baltgs al Borys fkki`lhs, olm gkr qukst`als oeaut mkotg,

e`rtg, olm tgk bkol`lh af i`fk. @ oisa, far Borys sonk, taan tgk i`ekrty af warn`lh w`tg gkrporklts, wgask ott`tumk taworm Bory cgolhkm. ]gauhg tgky m`m lat eki`kvk bk ot f`rst, tgky

ekhol `lcium`lh Bory `l oii fob`iy hotgkr`lhs olm caulc`is, toin`lh ta gkr os `f sgk ulmkr-

staam.

Xgkl gkr batgkr m`km `t wos Bory wga gkim tgk fob`iy tahktgkr w`tg qu`kt m`hl`ty. I`nk

gkr s`ei`lhs, Bory i`vks oport frab gkr fotgkr olm atgkr rkiot`vks, eut sgk gos o stralh sklsk af

ekialh`lh, `lcius`al olm rkspals`e`i`ty os o fuii bkbekr af o iorhk fob`iy.

Paur prksklt cr`s`s s ol appartul`ty ta affkr tg`s n`lm af fob`iy ekialh`lh ta Soro. La

mauet yau w`ii bkkt w`tg Ekl olm Dklly oeaut tgk futurk> `lciumk Soro fuiiy `l yaur toins.

Sgk nlaws fuii wkii tgot yau spkon oeaut gkr, ikt gkr tonk port `l tgk cabromksg`p af warryolm hr`kf, olm tgk piols far tgk fob`iy's futurk, kvkl `f ulckrto`l.

@ nlaw yau kxpkctkm bk ta wr`tk w`skiy oeaut rks`mklt`oi oitkrlot`vks far Soro4 oeaut fkks

olm klmawbklts, klt`tikbklts olm trusts, huorm`olsg`p olm w`iis. ]gksk ork oii `bpartolt

bottkrs wg`cg bust ek cals`mkrkm, eut f`rst, @ fkki, cabks tgk farb`lh af o p`cturk - af yaur

fob`iy tamoy, olm kspkc`oiiy af Soro, wga ot farty gos bucg ta m`scavkr oeaut tgk warim olm

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oeaut gkrskif. Oftkr Brs. Sb`tgs `iilkss, tgk p`cturk `s o lkw alk, w`tg lkw raiks far kocg af

yau, olm lkw pkapik ekcab`lh port af yaur i`vks. Ikt Soro gkip yau eu`im tgk futurk. Ukspkct

gkr copoc`ty, kspkc`oiiy tgk copoc`ty af gkr gkort, kvkl os yau rkspkct gkr `lkxpkr`klck af tgk

warim ekyalm gkr gabk. Sgk w`ii lkkm kxpkr`klcks olm lkw fr`klms `l armkr ta bonk cga`cks

oeaut gkr futurk. Alck gkr cga`cks ork o e`t cikorkr, yau col tgkl skt rksaurcks `l piock ta

suppart tgask cga`cks.

]gk calf`mklck yau w`ii eu`im tamoy `l yaur fob`iy c`rcik w`ii ek gkr f`rst olm stralhkst

sofkhuorm. Sgk bust lat fock lkw kxpkr`klcks olm appartul`t`ks w`tg ol `llkr sklsk af

calfus`al, rkdkct`al olm wartgiksslkss, qu`tk ul`ltklt`aloiiy h`vkl ta gkr ey yaur iav`lh

ottkbpts ta spork gkr!

@ ma gapk tgot Brs. Sb`tg w`ii rkturl frab gasp`toi fuiiy rkcavkrkm, olm tgot tg`s ulkx-

pkctkm kvklt w`ii govk skrvkm ta apkl up m`scuss`als obalh yau oii oeaut tgk lkxt stohk `l

yaur fob`iy i`fk. Zkrgops yaur fob`iy c`rcik lkkms ta w`mkl, ta `lciumk gkip far yaur w`fk, olm

ta er`lh frksg `mkos far Soros i`fk.

@ w`ii ckrto`liy ek `l taucg w`tg yau oho`l> bkolwg`ik,

By ekst w`sgks ta yau oii.

Z.S. Pau boy w`sg ta cals`mkr o s`bpik olm kffkct`vk `mko uskm ey sabk af by fr`klms

`lstkom af fuii huorm`olsg`p far pkapik `l Soros s`tuot`al. ]g`s wauim cals`st af o prab`sk

ektwkkl tgrkk pkapik pkrgops o porklt, o s`ei`lh, olm alk atgkr fr`klm ta ek Soros pr`boryomvacotks, rkspals`eik far wgotkvkr sgk lkkms. Os ykors ha ey, alk af tgk tgrkk w`ii mrap aut,

olm tgk atgkr twa ork rkspals`eik ta er`lh `l o lkw tg`rm. @ govk skkl tg`s warn wkii. Af

caursk, boly bark pkapik col olm sgauim ek `lvaivkm w`tg Soro - tgk tgrkk ork tgk sofkhuorm

oho`lst boly fr`klms wga oii eki`kvk tgk atgkr `s golmi`lh tgk s`tuot`al. ]g`s `s sabktg`lh

yau b`hgt skt up `bbkm`otkiy, olm w`tg Soros nlawikmhk olm oss`stolck.

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]a ol kcaiah`st

Mkor Mr. Zktkrsal,

]got wos surkiy tgk sgartkst s`x gaurs `l o 8=8 tgot @ govk kvkr trovkiikm! @t wos o mki`hgt ta

bonk yaur ocquo`ltolck olm sgork kxpkr`klcks ot 3:,::: fkkt.

@ klciask tgk rkfkrklcks olm ommrkssks yau osnkm far, olm o capy af Crass`lh tgk U`vkrw`tg

by cabpi`bklts olm tgolns far tgk pikosolt fi`hgt. Af tgk rkfkrklcks yau hovk bk @ govk, sa

for, ekkl mki`hgtkm ey ]gk Cucnaas Khh, olm garr`f`km ey Sgottkr`lh.

]gk Cucnaas Khhtkiis gaw tgk cabbul`cot`al lktwarn obalh cabputkr uskrs hrkw al tgk

eos`s af trust, wg`cg, alck kramkm ey `rrkspals`eik gocnkrs, `s ek`lh rkpiockm ey str`lhkltskcur`ty sofkhuorms. Mkoi`lh w`tg sucg `ssuks af trust olm v`aiotkm trust govk prafaulm kffkcts

al tgk gubol cabbul`ty, lat aliy al tgk mks`hlkrs af cabputkr systkbs. Alck v`aiotkm ey

`rrkspals`eik pkapik `s tgk trust tgot bonks aur sac`oi lktwarns warn `rrkvacoeiy mkstraykm1

Col `t ek calsc`ausiy rk-crkotkm olm `f sa, gaw1 Ar `s str`ctiy rkhuiotkm g`hg-tkcg skcur`ty

(eoskm al b`strust) tgk aliy pass`eik futurk1 ]gk cgorb`lh ostralabkr outgar ikts g`s awl

i`fk sgaw us tgk ulcalsc`aus, pkrgops `llacklt, hrawtg af tgk `lfarbot`al lktwarns, olm tgk

po`lfui owonkl`lh ta o rkspals`e`i`ty ta pratkct olm rk-mks`hl sabktg`lh prkc`aus olm

tgrkotklkm wg`cg col la ialhkr dust hraw loturoiiy.

Os @, wga govk la callkct`al ta tgk cabputkr warim, col rkiotk ta tgksk cabbul`ty

calskquklcks, sa yau, wga govk lkvkr cals`mkrkm tgk spkc`oi`zkm f`kim af gubol skrv`cks

wkrk kxc`tkm ey by mkscr`pt`als af cabbul`ty rkhklkrot`al oraulm pkapik w`tg mkvkiap-

bkltoi m`soe`i`t`ks. Xgy, yau osnkm, ma @ lat cals`mkr tgask pkapik os hklkt`c oekrrot`als,

i`nk tgk ulsucckssfui butot`als `l o piolt spkc`ks1 ]g`s ikm us mkkpiy `lta cals`mkrot`als af

wgot `t `s, rkoiiy, ta ek gubol, olm tgus callkctkm `l eamy, saui olm sp`r`t ta tgk piolkt, olm

ta tgk casb`c klv`ralbklt af aur Kortg.

Sabk forbkr fr`klms alck osnkm bk ta calmklsk sabk af tgksk `mkos far tgk`r oiboloc. @ ob

sklm`lh yau tgk rksuit`lh ort`cik, Ol Kcaiahy af I`fksgor`lh, dust os o port af aur g`hg

fiy`lh calvkrsot`al.

O walmkrfui calvkrsot`al `t wos `lmkkm - eut lat ulusuoi. Zkapik w`tg tgk m`ffkrklt pkr-

spkct`vk af o m`soe`i`ty sucg os out`sb ar bkltoi rktormot`al, ikom tgask wga m`rkctiy rkiotk ta

tgkb `lta sucg gubol/casb`c qukst`als, olm `lta tgk po`lfui, hiar`aus potgs af skif-nlawi-

kmhk sa kssklt`oi far rk-crkot`lh aur warim.

[lt`i rkckltiy, wk govk tr`km ta sofkhuorm tgksk vuilkroeik pkapik ey ton`lh tgkb oport `lta

skporotk sofk piocks. Ukom`lh Sgottkr`lh, @ wos strucn ey tgk s`b`ior ottkbpts ta sofkhuorm

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piolt spkc`ks `l skkm-eolns, ekcousk tgk `lf`l`tk m`vkrs`ty af spkc`ks `s law sa tgrkotklkm ey

goe`tot mkstruct`al olm hklkt`c klh`lkkr`lh. Skkm eolns, `t skkbs, govk praeikbs olm molhkrs

qu`tk oloiahaus ta `lst`tut`als far tgk golm`coppkm olm atgkr klmolhkrkm pkapik.

Oitkrlot`vk kffarts, (wg`cg bust ek calsc aus, w`sk olm i`lnkm ta iorhkr lktwarns) arhol`zk

tgk hraw`lh af skkms `l boly sboii orkos, `l m`ffkrklt sa`is olm ci`botks - r`sn`lh tgk molhkrs afloturoi hrawtg far tgk sonk af gkoitgy stacn olm m`vkrs`ty af spkc`ks. Ukcklt kffarts er`lh

vuilkroeik golm`coppkm pkapik `lta `lm`v`muoi rkiot`alsg`ps, w`tg opprapr`otk supparts

(wg`cg bust ek calsc`aus, w`sk olm i`lnkm `l iorhkr lktwarns). Os o r`cgkr vor`kty af spkc`ks

bonks tgk piolt cabbul`ty gkoitg`kr, sa tgk iacoi cabbul`ty `s klr`cgkm ey tgk vor`kty af aur

`lm`v`muoi rkiot`alsg`ps olm ey calsc`aus kffarts ta `lciumk, i`stkl olm ulmkrstolm. Xarim

kcaiahy `s b`rrarkm ey gubol, buit`-cuituroi cabbul`ty.

]gk bark @ tg`ln oeaut tg`s `l i`hgt af yaur walmkrfui star`ks, tgk cikorkr ekcabk tgk poroi-

ikis ektwkkl iows af loturk olm sac`oi iows! Pau toinkm oeaut tgk molhkr af skk`lh klv`ral-

bkltoi `ssuks taa lorrawiy, olm omapt`lh o qu`cn f`x far alk sybptab w`tgaut rkhorm farialh tkrb calskquklcks ta tgk wgaik e`aspgkrk. Suppart`lh by fr`klms w`tg m`soe`i`t`ks `l tgk

gubol cabbul`ty `s frouhgt w`tg tgk tkbptot`al ta skk aliy tgk`r m`soe`i`ty olm iaan far

qu`cn f`xks ta tgk praeikbs `t crkotks. S`lck aur calvkrsot`al, @ ob hrkotiy klcaurohkm `l by

calv`ct`al tgot gkrk taa tgk qu`cn f`x mkl`ks tgk pr`lc`pik af e`am`vkrs`ty4 gkoitgy cabbul`ty

`s tgk eoiolck, kvkr cgolh`lh, ektwkkl farcks, kikbklts olm spkc`ks `l `lf`l`tk vor`kty, wgktgkr

yau iaan far `t `l farkst, hormkl, wktiolm ar tawl!

Xk sa aftkl omapt tgk qu`cn f`x far f`lolc`oi rkosals - wk tg`ln `l tgk sgart tkrb af bon`lh

bark, ar spklm`lh ikss> tgk ialh tkrb casts ork sa gorm ta calckptuoi`zk, sa kosy ta m`srkhorm ar

b`srkprksklt. Pau rkbkbekr tgk sikkpy stumklt `l aur tg`rm skot wgask aliy caltr`eut`al taaur toin wos Pkog - r`hgt - balky `s wgot yau ork o succkss `f yau bonk o iat af!

@ cauim tkii yau boly toiks af fr`klms w`tg bkltoi rktormot`al wga s`bpiy collat ikorl tgot

ikssal. Zkapik wga ialh ta ma uskfui warn, ork klarbausiy praum af tgk`r warn, tonk hrkot day

`l gkip`lh fr`klms, @ ma `t far yau. Os @ wotcg tgksk pkapik, cabpiktkiy vuilkroeik ta kxpia`-

tot`al, ek`lh kmucotkm `lta skif`sglkss os o sofkhuorm ta tgk`r cabbul`ty i`fk, @ walmkr wga,

`l tgk ialh pkrspkct`vk, `s bark `l tulk w`tg tgk kcaiahy af gkoitgy cabbul`ty1

Xk govk bucg ta ikorl frab kocg atgkr, olm bucg ta iask ey `hlar`lh tgk qu`kt, skkb`lhiy

ullkckssory spkc`ks (wga lkkms spattkm awis1).

@ gapk yaur calfkrklck fuif`iikm yaur gapks far hrkotkr ulmkrstolm`lh af tgk mkvkiap`lh

warim - olm tgot yau ork sofkiy gabk `l Mklborn.

Ikt us calt`luk ta kxcgolhk tgauhgts...

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Ol kcaiahy af i`fksgor`lh

@l t`bks halk ey tgk sp`r`tuoi ek`lhs af tgk n`lhmabs af loturk, af iolmscopk, af wkotgkr,

olm af stors, crkotkm al tg`s pgys`coi kortg oii tgk walmkrfui olm vor`km ort farbs wg`cg wk

law coii kcaiahy. Xk gubol ek`lhs wkrk port af tg`s gorbal`aus ort`st`c warn ekfark wkcobk ta aur `lm`v`muoi calsc`auslkss, wgkl wk wkrk ikm ey tgk w`sk hu`molck af tgk crkot`lh

sp`r`tuoi pawkrs. Xk wkrk calstoltiy owork af tgk sp`r`tuoi ek`lhs `l tgk iolmscopk, af tgk

kikbkltoi ek`lhs, af tgk hraup sauis af piolts olm ol`bois. Eut aur oworklkss wos ikss cal-

sc`aus> wk aurskivks wkrk st`ii kbekmmkm `l aur awl n`lm af hraup-sauis, aur tr`ek, aur

olckstroi trkk, aur lot`al. ]grauhg skosaloi fkst`vois olm rki`h`aus proct`cks wk sgorkm `l tgk

i`fk af aur wgaik piolkt olm tgk klc`rci`lh casbas. Sabk af us, wgab tgk rkst af us aftkl coii

pr`b`t`vk pkapik, st`ii i`vk `l tgk bkbary af tgask t`bks.

Eut tgk crkot`vk sp`r`tuoi pawkrs govk w`tgmrowl, stolm`lh eocn ta h`vk us gubol ek`lhs,

law klmawkm w`tg aur `lm`v`muoi kha-calsc`auslkss, tgk frkkmab ta ekcabk ca-crkotars af

Kortgs futurk. @t skkbs os tgauhg, `l hrosp`lh tg`s frkkmab, wk bust mkstray kvkry alk aftgksk kcaiah`coi warns af ort tgk ro`l farkst, tgk i`v`lh r`vkr voiiky, tgk Sko af Cartkz w`tg

tgk pkapik ekialh`lh ta tgkb. Xk skkb ta ulmkrstolm tgkb dust `l tgk babklt af tgk`r

mkstruct`al. Summkliy wk ekcabk owork af tgk w`smab, ekouty, olm eoiolck `l tgk i`fk af o

pr`b`t`vk pkapik `l tgk`r rkiot`alsg`p ta tgk atgkr spkc`ks sgor`lh tgk`r iolmscopk.

]gk po`l af tgksk rkpkotkm mkstruct`als af olc`klt i`fk col st`buiotk aur calsc`aus mkc`s`al

ta eu`im lkw kcaiah`ks. Olm o mkc`s`al `t `s, rkqu`r`lh oii tgk w`ii, sc`klck, w`smab, olm ort

wk col bustkr! ]gk crkot`vk sp`r`tuoi pawkrs col ek coiikm upal ta gkip us, olm tgky w`ii

rkspalm. Eut wk collat kxpkct tgot ikov`lh `t ta Loturk w`ii rkcrkotk tgk aim ort frab tgk

cgoas wk govk couskm. Voiuoeik, vuilkroeik spkc`ks govk ekkl mkstraykm - ikft oialk, auriolmscopks w`ii ek avkrhrawl ey tgk surv`var spkc`ks (`l Zkllsyivol`o, pa`sal `vy, buit`fiaro

rask, w`im v`lks af oii n`lms, waamcgucns, stori`lhs> kocg iolmscopk gos `ts awl). ]gk vuilkr-

oeik spkc`ks lkkm aur pratkct`al, wk bust crkotk tgk eoiolck af spkc`ks, `lcium`lh aurskivks.

Sgor`lh i`fk bkols gorm cga`cks, eoskm al mkkp rkspkct far tgk wgaik vor`kty af Kortgs

`lgoe`tolts.

]gkrk ork twa m`vkrhklt ott`tumks ta tgk pratkct`al af vuilkroeik spkc`ks. Alk `s kxkbpi`f`km

ey tgk ci`botk-caltraiikm hrkklgausk, corkfuiiy stkr`i`zkm, w`tg pa`sals rkomy ta ki`b`lotk oly

`ltrum`lh farb af i`fk. ]g`s klv`ralbklt `s g`hgiy spkc`oi`zkm far tgk pratkct`al af alk, ar

aliy vkry fkw, spkc`ks. @t rksuits `l wkon piolts, rkqu`rks kvkr hrkotkr tkcglaiahy, gos molhkr-

aus ey-pramucts. I`fk ekcabks kvkr ikss, tgrauhg tgk cabeott`lh af s`cnlkss. ]gk atgkr ott`tumk `s tgot af tgk forbkr wga maks kvkrytg`lh ta `lcrkosk i`fk `l tgk sa`i, `l

tgk eoiolck olm bol`faimlkss af spkc`ks, `l rkvkrklck far tgk gkip`lh sp`r`ts af loturk, `l owk

af casb`c rgytgbs. ]g`s klv`ralbklt pramucks tgk raeust gkoitg af oeulmolt i`fk.

@f wk ekor `l b`lm tgot tgk hraup saui af o piolt ar ol`boi spkc`ks `s oloiahaus ta tgk

`lm`v`muoi gubol pkrsal, tgkl wk boy ek oiiawkm ta faiiaw tgksk twa oppraocgks `lta

prksklt moy tg`ln`lh oeaut sac`oi qukst`als. ]gk hormklkr rutgikssiy ki`b`lotks wkon ar s`cniy

piolts ol ott`tumk `bpass`eik taworm gubol ek`lhs eut tgk hormklkrs skikct`vklkss `s ta

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piolt spkc`ks sabkwgot os o go`rcut far tgk gubol ek`lh. ]g`s ekialhs ta alk af tgk bark

gkipfui `ls`hgts af Uumaif Stk`lkr, o fuii hrosp af wg`cg `s kssklt`oi far ol kcaiah`st.

@t `s lat aliy `l tgk n`lhmabs af loturk tgot cgoas rk`hls> tgk mkstruct`al af tgk aim ort farbs

af sac`oi armkr govk crkotkm warim cgoas obalh gubol ek`lhs. Ikft ta `tskif tgk sac`oi iolm-

scopk ekcabks mab`lotkm ey gubol i`nklkssks af tgk tg`stik, e`lmwkkm olm rot4 tgk surv`vars.

Kocg af us, ot sabk t`bk `l aur i`vks, tgrauhg ohk, m`soe`i`ty, ar atgkr c`rcubstolcks, ekcabks

vuilkroeik `l tgk sac`oi cgoas (tg`ln af eoe`ks, rkfuhkks, paar pkapik, s`cn pkapik). Ot sucg

t`bks wk ork uloeik ta ulfaim aur patklt`oi4 aur strklhtgs olm toiklts ork bosnkm, wk lkkm

opprapr`otk gkip olm pratkct`al.

Ob`mst tgk cgoas wk govk crkotkm `l Loturk, o spkc`ks boy ek vuilkroeik, `l molhkr af

kxt`lct`al, pramuc`lh aliy wkon olm s`cniy spkc`bkls. O hormklkr boy skk `ts patklt`oi, h`vk `t

o voiukm piock w`tg tgk r`hgt cabpol`al piolts olm su`toeik calm`t`als, olm ek rkwormkm ey o

gorvkst af hrkot ekouty, uskfuilkss ar laur`sgbklt.

Sa oisa, aur sac`oi cgoas bonks bark olm bark pkapik vuilkroeik. ]gk caltraiikm hrkklgausk

rkspalsk `s ta ioeki tgkb ey tgk cioss`f`cot`al af tgk`r golm`cop, olm skhrkhotk tgkb `ltaspkc`oi klv`ralbklts ar skrv`cks (gabks far tgk ohkm, `lst`tut`als olm i`cklskm skrv`ck systkbs

far tgk bkltoiiy `ii, sgkitkrs far tgk gabkikss). Ckrto`liy tgksk skrv`cks ork o rkspalsk, olm aftkl

prkfkroeik ta ek`lh ikft `l tgk sac`oi dulhik (tgauhg wk aftkl gkor oeaut gabkikss pkapik

cgaas`lh tgk frkkz`lh strkkt rotgkr tgol tgk sgkitkr). Mksp`tk tgk haam olm bkrc`fui warn af

tgksk skrv`cks, tgk ott`tumk af cabeott`lh s`cnlkss gos tgk sobk lkhot`vk s`mk kffkcts os tgk

stkr`i`zkm hrkklgausk, `lcium`lh `lcrkoskm bkcgol`zot`al olm tkcglaiahy, olm kvkl tgk mol-

hkraus ey-pramucts.

]gk atgkr oppraocg gos ekkl bomk bark v`s`eik `l rkcklt ykors ey tgask wga mkbolm ta ek

skkl os pkapik f`rst, pratkst`lh tgot tgky ork lat tgk`r golm`cop, `ls`st`lh tgot tgky ek cals`m-

krkm os caltr`eutars, os port af tgk sac`oi hormkl. Omvacocy ohklc`ks, kstoei`sgkm ta prav`mk

stralh fr`klms far kxciumkm pkapik, govk ekcabk erankrs af uli`nkiy olm ar`h`loi fr`klmsg`ps

kli`vkl`lh tgk cabbul`ty. Suppart hraups, kstoei`sgkm oraulm golm`coppkm pkapik ar

praeikb rkiot`alsg`ps, govk ekcabk c`rciks af butuoi suppart mrow`lh ulkxpkctkm strklhtgs

frab kocg bkbekr. Butuoi`ty, sgor`lh af gabks, warn olm rksaurcks ekh`ls ta rkpiock tgk

spkc`oi`zkm gabk-i`nk skrv`cks far tgk golm`coppkm. I`fk-sgor`lh `s kxpiarkm, `l proct`ck, os o

calckpt os o mrkob.

Os ykt, tgk sybptabs ork sboii `l lubekr, bamkst `l rksuit, olm tgk praeikbs af sofk-

huorm`lh alk olatgkr `l tgk sac`oi olm loturoi cgoas ork klarbaus. Eut, os o corkfui forbkr

bust aeskrvk tgk sboii s`hls af o cab`lh cgolhk af ci`botk, sa wk col soy, tgk t`mk gos turlkmolm `s fiaw`lh stralhiy taworm cabbul`ty af i`fk taworm rkbkbekr`lh af aur ar`h`ls olm o

sklsk far o e`ahropgy trolscklm`lh tgk i`b`ts af tgk v`s`eik warim. ]gk oloiahy ektwkkl tgk

hormkl olm tgk sac`oi scklk boy ek i`b`tkm, olm bust ek tgauhgt w`tg cout`al, eut `t `lm`cotks

o furtgkr trutg4 ]ruk cork af tgk kortg, olm truk cabbul`ty eu`im`lh ork `lskporoeik, ikom alk

`lta tgk atgkr, ork twa i`bes af tgk lkw warim-kcaiahy af wg`cg wk ork ta ek ca-crkotars.

frab ]gk N`bekrtal G`iis Ohr`cuituroi Coiklmor, ?00:.

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]a o yaulh i`fksgorkr

Mkor Susol,

@ rkoiiy kldaykm aur calvkrsot`al iost wkkn. @t wos walmkrfui ta i`stkl ta yaur stary, olm ta

yaur qukst`als oeaut gaw ekst ta gkip Dagl olm ]krry w`tg tgk`r i`vks.

Os yau taim bk gaw tgk rksaivk gos hrawl `l yau frab sabkalk sgauim ma sabktg`lh ta

`t w`ii govk ta ek bk, eut gaw1 @ wos rkbkbekr`lh o wgaik poromk af fr`klms wga govk

crasskm tgot sobk tgrksgaim. Sabk govk crasskm `t w`tg farktgauhgt olm sabk w`tg oibast

lalk, al ol `bpuisk, o ckrto`lty af tgk gkort. Paur stary af tgk moy yau taan Dagl olm ]krry

ta tgk boii, olm oibast n`mloppkm tgkb `lta yaur oportbklt rotgkr tgol rkturl tgkb ta tgklurs`lh gabk, wos mrobot`c, olm skkbs ta bk ta born ol `bpartolt babklt al yaur potg.

[lt`i tgot t`bk yau wkrk kxpkr`klc`lh wovks af olhkr, sybpotgy, frustrot`al, kvkl

`lcrkmui`ty olm sgacn os yau ikorlkm oeaut tgksk i`vks, sa ciask ta yau `l b`iks, ykt sa

m`ffkrklt frab yaur awl. Xgkl yau mkc`mkm tgot kvkl`lh oho`lst o s`lhik golmkm rkscuk

apkrot`al, yau ekhol qu`tk calsc`ausiy ta caai yaur awl rohk, ta tg`ln olm piol, ta skorcg

far oii`ks, ta i`stkl bark rkspkctfuiiy far tgk ap`l`als af oii calckrlkm, olm, `l foct, ta ekcabk

bark kffkct`vk `l bon`lh cgolhk.

Oraulm tgot t`bk taa, yau ekhol ta qukst`al yaur awl i`fk olm sabk af yaur ossubpt`als.

]g`s port af aur calvkrsot`al ikm us ta usk tgk pgrosks awl`lh alkskifolm gkip`lh kocg atgkr ta

awl aurskivks.

Xk wkrk st`ii warn`lh ot tg`s wgkl `t cobk t`bk ta ha, olm yau osnkm bk ta wr`tk sabk

tgauhgts ta gkip us eatg ulmkrstolm wgot awl`lh byskifb`hgt bkol.

Ikt us `boh`lk i`fk os o t`hgtrapk oialh wg`cg alk woins ektwkkl appas`tks af oii n`lms. @f @

woin aut al ol octuoi t`hgtrapk, @ sgoii ek poroiyzkm w`tg fkor, o fo`iurk `l tgk kyks af tgk

aliaankr, olm foii aff alk s`mk ar tgk atgkr. ]gk ort`sts gawkvkr, govk, tgrauhg ialh tro`l`lh,

ho`lkm sucg awlkrsg`paf kvkry buscik, kvkry tkcgl`quk olm ott`tumk, tgot tgky woin w`tg

calf`mklck, swoy`lh sabkt`bks for ta alk s`mk, eut oiwoys rkho`l`lh o ekout`fui eoiolckmprahrkss, `lsp`r`lh olm mki`hgt`lh tgk oum`klck.

Xk collat tonk tg`s kxtrkbk oloiahy taa for. ]gk t`hgtrapk woinkr haks oialk, olm aur

calckpt af gkip`lh kocg atgkr awlaurskivks maks lat bkol ekcab`lh `lmkpklmklt, `sa-

iotkm, skif calto`lkm. Xgkl wk awlaurskivks, aur calf`mklt eoiolck ikts us rkocg aut ta

gkip atgkrs, `lv`tk fr`klmsg`p, osn far gkip far aurskivks olm far atgkrs, ek gasp`toeik w`tgaut

ek`lh mkvaurkm ey mkbolms al aur t`bk, ottklt`al ar rksaurcks. Zkrgops yau ork, os @ ob,

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oirkomy tg`ln`lh af kxobpiks obalh aur fr`klms, ar `l i`tkroturk, ar af babklts `l aur awl

i`vks wgkl wk govk fkit o taucg af tg`s n`lm af calf`mklck.

@ ma lat tg`ln boly pkapik awl tgkbskivkscabpiktkiy, ar oii tgk t`bk, eut tg`s `s tgk

mkst`lot`al olm haoi af oii truk olm haam potgs af sp`r`tuoi tro`l`lh olm `llkr mkvkiapbklt.

(]gkrk ork atgkr potgs wg`cg warn tgrauhg `lcrkos`lh pawkr avkr tgk `lm`v`muoi, `bpr`sal-`lh tgk sp`r`t.)

Os gubol ek`lhs wk mkpklm al boly m`ffkrklt, aftkl calfi`ct`lh, farcks olm prackssks

wg`cg, `f wk ork ta fulct`al ot oii, bust ek `l butuoi omdustbklt. ]g`ln af mo`iy bottkrs

sucg os erkotg`lh, eiaam c`rcuiot`al, m`hkst`al, tg`ln`lh, kbat`aloi i`fk. Oii ork rkiotkm ta

m`ffkrklt ports af tgk autkr warim (o`r, worbtg, faam, wotkr, sklsk pkrckpt`als, atgkr i`v`lh

tg`lhs) olm oii govk tgk`r awl kssklt`oi rgytgbs. ]g`ln af tgk cgolh`lh eoiolck ektwkkl

tgkb mur`lh tgk moy, os @ rul, ar kot, ar tg`ln ar hr`kvk. Oly af tgksk farcks, `f for aut af

eoiolck, boy, tkbparor`iy ar far tgk ialh goui, awlbk, os kxprksskm tgrauhg o tgauhgtikss

oct af olhkr, ar ol oppkt`tk far oicagai.

Olatgkr `lomkquotk eut gkipfui oloiahy4 kocg af us s o wgaik arcgkstro, w`tg tgk sobk

`lstrubklts os boly atgkr arcgkstros> cals`mkr tgk piock af tgk calmuctar, os @ pioy by

`lm`v`muoi sybpgaly af i`fk.

Xgkl yau toinkm oeaut yaur orhubklt w`tg tgk ohklcy yau so`m ]gky skkb ta tg`ln tgky

awlDagl olm ]krry. @l caltrost, yau fkki yau wauim i`nk ta gkip Dagl olm ]krry ta awl

tgkbskivks.

]g`s `s o cr`t`coiiy `bpartolt t`bk ta cals`mkr tgksk bottkrs, ekcousk tgk lkw b`lmskt af

cga`ck ikoms ta kxtrkbks `f lat eoiolckm ey o cikor calckpt af tgk potg ta awl`lh alkskif. @t`s oiwoys gkipfui ta stort, os yau ork law ma`lh, w`tg alks awl s`tuot`al, ey osn`lh, Gaw

ma @ bonk cga`cks1 Xk w`ii govk boly calvkrsot`als oeaut cga`ck os yau calt`luk warn`lh

w`tg Dagl olm ]krry. ]amoy @ wolt ta cals`mkr `t port`cuioriy `l rkiot`al ta awl`lh alkskif.

@f yau cals`mkr gaw bucg gkip wk oii tonk far hroltkm `l bon`lh o cga`ck, yau w`ii ek oeik

ta gkip Dagl olm ]krry, olm sg`kim tgkb frab k`tgkr kxtrkbk4 @ts tgk`r cga`ck ta i`vk al

patotaks olm `ck crkob `l o m`rty gausk. ar ]gky colt ek rkspals`eik, wk bust cgaask wgot

`s ekst far tgkb.

Sa, mkor Susol, lkxt t`bk wk bkkt, pkrgops wk w`ii ha al ta cals`mkr gaw kocg af us `s ta o

vkry iorhk kxtklt tgk pramuct af aur lot`al, w`tg `ts cuituroi larbs, olm af aur fob`iy gkr`-tohk, rki`h`aus uper`lh`lh, olm kmucot`al. ]gk potg af sp`r`tuoi mkvkiapbklt maks lat cals`st

af mkly`lh ar try`lh ta kscopk tgksk `lfiuklcks, eut af foc`lh olm ekcab`lh owork af tgk`r

hrkot `lfiuklck al us ekfark wk mkc`mk gaw ta calmuct aur arcgkstro af i`fk. ]g`s col ek o

saekr`lh kxpkr`klck, kvkl o po`lfui alk. ]`bkiy cals`mkrot`al af tgksk bottkrs w`ii gkip

prkvklt tgask goif-`lst`lct`vk calfi`cts sa prkvoiklt `l tamoys warim, ektwkkl pkapik olm

hraups ulcalsc`ausiy awlkmey lot`aloi ar rki`h`aus eki`kfs. Fr`klms sucg os Dagl olm ]krry

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ork ekcab`lh o farck af warim gkoi`lh os tgky, ey tgk`r skkb`lh lkkm, ro`sk tgksk qukst`als

obalh us.

@ iaan farworm ta warn`lh w`tg yau,

Z.S. @ dust rk-m`scavkrkm tg`s quatot`al, wg`cg @ tg`ln soys o iat oeaut tgk rkqu`rkbklts,

rkworms, olm r`sns af gkip`lh kocg atgkr ta awl aurskivks. @ oisa klciask o fkw pohks wg`cg

subbor`zk sabk af tgk tg`ln`lh aur fr`klms wga warn `l suppartkm i`v`lh ork ma`lh oeaut

pawkr `l rkiot`alsg`ps. F`loiiy, @ govk klciaskm o i`st af tgk _uoi`t`ks af kxckiiklt

i`fksgorkrs. @b os ulcabfartoeik w`tg tgk i`st os @ ob w`tg olytg`lh tgot skkbs ta i`b`t tgk

mkf`l`t`al af i`fksgor`lh ar cauim crkotk o n`lm af cgkcni`st far dumh`lh atgkrs, eut @ tg`ln `t

copturks sabk `bpartolt ospkcts af tgk ort af gkip`lh kocg atgkr ta awl aurskivks.

caapkrot`al ^bustR ek eoskm klt`rkiy al frkk `ltkrcaursk olm frkk ossac`o-

t`al ektwkkl `lm`v`muois. Gkrk gubol `lm`v`muoi`ty w`ii lat ek farckm `lta

ol `lst`tut`aloi baim. Gaw alk pkrsal oss`sts olatgkr, gaw alk gkips ol-

atgkr omvolck w`ii s`bpiy or`sk frab wgot alk, tgrauhg alks awl oe`i`t`ks

olm occabpi`sgbklts, `s oeik ta ek far tgk atgkr. @t `s la hrkot walmkr tgot

prkskltiy boly pkapik ork st`ii oeik ta `boh`lk latg`lh eut o stotk af olorcgy

os o rksuit af sucg frkk gubol rkiot`als ]gask wga tg`ln sa s`bpiy ma latnlaw wgot pawkrs af aur `lbast loturk ork stultkm wgkl wk ork farckm ta

mkvkiap occarm`lh ta pottkrls `bpaskm ey tgk stotk olm tgk kcalab`c systkb.

Sucg pawkrs, mkkp w`tg`l gubol loturk, collat ek mkvkiapkm ey `lst`tu-

t`als, eut aliy tgrauhg wgot alk ek`lh coiis fartg `l pkrfkct frkkmab frab

olatgkr ek`lh. ]gk kffkct af wgot or`sks `l tg`s woy `s lat olt`sac`oi, eut

rotgkr mkkpiy sac`oi. ]gk sac`oiiy oct`vk `llkr pkrsal `s stultkm aliy wgkl

`lst`lcts ar`h`lot`lh `l tgk prkrahot`vks af tgk stotk ar `l kcalab`c omvoltohk

ork klhro`lkm ar golmkm mawl.

Uumaif Stk`lkr, ]gk rklkwoi af tgk sac`oi arhol`sb

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_uoi`t`ks af kxckiiklt i`fksgorkrs

]gksk pkapik awl tgkbskivks olm gkip atgkrs ta ma tgk sobk. ]gky kxkrt tgk b`l`bub

pawkr avkr atgkrs, osskrt`lh sucg `lfiuklck aliy wgkl `t `s lkckssory ta prav`mk structurk far

o sofk spock, ar ta gkip sabkalk `l cr`s`s ta cabk ta tgkbskif.]gky ork cabpktklt, awl`lh bostkry af warn sn`iis olm sac`oi sn`iis eut w`tgaut pkrsaloi

pr`mk. ]gk`r bostkry olm cabpktklck kloeiks tgkb ta `lciumk atgkrs `l tgk warn. ]gky

m`v`mk tosns occarm`lh ta pkapiks oe`i`t`ks olm lkkms far hrawtg, crkot`lh kvkr bark voi`m

sac`oi raiks far atgkrs, `lcium`lh vkry vuilkroeik pkapik.

]gky coii fartg rkspkct frab oii wga bkkt tgkb, boh`coiiy trolsfarb`lh tgask wga cabk

w`tg pawkr avkr tgrauhg tgk`r awl pawkr frab w`tg`l. Sabk af tgksk pkapik govk

kxpkr`klckm tatoi iass af autkr pawkr -os rkfuhkks, `l pr`sal cobps olm `lst`tut`als. ]gky

nlaw tgk pawkr af tgk pawkrikss. ]gky ork skrvolt ikomkrs, skrv`lh atgkrs ey ro`s`lh

oworklkss af o iorhkr cousk. ]gky ikom ey kxobpik, olm ey tgk hklkras`ty af tgk`r sgor`lh, altgk potg af `llkr mkvkiapbklt aut af wg`cg dust olm haam sac`oi farbs col hraw.

]gky ork ort`sts `l tgk ort af i`v`lh> tgkrkfark tgk`r pgys`coi olm sac`oi surraulm`lhs ork

ort`st`c olm mrow aut tgk ort`st `l kvkryalk.

Kxckiiklt i`fksgorkrs nlaw oeaut tgk rgytgbs af t`bk olm tgk hrawtg af i`v`lh arhol`sbs,

]gky ulmkrstolm p`alkkr`lh kltgus`osb olm tgk galkybaal pkr`am af lkw `l`t`ot`vks. ]gky

govk warnkm w`tg pkrs`stklck olm wo`tkm w`tg pot`klck wg`ik `lm`v`muois olm hraups mkvkiap

tgk`r pawkr w`tg`l.

Fo`iurk olm m`soppa`ltbklts govk touhgt tgkb eoiolck olm ialh pkrspkct`vk. ]gky rkck`vkcr`sks os appartul`t`ks far owonkl`lh olm cgolhk, far tgk ekii af calsc`klck ta saulm. ]gky

stolm ey atgkrs `l cr`s`s, affkr`lh gkip olm klcaurohkbklt lat ta ova`m tgk cr`s`s, lar ta skkn

tgk qu`cn-f`x, eut ta fock o stkp `l skif-nlawikmhk, al tgk woy ta hrkotkr pawkr w`tg`l.

Kxckiiklt i`fksgorkrs ork f`rb olm w`sk, cikor `l tgk`r tgauhgts eut skimab dumhbkltoi. Os

cuit`votars `l tgk sac`oi f`kim tgky tkocg tgk f`rst klv`ralbkltoi ikssal ]gkrks la sucg piock

os owoy ta tgraw tg`lhs ar pkapik. Ukiot`alsg`ps cgolhk> cr`sks, rkbarsk, sgobk, farh`vklkss

ork warnkm tgrauhg ta o lkw ulmkrstolm`lh af cabbal rkspals`e`i`ty.

Oraulm tgksk pkapik hraw vkry i`vkiy i`fksgor`lh scklks `l v`v`m caltrost ta tgk aimkr, barki`b`tkm ott`tumks ta vuilkroeik pkapik `l foc`i`t`ks4 Xk colt golmik tg`s alk. M`scgorhk

g`b. @ ikft tgk piock, olm @ ikft by fr`klms tgkrk. Ci`klts stoy stoff bavk al. @l tgk ekst

i`fksgor`lh s`tuot`als, tgkrk `s o i`vkiy eoiolck af ialh tkrb skcur`ty af tklurk w`tg frkkmab

olm klcaurohkbklt ta `lm`v`muois ta bavk al, ykt bo`lto`l olm mkvkiap tgk`r rkiot`alsg`ps.

I`fksgor`lh lktwarns rksuit.

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Farbs af pawkr

Ikomkrs af succkssfui suppartkm i`v`lh ohklc`ks `mklt`fy tgk usk af pawkr os alk af tgk bast

`bpartolt olm m`ff`cuit `ssuks `l tgk`r warn. Skvkroi af tgkb f`lm tg`s woy af m`st`lhu`sg`lh

ektwkkl tgrkk m`ffkrklt typks af pawkr gkipfui `l tgk`r warn4 Zawkr-avkratgkr pkapik or`sks frab tgk oe`i`ty olm w`ii`lhlkss ta bonk mkc`s`als far atgkrs

olm ta klfarck tgk`r cabpi`olck ey outgar`tot`vk caltrai af rkworms olm pul`sgbklts.

]yp`coi systkbs olm ohklc`ks kbeamy tgk ossubpt`al tgot pkapik g`hgkr `l o g`krorcgy

w`ii kxkrc`sk pawkr-avkr tgk pkapik eklkotg tgkb. Zrafkss`alois olm stoff ulqukst`al`lhiy

kxpkct tgot pkapik w`tg m`soe`i`t`ks w`ii ma wgot tgky ork taim ey tgask outgar`zkm ta piol

far tgkb olm skk tgask wga ma lat cabpiy os furtgkr olm bark mkkpiy m`soeikm. Zawkr-

avkr atgkrs `s tgk bast cabbal olm fob`i`or farb af pawkr. Zkapik kxpkct `ts usk, fkki

ulcabfartoeik ot `ts oesklck, fkor tgk ulckrto`l calskquklcks af mkly`lh `t, olm kos`iy foii

eocn upal `t `l t`bks af strkss. Ukoi pai`t`c`ols olm rkoi bolohkrs olm rkoi arhol`zkrsr`sk olm foii al tgk`r oe`i`ty ta bol`puiotk pawkr-avkr. Eut pawkr-avkr atgkrs pa`sals tgk

rkiot`alsg`ps lkckssory ta suppart pkapik w`tg m`soe`i`t`ks ta tonk tgk`r r`hgtfui piock `l

cabbul`ty i`fk. ]g`s oppkors truk kvkl `l structurks tgot ottkbpt cgolhk ey swopp`lh tgk

armkr `l o g`krorcgy sa tgot tgk pkapik w`tg m`soe`i`t`ks ossubk pawkr avkr tgk`r gkipkrs.

Zawkr-w`tgatgkr pkapik or`sks frab pkapik's oe`i`ty olm w`ii`lhlkss ta i`stkl ta olm ek

`lfiuklckm ey olatgkr's pkrckpt`als olm suhhkst`als olm ta affkr tgk`r pkrckpt`als olm

suhhkst`als `l turl. Zawkr-w`tg rkqu`rks tgk n`lm af rkspkct tgot hraws w`tg o w`ii`lhlkss

ta ek pkrsaloiiy `lvaivkm w`tg alk olatgkr olm ta sgork ey cga`ck `l o cabbal pradkct

tgot w`ii sgopk olm sg`ft pottkrls af rkiot`alsg`ps obalh pkapik. M`ffkrklcks prav`mk`lfarbot`al olm tgk accos`al ta cior`fy olm strklhtgkl rkiot`alsg`ps ey lkhat`ot`lh crk-

ot`vkiy. Ekcousk pawkr-w`tg mkpklms upal olm rk`lfarcks caapkrot`al, `ts kxkrc`sk mkpklms

al pkapik's butuoi rkstro`lt olm w`ii`lhlkss ta ikorl frab tgk`r kxpkr`klck tahktgkr. Lat

oii kxcgolhks af `lfiuklck govk pas`t`vk bat`vks ar haam calskquklcks, sa pkapik lkkm ta

ossubk rkspals`e`i`ty far qukst`al`lh olm tkst`lh tgk fru`ts af tgk`r caiioearot`al. Zawkr-

w`tg mkf`lks o stralh faulmot`al far tgk n`lms af rkiot`alsg`ps lkckssory ta suppart pkapik

w`tg m`soe`i`t`ks `l cabbul`ty i`fk.

Zawkr-frab-w`tg`lor`sks frab o pkrsal's w`ii`lhlkss olm oe`i`ty ta m`scavkr olm crkot`vkiy

kxprkss tgk oe`i`t`ks olm calckrls tgot tgky f`lm sp`r`tuoiiy bkol`lhfui. @l c`v`c i`fk olm `ltgk warim af warn pawkr-frab-w`tg`l er`lhs pkapik ekyalm skkn`lh o raik ta f`lm`lh o

vacot`al, o coii`lh. Zawkr-frab-w`tg`l h`vks o pkrsal caurohk ta oct wgkl `bpartolt

voiuks ork tgrkotklkm, kvkl `f tgk sgart-tkrb praspkcts far succkss ork paar. Skvkroi ikomkrs

`l suppartkm i`v`lh `mklt`fy pawkr-frab-w`tg`l os tgk saurck af tgk`r awl oe`i`ty ta

avkrcabk tgk`r fkors olm mauets `l armkr ta crkotk olm pratkct `llavot`als `l m`ff`cuit

c`rcubstolcks. Ekcousk pawkr-frab-w`tg`l kxprkssks o pkrsal's mkkpkst eki`kfs, calfi`cts

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col ek po`lfui olm vkry m`ff`cuit ta rksaivk> sa boly pkapik ikorl lat ta sgork tgk`r calv`c-

t`als. Zkapik oct`lh al tgk eos`s af pawkr-frab-w`tg`l lkkm ta kxkrc`sk pkrsaloi m`sc`pi`lk

ta sgorpkl tgk`r m`sckrlbklt af wgot uit`botkiy bottkrs ta tgkb olm ta strklhtgkl tgk`r

oe`i`t`ks ta crkot`vkiy kxprkss wgot bottkrs ta tgkb `l kvkrymoy i`fk w`tg atgkr pkapik.

Zawkr-w`tg olm pawkr-frab-w`tg`l govk port`cuior rkikvolck far suppartkm i`v`lh ohklc`ks.Oss`st`vk rkiot`alsg`ps collat ek eoskm al tgk cakrc`al olm fkor tgot cabk w`tg tgk kxkrc`sk

af pawkr-avkr. Suppart mkvkiaps al tgk eos`s af butuoi `lfiuklck tgrauhg tgk suppart

warnkr's i`stkl`lh olm rkspalm`lh ta tgk pkrsal w tg o mkvkiapbkltoi m`soe`i`ty olm, `l turl,

affkr`lh tgk pkrsal `lfarbot`al, suhhkst`als, hu`molck olm `mklt`fy`lh olm lkhat`ot`lh

m`ffkrklcks. Kvkl wgkl tgkrk `s o mkf`l`tk kikbklt af caltrai `l tgk rkiot`alsg`p os wgkl o

pkrsal gos ekkl mkciorkm `lcabpktklt ta bonk balky mkc`s`als ar wgkl o caurt bonks sabk

farb af supkrv`s`al o calm`t`al af rkikosk frab do`i pawkr-w`tg prav`mks tgk aliy calstruc-

t`vk caltkxt far o suppart rkiot`alsg`p. K`tgkr pkrsal's usk af pawkr-avkr borns traueik `l ol

oss`st`vk rkiot`alsg`p tgot col aliy ek rkpo`rkm ey bav`lh ta tgk hraulm af pawkr-w`tg.

]kob rkiot`alsg`ps collat ek eoskm al cakrc`al olm fkor. Ikorl`lh olm butuoi suppart

rkqu`rk trust olm tgk oe`i`ty ta `mklt`fy olm lkhat`otk m`ffkrklcks.

Cabbul`ty rkiot`alsg`ps collat ek eoskm al cakrc`al olm fkor. ]gk suppartkm i`v`lh

ohklcy strklhtgkls lkckssory cabbul`ty rkiot`alsg`ps ey iaan`lh far cabbal hraulm olm

suppart`lh pkapik w`tg m`soe`i`t`ks ta bonk cikor rkquksts far `lcius`al, oss`stolck, ar omopto-

t`al. Kvkl `l tgk rkiot`vkiy fkw `lstolcks wgkl tgksk rkquksts ork eocnkm ey klfarckoeik

r`hgts, autcabks mkpklm bark al crkot`vk lkhat`ot`al olm da`lt praeikb saiv`lh tgol al

h`v`lh armkrs. Os olyalk wga gos i`vkm w`tg boly ottkbpts ta ma kvkl s`bpik tg`lhs i`nk

bonk puei`c eu`im`lhs pgys`coiiy occkss`eik w`ii nlaw, tg`s `s ekcousk tgkrk ork sa boly lal-

fulct`aloi woys tgot kvkl wkii bkol`lh pkapik col h`vk tgk oppkorolck af cabpi`olck w`tg

ruiks. Osskrt`al af r`hgts ho`ls bast hraulm wgkl `t ikoms pkapik ta kstoei`sg pawkr-w`tg

rkiot`alsg`ps.

Oitgauhg tgk caltkxt `s g`krorcgoi, rkiot`alsg`ps w`tg`l tgk skrv`ck systkb collat ek eoskm

cabpiktkiy al pawkr-avkr ekcousk tgk suppartkm i`v`lh ohklcy `s iaw mawl `l tgk g`krorcgy.

Ekcousk af `ts pas`t`al, tgk ohklcy `s kxpkctkm ta tonk olm `bpikbklt `lstruct`als frab

systkb bolohkrs olm buit`-m`sc`pi`lory tkobs rotgkr tgol ta ek o saurck af oct`al. Ey

kstoei`sg`lh pawkr-w`tg rkiot`alsg`ps `l tgk lktwarn af pkapik wga bolohk tgk skrv`ck

systkb, suppartkm i`v`lh ikomkrs buit`piy tgk`r oe`i`ty ta rkspalm ta tgk `lm`v`muoi prkfkr-

klcks olm lkkms af tgk pkapik w`tg m`soe`i`t`ks tgk`r ohklcy supparts.

Zawkr-frab-w`tg`l h`vks tgk pkapik `lvaivkm w`tg suppartkm i`v`lh ohklc`ks tgk klkrhy olm

caurohk ta stolm up ta uldust s`tuot`als, ta calt`luk ta fock olm ikorl frab m`ff`cuit prae-

ikbs moy oftkr moy, olm ta f`lm bkol`lh `l tgk`r i`vks mksp`tk siaw prahrkss ar fo`iurk. Boly

kffkct`vk suppart`vk i`v`lh warnkrs soy tgot tgky ork ikm olm susto`lkm ey sabk pkapik w`tg

m`soe`i`t`ks tgky nlaw wgask pawkr-frab-w`tg`l `s vkry stralh far tgask wga tonk cork ta

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lat`ck olm i`stkl ta tgkb.

Oss`st`vk rkiot`alsg`ps farb tgk mo`iy tkst`lh hraulm far pawkr-w`tg olm pawkr-frab-

w`tg`l. Kocg rkiot`alsg`p `lciumks boly babklts af trutg `l wg`cg pkapik w ii k`tgkr

struhhik far caiioearot`al ar foii eocn `lta cakrc`al ar w`tgmrowoi. Xgktgkr oss`st`vk rkiot`al-

sg`ps hraw stralhkr frab tgksk tksts mkpklms portiy al tgk pkapik `l tgk port`cuior rkiot`al-sg`p olm portiy al tgk woy tgk suppartkm i`v`lh ohklcy mkvkiaps os ol arhol`zot`al.

F`vk rkcurr`lh arhol`zot`aloi `ssuks tkst olm strklhtgkl tgk usk af pawkr `l o suppartkm

i`v`lh ohklcy. ]gky ork4 lkhat`ot`lh lkckssory rksaurcks> eu`im`lh kffkct`vk tkobs> nkkp`lh

eoiolck ektwkkl tgk warn af tgk wgaik arhol`zot`al olm tgk warn af `ts tkobs> sktt`lh olm

bo`lto`l`lh m`rkct`al> olm, bo`lto`l`lh tgk ohklcy's `ltkhr`ty.

]ahktgkr, tgksk `ssuks prav`mk tgk ohklcy w`tg cgolcks ta eu`im up oitkrlot`vks ta pawkr-

avkr. Kocg `ssuk affkrs tgk appartul`ty ta sgopk stralhkr caiioearot`vk rkiot`alsg`ps olm

mkkpkl ulmkrstolm`lh af tgk i`lns ektwkkl suppartkm i`v`lh warn olm wgot `ts port`c`polts

f`lm pkrsaloiiy bkol`lhfui. ]gk woy ol ohklcy bolohks tgksk `ssuks mktkrb`lks tgk obault

af klkrhy `t col facus al rkoi`z`lh `ts voiuks. ]gk bark proct`ckm pkapik ekcabk `l arhol`z-

`lh tgk`r kffarts tgrauhg tgk kxkrc`sk af pawkr-w`tg olm pawkr-frab-w`tg`l tgk ikss arhol`zo-

t`aloi rkiot`alsg`ps w`ii ek mab`lotkm ey pawkr-avkr.

Oly bkbekr af o suppartkm i`v`lh arhol`zot`al col calstruct`vkiy kxkrc`sk pawkr `l kocg af

tgksk s`tuot`als. Zawkr-w`tg hraws wgkl pkapik `ltklt`aloiiy mrow olm rk-mrow eaulmor`ks

ey bav`lh taworm sabk rkiot`alsg`ps olm owoy frab atgkrs. Zkapik strklhtgkl tgk usk af

pawkr-w`tg `l tgk ohklcy wgkl tgky

er`lh pkapik tahktgkr ta facus al o cabbal pradkct, kspkc`oiiy wgkl tg`s er`lhs prkv`-ausiy ul`lvaivkm pkapik `lta tgk pradkct

klcaurohk pkapik ta soy cikoriy gaw tgky skk olm ulmkrstolm o s`tuot`al olm wgot tgky

wolt frab `t

`lqu`rk oeaut tgk pas`t`al af pkapik wga m`sohrkk ar ork ulw`ii`lh ta ekcabk `lvaivkm `l

armkr ta f`lm aut wgot `t wauim tonk ta ho`l tgk pkrsal's caapkrot`al

proct`ck crkot`vk skorcg far butuoiiy eklkf`c`oi oct`als

omvacotk far suhhkst`als tgot structurk sgorkm oct`al

caapkrotk w`tg atgkr's pradkcts

qukst`al i`b`t`lh ossubpt`als ey `lqu`r`lh wgy o mks`roeik oct`al oppkors `bpass`eik

f`hurk aut woys ta kvoiuotk olm ikorl frab tgk kffkcts af tgk`r oct`als

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Zkapik strklhtgkl tgk kxkrc`sk af pawkr-frab-w`tg`l `l tgk ohklcy wgkl tgky

`lvkst t`bk `l strklhtgkl`lh olm cior`fy`lh tgk`r oworklkss af wgot `s pkrsaloiiy bkol`lh-

fui ta tgkb

iaan far woys tgot tgk ohklcy's warn affkrs cgolcks ta kxprkss wgot `s bast `bpartolt ta

tgkb, kspkc`oiiy `l fr`hgtkl`lh ar calfus`lh ar m`scauroh`lh s`tuot`als

spkon cikoriy olm stralhiy oeaut tgk`r sklsk af wgot bottkrs ta tgkb os voiuoeik olm

fulmobkltoi, kspkc`oiiy wgkl tgk`r ohklcy's ekgov`ar skkbs ta ek lkhot`vk ar aut af

caltrai

i`stkl rkspkctfuiiy olm tgauhgtfuiiy wgkl atgkrs spkon af wgot bottkrs bast ta tgkb

frab Dagl AEr`kl & Call`k Iyik AEr`kl, Bark tgol dust o lkw ommrkss

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]a o i`fksgorkr foc`lh o wrklcg`lh mkc`s`al

Mkor Brs. Eo`iky,

Pkstkrmoy yau ikt bk sgork, ey pgalk, tgk mkkp qukst`als yau ork foc`lh, wg`cg bust vkry

saal ikom ta i`fk cgolh`lh mkc`s`als. Loturoiiy, aur calvkrsot`al gom `lt`botk olm kbat`aloi

babklts, os wkii os proct`coi alks. Pau ohrkkm ta ikt bk try ta copturk tgk kssklck af yaur

s`tuot`al `l o ikttkr, os o gkip ta atgkrs.

Os @ gkorm yaur stary (olm pikosk carrkct bk `f @ govk b`sulmkrstaam oly af yaur pa`lts),

yau wkrk rkcru`tkm f`vk ykors oha ey tgk iacoi c`t`zkl omvacocy aff`ck ta ek o fr`klm far Ortgur.

]gk `mkos af c`t`zkl omvacocy bomk sklsk ta yau, olm yau kberockm tgkb w`tg kltgus`osb.Os port af tgk tro`l`lh far lkw omvacotks yau ikorlkm oeaut tgk typ`coi mobohk malk ta sauis

i`nk Ortgurs ey tgk oesklck af rkiot`vks ar atgkr pkapik, spkc`f`coiiy g`s, ta ek tgkrk far g`b

avkr tgk ialh goui. Xgkl yau bkt g`b, olm ikorlkm g`s e`ahropgy, yau wkrk bavkm olm

rksaivkm ta ekcabk tgot n`lm af ialh-tkrb fr`klm.

Ot f`rst gk wos ulrkspals`vk, olm kvkl skkbkm ulhrotkfui far yaur fr`klmiy kffarts. ]grauhg

calvkrsot`als w`tg tgk c`t`zkl omvacocy caarm`lotar, yau ikorlkm ta ulmkrstolm tg`s os tgk

aliy mkfklsk af o saui sa aftkl m`soppa`ltkm tgot `t collat r`sn olatgkr erankl prab`sk,

olatgkr gapk af rkiot`alsg`p mosgkm. Paur rksaivk mkkpklkm `lta pot`klck, olm frab yaur

`l`t`oi, purkiy sac`oi rkiot`alsg`p yau ekhol ta bonk proct`coi cgolhks `l Ortgurs i`fk. Paugkipkm g`b bavk frab tgk cias`lh `lst`tut`al ta o hraup gabk rul ey WPT, @LC. Pau bkt tgk

ohklcy stoff olm ekcobk nlawl os Ortgurs omvacotk, ottklm`lh oii bkkt`lhs oeaut g`b, olm

ma`lh oii bollkr af i`ttik tg`lhs ta w`mkl g`s kxpkr`klcks af i`fk. Pau ikorlkm oeaut g`s hrkot

pgys`coi lkkms, aftkl gkip`lh aut wgkl tgk hraup gabk stoff wkrk sgartgolmkm. Pau ekhol

ta ulmkrstolm g`b ekttkr, tgauhg gk lkvkr usks warms, olm ta fkki g`s hraw`lh trust `l yau.

Oftkr o ykor,WPT, @LC. taim yau tgot Ortgur wauim ek bavkm ta olatgkr gabk, boly b`iks

owoy, wgkrk tgkrk wkrk atgkrs w`tg s`b`ior bkm`coi lkkms - o bark kcalab`coi usk af tgk`r

sn`iikm lurs`lh stoff. Gk wauim fock olatgkr cabpiktk cgolhk af tgk pkapik wga rul g`s i`fk -

olm yau wauim ek for ikss oeik ta cork far g`b ot tgot m`stolck!Sa, yau taan Ortgur gabk w`tg yau. @t skkbkm ta yau ta ek tgk aliy, olm tgk aev`aus, woy

ta ek truk ta yaur cabb`tbklt, ta ek o fo`tgfui fr`klm. Far tgrkk ykors yau govk mkvatkm yaur

i`fk ta Ortgur. Gk gos gom sabk prafkss`aloi gkip, kspkc`oiiy wgkl gk wos `ii, eut yau govk

osnkm far i`ttik gkip far yaurskif.

Olm yaur crkot`vk i`fksgor`lh gos ekkl succkssfui! Ortgur gos ikorlkm ta trust yau, olm gos

hrawl olm eiassabkm `l boly ulkxpkctkm woys, h`v`lh yau eatg hrkot day. G`s lkkms ork

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st`ii hrkot, olm ekh`l ta `lcrkosk os g`s eamy ohks. Pau ork st`ii callkctkm w`tg WPT, @LC. tgk

ohklcy wga, ot ikost `l tgkary, prav`mks skrv`ck ta Ortgur, rkck`v`lh Stotk fulms far sa ma`lh.

@l proct`sk, ekcousk Ortgur `s wkii piockm olm WPT, @LC. ork sgart golmkm, yaur caltoct

cals`sts af ol accos`aloi coii ar v`s`t ey alk af tgk`r stoff ta cabpiktk sabk popkrwarn.

Law cabks tgk cr`s`s! Paur awl mactar gos taim yau vkry stkrliy oeaut yaur awl lkkms -yau oesaiutkiy bust cgolhk yaur raut`lks, ova`m gkovy i`ft`lh olm hkt bark sikkp. ]gkrk `s

la woy yau col calt`luk ta cork far Ortgur - olm yau coiikm bk w`tg tgk ohal`zkm qukst`al,

Bust @ tkii tgk WPT, @LC. ohklcy ta tonk g`b owoy1.

]g`s `s gaw yau olm @ ekhol, al tgk pgalk, ta olswkr tgk qukst`al. Xk rkfkrrkm ta tgk

ikssal wk, tgk gubol rock, govk ikorlkm `l tgk 5:tg ckltury (`t wos oiwoys truk af caursk eut

aur warim s`tuot`al bonks `t cikor olm `lkscopoeik). ]gk ikssal `s4 ]gkrk `s la owoy ta

tgraw k`tgkr tg`lhs ar pkapik ar rkiot`alsg`ps. ]gkrk `s aliy bavkbklt olm cgolhk, ta

olatgkr piock, ta olatgkr calm`t`al, oii w`tg`l alk, wgaik, klv`ralbklt wg`cg `s offkctkm,

far ekttkr ar warsk, ey kvkry sucg cgolhk.

Hrosp`lh tg`s ikssal oitkrs Ortgurs qukst`al, olm tgk ulmkrstolm`lh af yaur cabb`tbklt

os o fo`tgfui fr`klm. [lmauetkmiy, tgk calm`t`als af yaur fr`klmsg`p w`ii cgolhk. @t `s lkcks-

sory ta fock tg`s foct saalkr rotgkr tgol iotkr, ekcousk af yaur awl bkm`coi lkkms - eut `t wos

oiwoys `lgkrklt, os `t `s `l oly rkiot`alsg`p. (Ukiot`alsg`ps ork i`nk piolts - tgky ork k`tgkr

hraw`lh ar w`tgkr`lh - i`fk maks lat stolm st`ii).

Paur ohaly cals`sts `l tgk fkor tgot Ortgurs eiassab`lh i`fk w`ii ek ei`hgtkm ey tgk caim

w`lm af ykt olatgkr rkdkct`al, tgot gk w`ii `lmkkm fkki wartgikss olm tgrawl owoy. Xk govk

ta f`lm o woy `l wg`cg eatg yaur i`vks col cgolhk olm hraw lkw sgaats. ]gk rkiot`alsg`p

lkkm lat ek cut aff4 `t col calt`luk ta fiaur`sg. Far boly pkapik mkotg `tskif `s aliy o cgolhk

af stotk `l rkiot`alsg`ps, wg`cg oftkr oii ork o bottkr af saui olm sp`r`t, kvkl wgkl kxprksskm

tgrauhg pgys`coi kortgiy eam`ks!

Gov`lh occkptkm tgot eatg Ortgur olm yau govk lkkms, olm tgot eatg gk olm yau ork

vuilkroeik, wk cauim skk tgot `t `s tgk rkiot`alsg`p wg`cg gos ta cgolhk, os port af tgk wgaik

rkiot`alsg`p bop oraulm yaur sgorkm i`vks. Zkrgops tgot bop `tskif lkkms klr`cg`lh tgrauhg

bark fr`klms farb`lh o lktwarn af butuoi gkip. @l tg`s r`cgkr lktwarn yau col cgolhk yaur

raik, w`tgaut ek`lh `l oly woy ulfo`tgfui ta yaur cabb`tbklt.

Gaw, yau osnkm, sgoii @ f`lm oii tgksk lkw fr`klms1 Gaw col @ ha oraulm osn`lh far gkip farbyskif1 @ tr`km ta gkip yau tg`ln, os tgk f`rst stkp `l tg`s moult`lh praspkct, af alk pkrsal

wga cauim skk tg`lhs `l tgk woy wk ork tg`ln`lh af, olm ekcabk yaur osn`lh pkrsal, ot

ikost tgrauhg tg`s pkr`am af cgolhk.

Pau bust tg`ln af tg`s tosn os o h`ft frab yau olm Ortgur ta tgk r`hgt pkrsal. @ eki kvk, ey

tgk klm af aur calvkrsot`al, yau gom tgauhgt af o pass`eik pkrsal ta osn. Xgot `s g`s tosn ta

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Xk ork osn`lh g`b ta ek o sac`oi ort`st, crkot`lh o lkw, sboii ckii af cabbul`ty `l tgk

farb af o c`rcik af suppart, ar hraup af fr`klms gkip`lh kocg atgkr ta gkip yau olm Ortgur.

Gk w`ii kxpiark, w`tg yaur omv`ck olm calsklt, wgot prafkss`aloi gkip `s ovo`ioeik, olm wgot

f`lolc`oi olm gubol rksaurcks WPT, @LC. col caltr`eutk tgrauhg Fob`iy Suppart ar atgkr

prahrobs. ]g`s boy tonk sabk `l`t`ot`vk olm crkot`vk m`scuss`al, lat ton`lh la far ol

olswkr, eut tgk pkrsal yau govk `l b`lm skkbs oeik ta ma tg`s f`rbiy olm w`tgaut bon`lh

klkb`ks. Gk w`ii govk tgk eklkf`t af yaur ialh kxpkr`klck w`tg WPT, @LC. olm tgk eurkoucrocy.

Gk w`ii lat oiiaw suppart ta cabk aliy frab prafkss`aloi saurcks, eut skorcg obalh yaur

fr`klms olm lk`hgears far tgask wga ork rkomy ta cgolhk tgk`r raiks `l rkiot`al ta yau. ]gksk

pkapik ulmauetkmiy kx`st, eut `t w`ii praeoeiy tonk ol `lv`tot`al ta er`lh tgkb aut. Zkrgops

tgky sow aliy yaur `lmkpklmklck olm cabpktklck, lkvkr tg`ln`lh af yau os vuilkroeik.

Zkrgops tgky govk ekkl taa sgy ta affkr gkip, lat nlaw`lh gaw tgk`r bamkst sn`iis cauim ek

uskfui `l sucg o spkc`oi`zkm f`kim. X`tg yaur gkip, olm Ortgur's, yaur osn`lh pkrsal w`ii

suhhkst boly sboii oct`als, wkii w`tg`l tgk`r pawkr, wg`cg tahktgkr w`ii eu`im tgk gkip

lkkmkm. Gk w`ii lk`tgkr eki`ttik tgk struhhik, olm tgk rkspals`e`i`ty, lar osn pkapik ta sgaui-

mkr o iaom taa hrkot far tgkb.

@t boy wkii ek tgot yaur osn`lh pkrsal w`ii, w`tg yaur olm Ortgurs gkip, `lv`tk skvkroi

pkapik far o v`s`t ta yaur gabk, ta kxpkr`klck yaur i`fk far o moy ar twa ekfark s`tt`lh mawl

ta piol cgolhks w`tg yau. WPT, @LC. pkapik sgauim ek port af tg`s v`s`t, `l armkr ta ulmkrstolm

tgot `t `s sabktg`lh qu`tk atgkr tgol ol kvoiuot`al af yaur i`v`lh orrolhkbklt ar o rkpart

al Ortgurs piockbklt. @lstkom `t wauim ek ol galkst skorcg obalh foii`eik pkapik far

olswkrs ta yaur qukst`al olm yaur `lv`tot`al. ]gk rksuit af sucg o v`s`t `s usuoiiy lat ol

outgar`tot`vk piol, w`tg tkktg ta ossurk `ts `bpikbkltot`al os wr`ttkl> tgk rksuit `s hrawtg

`l ulmkrstolm`lh obalh rkspals`eik pkapik. ]gk olswkrs ork oibast oiwoys ey-pramucts af o

prackss obalh pkapik wgask aliy cabb`tbklt `s ta st`cn w`tg `t t`ii tgk lkxt stkp sgaws.

Pau, olm yaur osn`lh pkrsal, sgauim cals`mkr tgk farb af tgksk v`s`ts olm `lv tot`als.

]gkrk ork o lubekr af atgkr sac`oi farbs, sucg os pkrsaloi futurks pioll`lh, wg`cg boy

skrvk yau wkii ot m`ffkrklt t`bks `l tgk prackss af trols`t`al. Pau boy mkc`mk ta `lv`tk o

foc`i`totar kxpkr`klckm `l tgk usk af tgksk taais, far alk ar bark accos`al. @t w`ii ek kssklt`oi,

gawkvkr, tgot yau rkto`l tgk caltrai, tgk awlkrsg`p, af yaur fr`klmsg`p w`tg Ortgur, dust os

yau govk oiwoys malk wgkl yau cauim kxprkss `t `l pgys`coi, proct`coi woys os wkii.

Xk ma lat nlaw wgot w`ii cabk af tg`s omvklturk `l bktobarpgas`s. @t `s lat sa s`bpik osmkc`m`lh obalh tgk rks`mklt`oi apt`als affkrkm ey o prav`mkr ohklcy. Xk bust ek apkl ta

oly cabe`lot`al af gkipfui tg`lhs, ta ek arcgkstrotkm ey tgk c`rcik af wg`cg yau olm Ortgur

ork fuiiy port. Zkrgops gk w`ii stoy `l yaur gausk, w`tg gkipfui pkapik cab`lh `l os lkkmkm.

Zkrgops yaur tg`rm fiaar col bkkt tgk lkkms af o cabpot`eik pkrsal wga col affkr gkip

`lstkom af rklt. Zkrgops WPT, @LC. col f`lm o piock lkorey, af wg`cg yau olm Ortgur eatg

oppravk, olm wgkrk yau col v`s`t kocg atgkr. Zkrgops o lkw fr`klm w`ii tonk Ortgur gabk, os

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yau m`m ykors oha. Zkrgops alk orrolhkbklt w`ii ikom al ta atgkrs, eut oiwoys `l woys wg`cg

`lciumk yau olm kliorhk yaur olm Ortgurs wke af fr`klmsg`p.

Ukbkbekr, oiwoys tg`ln af tgk prackss `l tgk baam af gasp`toi`ty. Paur `lv`tot`al ta ca-

crkot`al `s o h`ft ta yaur fr`klms!

@t `s o pr`v`ikhk ta warn w`tg yau, olm @ iaan farworm ta gkor`lh af yaur prahrkss,

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]a o i`fksgorkr `l cr`s`s

Mkor Oibo,

Af caursk @ rkbkbekr yau olm tgk bkoi wk sgorkm ot iost baltgs calfkrklck. @b goppy

tgot wk bkt `l t`bk far yaur fob`iys cr`s`s.

Paurk r`hgt, `t `s strolhk tgot tgk cr`s`s goslt cabk m`rkctiy frab oly af tgk bkbekrs af

yaur kxtklmkm fob`iy eut s`bpiy ekcousk tgk s`x af yau govk i`vkm tahktgkr far ykors `l wgot

yau law m`scavkr tgot yaur stotk coiis ol uli`cklskm hraup gabk, s`bpiy ekcousk faur af

yau rkck`vk SS@ poybklts ekcousk af mkvkiapbkltoi m`soe`i`ty. Ek`lh taim tgot yau ork

tkcgl`coiiy `l v`aiot`al af tgk iow `s sgacn`lh lkws `lmkkm far sabkalk wga gos lkvkr sabucg os hattkl o spkkm`lh t`cnkt.

@t oisa bonks sklsk ta bk tgot yaur calcius`al oeaut Bory `s carrkct. ]gk warry tg`s

s`tuot`al puts oii af yau ulmkr, oialh w`tg Borys g`stary af ocutk skls`t`v`ty ta strkss `l tgk

pkapik sgk caults al, praeoeiy maks occault far gkr rklkwkm kp`samks af vkry m`ff`cuit

ekgov`ar. Olm, `t `s `ral`c tgot tgk pkapik wga skkb ta govk couskm oii tg`s upraor law skkb

ta ek us`lh tgk upskt tgky skk `l yaur usuoiiy wkii armkrkm gauskgaim os o rkosal ta qukst`al

yaur f`tlkss os skrv`ck prav`mkrs. Os yau qu`tk r`hgtiy soy, Xk lkvkr woltkm ta ek skrv`ck

prav`mkrs. Xk ork dust ol kxtklmkm fob`iy, qu`ktiy i`v`lh aut aur eki`kfs olm aur cork far alk

olatgkr al tg`s forb.

Eut wgkl Bory olm Daol olm Ukh olm ]km da`lkm yaur fob`iy, sa m`m tgk stotks gubol

skrv`ck systkb. ]gky govk ekkl oss`hlkm o ikhoi muty ta `lsurk tgot yaur kxtklmkm fob`iy

bkbekrs ork pratkctkm olm opprapr`otkiy trkotkm. @ tg`ln `f yau trockm tgk g`stary af yaur

stotks pai`cy oeaut pkapik w`tg mkvkiapbkltoi m`soe`i`t`ks, yau wauim f`lm tgot tgk stotk

ekcobk `lvaivkm ekcousk af v`haraus olm susto`lkm omvacocy al ekgoif af pkapik w`tg

mkvkiapbkltoi m`soe`i`t`ks ey hraups af porklts (i`nk ]gk orc olm [l`tkm Ckrkeroi Zoisy) olm

tgot tgk ruik eaan tgky ork law er`lh`lh `lta yaur gabk hrkw, pohk ey pohk, `l rkspalsk ta

rkoi `lc`mklts af oeusk olm lkhikct olm b`strkotbklt. @t maks skkb i`nkiy, os tgk `lspkctar

taim yau, tgot tgk stotk stortkm ta usk tgk i`st af SS@ rkc`p`klts ta iacotk uli`cklskm foc`i`t`ksekcousk af tgk stralh puei`c rkoct`al ta tgk garr`eik eaorm`lh gabk f`rk iost ykor tgot n`iikm

sa boly kimkriy pkapik. Af caursk, yau ork r`hgt ta soy tgot ya