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Bustle Up

Nuptials without the Nerves

Bridesmaid Diaries: Part 3

Save the Date

The Guy’s Guide to the Big Day

Groomsmen Gifts

Forget Me Not

Bridesmaids Gifts

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Every bride wants a special wedding—one that is different from any other. She wants a wedding that inspires and moves guests while creating lasting memories for both her and the groom. We have created another

stunning bridal issue filled with creative ideas, stories, photos and advice for these discerning brides and grooms.

Over the past few years, RSVP has been fortunate to meet several creative and brilliant people in the wedding industry. It is humbling to be surrounded by such talented individuals as those whose presence and ideas grace the pages of this Bridal Issue. We are thrilled to present them and their work to you.

If you have feedback or ideas for future bridal issues, don’t keep them to yourself. Share them at editor@rsvp-montgomery.com. After all, most of our great ideas come from our readers! Congratulations! And happy planning.

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Bustle UpConsigned design gives gowns new life

Bridal fashion credits:Photos: Hello Gorgeous/ Aubrie Moates

Makeup: LUSH makeup art/ Rebekah Edwards Set Design: Southern Posies

Hair: William Mason Salon/ Christina WrightModels: Jesica Ahlberg, Molly Franks

Gowns: Bustle, Birmingham Jewelry: Charlotte’s Jewelry

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Opposite:Sometimes simple speaks volumes. The romantic details of this raw silk Lula Kate gown are ideal for the classy bride. The quiet elegance of this gown leaves room for added accessories!

Today’s bride is a girl who knows exactly what she wants. She has dreamed of this day her entire life and been planning her perfect wedding via Pinterest

since before she even met the groom. We know all too well that between the cakes, the flowers, and those precious little center pieces that you are “pretty sure you can make yourself,” weddings can quickly become expensive. It’s a well-kept secret that one of the best ways to cut your budget is with your gown. There simply is no reason to sacrifice style and quality for price, and that’s where Meredith at Bustle Gowns comes in. Bustle is a thoughtfully-curated wedding gown boutique specializing in designer, vintage, and sample gowns. Located just a short drive to Hoover, Bustle has all the bells and whistles of a high-end wedding boutique at only a fraction of the cost. Whether you are looking to consign your gown or find the dress of your dreams, Bustle is the perfect place to go. With designers like Vera Wang, Pronovias, and Enzoani, what’s a bride to do? I think you already know the answer.

No gown is complete without the perfect jewels. Keep it simple or jazz it up with a sprawling variety of stunning stones from Charlotte’s Jewelry.

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With flowing organza, a sweetheart neckline, and splendidly soft details, how could you go wrong with this Bliss by Monique Lhuillier gown? Even better? The side ruching of this dress creates the look of a teeny tiny waist!

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Is there really anything more beautiful than a Southern bride in lace? This Melissa Sweet all-lace, A-line gown paired with your grandmother’s pearls is truly what the name says - sweet!

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Toast to happily ever after in this champagne silk satin gown by Modern Trousseau. The flattering shape and understated details are sure to make you the focal point on your big day.

This one-shoulder gown by Vii is the perfect combination of class and sass. The ostrich feather detail creates a unique vision while the empire waist and court train help express your timeless sophistication.

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A classic look with the perfect amount of sparkle is enough to make any girl swoon. This hand- beaded beauty by Reem Acra compliments any body type and makes you feel like the queen you are on your wedding day!

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This two-piece wrap gown is perfect for the preppy bride. Stella Reese by Catherine Ryals is a local label which makes this darling design even better!

Nuptials without the

A photographers perspective on how to get the best pictures on your wedding day

When you’re a wedding photographer, you quickly learn how to read people. Some brides are obviously nervous, while others are more go-with-the-flow types. There is also the in-between bride: the one who smiles at you for pictures and seems to be okay at first glance, but upon closer observation, there is a bit of panic in her eyes as she runs through a mental checklist of everything that could possibly go

wrong (and that list is longer than Kim Kardashian’s hair extensions). A little nervous energy or anxiety is normal but if you are too tightly wound, it’s written all over your face and harder for you to truly enjoy the day. Fortunately, the opposite is also true: if you are relaxed, you will have a better time and look more at ease in your pictures. So ditch the nerves by following these tips to de-stress your wedding day!

By Julie Lowry • Photography by Julie Lowry/Chanterelle Photography

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Call in the Pros and Delegate, Delegate, Delegate! Choose reputable, experienced vendors. If you trust the people you are working with, you won’t feel the need to micromanage. Better yet, invest in a wedding planner - having someone to oversee the setup on the wedding day and troubleshoot if needed is invaluable. Have your hair and makeup professionally done so you can take time to feel pampered, instead of worrying about whether it will stay in place all day. And let’s face it; if you do it yourself, chances are that will be the one day your eyes water uncontrollably because you accidentally stabbed yourself with the mascara wand (we’ve all been there). Decide in advance who will be responsible for returning rented items to the appropriate vendors, and who will load and transport your wedding gifts so you’re not scrambling to figure it out right before you make your grand exit.

Be generous with your time. The most common mistake I see brides make in the planning process is underestimating the amount of time needed to get things accomplished on the big day. Let your vendors help

you - remember, we’ve done countless weddings, and we know what is and is not realistic in terms of timelines. So if you have eight ladies in your group who need their hair done, ask the hairstylist how much time she will need instead of assuming that the two hours you have after lunch will be plenty. Then build extra time into your schedule to allow the day to run at a more enjoyable, relaxed pace, and to give you a little cushion if something runs late.

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Take small steps to prevent big problems.

If the men in the groom’s party are renting tuxes, have them try on their tuxes and double check that they have all of their accessories BEFORE leaving the rental shop. It’s not uncommon for cuff links to be missing, or for someone to get a mislabeled size in their bag. I once had to help pin a groomsman’s shirt to his WAY too big pants to keep them from falling down to his ankles, because there was no time to go back for another pair. Speaking of pins, put together an emergency kit with safety pins, band-aids, a needle and thread, bobby pins, etc. to take care of minor mishaps. Have your groom bring an extra pair of dress socks in case one groomsman forgets his. You don’t want one guy to stick out in the wedding party pictures because his white socks make him look like Mr. Peanut.

Choose a dress that flatters your figure and makes you feel good.

Seems like a no-brainer, but the unfortunate truth is this: we tend to focus more of our attention on the things we dislike about ourselves than the things we do like, especially in pictures. So choose a dress that not only makes the most of the parts you love, but also de-emphasizes the ones you don’t. If you find a strapless gown that makes your body look great but you’re self-conscious about your arms, add a lace bolero or look for a similar style that has a bit of a sleeve. Once you have chosen a dress, get it properly fitted. Expert tailoring will not only make you look good, you’ll be more comfortable over the course of a long wedding day. You don’t want to be the bride who spends her entire day hiking up her strapless dress, worried she might have a wardrobe malfunction. If you are uncomfortable or feel like your flaws are on display, it will show. If you feel like you just walked off the cover of a bridal magazine, that will show too. Choose wisely, and have one of the best days of your life.

Give yourself some space.

When deciding where you’ll get ready on the wedding day, choose a place with plenty of space. A standard hotel room may seem big, but add six bridesmaids, a hair and/or makeup artist, a photographer, your mom, yourself, and all the clothes, bags and shoes that come with weddings, and suddenly there’s barely enough room to turn. Give yourself some breathing room (literally and figuratively), and consider upgrading to a suite, or ask your bridesmaids to do most of their prep in their own rooms before meeting you in yours at a specific time. Whenever possible, choose a room with windows (your photographer and makeup artist will thank you) and remember that the room’s decor will show in at least some your pictures. If the only option at your church is the daycare room, but you don’t want the primary colored walls and construction paper artwork to show, you may want to consider getting ready elsewhere.

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THE BRIDESMAIDD I A R I E S

Volume 3Bridesmaid to the Rescue!

Contrary to popular belief, being a bridesmaid is not all fun and games. Sure, you’ve got the bachelorette party, professional photos taken free of charge and the best seat in the house for the wedding ceremony- but that does not mean that this honorable title comes without a price (and

we’re not talking about the monetary price). The responsibilities of a bridesmaid go far beyond helping the bride pick out the bridesmaids’ dresses or writing down who gave her what at the couple’s shower. Be prepared to think outside of the box and to expect the unexpected. While we might not be the typical vigilante superhero, we sure do know how to save the day and rescue our bride from the treacherous villain – STRESS - on the big day! Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to make the bride’s wedding day an absolute dream come true. For your first training exercise, we recommend you read the following:

by Mallory AndersonPhotos by Josh Moates

Nervous Nellies They say practice makes perfect, but there are those times when things don’t go as planned. While the flower girl or ring bearer may have done well at the rehearsal, a large number of guests tend to make even the boldest become slightly apprehensive. Be sure to praise him or her before the ceremony and tell them about the special prize that awaits them when this is all over for doing such a great job. If that doesn’t work and you see that deer in the headlight stare on his or her face, walk down the aisle and hold their hand so they don’t have to walk alone. The flower girl won’t steal the show and the ceremony will continue without interruption.

Tardy TameraThere is always a bridesmaid who is habitually late to everything. While she seems to always have an excuse, this is not a day for her to walk in fashionably late and add to the bride’s stress. Talk her into setting multiple alarms, or better yet, invite her to stay over the night before the wedding so you can make sure she is up and ready on time. She will feel special and doesn’t have to know that you are simply saving the bride from an anxiety attack.

The Melancholy MaidPlayer Paul just broke up with Distraught Danielle. We know alcohol intensifies these emotions, so take one for the team and be her plus one for the night. Encourage cake over booze and when all the other couples start dancing to a sappy slow song, play a game of “who is the most awkward dancer” or take her to the Photo Booth for some silly pictures to keep her chin up and tears away during the reception. Remember ladies, it is all in how you handle it. Go with the flow, and there is a good chance no one will even notice!

And a little bit softer now…Shout! The band starts playing that song. You know, that song that brings everyone to the dance floor, especially if you’ve seen the movie “Wedding Crashers.” You spot one of the bridesmaids heading to the dance floor, glass of red wine in hand. Red wine, cosmos, really any drink of color is NEVER a good idea near a bride’s dress. Gracefully swap out her red wine for a glass of white wine or champagne, get out there and shake it. Avoiding a large purple stain on the bride’s beautiful white dress is worthy of a medal.

The Tacky ToastIt’s time to for the best man to give a toast. Unfortunately, we all have those friends that would rather say something funny or embarrassing than meaningful. When there are drinks involved, it tends to be even worse. Instead of waiting for the wildly inappropriate comment that will give the bride a heart attack, take five minutes with the best man to remind him of what is appropriate and that short is always sweet. If they go for the “R” rated comment anyway, be ready to interject with a quick recovery that will divert the crowd’s attention.

Chatty CathyGreat Aunt Ethel is quite the talker, but the bride does not have 45 minutes at her once-in-a-lifetime, two-hour reception to discuss the price of bread in 1937.But guess what, bridesmaids? You do. Get ready to “accidentally” interrupt the conversation when you see Great Aunt Ethel next in line to speak to the bride and groom. Don’t forget to come prepared with a plan for an emergency escape. Another good thing to keep in mind is the bride and groom will be doing a lot of talking (not eating) during the reception. Be a jewel and have the caterer make some to-go boxes for the newlyweds to enjoy on the way to their next destination.

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Setting the tone for your wedding, the Save the Date is a guest’s first impression of your big day. It lets them know what to expect, how casual or fancy the wedding will be, and all other important

details. The best weddings are the ones that incorporate the personalities of both the bride and groom and tell their love story. Start your wedding off right by displaying your uniqueness in your save the dates. With these out of the box options, your guests will not only remember your wedding date, they will be all the more excited to attend.

A Picture is Worth a 1000 WordsSometimes a picture really is worth 1000 words. Get creative or be silly, just make sure that your picture is a reflection of you and your future spouse!

See Sparks FlySparks will fly with this clever matchbox idea. It also doubles as a practical keepsake for your guests!

Message in a BottleLoad a message on this cork jump drive to show your guests a cute image or video revealing your save the date!

Photo by Pet Pawtography / Diana Bunch

Photos by Studio at Eastchase

Keepsake BoxThe great thing about this keepsake box save the date is the ability you have to customize it any way you want by filling it with fun, little knick-knacks that reflect you and your fiance.

Make it permanentNothing is more permanent than a sharpie! Let your guests know that you are engaged by sending out these personal permanent markers with your special date.

Tie the KnotLet everyone know that you’re “tying the knot” with this clever and creative save the date idea!

Scratch OffThis is a creative way to let your guests have some fun while discovering the news of your big day. Mail this save the date along with a penny and let your guests scratch away!

Carried AwayGet carried away and surprise your guests by hand delivering these announcements to avoid a droopy balloon.

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By Kate Garrigan • Photography Darren Freeman

The Guy’s

GUIDE to the Big Day

It takes two to tango, and the same goes for getting hitched. Most everything “wedding” is for the brides, but we decided to give the grooms some loving too because let’s face it, the wedding wouldn’t happen without them! Taking the plunge can be stressful for a guy, but the RSVP girls are here to assist with these helpful hints!

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How Much to Spend on the Ring: Tradition vs. RealityThe proposal is big, but the ring is an equally important factor to think about. Tradition dictates the ring should cost the equivalent of three months pay checks, but reality says something a tad different. In this economy, spending that much on a ring may not be possible, and is completely understandable. But if you’re at a point where proposing is in the near future, chances are you have had an honest and open conversation about the ring. Your best bet in not getting burned is to be upfront about what you can afford so that she can have realistic expectations.

Rules of the ProposalThe proposal is the catalyst that starts it all, so you want to be sure it’s a good one. We guarantee a “yes” and a very smooth transition from girlfriend to fiancée if the following rules are followed...

1. Making it a surprise may be a bit of a challenge as girls often tend to make everything their business, but the best proposal moment will be when she isn’t expecting or anticipating anything. Take that with a grain of salt; don’t jump the gun and pop the question on the second date! But if she’s the one, love is in the air, and you both agree on all the major things in life, move forward and create a future together!

2. Keep her in mind; this moment is all about the girl. Think about what she would want, and more importantly, what she would NOT want to remember when she remembers the day you asked her to marry you. Proposing during a sporting event probably isn’t the route you will want to take, unless she is an avid sports fan. Every girl wants a great proposal that she can go tell to her friends, so give her something to brag about!

3. Some things are meant to remain traditional and the act of proposing is one of them. We are talking about chivalry here - don’t underestimate romantic gestures that show you care. Acts such as asking her father’s permission, getting down on one knee, or having a bouquet of red roses in hand are examples of little things that will score big points.

4. Don’t read too much into her reaction. Although she may have imagined dozens of scenarios of how her proposal will happen, it is likely that it won’t play out exactly as she pictured. She may cry, but she may not. She may be so overwhelmed that the tears don’t come. She may laugh out of excitement. The only bad reaction to a proposal is a rejection! But even if that happens, don’t panic. Talk through it and find out why she isn’t ready. She may just need a little more time.

Decoding the Code: MOH, STD, FGDon’t get caught with your foot in your mouth; get educated on the ways of the wedding world! Times like these are unlike any other, so be prepared and always be on your toes. When your fiancee tells you that she finally picked out an STD that she really likes, stay calm, cool, and collected and remember that this is a wedding code that must be deciphered. Get in the know and learn the code so you can properly communicate during these several months of planning. STD is NOT what you get tested for every month = Save The DateMOH is NOT what you do to the grass = Maid Of HonorFG is NOT how you can score three points in a football game = Flower Girl

Getting What You Want at the ReceptionThis is a tricky one. Traditionally, the wedding is known as her day, not his. Getting something you want at the reception could be difficult, but if you present your case well there is a chance. We’re not saying to ask for a tacky ice sculpture or that you have any say in the color scheme, but your bride might give a little in specific areas. You want a cigar-making station? While she might not understand your argument that not all cigars are the same, just explain the importance of having this day reflect who you are as well. Remember, most brides have been planning and dreaming of this day since they were three-years-old, so it will generally consist of what they want. But if you hold your cards just right and present them at the right time, consider that cigar station yours.

Controlling Your Best ManWhile Jeff might have been the best person to buddy up with in college because of his amazing beer pong skills and suave ways with the ladies, your wedding is not the fraternity house on a big game day. Frank the Tank needs to be reeled in quickly or things will get pretty messy at that open bar reception you paid so much for. To avoid a very angry bride and her family, make sure that one groomsman doesn’t think this party is the same kind you’ll find on spring break in Panama City.

Groomsmen GiftsSpeaking of the guys...they’ve done a lot for you. From dealing with your in-laws to speaking at the rehearsal dinner, the groomsmen have really taken one for the team, and we’re guessing they are some of your best friends. Treat them to something nice to show your appreciation. You can take the easy route and get them all the same thing, but sometimes there isn’t one single gift all of your groomsmen will appreciate. In this case, take the time to think of each friend and get him something personal. We have provided a gift guide with some ideas that will help get the wheels turning.

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GUIDE to the Big Day

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Your wedding day will be many things - beautiful, fun and unforgettable. But unfortunately, cheap is something it will not be. From the venue to the monogrammed napkins, you will be pulling out your

checkbook frequently. First comes love, then comes marriage, and then come the bills! Sticking to a budget is hard enough, but with unexpected expenses racking up it can prove to be impossible. The best way to avoid spending more than you originally planned is to prepare ahead of time. As you get ready to say “I do,” lookout for these unexpected costs that may creep up, because they could cause some serious damage.

The Marriage LicenseWalking down the aisle, exchanging vows, and cutting the cake are great wedding traditions and will be great memories, but none make your union legal! Don’t forget to run down to the courthouse to make everything official. Depending on which state you are in, a marriage license will cost anywhere from $20 to $100. While this may not seem like a huge expense in the grand scheme of things, it’s helpful to be aware of so you can stick to your budget and ensure you’re not paying off your wedding for the rest of your life.

PostageYou might have started your wedding planning venture with the vision of a small, quaint wedding, but before long you find yourself adding your great aunt’s three children to a list that totals 300. While the number of guests may become much higher than you or your fiance imagined, you may find you can’t say no to family members insisting on invites. If you have budgeted for both save-the-dates and invitations, a common expense often overlooked is postage. Depending on the type of invitation and its weight, the postage could be more than just a 49 cent stamp. In some cases, invitations sent could set you back $1 each!

AlterationsUnless you are extremely lucky, odds are the gown you purchase will not fit exactly as it should. Of course you have put money aside and budgeted accordingly for the dress, but chances are the alterations slipped your mind. Hemming, taking in, and letting out to get the dress of your dreams is going to cost you. How extensive the alterations are will determine the price, but this unexpected cost could run you upwards of $250.

The Night Before and Day OfAccording to tradition, the bride and groom are not supposed to see each other before the wedding and should spend the night before the big day apart. Many brides rent a hotel room to spend the night away from the groom, have one last hoorah as a single gal with the bridesmaids, and secure a place to get ready in the morning. This hotel expense and the food for your girls the morning of the wedding is often overlooked. It’s ok if all you want is a little snack before walking down the aisle, but most likely your bridesmaids will want something of substance, so don’t forget to feed them!

Post Wedding Forget-Me-NotsSorry Charlie, but you don’t stop paying just because the big day has come and gone. Post-wedding details are often left out of a budget, and we’re not talking about the honeymoon. Thank-you cards, gown preservation, and extra prints of your favorite wedding photos might not be what you and your groom imagined spending your wedding money on. The post-wedding to-do’s aren’t things you can skimp on, so be sure to prepare ahead of time so your newlywed bank account doesn’t take a huge hit.

Unexpected Costs to Look Out for on the Big Day

By Kate Garrigan

Forget Me Not Gifts for the Bridesmaids

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Pearl “A” Monogram Bracelet Southern Homes & Gardens What’s a better way to make your girls feel special than with this personalized monogram bracelet by Beaucoup Designs? With genuine fresh water pearls, you can be sure that this is a gift your bridesmaids will cherish as long as you both shall live.

Chelsea Initial Weekender Southern Homes & Gardens

This oh-so versatile tote is the perfect gift for your destination dream wedding. Throw in some champagne and your favorite bachelorette accessories for one last single girl weekend with your bridesmaids!

Beaded Edge Medium Tray Southern Homes & Gardens Classic and universal, this stunning catch all by India Handicraft is a wonderful way to say “thank you.” For an added detail, have the center etched with your bridesmaid’s initials.

Miss Madison Gift Set Brooks Brothers

The Miss Madison Gift Set is a perfect gift that offers a variety of items for your bridesmaids. Each gift set features a travel jewelry case with two interior zip pouches and a ring holder, as well as two Brooks Brothers fragrances: Brooks Brothers Miss Madison perfume and Brooks Brothers Madison perfume.

Forget Me Not Gifts for the Bridesmaids

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Floral Cosmetic Bag Brooks Brothers

Keep your bridesmaids looking fresh and lovely all day long with this floral cosmetic bag. Perfect for a spring wedding, this practical little tote keeps all of your girls’ beauty tricks in one place.

Woman’s Embroidered Handkerchief Brooks Brothers

Wedding days often bring tears of joy and happiness. Don’t let your bridesmaids have to sniffle their way through the ceremony - give them this white-embroidered cotton handkerchief to wipe her tears with as you say “I do.”

Verbena Body Salt ScrubL’Occitane

Every girl loves great pampering products that help them to relax and feel gorgeous and healthy. The Verbena Body Salt Scrub from L’Occitane is a great way to get that spa-day feeling skin by exfoliating at home. You can find this scrub at the L’Occitane store in the Summit in Birmingham, Ala.; or you can go online and place an order for the girls that helped to make your day so perfect!

Fleur D’or Perfume

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Leave your gals smelling light and fresh with this Fleur de (what is it?) by L’Occitane. It’s airy scent and floral undertones will be the perfect compliment to your beautiful bridesmaids on the big day.

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From the time you hit send on that “i’m engaged” Facebook post to the time you leave the altar with a new last name, you will

spend countless hours on wedding planning. While planning for your big day is mostly fun, it’s important to remember what matters most: your marriage. We all know that a good marriage is about compromises, trust, communication and respect, just to name a few. But there’s another very important, very private aspect to a good marriage that can’t be ignored - the sensual side.

A healthy physical relationship within a marriage begins on the honeymoon. take a little time out of all that wedding planning to put some thought into your nights alone with your new husband. Whether you’re an adventurous couple or shy in the sheets, there is something for everyone at Kalli’s Love Stuff.

From bachelorette party decor to items that will spice up your love life long after the honeymoon, the options are endless. Kalli’s Love Stuff is here for all of your intimate needs.

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Ideas that Inspire

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Love in Bloom at High Noon

Credits: Design: Mary MePhotography: Aubrie Moates, Hello GorgeousModels: Madison Hayden, Riley Tanaka, Avery and Caroline WeimerDress: Denson’s BridalTux: Jim Massey’s FormalwearHair: Emily Rose Mathews, Dougs 2Make-up: Rebekah Edwards, Dougs 2Invitation Design: Poppy PedalsRentals:  Brendle Rentals Lighting: A.G. LightingFloral Design: Melissa Kendall Floral DesignCake: Cake DesignsFood and Beverage: Jennie Weller CateringVintage Car: Touch of Class Limo

Pop. Fizz. Clink.

Event Design | Styling | Florals: Evan G. Cooper/ Evan & Company Photography: Aubrie Moates

Rentals: Brendle Rentals Calligraphy | Paper Products: Kara Anne Custom Paper and Lettering

Hair: Gena Harper/ Doug’s 2 Salon and Spa Makeup: Rebekah Edwards/ Lush Makeup Art

Dress: Lula Kate/ Bustle Gowns Grooms Suit: Express

Venue: Matter Studios, A&P Lofts Cake: Ligers Bakery

Models: Amir’ Kendria | Chris Kordakis Assistants: Brooke Glassford | Chandler Harris

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Sleepy Hollow

List of Vendors:Design: Antebellum Aisles

Photography: Honey B Photography by Denise EdgeRentals: Brendle Rentals

Dress: provided by Denson’s BridalHair: Amber Herron at Elegant Styles

Music: Violinist Elizabeth KirkLighting and Effects: Taunton Productions

Floral Design: Flowers by AmandaCake Design: A Social Event

Paper Products: Allison Godwin/High Cotton PaperieModel: Averie Abercrombie

Venues: Old Alabama Town and Hampstead Farms

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Sleepy Hollow

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Venue: The Barn at Pisgah Hill Photographer: Wes Roberts PhotographyDesign, Styling, Floral: Le Rae Events and Design Graphic Design and Paper: Whitlee Mullis

Bridal Gown: Bustle Gowns/Reem Acra Flower Girl Dress: Diamonds in the Ruffle (Etsy Shop)Cake: Sara Dixon-Chapman Make Up: Rebekah Edwards/Lush Makeup Art

Rentals: Brendle Rentals Hair: Kamee Spear Kwak/Salon Couture Lighting: Special Event Lighting Catering: Red’s Little School House Special thanks to A Touch of Class

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Credits: Styling/Concept/Florals: Southern PosiesPhotographer: Aubrie Lemon MoatesVenue: The WatersHot Air Balloon: SkyCruise Balloon FlightsRentals: Brendle RentalsCake and Sweets: Ligers BakeryHair and Makeup: Rebekah Edwards/Lush Makeup ArtPaper Products: Kara Anne PaperMonogram Products: jennifertrott.blogspot.comDress: Ivory & WhiteGroom Attire: The Locker RoomModels: Ryan and Sarah Snell

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Enriqueta Anthony and Joseph Evans met seven years ago at a mutual friend’s house in Auburn, Ala., while attending Tuskegee University. After the couple graduated, both went on to graduate school. Joseph attended school in Birmingham while Enriqueta studied at home in Montgomery. Once Joe completed graduate school, he was offered a job in New Jersey and then later moved to Maryland. Although the distance was a challenge for their relationship, both were equally committed to make it work despite

the distance. They became frequent fliers trying to steal away time every chance they could. A typical trip home to Alabama for Joe became an unforgettable moment for Enriqueta when he asked for her hand in marriage! The couple plans to wed September 27, 2014 in Wetumpka, Ala. Enriqueta is the daughter of Dr. Doris Cooper Anthony and the late Mr. Henry James Anthony of Montgomery, Ala. Joseph is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Willie J. Evans of Selma, Ala.

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Although they initially met through mutual friends in 2004, Whitney Eve Corbin and Kaleb Israel Clarke did not begin dating until they were reconnected in 2012. Their first date was April 21, 2012, and Whitney says she knew then that she would one day marry Kaleb. Kaleb popped the question on November 26, 2013 while the two were vacationing on the beaches of the Dominican Republic. Whitney is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Kyle Corbin of Millbrook, Ala., and

she currently works as the owner of and cosmetologist at Wow Salon and Spa. Kaleb is an accountant with the Alabama Department of Revenue and is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Johnny Oates of Deatsville, Ala., and Mr. and Mrs. Rick Clarke of Mobile, Ala. Their wedding is set for May 24, 2014 at The Chapel at The Waters.

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Stripling-Garner EngagementSarah Stripling and Harold Patterson Garner, III first met through mutual friends at a tailgate that the Garner family has been hosting for ten years. After dating for a while, both knew they wanted to get married, but Harold was still able to surprise Sarah with his proposal. While in Gulf Shores this past summer, Harold wrote “Will you marry me?” in the sand for Sarah to

see. While many family members and friends knew the proposal was coming, Sarah was stunned but delighted and immediately answered yes. Sarah is employed at Amplify Studio and is the daughter of Linda Stripling and the late Gary Stripling of Montgomery, Ala. Harold works for BB&T Bank and is the son of Pat and Angie Garner, also of Montgomery, Ala. They plan to wed on September 13, 2014 at the Blount Mansion in Montgomery.

Cumpian-Rutter EngagementMariah Cumpian and James Rutter met in November of 2013 after being introduced over the phone by a mutal friend from AdvoCare. The introduction was purely business related, but it would turn out

to be much more. While living in Baton Rouge, La., Mariah’s car trouble kept her from making the drive home to Chicago for the Thanksgiving holidays. Although he had yet to meet Mariah in person, James did not want her to spend the holidays alone, and offered to pay for a rental car and gas for a trip to Alabama to spend Thanksgiving with his family. The moment Mariah arrived, they saw God’s plan beginning to unfold. They both had heard of “love at first sight,” but never believed it until that day. After an amazing holiday weekend, a trip to Chicago was planned for New Year’s, where James met Mariah’s family. Two weeks later, James proposed to Mariah in St. Patrick’s Church in New Orleans and subsequently had their engagement blessed by the parish’s priest. They will be married on May 9th, 2014 at St. Joseph’s Church in New Orleans.

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Boyd-Cichra EngagementCallie Grace Boyd and Matthew Scott Cichra first met in Montgomery through a mutual friend, in a grocery store. In 2006, about a year after that first meeting, they began to date. For two years, Callie competed in the Miss Alabama Pageant and says Matt became “the ultimate pageant boyfriend.” Always supportive and encouraging, if Matt couldn’t make it to a pageant he would be texting family and friends to catch the play-by-play. Their engagement date, December 13, 2013, fell on a Friday. While some might be wary of

a Friday the 13th proposal, Callie says 13 is her lucky number, which made the proposal at Railroad Park in Birmingham even better. Matt graduated from Auburn University Montgomery with a bachelor’s degree in graphic design, while Callie graduated from UAB with a bachelor’s degree in nursing. Matt works as a digital imaging specialist for Healthsouth, and Callie is currently employed at St. Vincent’s Hospital as a registered nurse. Callie is the daughter of John D. Boyd, III, of Montgomery, Ala., and Cindy Collier Boyd of Birmingham, Ala. Matt is the son of Gary Michael Cichra of Apopka, Fla., and Mary Ellen Ramseur of Longwood, Fla. Their wedding is set for November 15, 2014, at Trinity United Methodist Church in Homewood, Ala.

Goins-Daly EngagementAfter five years of dating, John Russell Daly proposed to Miranda Goins on February 22, 2014, while on a walk with their dog Koda at the Moss Rock Preserve in Birmingham, Ala. As they were walking, they stopped at an area where a blanket had been laid, and Russ proceeded to get down on one knee and

pull out a ring. Miranda’s best friend knew in advance about the proposal and hid behind a rock, allowing her to capture the proposal on camera. Miranda is currently a senior nursing student at Samford University and the daughter of Mr. Michael Goins. Russ recently graduated from Highlands College at Church of the Highlands in Birmingham, and is now a full-time worship intern there. He is the son of Mr. and Mrs. John Daly of Montgomery, Ala. The two plan to wed on July 5, 2014, at the Bridgestreet Gallery and Loft in Birmingham.

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In the state of Alabama, football team loyalty is big. It’s not uncommon on a first date to discuss where each person pledges their allegiance: Crimson Tide or War Eagle. The

odds are slim of making it past the first date if the teams don’t match because, as we all know, rivalry between Alabama and Auburn fans runs deep. Anna Owens and Jeffrey Greene defy this “norm,” as Anna graduated from the University of Alabama and Jeffrey from Auburn University. After they each moved back to Montgomery they met, quickly fell in love, and the rest is history.

On April 6, 2013 Anna Carol Owens, daughter of Ms. Judy Jones and Mr. and Mrs. Donald Ray Owens, Jr., and Jeffrey Kenneth Greene, son of Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Lee Greene, Jr., defied the odds by conquering their team rivalry and wed at First Baptist Church in Montgomery, Ala. Anna’s childhood pastor, Keith H. Pugh Sr., of Open Door Baptist Church in Tuscaloosa, made the wedding day even more special by conducting the beautiful candlelight ceremony.

Anna graced the aisle in white, holding a bouquet of white orchids and roses and wearing a gorgeous Paloma Blanca strapless gown with a crossover pleated duchesse bodice and folded organza detailed skirt. To support her on the big day, Anna had her matron of honor, Jessica Edwards, and nine other bridesmaids beside her in beautiful, full-length turquoise gowns.

Jeffrey waited at the altar for Anna in a gray suit with a white silk tie and purple orchid boutonniere. Standing next to Jeffrey were nine groomsmen outfitted in the same gray suit, but with turquoise ties that matched the bridesmaid’s gowns.

With the help of Jackie Frontiero of Dana’s Floral design, First Baptist Church and the reception at Alley Station were adorned with fuchsia, purple, and pink flowers to help set a whimsical mood. After the exchanging of vows and presentation of the new bride and groom, guests traveled downtown to the reception at Alley Station to celebrate the newlyweds. There they enjoyed a night of dancing, cake, and great food from Jennie Weller Catering. The wedding cake was five layers of scrumptious, white-bliss embellishment with a large rose as a final elegant touch. Kim Box of Kim Box Photography and Mark Hendren of Mark Five Productions captured the unforgettable moments created by the new couple, family, friends and other guests.

Anna and Jeffrey celebrated their new union by honeymooning in Jamaica. While their house may be divided between Auburn and Tuscaloosa, this “mixed couple” resides in Montgomery. Currently, Jeffrey is an employee at Fresenius. Anna happily reports that she and Jeffrey are enjoying their first year of marriage. Her only complaint? Jeffrey is still an Auburn fan.

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Owens-Greene WeddingApril 6, 2013

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On June 15, 2013, Katherine Lorin Till and Joseph Lee Pearman tied the knot in a traditional southern ceremony at The Oaks Plantation in Pike Road,

Ala. The couple had been friends since 2007 when Katie was 14 and Joe 16, and in 2008 they had their first official date. Since that first date, Katie and Joe have maintained a loving and adventurous relationship that led to Joe’s proposal on September 15, 2012 in Destin, Fla.

Katie walked down the aisle at The Oaks in a J.Crew bridal dress. Her bridesmaids also wore dresses in the “dusty shale” color from the J.Crew bridal collection. Katie’s cousin Nikki Sanford served as maid of honor; other bridesmaids included Jeannie Kirkus, Jenna Till, and Allison Till, all sisters-in-law of the bride. Joe waited under the oak tree for Katie as she made her way down the aisle. He and his groomsmen stood in front of the couple’s backdrop for the ceremony – a cross made by Joe and decorated with flowers by Evan G. Cooper of Evan & Co. Mason jars filled with pink and yellow roses, as well as daisies, lined the aisle. Joe’s father, Dennis Pearman, served as best man. Groomsmen included Joe’s brother Ben Pearman,

his brother-in-law Asa Kirkus, and friend Jon LaMarque. The ceremony was performed by the Rev. Phillip Leistner, and piano and vocals were provided by Scott Dyess.

After a simple and spiritual wedding, guests dined on beef, chicken supreme, mashed potatoes, green beans and macaroni and cheese, all provided by A Catered Affair. The outdoor tables were covered first in burlap and then with off-white linen, and were adorned with centerpieces of flowers in wood boxes. Reception flowers and decorations matched the pink and yellow rose as well as the daisies used in the ceremony. String lights were hung all around the reception area as guests enjoyed music from DJ Jamie Thompson. Josh Moates was on hand as photographer to capture the ceremony, reception, couple and guests making memories. Evan G. Cooper of Evan & Co. was the wedding director and did all floral arrangements.

Joe and Katie are both currently students at Auburn University Montgomery, and they reside in Millbrook. Following their wedding, the couple spent their honeymoon at the Garonga Safari Camp, a South African Safari.

PHOTOGRAPHY BY KIMBOX PHOTOGRAPHY

Till-Pearman Wedding June 15, 2013

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Lauren Dean Lane and Michael Bradford Bannon were married on November 23, 2013 in a ceremony at Lane Brothers Farm in Fitzpatrick, Ala. The bride and

groom said their vows under the shade of sprawling pecan trees and later danced the night away in a family barn that was transformed for the event. Lauren is the daughter of the late Thomas Ellis Lane Jr. and Mrs. Dawn Lane of Fitzpatrick. Brad is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Michael Bannon of Wetumpka, Ala.

Lauren wore a custom Olia Zavozia fit-and-flare gown with delicate flowers and a light blue silk belt. She also wore her mother’s hand-made necklace that held her father’s wedding band close to her heart. The bride’s bouquet was an arrangement of off white flowers with light blue accents and

natural greenery. Her mother, Mrs. Dawn Lane, served as her matron of honor while sister Mrs. Courtney Rottgering also stood alongside Lauren in a Tadashi Shoji gown. Family friends Janie Bess Caton, Parker, Gracie, and Ann Elton Pate all served as Lauren’s flower girls. Brad’s father, Mr. Mike Bannon, served as his best man while Mr. Rob Bannon was a groomsman.

Lauren and Brad spent an intimate evening surrounded by family and friends in the sentimental location. The two honeymooned in Montego Bay, Jamaica and currently reside in Pike Road, Ala.

The bride and groom would like to thank their family, friends, and most importantly, God, for making this union possible.

PHOTOGRAPHY BY HIGH 5 PRODUCTIONS

Lane- Bannon WeddingNovember 23, 2013

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PHOTOGRAPHY BY DARREN FREEMAN

Sanderson-Garrett Wedding

The marriage of Stephanie Denise Sanderson of Ramer, Ala., and Trevor Lamar Garrett of Talladega, Ala., took place on May 25, 2013, at the Renaissance

Montgomery Hotel and Spa at the Convention Center. The Rev. Randall McCain performed the ceremony, which reflected an outdoor garden theme. Stephanie is the daughter of the late Wallace Sanderson and Malissa Sanderson, and Trevor is the son of the late Charles Garrett and Ruth Williams.

The bride wore a strapless, A-line, pearl -rose gown by Maggie Sottero. Stephanie carried a cascade bouquet made with mother-of-pearl roses, stargazer lilies and orchids. Her bridesmaids all wore full-length, clover-colored strapless dresses designed by Bill Levkoff. Ami Kothari, the bride’s best friend, served as the maid of honor. Other bridesmaids included Monica Arrington, Sierra Garrett and Jennifer Turner. Stephanie was escorted down the aisle of the atrium at the Montgomery Performing Arts Center by her uncle, Lonnie Urquhart. The music for the ceremony was provided by The Dresden Duo, Derek and Melanie Handy.

Trevor and his groomsmen all wore classic, cutaway, grey Calvin Klein tuxedos. The groom’s uncle, Lamont Collins, served as his best man. Trevor Garrett, Jr., Kevin Harris and Sebastian Ingram were also groomsmen. Gianni Garrett and Karl Roberts were ushers for the ceremony.

Following the ceremony was a reception held in several of the Renaissance’s ballrooms with music provided by DJ at Large. Both the cocktail hour and reception were catered by the Renaissance Hotel & Spa. The wedding cake, provided by Cake Designs, was an elegant, four-tiered cake with layers of strawberry, vanilla, and Italian crème adorned with pearls and pink roses made from icing, along with green ribbon. Hostesses for the event included Mary Card-Mina, Sharon Gray, Nicole Jackson, Fansu Ku, and May Nicholson. Flowers for both the ceremony and reception were arranged by Flowers by Rhonda. Darren Freeman Photography captured the events on both camera and video, and Curley Sankey was the wedding’s coordinator. Stephanie and Trevor followed their wedding with a honeymoon in Hilton Head, S.C.

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On October 5, 2013, Kristen Lynn Raines and Clifford Warren Davis, Jr. were united in marriage in an outdoor ceremony on the roof of the Alley Station in

Montgomery, Ala. The ceremony was performed by the Rev. Jonathan Duke. Kristen is the daughter of Joey and Melissa Raines of Georgiana, Ala. Cliff is the son of Cliff Davis and Jan Davis of Prattville, Ala.

Kristen wore a fitted, sleeveless bridal gown designed by Maggie Sottero with lace and beading embellishments. Doug’s 2 Salon of Montgomery created the up-do for her hair, and her makeup was applied by Lush Makeup. The bride’s bouquet contained an elegant mix of all white hydrangeas, roses and lilies. Kristen’s sister, Amanda Duke, served as maid of honor. Other bridesmaids included sister Josie Raines and friend Renae Renahan. Both the bride’s gown and those of her bridesmaids came from Bella Boutique in Hoover, Ala. The bride’s nieces, Zoie and Bella Cramer, served as flower girls.

Cliff and his groomsmen all wore tuxedos. His father served

as best man, while friend Joel Lusk and brother-in-law Robert Jones were groomsmen. Nephews Aiden Cramer and Jace Jones were the groom’s ring bearers.

Following the ceremony was a reception downstairs in the Alley Station ballroom, where guests enjoyed music provided by DJ Robby Morrow. The decorations and flowers for the reception followed the same color palette of pale pink, white and tan that was used for the ceremony. All food and drink was catered by The King’s Table, including a simple but elegant three-tiered cake with bows. Jonathan Kohn photographed both the ceremony and reception, and Matt Wolfe captured the day on video. Carrie Clark was the wedding’s director and chose the décor.

Following a week-long honeymoon in Punta Cana, Dominican Republic, Mr. and Mrs. Cliff Davis, Jr. now reside in Wetumpka.

PHOTOGRAPHY BY JON KOHN

Raines- Davis WeddingOctober 5, 2013

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On June 15, 2013, Jessica Nicole Evans walked down Ligon Chapel’s aisle of Huntingdon College to meet her fiance, Thomas Nelson Collier, to unite in

matrimony. The Reverend Gary V. Mohney of Lighthouse Church, a longtime family friend of the bride’s, conducted the traditional ceremony in which the couple tied the knot in front of 350 guests.

Jessica looked stunning in a traditional ball gown as she met Thomas at the altar. The gown was beautifully accented with beading and stoning that flowed through the train. Jessica topped off the look with an exquisite, twelve-foot tulle veil that was custom made in Europe.

To support her on this special day, Jessica had a wedding party of ten, which included her Maid of Honor, Andrea Watson and her Matron of Honor, Kayla Franklin. All bridesmaids wore a floor-length, coral chiffon dress with a diamond necklace and hoop earrings to accent their strapless sweetheart necklines. Thomas had both his father and brother, Kenneth and Edward Collier, serve as his best men in addition to eight other groomsmen. Each groomsman looked ravishing in bone-

colored suits with coral ties to match the bridesmaids’ dresses.

After a kiss to seal the deal, the newlyweds and their guests headed over to the R.S.A. Activity Center, where everyone danced the night away while enjoying a signature cocktail, The Collier Cocktail. Guests enjoyed a piece of the five-tiered white cake with decorative coral roses while the Four Barrel Funk band provided great dancing music in celebration of this perfect union.

At the end of the night, Jessica and Thomas waved goodbye to their guests as they rode away in a beautiful horse drawn carriage. To begin their lives together, the couple spent their honeymoon relaxing on the beaches of Costa Rica.

Special thanks to Mary Sanders of Mary Me Brides, Southern Wedding Design for floral designs, Johnny Sullivan of Montgomery Catering, Cake Designs for the cake, Hannah Morris of Spa Elia for makeup, Greg Sizemore of Greg’s as hair stylist, David Robertson’s Photography for photography, and Charlotte’s Jewelry for providing all jewelry.

PHOTOGRAPHY BY DAVID ROBERTSON

Evans-Collier WeddingJune 15, 2013

Evans-Collier Wedding

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Dress (after purchasing, be sure to schedule alterations with plenty of time left)

Shoes, jewelry and undergarments

Garters (yes, you need two—one to keep and one to throw)

Sixpence (for good luck!)

Something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue

Schedule salon appointments for nails, eyebrows, etc.

Pick out and order groom’s ring

Determine bridesmaids attire, and make sure they order everything in time

Purchase gifts for bridesmaids (to be given at bridesmaids luncheon or rehearsal dinner)

Purchase honeymoon attire and wedding dress undergarments

Send out an itinerary to the entire wedding party highlighting the weekend’s events (including luncheons, where to be and what time, etc.)

Purchase or arrange a rental of wedding attire (suit or tux, tie, shoes, etc.) Determine attire for groomsmen, and make sure they order in time. Order bride’s wedding band—also be sure insurance is covered for both of your rings (the Caribbean is full of newlywed bling!) Purchase groomsmen gifts (to be given at rehearsal dinner)

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Ceremony Needs:Guest book (You will need to order this before your showers so you can include pages for guests at showers. Also, be sure to order extra pages if necessary)

Reserve minister/officiant - Schedule a meeting with him before wedding to discuss ceremony and any special things that must be done - Also, book any pre-marital counseling (if doing)

Reserve ceremony musicians (pianist, organist, violinist, soloist, etc.)

Determine ceremony music and order of service

Determine and order ceremony programs

Reception Needs:Cake knives (one for yours and his)

Goblets or toasting flutes (be sure to get a bottle of champagne or sparkling grape juice to toast with)

Guest gifts (optional but can be anything from personalized cups, koozies or candy bars)

If having a formal seated dinner, be sure to include seating arrangements and place cards

For Mom (MOB)and Dad (FOB):Pick dress for mom and suit/tux for dad.

Pick shoes

Gift or sweet letter thanking for a wonderful day

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See if your caterer can pack you a picnic basket of things from your reception to take with you after the wedding (My husband and I definitely enjoyed this since we were not too worried about eating at our reception!)

Photographer:Book photographer

Schedule engagement pictures if doing

Schedule bridal portrait date if doing (set this around 1-2 months from wedding)

-Remember to let your florist know so she can have a bouquet for you-Schedule hair and makeup artist -Remember to have all jewelry and shoes at this point for the shoot-I suggest bringing a white sheet so your dress does not get dirty when you stand and so you can wrap the bottom of your dress in it when moving from location to location

If wanting specific pictures on your wedding day, be sure to give your photographer a list of photo “must-haves” with certain family members and friends

Videographer:Book videographer

Make sure you give him/her a list also if wanting specifics—it is also great to ask if he/she can get the guests involved by asking them to share a special time they had with the couple or even just a simple congrats! You will love watching it over and over re-living your special day!

Flowers:Determine colors, style and who is handling your flowers

Sit down with florist and determine ceremony and reception décor (including centerpieces, altar, aisle markers, runner, bouquets, boutonnieres, corsages, etc.)

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Entertainment:Book band, DJ, acoustic musician, etc. for reception

-After booking, make sure you have all information in the contract including set-up time, break-down time, length of play, break music, equipment and be sure they include the number of band members included because their rates may change year-to-year (you need to get exactly what you are contracted to pay for)

Find out what equipment the entertainment is responsible for and what you are responsible for (i.e. speakers, lighting, microphones, etc.)

Determine wattage and amperage needed to make sure your venue can handle it (if it is an outdoor reception, you may have to rent a generator for power)

Compile a list of ‘must play’ songs and ‘do not play’ songs

Send the band your introduction (Mr. and Mrs. …), first dance song, bride/father dance, groom/mother dance, garter toss and bouquet toss songs

Cakes:Determine bride’s cake and groom’s cake (feel free to do what you want! Anything goes nowadays!)

Rentals: Depending on the venue and what is included, you may have to rent a good number of items (tables, chairs, linens, tents, draping, chandeliers, dance floor, staging, lighting, cooling units, heaters, etc.). Remember, unless you are having a full seated dinner, a chair is not necessary for each guest at the reception.

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Specialty Lighting:Book lighting company if using

Determine if you want up-lighting, monogram lighting, gobos, spotlighting, etc.

As with the entertainment, make sure the venue has enough amperage to handle your lighting—if not, you may have to rent a generator

Hair/Make-up Artists:Schedule hair and make-up artist if using for wedding and bridal portrait (your bridal portrait is a great trial session, so it is important to have them scheduled then so you figure out exactly how you want your hair and make-up done for the wedding)

Ask about doing hair and make-up for your bridal party so you can give them an option to have theirs done as well

Finding pictures of hair and makeup that you like is a great way to show exactly what you want

Invitations:Compile addresses onto an excel spreadsheet

Be sure to get formal names and visit Peggy Post’s website for etiquette on addressing if doing it yourself

If interested in hiring a calligrapher, make sure you ask the cost of inner and outer envelope addressing as well as the return address

Be sure to ask invitation designer/company the weight of the invitation and if extra postage will be needed

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Lush, p. 76334.315.2863lushmakeupart.com

Martha’s Place, p. 42334-356-7165marthasplace-montgomery-al.com

Marquirette’s, p. 3334.270.0074marquirettes.com

Mary Me, p. 25334.391.7427marymebrides.com

Massage Envy, p. 8334.272.8787massageenvy.com

Montgomery Catering, p. 6334.269.0222montgomery-catering.com

Montgomery Museum of Fine Arts, p. 85334.240.4333mmfa.org

Peppertree Steaks N’ Wines, p. 54334.271.6328steaksnwines.com

Riverfront Facilities, p. 56334.625.2100funontheriver.net

Rocky Mount, p. 18334.285.0490rockymountbb.com

Russell Lands/Springhouse, p. 11256.329.0835russelllandsonlakemartin.com

SkyCruise Balloon Flights, p. 55850.210.2908skycruiseballoonflights.net

Southern Posies, p. 74334.391.3651

The Chapel at The Waters, p. 83334.272.3200thewatersal.com

The Elms, p. 79334.285.3567elmevents.com

TRUE, p. 27334.356.3814truemontgomery.com

Two Hawks- Videography, p. 81twohawksproduction.com

Ware Jewelers, p. 88334.386.9273warejewelers.com

William Mason Salon, p. 85334.285.7200williammasonsalon.net

Peppertree Steaks N’ Wines, p. 54334.271.6328steaksnwines.com

Riverfront Facilities, p. 56334.625.2100funontheriver.net

Rocky Mount, p. 18334.285.0490rockymountbb.com

Russell Lands/Springhouse, p. 11256.329.0835russelllandsonlakemartin.com

SkyCruise Balloon Flights, p. 55850.210.2908skycruiseballoonflights.net

Southern Posies, p. 74334.391.3651

The Chapel at The Waters, p. 83334.272.3200thewatersal.com

The Elms, p. 79334.285.3567elmevents.com

TRUE, p. 27334.356.3814truemontgomery.com

Two Hawks- Videography, p. 81twohawksproduction.com

Ware Jewelers, p. 88334.386.9273warejewelers.com

William Mason Salon, p. 85334.285.7200williammasonsalon.net

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