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Lesley University's student feminist organization Third Wave's second zine, originally published in 2015.
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Third Wave is a student-run undergraduate feminist
organization at Lesley University in Cambridge, MA. Our goal
is to create a safe space to discuss women’s rights and gender
related issues with an intersectional perspective. We work to
raise awareness, promote activism and sponsor feminist related
events on campus.
This zine is dedicated to all those who struggle
with maintaining a positive body image. You are not alone.
Be kind to yourself.
Editor’s Note:
I’m so glad we were able to create a second issue! Our first zine
was titled “Why are you a feminist?” For this collection, we
wanted to focus on something more specific: body positivity.
Body positivity can mean a lot of different things to different
people, and I hope our content reflects that diversity of
perspectives.
I want to thank everyone who submitted content for this zine, it
is only because of the community that we could create this
anthology. I also want to thank the other officers of Third
Wave; Kimm Topping, Patrick Bradley and Lindsay Theirl
(now an alumni).
Please enjoy!
Karen Briggs
If you struggled with any of the issues presented in this zine,
know that the Lesley University Women’s Center provides
resources for anyone faced with body image issues and is open
to people of all genders.
The National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) also
provides free online resources for dealing with poor body image
at www.nationaleatingdisorders.com.
Thank you to all contributors:
Sarah Robinson
Tracy Huerta
Taylor Dean
Masada Jones
Emma Benard
Shanece Edwards
Caroline Keeler
Elyse Gilbert
Rebecca Meyers
Monica Pereira
Jenna Desmond
Claudia Smith
Check out Third Wave online!
www.facebook.com/lesley.thirdwave
www.lesleythirdwave.tumblr.com
Or email us at [email protected]
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Sarah Robinson Sarah Robinson
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Tracy Huerta
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“Jump”
by Emma Benard
I made this portrait my freshman year at Lesley. We had to convey a
certain emotion in our portrait. I chose to convey insecurity and self-
consciousness. In the portrait I'm covering my face. I've always been
very self conscious of my appearance. Behind me, however, are zippers.
In these zippers are pearls and gems, which symbolize the beauty that I
have not just on the outside, but the inside as well. I really love this
piece because it really reminds me that I need to love myself and my
body and that I shouldn't need to hide it!
Jenna Desmond
My Worth
by Masada Jones
So I’ve finally discovered that I am worth more
Now I smile more often that is
I give birth to poetry
Write words to define me
Who I really am
Mind set is so much more different from if he wants to be with me
Than that means I must be pretty
Now I know I am beautiful
A wise woman once told I was beautiful
I quickly made it into a joke not knowing how to take a compliment…
Since all my dudes had told me I was cute with a big but
Didn’t know my worth
So I thought I was cute with a big butt
Always wanted show my butt
But now I show my mind
I walk head to the sky lips to microphone and hands on hips
I’ve had way too many people look and judge me please dare to be different
from them
I want to share with you the most precious possession I own…
My mind
I now own me
Not easily influenced by those that want to keep me down
Now two-step on clouds kiss the sun in the morning and at night sing the
moon a lullaby
Before I leave for school I smother God with hugs
I am a goddess
At one time you used strings to tame me
Was naïve so I let you play me
You were not prepared for me to break free
I am not your zombie
I am very much alive
Nefertiti the beautiful queen of Egypt gave me cpr
With each compression she whispered fight it sister
You’ve got to fight it I refuse to lose another one
So I did
Awoke and snipped each string that was once pulled by them
You no longer own me
Threw away my magazines and no longer watch TV
You cannot make me kill myself in my own mind because I don’t look like
them
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Taylor Dean
Sick of hearing you’d be beautiful if you were skinny
You have a pretty face
If only you were a few shades lighter
I am beautiful
Media who do you think you are
Hypnotizing these men to the point where they don’t even know what they
want anymore
Wanting girls that look like video vixens
The way you talk to us it’s now so condescending
You were never like that in grade school
I know your mother she was my babysitter
She definitely taught you better
Guess the way misogynist use their words are more clever
You want to be just like them
We seem to forget that we both came from Adam
Adam now comes from me
Needed you to be
You need me to leave your legacy
But I digress
I once screamed inside my skin
Was dying inside
Can’t say I haven’t contemplated it
Not suicide
But using bleach peroxides, dyes, and lye
Broke through
Fell in love with the freedom of my afro and the uncontrolled sway of my
hips
I am Me
Media do something else to jeopardize my image
I dare you
I will scream as if it is the last words my voice will ever utter
I AM BEAUTIFUL
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“Beautiful Feet”
by Emma Benard
To my stomach,
I’m sorry for despising you every single day.
I’m sorry I blame you for my loneliness. I blame you when I’m
upset and feel rejected.
I’m sorry for thinking that you don’t deserve love or praise. I know
that isn’t fair.
It’s not your fault. You didn’t do anything wrong. You are not
wrong or bad.
When I criticize you, it’s really because I feel lonely or unloved.
When things aren’t going well or I feel upset, I take it out on you.
I’m so sorry.
I’m so sorry for hating you. I don’t want to anymore.
To my body,
I’m sorry for all the harmful things I have said and done to you.
I’m sorry for the negativity I throw at you in the mirror every day.
I’m sorry for blaming you and hiding you and hurting you for so
long.
I’ve been hurting for so long.
I’ve hated you for too long.
I don’t want to anymore.
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Here's to no longer pinching the soft spots of your torso and wishing your
very own flesh away. Here's to no longer folding yourself in half so that no
one notices how much space your body takes up. Here's to letting your body
exist.
Here's to thanking your body, for every place it has brought you to, every
hand it has let you hold, every object it has let you carry, every other body it
has let you embrace. Here's to thanking your body for the viruses it has
fought off for you, the sore throats and nauseous stomachs it has cured.
Here's to thanking your body for the grace in which it has let you live.
It asks you for nutrients. For food, for exercise, for clean air. But it needs
love, and to be loved well: the kind of love that is bigger than just
appreciating yourself on good hair days. It needs deeply-rooted, fire-hot,
laugh-at-your-own-jokes love.
That can be life saving.
You have a grand and beating heart that gives you your days, strength and
muscles that help you to live your life fully, and a mouth and nose and ears
that help you to grasp the essence of this world entirely thanks to the body
you live in. You have a body that is capable. A body that is powerful. A
body that gives so much to you and requires little but love from you in
return.
Numbers on the scale, vocabulary like "fat" and "too much", avoiding the
dressing room, having a cheese stick for lunch, negative self-talk: rid it all.
Body positivity is rejecting that hate. It is rejecting the passing of judgment
of strangers' bodies. It is rejecting the passing of judgment of the health and
lifestyle of another body. It is rejecting the passing of judgment of bodies
that cannot walk, bodies that cannot talk, bodies that cannot function in the
same way yours can. It is celebrating the way that all bodies function.
It is embracing love and care and proper treatment of the self.
Claudia Smith
An Apology Letter to My Body
by Rebecca Meyers
To my skin,
I’m sorry for being embarrassed by you.
I’m sorry for cursing your zits and pimples and complexion.
When I treat you this way, what I really mean is that I’m insecure,
and afraid of people seeing my flaws so clearly.
I’m sorry for hating you. I don’t want to anymore.
To my hair,
I’m sorry I get angry with you.
I’m sorry for being so frustrated and disappointed by you.
It’s not about you. I’m really just scared of being scrutinized and
disliked, and so I blame you.
I’m sorry for hating you. I don’t want to anymore.
To my thighs,
I’m sorry for being ashamed of you.
I’m sorry for putting so much pressure on you, and for staring at
you with disapproval.
I’m sorry I haven’t been kind to you. You don’t deserve that.
When I judge you, it’s really a reflection of my vulnerabilities and
fears.
When I want to hide you and shrink you, it’s because I feel
vulnerable and fear judgment from others.
I haven’t been fair to you.
I’m sorry for hating you. I don’t want to anymore.
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Lineage
by Caroline Keeler
I'll never achieve a figure
of bones and angles.
I come from people of flesh,
mothers of meat and marrow--
guardians of the kitchen,
pushers of sustenance.
My people were resourceful,
never hungry-- always proud
of the stock, the butter and bread
that would expand bellies and
inspire a season of gratitude.
Images of my ancestors lend belonging
to me, now, in a new world;
rounded shoulders, soft bodies.
A composed intensity
behind their knitted brows--
I know where I come from in this way;
the story of my nose, sharp chin,
skin-- loose and stretched
from their generosity.
They fed me long before
my arrival into body--
form that I would end up
resenting for its history,
its life-giving life.
Imagine me starving
long after their bounty,
as if I come from nothing!
See, pride has been redefined--
so I watch, helpless,
as the fruits of their labor
hang uneaten-- begging me
to take a bite, to feast
on what they've prepared
in spite of famine.
I wish to conceal the growth,
hide the rotting remnants
of their legacy, for I--
I have let it waste away.
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Elyse Gilbert
Body positivity to me is being comfortable in the temple that is your body and knowing that there will be moments where we do not feel at our best, but that too should be embraced. We compare ourselves to others and are too consumed in observing what we lack in, so much so that we miss out on what we excel in. When we stop comparing ourselves to others and start realizing how unique each of us is we will know that there is no comparison.
Shanece Edwards