Dear Residents:

The Chapel Hill Golf Tournament…September 12th! To get your tickets, see Paul, or call Pat or John T. Make out checks

(accepted through September 10th) to "Chapel Hill Golf". It’s $120.00 per player. Also send in checks for Golf Tourna-

ment Signs at $50.00 each. New signs are welcome and must be requested by August 15th. The Winery Trip for Octo-

ber 9th has 44 people already paid up for the bus. There’s room for another 8 people, so please see Paul.

With children’s activities in mind, we will host 4 weeks of free soccer sessions running from Satur-

day, September 17th through Saturday, October 8th at 1:00 PM.

UPDATE ON CHAPEL HILL BOCCE BALL LEAGUE (CHBBL) from Pat Duffy Our third season is well underway with much improved play and a few surprises. In the Chapel Division, NYBD sits on top with a 9-1 record. Sausage is undefeated at 6-0 and is in second place – they have a few games to make up. In third place is The Milkman & His Mrs. – Maria has been car-rying the team. In The Hill Division, the surprise team of the League, The Ks, remain on top with an undefeated record of 9-0. Both Joe and Rich are new to Chapel Hill and bocce but some people are starting to question the second part. They have become the team to beat! Semper Fi has been the most improved team this year and are in second place at 7-4. Ginny has had FOUR four bag-gers this season – remarkable play. The Holly Rollers are in third at 6-4.

NOTE TO ALL LEAGUE MEMBERS – save the date, Saturday, Sept. 17, 2016 for our third annual all day single elimination Tournament. Let’s continue to roll!

P.S.: A sincere Thank You to The Master Board for having all the furniture, and the wood at the bocce court power washed and stained. In addition, thanks to Jerry Miller and Rod Edwards for hooking up the lights for “night bocce”.

Issue 160 August, 2016

Call us at 914-788-1057 E-mail us at

lifestylecenter@verizon.net

UP FRONT WITH PAUL WILSON

LIFESTYLE CENTER

Board Updates 2

Movie Night 2

Golf Outing 3

Pool Party 3

Calendar 4

Inside this issue:

LifeStyle Hours

Weekdays

6:00 AM to 11:00 AM

&

3:00 PM to 10:00 PM

Weekends & Holidays

8:00 AM to 6:00 PM

Pool Hours

10:00 AM to 8:00 PM

Open Daily through

Labor Day

The Difference Between

Sex And Love For Men

It’s about our core

emotions

By Hillary Jacobs

Huffington Post

As a psychotherapist who special-

izes in emotions, I have come to

realize that some men channel

their need for love, intimacy,

soothing, care, and comfort into

sexual desire.

Here are some examples:

Dylan wants sex when he feels sad

because he likes the comfort the

physical holding provides. Dylan,

like most people, wants to be held

when he is sad. In fact, the need to

be held when we feel sad is bio-

logically programmed into our

brains.

Jonathan wants sex when he’s

lonely. He believes it is weak to let

someone know that he’s lonely

and wants company. Alternatively,

he thinks it is acceptable to find

and ask for sex, which satisfies his

need for human connection.

You can pick up the full article

at the Lifestyle Center or go to

our website and look under

Publications.

Visit the Chapel Hill website at: www.chapel-hill-westchester.com

Three other ways to

receive the newsletter:

1. By Email:

chhoa@chapel-hill-

westchester.com

2. By going to the

website:

www.chapel-hill-

westchester.com

and downloading

it

3. By visiting the

LifeStyle Center

and picking up a

copy at the desk

“I’ve gone into hundreds of [fortune-teller's parlors], and have been told thousands of things, but

nobody ever told me I was a policewoman getting ready to arrest her.” —New York City detective

Cooking Club

Wednesday, September 14th at 6:30 PM

The Cooking Club is taking a break for

the months of July and August . The

Cooking Club will meet again on

Wednesday, September 14th at 6:30

PM.

Please bring an appetizer or dessert to

share and your beverage of choice. At

this meeting, cooking activities will be

planned for the upcoming months.

Newcomers are always welcome.

Movie Night “Joy” (PG 13) Friday, August 12th at 7:00 PM An American biographical comedy-drama film, written and directed by David O. Russell and starring Jenni-fer Lawrence as Joy Mangano, a self-made millionaire who created her own business empire. Mangano was a di-vorced mother with three children in the early 1990s when she invented the Miracle Mop and became an over-night success, after which

she patented many other products, often selling on the Home Shopping

Network and QVC.

One Liners (great one liners.com)

If at first you don’t succeed, try man-

agement.

A politician is a fellow who will lay

down your life for his country.

Behind every successful man is a sur-

prised woman.

One of the quickest ways to meet new people is to pick up the wrong ball on

a golf course.

P A G E 2

Drop-In-Knitting

During August

Mah Jongg

Thursdays at 3:00 PM

Drop-in-Bridge

Tuesdays

at 7:00 PM

Bridge

Fridays at 3:00 PM

Poker Card Games

Tuesdays at 7:30 PM

Chess

Saturdays at 10:00 AM

Culinary Club

Resumes in September

Movie Night

2nd Friday of the month

at 7:00 PM

Cooking Club

Resumes in September

Coffee & Conversation

1st Monday of the month

at 3:00 PM

Canasta

Mondays at 9:00 AM

Book Club

1st Wednesday in August

this month at 3:00 PM

L I F E S T Y L E C E N T E R

Events and Activities Monday, August 1st, 3:00 PM Coffee & Conversation

Wednesday, August 3rd, 3:00 PM Book Club “The Kidnapping of Ed-

gardo Mortara” by David Kertzer

Friday, August 12th, 7:00 PM Movie Night “Joy”

Monday, September 5th, Noon Pool Party

Monday, September 12th, 8:00 AM Annual Chapel Hill Golf Outing

Wednesday, September 14th, 6:30 PM Cooking Club

Saturday, September 17th, 9:00 AM Bocce Tournament

Wednesday, September 21st , 6:30 PM Culinary Club

Sunday, October 9th, 10:45 AM Annual Winery Trip

Master Board Updates:

Projects:

THE NATURE TRAIL BETWEEN HILLSIDE AND CHAPEL HILL DRIVE WAS COVERED

WITH LAYERS OF WOOD CHIPS IN JULY. ALSO, IN JULY, THE NATURE TRAIL BE-

TWEEN ROMA ORCHARD DRIVE AND MAPLE AVENUE WAS COVERED WITH WOOD

CHIPS. THE CHILDREN’S PLAYGROUND WAS COVERED WITH TEN YARDS OF PLAY-

GROUND MULCH. THIS WORK GIVES THE PLAYGROUND MORE CUSHION AND IS

SAFER FOR THE CHILDREN TO PLAY IN.

Health and Safety Notes:

THE WESTCHESTER COUNTY DEPARTMENT OF HEALTH VISITED BOTH OUR POOLS

IN JULY. THEY COMPLETED THE USUAL RIGOROUS INSPECTION. THANKS TO OUR

LIFEGUARDS AND THEIR DILIGENCE IN TAKING THREE TIMES THE AMOUNT OF

REQUIRED CHEMICAL READINGS DAILY, WE WERE GIVEN A CLEAN BILL OF

HEALTH.

Pool Notices:

PLEASE BE CONSIDERATE OF YOUR NEIGHBORS AT THE POOL. DO NOT LEAVE

YOUR PERSONAL ITEMS ON A CHAIR AND LEAVE THE PREMISES FOR LONG PERI-

ODS OF TIME. THE LIFEGUARD IS INSTRUCTED TO REMOVE THESE ITEMS IF THIS

OCCURS. PLEASE BE SENSITIVE TO THE GUEST POLICY AND ADHERE TO 4 GUESTS

PER UNIT. THE INHERENT IDEA OF THE GUEST PRIVILEGES IS THAT YOU CAN EN-

JOY BRINGING YOUR GUESTS TO THE POOL, BUT NOT AT ANOTHER RESIDENT’S

EXPENSE. THE POOL AND POOL AREA HAVE LIMITED CAPACITIES.

Bocce……………we hope that you have noticed the im-

provements at the court….and as you probably know…

the Golf Committee has donated the money for the light

fixtures and materials that will enhance the use of the

court and bring more people together in the comradery

that presides there.

WINERY ESCAPADE VIII* Sunday, October 9th at 10:45 AM

The expectations for this year’s CHAPEL HILL WINERY

OUTING will be enhanced by viewing the fall landscape

over the grape vines. The bus will leave the Lifestyle Cen-

ter about 11:00 AM (arrive 15 minutes beforehand), re-

turning around 5:00 PM. A signup sheet is placed at the

Lifestyle Center. Bus is $25.00 non-refundable deposit

and must be paid at time of sign up. Space on the bus is

limited to 53 people. Payment for the Winery is made in-

dividually at the winery. The cost for the Wine Tasting,

Dinner, Tax and Gratuity is an additional $59.50 per per-

son…It’s first come, first served....

Annual Halloween Party Saturday, October 29th at 1:30 PM

We expect 50 or more ghosts, princesses, puppies, fire-

men, and ballerinas to come laugh and play and have a

great time together with their moms, dads, and grandpar-

ents. Join the fun and follow the Ghost of Chapel Hill who

will once again lead the Chapel Hill Halloween Parade.

Everyone is welcome to dress up and join the party.

Please sign up by 10/26/16

Chapel Hill Bocce Ball League (CHBBL)

Saturday, September 17th at 9:00 AM

REMINDER TO ALL LEAGUE PLAYERS-we have our

tournament on Saturday, Sept. 17th starting at 9AM. ALL

TEAMS will play and by the end of the day, we will crown

the third Chapel Hill Bocce Ball champions. All people

outside of the league are invited to come and cheer on

your friends and neighbors. Your committee continues to

work on some surprises. Keep rolling!!

Golf Outing*

Monday, September 12th at 8:00 AM

Our Sixth Annual Chapel Hill Golf Tournament will

take place at the Beekman Country Club. Our tour-

nament is for everyone – ladies and gentlemen –

beginners, middle of the road, and advanced golf-

ers. It is a Scramble Best Ball format, so the good,

the bad and the ugly will take place on the course.

Cost per golfer will be $120.00, our first increase

since inception, but we will have a full eighteen hole

Shot Gun Start. You can also purchase a Hole

Sponsorship (business or personal) for the same

low price of $50. The full eighteen hole Shot Gun

Start will be at 10:00 AM and we will be having The

Putting Contest again this year prior to the start

time. As we did last year, the winner of the Putting

Contest will have a chance of winning $5,000 by

sinking a 50ft putt. The Awards Dinner will start at

approximately 4:00 PM at our Lifestyle Center. Cost

for only the dinner remains at $40.00. Our Commit-

tee continues to work on a few surprises. Sign up

sheet and payments, payable to Chapel Hill Golf

can be made at the Lifestyle Center. You can also

go to our website at www.chapelhillcup.com for

online payments, additional information and up-

dates. Come join your neighbors, friends, and busi-

ness associates for a day of good cheer, good food

and, at times, some good golf.

Culinary Club*

Wednesday, September 21st at 6:30 PM

While we are taking a summer sabbatical…..don’t

think that the Milk Program doesn’t continue to exist

and there is planning going on for the fall……..

Firstly, we hope that all of you are having a wonder-

ful summer. Especially those of you who are playing

Paul Wilson - Lifestyle Director Caitlin Brady - Asst Manager Carolann Blanco - Exercise Instructor

Debbie Martin - Exercise Instructor Michael Eichler - Customer Service CJ Martin - Customer Service

Michael Blanco - Customer Service Nikki Brady—Head Lifeguard Tyler Blanco - Customer Service

Silvia Cabrera - Porter

P A G E 3

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Classes & Instructors

Toning/Medicine Ball - with Paul Wilson

Aerobics/Kick Boxing*/Boot Camp* - with Carolann Blanco Cardio Tone Carolann Blanco Cardio Tone Carolann Blanco Cardio Tone --- with Debbie Martin with Debbie Martin with Debbie Martin

Yoga Yoga Yoga --- with Janice Livingston Zumba* with Janice Livingston Zumba* with Janice Livingston Zumba* --- with Patty Viggiano with Patty Viggiano with Patty Viggiano

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