Afro/Latino Issue 170

Issue 170 5/13/2011

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Oh yes I did. Women aren’t as complex as we make them out to be. They’re not even as complex as THEY think they are. Simply put, women just want to have fun. Ok, Cindy Lauper told us a long time ago….but we obvi-ously weren’t listening. I’m gonna explain some things but

don’t get confused. The answer is always… Find the things that she considers to be fun and de-termine if you qualify. If you find that you don’t pos-sess the thing or things that she considers to be fun, stop pursuing immediately! (Even if she seems inter-ested) Unless you’re looking for a short fling; you must retreat. A man’s problem is that we don’t put into considera-tion that 99% of women don’t know what they want. They are always tweaking their standards without flexibility and we can’t keep up. Ask a woman what she wants in a man and listen carefully. She might say that she wants a little bit of fantasy and a little bit of reality. You know, the best of both worlds. That’s the most common answer. This is also the woman that continues to change her stan-dard of both fantasy and reality after she finds that her last fantasy didn’t work out so well. She can’t even keep up with herself. Her fantasy and reality is based mostly on her current emotional state or her last experience. If she just says things like, honesty, loyalty, respect, blah blah blah…..she’s either lying to you or lying to herself. These are the women that have had one too many cheating men or have heard too many cheating stories. It’s that simple. These are also the women who are most dangerous to a man’s heart. They are at the point where they’re tired of the B.S. and they “think” that they are not willing to deal with the lies and the games anymore. Lol…. Yeah right. The truth is, as long as the “fun” is equal to, or in some cases, just close to the amount of the lies and games that you play…… she ain’t goin’ nowhere. Fun comes in different flavors for different women, so you have to determine what floats her boat. It could be as simple as quality time in the crib w/music and something to sip on, it could be good sex; it could be the material things that you supply for her. It could even be your social status and/or reputation that’s keeping her around. But one thing’s for sure, it ain’t because of your love, your honesty, or your respect, blah blah blah….

Now, don’t get me wrong, this woman appreciates these things, but that’s not what’s going to keep her happy. So don’t count on it. The value of a man loving, respecting, and being loyal to his woman decreases rapidly when the “fun” gauge is low. We tend to make the mistake of believing that, as long as we are loyal, and loving, respectful and honest, she’ll be happy. Wrong! Unfor-tunately, when you are this man, she finds it more difficult to tell you the things that you need to know. She knows she “should” be happy because you are all of the things that matter. But women have a “fun” tank. If her thing is money, for example, it doesn’t matter how good the sex is, how much you cater to her, or how loyal you are, if you’re not buying her things or taking her places, she’ll leave you for the man with the money. Bottom line, she’ll sacrifice the things that matter to fill up her fun tank; even if only for a moment. A woman’s fuel changes from unleaded to diesel and back to unleaded several times in her Life. Make sure you recognize when she’s getting less mileage per gallon. It may be time to change things up a bit. The reason why I say that these are the women that are the most dangerous to your heart is because they lure you into believing that they want a gentleman. They don’t. They want drama. Drama comes in a lot of forms. She’ll leave the gentleman in a heartbeat, and go right back to the guy who plays her…..because he’s more fun. And if she comes back, it’s not because of you; it’s because of her circumstance. So, be prepared for it to happen again if you were foolish enough to take her back. When you hear them say, “All men are dogs” don’t take it personally. They are sewing to-matoes and trying to reap grapes and have the nerve to wonder why things never seem to be sweet enough. If a woman says she wants a man with a good job, good in bed, nice car, and other things that most label “superficial”, she’s ei-ther from Reading…lol or in a phase. This one’s easy. She just hasn’t had her heart broken enough times to become the women I’ve previously described. Eventually, she’ll get tired of chasing the fantasy and come to reality. Then, she’ll either be the “best of both worlds” woman, or she’s had her heart broken so bad that she’s thinks she just wants a gentleman. Lastly, there’s the woman that doesn’t give you details. She’s very general. She’s not giving you any superficial or virtuous qualifications. She understands that love is varied. She just wants a good relationship and she doesn’t know how it’s coming. In her mind, she knows what she likes; but she also knows how Life shows her so many exceptions. So, she doesn’t hang on the de-tails. Regardless of what a woman says she wants, when you’re right for her, that list of preferences won’t matter anyway. She doesn’t even notice you, she sees your soul. She doesn’t even make love to your body; she’s making love to your soul. You see, True Love goes beyond all of the things she could ask for. But if it isn’t that type of love, make sure she’s having fun on a regular basis, at least until you find the one that was meant for you. Soloman

I’ve done the impossible. I’ve figured women out.

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