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Management of Grief
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Ma. Jessica L. Diezmo IV – BS Psychology
Dear HeartTree,
I am Shaila
Bhave, a Hindu
Canadian who loss a
husband and two
sons on a plane
crash. It has been
for months but I still
having trouble
recovering with my
loss. The community thought that I am a very strong
and a calm person in facing the tragedy of my
family but the truth is my strength is due from
taking valium prescription. There were times when I
had a vision of my husband telling me to finish what
we started and heard the voices of my family telling
me that my time has come and that I must be
brave. I really miss my family so much. Can you help
me deal with my grief?
Sincerely,
Sheila
Dear Shaila,
Reading your letter brought up memories of
grief when I lost my loved ones. I understand where
you coming from and I want you to know that we all
grieve in our own way. But you ask for my help and I
am more than willing to help in coping with your
grief. The first step is to feel you grief. I know you
misses them so much but for you to heal is by
admitting the depth of your extreme pain. Next is to
recognize your anger points and learn how to
resolve this destructive emotion. As you mention in
your letter, your community knew you for your
strength following the tragedy. Slowly discontinue
your prescription because you might not even
realize it but you are mad about your loss and you
should not always be calm and controlled with this
kind of feeling. Third release feelings of guilt and
remorse and learn to forgive yourself and others.
Furthermore don't grieve alone; find strength and
support from others. Lastly reach for help & hope
(from within & outside yourself). Remember your
Dear Heart
Ma. Jessica L. Diezmo IV – BS Psychology
family’s vision and voices this allows you to move
forward in your life; go help others and think of
great things to look forward to.
Yours truly,
HeartTree