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    The Spot - November 2

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    Insideures

    en Fishes.......................4

    ok at the popular Italian

    on of the Feast of the

    en Fishes.

    et Eats....6

    holidays are a me to

    lge. Forget your diet

    dive into a slice of cake.

    k the Homes......8

    l interior designer

    eann Kearney shares

    best decorang ps.

    Cocktails......11

    ologists at Bel Posto of

    kensack share recipes for

    r tasest toddies.

    tlight............14

    a peek inside Bel Posto

    taste the avors of

    ence come alive.

    day Flowers......19

    Kosakowski, resident

    st at OSheas Florist in

    brouck Heights,

    es his experse.

    ply Charming..20

    sics to trendy, jewelry

    ys makes the perfect

    day gi.

    mory Lane..24

    a break from the hustle-

    le and create some

    mories.

    Welcome to the inaugural issue of The Spot, a lifestyle magazine

    published by The County Seatnewspaper of Hackensack. This new

    publication will bring our loyal readers the latest in dining, entertainment,

    shopping and health.

    The Spots rst cover is graced by the legendary Phil Simms, a New York

    Giants icon. Phil is very involved in the launch of one of the most exciting

    ventures to come to Bergen County the HackensackUMC Fitness &

    Wellness Powered by the Giants. The facility is now under construction on

    Route 17 in Maywood and promises to bring the best in nutrition and health

    to our area. In addition to state-of-the-art equipment, the center will have

    group exercise classes, personal training and medical care facilities.

    Inside The Spot, you will nd a feature on the latest jewelry trends for the

    holiday season. From classic Tiffanys pieces to the exotic tanzanite, theres

    certainly something for everyone.

    For those who love to decorate, we have gathered advice from local

    experts on how to select owers, host a party and prepare your home for all

    the special occasions to come.

    In this issue, we have spotlighted one of the most creative restaurants to

    recently open its doors in Bergen County Bel Posto of Hackensack. Chef

    Paolo Nozzoli, a native of Florence, brings the authentic avors of Italiato

    Prospect Avenue complete with a gourmet salumeria and a curated list of

    wines.

    Our advertising department has done a magnicent job in presenting a

    wide selection of whats best in Bergen County, from restaurants to bakeries,

    medical ofces to real estate rms.

    Our goal is to make The Spotyour go-to guide for whats new, whats

    good and whats exciting in North Jersey. The Spot is where its at!

    Lauren Zisa

    Editor in Chief

    The Spot - November 20The Spot - November 2013

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    Hatcher

    Graphic Designer

    Linda Lemos

    Sales Managers

    Karen Burke

    Avis LoVecchio

    Contributors

    Barbara J. Gooding

    Joy Belgiovine

    Roseann Kearney

    THE SPOT

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    The County Seat, 77 Hudson Street, Hackensack, NJ 07601

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    grew up thinking everyone enjoyed a spread

    of sh dishes on Christmas Eve. In fact, thener was the holiday meal everybody lookedward to most, way more than the pasta andat served on Christmas Day. Later, I learnedt the Feast of the Seven Fishes was strictlytalian thing.

    T

    his tradition and the sh served variesfrom home to home, with some families

    ebrating with seven seafood dishes anders plating more than a dozen differentes.

    My mother-in-law, Vincenza Minervini, anative of Molfetta in the Puglia regiontaly, explained that the Christmas Eve feast

    mmemorates theLa Vigilia di Natale, or thet of the birth of baby Jesus.

    Eating seafood on Christmas Eve dates backto the Roman Catholic practice of refrain-from the consumption of meat or milk prod-s on Wednesdays, Fridays and (in the Latinrch) Saturdays, as well as during Lent andthe eve of specic holy days. As no meat orter could be used on such days, observantholics would instead eat sh, typically friedil.

    The meal often includes seven, eight or evennine specic shes that are consideredditional such as calamari, mussels, clams,

    mp and let of sole. The most famous dishthern Italians are known for is baccala

    ted cod sh), where it is rumored that thedition started.

    I remember my mother soaking the baccalan the bathtub a week before Christmas Eve,

    d Stephen Lo Iacono, chairman, St. Josephsian Feast of Lodi.

    he Feast

    f the Seven Fishes

    Still, it remains unclear when the term Feastof the Seven Fishes was popularized.

    My family actually had a big disagreementover this one Christmas Eve, Lo Iacono re-called. Some thought the seven shes repre-sented the seven sacraments. The other theorywas that it stood for the Seven Days of Cre-ation.

    Others believe that the seven was selectedbecause it is the most repeated number inthe Bible or in honor of the Seven Hills of Rome,which surround the city.

    My mother-in-law focuses less on thenumber of sh used, but rather thenumber of entrees being served. She makessure that there are 13 different plates on the

    table at our Christmas Eve dinner.

    My mother said the 13 plates was symbolicof the 12 apostles and Jesus. Also, the numberis considered good luck in Italian, she said.

    Josey Celtano of Sals Good Eats of Teterborosaid that she Americanized the Italiantradition to suit her familys likes and dislikes.

    We stick with about ve favorite sh dishesnow like linguini with homemade white clamsauce, shrimp oreganata, fruitta di mare(seafood salad), calamari and a at sh, like

    tilapia, she said. Its not like the way mymother used to do it with the eel, smeltz andbaccala.

    While the origins of this time-honoredtradition may be disputed and differentvariations of this traditional meal evolvedthrough the years, one thing is certain thisfeast is all about celebrating family and food.

    oy Belgiovine

    Joy Belgiovine is a writer for The Spot and The County Seat newspaper and a resident of Woodcliff Lake.

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    The Spot - November 20The Spot - November 2013

    Sweet Eatsnet TharpeH

    ome Cook Charlotte Barretts Turtle Cake is

    one decadent dessert. The wonderful avor

    combinations in this one will have you

    cleaning your plate. Be quick when grabbing

    a piece ... itll be gone before y ou know it.

    You Need

    German chocolate or plain chocolate cake mix

    z.) bag caramels

    k butter

    sweetened condensed milk

    ll bag walnuts or pecans (opt.)

    Directions

    Prepare cake mix as directed on box.

    Pour half of the batter into a 9x13 pan and bake for 20

    minutes (temperature based on your cake mix instructions).

    Mix butter and caramels together in small cooker, let

    caramels melt. Then, add sweetened condensed milk and

    stir well. Stir often and do not let burn. Cook and stir this

    for about 1-2 minutes.

    Remove from heat and pour the caramel mixture over rst

    layer of cake. Then pour remaining cake mix batter on top

    of the caramel mixture and spread gently and evenly.

    Bake for about 20-25 minutes or until done.

    Let cool before serving.

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    The Spot - November 20The Spot - November 2013

    y year, I get calls from clients asking me to decorate theirfor Christmas and I happily accept because the holiday is

    cial to me. Christmas is about making magic and creatingries for those we love.my family, the Christmas season has always been usheredhe arrival of Santa Claus at the Macys Thanksgiving DayAfter sitting down to a traditional Thanksgiving dinner

    rkey and all the trimmings, the Christmas decorations come

    n interior designer, I decorate approximately 30 to 40every Christmas season. There is so much to do: Christmas

    mantles, doorways, staircases, tabletops, light fixtures,

    ws and more. Christmas lights, specially-selected ribbons,, glass balls, angels, sparkly branches, wreaths, nativities,and flowers are gathered and selected carefully. Each homehave its own style and personality, like the people who live

    hristmas tree with a simple set of clear sparkling lights isty. However, a cluster of trees together, draped in lights is

    magnificent. Simple, but beautiful! I always say the more ther and this is how I feel about Christmas trees. People think Izy when I suggest multiple trees, but when their homes areete they are glad they listened.en put small trees in childrens rooms so they can bealized. One of my clients has a little girl who begged us toe the family room tree in hot pink. So we gave her a tree ofn. She and I decorate together every year. Hot pink glittery

    mas balls, ribbons, and flowers are beautiful in her room,center of the house. To see the smile on her face and thein her eyes when she decorates her hot pink Christmas tree

    everyone so happy.

    When I decorate staircases, I cover the railings with garlandsof evergreens and inch by inch I then decorate. Sometimes I usedecorative fruits and berries. Gold angels, flowers and ribbons willalso do the trick. Tin soldiers, trains, cars or snowflakes could beused to turn your home into a winter wonderland.

    One of my favorite Christmas trees in my home is a little one Iput in my kitchen. The tree has clear sparkling lights, ornamentsmade by my grandchildren, some red berries, handmade woodentoys and plaid ribbon. On top sits an old rag doll. I love sitting atmy table and talking about each piece that weve collected.

    I have decorated all kinds of trees and homes and I find that themost important element is to make each home special for the folksthat live there. Whether it is a wreath on the door, a rocking horseon a table or a sign on the wall that says Joy to the World, keepit happy and always keep it beautiful!

    Roseann Kearney is a New Jersey-based interior decoratorand designer with more than 35 years of experience. She is also apublished author and public speaker. For more information she can bereached at 201-290-2647 or www.RoseannKearney.com.

    Deck

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    The Spot - November 2The Spot - November 2013

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    New Fashioned1oz Crown Royal

    0.5oz Croc Amareo

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    3 dashes of biers

    Snier glass (straight up

    aer shake)

    Garnish: orange peel in glass

    Toasted Almond Fudge1.5oz chocolate vodka

    0.5oz Amareo

    Splash orange

    Top o with club soda

    High ball glass w/ice

    Topped with chocolate coco

    powder

    Bel Frappe

    1oz Licor 431oz half n half

    Rocks glass (shake with rocks into glass)

    Top o with cinnamon powder and sck

    Hony Mnhn2.5oz of Dewars Honey

    1.5oz of sweet vermouth

    Marni glass

    Garnish: cherry

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    Solaris is located at 61 River Street, Hackensa

    *Recipescourtesyof BelPostoofHackensack

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    Posto, Italian for beau-place, is an ideal dining

    ation for an intimate fam-

    nner or a holiday party in

    ensack. Executive Chef

    Nozzoli, a native of Flor-

    Italy, offers guests an

    ic Tuscan menu featur-

    resh, local farm-to-table

    dients and showcases his

    ars of experience working

    w York City.

    ur philosophy is all about

    ng a beautiful experi-

    said Eric Betley, restau-manager. We cater to our

    ele and offer a unique and

    ying dining experience

    to home.

    menu changes season-

    nd the autumnal equinox

    r menu features an assort-

    of meats and cheeses, as

    s appetizer delights such

    Asparagi alle Uova di

    lia - steamed asparagus

    heese fondue, crispy pro-

    sciutto and sunny-side up quail

    eggs. Entre favorites include

    the risotto, made with creamy

    vialone nano rice, beets, sau-

    sage, red wine, gorgonzola

    cheese and white trufe oil; the

    Osso Buci di Maiale, a milk-

    braised Vermont farms pork

    shank with broccoli and sun-

    dried tomato farotto; and the

    Cacciucco a Tuscan seafood

    soup brimming with lobster,

    crab, mussels, clams, octopus,

    shrimp, white sh and crostino.

    In addition to the Italian din-

    ner menu, Bel Posto offers the

    Sushi World bar, created by

    master sushi-sashimi chef Saito

    of Tokyo Shimbashi, Japan.

    Every Thursday, the sushi bar

    features the Ladies Roll Spe-

    cial from 4 to 10 p.m.

    We truly have something

    for everyone, said Betley. We

    will cater to any type of event

    and accommodate up to 100

    guests in our upstairs party

    room. We will work with our

    clients to customize the menu

    to t their needs and budget.

    Our upscale, yet casual atmo-

    sphere makes it the perfect

    setting for your holiday gath-

    ering. The elegant private

    banquet room also features two

    balconies for guests to enjoy.

    For those looking for a quick

    bite, Bel Posto serves a new

    bar menu which includes Ital-

    ian Spuntini, along with classic

    burgers, hand-crafted pizzas,

    specialty cocktails, beers from

    around the world and wines by

    the glass. The Gourmet Pantry/

    Salumeria is also open daily,

    allowing guests to sample tra-

    ditional deli items in addition

    to Tuscan specialties. Feature d

    fare includes weekly specials,

    paninis, wraps, hot and cold

    sandwiches, sushi to go, fresh

    baked artisan breads, pastries

    and desserts available daily.

    Dine and dance the night

    away on the weekends, with

    live entertainment every Sat-

    urday evening and a DJ or live

    music every other Friday. Hap-

    py Hour is Monday through

    Thursday, from 4 to 6 p.m.

    Sunday brunch is served from

    11 a.m. to 3 p.m. for $24.95

    per person and includes a com-

    plimentary Mimosa or Bellini.

    Bel Posto also hosts many re -

    gional wine and dinner pairing

    events. In November, the wines

    and tastes of Sicily will be fea-

    tured and, in January, the pair-

    ing will focus on Californias

    Napa Valley.

    Bel Posto (formerly The

    Restaurant) is located at 160

    Prospect Ave., Hackensack.

    For more information, call

    201-880-8750 or visit www.

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    Whether you arehaving a few friends over for

    cocktails or the whole family for

    a feast, your oral decorations

    are almost as important as what

    you are serving your guests.

    John Kosakowski, owner of Bill

    OSheas Florist and Gifts in

    Hasbrouck Heights, offers some

    advice for dressing

    up your home for

    the holidays:

    Deck theDoorsBefore your

    guests even step

    foot in your home,

    accent your en-

    trance with a wreath. A

    wreath on the front door is aneasy way to make your home

    appear warm and inviting in-

    side. Kosakowski suggests al-

    ways using fresh orals.

    Think Long TermUse fresh evergreensaround your home. They can

    last a whole month and will

    give off a wonderful holiday

    fragrance, Kosakowski said.

    Try placing a few evergreen

    sprigs in clear vases around the

    house or on the table. Another

    great way to spruce up your set-

    ting is with some colorful leaves

    scattered along the mantle or on

    the table.

    Go Au NaturelTall white birchbranches, berries or pinecones

    create a wonderful and rustic

    holiday feel, Kosakowski said.

    You can easily incorporate

    these elements into your place

    settings or centerpiece. Anoth-er trend when it comes to sea-

    sonal dcor is potpourri. Pot-

    pourri is making a comeback,

    Kosakowski added. Use the

    holiday fragrances around your

    home, along with candles as a

    nice way to add warmth, spice

    and color, especially in the bath-

    room. Hosts tend to

    the bathroom, but

    will go in there throu

    night, Kosakowski e

    Its a WrapDont senguests home empty-h

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    Carla CarusoGlass sculptor-turned-

    ewelry designer Carla

    Caruso is right on point

    his holiday season with

    her Twinkle collection.With lovely vintage styling,

    he Starburst design

    eatures beveled edges to

    create subtle shadows and

    highlights to emphasize the

    starburst. The Shooting

    Star necklace is simple

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    Chloe + IsabelThe perfect accent to the

    classic little black dress

    youve reserved for a

    holiday soiree, Chloe +

    Isabels Forget Me Knot

    sterling pendant features

    a silver knotted bow with

    delicate rope details.

    Feeling less sophisticated

    and itching for some edge?

    Check out the Pav Spike

    Pendant in shiny rhodium

    plating sprinkled with clear

    crystal stones. Chloe +

    Isabel designs are available

    through a Chloe + Isabel

    merchandiser or online at

    www.chloeandisabel.com.

    Stella and DotThings get personal with

    Stella and Dots charms,

    which range from classic

    initials and birthstones to

    angel wings and apples.

    Perfect and affordable for

    gift giving, you can simply

    sport one at a time or layer

    them on to display your

    own personal story around

    your neck. Stella and Dot

    accessories are available

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    The Atlas design, with its classic Roman numerals, continues to evolve, withTiffany refining these symbols of empire with the streamlined contours ofAmerican design. This seamless blend of the new and the legendarycaptures the essence of Tiffany chic, sophisticatedthe premier jewelerof elegant simplicity. The Tiffany Atlas jewelry collection is available at

    Tiffany & Co. locations worldwide and online at www.tiffany.com.

    me to take the weight of the world off your shoulders and say goodbye to chunky statement necklaces.

    it comes to the accessories of today, less is more. So get ready to ring in 2014 with delicate

    ms, ranging from timeless, classic styles to trends tailored to you.

    When it comes to stones, the hottest color for the holidays is royal blue. Tanzanite, one of the rarest

    emstones in the world, features a brilliant blue color infused with violet tones. It is only found at the

    oothills of Mount Kilimanjaro and its estimated that only a decade or so supply is left. Tanzanite

    an only be purchased by retailers from a TanzaniteOne sightholder. Anuja Dangayach, CEO of

    Color Jewels, Inc., the leading supplier of tanzanite jewelry, said that because of the gems rarity

    nd limited supply, it will only be owned by a fortunate few that will be able to pass down this

    oveted heirloom from generation to generation.

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    MEMORY LANEBy Barbara J. Gooding

    Holiday Hustle-BustleAlternatives

    Hustle-bustle means energetic confusion accompanied by excitement, fuss, stress, anticipation and even anxiety.

    ound like the upcoming holiday season? If so, now is the time, before it really begins, to take pause and free

    ourself from over-emphasis.

    Each year, we reminisce of past holidays and plan for those we wish to create but that all seems to take

    the skip out of our steps.Id like to suggest some alternatives to what you normally do and what you think you have to do so

    that you can actually enjoy the holidays and those around you.

    First, take a deep breath. We forget whats really important is spending time with someone you

    love. That easily can be done maybe over a cup of coffee or some hot apple cider or just picking

    up the phone to catch up. Rather than spending time mailing photo-cards or sending e-mails

    to all your friends and family, pick someone special who could use some cheer or just a hug

    and visit him or her. Make a meal and give it to a neighbor in need or bring it to a community

    center. Drop off some food and blankets to your local animal shelter or rescue group.

    Mail some packages of personal items to our troops ghting overseas. Sort through the

    toys your children have outgrown and offer them to charities. For many of us, money

    is tight, so take a turn at making presents or help someone with a house repair or

    difcult chore.

    Get away from the madness of shopping malls and take a walk down Main Street.

    There are so many shops to pop into, holiday music emanating from mounted

    speakers along the way and the chance to catch a few snowakes falling. I can

    remember years back stopping in at Womraths bookstore for a holiday book,

    perhaps getting a charm for my bracelet at Bohrman Jewelers and of course an

    inexpensive something at Woolworths or Grants.

    So step back and think of how you can make this holiday season special by

    taking in the spirit of it and transforming it into the best ever without the

    stress. We can always nd something for which we are grateful. Make it all

    worthwhile for you while bringing joy to others.

    Barbara J. Gooding is a creative and historical writer who resides in Hackensack.

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