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    Share this Several years ago, I had some friends over for dinner. Things weregoing welluntil everyone took their first bite of food. You see, Idecided to fire up the grill and cook some burgers. I went throughthe usually grilling routine. Id grilled dozens of times before. Slapon the meat. Flip a few times. Voila.

    Not really.

    When everyone sunk their teeth into the burgers, blood flowedworse than the time I nearly sliced off my finger. After a fewawkward stares, I realized what happened. In a moment of sheerembarrassment, I got up from my chair and grabbed some deliturkey from the fridge.

    Random question: Why is the person who makes the mistakealways the last one to realize it?

    Anyway, no one at the table even considered trying my straightfrom the meat section burgers. Why? Just one bite of uncookedmeat is toxic to the body and could result in an appointment withMr. John.

    What is true of meat is also true of the church. A few toxicChristians can impact an entire church. So, I want to highlight some toxic Christians in thechurch today. The following Christians describe me at various points in my Christianjourney. Understand something. This post is really about self-reflection. My prayer is thatyou will identify some of these toxic behaviors in your life and, like myself, make somechanges.

    Here are 10 toxic Christians in the church today.

    1.)THE ALWAYS CYNICAL CHRISTIAN

  • Cynicism is toxic (http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2014/05/140528163739.htm).From a general lack of trust towards people to the inability to see good in anything,cynicism has the power to infect every arena of life.

    Many Christians, starting with me, master the art of pointing out the bad from a youngage. For much of my Christian journey, I thought it was my job to find the errors ineverything from sermons to the lives of those around me. I was like a stealth ninja. Myonly job was to make sure every mistake was pointed out. And after finding the errors, myfriends and I would gather for a time of reflection.

    It was really an exercise of self-glorification.

    Heres the problem with cynicism: as long as its your default perspective, you cant be acatalyst for change. Not for the good, at least. And I say perspective because cynicism isall about how you see things. You and I can look at the same person, situation, etc., andsee two different things. Theonly difference is the filter through which we see it.

    If you are a Christian, everything you believe in and look forward to is anchored in hope,and the breath that gives life to hope is optimism. God refused to give up on you becauseof hope. Jesus came to this world because of hope. One day every man and woman wholoves God will live eternally with him because of hope.

    Now, I understand what you might be thinking. There is a difference between cynicism andcritical thinking. Here it is. Cynics look at the worst in every situation, never desiring tomake things better. Critical thinkers recognize the evil and ugly, but always choose tofocus on something redeeming. They always operate out of hope, and they are always inthe trenches trying to make things better.

    To put it another way, cynics focus on what something is. Critical thinkers focus on whatsomething could be.

    The church is desperate for men and women who will choose to focus on the redeemingqualities of the church. After all, God sees the redeeming qualities in us. Even when we areat our worst.

    2.)THE BACK ROW CHRISTIAN

    In college, I sat in the back row of every class. I didnt want the teacher to call on me. Iwanted to spend my time browsing the internet or adjusting my fantasy football roster. Iwasnt interested in the material. To be honest, I only showed up for class because Ithought it would help me at the end of the semester.

    Such is the case with back row Christians. They are mildly interested in God, at best.Being a back row Christian isnt about where you sit in a pew or chair during worship.Some back row Christians are front row worshippers. This is about where God sits inproximity to your life.

  • Most back row Christians keep God at arms length. They are driven by money, titles,and achievements. And they dont want God interfering with their pursuits. Unless, ofcourse, God wants to help them reach their goals.

    Back row Christians are toxic because they wear the tag Christian, but their lives arentinformed by God.And because the church is a body, these Christians force the church tocarry their weight. What fat is to the body, these Christians are to the church. And themore fat that churches carries around, the less effective they become in moving towardsa broken world and impacting an ever-changing culture. .

    3.) THE WORLD IS CAVING IN CHRISTIAN

    Its not ironic that most of these Christians favorite channel ends in news. Fox News.CNN News. ABC News. They are paralyzed by fear. ISIS is taking over the world. Globalwarming will eventually wipe out humanity. The zombie apocalypseis imminent. Andevery major story, especially the tragic ones, are conspiracy theories.

    Never mind that the God these Christians serve claims to be sovereign over all theapparent threats to humanity. Never mind that the phrase do not fear appears hundredsof times in the Bible.

    These Christians allow fear to dominate their life, and this drowns out any opportunity forthe world to see God. When fear is present, God is absent. Fear is self-reliance. It is adeclaration that God isnt enough. Hes not big enough, strong enough, or knowledgeableenough.

    This is why fear has no place in the church. Its the opposite of faith and therefore theantithesis of God.

    4.) THE FOLLOW THE RULES CHRISTIAN

    Follow the rules Christians believe their actions make them cool with God. Theycondemn other Christians for their lack of morality. And secretly they are okay withChristians falling on their face because it makes follow the rules Christians feel betterabout themselves.

    Eventually the weight of earning Gods love will crush your joy.Theres no room forauthenticity or transparency. Theres no room for gray areas. And eventually the weight oftrying to earn a relationship with God crushes their joy and destroys their intimacy withGod.

    Lets face it. When someone is only happy with you when you follow the rules, itsimpossible to grow in intimacy with that person. When that person is God, the only thingthat will please him is perfection. And you screwed that up this morning before you gotout of bed.

    The message of the cross is You cant earn it! God knows you suck at life. Maybe thatstoo harsh. God knows you suck at perfection. But Jesus is awesome at perfection, andbecause of Jesus, God is cool with you. What the world needs to see is your weakness, not

  • your perfection. It is in your weakness God will show the world his perfection.

    It is in our weakness God shows the world his perfection.

    5.) THE POLITICAL CHRISTIAN

    Every church has a few of these Christians. They equate the decisions of our governmentwith the direction of the church. They believe how you vote determines whether you loveGod. And their conversations usually include a rant about the President the most recentgovernment decision.

    Its really quite fascinating how these Christians work politics into every conversation. Justthink if political Christians channeled their creative energy and passion about politicstowards Jesus?

    Can you say, Revival?

    6.) THE CULTURE IS EVIL AND SCARY CHRISTIAN

    Culture is evil and scary Christians find insanely creative ways to escape the world. Itsevil and scary, after all.

    These Christians act more like the Old Testament Israelites than the New Testamentapostles. They are the chosen people. And, like the Israelites, engaging in the worldsaffairs is a slippery slope. Engagement might start harmlessly. But before you know it, youare worshipping their gods and stuff. So these Christians stay off the slope altogether.

    This would be a great idea if not forJesus. You see, when Jesus showed up, he changedwhat it meant to be holy and righteous. Disengaging was no longer the way God showedhimself to the world. Engagement became the new way.

    Culture is evil and scary Christians believe the goal for their Christian life is to playdefense, hoping to arrive on their death bed with no scratches, scrapes, or wounds. Butthe opposite is actually true. The goal is to engage the culture, praying that Gods love,joy, and peace will seep through your words and actions onto those around you. In theprocess, you might get wounded.

    But remember this. Jesus was wounded. And his wounds gave you life.

    7.) THE I LOVE JESUS BUT NOT THE CHURCH CHRISTIAN.

    These Christians believe faith is best worked out in isolation. Its disengagement of adifferent kind. A more dangerous kind. Isolation is Satans secret weapon.

    You see, Jesus spent most of his ministry around people. These people werent perfect.They struggled to get it. They fought over worldly stuff like having the highest place inJesuss kingdom. And eventually, all of Jesuss friends left him. Abandoned him. But Jesusknew his friends would hurt him and he invested in them anyway.

  • Look, I get it. Some of you have been hurt by the church. I have been hurt but the church.There is nothing easy about plugging into a community of believers. They will hurt youand disappoint you. But nothing worth having comes easy. You are selfish. I am selfish.And community releases us from the drug of self-addiction.

    I love Jesus, but not the church Christians will only become a fraction of the person Godcreated them to be. And they will only show the world a fraction of who God is.

    8.) THE GOD DOESNT WORK THAT WAY CHRISTIAN

    Cut and dry. In or out. Up or down. Black or white. All of these describe God doesnt workthat way Christians. Their view of God is limited to their perspective, their experiences,and their understanding of the Bible. These Christians claim to have faith in God, but theywont believe anything they havent seen with their own eyes.

    These Christians believe God is all-powerful. But if something isnt logical, they areskeptical.

    The mystery of God and how you become a Christians are compressed into five easy steps.

    Intimacy and love cant be manufactured. They can only be experienced.And heres whythis is a problem based on personal experience as God doesnt work that way Christian.You can follow the right steps, figure out all the formulas, and still be a long ways fromGod. Light years, in fact. Intimacy and love arent formulas. They cant be manufactured.They can only be experienced.

    While these Christians conjure up formulas for God, I believe he is saying, Look up. Lookaround. Get out of the box. Experience my greatness. Stand in awe of my unending powerand unfailing love. Fall in love with me and stop falling in love with some churchyformulas.

    9.) THE LOVES TO PICK A FIGHT CHRISTIAN

    These Christians show up anytime someone mocks God or challenges their theology.Social media. The local coffee shop. Wherever. I promise, sometimes I think, Were youhiding behind my bookshelf during that conversation? How did you even know I said that?

    These Christianity believe they are the morality police. They use their knowledge of theBible as aweapon to beat down all the theologically misinformed Christians. They areaggressive. They are obnoxious, and they usually have a temper shorter than your averageOompa-Loompa.

    These Christians are toxic because they believe winning an argument and pointingsomeone to God are the same thing. But its interesting. Jesus wasnt interested in winningarguments during his ministry. He was ok with people not understanding his purpose orhis relationship with God.

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    Winning arguments might give you satisfaction. But it doesnt bring God glory.Jesus wasmore concerned with love. Winning arguments might give you satisfaction. But it doesntbring God glory.

    10.) THE YOU CANT TALK ABOUT THAT IN CHURCH CHRISTIAN

    These Christians are fearful every word they say will be taken the wrong way. They believetruth should be filtered, just in case some weaker Christians dont fully understand whatyou are trying to say. In other words, there are certain conversations the church shouldnthave. Mainly the ones that make people uncomfortable.

    Sex. Abortion. Mental Illness. Doubts about God. Justin Beiber.

    Jesus, however, wasnt concerned with being politically correct. In fact, Jesus said onnumerous occasions, You wont understand this right now, or some variation of thephrase. Jesus was obviously not concerned with being misunderstood.

    Jesus proclaimed truth because he was the Truth. And truth has nothing to hide.

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    Only a few toxic Christians can impact a church. Again, my prayer is that you will do somereflection. At some point in my journey, I was every one of these Christians. Some of theseI am still fighting today.

    As you take steps towards Jesus, the world sees a clearer picture of his glory andcharacter. Thats the goal.

    About Frank Powell

    Devoted follower of Christ, college/young adult minister, husband to @tiffanipowell(https://twitter.com/tiffanipowell), dad to Noah and Micah, avid blogger/writer, sportsfan. You can follow him on twitter here (https://twitter.com/frankmattpowell) and readmore blogs here (http://frankpowell.me/)!

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