10 Commandments = 10 for

Ex. 20:13 You shall Not Murder.

(Ratsach–47=MurderàNOTsoldiersorpolicemen!

Meanstokillwithoutauthority,outofhate)

Mt. 5:21 – 26 “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago,

‘You shall not murder,and

anyone whomurderswill be subject to judgment.’

Mt. 5:21 – 26 “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago,

‘You shall not murder,and

anyone whomurderswill be subject to judgment.’

22 But I tell you that anyone who is ANGRY with a brother or sister

will be subject to judgment. 

Mt. 5:21 – 26 “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago,

‘You shall not murder,and

anyone whomurderswill be subject to judgment.’

22 But I tell you that anyone who is ANGRY with a brother or sister

will be subject to judgment. 

Anger=______________!

Mt. 5:21 – 26 “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago,

‘You shall not murder,and

anyone whomurderswill be subject to judgment.’

22 But I tell you that anyone who is ANGRY with a brother or sister

will be subject to judgment. 

Anger=______________!Murder

Mt. 5:21 – 26 “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago,

‘You shall not murder,and

anyone whomurderswill be subject to judgment.’

22 But I tell you that anyone who is ANGRY with a brother or sister

will be subject to judgment. 

Anger=______________!Murder

Gen. 4:6 Then the LORD said to Cain, “Why are you ANGRY? Why is your face downcast? 7 If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you do not do what is right, Sin is Crouching at your door; it Desires to Have you, but You Must Rule over it.”

Mt. 5:21 – 26 “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago,

‘You shall not murder,and

anyone whomurderswill be subject to judgment.’

22 But I tell you that anyone who is ANGRY with a brother or sister

will be subject to judgment. 

1 Jn. 3:15 Anyone who Hates a brother or sister is a Murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life residing in him.

Anger=______________!Murder

Gen. 4:6 Then the LORD said to Cain, “Why are you ANGRY? Why is your face downcast? 7 If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you do not do what is right, Sin is Crouching at your door; it Desires to Have you, but You Must Rule over it.”

John 8:44 You belong to your father, the devil,

and you want to carry out your father’s desires.

He was a Murderer from the beginning,

not holding to the Truth, for there is NO Truth in him.

When he lies, he speaks his native language,

for he is a liar and the father of lies.

John 8:44 You belong to your father, the devil,

and you want to carry out your father’s desires.

He was a Murderer from the beginning,

not holding to the Truth, for there is NO Truth in him.

When he lies, he speaks his native language,

for he is a liar and the father of lies.

Angeristhe_________________ofTruth!

John 8:44 You belong to your father, the devil,

and you want to carry out your father’s desires.

He was a Murderer from the beginning,

not holding to the Truth, for there is NO Truth in him.

When he lies, he speaks his native language,

for he is a liar and the father of lies.

Angeristhe_________________ofTruth!OPPOSITE

John 8:44 You belong to your father, the devil,

and you want to carry out your father’s desires.

He was a Murderer from the beginning,

not holding to the Truth, for there is NO Truth in him.

When he lies, he speaks his native language,

for he is a liar and the father of lies.

Angeristhe_________________ofTruth!OPPOSITE

Gen. 4:6 Then the LORD said to Cain, “WHY are you ANGRY?”

Mt. 5:21-26 Again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, ‘Raca,’is answerable to

the court.And anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be in danger of the fire of hell. 23“Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there

Mt. 5:21-26 Again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, ‘Raca,’is answerable to

the court.And anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be in danger of the fire of hell. 23“Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there

remember that your brother or sister has Something Against You

Mt. 5:21-26 Again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, ‘Raca,’is answerable to

the court.And anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be in danger of the fire of hell. 23“Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there

remember that your brother or sister has Something Against You

24leave your gift there in front of the altar.

First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your

gift. 25“Settle matters quickly with your adversary who is

taking you to court. Do it while you are still together on the way, or your

adversary may hand you over to the judge, and the judge may hand you over to

the officer, and you may be thrown into prison.26Truly I tell you, you will not get

out until you have paid the last penny.

HOW to Reconcile and still be ___________!

HOW to Reconcile and still be ___________!

SAFE

HOW to Reconcile and still be ___________!

Ro.12:18 IF it is POSSIBLE,

as FAR as it DEPENDS on YOU,

live at peace with everyone.

SAFE

1.  Always look at _____ Wrongs

through the eyes of the ___________ Person (Mt. 5:23)

1.  Always look at _____ Wrongs

through the eyes of the ___________ Person (Mt. 5:23)

MY

1.  Always look at _____ Wrongs

through the eyes of the ___________ Person (Mt. 5:23)

MY

Other

1.  Always look at _____ Wrongs

through the eyes of the ___________ Person (Mt. 5:23)

MY

Other

2.  Forgive from my ____________

(Mt. 6:14-15, 18:35)

1.  Always look at _____ Wrongs

through the eyes of the ___________ Person (Mt. 5:23)

MY

Other

2.  Forgive from my ____________

(Mt. 6:14-15, 18:35)

Heart

1.  Always look at _____ Wrongs

through the eyes of the ___________ Person (Mt. 5:23)

MY

Other

2.  Forgive from my ____________

(Mt. 6:14-15, 18:35)

Heart

Offer to MEET if we can BOTH agree in ADVANCE that:

3.  BOTH of us May have _____________________ some points. (Mt. 7:1-5)

4.  BOTH of us Believe the ______ ___________ of each other (I Cor. 13:7)

5. 

5. BOTH of us have Things to __________ and __________ (Ro.8:28-29)

3.  BOTH of us May have _____________________ some points. (Mt. 7:1-5)

4.  BOTH of us Believe the ______ ___________ of each other (I Cor. 13:7)

5. 

5. BOTH of us have Things to __________ and __________ (Ro.8:28-29)

Misunderstood

3.  BOTH of us May have _____________________ some points. (Mt. 7:1-5)

4.  BOTH of us Believe the ______ ___________ of each other (I Cor. 13:7)

5. 

5. BOTH of us have Things to __________ and __________ (Ro.8:28-29)

Misunderstood

Best Motives

3.  BOTH of us May have _____________________ some points. (Mt. 7:1-5)

4.  BOTH of us Believe the ______ ___________ of each other (I Cor. 13:7)

5. 

5. BOTH of us have Things to __________ and __________ (Ro.8:28-29)

Misunderstood

Best Motives

Learn Grow

6.  BOTH of us Agree to ______________ on some points – our

goal is ___________ – not Agreement! (Rom. 12:18)

7.  BOTH of us have _____________ people we both trust to help us

resolve sticky points if necessary! (Mt. 18:15-18)

6.  BOTH of us Agree to ______________ on some points – our

goal is ___________ – not Agreement! (Rom. 12:18)

7.  BOTH of us have _____________ people we both trust to help us

resolve sticky points if necessary! (Mt. 18:15-18)

Disagree

6.  BOTH of us Agree to ______________ on some points – our

goal is ___________ – not Agreement! (Rom. 12:18)

7.  BOTH of us have _____________ people we both trust to help us

resolve sticky points if necessary! (Mt. 18:15-18)

Disagree

Peace

6.  BOTH of us Agree to ______________ on some points – our

goal is ___________ – not Agreement! (Rom. 12:18)

7.  BOTH of us have _____________ people we both trust to help us

resolve sticky points if necessary! (Mt. 18:15-18)

Disagree

Peace

Neutral

What if they won’t agree to meet w/ these conditions? I am still responsible for __________________in my own soul!

1.  Always look at MY Wrongs through the eyes of the Other Person (Mt. 5:23)

2.  Forgive from your Heart (Mt. 6:14-15, 18:35)

3.  BOTH of us May have MISUNDERSTOOD some points. (Mt. 7:1-5)

4.  BOTH of us Believe the Best Motives of each other! (I Cor. 13:7)

5.  BOTH of us have Things to Learn and Grow (Romans 8:28-29)

6.  BOTH of us Agree to Disagree on some points – our goal is PEACE – not Agreement! (Rom. 12:18)

7.  BOTH of us have Neutral people we both trust to help us resolve sticky points if necessary! (Mt. 18:15-18)

What if they won’t agree to meet w/ these conditions? I am still responsible for __________________in my own soul!

1.  Always look at MY Wrongs through the eyes of the Other Person (Mt. 5:23)

2.  Forgive from your Heart (Mt. 6:14-15, 18:35)

3.  BOTH of us May have MISUNDERSTOOD some points. (Mt. 7:1-5)

4.  BOTH of us Believe the Best Motives of each other! (I Cor. 13:7)

5.  BOTH of us have Things to Learn and Grow (Romans 8:28-29)

6.  BOTH of us Agree to Disagree on some points – our goal is PEACE – not Agreement! (Rom. 12:18)

7.  BOTH of us have Neutral people we both trust to help us resolve sticky points if necessary! (Mt. 18:15-18)

All 7 pts

Rom. 15:7 Accept one another as Christ has accepted you!

Have as

Much DISTANCE

as Necessary

to think they are ________________________________

Rom. 15:7 Accept one another as Christ has accepted you!

Have as

Much DISTANCE

as Necessary

to think they are ________________________________WONDERFUL

Boundary Line of Love

Boundary Line of Love

Having Peace in your heart

toward every Person!

Boundary Line of Love

Having Peace in your heart

toward every Person!

2

I sometimes TRY TOO HARD and try to

FORCE reconciliation in UNSAFE situations.

2

I sometimes TRY TOO HARD and try to

FORCE reconciliation in UNSAFE situations.

2

Lord please circumcise my heart and let me NEVER play

games with the Evil & Danger of Anger