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Graphology, it's amazing to know more of it

By Dr Rupa Talukdar, www.mind-eye.in

Debjani sits before me describing her story of grief in her daily life: she could not bear it anymore; either she wants to leave her family or make a change, otherwise she feels agonized for her daily life trauma all the time throughout the days, months and years-her restlessness started since one year.I think her little bit crazy and impulsive; extremely puzzled with her daily schedule she could not even explain the daily happenings of her messy lifestyle precisely.In professional life I am more of a psychological counselor than a mere graphologist; I usually take the help of Graphology to know my clients better. I offered her a white A-4 paper to write on it something in English as she minds: usually it helps in two ways:

1. Clients prefer writing on the issues that bother her/him at that time2. The strokes of writing at that moments will tell us the present state of

emotion of him/herDebjani reacted in the same manner as the other clients usually do.The analysis and facts written on the paper help us to know the personality of persons and the state of emotion at that immediate moment.When a graphologist like us observes a handwritten write up of clients it at once gives the message of followings:

Psychic energy: aggressiveness Trend of emotional interaction: expression of thought Motivation and interest Will power Risk taking attitudes Anxiety /stability of emotion Goal and Target of life Usual style of expression of emotion Orientation of general emotion General traits and trends Others

All these explains us the general characteristics of emotion of a person which is very important to know a person before offering him/her counseling: in psychological language the entire process is known as one of

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the Projective Tests and we may say graphological analysis as the representation of the emotion of the person coming for guidance and counseling.Before any astrological or psychological analysis we should have good idea of present emotional status of our clients: so handwriting analysis will give us scope to know better without asking any question: after analyzing it a working relationship is formed rapidly between the astrologer/graphologist with the clients and the primary resistance will vanish within a fraction of second, so it has wide effect to initiate the professional work also. Moreover, the entire process is culture free: in any regional language you can take the help of Graphology.

Importance of Psychological Projective Test (Handwriting Analysis Test) is because of following reasons:

1. Initially clients have resistance to open up before a counselor whom s/he faces first time: this projective test initiate the entire process as hiding is not possible.

2. Clients cannot manipulate his/her emotional expression3. Any projective test like this can open up an emotion vividly4. As it falls searchlight in every aspect of emotion the work of counselor

will become easier and will be highly goal oriented5. Entire counseling process would become comfortable soon6. Clients may find themselves in comfortable position as the counseling

process is developing7. Particularly Handwriting analysis can offer quick refinement (almost

within 3-month) only by changing some strokes of letters of languages used by clients: this is an extra benefit of the entire process that the clients can have if s/he is undergoing Handwriting analysis Test.

Case Study: 1

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This is handwriting of a girl who is not in comfortable in relationship but cannot come out at the same time-so being confused she came to know her stand point.This portion is only the part of A-4 size writing of her when she came.The portion given here depicted her with these characteristics:

I. Good performer: skillful in performing anything she has been assigned

II. But preferably stays at the present moment: not so inclined to analyze intelligently

III. Bit introvert: does detailing: by nature thoughtful

IV. Self esteem is not up to the mark, moderate will powerV. Stressed being close in physical contact

VI. Ordinary in executionVII. Not a good listener

We can find many more; but the girls came with a relationship crisis; the above points give us reasons of crisis in relationship; being most of the times in reality she misses the future orientation, she lacks skill of finding potential of long lasting relationship and being selective listener her partner sometimes feels isolation while being with her. This affects the relationship. But the girl has potential of stay-in relationship; only need is to explore the hidden zone of it: we graphologist can be helpful in this aspect by developing a skill of living together in a vibrant status.

Case Study: 2

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The boy came with high degree of restlessness with his father and talked at random just to deliver his crisis zone with an eagerness to come out as soon as possible.

Extrovert and expressive soul

Below average performer: cannot tackle the situation when he had a fall

Extremely anxiety prone: chance to develop OCD/repeating habit of any activity

Stress in finance and cannot project himself appropriately

Low openness, not so agreeable and hurried nature: it brought a restlessness in him

One positive point in him his assertiveness: he can fight back and has potential to come out from discomfort and he also does so at his level best following our words.

So in any kind of assessment (psychological/astrological) one can get the help of graphology just to have the preliminary idea of the person after being close contact with her/him for a purpose.

Learning of Graphology helps to know other Psychological Projective Tests easilyIf someone has good idea of Graphology s/he can easily learn other Psychological Projective Tests, like:

1. Picture Analysis( Children/adolescents)2. House-Tree-Person(HTP)3. Draw A Person (Human Figure) Test---DAP

Now graphology is an accepted tool to assess a person before giving any psychological counseling (CT/CBT/BT/RET etc.)When a person has no knowledge of language he can be taken into any one of the above test; the above tools has many identical points those are close to graphological concept: knowledge of graphology first may bring the other tools to learn at ease.

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The picture analysis:A person came to us with a problem of OCD (Obsessive compulsive disorder): from long time he has been suffering from repeated thought process. Over a year he had been treating by us: CBT and Picture-Drawing correction.Just watch his drawn pattern (mind that for picture-drawing correction session no one needs to be an artist):

Just watching the above two pictures it is clear that the person, say, Sarogi preferred drawing each item separately with no

contact with each other, each one is there in the picture separated by either lines, space or border.Now he was advised to draw in the following ways:

In the pictures there is no gap or space separation: each item is almost

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haphazardly connected with each other’s body contact -this may be called as a friendly co-habitation: they are in close proximity with each other, sometimes overlapping with others.This may help to increase his tolerance level to stay with other without being unnecessary aggressive.Sarogi is very attentive to follow us, now after a yearlong counseling session he is now in a comfortable state of mind.

The picture was drawn by a boy of 8 years old; the picture depicted the boy as a lonely boy with a vibrant positive soul (color combination). There is sky and water both:

Wants to be recognized Can best use opportunity

he has been offered Feeling of loneliness is

there in his mind Very much rooted; has

strong urge to express self Basically a happy person

Colour of the drawn picture indicates the boy is optimistic, intelligent, trustworthy and peace lover, but he loves to be secured, the boy is growth oriented

A curvy wave pattern suggests musicality and natural rhythm.

Similarly we can assess a person with ’Draw a Figure/Person (DAP);

The child is anxiety prone and ambitious

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The study of above is based on Graphology: if anyone has a good idea of it s/he can explore the person sitting in front of her/him within a second only looking into the drawn objects.

Graphology eases our DAILY LIFE DECISION other than only Psychological Counselling:

Graphology helps to control our emotion in dealing with daily duties or responsibilities: How we are now, that can be observed by analyzing our handwriting and we can manipulate ourselves for better performances by changing the strokes/drawing subjects and can expect the emotional change within 7-day of random practice following the suggested strokes and drawing.

Counseling is helped by graphology that eases the desired change in personality. Anyone can take the help of Handwriting analysis and picture drawing session before any life changing decision in the following ways:

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1. Before partner selection in a. love-in relationshipb. starting a businessc. starting a marital relationshipd. beginning a friendship

2. Deciding a psychological trauma3. Having a Change in emotion for better feelings4. Assigning staff to the appropriate job in a business5. Appropriate personnel recruitment6. Finding potential in partner/staff etc.7. Etc.

Learning graphology is not tough but to apply graphology in analyzing emotion needs vast live training; for this learner needs to stay with the master/trainer/institutes for a long time after completion of Course Learning Program.

We offer both learning and Training program for a year for the students who have intense demand to know the subject as a whole.