My Europe Trip 2011

Vivian Gil

Setting: Paris

Task:Paris to the French Riviera

Action:

Result:

My Actions

• Lots of yelling

• Blaming

• Belittling

• Silent treatment

Lucia’s Perspective

• Understanding

• Frustrated

• Scared

• Nervous

Lucia Experienced

• Getting yelled at

• Running Around

• Lost

• Stressed

Vicky’s Perspective

• Guilty

• Upset

• Desperate

Vicky Experienced

• Getting yelled at

• Feeling at fault

• Running around

• Exhaustion

Management Concepts

• Leadership

• Motivation

Leadership

• Emotional maturity

• Motivation to lead

Emotional Maturity/ Motivation to Lead

• Belligerent

• Irritable

• Unreasonable

• No desire to take charge

• No desire for responsibility

Motivation

• Factors directly related:

Growth/ Achievement

• Learned from the experience

• Accomplishment

• Developed talent

Reflecting on that day in Paris…

Who I was vs. Who I want to be

How I behaved:

• Dictator

• Impulsive Emotions

• Intolerant

How I want to behave from now on:

• Leader

• Patient

• Understanding

What I learned….

• Always have a back-up plan.

• Never be overly confident

• Think of others not just myself

How have I become a better manager?

• Think with logic over emotion

• Develop awareness for others

• Treat those how I would want to be treated.

THE END.