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5 WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE FEEL

COMFORTABLE AROUND YOU

Ethan Musolini

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1. Give them your full attention

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Why?

It shows that you care

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It shows you respect the other person’s view

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How?

Maintain eye contact

BUT don’t stare

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Don’t interrupt until they are done

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2. Initiate conversations

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Why?

It says you are interested

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How?

Greet

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Comment on the weather

Ask about their likes or dislikes

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Ask their opinion on a subject

Find out similar interests

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3. Display welcoming body language

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Why?

Makes you Approachable

Less intimidating

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How?

Use open and friendly body language

Nod occasionally

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Smile genuinely

lean in when you speak

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Use friend cues like a head tilt or eyebrow flash

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Avoid

Crossing arms or legs UNLESS you are mirroring

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Looking away from the other person

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4. Mix in some humor

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Why?

Makes you fun to be around

Makes you interesting

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How?

Share a joke

Tell a short story

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5. Engage the intellect

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Why?

Makes the other person feel like an expert

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How?

Hit on something they can speak intelligently on

E.g. their work, travel, skills

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2 Actions

1.Read a lot of jokes

2.Practice good grooming (smell good, look good)

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